Family is so important. The way his sister and brother held his hands made me choke up a little. As the oldest, you feel like you try to protect your siblings from any kind of hurt. Cudos to the supportive brothers and sisters that help to keep their family out of dark places.
His siblings should have helped him lose weight so he can be not only healthier but so he can get an actual woman if they really cared about him. It's about tough love.
@@willn8664 lol actually you need to learn to read, you don’t know what his siblings have done to help him or not and he might’ve can’t lose what you don’t knw so don’t act like you do 💀💀
@@claff4573 her? What her? That is a man and the woman in photos are not him. So you are saying that someone is ugly (bdw tyray is not ugly) that person deserved to be scammed? Wtf?
@@shmwmlam3953 no one deserves to be scammed. BUT, be realistic. A woman who looks like Carmela is going to have LOTS of admirers. A LOT. Just walking down the street. On the other hand, Tyray lives in a one bedroom apartment with his sick mother, unemployed, can’t even afford the air ticket to Barbados and is morbidly obese. What are the chances of a woman like Carmella settling for him? Really? How is he going to add any value at all to her life? Be real.
Stop feeling sorry for him. He is make this so much harder than it is. Also, you think he would be making concessions for this girl for 4 years, if she was average looking. If this was a girl in his neighborhood, he would’ve used logic and just moved on 4 years ago. He was using her tok
It’s a maladaptive coping skill… his brain 🧠 protecting him from the pain of reality. I hope he becomes able to accept the truth and give himself grace … he was not a deceitful. He also needs to take some notes for the future… I hope this time connecting with his siblings allows him to do it more … they seem like a sweet family.
Melicia is such a good tea spiller! She's so likeable. Friend in my head vibes lol. Tyray seems like a sweetheart! ...aww, I think he's a cutie. I know there's a lot of people blaming him for not seeing the red flags, but when you're vulnerable it's easy to see what your heart wants to see.
Tyray is "that guy". You know the type that will make excuses for everything wrong their spouse does, even cheating, saying shit like "it wasn't cheating cos they used a condom" etc. Yeah, he just can't accept that he was played and move on. 🤦♀
Aww, I hear ya. I think it's too common for us to accept the wrong kind of treatment and make excuses for it. At the end of the day we all want to be loved. It seems like so many of us are willing to settle when we are worth so much more.
Tyray is a little toxic himself. He accepts the bare minimum aka he doesn’t love himself. Low self esteem and low self worth means less boundaries in the conquest of love, validation, acceptance. It means he needs to do the work internally and learn to love himself❤️🩹
@@Wildheart4331I'm well-aware that Tyray needs to work on self-love. My point was that it's refreshing to see ppl behaving genuinely kindly and non-judgmentally towards each other for once, esp on a reality show.
We can’t excuse his not having common sense. He said he’s aware of what to look for because he watches catfish. He’s being told that he’s not talking to this person, he’s talking to a man and he’s STILL choosing to be obtuse. At this point it’s on him.
Tyrey reminds me of an episode of Catfish where the guy thought he was talking to Katy Perry. And even when presented with the evidence from Nev, Max AND the girl catfishing him, he flat out refused to believe it wasn’t actually Katy Perry. Even accused the show of setting it up to protect Katy and her privacy.
I remember that episode. I think he just didn't wanna accept that he wasted his time. Imagine how embarrassing that would be to be convinced that you're talking to someone and you find out it was a huge lie.
If looks didn't matter catfishing would never make a difference. People would just be with the person they were actually talking to and had the connection with, but that never happens. People are actually in love with the person's beauty and the personality is just an extra bonus
Oh come on, this isn't fair. None of us can control which gender we are attracted to, so as a 100% straight woman; I am only attracted to men. If an amazing personality I fell in love with online turned out to be a woman, then yes I would be devastated, because even though the personality was incredible and all I looked for; They still pretended to be a man, and so the premises were a complete lie, but no matter how great a personality is: my brain CANNOT feel attraction towards women just like this man cannot be capable of attraction towards another man since he is straight. I am sure it is the same for you, unless you are bi-se-xual. But for the rest of us, our brains are wired and set in the ways of attraction. I would rather die than be with a woman, it is just all wrong for me. I have nothing against bi or gay people, but no one can control attraction and se-xuality orientation. It is set. You shouldn't sit here and pretend that if the person on the other end had the best personality ever whom you'd fall madly in love with: that you wouldn't be immediately devastated and lose all attraction for them the moment you learned that they are actually a 90 year old man or woman who never showers or something. Come on, be honest with yourself and others. This is just the reality of life and biology.
@Valoelify I'm not talking about a man pretending to be a woman. It's usually an unattractive fat girl or an unattractive fat guy who is using a picture of a better looking person of the same sex. I'm talking about the opposite sex just not the attractive person u thought u were talking to.
Tyray should use his time to lose weight and get fit, get a high paying job, and improve his social skills, rather than waste his time in online dating. Once he improves himself, he'll easily attract the right women in real life. Forget this online dating none sense.
He doesn't want that because he will never get that. If he lose weight still won't get a dime, get a better job, still won't get a dime. Wants an easy way to assume to buy into delusion 😂
@@freebantu6019 obesity has health risks. If he gets diabetes and high blood pressure etc, who will look after his mom then? Can exercise at home with resistance bands, or just walking on the spot.
As a Bajan watching this, I truly have no words. My friend and I were questioning all of those backgrounds in the photos that "Carmella" was sending him. Heck, we were even questioning the name "Carmella".
Oooo my, this is so heartbreaking for that Tyray guy, you can see he's truly good person but perhaps never accepted the loss of his father which is making him suffer in love desperately. Hope he finds healing inside, so he can find a loving person one day that cares for him.
U know wat I think that's wat it is he's still grieving the loss of his dad & just havin a hard time coping wit it but there are grieving sessions he can attend wit others that's goin thru the same exact thing..my sincere prayer to him for healing ❤❤❤
Stop making excuses for this guy. He needs to lose 300lbs. It will take 3-5 years to lose 300lbs in a healthy way. Obese people can't believe fit people wanna be in a relationship with them. He needs to spend the next few years losing weight and then try to find a woman when he is physically ready to have a woman. Or he needs to find an obese woman his size to be with. It's always crazy and delusional for overweight people to wanna date fit people. Some people have fat fetishes and having sex with a fat woman feels really good, because the fat is soo soft and warm. But these people will only use the fat person for sex. They don't wanna go out in public and claim the obese person as their spouse or partner.
@@davidmarvy6788That’s a bit harsh. People come in all shapes and sizes. Am a slim woman but I hate skinny men. Too much bones 😅. Who says Tyrah is unhealthy just because he’s big. Give me a nice cuddly big papa any day! I would probably be late for work everyday because I’ll be snuggling in those warm arms!
1:41 why are you sleeping in a room with a stranger on the first night and you have two young kids you have abandoned to go on a trip over 5000 miles. Anything could have happened on the trip and those kids could be without a parent
@@msp7556 you are right. It's even worse. She acts a bit silly to say she is the mother of two very young kids and he gives off vibes of just wanting to be on the show for being on the show
When it comes to anyone from any island in the Caribbean, if you haven’t been to the island and met the person before thinking they’re the one for you; you’re taking a big risk.
tyray is so kind, empathetic, and clearly is a person who puts others before himself. it’s easy to have rose colored glasses when you’re finally ready to focus on yourself and the things you want because you’ve wanted it so bad. i hope he gets thru this and i hope Carmella steps on Lego everyday for the rest of her life 😭
People are so cruel 😢, how do you let somebody invest their money, feelings and time just to go to Barbados only not to show up. He/she could have found a way to stop him from going to Barbados.
You can tell he considers his self as so unworthy which is why hes grasping on to someone outside his family loving him. He just wanted to feel worthy of love not like someone just loves them because they're his brother, sister, mom, etc.
I loved this recap. Well done! 👏🏽👏🏽 I loved how soft you were to the fans, to those who may be going through hard times, and especially about men’s health as men, too, need hugs. Again, great recap and thank you for sharing your own experiences, too. God bless.
I will just say it, No he does not deserve anything! Work for it both physically and mentally. We can all be catfished, but we dont all choose to keep living in LaLa Land.
At the end of the day, he probably knew all along. But he liked the conversations and not feeling alone in his apartment and going through taking care his mom. It was mostly him feeling alone that made him this delusional. He should just go out to find a person.
He chose Carmela because of her looks and body. Plenty of local women, less attractive, on dating sites, but he wanted a Carmella. Reap what you sow. Next time, be realistic about yourself and who you can attract.
@@bobscratchett5346eah that's the pitfall that alot of guys fall victim to, going after Women that are WAYYYYY out of their league instead of pursuing a Woman that's actually within their range, i had to learn this for myself
Wow he has a good family! now that they know he has been desiring love they should take res helping their mom recover and give him the freedom and support to start rebuilding his confidence and life. This is how you love not only through hugs and compassion. Help him get better mentally, physically, and emotionally. And take some of the burden away.
Omg!! you're so beautiful and I'm just wondering, i feel like God created you on a very special day!! I would like to be friends with you and get to share life experiences on a daily basis!!
Bro , he needs to hit the gym and start talking to girls around him! . Become cold and don’t never let a man or woman trick you into giving out money. Don’t struggle , start winning 😊
Now when they told him he was being catfished they did offer him to scrap all of the footage the whole storyline everything and I respect that they continued because that’s what he wished to do
He knew he was getting catfished, he just couldn’t face the truth that he was being used and rathered he got used but at least was able to live the fantasy of being in a relationship with a hot chick
Bingo!!!! And now he can be on tv and get Dms from all these women who will date him and take his money. Win-win. There is no way he didn't know. But now his life will change, the vultures will be all on him. Sounds like a genius to me.
I feel like Tyray is going to get an influx of girls after this episode. He seems really sweet and he would be a Prince Charming for whoever he starts a relationship with.
The majority of men, no matter his looks, finances, social status, etc., believes he should have a 10 on his arm. This is the perfect case in point. Some men will remain lonely vir gins, sometimes become angry and violent if he can't get the women he wants. I'm sure Tyray has overlooked and rejected a real, tangible woman in his league to "date" his fantasy woman he met on-line. That's why it's ridiculous that women are shamed into giving guys they aren't attracted to a chance. Because as you can see from Tyray, a man never would.
Online dating and being duped by a catfish is very common despite all the precautions and warning signs. Most catfish victims are the most vulnerable, not wanting to believe it could happen to them. (Widows, especially).
He really thought he finally found someone and the thought of it all being a lie blinded him for so long. It's a great step that he's talking to his siblings about it because people who take advantage of others only benefit from their target keeping everything a secret. And his sister seems really supportive. As for his comment on being embarrassed about not having had a physical relationship at his age, don't be embarrassed. Society is way too obsessed with sex and the concept of virginity. Do whatever is right for you.
Someone should sue the producer and the catfish person for allowing this online. This is not acceptable to see a man fall apart. It’s hard out here. The idiot that took all that money needs to be put in jail and pay it all back to him. Make him an example. Post his photo and address online so we can warn others.
Amanda should be with her kids not with some guy, who really wants fame n to be an actor. Plus he looks like a playa. If I lost my husband months b4, last thing on my mind would be another guy. My kids would be priority.
Melicia's hair is giving bawdy! I love her curls but this new style.... It's giving me life!♥ I feel bad for Ty but he had to have known. Classic catfish! #openandshutcase
Im so sad that hes being taken advantage of. It seems like his whole family is so caring. His siblings were so caring and understanding towards him. Get away from her/him and focus on yourself so that this doesn't happen again. So tired of seeing genuinely nice pple letting themselves get taken advantage of.
How can this guy or anyone obese believe someone in good shape would be interested in them? It's insanity. If you're obese u need to find a partner who is also obese. If u like fit bodies and want to be with someone with a fit body, that person also wants someone with a fit body. Being a millionaire is the only thing that can make up for being overweight
Imma say what he needs someone to tell him. Get your life together. Hit the gym. You have such potential, heal mentally, open up. Meet girls in person, dont be ashamed. Dont let your past stop you. Hit the gym is number one. Imagine how you would feel and looks will only follow, more confidence, health and the girls will go after you.
Family is so important. The way his sister and brother held his hands made me choke up a little. As the oldest, you feel like you try to protect your siblings from any kind of hurt. Cudos to the supportive brothers and sisters that help to keep their family out of dark places.
How about them helping with Mom?
Not all family is important.
@@jessicajamesspeaksthat depends on whether the family is toxic or not
Am i the only one that doesnt watch the show but watches these recaps lol
No , you're not. It's many of us , lol.
Nope
I only don’t watch it bc I don’t have the channel, otherwise I’d def would lmaoo
I used to watch but the episodes are too long and there are so many spinoffs it's so hard to keep up with it all
No 😅😂
I love Tyray’s siblings. They were so sweet and supportive.
they are too cute!
His siblings should have helped him lose weight so he can be not only healthier but so he can get an actual woman if they really cared about him. It's about tough love.
@@willn8664lol you should rlly stop assuming bc you don’t know what he has going on with him and that may had something to do with his weight
@@__________what__________ not talking about him though. Was talking about his siblings. Maybe learn to read.
@@willn8664 lol actually you need to learn to read, you don’t know what his siblings have done to help him or not and he might’ve can’t lose what you don’t knw so don’t act like you do 💀💀
I truly feel sorry for him. Seems like a nice genuine person. Hope he finds real happiness
I don't. Either dump her and move on, don't judge her when you look the way you look.
@@claff4573 her? What her? That is a man and the woman in photos are not him. So you are saying that someone is ugly (bdw tyray is not ugly) that person deserved to be scammed? Wtf?
he should give carmella a try. looking liek that he needs to be thankful anyone showing him attention
@@shmwmlam3953 no one deserves to be scammed. BUT, be realistic. A woman who looks like Carmela is going to have LOTS of admirers. A LOT. Just walking down the street.
On the other hand, Tyray lives in a one bedroom apartment with his sick mother, unemployed, can’t even afford the air ticket to Barbados and is morbidly obese.
What are the chances of a woman like Carmella settling for him? Really? How is he going to add any value at all to her life? Be real.
Stop feeling sorry for him. He is make this so much harder than it is. Also, you think he would be making concessions for this girl for 4 years, if she was average looking. If this was a girl in his neighborhood, he would’ve used logic and just moved on 4 years ago. He was using her tok
Wow, what amazing siblings. They didn’t judge him not once. I pray he finds a nice woman who truly adores him.
Do they take care of their mother?
Denial is an amazing emotion. Unbelievable
Facts.
Yes, never deny denial.
It’s a maladaptive coping skill… his brain 🧠 protecting him from the pain of reality. I hope he becomes able to accept the truth and give himself grace … he was not a deceitful. He also needs to take some notes for the future… I hope this time connecting with his siblings allows him to do it more … they seem like a sweet family.
He's mentally ill
Melicia is such a good tea spiller! She's so likeable. Friend in my head vibes lol. Tyray seems like a sweetheart! ...aww, I think he's a cutie. I know there's a lot of people blaming him for not seeing the red flags, but when you're vulnerable it's easy to see what your heart wants to see.
Melicia would be much better to do the Tellalls!! Please! Someone notify TLC!! NOW!!
I agree! I love melicia
I’m here for the ☕️ 😂😂 no homo lmao
@@sharonbecker2851couldn't agree more 💯
its a script
Tyray is "that guy". You know the type that will make excuses for everything wrong their spouse does, even cheating, saying shit like "it wasn't cheating cos they used a condom" etc. Yeah, he just can't accept that he was played and move on. 🤦♀
Aww, I hear ya. I think it's too common for us to accept the wrong kind of treatment and make excuses for it. At the end of the day we all want to be loved. It seems like so many of us are willing to settle when we are worth so much more.
I need glasses I thought u wrote " Ugly Guy" but you wrote " that guy" 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️😂😂😂😂😂😂
F that I'll take 10k and a dream vacation
That's how cheaters get 2nd chance.
With a dose of incel
So used to seeing toxic/narcissistic/selfish/judgemental ppl these days.. Both Melicia and these 3 siblings were a breath of fresh air.
Tyray is a little toxic himself. He accepts the bare minimum aka he doesn’t love himself. Low self esteem and low self worth means less boundaries in the conquest of love, validation, acceptance. It means he needs to do the work internally and learn to love himself❤️🩹
@@Wildheart4331I'm well-aware that Tyray needs to work on self-love. My point was that it's refreshing to see ppl behaving genuinely kindly and non-judgmentally towards each other for once, esp on a reality show.
@@Wildheart4331he needs healing. Praying for him in Jesus name
@@mistyblue2917I agree. Their personalities are refreshing.
@@tjj2040 ♡☆
Ty’s sister is SOOO pretty. Idk if it’s the hair, eyes, eyebrows, or what but dang is she gorgeous!
Sorry this is his own fault. When he got stood up the first time in Barbados, he should have cut it off. No video calls, no phone calls...CATFISH!!!
Well from what I've seen he's not very experienced when it comes to dating. He might not know any better
Thank u!!!
We can’t excuse his not having common sense. He said he’s aware of what to look for because he watches catfish. He’s being told that he’s not talking to this person, he’s talking to a man and he’s STILL choosing to be obtuse. At this point it’s on him.
His siblings are so supportive. I'm glad he has them for support.
Melicia, your encouraging, nice and wise words to your audience are always on point and helpful. Thank you for addressing your audience.
Why are the producers so ready to break the 4th wall now? Cesar, David, and Yolanda went through the ringer without your assistance.
They try to interview the person though. That’s the only reason why they found out.
Ive been wondering the same thing. A 90day producer has NEVER broken the news about catfishing w anyone before
You complained and they heard you.
I think we should leave David out of this dude literally hired a private investigator who told him she was fake and he was in DENIAL 😭😭😭
They said it took many many attempts to get him to respond. Their business is reality TV not investigation. Poor guy.
Tyrey reminds me of an episode of Catfish where the guy thought he was talking to Katy Perry. And even when presented with the evidence from Nev, Max AND the girl catfishing him, he flat out refused to believe it wasn’t actually Katy Perry. Even accused the show of setting it up to protect Katy and her privacy.
I remember that episode ! Didn't they travel all the way to Europe for him to meet " Katy Perry" lol
I remember that!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😅😂😂😂😂WTF
@@taintedmuse6169 they did!! He finally came around to the facts in the end.
I remember that episode. I think he just didn't wanna accept that he wasted his time. Imagine how embarrassing that would be to be convinced that you're talking to someone and you find out it was a huge lie.
Love his siblings his sister " it's alright to not be ok" ❤
Melicia's way of answering the phone if she was the producer 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love your videos and such a fan. 🇿🇦💕
Melicia hair looks great 😍
Ikr, she is soo beautiful 😍
She's always killing it, I love melicia ❤
0:17 SAME! “You better stop playing with people, CARMELLA, with your broke azz”
I added a lil extra ☺️😉
😅😅😅
If looks didn't matter catfishing would never make a difference. People would just be with the person they were actually talking to and had the connection with, but that never happens. People are actually in love with the person's beauty and the personality is just an extra bonus
Oh come on, this isn't fair. None of us can control which gender we are attracted to, so as a 100% straight woman; I am only attracted to men. If an amazing personality I fell in love with online turned out to be a woman, then yes I would be devastated, because even though the personality was incredible and all I looked for; They still pretended to be a man, and so the premises were a complete lie, but no matter how great a personality is: my brain CANNOT feel attraction towards women just like this man cannot be capable of attraction towards another man since he is straight. I am sure it is the same for you, unless you are bi-se-xual. But for the rest of us, our brains are wired and set in the ways of attraction. I would rather die than be with a woman, it is just all wrong for me. I have nothing against bi or gay people, but no one can control attraction and se-xuality orientation. It is set.
You shouldn't sit here and pretend that if the person on the other end had the best personality ever whom you'd fall madly in love with: that you wouldn't be immediately devastated and lose all attraction for them the moment you learned that they are actually a 90 year old man or woman who never showers or something. Come on, be honest with yourself and others. This is just the reality of life and biology.
@Valoelify I'm not talking about a man pretending to be a woman. It's usually an unattractive fat girl or an unattractive fat guy who is using a picture of a better looking person of the same sex. I'm talking about the opposite sex just not the attractive person u thought u were talking to.
@@Valoelify completely agree, well said
Tyray should use his time to lose weight and get fit, get a high paying job, and improve his social skills, rather than waste his time in online dating. Once he improves himself, he'll easily attract the right women in real life. Forget this online dating none sense.
He doesn't want that because he will never get that. If he lose weight still won't get a dime, get a better job, still won't get a dime. Wants an easy way to assume to buy into delusion 😂
And who takes care of his sick mother while he is out improving, cause clearly quitting his job to care for her is affecting him.
@@SpicyPlur no I believe he can for women it's looks, for men it's money and status and women are apart of that I believe he can.
@@freebantu6019 so he cant go to the gym for an hour?
@@freebantu6019 obesity has health risks. If he gets diabetes and high blood pressure etc, who will look after his mom then? Can exercise at home with resistance bands, or just walking on the spot.
As a Bajan watching this, I truly have no words. My friend and I were questioning all of those backgrounds in the photos that "Carmella" was sending him. Heck, we were even questioning the name "Carmella".
Facts lol!😂
That’s my mom’s name lol
Wtf is a Bajan?😂
@@topdawg975 It's another term that Barbadians (people from Barbados) use to describe themselves. It's pronounced Bay-JAN & not Ba-HAN.
@@XANSEM Is she from Barbados? 👀
Oooo my, this is so heartbreaking for that Tyray guy, you can see he's truly good person but perhaps never accepted the loss of his father which is making him suffer in love desperately. Hope he finds healing inside, so he can find a loving person one day that cares for him.
U know wat I think that's wat it is he's still grieving the loss of his dad & just havin a hard time coping wit it but there are grieving sessions he can attend wit others that's goin thru the same exact thing..my sincere prayer to him for healing ❤❤❤
Stop making excuses for this guy. He needs to lose 300lbs. It will take 3-5 years to lose 300lbs in a healthy way. Obese people can't believe fit people wanna be in a relationship with them. He needs to spend the next few years losing weight and then try to find a woman when he is physically ready to have a woman. Or he needs to find an obese woman his size to be with. It's always crazy and delusional for overweight people to wanna date fit people. Some people have fat fetishes and having sex with a fat woman feels really good, because the fat is soo soft and warm. But these people will only use the fat person for sex. They don't wanna go out in public and claim the obese person as their spouse or partner.
@@davidmarvy6788That’s a bit harsh. People come in all shapes and sizes. Am a slim woman but I hate skinny men. Too much bones 😅. Who says Tyrah is unhealthy just because he’s big. Give me a nice cuddly big papa any day! I would probably be late for work everyday because I’ll be snuggling in those warm arms!
@davidmarvy6788 you're cruel but funny ah 😂😂😂😂
Tyray is lucky to have siblings that care for him so much.
How about they care for Mom?
I love tyrays family. They are really there for him
Except they’re not, he is the only one taking care of their mom.
1:41 why are you sleeping in a room with a stranger on the first night and you have two young kids you have abandoned to go on a trip over 5000 miles. Anything could have happened on the trip and those kids could be without a parent
Another parent!
@@msp7556 you are right. It's even worse. She acts a bit silly to say she is the mother of two very young kids and he gives off vibes of just wanting to be on the show for being on the show
When it comes to anyone from any island in the Caribbean, if you haven’t been to the island and met the person before thinking they’re the one for you; you’re taking a big risk.
tyray is so kind, empathetic, and clearly is a person who puts others before himself. it’s easy to have rose colored glasses when you’re finally ready to focus on yourself and the things you want because you’ve wanted it so bad. i hope he gets thru this and i hope Carmella steps on Lego everyday for the rest of her life 😭
“ it’s okay to not be okay”…❤
People are so cruel 😢, how do you let somebody invest their money, feelings and time just to go to Barbados only not to show up. He/she could have found a way to stop him from going to Barbados.
You can tell he considers his self as so unworthy which is why hes grasping on to someone outside his family loving him. He just wanted to feel worthy of love not like someone just loves them because they're his brother, sister, mom, etc.
I loved this recap. Well done! 👏🏽👏🏽 I loved how soft you were to the fans, to those who may be going through hard times, and especially about men’s health as men, too, need hugs. Again, great recap and thank you for sharing your own experiences, too. God bless.
I love Melicia's life tips ❤ "It's not in my budget" is perfect!
Tyray has a loving brother and sister, very supportive which is so nice to see.
She is such an incredible recapper give her a show please
This guy is a freakin angel. He deserves to be surrounded with nothing but love.
Perhaps you can date 📅 him 😊
I will just say it, No he does not deserve anything! Work for it both physically and mentally. We can all be catfished, but we dont all choose to keep living in LaLa Land.
why? just because he's looking for a hot gf? or did he save some orphans or something?
If you feel that way date him
I don’t think angels feel the lust he did when he saw Carmella lol
At the end of the day, he probably knew all along. But he liked the conversations and not feeling alone in his apartment and going through taking care his mom. It was mostly him feeling alone that made him this delusional. He should just go out to find a person.
He chose Carmela because of her looks and body. Plenty of local women, less attractive, on dating sites, but he wanted a Carmella. Reap what you sow. Next time, be realistic about yourself and who you can attract.
@@bobscratchett5346 you are such a bitter and negative person.
He doesn’t want a person, he wants a fantasy.
@@bobscratchett5346finally someone with some sense!
@@bobscratchett5346eah that's the pitfall that alot of guys fall victim to, going after Women that are WAYYYYY out of their league instead of pursuing a Woman that's actually within their range, i had to learn this for myself
He said he doesn't know how to deal with all this after all the time they have spent together.. wtf?? They have never spent any time together.
time spent texting with her
I love his sister reaction when he told them carmella was a man. Like the "hah?" Is so funny, that is exactly my reaction
Wow he has a good family! now that they know he has been desiring love they should take res helping their mom recover and give him the freedom and support to start rebuilding his confidence and life. This is how you love not only through hugs and compassion. Help him get better mentally, physically, and emotionally. And take some of the burden away.
We need some kind of warning before Gino's kiss 🤢😅
Yep! I felt nauseous 🤮 after that
And that was after a long flight 😂😂😂😂😂
Yuck
Damn near threw up 🤮
They definitely ready for whatever
So gross!
Tyray needs to go into major therapy over losing his dad at such a young age he's trying to medicate himself with food, and false pursuit of love.
Exactly!!!
Very apt observation ❤
Im so happy that his siblings seem so emotionally mature
4 years….of Snapchat….
Jesus. The self delusion is obscenely ridiculous
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m sorry to laugh, but your comment has me weak!
Aww his brother and sister were so supportive. Love that🥰
Omg!! you're so beautiful and I'm just wondering, i feel like God created you on a very special day!! I would like to be friends with you and get to share life experiences on a daily basis!!
After watching this made me realize it's definitely time to book a vacation back home to Barbados 🇧🇧 thanks Tyray 👍
I am so glad his sister and brother is there for him and it was no judgement.
Tyray needs therapy to help him process his emotions in a healthy way and build his self esteem. I hope he learns to love himself.
Yes. He needs a good therapist and a diet-life style plan. Self care.
Bro , he needs to hit the gym and start talking to girls around him! . Become cold and don’t never let a man or woman trick you into giving out money. Don’t struggle , start winning 😊
jasmine and gino make me sick and i think are acting
Now when they told him he was being catfished they did offer him to scrap all of the footage the whole storyline everything and I respect that they continued because that’s what he wished to do
awwww his family is so sweet.
Melicia your hilarious great recaps as always 🤣❤.
This whole episode. Melicia and tyrays siblings were so supportive of him.
Tyree sending his mom social security to Christan!!
😂 lordy lord 😳 😂😂
Melicia is the best ever. Would love her as host on Love is Blind and, the Ultimatum.
Tyray walked thru a whole Chinese communist PARADE of red flags and then was surprised when it was a catfish 🫣 poor guy 😢
😂😂😂😂😂😂
THERAPY, is what Tyray needs, and a gym membership.
I told y'all call Nev
She's not done healing from the death of her husband!
Tyray is not a bad looking man and nothing wrong with still being a virgin 33. The right woman will come along
Hes not ugly at all his sister is super beautiful i hope he understands his value.
Goodness Melicia's commentary is the best❤😂
Well it looks like tyray battleships sunk after hearing that man on the phone line😂😂😂
These ppl asking for money without intention of paying back the funds. Very angry
He knew he was getting catfished, he just couldn’t face the truth that he was being used and rathered he got used but at least was able to live the fantasy of being in a relationship with a hot chick
Bingo!!!! And now he can be on tv and get Dms from all these women who will date him and take his money. Win-win. There is no way he didn't know. But now his life will change, the vultures will be all on him. Sounds like a genius to me.
He’s slow and delusional. Might’ve known subconsciously but didn’t want to believe it
I feel like Tyray is going to get an influx of girls after this episode. He seems really sweet and he would be a Prince Charming for whoever he starts a relationship with.
The majority of men, no matter his looks, finances, social status, etc., believes he should have a 10 on his arm.
This is the perfect case in point. Some men will remain lonely vir gins, sometimes become angry and violent if he can't get the women he wants. I'm sure Tyray has overlooked and rejected a real, tangible woman in his league to "date" his fantasy woman he met on-line.
That's why it's ridiculous that women are shamed into giving guys they aren't attracted to a chance. Because as you can see from Tyray, a man never would.
Online dating and being duped by a catfish is very common despite all the precautions and warning signs.
Most catfish victims are the most vulnerable, not wanting to believe it could happen to them. (Widows, especially).
All of this could have been prevented with a video call. It's 2023!
Exactly!!!
What a sweet sweet man! I hope he finds TRUE LOVE soon! ❤
So she wont videochat him after 4 yrs????
Refusing to have video call for 4 yeeeeeeeeeears, that didn’t raise a red flag?!!!!!
He really thought he finally found someone and the thought of it all being a lie blinded him for so long. It's a great step that he's talking to his siblings about it because people who take advantage of others only benefit from their target keeping everything a secret. And his sister seems really supportive.
As for his comment on being embarrassed about not having had a physical relationship at his age, don't be embarrassed. Society is way too obsessed with sex and the concept of virginity. Do whatever is right for you.
First off, his sister is absolutely GORGEOUS 😍and she seems to have a good heart. First tv crush in a while lol 😅
Ayooo. He was cyber sexing dude. 😂
Someone should sue the producer and the catfish person for allowing this online. This is not acceptable to see a man fall apart. It’s hard out here. The idiot that took all that money needs to be put in jail and pay it all back to him. Make him an example. Post his photo and address online so we can warn others.
Honestly how didn’t tyray see that he was being catfished?
Amanda should be with her kids not with some guy, who really wants fame n to be an actor. Plus he looks like a playa. If I lost my husband months b4, last thing on my mind would be another guy. My kids would be priority.
Melicia your hair is 🔥
She’s the sweetest sister 🥹
I’m glad his family was there to support him!
Melicia's hair is giving bawdy! I love her curls but this new style.... It's giving me life!♥
I feel bad for Ty but he had to have known. Classic catfish! #openandshutcase
omg his sister. I just love how she was there for him 😭
Tyray needs a reality check thinking carmella is real....boy you gonna sit ur arse down and hear christian voice....
I live in the same town as homeboy I'll introduce him to some ladies if he's down
That’s great that he has such awesome siblings he will be fine he has great support!!!
Im so sad that hes being taken advantage of. It seems like his whole family is so caring. His siblings were so caring and understanding towards him. Get away from her/him and focus on yourself so that this doesn't happen again. So tired of seeing genuinely nice pple letting themselves get taken advantage of.
The sister and commentator the sweetest things
How can this guy or anyone obese believe someone in good shape would be interested in them? It's insanity. If you're obese u need to find a partner who is also obese. If u like fit bodies and want to be with someone with a fit body, that person also wants someone with a fit body. Being a millionaire is the only thing that can make up for being overweight
What are you on?
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Something clearly wrong with you. You are not happy with yourself.
I love your new hairstyle Melicia! It looks great on you ^_^ (you always look great lol)
That guy seems like one of the nicest dudes i’ve ever seen. He needs a find a woman that’ll truly appreciate him
His sister is a beautiful QUEEN
Imma say what he needs someone to tell him. Get your life together. Hit the gym. You have such potential, heal mentally, open up. Meet girls in person, dont be ashamed. Dont let your past stop you. Hit the gym is number one. Imagine how you would feel and looks will only follow, more confidence, health and the girls will go after you.
The hand holding is so sweet 😢
Melicia is wise and funny.
Melicia is a true 💎
His sister is GORGEOUZZZZ!!! OMG
Melicia when she was on that phone 😭
I lost my husband too but I wasn’t ready to move on even after a year.Everyone grieves differently though.
If Ty can start to love himself more, he will come through this heartbreak stronger