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КОМЕНТАРІ • 329

  • @muktadixit
    @muktadixit Рік тому +1331

    Instagram is toxic af.

  • @jahnavisingh4956
    @jahnavisingh4956 Рік тому +2423

    I cut off Instagram from past few months, I didn't completely cut off social media I still use twitter and UA-cam but suprisingly I noticed a fact that my mental state actually felt a lot relaxed after deleting the app I

  • @firstlastname1158
    @firstlastname1158 9 місяців тому +215

    I have stopped using social media for five years now. And I'm living my best life.

    • @ingepp1797
      @ingepp1797 7 місяців тому +17

      I agree. I have cut off everything except WhatsApp(need it for work) but I do feel UA-cam can be educational but I catch myself getting dragged into that as well. I want to cut out UA-cam but unable to do it

    • @suhasmagar2978
      @suhasmagar2978 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@ingepp1797i am also going through same .I use UA-cam mostly 😢😢

    • @existeraiscomingover
      @existeraiscomingover 5 місяців тому +8

      But youtube counts as a social media too i am saying this as somebody who is addicted to nothing but youtube

    • @Umamaheswari-gf1tx
      @Umamaheswari-gf1tx 2 місяці тому +1

      Wow!! Can you share about your life? How happy your life is after quitting social media? I'm curious to know about your life.

    • @syedhassanuddin7581
      @syedhassanuddin7581 2 місяці тому

      ​@@existeraiscomingoverUA-cam doesn't lower ur self esteem as much as Instagram does and if u are sharing UA-cam videos with someone then u need to stop that as well stay safe it's a drug harmful than a drug itself

  • @strawberry-cheesecake
    @strawberry-cheesecake Рік тому +527

    I uninstalled Instagram for like a month or so because of my exams.. and trust me I felt so relaxed and peaceful I was not being nosy be seeing other people's stories and not being judgemental.. no self doubting thoughts just me & my studies.

  • @priyabaliyan1507
    @priyabaliyan1507 Рік тому +431

    Shi baat hai agar aapko lagra ki ye cheez aapko distract karri toh oose chhod do kuch time ke liye.

  • @bipashasaha1164
    @bipashasaha1164 Рік тому +73

    Me who deactivate social media 15 days before every exam...🤣

  • @Aloy27
    @Aloy27 10 місяців тому +33

    That balance that you had maintained is not everyone's cup of tea

  • @rahulshaw4336
    @rahulshaw4336 Рік тому +88

    One of the biggest advantage of cutting social media is that Brain gets an independent time of your cababilties to Understand certain things otherwise it's highly influenced and control by SOCIAL MEDIA like UA-cam,fb , Instagram nowdays etc ...

  • @soni36779
    @soni36779 Рік тому +20

    i cut off from facebook and instagram and i dont watch status in whatsapp , i do use youtube but now i feel extremely happy and relaxed .

  • @visa3267
    @visa3267 3 місяці тому +6

    I quit instagram and snapchat during my neet prep days and now im in my 4 th year still not on any of them . I can see the difference . The crowd around me thinks too much and got some unnecessary fears .

  • @Athreya-Atharva
    @Athreya-Atharva 3 місяці тому +10

    There is no need of social media.. go out and explore the real world

  • @sheelamdixit639
    @sheelamdixit639 Рік тому +42

    Honestly, it's comparatively easier to cutoff completely than to watch bits and then control for the rest of the day.

    • @ingepp1797
      @ingepp1797 7 місяців тому +2

      Any idea how i can cut out UA-cam as well? I desperately want to but I come back for educational reasons

    • @sheelamdixit639
      @sheelamdixit639 7 місяців тому

      @@ingepp1797 I understand. But we're sailing in same boat. I'm as clueless as you are in this matter. Please share with me if you find a solution.

    • @tenzingmehtok354
      @tenzingmehtok354 5 місяців тому

      @@ingepp1797 instead of cutting it off you can like subscribe and try to watch productive materials and the destructive ones you can put them in the not interested option

    • @hitech9466
      @hitech9466 4 місяці тому

      ​@@ingepp1797same situation

    • @Newde2761
      @Newde2761 Місяць тому

      ​@@ingepp1797 you can create 2nd account and in that only you should subscribe only educational channels. Start fresh. In that account you should not watch other things And you will get recommendations of only educational videos.

  • @prestigiouspet24
    @prestigiouspet24 7 місяців тому +48

    Most people feel that they can balance the social media and studies but somehow if you keep looking at people enjoying their lives, travelling to places and being so called aesthetic then we may want such lifestyles but we don't think that there is a huge difference between our lives..some are rich and some of them just show off, some don't have goals so it doesn't cost them anything but those who aspire to be something in life need to focus now so that you can make your life..

  • @fawadahmedshaikh9893
    @fawadahmedshaikh9893 Рік тому +47

    I hate Instagram

  • @sidrahhasan331
    @sidrahhasan331 Рік тому +40

    I logged out of Facebook and LinkedIn recently and feeling good..

  • @Philomath206
    @Philomath206 9 місяців тому +3

    Comment section is full of positivity.. I actually like this.. thank u all

  • @kalamangar6730
    @kalamangar6730 Рік тому +115

    I deleted my Instagram account few days back due to exam and also I really don't want to use any social media now because I waste my lots of time scrolling down and I made the habit of comparing my life to reelers so..... I quit using and I am much ok now😄

  • @kashishdubey5458
    @kashishdubey5458 Рік тому +21

    I m going to dlt the insta tomorrow(for up board and other further exams) and suddenly I came here I saw many people left and feel relaxed so I think I'm in good way....

    • @muktadixit
      @muktadixit Рік тому +2

      It's been 2 years since I left instagram.

    • @taeshi37
      @taeshi37 Рік тому

      I'm going to do same...
      Did you deleted....how you feeling now

    • @kashishdubey5458
      @kashishdubey5458 Рік тому +1

      @@taeshi37 so relaxing literally

    • @taeshi37
      @taeshi37 Рік тому +1

      @@kashishdubey5458 thank you so much for your positive reply.....I'm going to do same

  • @harshatsharma5420
    @harshatsharma5420 Рік тому +19

    I never use instagram Facebook twitter telegram any social media till now not because of that they are distraction for me but my phone does not have such storage to download it it only have 8GB storage 😅😅😅😅

  • @pricekk
    @pricekk Рік тому +3

    Energy and time is saved by staying from temporary Distractions.

  • @akhiltej4604
    @akhiltej4604 Рік тому +22

    Nice golden tips 💎

  • @sky25063
    @sky25063 Рік тому +30

    Totally agreed.. I cut off instagram but I'm on Snapchat and you tube .. Trying to control timing on these...but there are my friends who create balance between all things... I'm not able to do that I easily distracted from insta ... But trust me few days you feel now it's soo relaxing

  • @Alkavenugopal
    @Alkavenugopal Рік тому +4

    true when I faced covids first lock down... those time loneliness start kicking me hardly I thought social medias would be their for me... but all of the sudden I stopped using it... I don't even remember the password of my account and I dont even care... it's been 2 and a half years I guess...

  • @ug3060
    @ug3060 Рік тому +25

    That balance is only almost impossible 🤣

    • @rituparnarooj5388
      @rituparnarooj5388 Рік тому +1

      Same here...i always try but fail ....

    • @yasin6118
      @yasin6118 8 місяців тому +2

      It's designed to keep you addicted.

    • @ExplorwithAk
      @ExplorwithAk Місяць тому

      @@rituparnarooj5388that's call our weekness 🤕

  • @shahidalari6299
    @shahidalari6299 Місяць тому +2

    I quit Instagram for my neet preparation.its been 8 months since i didn't open my account and i feel so relaxed and focused no distraction at alll. Actually it depend on yourself only that Whether you can balance your social media ,studies or not. If you can balance both then its amazing but i can't because i am a kind of person who get distracted veryyyy easily thats why i decided that i will completely cut off from social media. And its actually worked for me . Soo just apne according work karo jo aapko sahi lage wo aur kuch pane ke liye to kuch khona hi padta h. Social media rakh kar to kuch nhi paoge but apna dream zaroor kho doge 😇

  • @Rohit-ks4sf
    @Rohit-ks4sf Рік тому +19

    Since 1 year i am trying to make this balance

  • @komallvirk
    @komallvirk 6 місяців тому +2

    Using social media do brain wash , slowly slowly we get addicted to

    • @miracleonyeoma3657
      @miracleonyeoma3657 3 місяці тому

      So if I don't use social media anymore I will improve in all areas of my life like my studies and ambition to stduy hard and have good grades right

  • @muskaannnn18
    @muskaannnn18 Рік тому +25

    I tried to do this for 2 years but couldn't

  • @vinashigaming
    @vinashigaming Рік тому +4

    Motivation ne to sab ke zindagi barbad kar rakhe hai😃

  • @Khushie_singh
    @Khushie_singh 3 місяці тому +3

    This completely depends on yourself some may not even find social media distracting , some may find it an extreme distraction , some are okay with time management of using so depends on you try everything and see what works out the best and follow .
    I just deleted Instagram because it doesn't give me anything in return .

    • @syedhassanuddin7581
      @syedhassanuddin7581 2 місяці тому

      88% people who uses social media start comparing themselves with what they see and this lowers their self esteem and make them feel less valuable and please don't say it depends because I've studied most of the teenagers use social media from as low as 4.1 hrs to 6hrs a day this data is from US
      Talking about a survey conducted in Maharashtra (22% parents reported that their children used their phones for 6hrs on Social media and gaming) hope u understand that this addiction is harmful for all of us stop using Instagram and Tiktok other platforms are safer than this!

  • @Honeysaini9050
    @Honeysaini9050 Рік тому +7

    Balance is Life 👊👊👊

  • @imcatwoman3738
    @imcatwoman3738 Рік тому +37

    Dude they deleted it cuz they know they'll waste their time there people who cant control their watch time del it and mostly social media is very harmful for ur peace im also not on any other than utube

    • @jahnavisingh4956
      @jahnavisingh4956 Рік тому +3

      True!! Most of the people who are like I used to use it sparingly I shouldn't say this but pretty sure her friends did nothing wrong they wanted break and it worked out for them

  • @drawwithdevesh
    @drawwithdevesh Рік тому +11

    Instagram se toh cut off kr diya lekin youtube se ni ho pa rha h .....jab v timer set krta UA-cam k liye suddenly koi video mujhe dekhna padd jata h koi na koi cheez ho he jati h ...🤣😂 Aur UA-cam ko uninstall krne ka v option ni h

  • @mrn6890
    @mrn6890 Рік тому +2

    3P are very important perseverance, patience and persistence to get anything in life.

  • @RahulKumar-kh7vp
    @RahulKumar-kh7vp Рік тому +95

    I think girls are more focussed and don't get viciously distracted from their goals it could be because they know that if they don't get a job in 2-3 years then they will get married by their parents... Boys please🙏 don't go with her words it's truth that is if distracted once you'll get shattered...

    • @plumSlayer
      @plumSlayer Рік тому +15

      Because we are evolved to tolerance ,you have no idea how many times our mom's have told us , " shadi krke zindagi barbad nhi krni h toh padho , become independent ".
      You won't realise untill you ponder over this from cultural, societal, historical and statistical pov.

    • @DeveshKumar-vw8ul
      @DeveshKumar-vw8ul Рік тому +10

      ​@@plumSlayer as if life of a boy is not hard
      we also have to listen everyday
      padhle wrna terko naukri nhi milegi or koi nhi puchega...
      not only girls but also
      boys have to struggle on daily basis .
      There is a reason why suicidal rate is higher in boys as compared to girls

    • @ct8596
      @ct8596 Рік тому +1

      ​@@plumSlayer so well put.

    • @plumSlayer
      @plumSlayer Рік тому +6

      @@DeveshKumar-vw8ul atleast you have the rights to go out whenever you want, in rural India girls don't have any rights ! Fathers believe their girls are their properties and they always blackmail them emotionally in the name of saving their so called izzat (which only apparently exists) and then they GIVE her to some random man of their choice. If that girl doesn't obey that Man, even he wudnt treat her right. Not just in our country but jn the whole world , it has always been injustice to woman guys need to admit this 🙏🏻 Because, being girl doesn't have to be a curse , even we are humans and we have every right to live life of our choices , irrespective of if it pleases some MAN or not .

    • @DeveshKumar-vw8ul
      @DeveshKumar-vw8ul Рік тому +3

      @@plumSlayer see I know and accept the fact that every girl struggles to get a normal life or freedom as boys get but what I meant is that feminists/girls have a mindset regarding the life of boys that boys have so much freedom they gets everything which they want or they can go whenever they want to go.
      No Mam/sir this is not a life which 90% of boys have....
      We boys struggles each and every day
      I am a 19 but the pressure I have is immeasurable.
      I am preparing for govt exams so that I can get a job as soon as possible.
      I just want to give a really good life to my parents
      And it's not just me
      Ask every middle class boy
      what do you want
      Majority will reply just a job so that he can take care of his family.
      Only a rich boy can get Everything which u have mentioned
      But also a rich girl do gets the freedom which you are seeking.

  • @sweetyyofmylife3805
    @sweetyyofmylife3805 Рік тому +4

    Koi to mere jaisa bhi hoga I'm in my college first year but still I didn't install Instagram , Facebook , Twitter 😅😂😂❤ But i think maine ye shii kiya ❤😊

    • @Hard_Work_2.0
      @Hard_Work_2.0 11 місяців тому

      Iam from Bangladesh...do you use any social media???❤😊

  • @ambchngakidslearns
    @ambchngakidslearns Рік тому +5

    Ab log insta aur fb se dur rhnge lekin phr UA-cam m sara apna tym waste kr denge

  • @Janviii_j
    @Janviii_j 7 днів тому

    Im on no social media except you tube and pinterst since 2020 and im muchhh happier and at peace ❤❤life have never been less toxic and more calming

  • @HiveMind629
    @HiveMind629 8 місяців тому

    Briahna came with the smoke tbh every point she had a perfect response ready and she articulated it perfectly

  • @Trolex6969
    @Trolex6969 Рік тому +3

    Stop using those apps which you spend more time on and also learn nothing. How to recongnise such app? The app which gives the guilt after seeing the screen time of it is the one

  • @yasin6118
    @yasin6118 8 місяців тому

    There are many reasons why an individual would deactivate or delete social media. It's not just about addiction or having a balanced time limit on social media. Some of us just get sick and frustrated of comparisons, being judged and the constant posts from people who show off their relationships and lifestyles.

  • @13APRILL21
    @13APRILL21 6 місяців тому +1

    6 month ago i uninstalled facebook ,now its turn of instagram...

  • @aakashambre4081
    @aakashambre4081 7 місяців тому +2

    Balancing life is a lie ...

  • @shreyashi1192
    @shreyashi1192 5 днів тому +1

    WhatsApp and UA-cam can be beneficial if used properly but never Instagram. That is straight up toxic

  • @vibhakumari
    @vibhakumari 11 місяців тому +2

    I uninstalled social media but login in my chrome. Then I log out all this then I back login for ,ever 20 min 😅

  • @4doorsmorewhores737
    @4doorsmorewhores737 Рік тому +1

    I deleted insta snap nearly 1 month ago
    I am gonna score good in jee 2023

  • @Hardawayfits
    @Hardawayfits 8 місяців тому +1

    Since I gave up all my social media. I've been more happy. I seen who really love me. I have way more fun and actually enjoy what im doing. Rather than recording everything I do. 😅😮

  • @balachandramaddi
    @balachandramaddi Рік тому +2

    I'd rather use the insta's algorithm to my advantage by creating a new account only for education purpose and it works like boom. Also, setting the timer in Digital Wellbeing is useful as well.

  • @prakhargpt942
    @prakhargpt942 Рік тому +2

    Same thing I also do in my neet prep

  • @sbipodream1655
    @sbipodream1655 Рік тому +3

    ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

  • @plumSlayer
    @plumSlayer Рік тому +6

    I use Instagram once like in 2 or 3 months.
    It took time to build up this but honestly, this is very peaceful.
    Since im able to use it very less, I feel ain't lagging anywhere and since it's not overtaking my time and peace now, I feel more wholesome.
    I am here after once being a 6 to 8 hours of instagram per day person !

  • @tuxnoel
    @tuxnoel Рік тому +3

    if she is strong then will go for IPS

  • @NEETplus1
    @NEETplus1 Рік тому +1

    Yes i have a account on social media every where but i don't use every day

  • @prsvermavermaprsverma3638
    @prsvermavermaprsverma3638 Рік тому +7

    It's good

  • @faisalmuneerone
    @faisalmuneerone Місяць тому

    I just stopped insta and fb while usong whatsapp and yt. It changed my life 😂

  • @Downloadingpeace
    @Downloadingpeace Рік тому +1

    One interesting thing is always u can see in upsc CSE is rank 1 is always having some different type of personality by just looking nd u hearing them u just feel different....though all ranker are so good nd having respect but just see...
    Sruti, ktariya, era singhal, subham tina all having something different vibs...

  • @azmatparween7857
    @azmatparween7857 Рік тому +6

    I suggest everyone to delete fb account

  • @Knowledgetree667
    @Knowledgetree667 Рік тому

    As an introvert I never made an Instagram account my friends forced me to open an account but after 3 to 4 months i deactivated and uninstalled the app and other than whatsapp and UA-cam i don't use any app but still don't have time to study it's like jab tak net khatam nahi hota tab tak mere dil ko shanti nahi milti😂

  • @shibu2496
    @shibu2496 Рік тому +1

    I only use chorme 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Rajesh657
    @Rajesh657 6 місяців тому +1

    Her name???❤

  • @Sanjana56761
    @Sanjana56761 Рік тому

    I did the same thing during my board exams.. i didn't use my phone at all

  • @justiceforgeneralobc4765
    @justiceforgeneralobc4765 Рік тому +1

    Thanks Mam🙏

  • @Vickyy11001
    @Vickyy11001 Місяць тому +2

    Instagram account na hone ka ghamad button is here ⬇️

  • @adamsc1181
    @adamsc1181 8 місяців тому

    I mean the discipline to do that successfully is hard to come by. It’s designed to keep you hooked. Boundaries need to be in place. Like a kid only allowed to game on the weekends. Much more fun that way as well, I remember the blast i had when cw11 came on only on Saturdays.

  • @augryan7518
    @augryan7518 6 місяців тому

    Not every one knows how to balance

  • @Dbs_Show
    @Dbs_Show 10 місяців тому +1

    *No everyone have different strategy someone not focus while the apps are on mobile so simple uninstall it✌*

  • @ishaverma4032
    @ishaverma4032 2 місяці тому

    I deleted my insta handle and now i habe alot of time to study

  • @mysticalboy1208
    @mysticalboy1208 Рік тому

    💯💖

  • @BhagatSingh-ed2xf
    @BhagatSingh-ed2xf Місяць тому

  • @Sunil_13_7
    @Sunil_13_7 3 місяці тому

    uninstalled insta.. N now addicted to youtube😂

  • @Arunsinghchauhan3519
    @Arunsinghchauhan3519 7 місяців тому

    Their is no restriction on social media in India

  • @nishantrocks7974
    @nishantrocks7974 27 днів тому

    Le me who downloaded insta and uninstalled it after a hour😂#Iit delhi is love 💕

  • @Daarker
    @Daarker 4 місяці тому

    Here i m , who didnt used any social media ever except youtube be like : 🧐🧐is it real

  • @Gamer-lg4ml
    @Gamer-lg4ml Рік тому +1

    Didi kitna jhut bologe 😂😂😂😂😂.
    Kaise kaise log officer ban jate😂😂😂

  • @kumariii1111
    @kumariii1111 Рік тому +1

    Instagram is devil.

  • @pravintayade2024
    @pravintayade2024 7 місяців тому

    Thank you so much

  • @teenateena2978
    @teenateena2978 3 місяці тому

    Study difficult topics
    Eat healthy food
    Power nap

  • @13APRILL21
    @13APRILL21 6 місяців тому

    Instagram is badly affecting peoples daily life ...

  • @PHMonikaDeoli
    @PHMonikaDeoli 11 днів тому +1

    I had deleted my insta for 1 year,
    After one year i use insta for 1 month,
    Trust me insta is so toxic, it shows unrealistic thing . Now i again cut it off

  • @ShaivVaishnav
    @ShaivVaishnav Рік тому +3

    I think 🤔 कुछ भी बनना शिव शंकर जी की कृपा से होता है 🙏🙏🙏

  • @imperial_Dragnix
    @imperial_Dragnix 4 місяці тому

    I deleted all social media 😢
    But i have yt and telegram
    I want delete them but i can't

  • @jitantakupadhyay
    @jitantakupadhyay Рік тому +1

    I cut off myself from Instagram since last 1 year and i am CA aspirant

  • @ISPEAKFACTSyoushouldknow
    @ISPEAKFACTSyoushouldknow 9 місяців тому

    Bro i cannot stop watching anime

  • @sujoymitra4387
    @sujoymitra4387 Рік тому

    Om shinte baba o❤️s❤️s❤️mb hr hr mhedave o I love inda ❤️s❤️s❤️m joy kaley ma❤️s❤️s❤️ m joy syrame o joy hinde o joy bhryte❤️s❤️s❤️ m I love you Shruti mitra + SUJOY MITRA

  • @owaisahmadparay9270
    @owaisahmadparay9270 4 місяці тому

    I use only UA-cam 💡💡💡💡💡💡💡💡💡

  • @LarryP248
    @LarryP248 6 місяців тому

    This is superbly crafted content. A book I read with analogous content was revelatory. "A Life Unplugged: Reclaiming Reality in a Digital Age" by Theodore Blaze

  • @DPME_MohdHammad
    @DPME_MohdHammad Рік тому

    Tere papa ka naam qais he ya zahir? Fan page to banega

  • @rahulisgreat4911
    @rahulisgreat4911 Рік тому

    Thanks

  • @Shivanirathore-hk4nh
    @Shivanirathore-hk4nh 6 місяців тому

    I .2 - 3 years do not 🚫 used social media chanel 😊

  • @stockmarket..lovers7394
    @stockmarket..lovers7394 9 місяців тому

    This girl name????

  • @BobbySingh-jl3vy
    @BobbySingh-jl3vy Рік тому

    Apne bijnor ki shaan

  • @manishasoni2355
    @manishasoni2355 Рік тому

    I don't think so ye bas kehne ki baat h

  • @studymore2345
    @studymore2345 Рік тому

    So basically she is trying to say that she is very intelligent And Used social Media And her friends are Not that smart like her..😂😂

  • @juhiverma4002
    @juhiverma4002 Рік тому

    Anyone know how to delete youtube 😢

  • @Payal._gupta._
    @Payal._gupta._ Рік тому

    Provide Full video please

  • @ankitaaa9994
    @ankitaaa9994 Рік тому

    Who is she ?

  • @DB-ro2gu
    @DB-ro2gu Рік тому

    I was a huge social media addict but for the past 1.5 yrs I've only accessed instagram 3-4 times. I uninstalled it and i feel it made me realise just how much it stressed me. Now when i open IG i feel anxious instantly looking at what others are upto and i don't hesitate to uninstall it again.

  • @dhruvkapadiya2083
    @dhruvkapadiya2083 Рік тому

    who is she??

  • @ayushi2540
    @ayushi2540 Рік тому

    I try my best, but I can't focus with social media so I just cut off from that

  • @ImmortalHappiness
    @ImmortalHappiness 6 місяців тому

    I just dont like the reaction you get from your parents when you want to delete your social media your parents act like its the end of the world like they will never see you again or something even though i am over seas for one year in the army i want to delete all this shit and stay gjost for a couple years even to get away from everyone