This isn’t about being transgender, but I have a strange question: how do you feel when everyone says you are pretty/beautiful? I am asking because that’s the main complement I see, personally, I would feel better if people complemented my personality or ideas, what about you? just to clarify: people complementing your looks are great, but does it get on your nerves that that’s all people talk about?
1. That they're hypersexual... I don't know if that's true or not - or if that's even necessarily a bad thing 😈. 2. That they're really just gay. 3. Also, that they detransition later on in life (I'm also uncertain about this).
@@carlosmorris4510 Answers...1. Some are,but most aren't... just like the rest of humanity 2. I was "straight" as was my wife...but we aren't now. Most of my trans friends started off as straight, and most still are attracted to the opposite of their birth sex. 3. Detransition happens, but most never do.
I got an extra myth for you Mathilda. "Trans people want extra rights!" This is used by haters. No, trans people want the same rights as everyone else. The right to hold a job, rent a house, marry, love, to have a genuine life, to serve their country, walk down the street without fear of being murdered!
Any of us could walk down the road and get murdered. Also, it is the 'allies' who start arguing and abusing people which they claim is on behalf of trans people. I'd hate to have allies like that as they are worse than having enemies.
@@EmperorOfChaos Are you seriously saying that trans allies are the abusive group in this society? The allies I know are kind, reasonable people who stand up for people who they might not understand, but recognize their right to be true to themselves. Trans women of color are especially targets for being murdered. In fact in some states it is still a legal defense for murdering a trans person because they didn't know the person was trans. So they get off for murder? Have you seen the number of laws passed against trans people lately pushed by republiCONs to 'solve' problems that don't exist. Get real!
You said that every trans person is different. Well, all people are different. And I believe all people are different but the same in that they are people..just human.
@@EllieRose1997 I plan on having bottom surgery myself and I’m even in contact with a therapist to start my hrt. Each person’s path is different and there is certainly no wrong way to be trans. ❤️
One other thing I would note: Some transgender people's reason for not getting surgeries is because of fear of surgeries, and not because of not wanting surgeries.
I love the vibe of your videos so much! ❤ You were one of the first trans youtubers I watched, before my very difficult coming out a half year ago and I am happy, whenever I see new videos on your channel!
Honestly, watching you has helped me realize a lot about myself. It'll be a while before this egg hatches (especially if I don't move from Poland), but the first cracks are here! Thank you.
Hi Mathilda! I am a 54 year old trans girl. I am aromatic asexual. I figured that out pre transition. Now that I am transitioning, I feel that a zero depth vaginoplasty is the most appropriate for me. I watch your videos all the time. Please keep up the good work. Love Andrea
This is great for me, it’s so informative. I’m a trans woman, but i haven’t had bottom surgery so I didn’t think i could legitimately say I’m a “Trans Woman”. Now I can feel comfortable identifying as a trans woman. And Yes, I love having a man inside me, but I avoid the Jerks. I don’t need a man to make me feel like a woman! I’m so glad your making these videos! Have a great day! LUV Randi
Thank you for mentioning that trans women are not the same as cross dressers and drag queens. When I first came out I told a friend who is gay, he didn’t know this and seemed to think it’s just a ‘gay thing’ and was trying to use it to shame me into sleeping with him. He didn’t seem to register how upsetting it was for him to say and do that. I’m still trying to figure out how to come out to my family and wether or not I should transition, this really set me back.
Vaginoplasty can sometimes work very well, sometimes mildly well and sometimes it goes horribly wrong. Some transgender women are happy with the results, some aren't. It's unpredictable and it also depends on the suregeon' skills.
I like the concept of all the surgeries, face lift, jawline, browline, cheekbone, voice, lipo, fat repositioning, breast augmentation, vaginoplasty, how many surgeries could there possibly be?
You are a beautiful person always excited to see your new videos love you Matilda you are an amazing person love you Matilda awesome video your a beautiful intelligent woman
I’m asexexual and I’m as much a trans woman as any other trans woman out there 😃 you’re correct. Our sexuality does not define us being trans or not. Great video as always 😃
Well we all start off as female anyway inside the womb so to reverse engineer doesn't sound impossible. I can imagine that it looks"natural" you even look amazing and natural to be honest. But when you get exited do you get "wet" or do you need aid with lubricants? I am not being disrespectful at all I am just curious.
I was married to a wonderful man for 21 yrs until he passed, but should be getting my bottom surgery this summer and I really like women more. But several of my girlfriends both said I may be bisexual and they still love me for who I am and so do my children and older grand daughters
I totally agree with the first point cross dresser dress to immitate to be the opposite gender and transwomen wear anything really but still identify as a women. The choices of clothing dosent make a transwomen its the identity.
You could read or refer to new research in this and comparable subjects, there are lots of myths, still, but actually gender equality is a bigger problem/question, where researchers and observers found that there still is a huge bias; primarily regarding nursing, of course, but also regarding what women should do in general. Just have a look at the statistics for gender-typical job-types. And please think of all the positive people who do not hate you or other trans. But protect yourself (and me) from being harassed, frown upon, criticized, ridiculed. ❤
I feel particularly bad for trans people in custody because how they systematically are treated is based on (first on the screening fr gender dysphoria) and then, how transitioned they are medically.
Belief is always tested by reality! Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn! There is no coming to consciousness without pain! Carl Jung Everyone faces regret, there's no escape. Every choice faces regret and suffering. Life is a experience of choosing your suffering and regret. What is unconscious will become conscious and there will be regret.
No problem with choosing but you chose to look like a woman? Others choose and they don't look that way? I get transitioning is a tough process damn I don't want to date someone with a beard and chest hair longer than mine. No I'm not a active sexual guy with trans guys but this is the new thing.
1. *cringe* 2. wait, you mean we are not all as beautiful as you?? I thought My mirror was just lying to me. ( Just Joking,.. I am gorgeous. But ... not all of us are???)
I have a hard time listening to you sweetheart 💕. I'm too busy looking at you!!! It's insanely hard to pay attention when all I remember after watching your videos is that your so cute 😍!!!!!
To BUY YOUR LIP GLOSS AND SHOWER OILS AND CANDIES AND GIFT YOU WEEKLY AND KISS YOU - WOULD BE AWESOME THEN PLAY TENNIS BUDDIES ON SATURDAY BEFORE LUNCH LIFE IS GOOD PEOPLE ARE LIFE
Well.. to be fair... transwomen are transwomen. Transwomen are not women... hence the trance addon
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Trans women are women. According to your logic, white women aren’t women because you say “white” before. That’s stupid. I am a trans woman, but since trans women are under the umbrella of women, I am a woman.
@ That is not really a fair analogy. Its more like saying that fake leather is still leather... I want to be clear, I respect your feelings and how you want to express it. But regardless what you feel, biologically you are still male and that is fine. I would totally call you a she but I still think it's important just as you doing to be open that you are a trans women. I value the truth and being trans don't make you less of a human.
as she should. the 'critical' commentators should go get a degree in psychology or medicine and specialize in transgender care before they start 'criticizing' someone without any expeience in the matter
@@tamasvaslaki7161 95 percent of the criticism is stupid and repetitive, and it's something that a 13 year old can come up with in 10 seconds. some criticisms that are in the form of moral judgement usually rely on innacurate information or distorted religious faith, and there's no point in listening to them.
you may also consider that youtube might be deleting your comments for some reason, it can happen, and i'm not sure why. it's not always the channel's fault, it can just be the algorythm messing with you.
What's another common myth you've heard regarding Trans people? ❤
This isn’t about being transgender, but I have a strange question: how do you feel when everyone says you are pretty/beautiful? I am asking because that’s the main complement I see, personally, I would feel better if people complemented my personality or ideas, what about you?
just to clarify: people complementing your looks are great, but does it get on your nerves that that’s all people talk about?
Gorgeous
Awesome
1. That they're hypersexual... I don't know if that's true or not - or if that's even necessarily a bad thing 😈. 2. That they're really just gay. 3. Also, that they detransition later on in life (I'm also uncertain about this).
@@carlosmorris4510 Answers...1. Some are,but most aren't... just like the rest of humanity 2. I was "straight" as was my wife...but we aren't now. Most of my trans friends started off as straight, and most still are attracted to the opposite of their birth sex. 3. Detransition happens, but most never do.
I got an extra myth for you Mathilda. "Trans people want extra rights!" This is used by haters. No, trans people want the same rights as everyone else. The right to hold a job, rent a house, marry, love, to have a genuine life, to serve their country, walk down the street without fear of being murdered!
Bro, people don’t go around murdering people, we don’t live in GTA. Where are you getting this from
@@jacegrrtt Hey "Bro" a simple google of 'trans people murdered' especially trans women of color will give you your answer.
@@jacegrrtt Maybe they got it from the fact that trans people are over four times more likely to be victims of violent crimes than cis people?
Any of us could walk down the road and get murdered. Also, it is the 'allies' who start arguing and abusing people which they claim is on behalf of trans people. I'd hate to have allies like that as they are worse than having enemies.
@@EmperorOfChaos Are you seriously saying that trans allies are the abusive group in this society? The allies I know are kind, reasonable people who stand up for people who they might not understand, but recognize their right to be true to themselves. Trans women of color are especially targets for being murdered. In fact in some states it is still a legal defense for murdering a trans person because they didn't know the person was trans. So they get off for murder? Have you seen the number of laws passed against trans people lately pushed by republiCONs to 'solve' problems that don't exist. Get real!
Happy International Women's week Mathilda!!💓
I hate it when people assume things about me.
You said that every trans person is different. Well, all people are different. And I believe all people are different but the same in that they are people..just human.
But some of us are more different than others.
I think there would be fewer of these myths if more people understood that we come out and transition to feel more like ourselves.
yes! Understanding is the root to acceptance, which then leads all the way to love!
True
i don't know why but i love it when you say "fun time" 😊
Same! It's cute
I'm confused sometimes whether Mathilda is saying "fun time" or talking about the app FanTime. Either way I love it when she says it too.
Why have I never said that she is so pretty, she is.
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Thanks for clearing up these Myths
We’re all still learning
Stay happy
I am an example of a trans woman that isn’t attracted to men. I have a wife and we are a lesbian couple. ❤️🏳️🌈
i am also a trans Lesbian!
i want to get bottom surgery but not others.
@@EllieRose1997 I plan on having bottom surgery myself and I’m even in contact with a therapist to start my hrt. Each person’s path is different and there is certainly no wrong way to be trans. ❤️
I am also a trans lesbian who is married, though I do find myself attracted to men as well.
@@lacyvalenti9523 That’s wonderful! Just goes to show how limiting labels can be when it comes to sexuality.
Hi Mathilda...thank you for always uploading great videos. Keep up the great work :)
I'm hermaphrodite, I came to this sad bad life is hermaphrodite!! I'm not even trans woman and people make my life miserable. 💔💔
Swedish beauty alert!!!! im honestly obsessed with you saying funtime lol
One other thing I would note: Some transgender people's reason for not getting surgeries is because of fear of surgeries, and not because of not wanting surgeries.
...and even though you might want every surgery, the surgeon can refuse for medical reasons.
I just want to say that you give me so much confidence and i love your every vid. Thanks Mathilda
I love the vibe of your videos so much! ❤ You were one of the first trans youtubers I watched, before my very difficult coming out a half year ago and I am happy, whenever I see new videos on your channel!
It's so nice to hear you talk about all these subjects.
But also that you share this with us. Thank you. 💓
some cant aford bottom surgery
Honestly, watching you has helped me realize a lot about myself.
It'll be a while before this egg hatches (especially if I don't move from Poland), but the first cracks are here!
Thank you.
I'm actually transgender asexual, so there's everything you can imagine in this world :D
Diversity is beautiful!!
You are such a wise nice person .
Hi Mathilda! I am a 54 year old trans girl. I am aromatic asexual. I figured that out pre transition. Now that I am transitioning, I feel that a zero depth vaginoplasty is the most appropriate for me. I watch your videos all the time. Please keep up the good work. Love Andrea
This is great for me, it’s so informative. I’m a trans woman, but i haven’t had bottom surgery so I didn’t think i could legitimately say I’m a “Trans Woman”. Now I can feel comfortable identifying as a trans woman. And Yes, I love having a man inside me, but I avoid the Jerks. I don’t need a man to make me feel like a woman! I’m so glad your making these videos! Have a great day! LUV Randi
Thank you for mentioning that trans women are not the same as cross dressers and drag queens. When I first came out I told a friend who is gay, he didn’t know this and seemed to think it’s just a ‘gay thing’ and was trying to use it to shame me into sleeping with him. He didn’t seem to register how upsetting it was for him to say and do that. I’m still trying to figure out how to come out to my family and wether or not I should transition, this really set me back.
Vaginoplasty can sometimes work very well, sometimes mildly well and sometimes it goes horribly wrong. Some transgender women are happy with the results, some aren't. It's unpredictable and it also depends on the suregeon' skills.
I like the concept of all the surgeries, face lift, jawline, browline, cheekbone, voice, lipo, fat repositioning, breast augmentation, vaginoplasty, how many surgeries could there possibly be?
You are a beautiful person always excited to see your new videos love you Matilda you are an amazing person love you Matilda awesome video your a beautiful intelligent woman
you're such an inspiration to me :)
LOVING this hair color girl!
Keep killing the game beautiful young lady!
Luckily for you, you started transitioning as a teen
And healthcare in Sweden is free she said 😮😮
You are absolutely gorgeous I’m a straight male and find you so attractive your awesome inside and out rock on girl
I’m asexexual and I’m as much a trans woman as any other trans woman out there 😃 you’re correct. Our sexuality does not define us being trans or not. Great video as always 😃
Ooo hiii I'm ace too but I'm a cis-girl. So nice to see another asexual here 💜
@@MvsicAdd7ct likewise. Pleased to meet you 😃
Hi beautifull ! I'm from canada , I love your videos !
Well we all start off as female anyway inside the womb so to reverse engineer doesn't sound impossible.
I can imagine that it looks"natural" you even look amazing and natural to be honest.
But when you get exited do you get "wet" or do you need aid with lubricants?
I am not being disrespectful at all I am just curious.
Every human being has a right to be who they want to be
I was married to a wonderful man for 21 yrs until he passed, but should be getting my bottom surgery this summer and I really like women more. But several of my girlfriends both said I may be bisexual and they still love me for who I am and so do my children and older grand daughters
Have phobia on surgerys and m not gonna do it
I totally agree with the first point cross dresser dress to immitate to be the opposite gender and transwomen wear anything really but still identify as a women. The choices of clothing dosent make a transwomen its the identity.
Love this video and your answers are so true
I would disagree that it's not a choice. Good video.
Hiii. I love your content!
You could read or refer to new research in this and comparable subjects, there are lots of myths, still, but actually gender equality is a bigger problem/question, where researchers and observers found that there still is a huge bias; primarily regarding nursing, of course, but also regarding what women should do in general. Just have a look at the statistics for gender-typical job-types.
And please think of all the positive people who do not hate you or other trans. But protect yourself (and me) from being harassed, frown upon, criticized, ridiculed. ❤
Is interesting on the new video for the explain about myths being transgender to experience, you're do gorgeous❤💖✨
I feel like drag is more about spectacle and exaggeration.
I feel particularly bad for trans people in custody because how they systematically are treated is based on (first on the screening fr gender dysphoria) and then, how transitioned they are medically.
You deserve the world 😘
Hey it's Mathilda again, obviously!
Well hello there-
Well General Kenobi!
Gorgeous great video : )
I would say you chose to accept yourself
I like to be a trans female now
I finaly got permission to start HRT I just gotta get down to 175Lbs rn im 190Lbs
Belief is always tested by reality!
Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn!
There is no coming to consciousness without pain! Carl Jung
Everyone faces regret, there's no escape. Every choice faces regret and suffering. Life is a experience of choosing your suffering and regret.
What is unconscious will become conscious and there will be regret.
I’m hardline gay and hardline aro
And trans
how long will it be until I notice facial changes?
I am also a trans ❤
God made you in beautiful knowledge and wisdom 👸❤👏💐💯👌👌😘😘😇
Gorgeous
I like the letter E
No problem with choosing but you chose to look like a woman? Others choose and they don't look that way? I get transitioning is a tough process damn I don't want to date someone with a beard and chest hair longer than mine. No I'm not a active sexual guy with trans guys but this is the new thing.
Hey Mathilda i need some advice on some things if your okay to email about it i would appreciate your wise words
beautiful
❤️
Do you still have your pebis
Matthilda! Hello! You are the most amazing woman I have ever met! I too am a wannabe girl!
Your Sweet Roxanne
1. *cringe*
2. wait, you mean we are not all as beautiful as you?? I thought My mirror was just lying to me. ( Just Joking,.. I am gorgeous. But ... not all of us are???)
omg you are so beautiful
😉#5, Hmmmm, let me CHECK!!(Just joking!!🤣😘
Please stop muting words vagina, orgasm etc, there's nothing wrong with them. This is so disturbing.
I have a hard time listening to you sweetheart 💕. I'm too busy looking at you!!! It's insanely hard to pay attention when all I remember after watching your videos is that your so cute 😍!!!!!
However 😄
She cutes
Seriously. Are u trans u don't look like one and omg ur beautiful 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
So lovely you are
A hybrid.....just sayin
💖💖💖😊
I wouldn't say myths. These are some of the belifes that people really hold
To BUY YOUR LIP GLOSS AND SHOWER OILS AND CANDIES AND GIFT YOU WEEKLY AND KISS YOU - WOULD BE AWESOME
THEN PLAY TENNIS BUDDIES ON SATURDAY BEFORE LUNCH
LIFE IS GOOD PEOPLE ARE LIFE
Well.. to be fair... transwomen are transwomen. Transwomen are not women... hence the trance addon
Trans women are women.
According to your logic, white women aren’t women because you say “white” before. That’s stupid. I am a trans woman, but since trans women are under the umbrella of women, I am a woman.
To be fair you are WRONG!
Shut up.
But you still like it, huh?... You love trans women; no shame in admitting it. 😆
@ That is not really a fair analogy. Its more like saying that fake leather is still leather... I want to be clear, I respect your feelings and how you want to express it. But regardless what you feel, biologically you are still male and that is fine. I would totally call you a she but I still think it's important just as you doing to be open that you are a trans women. I value the truth and being trans don't make you less of a human.
you post op transwomen need to separate yourself from pre ops..that will solve alot of issues.
You seem to delete all critical comments...
as she should. the 'critical' commentators should go get a degree in psychology or medicine and specialize in transgender care before they start 'criticizing' someone without any expeience in the matter
ignorant criticism has no real value, and it's completely fine to delete it.
@@beatrizkarwai6763 all critics are ignorant? That is quite a strange opinion, not knowing the content of the critics...
@@tamasvaslaki7161 95 percent of the criticism is stupid and repetitive, and it's something that a 13 year old can come up with in 10 seconds. some criticisms that are in the form of moral judgement usually rely on innacurate information or distorted religious faith, and there's no point in listening to them.
you may also consider that youtube might be deleting your comments for some reason, it can happen, and i'm not sure why. it's not always the channel's fault, it can just be the algorythm messing with you.