THANKYOU SOOOOOO MUCH DIDI!! I HAD BEEN FEELING THIS WAY FROM MORE THAN A YEAR AND THIS VERY DAY AS I WAS COMING BACK FROM MY SCHOOL AFTER PREBOARDS (yes I'm a class 12 student...that too from pcm side xD) I FINALLY DECIDED TO FACE IT ALL AND GET TO THE ROOTS AND THEN I FOUND THAT ALL MY EXCUSES AND FEARS AND PROBLEMS WERE SUPERFICIAL AND I KEPT ASKING MYSELF "KYO NAHI KIYA YE SAB"...AND RECIEVED NO GENUINE ANSWER...AND THEN I WENT TO JOURNALING AND FOR SEEKING HELP IN MY ROUTINE I CAME TO YT AND AFTER WATCHING IT I SAW THIS VERY VIDEO, IT TRULY RESONATED SOOOOOO WELL AS IF U ARE TELLING THE ANSWER OF THE SO VERY PROBLEM I WAS FACING AND IT CLICKED IN MY MIND THAT FROM ALL THAT I WAS FEELING THIS VOID WAS THE VERY CORE OF ALL THE PROBLEMS...I WAS LITERALLY DOING ALL 'SECRET NRG SHIFTERS' UNKNOWINGLY...TRYING TO FIND MYSELF... I DID MEDITATION TOOK WALKS TALKED TO MUM GRANDMOTHER DID WORKOUTS JOURNALING AND ALSO THE PEPTALK EVERYDAY IN THE MORNING AFTER I WAKEUP AND IT WAS THIS VERY VIDEO THAT NOT ONLY GAVE ME THE ANSWER BUT TOLD ME THE REAL PROBLEM I WAS FACING IN THE CORE WHICH WAS ACTUALLY KEEPING ME STUCK IN MY OLD LIFE!!! REALLY THANKYOU SOO MUCH ...I SAW YOUR INITIAL VIDEOS LAST YEAR WHEN YOUR WERE 1 MONTH BEFORE YOUR EXAM AND THAT TOO HELPED ME!! BTW, I DO NOT COMMENT ON ANYONES ANY VIDEO BUT AFTER THIS ONE I AM REALLY FEELING ENLIGHTENED SO I HAVE A INFORMATION THAT MIGHT ERADICATE YOUR PROBLEM OF FEELING BAD FROM HATE COMMENTS PERMANENTLY: (only if uh deeply meditate upon it and take time to reflect upon it) PEOPLE ONLY SEE WHAT THEY ARE BE IT ANY PLACE i.e. THEY SEE THEIR FLAWS IN YOUR GOODNESS WHICH THEY THEMSELVES ARE LACKING ...hope it helps!! Ty once again didi 😃😇
What really hurt is when you can't share your tough or depressed time with your best friend. When you scroll your contact list and don't find anybody to talk. It really hurts aa lot.
I am lone wolf. I did it by myself. I went against the grain, I NEVER HAD NO HELP. I never gave up. I made it through the pain. On top of the hill is where I remain.
My energy shifters :- ✓ Journalling( sometimes I just read which I wrote earlier, I am doing it from last 15 years!) ✓ Self talk ( one of the best thing. Tell yourself your story and be proud about it) ✓ Listening to TED TALKS ✓ self help books ✓ Music (light instrumental or old meaningful bollywood songs about life) ✓ Reading/listening to some Bhagwat Geeta or other great scriptures or stories from them(many good available on UA-cam too) ✓ Cooking for your close ones ✓ Play with kids(one of the best thereby) ✓ Earthing therapy 🌍 One of my fav quote of all time which actually narrates my learning of life till today is :- "The now is all there is" We are all just memories at the end....make sure to make the best one for you. Thankyou Ma'am. I can say you are a very learned person.
1. Mummy 2. In a dark room (introspection) 3. Meditation 4. Self talk on terrace 5. Punjabi music. Your energy shifters are same as mine..but priorities are different...i prefer 1. Music 2. Talk with mom 3. Walk on terrace or self talk. 4. Alone in room (introspection) 5. Meditate
Thanks a lot, I watch all your vid since u were 4.2k this is the first comment I am writing on your channel I am 23 and went a lot through my life specially in last 3 years because of financial conditions of family, managing my articleship , family and studies and specially after the demise of my father last year which gave me huge responsibilities on my shoulders while watching this video I realised that I waw never allowed to feel low or weak or never allowed to cry every one around me just said me be positive be strong etc. etc. after watching this I cried my heart out and now I am feeling light thanks to you for making me aware of this ❤️.
WHEN YOU DESCRIBED THE VOID FEELING I LITERALLY FELT IT........YOU REALLY GAVE GOOSEBUMPS....GOT RANDOMLY YOUR VIDEO FROM UA-cam RECOMMENDATIONS, BUT LISTENING TO YOUR OPINION AND THOUGHT PROCESS.....I AM LITTERALLY SURPRISED.
More than just studies and subjects CA Course needs mentors like you Ma'am to guide the students for dealing with pressure, depression and mental stress & the issues they face during this phase and also helping us in taking right decisions. Thanks a lot, Neha Ma'am ❤️🙂 I am able to feel the change.
When in doubt, speak out, seems like this is your true motto! I love talking to myself hence and always confront all emotions, apologize whenever I feel, or do something wrong!! Thanks for showing the path of acceptance, you're right we all are humans!!!
Aapke videos dekh kar padhne ke liye aur energy milti hai mai last 1 week se bahut low feel kr rahi ti lag rha tha ki kitna padai karu lekin yeh video dekhne ke bad maine apne aap ko ek acha sa relaxation diya aur abhi mujhe acha lag rha hai. Thank u so much for such an amazing videos
Akela hu pr adhura nhi Gira hu fasa nhi Dhere hu ruka nhi Thoda km h pr khtm nhi Akela hu adhura nhi Jang se h khudme Zakhmi hu mara nhi Thoda piche hu pr samay se hara nhi Akela hu adhura nhi Akela hu adhura nhi Thank u mam for guiding us I'm trying hard to become the best version of myself tryinn to understand my problems most imp. Tryin to understand myself
There are numerous channels but your channel is amazing. Some points I know internally but you put all the things in perspective. Thank-you for putting whole platter out there. As you description says aptly dilsetalk. No marketing, no false self motivation only true talk. ❤
Seriously....... I cant believe ki abhi mai yahi feel kar rai thi nd randomly phone mai yutube on kia nd aapka vedio a gaya, u r a motivaton for me, ki life mai faliure aapka future or aapko define nai karte, aap aik example ho ki galtiya kar ke bhi bht kuchh seekha ja sakta hai, so love urself❤ thankew so muchh.hume ye feel karane ke liye😊
Neha di you are the biggest inspiration for me, I lost all my hopes about exam you boosted up my confidence even I remember the day when I was very hopeless and just finding anything motivational so that at least I could sleep, that day I watched your video for the first time. Now it's been a routine of my to watch one of your video daily. It feels like you are just siting in front of me and I'm sharing all my problems to you and you are helping me to deal with my problems. How can your videos are these similar to my life....?? Thankyou so much di for boosting the moral of many students like me who almost gave up and lost all the hope. You are the RAY OF LIGHT in my life. 🥰🥰❤
I am not a CA aspirant but your such type of videos are relates to me,. In India every single students feel these things and also deal with this but unfortunately no one wants to talk about this, Thank you 👍 and also a lots of love ❤
this was needed due to online lec ,we all are losing the synergy between friends and most of us will lose friends in this age thank you for talking on this topic as ca student most of them can relate
Going to the terrace and giving pep talk to yourself.. Is the best thing❤❤Even I practice this and this helps! ✌🏻✌🏻 I want to add one more thing.. Sometimes it do happen, that we have friends or we were okay but as soon as we open Instagram or any social media.. We start to feel void and we think yaaar hamare to aise dost hi nhy hai nahi koi aisa group jiske sath itni masti karu and we end up feeling bad about our own self.. I feel, that's okay to be lonely sometimes.. Yaaar, atleast khud ko samjhne ka time milta hai.. And God is always there... And the most important thing is-*If you overcome that feeling, just go little further, you can connect the dots and finally you wil feel.. Wo situation kuch lesson dekar gya hai..
Whatever you just mentioned, I can completely relate to every bit of it. At times looking at people having all the fun while you’re either studying or working. It feels even more worst but we chose a career like CA which has it’s own struggle but also a different kind of success. It’s like the calm before the storm. Best wishes
Ma'am aapne itne pyaar se samjhaya aapki voice me hi itna assurance feel hua and yeh story ekdum real si lag rhi thi mujhe sunke yeh bohot acha laga thanks mam❤
This is what I really want to listen...each word really hits me...I know its going to be difficult to accept the reality ...but u helped me a lot .Thank u for being there to inspire us😊
Bahut acha samjhaya ek ek word 👍👍 mai last month tak bht depression se gujri hu but now i feel so good, calm and relaxed. Ab mujhe meri zindagi bahut achi lag rahi jabki mai akeli hu na koi dost jyada na bf no relationship and no insta and no fb... I feel so good now a days kyuki ab mai sirf apne sath samay beeta rahi hu last month tk isly depression me thi ki mai to akeli hu koi hai hi ni mere sath but aaj akeli hu to bhi bahut acha lagta khud k saath khud ko samay de rahi hu and specially career wise chize change huyi isly mainly itna sab ho paya but acha lag raha aaj kal bahut ❤️
Trueeeee, I had always considered myself as an extro, i hated going back to room, when I decided to go in hostel for 3-5 months I cried every single day but now, i think if I get out of that Mangla Gauri I can do anything, being alone was my biggest fear and during this I genuinely found that there lays an invincible summer in me! We all are just the same! I yet am very happy when my friends are around, I yet talk to my parents so much, i yet cry, i yet ask out my personal mentors(mainly teachers and chachu) for help but i feel that now i m not hollow without them, and i m really thankful that at 17 I have really gone through and discovered so much within:)
Kabhi teres pe aapke aate hi hawai chalne lagti hai... Kabhi video banate banate andhera ho jata hai... Kabhi neighbour ke ghar kaam chal raha hota hai to uska disturbance hota hai... Kabhi video banane ke liye lunch skip karna padta ha... Upar se itna saara Workload to hai hi.... In sab ke bawjood aap har 2/3 day mai ek video to upload karte hi ho,Sach mai Didi aap kitne dedicated ho and kitne efforts lagate ho hamre liye i have no words to express my gratitude... Hum to dhany ho gaye ki hume aap jaisa mentor mila. Thank you so much❤️ 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Ps: Hawa be like: Aaiye aapka intezar tha isliye aapke teres pe aate hi wo chalne lagti hai 😂😂😂😂😂
Pep talk to self and going to terrace everyday and plugging in earphones to listen my favourite songs has helped me a lot didi. Also, thinking and planning with pen paper works for me the best (didi has also told regarding this in some videos). I would suggest everyone to try that as well😇😇.
1. Do not force positivity allow yourself to vent out. 2.Accept 'it is what it is' and see what next step can be taken. 4.Find your energy shifters. 3. Meditate. 4. Give yourself a pep talk. 5. Listen to music / dance it out. 6. Avoid scrolling social media its just escapism. 8. Alone time is a blessing in disguise and do not see it as a curse and make the best out of it. 9. Remember that Tigers hunt alone unlike sheep that follow the crowd!
I will say it again CA degree has a great power. It can make everything possible. Being a finalist just a one big hit away from winning this long match of CA, looking at you I do feel ki yaar cheeje badlegi aur APNA TIME AAYEGA 😂😂 Thanks alot mam
This is so so relatable and the advice you give is JUST AMAZING!✨ The topics u make video on , is just what happens with us sometimes...thank you for this..❤️it's like an elder sister giving advice 💜💕🤍
Waah great sister 🙏🙏 Your suggestions about how to handle such situation when u r feeling so lonely are very pragmatic . Different ways of shifting your energy is awesome..
What a coincidence! It was only yesterday that I journaled about my current life situations, where feeling lonely was one of the prime themes. And today, I found this video! It felt like the universe spoke to me through you! Thank you so much di for your invaluable insights.
@@nandinisharma1118 It's simple. Whenever I feel too stressed out, I meditate a bit and calm my mind. Then I sit with a journal and start writing whatever thoughts come to my mind in that particular moment, letting my pen flow....after a few minutes, I start noticing certain repeating patterns. Then I summarize them and finally, identify my problem/s. After I gain clarity, I jot down possible solutions and action steps that I can take next. The whole process hardly takes some 1/2 hour or so...I think we MUST give at least this much time towards self development! This practice has changed my life significantly. It has become my best 'energy shifter'! You can try it too and see if it works out for you.
I am evolving with your thoughts. 😊😊😊😊 Commenting for the first time... My biggest problem got solved 🎈🎈... Thank you neha didu... I am watching your videos since long time.. But never commented..I comment under videos very rarely...🌟🌟 Thank you very much neha didi... You don't know how much you have helped me...I can't thank enough... 😊😊 I wish you tons of success in your life 😍
Randomly got this recommendation video...n u know its most needed one right now...then I went through different videos of ur channel...u are doing a great job di...ur poems ur guidance..wonderful...keep it up
I am CA because of her....her affirmation videos I used to listen & When my FR paper wasn't good in Dec 21 cycle. I downloaded her videos in audio format and listen everyday. It helps me to manage my further papers. Further She also help me to keep my channel growing #ToBeConsistent
Thank you I personally feel this because sometime I feel lonely and no one support me even my family member not support me thank You for give solution......
Very Simple.Mobile ko Life mat banao and second thing is gharwalo ke saath baat karna start karo.Mobile ke piche aaj hum sab itne paagal ho chuke hai ke bina mobile aur bina internet ke bina hum ek ghanta bhi nahi nikal paate.yahi vajah hai ke aaj har koi khud ko depressed and alone fill karta hai.To mobile ko rakho side and ghar walo ke saath baat karna karo start.
I literally feel the tear of joy. your each line is worth listening di. i have been feeling so messed up. but, after watching your talks i felt good and you gave me a hope light. lots of love di. I am grateful that I came across to your channel. :)
What a great motivation, I do the same as she said I is the ultimate truth that when u are distant and alone at any point of your life it is a one time thing that makes you or breaks you if u choose to stay positive and hold ur self up alone you can survive rest of your whole life even if any bad situation arises
Since a few months i've experienced the same with me, I was living in hostel so couldn't really help out myself and always sad that there's no one to whom shoulders I can cry on. You said right talking to mom is therapy but sometimes she says "be more practical and say it clearly " which can't be extended further. I'm back to my home since few weeks and i've realised the same you said. God has given us a chance to focus on self improvement and know what's the right thing to do or act when you feel low. Thank you ma'am , your content makes us feel that we aren't alone, everyone is fighting a battle within their own and we need to win it from ourselves by ourself. 😊
How did you overcome that? Cause you see I lost 2 of my closest friends whom I happen to meet 8 months before. But we got along really well. But the problem is hostel. I live in hostel where I see them constantly hanging out with thier new friends. One of them has stopped talking to completely and the other doesn't begin any convo from her side. She only answers when I ask her a question. What should I do? I always think I have made some progress, but I when see them so happy with thier new friend, I come back to square 1. Please help me.
@@fjtay you know at this point of time I see none of my friends being any helpful to me for my peace or anything. At the end it's just me with my myself, alone. Ik it's really difficult but it's not always necessary to have someone to hangout with, if you could learn this thing, bro you'd crack a huge code the best early possible. I don't crave for friendships anymore, just protecting my peace. Lastly I don't know how much my response is gonna help but I tried :)
This was exactly what I was feeling...Do you have telepathy waali superpower.... exactly right before this I was journalling...I have given a name to my journal ...that gives a personalized feeling to it...and a sense of satisfaction that somebody is listening to me
I learnt to stand alone than in crowd during my college days..Present is pressured but looking at the past makes me feel ..yeah I stood alone for myself..thanks to me
I can relate my life with those people, I am first bencher and I want to flash a good impression on my teachers but the fact is I don't have so many frnds. Actually frnds he nhi hai .koi jesee bat karo . When I see there wtsap statusI fell like I have no social life at all. I fell very depressed ... And these video literally lit my confidence . I am ok...
Sab ke sath aisa hi hota hai. Jaise jaise Insan ki age badhegi waise waise log apni life se dur hote jayenge. Mera ek bachpan ka dost jiske sath 12tak sath rahe. IIT se pass out hai. Usne muje shadi mai tak nahi bulaya aur na phone karke bataya ki maine love marriage ki. Sirf parents bro sis hi Permenant rehte hai. 😊😊🙂
Social media ki life real life se alag hai. Do din pahele maine Instagram mai ek photo dali jab mai restaurant mai gaya tha 😂, logo ko lagega ki akhil mauj kar raha hai. But uss samay mai akela hi gaya tha. Jo dikhta hai aisa hota nahi. Why are u so depressed. Mere to kahi Sare dost the. Almost sabhi Canada chale gaye aaj muje call tak nahi karte.
Mai kabhi Garden jata hun to bujurg logo se hours tak baat karta hu, nayi chize janta hu. Aise hi social relation banata hu. Aap try kijiye... Acha lagega. Bye.
All the things you said I'm so happy that even I do the same😀 Mai bhi mumma se Apne thoughts share Karti hoon🤗...yes it's a therapy as you said ☺️💓.... But yeh shant ho jaane wali baat jab se Aapne boli hai I'm literally following this and this is just amazing dii ❤️🙏....apke videos bhi Kisi therapy se Kam Nahi Didi☺️💓... Thank you so much 💟💟
Yarr.....so much needed this really really thank you ....❤️ Everything is just damn relatable and uk what you have solution for my every problem so God sent u on this earth to guide person like me in their lives . God bless you dear and keep it up !
Guys dont worry bass thoda aur push karo apne aap ko.. Even i was feeling very depressed ...itna ki like i was about to give up on life bcoz growth hi nhi thi life me...nd some other reasons...bohot tough tha 2021 for me it was year of Great depression for me ...later on i went to psycologist nd there i saw sth which made me confident... I saw Picture of deepika padukone,amitabh bacchan,SRK,The RoCk,alber,kapil sharma,JK Rowling nd many more So dont worry if u feel lonely or depressed ite just short term ...life me u will achieve great ...keep smiling always ...God is with you
Di , I m Neet Aspirant , I m 3rd dropper now 🥺 I feeling so much Exhaust, depressed ...but you know your vdo help me a lot ❤ I can relate you most of the things that you felt that time 😢
Hey.. Its also my 3rd drop for neet... Previous scores 302,532 ..now targeting 670+❤ Online study is very heavy 😢no friends at surroundings .. Tell me your story and scores.. If u are interested..
i am your follower since i was watched your video of fear of exams and now i m truly glad to watch your every video, your tips are superficial level practical and easier to absorb it fully . This is video is needed to me from my past five years of continuing stuggles from my study. i have been doing well in my life like meditation, do lot of study , gaming, exercise , yoga and so many stuffs of personality behaviour and upgrading my self . But i feel bad at something from external demotivating things like koi kuch bol deta tha to mai dar jata tha ya fir usko mann leta tha to dukhi ho jata tha. or something inside in me that making me vulnerable and void . now, today i found from this video that i was not do only one thing and that is allow my self to feel that moment . this is super cure and tips of my problem . Thank you so much mam or didi...you are awesome . .....😊❣❣❣❣❣🙏🙏🙏 thnk you thnk you and thank you .....aap khus rhe aur aap aise hi aage badhti rhe aur help krti rhe...aap ka dream pura ho mam or ek din aap ek bdi influencer bane...i pray to god for this...🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂
THANKYOU SOOOOOO MUCH DIDI!!
I HAD BEEN FEELING THIS WAY FROM MORE THAN A YEAR AND THIS VERY DAY AS I WAS COMING BACK FROM MY SCHOOL AFTER PREBOARDS (yes I'm a class 12 student...that too from pcm side xD)
I FINALLY DECIDED TO FACE IT ALL AND GET TO THE ROOTS AND THEN I FOUND THAT ALL MY EXCUSES AND FEARS AND PROBLEMS WERE SUPERFICIAL AND I KEPT ASKING MYSELF "KYO NAHI KIYA YE SAB"...AND RECIEVED NO GENUINE ANSWER...AND THEN I WENT TO JOURNALING AND FOR SEEKING HELP IN MY ROUTINE I CAME TO YT AND AFTER WATCHING IT I SAW THIS VERY VIDEO, IT TRULY RESONATED SOOOOOO WELL AS IF U ARE TELLING THE ANSWER OF THE SO VERY PROBLEM I WAS FACING AND IT CLICKED IN MY MIND THAT FROM ALL THAT I WAS FEELING THIS VOID WAS THE VERY CORE OF ALL THE PROBLEMS...I WAS LITERALLY DOING ALL 'SECRET NRG SHIFTERS' UNKNOWINGLY...TRYING TO FIND MYSELF... I DID MEDITATION TOOK WALKS TALKED TO MUM GRANDMOTHER DID WORKOUTS JOURNALING AND ALSO THE PEPTALK EVERYDAY IN THE MORNING AFTER I WAKEUP AND IT WAS THIS VERY VIDEO THAT NOT ONLY GAVE ME THE ANSWER BUT TOLD ME THE REAL PROBLEM I WAS FACING IN THE CORE WHICH WAS ACTUALLY KEEPING ME STUCK IN MY OLD LIFE!!!
REALLY THANKYOU SOO MUCH
...I SAW YOUR INITIAL VIDEOS LAST YEAR WHEN YOUR WERE 1 MONTH BEFORE YOUR EXAM AND THAT TOO HELPED ME!!
BTW, I DO NOT COMMENT ON ANYONES ANY VIDEO BUT AFTER THIS ONE I AM REALLY FEELING ENLIGHTENED SO I HAVE A INFORMATION THAT MIGHT ERADICATE YOUR PROBLEM OF FEELING BAD FROM HATE COMMENTS PERMANENTLY:
(only if uh deeply meditate upon it and take time to reflect upon it)
PEOPLE ONLY SEE WHAT THEY ARE
BE IT ANY PLACE
i.e. THEY SEE THEIR FLAWS IN YOUR GOODNESS WHICH THEY THEMSELVES ARE LACKING
...hope it helps!!
Ty once again didi 😃😇
In one word ladki ko ladka chahiye...aur ladke ko ladki chahiye...
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Thank u so much❤
You don't wake up at 2am ... Sleepless nights triggers tinnitus. Sleep is the most important.
What really hurt is when you can't share your tough or depressed time with your best friend. When you scroll your contact list and don't find anybody to talk. It really hurts aa lot.
Yaa , I always feel this moment . but dont worry always live happily with yourself 😊
mere se bt krlo chaho to
Ryt.. Otherwise I stand strong but IDK why I m feeling this highly today 🥺
U don’t need to share anything keep it to ur self
So true
"Standing with crowd is easy. It takes courage to stand alone."
Yeah u r right ❤️
I live my life alone all the time ,its not courage which makes solitude joyful ..it's clarity in mind which makes solitude blissful
Right 💯💯
True👍
Good
My energy shifters:-
1) Gym
2) Mummy Papa ka happy face
3) Talking to myself
4) Visualing the day I achieve my goals
Very true💯💯
. 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
I'm lonely depresssd from my childhood😢💔. But now I'm mentally stronger
@@tanu9545 hi can we be frnds
❤️❤️
"काफी अकेला हू.. पर
अकेला ही काफी हू"! 🖖
This one line is enough for loneliness!
Sahi baat h bhai 👌
I am lone wolf. I did it by myself. I went against the grain, I NEVER HAD NO HELP. I never gave up. I made it through the pain. On top of the hill is where I remain.
someone with the same energy as mine.. 🥂
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@@gooat1729same heree😊🎉
❤️🤝🏻🙌🏻
I can feel you 😢😊 With the same motivation 😉💪 and intention to succeed in life
When we are DEPRESSED we feel everything on planet are happier except us 😂
Correct
My energy shifters :-
✓ Journalling( sometimes I just read which I wrote earlier, I am doing it from last 15 years!)
✓ Self talk ( one of the best thing. Tell yourself your story and be proud about it)
✓ Listening to TED TALKS
✓ self help books
✓ Music (light instrumental or old meaningful bollywood songs about life)
✓ Reading/listening to some Bhagwat Geeta or other great scriptures or stories from them(many good available on UA-cam too)
✓ Cooking for your close ones
✓ Play with kids(one of the best thereby)
✓ Earthing therapy 🌍
One of my fav quote of all time which actually narrates my learning of life till today is :-
"The now is all there is"
We are all just memories at the end....make sure to make the best one for you.
Thankyou Ma'am. I can say you are a very learned person.
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❤❤
Journaling is magic! I just completed a decade of it, and everytime I read my notes, I connect the dots...
@@SumitGupta-ys7lb Can relate, it's such a wonderful feeling everytime!
What's earthing therapy?
Jo insaan bachpan se akela hai usne apne aap ko kitna samjhaya honga 😊☺️🫠
Meri baat kr rhe aap ?🙂
1. Mummy
2. In a dark room (introspection)
3. Meditation
4. Self talk on terrace
5. Punjabi music.
Your energy shifters are same as mine..but priorities are different...i prefer
1. Music
2. Talk with mom
3. Walk on terrace or self talk.
4. Alone in room (introspection)
5. Meditate
My energy shifters
1. Motivational songs
2. 5min stretching
3. Tea break
4. To do
5. Sleep
6. Cooking
7. Meditation
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How to do sister meditation pls help I am feel alone too pls help
Hello can we talk??
Right, jab hum khud ko behtar insaan banane pe focus karne lagte hai to life apne aap behtar hone lagti hai. 🙂
I used to call my friend to vent out my sadness.... Then he used to tell his problems which are more depressing than mine 🤣
No one can understand the other person… don’t waste your energy telling others
Lol 😂
Last line " You are worth..."
: Really very touchy. Thank you very much for this one.💙
Thanks a lot, I watch all your vid since u were 4.2k this is the first comment I am writing on your channel I am 23 and went a lot through my life specially in last 3 years because of financial conditions of family, managing my articleship , family and studies and specially after the demise of my father last year which gave me huge responsibilities on my shoulders while watching this video I realised that I waw never allowed to feel low or weak or never allowed to cry every one around me just said me be positive be strong etc. etc. after watching this I cried my heart out and now I am feeling light thanks to you for making me aware of this ❤️.
Sending all the blessings your way ❤️
You are strong!
God bless u 🫂♥️
Trust me, if you can cry & vent you, you are emotionally strong. And this is a scientific fact! Well done! First step taken!
More power to u
WHEN YOU DESCRIBED THE VOID FEELING I LITERALLY FELT IT........YOU REALLY GAVE GOOSEBUMPS....GOT RANDOMLY YOUR VIDEO FROM UA-cam RECOMMENDATIONS, BUT LISTENING TO YOUR OPINION AND THOUGHT PROCESS.....I AM LITTERALLY SURPRISED.
Just needed this right now.You are a blessing 😭
More than just studies and subjects
CA Course needs mentors like you Ma'am
to guide the students for dealing with pressure, depression and mental stress & the issues they face during this phase
and also helping us in taking right decisions.
Thanks a lot, Neha Ma'am ❤️🙂
I am able to feel the change.
When in doubt, speak out, seems like this is your true motto! I love talking to myself hence and always confront all emotions, apologize whenever I feel, or do something wrong!! Thanks for showing the path of acceptance, you're right we all are humans!!!
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Mam aap ke bato se hmne khush rahna sikha life me age badhna sikha ...aap ke liye mere dil me bahot bahot respect h ❤️😇
Aapke videos dekh kar padhne ke liye aur energy milti hai mai last 1 week se bahut low feel kr rahi ti lag rha tha ki kitna padai karu lekin yeh video dekhne ke bad maine apne aap ko ek acha sa relaxation diya aur abhi mujhe acha lag rha hai. Thank u so much for such an amazing videos
Akela hu pr adhura nhi
Gira hu fasa nhi
Dhere hu ruka nhi
Thoda km h pr khtm nhi
Akela hu adhura nhi
Jang se h khudme
Zakhmi hu mara nhi
Thoda piche hu pr samay se hara nhi
Akela hu adhura nhi
Akela hu adhura nhi
Thank u mam for guiding us I'm trying hard to become the best version of myself tryinn to understand my problems most imp. Tryin to understand myself
Impressive bro🫡
There are numerous channels but your channel is amazing. Some points I know internally but you put all the things in perspective. Thank-you for putting whole platter out there. As you description says aptly dilsetalk. No marketing, no false self motivation only true talk. ❤
Seriously....... I cant believe ki abhi mai yahi feel kar rai thi nd randomly phone mai yutube on kia nd aapka vedio a gaya, u r a motivaton for me, ki life mai faliure aapka future or aapko define nai karte, aap aik example ho ki galtiya kar ke bhi bht kuchh seekha ja sakta hai, so love urself❤ thankew so muchh.hume ye feel karane ke liye😊
You truly justify the hashtag!
Thanks alot ma’am! Could highly relate ♥️
Great maturity and wisdom! Thanks for posting this beautiful content.
Wise words! Self pep talk & calling mom are my constants too✨️
Aww..... So sweet you are neha.... ❤... Kitne acche se share krti ho khud k experiences... Lovely voice..
Neha di you are the biggest inspiration for me, I lost all my hopes about exam you boosted up my confidence even I remember the day when I was very hopeless and just finding anything motivational so that at least I could sleep, that day I watched your video for the first time. Now it's been a routine of my to watch one of your video daily. It feels like you are just siting in front of me and I'm sharing all my problems to you and you are helping me to deal with my problems. How can your videos are these similar to my life....?? Thankyou so much di for boosting the moral of many students like me who almost gave up and lost all the hope. You are the RAY OF LIGHT in my life. 🥰🥰❤
Love to hear such great things from u ❣️ really feel blessed to have a motivator like u ...
What a humble person she is ❤ She is an epitome of hope and light! You're an inspiration didi🤗
This dilsetalk series is wonderful sach mai aapki baat dil ko chu jati hai Thank you 🙏
I am not a CA aspirant but your such type of videos are relates to me,. In India every single students feel these things and also deal with this but unfortunately no one wants to talk about this, Thank you 👍 and also a lots of love ❤
this was needed due to online lec ,we all are losing the synergy between friends and most of us will lose friends in this age thank you for talking on this topic as ca student most of them can relate
Same bro Yaar
I have been In online classes from last 2 years.. On frnds no.. Enjoyments..
@@princepandey2697 same here
Same happening to me rn! Glad to see I'm not alone in this journey.
u r a pure soul...who can understand human's each pains of life's journey 🙏🏻
Yaar.....kitta awesome video banaye ho
So relatable 🥺 so helpful 🤗
Going to the terrace and giving pep talk to yourself.. Is the best thing❤❤Even I practice this and this helps! ✌🏻✌🏻
I want to add one more thing.. Sometimes it do happen, that we have friends or we were okay but as soon as we open Instagram or any social media.. We start to feel void and we think yaaar hamare to aise dost hi nhy hai nahi koi aisa group jiske sath itni masti karu and we end up feeling bad about our own self..
I feel, that's okay to be lonely sometimes.. Yaaar, atleast khud ko samjhne ka time milta hai..
And God is always there... And the most important thing is-*If you overcome that feeling, just go little further, you can connect the dots and finally you wil feel.. Wo situation kuch lesson dekar gya hai..
Same yar
I must Say these self pep talks are damm good dude🌸 even i follow these
Me too.. Di you are just like me
@@aditi_17 same situation
Whatever you just mentioned, I can completely relate to every bit of it. At times looking at people having all the fun while you’re either studying or working. It feels even more worst but we chose a career like CA which has it’s own struggle but also a different kind of success. It’s like the calm before the storm. Best wishes
Listening to your videos is my energy shifter🙏
Ma'am aapne itne pyaar se samjhaya aapki voice me hi itna assurance feel hua and yeh story ekdum real si lag rhi thi mujhe sunke yeh bohot acha laga thanks mam❤
your voice is sweet, matured and fells like therapy.❤
You are my energy shifter
Your videos did change my mood🥺🥺🥺❤️
This is what I really want to listen...each word really hits me...I know its going to be difficult to accept the reality ...but u helped me a lot .Thank u for being there to inspire us😊
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Thank you so much! Just wanted to say what you are doing is so meaningful! People need you! You're doing a great job😊
Solution is 100% appropriate. Highly praiseworthy.Thank u very much.
No maa no father without parents life can't imagine but slowly slowly I'm growing maa papa bless me 😢 miss you
Bahut acha samjhaya ek ek word 👍👍 mai last month tak bht depression se gujri hu but now i feel so good, calm and relaxed. Ab mujhe meri zindagi bahut achi lag rahi jabki mai akeli hu na koi dost jyada na bf no relationship and no insta and no fb... I feel so good now a days kyuki ab mai sirf apne sath samay beeta rahi hu last month tk isly depression me thi ki mai to akeli hu koi hai hi ni mere sath but aaj akeli hu to bhi bahut acha lagta khud k saath khud ko samay de rahi hu and specially career wise chize change huyi isly mainly itna sab ho paya but acha lag raha aaj kal bahut ❤️
One of the best talks i have ever heard....so practical and real!!!
Trueeeee, I had always considered myself as an extro, i hated going back to room, when I decided to go in hostel for 3-5 months I cried every single day but now, i think if I get out of that Mangla Gauri I can do anything, being alone was my biggest fear and during this I genuinely found that there lays an invincible summer in me! We all are just the same! I yet am very happy when my friends are around, I yet talk to my parents so much, i yet cry, i yet ask out my personal mentors(mainly teachers and chachu) for help but i feel that now i m not hollow without them, and i m really thankful that at 17 I have really gone through and discovered so much within:)
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Kabhi teres pe aapke aate hi hawai chalne lagti hai...
Kabhi video banate banate andhera ho jata hai...
Kabhi neighbour ke ghar kaam chal raha hota hai to uska disturbance hota hai...
Kabhi video banane ke liye lunch skip karna padta ha...
Upar se itna saara Workload to hai hi....
In sab ke bawjood aap har 2/3 day mai ek video to upload karte hi ho,Sach mai Didi aap kitne dedicated ho and kitne efforts lagate ho hamre liye i have no words to express my gratitude...
Hum to dhany ho gaye ki hume aap jaisa mentor mila.
Thank you so much❤️
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Ps: Hawa be like: Aaiye aapka intezar tha isliye aapke teres pe aate hi wo chalne lagti hai 😂😂😂😂😂
The fact is many have reached to the point that they can't even cry their heart out. 😢
So nice mam, u are handling issues in a more practical way than unnecessarily dumping positivity 😊
Gr8 job :)
Pep talk to self and going to terrace everyday and plugging in earphones to listen my favourite songs has helped me a lot didi. Also, thinking and planning with pen paper works for me the best (didi has also told regarding this in some videos). I would suggest everyone to try that as well😇😇.
Same things...😆
1. Do not force positivity allow yourself to vent out.
2.Accept 'it is what it is' and see what next step can be taken.
4.Find your energy shifters.
3. Meditate.
4. Give yourself a pep talk.
5. Listen to music / dance it out.
6. Avoid scrolling social media its just escapism.
8. Alone time is a blessing in disguise and do not see it as a curse and make the best out of it.
9. Remember that Tigers hunt alone unlike sheep that follow the crowd!
you look so calm...so composed. Accha sa lag raha hai sun kar.
Well said, thanks for addressing all these issues
I will say it again CA degree has a great power. It can make everything possible.
Being a finalist just a one big hit away from winning this long match of CA, looking at you I do feel ki yaar cheeje badlegi aur APNA TIME AAYEGA 😂😂
Thanks alot mam
Your "Cute Smile" is my energy shifter... 😊🥰
You r very honest Person..All the words come through you...& I appreciate that.
Thanku neha ❤❤ waheguru g bless u dear, just hi apka ye video dekha, mujhe solution mil gya, i am very grateful for this video. Stay blessed 😊
This is so so relatable and the advice you give is JUST AMAZING!✨ The topics u make video on , is just what happens with us sometimes...thank you for this..❤️it's like an elder sister giving advice 💜💕🤍
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This was the much needed video as i am going through the same phase rn! Thankyou so much for this.🥺❤
Same
Neha I just cant express my gratitude in words.....thanks alot saviour
Waah great sister 🙏🙏 Your suggestions about how to handle such situation when u r feeling so lonely are very pragmatic . Different ways of shifting your energy is awesome..
What a coincidence! It was only yesterday that I journaled about my current life situations, where feeling lonely was one of the prime themes. And today, I found this video! It felt like the universe spoke to me through you! Thank you so much di for your invaluable insights.
I'm so lonely, will you be my friend on social media?
How to journal like this?
@@nandinisharma1118 It's simple. Whenever I feel too stressed out, I meditate a bit and calm my mind. Then I sit with a journal and start writing whatever thoughts come to my mind in that particular moment, letting my pen flow....after a few minutes, I start noticing certain repeating patterns. Then I summarize them and finally, identify my problem/s. After I gain clarity, I jot down possible solutions and action steps that I can take next. The whole process hardly takes some 1/2 hour or so...I think we MUST give at least this much time towards self development!
This practice has changed my life significantly. It has become my best 'energy shifter'! You can try it too and see if it works out for you.
I am evolving with your thoughts. 😊😊😊😊 Commenting for the first time... My biggest problem got solved 🎈🎈... Thank you neha didu... I am watching your videos since long time.. But never commented..I comment under videos very rarely...🌟🌟 Thank you very much neha didi... You don't know how much you have helped me...I can't thank enough... 😊😊 I wish you tons of success in your life 😍
u r so relatable ...to everyone's inner thoughts...kudos to u
Randomly got this recommendation video...n u know its most needed one right now...then I went through different videos of ur channel...u are doing a great job di...ur poems ur guidance..wonderful...keep it up
Really a great therapy speech, awesome, I'll utilise this Alone time...
"Energy Shifters" great idea 💡
I am CA because of her....her affirmation videos I used to listen & When my FR paper wasn't good in Dec 21 cycle. I downloaded her videos in audio format and listen everyday. It helps me to manage my further papers.
Further She also help me to keep my channel growing #ToBeConsistent
Thank you I personally feel this because sometime I feel lonely and no one support me even my family member not support me thank You for give solution......
Jabtak hum khudki hamdard nehi bante,
Tabatak dard humse juda nehi hota..
Be your own best friend❤️🤗
Very Simple.Mobile ko Life mat banao and second thing is gharwalo ke saath baat karna start karo.Mobile ke piche aaj hum sab itne paagal ho chuke hai ke bina mobile aur bina internet ke bina hum ek ghanta bhi nahi nikal paate.yahi vajah hai ke aaj har koi khud ko depressed and alone fill karta hai.To mobile ko rakho side and ghar walo ke saath baat karna karo start.
You are so motivating ma'am ❤️ I'm a NEET aspirant but your videos are so helpful.. thankyouu so much😇
Sameee
Wish you all the best 🤝
Same ....I saw her channel ..yesterday
Too much relatable
Thank you so much ❤
I also do the same thing didi and you tell that exactly 🤠😅 thank you 😊 Didi.. you are really become one of my mentor 😊😊
There is a difference between "Being alone" and "spend time lonely" and that We need to understand.
Exactlyy!!
I literally feel the tear of joy. your each line is worth listening di. i have been feeling so messed up. but, after watching your talks i felt good and you gave me a hope light. lots of love di. I am grateful that I came across to your channel. :)
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What a great motivation, I do the same as she said I is the ultimate truth that when u are distant and alone at any point of your life it is a one time thing that makes you or breaks you if u choose to stay positive and hold ur self up alone you can survive rest of your whole life even if any bad situation arises
Thanks for a practical solutions .feeling peaceful after heard you. Keep shining
Since a few months i've experienced the same with me, I was living in hostel so couldn't really help out myself and always sad that there's no one to whom shoulders I can cry on. You said right talking to mom is therapy but sometimes she says "be more practical and say it clearly " which can't be extended further. I'm back to my home since few weeks and i've realised the same you said. God has given us a chance to focus on self improvement and know what's the right thing to do or act when you feel low. Thank you ma'am , your content makes us feel that we aren't alone, everyone is fighting a battle within their own and we need to win it from ourselves by ourself. 😊
How did you overcome that? Cause you see I lost 2 of my closest friends whom I happen to meet 8 months before. But we got along really well. But the problem is hostel. I live in hostel where I see them constantly hanging out with thier new friends. One of them has stopped talking to completely and the other doesn't begin any convo from her side. She only answers when I ask her a question. What should I do? I always think I have made some progress, but I when see them so happy with thier new friend, I come back to square 1. Please help me.
@@fjtay you know at this point of time I see none of my friends being any helpful to me for my peace or anything. At the end it's just me with my myself, alone. Ik it's really difficult but it's not always necessary to have someone to hangout with, if you could learn this thing, bro you'd crack a huge code the best early possible. I don't crave for friendships anymore, just protecting my peace. Lastly I don't know how much my response is gonna help but I tried :)
This was exactly what I was feeling...Do you have telepathy waali superpower.... exactly right before this I was journalling...I have given a name to my journal ...that gives a personalized feeling to it...and a sense of satisfaction that somebody is listening to me
Har insaan akela hai you are no exception......☺
I learnt to stand alone than in crowd during my college days..Present is pressured but looking at the past makes me feel ..yeah I stood alone for myself..thanks to me
I can relate my life with those people, I am first bencher and I want to flash a good impression on my teachers but the fact is I don't have so many frnds. Actually frnds he nhi hai .koi jesee bat karo . When I see there wtsap statusI fell like I have no social life at all. I fell very depressed ... And these video literally lit my confidence . I am ok...
Sab ke sath aisa hi hota hai. Jaise jaise Insan ki age badhegi waise waise log apni life se dur hote jayenge. Mera ek bachpan ka dost jiske sath 12tak sath rahe. IIT se pass out hai. Usne muje shadi mai tak nahi bulaya aur na phone karke bataya ki maine love marriage ki. Sirf parents bro sis hi Permenant rehte hai. 😊😊🙂
Social media ki life real life se alag hai. Do din pahele maine Instagram mai ek photo dali jab mai restaurant mai gaya tha 😂, logo ko lagega ki akhil mauj kar raha hai. But uss samay mai akela hi gaya tha. Jo dikhta hai aisa hota nahi. Why are u so depressed. Mere to kahi Sare dost the. Almost sabhi Canada chale gaye aaj muje call tak nahi karte.
Mai kabhi Garden jata hun to bujurg logo se hours tak baat karta hu, nayi chize janta hu. Aise hi social relation banata hu. Aap try kijiye... Acha lagega. Bye.
All the things you said I'm so happy that even I do the same😀 Mai bhi mumma se Apne thoughts share Karti hoon🤗...yes it's a therapy as you said ☺️💓.... But yeh shant ho jaane wali baat jab se Aapne boli hai I'm literally following this and this is just amazing dii ❤️🙏....apke videos bhi Kisi therapy se Kam Nahi Didi☺️💓... Thank you so much 💟💟
Agar kisi ki mummy usse bat nhi karti ho too kya Karen ...😅
Yarr.....so much needed this really really thank you ....❤️ Everything is just damn relatable and uk what you have solution for my every problem so God sent u on this earth to guide person like me in their lives .
God bless you dear and keep it up !
Yeh sahi hai mein bht din se answer dhund rha tha ki alone wala tym kyun ata hai and found the answer...thnx neha di♥️🙏🏻
My energy shifter is definitely cooking and eating and also watching your videos😚😚😚😚
Guys dont worry bass thoda aur push karo apne aap ko..
Even i was feeling very depressed ...itna ki like i was about to give up on life bcoz growth hi nhi thi life me...nd some other reasons...bohot tough tha 2021 for me it was year of Great depression for me ...later on i went to psycologist nd there i saw sth which made me confident...
I saw Picture of deepika padukone,amitabh bacchan,SRK,The RoCk,alber,kapil sharma,JK Rowling nd many more
So dont worry if u feel lonely or depressed ite just short term ...life me u will achieve great ...keep smiling always ...God is with you
Love you ma'am ❤
I felt each and every word of yours because i have been going through the same
Thanks again
Inspiring so many of us.... Through yr experience... Thanks neha 😊😊
Di , I m Neet Aspirant , I m 3rd dropper now 🥺 I feeling so much Exhaust, depressed ...but you know your vdo help me a lot ❤ I can relate you most of the things that you felt that time 😢
Hey.. Its also my 3rd drop for neet... Previous scores 302,532 ..now targeting 670+❤
Online study is very heavy 😢no friends at surroundings ..
Tell me your story and scores.. If u are interested..
@@ronimondal809 238,362... bohot health issues hai meri bt i m still keep working ...Iss year kisi tarike se nikalni hai Neet
My energy shifters are also as mentioned by you ❤️
Each think was so relatable.. 😊😊😊❤ so helpful acha lga di thanks for this
So much helpful, really appreciate your hardwork,keep motivating us.
Hare Krishna hare Krishna krishna krishna hare hare
Hare Ram Hare Ram Ram Ram Hare Hare
Chant this mahamantra and be happy
Criticism is something we can avoid easily by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing.
You are doing a great job, lots of love❤
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To bhi hoga😊
Your...meditation ...deep breathing exercises really helped....i can relate to every video of yours....❤❤❤
Yes. This is an excellent solution...❤
i am your follower since i was watched your video of fear of exams and now i m truly glad to watch your every video, your tips are superficial level practical and easier to absorb it fully . This is video is needed to me from my past five years of continuing stuggles from my study. i have been doing well in my life like meditation, do lot of study , gaming, exercise , yoga and so many stuffs of personality behaviour and upgrading my self . But i feel bad at something from external demotivating things like koi kuch bol deta tha to mai dar jata tha ya fir usko mann leta tha to dukhi ho jata tha. or something inside in me that making me vulnerable and void . now, today i found from this video that i was not do only one thing and that is allow my self to feel that moment . this is super cure and tips of my problem . Thank you so much mam or didi...you are awesome . .....😊❣❣❣❣❣🙏🙏🙏 thnk you thnk you and thank you .....aap khus rhe aur aap aise hi aage badhti rhe aur help krti rhe...aap ka dream pura ho mam or ek din aap ek bdi influencer bane...i pray to god for this...🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂