Internet and smart phone/ social media usage there is to blame... a few thousand foreign guys aren't going to change the dating game that fast. Exposure to western culture is what is ruining the world. Take care everyone.
May I ask you question? If it's that bad in America what do you expect these men to do? You have your wife and family and your happy! Why can't they do the same thing! Thank you.
Hi Calvin. I've got a question what about the older single filipina 40's and fifty year old. Are they adopting these same attitudes? Because seriously I'm not that interested in a lady that's under 37.
Dudes here in the US are just beat down. Slaving on the hamster wheel, doing the "right things", and for what? Bad marriage, ungrateful kids. PI gives guys a 2nd chance.
No y'all don't need a scond chance just stop the simping and take back your masculinity. All you simps are going to do is run away to another country and spread the simpin mentality just like what's happening now in the Philippines, stay home!!!
Extensive experience here in Philippines and with Filipina women. No expert, but yes attitudes are changing due to apps social media etc. I can still get under 25 girls at age 53 but it’s definitely changed since even 10 years ago. For a more secure relationship you can have better odds if she is 30 plus or a single mom. Do not spoil them unnecessarily but treat them well of course. Give them an inch and they will take a mile…trust me. Be firm and set limits with them. If they balk then move on and you’ll find one who will agree to your limits. 100’s of thousands await you. Just leave your simp game in the USA guys. Forget Most American woman. I was done with them in the early 90’s. My 2 pesos.
Thats big facts bro!!! You can't blame women or feminism or even social media, women are opportunistic since biblical times and will always try you. Unfortunately it's the simps and blokes that have messed the game up!!!
YES!!! Calvin, it's THAT BAD over here in America, the Feminist Movement has destroy the culture between men & women to the point that it is probably 90%+ irreparable. There's still a few good women left over here but it's now like playing "Russian Roulette" trying to find them, you wasting years or even decades trying to find that right one. Maaan, it's terrible. 😔
@@ericpowell4350 I completely agree, there is no saving it. I was merely spotlighting the issue & helping bolster the reasons for leaving this situation.
American women in general of marrying age are corrupted and not worth any effort unless she’s a pump and dump girl with no strings attached if your into that. Asian girls are still the best option IMO…just keep them in Asia unless you want to play the bring her here game and see how much she changes.
That's exactly how I feel. I was stationed in Subic in the 80's. Visited in 2017 to see if I wanted to retire there. As soon as I stepped out of the airport I felt younger again. I felt like me. 292 days to go.
When i first went to the Philippines 2010, smart phone wasnt a big thing here the women were very genuine i was the only foreigner in the province for 2 weeks every filipina would stare at me with curiosity and amazed. Today everyone has a phone, the western media, internet, feminism, globalization is easily spread through social media. the Filipina women are still amazing but nothing like how it was back in 2010 I've noticed a huge difference. Its still a great place to be a man just not as great as before.
I've been told that besides from México, the most immigrating people are from the Philippines. Of those many are women coming to the USA to marry American divorced men. The word is getting out that Filipina make good wives.
Agreed, Yes there are a few relationships working well in the states , But if my goal was a long term relationship with a lady from a different country then I will be adapting in said country. Once your lady meets Mamika, Keisha ,Mary Sue, Becky Jones, Wawanda, Sally Ann and the rest of the Feminazie Gang...GAME OVER!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@scottwang266 I disagree. You need to find local Filipina for them to talk to so they don't get board. Also if they have kids, it gives them something to do. So many divorced men don't want kids, I don't understand it....
@@scottwang266 I also disagree. My wife is friends with family oriented Filipinas here in the U.S. We all go to Church together and I know their husbands. We collective pray for one another and respect each others marriages. It doesn't have to be the way you described.
So many places if they dont want to act right! Great Video! Jakarta, Indonesia Bangkok, Thailand Bucharest, Romania Buenos Aires, Argentina Rio De Janeiro, Brazil Chisinau, Moldova Budapest, Hungary Stockholm, Sweden Prague, Czech Republic Wroclaw, Poland Sofia, Bulgaria Colombia Medellin Puerto Vallarta Mexico
@@Retired-jr3qs Yes, they see that blue passport just like the Philippines sees Blacks as nothing more than Americans! Black people need to stop with this victim or outcast mindset! If you can get there, you have already made a statement (income, status, mindset) Ghana, Tanzania, Rwanda. Kenya, Lagos Nigeria! The whole globe is your house; never settle brothers!
@@J.Shabazz Yes. The cost of living there and the ultra feminism of the women in Scandinavian countries is something else. I grew up in Norway and I dread going back for family events. Only thing I would say about Thailand and Indonesia. You can have a much better lifestyle and better relationship choices outside capitals. Many great cities and provences in Northern and Southern Thailand (77 provences in total there from memory). With infrastructure that makes the Phillipines look prehistoric. Jakarta is IMO the second worst major city in Asia after Manilla. Most expats hit up Bali or Lombok. There's great alternative locations on Java and even Sumatra where you will really be standing out as an expat. You will be living a much more provincial like lifestyle tho. People rave about the Phillipines 7000 Islands, Indonesia has 17000. People are sleeping on what a great country Indonesia is outside of Bali.
It will takes decades since there are thousands of island provinces. Best look at Luzon, Visayas islands and Northern Mindanao. Thousands of young women available if you have good moral intentions. Stay out of politics and religion and most of all don’t get involve in any form of drugs and human trafficking (sexpats with minors).
Seed planted, then the seed gets cultivated and the harvest soon follows. The world is the world and people are people. Those Filipinas who are taking advantage of vulnerable men , we can't be mad at them. Many live in what the Western world considers poverty and they are making the most of the situation. But like anything in life, it is all about the heart and we reap what we sow. Continue to help those you can and appreciate your content. Grateful,
People throwing their money around and overtipping will also ruin the image of foreigners. Sure we want to help but at the same time when we do, it becomes expected of us and when we don't do it then they get angry. We are shooting ourselves in the foot
Well said Calvin! I've noticed a difference even in the past 3 years. Women have too many options and online apps are allowing them to talk to several men at once.
If the men allow it then who's fault is it tho, you can do the same thing and if you met her on an app that WTH do you expect??? Simps need to stop playing themselves tryning blame everything else except their stupid decisions.
I watched a Filipina blogger today who’s boyfriend is sending her 10,000 pesos a week. Guys need to slow down and quit being so generous to women that you have never even been in the same room with. I don’t blame the Filipina for taking the cash 💰 blame the idiots who are so desperate. Men are going to create a nation of Pinay Big Shirley’s if they don’t slow down.
Don't bring Western way of thinking to Philippines. Leave that behind or else it will be too late for you. Don't teach the local Filipina that happiness is all about having more money, more material position and to be Westernized as a good thing. It will back fire on you and you will regret it.
Western men are the biggest simps and get what they deserve. Look at Arab men or men from nonwestern countries, they're not desperate bc they don't believe in simpin and most important they stay on code!
Make sure they are careful. Just sent over ten years there with my wife and one daughter.....been used the whole time with another man in her life. Being married there is to our disadvantage.
Sadly and with many things, after a while you realize sometimes we just can’t have good things. Calvin you’re always at the front of things.. thanks for sharing this important topic. Now listen up fellas.
Calvin, while other vloggers are saying there's millions of beautiful, good Filipinas to choose from, you're portraying the situation as a scarcity one. You might be right. Are you able to elaborate on the stats you read? For example, here are a few things that need to be known: 1) How many of those Americans are actually single? 2) How many are returning to a family they already have? 3) How many of these Americans are NOT descended from the Philippines? 4) Has it not occurred to people that perhaps with the last 2 years of no tourists that there's a natural surge in foreigners into a place like the PH? 5) While it may be that many Filipinas are asking for more financially well off foreigners today, that might be short lived. Because, there's another wave of Filipinas behind them turning 18 every year. 6) How many of those foreigners will just tuck tail and go back home because of weather, culture, bad infrastructure and getting fleeced by the bad girls? Combine 4) and 5) and we have a situation that may be short lived. Perhaps things are going in the direction you suggest. But, like all things in third world countries, it will be a slow, long process. I for one remain optimistic that even in 5 years, not much will have changed in terms of the quality and quantity of great women out there. Plus, there's other countries to go to, like Thailand, Malaysia, Indonesia. Not to mention some eastern European countries that are still good.
You have some good points Neil.I myself hope to visit there soon.I like very much Calvin’s vlog it has been very helpful for me to get my boots on in understanding what’s going on over there. But as I say you bring up some good points. Thy👍🏿
@@Mel50Mel i wouldn't worry about finding a good woman. Become the man good women are attracted to and they will show up. One of the best ways to meet local women is to become friends with other local women that you're not necessarily interested in. They will find good women for you. Of course, you must vette all of them. Don't be an idiot 😉
Calvin it's so bad here in America that the Philippines will never compare to what's going on here and I don't think it will, and actually blogers have been making tons of videos telling men to come to the Philippines for years but the problem is nobody expected things to go bad in America the way it has but even with that I think you don't have anything to worry about it's not time to panic over there yet but change is always coming no matter where you are that's just a fact.✌️👊
I hope Booby had a wonderful birthday Calvin! My daughter Stella’s birthday is on the 11th and is now 17, man does time fly. Great podcast and very informative for everyone considering heading over….I am very fortunate that I married late(34) and I got to experience a lot of sour in my life beforehand , so when I met my beautiful wife 18 years ago I knew or recognized what sweet was. There are still some good ones here stateside but they are definitely a rare commodity…. Have a fantastic day Calvin!
I’m in my late 30’s and setting myself up for early retirement. If I come to the Philippines it won’t be specifically to get with a Filipina. It would be for the lifestyle and cost of living.
Same here man. Cost of living is huge. If I can be retired at 40 instead of working until I'm in my 60s...that is just absolutely amazing. I don't plan on being single my whole life so if I move to the Philippines, yeah, I more than likely will get with a Filipina at some point, but really, the biggest selling point is just not having to waste my whole life working. If just having a foreign woman was the primary motivator I'd just get a mail order bride and a prenup.
I don't think the average age is forty thinking more like 62. You guys need to have some kind of income before even thinking of coming here to live. Last thing you want is to go broke out here. Take some vacations first. Good luck
@@stateofmind4341 Yeah I'll be set up. Shooting for 2m net worth so I'll have a budget around 6-7k a month if I want to live off my dividends, plus I got a half a pension from previous employment I can start collecting at 64 and I'll have social security waiting for me. Even if I take 10 years worth of zeros into my SS formula I still have enough years capping it that my payment will be like someone who made 80k a year for the full amount of years. Going broke out there wouldn't be my concern, my real concern would be taking the leap a few years early and realizing at 55 the numbers aren't going to work and I have to come back here and work until I'm SS age making 1/5th of what I'm making now.
@@randomyoutuber308 you good then. Obviously you did something right. My comment was gear for the guys trying to retire early which is not typical to have the wealth you accumulated. At forty i was reinventing myself after a divorce that i didn't see coming when the game plan was retirement at 40.real estate was and is good to me. I'm too dumb for the stock market. Good luck
Thanks Calvin,it was only a matter of time before everything changed.....its shattered my dreams of finding a filipina.....but it still wont stop me from visiting paradise.....so finding a filipina wont be a priority,but finding paradise withouit a filipina is still a priority....so ill keep my expectations grounded and keep other countries open....
It's funny that not long ago you guys were laughing at guys because they were not letting their "johnsons" dictate their moves. Now, you see what doing that gets you. I wouldn't worry about the changing situation too much myself. - How many guys over there able to maintain a comfortable lifestyle without working? Not many I would think. Being retired does have it's advantages. - If a guy is only there and bouncing around from country to country as a nomad vlogger...well...he isn't likely to be in one place very long. Adding a female to your travels is a unnecessary expense. - These guys that are marrying the first woman that smiles at them, and buying land and houses for them, without anything in their own name....well...you get what you pay for. Right up until she decides to alter the deal... I can't see the logic in it myself. I'm not in the habit of setting myself up to fail.
Guys are just as dumb here, women just play the game a little differently. I know a guy here that owned a home for 10 years then his fiance convinced him to do a cash out refinance because he could get a cheaper mortgage rate than her student loan rates. He paid off her student loans then she left him like a week later. If you are too stupid to say no and too stupid to protect assets you spent years of your own time accumulating, odds are, you'll find a woman willing to take advantage of you where ever you go.
@@randomyoutuber308 I agree. I would never marry a woman without a comprehensive pre-nup in place. It makes it very disadvantageous to just up and leave or do shady things. Everyone wants to provide for their mate, but the reality is 56% of marriages fail. Who in their right mind invests in a product with that kind of success rate. Some people are fortunate enough to have inheritances tied to their future. Without a plan...that would be accessible to your mate. I haven't even touched on the guys who decide to get with a woman that comes with a ready-made family. You, her, her kids, and any family she wants to add to the mix. Really? - That sounds like a good deal to you guys? There is nothing wrong with being a provider, but the question I always ask myself (and her), is how would she solve the problem if I wasn't around. If you speak Spanish or are willing to learn, you might want to look into Cali Colombia also. - That is a Black Man's paradise.
@@Ferenczy1966 Yeah the whole 'beta provider' thing gets slandered here like its a bad thing but I'd gladly have been a provider for the right woman. In my grandfather's generation...that was considered a real man, not a beta. A man took care of his family. What is really screwed up here is like you say, the divorce. If you are the provider in the relationship but you get various benefits in return and the relationship ends all your benefits go away...but the court orders you to still be the provider...well..you just got screwed hard. Buddy of mine got divorced recently after his now ex(who hasn't been employed in over a decade) cheated on him and moved out of state to live with another guy and he had to hand over 800k, refinance a paid off house to buy her out of half, pay alimony for 9 years, and when he retires in 15 years she gets a chunk of his pension. Somehow its fair men keep the women in the life they've become accustomed but she doesn't have to come over to cook him dinner and give him a bj 3 nights a week, do his laundry, and clean the house. Its such a one sided game, yeah, if you are going to play you should absolutely get a prenup and do what you can to protect yourself.
That's Correct.....Thinking with that little head......Hahahahahaha...They will learn the hard then deported..... Why because their will be a quick lesson in understanding what steady source of income means, property ownership, and culture difference they will be deported broke after the 3rd NUT......
So, I was fortunate to meet My wife here in Chicago simply by chance during a divorce. We’re moving to the Philippines for retirement in about 3-4 years. I tell all guys a different story. Everybody thinks the grass is greener on the other side and it isn’t. When you find a good one lock it in. Women these days are very different and think the same way you all do. And that’s a problem. There are too many diseases out here to be banging multiple women long term. Especially when they are going through you all like you’re going through them.
love the channel but you guys are acting like we americans just started comming her since you tube we been coming here since 1962 wow come on guys stay true and honest
Absolutely, so many expats want to bring divorce, the pill, foreign land ownership etc... to Phil that it will quickly turn into US. Baffling they don't understand that.
One minute, i.e two weeks ago, you're telling men how good it is for them in the Phillipines; you get called in by the Phillipines government and soon after you're saying things have changed. Phillipines has a population of 115 million and 40,000 men have changed the dating scene?
@@chaz3257 Calvin is doing great things with his UA-cam channel. I don't want to put him down. There are enough people out here doing that already I bet. I just feel this particular vid flew in the face of all he previously told us. The next vid I saw of his was about getting a visa. Useful but not as interesting as his usual stuff. I can sense a direction change coming in the type of content he will be producing. I hope I am wrong.
80,000 or 90,000 foreign men won’t be enough to satisfy 50 million Filipinas! I agree, I have noticed they are getting a lot more demanding/taking things for granite, particularly online. However, at the end of the day half of the men traveling won’t amount to much, and even with the influx of foreign men, someone making $3000 a month is still considered rich. and as long as you’re rich, your always get attractive woman. Lastly, I can’t speak for anyone but myself, if the Philippines ever really does get to the point where it becomes hard to meet and date an attractive woman, I will pull a Christopher Columbus and get right back on my discovery tip!
@@ellen5603 Yeah, but in fairness those 270,000 American men aren’t just competing with each other. They are competing with possibly 35 million Filipino men, as well as numerous other men from other foreign countries, China in particular. What should set American men apart is income and having more money than the majority of men in the Philippines, provided they are coming with incomes that are decent by American standards. Which means, $1000 a month isn’t going to cut it for the higher quality/beautiful filipinas, and probably never really did. It doesn’t even cross my mind to move her Philippines on a permanent basis, without bringing in at least $6000 a month. Now if that’s that’s still not enough to attract a Liza Soberano or Nadine Lustre, then it might be time to visit Vietnam or Laos!
@@chaz3257 some of the things you say sound a bit contradictory. In one breath you say American men are the prize, and then you’ll turn around and say not even if an American man makes “$10,000” a month is it possible for him to deal with the most beautiful women in the Philippines? Not even making $10,000 a month? Really? At $10,000-$15,000 a month, you can readily attract the type of look you want, even here in the United States. At that income, while not rich, you are no longer average. Also, I guess it depends on what you consider to be the “MOST beautiful” women in the Philippines. There is a lot of ground to cover between beautiful and MOST beautiful women in a given area. I think most men would be just fine with finding a girl who is simply beautiful. We don’t need her to have violet eyes or anything extremely over the top! I think the two Filipina actresses I listed above would do quite nicely by most American men’s standards.
Same thing i saw in thailand.. in pattaya just b4 coff lockouts the quality was dismal.. fuglies were becoming the norm.. and they were expecting to b treated as princesses i actually changed my mind about retiring there as well as chinese and indians flooding the place it was getting way to busy.. ive been told its better and much quieter now so its a bit better the chinese are not there yet but lots of indians and the thai dont like them because of their odour.. Anyhow i am thinkin of returning to look around again soon i hope since the restrictions are lifted.. Good to see your visit to thailand.. Yes it has some fun city life.. country still has good options.. i will probably visit cambodia too see how its looking.. they r growing quick there too.. have some skyscrapers in city now..lol..
Wow, that's crazy! I have no intentions on getting married but if I did get married it would be with a foreign woman. However, she would have to agree to a prenup...it is too late in the game to take any losses.
Preach it brotha...I didn't know trying to look for something better in the Philippines is making the women there becoming what we are avoiding in America. The reason why I am a sigma male, and staying to myself. If the good lord don't bless you with that special someone it's just not meant to be. You can be alone without being lonely and still live your best life. Sigma lifestyle.
Yeah lol. I wouldn't leave specifically because of the women here or to find a foreign woman, but the thing is if you don't get married or have kids its easy to save a ton of money, and if you don't have kids, you don't really have any vested interest in leaving society better than you found it...so single guys might as well just get their passports and take their money and run. No need to work into your 60s like your dad and your grandpas did.
@@perrykomick9478 Agreed! Best to test these locations. Preparation for a new Living Location especially overseas requires the use of thinking with the big head not the little one.....🙃
Calvin, I watch all of your vids but any man who lets a Filipina call the financial shots or jumps through hoops for one as you put it is a weak or desperate man! That would never happen with me, I don't care how attractive she may be! I can always go to Walking Street satisfy my needs and have my freedom to!
Cal, you are one of the reasons for this change in those Philippine women raising their financial standards. They see how good you are treating Marilyn over there via your UA-cam/Facebook page…and they want the same. They are looking 👀 for their Calvin / MR. Sunshine Shoulder too. The last few videos random women are checking you out doing your walks & talks; lady killer 😎!!
It's really that bad here Calvin. Even as a fat man I've had trouble dating beautiful woman. As a salesman I can sell anything 😁. I don't even try here anymore. They don't want boyfriends or husbands, they want to be serviced and paid in some form and the price is just too high. It's not worth the lip. That's why people are going there. My new lead guy just moved over . People are hearing about it and you're right it will go down hill just because of supply and demand.
@MITCH at least you understand what's going on so you winning already. It's easy to pull them. Just catch the right one or you might end up regretting what you wish for. I always learn the hard way lol 🙃 Good luck
But it’s that bad Calvin, I lived in the Middle East for the past 6 years and recently got back 4 months ago. Women in the states are difficult. I’m amazed and concerned for men just listening to how the women are talking at my job. This ranges from ages 16-51 in the restaurant industry.
In her book, Working Women of Manila in the 19th Century, Dr. Maria Luisa Camagay wrote, "... Filipino women of the Spanish period had a mind of their own, assertive, active, and enterprising..." However, due to the norms established by the Spaniards, their status remained inferior to men. The prioritization of education enhanced women's influence in trade and commerce. Carolyn Sobritchea mentioned in her book that "the type of education Filipino women got during the American colonial period essentially equipped them to adapt to the demands of the colonial bureaucracy and economy." As the female literacy rate advanced, more women got access to new forms of professions and occupations, such as law and science. The implication of this is that women were able to break free from traditional gender-related roles. This growth in opportunities guided the development of the independent Filipino women we witness today. Despite Filipina's prominent level of education, we continue to uphold our fundamental spiritual and family values. I've seen a lot of working Filipina single mothers and wives who do an excellent job of caring for their families- they cook, clean, and submit to their husbands. Notwithstanding, some Filipino women (especially the younger generation) marry foreigners for financial stability rather than love. Marrying a wealthy foreigner for money is acceptable as long as she will help her parents and siblings improve their circumstances. Concisely, Filipinos also believe that people who earn dollars are financially well-off. It's also why most Filipinos prefer to work abroad. Filipino women, particularly those with limited educational opportunities, see foreigners as a way out of poverty. Even if the Filipina woman benefits from the relationship by achieving financial stability, the foreign man also benefits from it by gaining a companion and someone to care for him.
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sad to see the desperation in men .. it's extremely unattractive to women anywhere in the world .. her attitude is 'I can replace you no matter what you do' ? ok .. well darling .. I can replace YOU no matter what you do .. that's the attitude you must have gentleman to be/stay attractive to females
I love your comment about Filipina telling her husband or BF “I can replace you” for me 😂 I would tell them go ahead and replace me I do love your channel keep up the good work; but western men need to adapt to the Philippines culture
It's that bad Calvin. Things have changed in the US, guys are spending & doing ridiculous things to get women. I knew they were going to bring that simping to the east. So sad.
Use to be men taught men how to be men. There mothers taught them how to treat woman. Find that culture here is like finding a needle in a hay stack. Part of a relationship is understanding the gender. I’m scared to tell a woman she looks nice here.
Thats facts bro been saying the same thing now theae same simps are spreading their simpin ways! I say go to the middle east where they take care of the simps, off with their heads!!!
I noticed an increase in content from the Philippines during the pandemic. And a lot of younger guys who're digital nomads are competing against the typical 60+ retiree. It may have also affected the dating scene in the US
Less than half of all Americans even have a passport. Fewer than 1/2 of 1 percent of U.S. citizens will ever immigrate. The most that 99% of Americans will do is go on a two week vacation to to a foreign country. The world is not being “overrun” with Americans fleeing the U.S.
I am 60 years old and I waste a lot of money on dating American black women. I recommend you don't waste your time and time. theses guys ruin the game in the Dominican Republic 🇩🇴, Brazil 🇧🇷 and Thailand 🇹🇭. Calvin, I'm following your playbook. I'm not coming there for sex. I do my own cooking, cleaning, wash my clothes, dishes and folding clothes. I have been doing this for 45 years, never been married.
Is so bad in almost every expat video there's more than one comment explaining how they got con for x amount, simping and sending money to someone they haven't even met.
Calvin if you are buying houses for them that finger points back at you like I said brother the only difference between Filipinos and American women is opportunity if you give them the opportunity that American women have yes you will be taken for granted and left empty he needed conversation no point intended 🌄🦍
I love your channel and subscribed. Dude, you speak the truth and I look forward to more videos and connecting with you to learn more about my future plans. Thank you for being real.
The other thing is that many men are coming here because they now know that they can have a relationship with a much younger woman than they would back in the US. Sometimes the age gap is just too much no matter how you try to justify it.
Hello Calvin, I’ve watched many of your videos. Although your facts are accurate concerning the liberation of women in the Philippines, I am quite surprised by your attitude, lack of perspective, as well as your failure to understand that you are partly responsible for this cultural phenomena and change taking place ! LOL In the past, you have encouraged men to come to the Philippines by revealing all of the benefits. But now, you’ve turned on these very men who have Learned from you and have taken this great act of courage, to enjoy what you have enjoyed. Really ? You can’t take back years of what you have promoted nor is it realistic for you to expect that You can now reverse this. Many of those commenting here, are alluding to the same but not calling you out directly for your lack of insight and perspective. All of the world is changing, and in fact has already changed, and for the worst, regarding both the loss of respect for men as well as the feminization and liberation of women. Never before in all of civilization have men been so degraded and women so empowered, as many here are referencing in their comments. Here’s the bottom line Calvin, men all over the world have already been rejected and considered as useless. Thank God there are still remote places where women can be found whom we can love and will love us !
This is so disheartening. Wow. I can't believe it. When you have guys marrying those women within weeks or even days is really and literally killing the game. Man, I can't believe it. Thank you Cali Cal for the information brother. I don't know. I may have to reassess my future plans and goals. Just when I thought I may have settled on a beautiful place for retirement a monkey wrench has been thrown my way...
I'm a little bit older than you. I said this exact same thing about Korea in the early 80s. Americans raised the price of everything in the country. Many of those fools would start a bidding war on the spot. We do it to ourselves.
Calvin, in the states now and even Canada too. Many men are not playing the game now here. So, recently in my opinion , since the Philippines reopen again. The status of so many American and Canadian men having to wait for two (2) long years during the COVID war. Which is still going on but, manageable now. Of course the new wave, jump on the plane and went straight to Philippines. Got out of hand and lost it. That will be like that for about a year or so. Then, everything will get back into normal state again, I believe. Because jf $1,000 American dollars is nothing to Filipina now. Then, how you think the local Filipino brothers think, which most have less than that. Because now their women are just going to straight out tell them, I will find a foreigner man, so get out of my face you broke, busted, Filipino dude. So, I am not worried about what the Filipina women are thinking and doing right now. Let them enjoy themselves with the new wave of desperate foreign men arriving there now. Thanks Calvin for the information. Enjoy the Philippines life.
Calvin what you are describing is simple market economics the laws of supply and demand. The majority of filipinas understand economics they buy their rice at the place that gives the best deal because every peso counts. These guys coming over are going to be like kids in a candy store they aren't thinking with their heads. If you find the woman you settled down with saying "I can replace you" it begs the question how much of me is a partner and how much a commodity? Think you hit the nail on the head when you said "You better be coming here for somethinf else" Glad to hear about the support you are getting over the NBI investigation. Any vlogger is going to think "Shit that could hapoen to me" Anybody who views this or any other chanel will be thinking "WTF this is entertainment or informative nobody's getting exploited" Unfortunately the internet has given a platform to people lacking character and integrity to vent their and frustration on others. If I see somebody doing well I'm glad. If they are in the same line of business or have similar interests I'd look and think 'what can I learn here?' It's not like you are secretive about what you do you shared expriences and supported new UA-camrs. The fact you have people trying desperately to bring you down highlights their inadequacies ot yours! Boots on the ground? They just got a boot in the teeth!
Yes guys slow down. I met my wife from Bataan in 2012 online and didn’t marry her til 2018. This is after living with her beginning 2016. If you don’t chose the right one it’s your fault.
come on guys we salty dogs have been comming her for over half a century there is nothing new here guys were bringing those woman back home and could not keep them because the woman found out that her man was a loser in the west and she upgraded so guys got a little smarter and kept the woman over there so calvin stop with the click bait i like your style but stay true
I couldn’t agree more. Tourism in the Philippines is still like 40% of what it was pre-pandemic. The Philippines government is trying to figure out how to promote tourism and get it back to where it used to be. Combine that with the fact that less than 1/2 of all Americans even have a passport and less than 0.5% of Americans will ever immigrate to another country. The most that most Americans will do is go on a two week vacation.
So true. All I see 50 year old washed out dudes who been hurt etc in wheelchairs and oxygen tanks or nerds with no game. Maybe the game is ruined for those guys but not for the young dudes 35 and under.
Yea, but how long has the internet been around with all the connectivity allowing Filipinas to constantly communicate with dozens of men. This has caused a paradigm shift so its a reach to compare now to 50 years ago.
@@Bravefit weird they tell me the opposite. I ask if they want 50 they start saying nah I’m good or they start laughing. Hell I even jokingly open on them with saying “so you want to meet lolos “ and they start laughing. So I guess varies by girls.
You’re right, Calvin. I’m one of those lonely men. I went to the Philippines my first time this June. I went there to see a girl I met just in January. I have been an online relationship with another girl before from the Philippines, but I didn’t feel that attraction with her. For the girl I met in January, I felt like she was such a prize that I had to go snag her up. As much as I’m a lonely average guy, I’m very picky with who I’m attracted to and that’s something I can’t help. There’s just certain little things that turned me off. I like a very particular kind of woman with a very particular kind of face and eyes. I don’t even need her to have a certain body, as long as it’s not terrible. But as soon as I met this woman, she had the perfect kind of look that I’ve always been going for. She doesn’t even look like your average Filipina either, she looks more like a Korean or Chinese. I can’t even get a “normal” looking girl in the USA. American girls are so picky, moreso than me, and once you get a girlfriend, they look for reasons to break up. I’m glad I met a Philippines girl. She’s a dime piece like Megan Fox and she feels lucky to have me. I actually encourage her to eat cake and other types of fattening food so she can gain weight and other men will stay away from her lol
hahaha. I always find it cute that my Filipina thinks I am cheating on her. Like really?? But it is important to find a woman who is on the same page as you, and to marry for the right reason.
If you believe getting his girl to put on some more weight will keep other men away from her, I got a bridge in the ocean to sell you. In other words, a "fat" girl in the Philippines will look sexy compared to those in the US, that look like "a thumb." That will be like waving a red flag in the face of a bull. Don't encourage weight gain for her. You may cause yourself problems!
@@misutasutanto6312 This makes it harder to have "second thoughts!" And being that close to what you want to get away from, just may cause one to want a second look. Better to burn that bridge!!!!
Things change. I'm not surprised there are a lot more men from the US coming over. The US has a lot more population than other western countries. As an example Canada has 37.7 million and the US has 331 million people. That's almost 10 times more people in the US than Canada. It might actually be that as a percentage of population fewer men from the US are coming than are coming from other countries. Also I wonder what per cent actually stay. On the bright side, if she has more choice now and she chose you, maybe in addition to your money she also cares about you.
Great Video, These men are not listening to what you have been saying for over a year , Flip the script on these Fillipinas who are now playing on the desperation and loneliness of these Expats
Many people from around the world would like to travel, but don't have the funds. The US is the third biggest country in the world. And the US is one of the few nations where citizens have money to travel. That is one of the reasons Americans are always flooding tourists places. The state of California alone, has more people than Canada and Australia.
Hi Calvin, Please don’t blame all the westerners overseas for this change in the environment in the Ph. It’s more a matter of all the bloggers and their embellishment of the life with women in the “Promised Land.”
Hey brother you doing a great job don't ever stop and don't let them bring you down by the way I think that guy that reported you to the Filipino FBI his his channel is called jimbo360 I have a great feeling of him that reported you.. you might want to check that out because he have nothing but negative things to say about you.. again keep up the good work sempre fi from New Orleans
I am 74 no problem to find nice lady look for single mother cause Filipina men avoid them I have good woman 5 years now with step daughter so if you can't find don't be so fussy stay away if young go for someone with some world experience just relax slow down that's the pace here women still speak to me even I am taken in Australia not nearly as much potential as here
Thanks for the video. I am currently stuck on a Filipina who I have not met. But I am extremely attracted to. I can sense that I will never give her enough; and she scares the hell out of me. 8600 miles from the USA. What’s going to happen to me when we meet next year? I have a girlfriend, but this Filipina has my attention. Again, thanks Calvin.
You can see the color of the flags and you still move forward. I have to swallow my on advice. But you can't miss what you have never had. Good luck Sir!
The writing is on the wall. another 2 decades and it'll be just like home and yes they get comfortable real quick and it's our fault for sure. Lucky we still out number them. Nothing simple about a philipina imo
Truth in what you said. Another Vlogger said guys are coming to Cartagena Colombia throwing money around ruining the balance. Buy guys are desperate because in America women are willing to share a Pretty boy or a richy rich with other women rather than have an average man.
This is only my perspective not the Bible on relationships here. I get the conversation started. Thanks for watching.
Internet and smart phone/ social media usage there is to blame... a few thousand foreign guys aren't going to change the dating game that fast. Exposure to western culture is what is ruining the world. Take care everyone.
May I ask you question? If it's that bad in America what do you expect these men to do? You have your wife and family and your happy! Why can't they do the same thing! Thank you.
Hi Calvin. I've got a question what about the older single filipina 40's and fifty year old. Are they adopting these same attitudes? Because seriously I'm not that interested in a lady that's under 37.
Dudes here in the US are just beat down. Slaving on the hamster wheel, doing the "right things", and for what? Bad marriage, ungrateful kids. PI gives guys a 2nd chance.
No y'all don't need a scond chance just stop the simping and take back your masculinity. All you simps are going to do is run away to another country and spread the simpin mentality just like what's happening now in the Philippines, stay home!!!
Extensive experience here in Philippines and with Filipina women. No expert, but yes attitudes are changing due to apps social media etc. I can still get under 25 girls at age 53 but it’s definitely changed since even 10 years ago. For a more secure relationship you can have better odds if she is 30 plus or a single mom. Do not spoil them unnecessarily but treat them well of course. Give them an inch and they will take a mile…trust me. Be firm and set limits with them. If they balk then move on and you’ll find one who will agree to your limits. 100’s of thousands await you. Just leave your simp game in the USA guys. Forget Most American woman. I was done with them in the early 90’s. My 2 pesos.
Thats big facts bro!!! You can't blame women or feminism or even social media, women are opportunistic since biblical times and will always try you. Unfortunately it's the simps and blokes that have messed the game up!!!
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YES!!! Calvin, it's THAT BAD over here in America, the Feminist Movement has destroy the culture between men & women to the point that it is probably 90%+ irreparable.
There's still a few good women left over here but it's now like playing "Russian Roulette" trying to find them, you wasting years or even decades trying to find that right one.
Maaan, it's terrible. 😔
@@ericpowell4350 I completely agree, there is no saving it. I was merely spotlighting the issue & helping bolster the reasons for leaving this situation.
American women in general of marrying age are corrupted and not worth any effort unless she’s a pump and dump girl with no strings attached if your into that. Asian girls are still the best option IMO…just keep them in Asia unless you want to play the bring her here game and see how much she changes.
Ya the women are harder working and better educated than the men here in America...The men
here are failing themselfs.
@@dennish4603 "Harder working & Better educated"... Ya, sounds like more "men"... That's the only failure here.
yes i agree the dating scene here in usa is tough
All I know is I felt better immediately upon landing in Manila. Hell, I was still on the airplane and already felt ten years younger.
I felt the same way before too and still felt that way Nav 1 P1
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That's exactly how I feel. I was stationed in Subic in the 80's. Visited in 2017 to see if I wanted to retire there. As soon as I stepped out of the airport I felt younger again. I felt like me. 292 days to go.
Testosterone must be in the air you breathe in the Philippines. As they say “its more fun in the Philippines.”
When i first went to the Philippines 2010, smart phone wasnt a big thing here the women were very genuine i was the only foreigner in the province for 2 weeks every filipina would stare at me with curiosity and amazed. Today everyone has a phone, the western media, internet, feminism, globalization is easily spread through social media. the Filipina women are still amazing but nothing like how it was back in 2010 I've noticed a huge difference. Its still a great place to be a man just not as great as before.
I've been told that besides from México, the most immigrating people are from the Philippines. Of those many are women coming to the USA to marry American divorced men. The word is getting out that Filipina make good wives.
Agreed, Yes there are a few relationships working well in the states , But if my goal was a long term relationship with a lady from a different country then I will be adapting in said country. Once your lady meets Mamika, Keisha ,Mary Sue, Becky Jones, Wawanda, Sally Ann and the rest of the Feminazie Gang...GAME OVER!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@scottwang266 I disagree. You need to find local Filipina for them to talk to so they don't get board. Also if they have kids, it gives them something to do. So many divorced men don't want kids, I don't understand it....
@@scottwang266 I also disagree. My wife is friends with family oriented Filipinas here in the U.S. We all go to Church together and I know their husbands. We collective pray for one another and respect each others marriages. It doesn't have to be the way you described.
So many places if they dont want to act right! Great Video!
Jakarta, Indonesia
Bangkok, Thailand
Bucharest, Romania
Buenos Aires, Argentina
Rio De Janeiro, Brazil
Chisinau, Moldova
Budapest, Hungary
Stockholm, Sweden
Prague, Czech Republic
Wroclaw, Poland
Sofia, Bulgaria
Colombia Medellin
Puerto Vallarta Mexico
@J.Shabazz will African American single men be welcomed in the places you listed?
@@Retired-jr3qs Yes, they see that blue passport just like the Philippines sees Blacks as nothing more than Americans! Black people need to stop with this victim or outcast mindset! If you can get there, you have already made a statement (income, status, mindset) Ghana, Tanzania, Rwanda. Kenya, Lagos Nigeria! The whole globe is your house; never settle brothers!
You're right and a good list apart from Stockholm, Sweden.
@@Jefe_Perro Stockholm, Sweden You are absolutely right. When I saw what the men are going through; I was like errrrr.
@@J.Shabazz Yes. The cost of living there and the ultra feminism of the women in Scandinavian countries is something else. I grew up in Norway and I dread going back for family events.
Only thing I would say about Thailand and Indonesia. You can have a much better lifestyle and better relationship choices outside capitals.
Many great cities and provences in Northern and Southern Thailand (77 provences in total there from memory). With infrastructure that makes the Phillipines look prehistoric.
Jakarta is IMO the second worst major city in Asia after Manilla. Most expats hit up Bali or Lombok. There's great alternative locations on Java and even Sumatra where you will really be standing out as an expat. You will be living a much more provincial like lifestyle tho. People rave about the Phillipines 7000 Islands, Indonesia has 17000. People are sleeping on what a great country Indonesia is outside of Bali.
It will takes decades since there are thousands of island provinces. Best look at Luzon, Visayas islands and Northern Mindanao. Thousands of young women available if you have good moral intentions. Stay out of politics and religion and most of all don’t get involve in any form of drugs and human trafficking (sexpats with minors).
I'm in the Visayas. It's the place to be. My best advice for foreign guys in the Philippines is "just stay in the middle of the country."
Seed planted, then the seed gets cultivated and the harvest soon follows. The world is the world and people are people. Those Filipinas who are taking advantage of vulnerable men , we can't be mad at them. Many live in what the Western world considers poverty and they are making the most of the situation.
But like anything in life, it is all about the heart and we reap what we sow.
Continue to help those you can and appreciate your content.
Grateful,
Amen
People throwing their money around and overtipping will also ruin the image of foreigners. Sure we want to help but at the same time when we do, it becomes expected of us and when we don't do it then they get angry. We are shooting ourselves in the foot
Well said Calvin! I've noticed a difference even in the past 3 years. Women have too many options and online apps are allowing them to talk to several men at once.
If the men allow it then who's fault is it tho, you can do the same thing and if you met her on an app that WTH do you expect??? Simps need to stop playing themselves tryning blame everything else except their stupid decisions.
Like a wise man once said, "Wherever you go... there you are"
People trying to outrun the problem nah, its just YOU
kind of...but it's also like moving to where the jobs are.
Unfortunate , I believe you are absolute spot on . Too bad , I already cross the Philippine off my list . Good reporting Calvin .
Facts, go somewhere else where these western simps do go!!!
I watched a Filipina blogger today who’s boyfriend is sending her 10,000 pesos a week. Guys need to slow down and quit being so generous to women that you have never even been in the same room with. I don’t blame the Filipina for taking the cash 💰 blame the idiots who are so desperate. Men are going to create a nation of Pinay Big Shirley’s if they don’t slow down.
Agreed.
Well stated!
Just what I been saying here! You will never be broake chasing money but you surely will be broke chasing women.
The Brotha is preaching from genuine perspective. Gotta respect it!!!
Calvin you diluted the game and changed the dynamics, now the Filipina are becoming more wiser in their selection of men,
Calvin I been trying to say this all along big Shirley really is that bad! Even the 20-30 something year old guys are looking at overseas for a girl.
Don't bring Western way of thinking to Philippines. Leave that behind or else it will be too late for you. Don't teach the local Filipina that happiness is all about having more money, more material position and to be Westernized as a good thing. It will back fire on you and you will regret it.
Western men are the biggest simps and get what they deserve. Look at Arab men or men from nonwestern countries, they're not desperate bc they don't believe in simpin and most important they stay on code!
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Make sure they are careful. Just sent over ten years there with my wife and one daughter.....been used the whole time with another man in her life. Being married there is to our disadvantage.
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Love is over rated 🙄 I'm 56 ,and I've lived the good old days. I feel sorry for the new man. Great video
Yes sir it's getting worse, I'm 39, single, and no children. I'm ok with being alone, with or without a partner I'm focused on living my best life.
Sadly and with many things, after a while you realize sometimes we just can’t have good things. Calvin you’re always at the front of things.. thanks for sharing this important topic. Now listen up fellas.
Calvin, while other vloggers are saying there's millions of beautiful, good Filipinas to choose from, you're portraying the situation as a scarcity one. You might be right. Are you able to elaborate on the stats you read? For example, here are a few things that need to be known:
1) How many of those Americans are actually single?
2) How many are returning to a family they already have?
3) How many of these Americans are NOT descended from the Philippines?
4) Has it not occurred to people that perhaps with the last 2 years of no tourists that there's a natural surge in foreigners into a place like the PH?
5) While it may be that many Filipinas are asking for more financially well off foreigners today, that might be short lived. Because, there's another wave of Filipinas behind them turning 18 every year.
6) How many of those foreigners will just tuck tail and go back home because of weather, culture, bad infrastructure and getting fleeced by the bad girls?
Combine 4) and 5) and we have a situation that may be short lived. Perhaps things are going in the direction you suggest. But, like all things in third world countries, it will be a slow, long process. I for one remain optimistic that even in 5 years, not much will have changed in terms of the quality and quantity of great women out there. Plus, there's other countries to go to, like Thailand, Malaysia, Indonesia. Not to mention some eastern European countries that are still good.
You have some good points Neil.I myself hope to visit there soon.I like very much Calvin’s vlog it has been very helpful for me to get my boots on in understanding what’s going on over there. But as I say you bring up some good points. Thy👍🏿
Good commentary and I agree.
@@Mel50Mel i wouldn't worry about finding a good woman. Become the man good women are attracted to and they will show up. One of the best ways to meet local women is to become friends with other local women that you're not necessarily interested in. They will find good women for you. Of course, you must vette all of them. Don't be an idiot 😉
@@cjjaxxon much appreciated 🙏
@@ManOfAdventure2011 😂😂😂, got ya.goes w/o saying.and that’s something I’ve never been is a idiot,Neil.have you?
Calvin it's so bad here in America that the Philippines will never compare to what's going on here and I don't think it will, and actually blogers have been making tons of videos telling men to come to the Philippines for years but the problem is nobody expected things to go bad in America the way it has but even with that I think you don't have anything to worry about it's not time to panic over there yet but change is always coming no matter where you are that's just a fact.✌️👊
I hope Booby had a wonderful birthday Calvin! My daughter Stella’s birthday is on the 11th and is now 17, man does time fly. Great podcast and very informative for everyone considering heading over….I am very fortunate that I married late(34) and I got to experience a lot of sour in my life beforehand , so when I met my beautiful wife 18 years ago I knew or recognized what sweet was. There are still some good ones here stateside but they are definitely a rare commodity….
Have a fantastic day Calvin!
I’m in my late 30’s and setting myself up for early retirement. If I come to the Philippines it won’t be specifically to get with a Filipina. It would be for the lifestyle and cost of living.
My excellency would you mind telling me how do you retire on early age while the average retiree is at the age of 40
Same here man. Cost of living is huge. If I can be retired at 40 instead of working until I'm in my 60s...that is just absolutely amazing. I don't plan on being single my whole life so if I move to the Philippines, yeah, I more than likely will get with a Filipina at some point, but really, the biggest selling point is just not having to waste my whole life working. If just having a foreign woman was the primary motivator I'd just get a mail order bride and a prenup.
I don't think the average age is forty thinking more like 62. You guys need to have some kind of income before even thinking of coming here to live. Last thing you want is to go broke out here. Take some vacations first.
Good luck
@@stateofmind4341 Yeah I'll be set up. Shooting for 2m net worth so I'll have a budget around 6-7k a month if I want to live off my dividends, plus I got a half a pension from previous employment I can start collecting at 64 and I'll have social security waiting for me. Even if I take 10 years worth of zeros into my SS formula I still have enough years capping it that my payment will be like someone who made 80k a year for the full amount of years.
Going broke out there wouldn't be my concern, my real concern would be taking the leap a few years early and realizing at 55 the numbers aren't going to work and I have to come back here and work until I'm SS age making 1/5th of what I'm making now.
@@randomyoutuber308 you good then. Obviously you did something right. My comment was gear for the guys trying to retire early which is not typical to have the wealth you accumulated. At forty i was reinventing myself after a divorce that i didn't see coming when the game plan was retirement at 40.real estate was and is good to me. I'm too dumb for the stock market.
Good luck
Thanks Calvin,it was only a matter of time before everything changed.....its shattered my dreams of finding a filipina.....but it still wont stop me from visiting paradise.....so finding a filipina wont be a priority,but finding paradise withouit a filipina is still a priority....so ill keep my expectations grounded and keep other countries open....
Amen bro, live your best life with or without a partner.
It's funny that not long ago you guys were laughing at guys because they were not letting their "johnsons" dictate their moves. Now, you see what doing that gets you.
I wouldn't worry about the changing situation too much myself.
- How many guys over there able to maintain a comfortable lifestyle without working? Not many I would think. Being retired does have it's advantages.
- If a guy is only there and bouncing around from country to country as a nomad vlogger...well...he isn't likely to be in one place very long. Adding a female to your travels is a unnecessary expense.
- These guys that are marrying the first woman that smiles at them, and buying land and houses for them, without anything in their own name....well...you get what you pay for. Right up until she decides to alter the deal...
I can't see the logic in it myself.
I'm not in the habit of setting myself up to fail.
Guys are just as dumb here, women just play the game a little differently. I know a guy here that owned a home for 10 years then his fiance convinced him to do a cash out refinance because he could get a cheaper mortgage rate than her student loan rates. He paid off her student loans then she left him like a week later. If you are too stupid to say no and too stupid to protect assets you spent years of your own time accumulating, odds are, you'll find a woman willing to take advantage of you where ever you go.
@@randomyoutuber308 I agree. I would never marry a woman without a comprehensive pre-nup in place. It makes it very disadvantageous to just up and leave or do shady things.
Everyone wants to provide for their mate, but the reality is 56% of marriages fail. Who in their right mind invests in a product with that kind of success rate.
Some people are fortunate enough to have inheritances tied to their future. Without a plan...that would be accessible to your mate.
I haven't even touched on the guys who decide to get with a woman that comes with a ready-made family.
You, her, her kids, and any family she wants to add to the mix. Really?
- That sounds like a good deal to you guys?
There is nothing wrong with being a provider, but the question I always ask myself (and her), is how would she solve the problem if I wasn't around.
If you speak Spanish or are willing to learn, you might want to look into Cali Colombia also.
- That is a Black Man's paradise.
@@Ferenczy1966 Yeah the whole 'beta provider' thing gets slandered here like its a bad thing but I'd gladly have been a provider for the right woman. In my grandfather's generation...that was considered a real man, not a beta. A man took care of his family.
What is really screwed up here is like you say, the divorce. If you are the provider in the relationship but you get various benefits in return and the relationship ends all your benefits go away...but the court orders you to still be the provider...well..you just got screwed hard.
Buddy of mine got divorced recently after his now ex(who hasn't been employed in over a decade) cheated on him and moved out of state to live with another guy and he had to hand over 800k, refinance a paid off house to buy her out of half, pay alimony for 9 years, and when he retires in 15 years she gets a chunk of his pension. Somehow its fair men keep the women in the life they've become accustomed but she doesn't have to come over to cook him dinner and give him a bj 3 nights a week, do his laundry, and clean the house.
Its such a one sided game, yeah, if you are going to play you should absolutely get a prenup and do what you can to protect yourself.
That's Correct.....Thinking with that little head......Hahahahahaha...They will learn the hard then deported..... Why because their will be a quick lesson in understanding what steady source of income means, property ownership, and culture difference they will be deported broke after the 3rd NUT......
@@Ferenczy1966 Cali Colombia..nice, but age gap is not easy as in the Ph....
So, I was fortunate to meet My wife here in Chicago simply by chance during a divorce. We’re moving to the Philippines for retirement in about 3-4 years. I tell all guys a different story. Everybody thinks the grass is greener on the other side and it isn’t. When you find a good one lock it in. Women these days are very different and think the same way you all do. And that’s a problem. There are too many diseases out here to be banging multiple women long term. Especially when they are going through you all like you’re going through them.
That's facts bro but stop playing you know back in the day you were doing the same exact $hit you telling us not to do 😂😂😂
American men are about to get dumped by a Filipina because she is going to level up to the highest bidder.
Filipina's are women! If you bring them into your cave out of the rain next week, year she will want a bigger cave.
That's the same thing American women where saying. American men need to realize, we have the whole world to find a woman.
love the channel but you guys are acting like we americans just started comming her since you tube we been coming here since 1962 wow come on guys stay true and honest
We are making the Philippines what we are running from in the USA we only have ourselves to blame its crazy.
Absolutely, so many expats want to bring divorce, the pill, foreign land ownership etc... to Phil that it will quickly turn into US. Baffling they don't understand that.
No, extreme feminism is why men are running from western countries
One minute, i.e two weeks ago, you're telling men how good it is for them in the Phillipines; you get called in by the Phillipines government and soon after you're saying things have changed. Phillipines has a population of 115 million and 40,000 men have changed the dating scene?
@@ellen5603 I keep coming across your comments
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@@chaz3257 Calvin is doing great things with his UA-cam channel. I don't want to put him down. There are enough people out here doing that already I bet. I just feel this particular vid flew in the face of all he previously told us. The next vid I saw of his was about getting a visa. Useful but not as interesting as his usual stuff. I can sense a direction change coming in the type of content he will be producing. I hope I am wrong.
80,000 or 90,000 foreign men won’t be enough to satisfy 50 million Filipinas! I agree, I have noticed they are getting a lot more demanding/taking things for granite, particularly online. However, at the end of the day half of the men traveling won’t amount to much, and even with the influx of foreign men, someone making $3000 a month is still considered rich. and as long as you’re rich, your always get attractive woman.
Lastly, I can’t speak for anyone but myself, if the Philippines ever really does get to the point where it becomes hard to meet and date an attractive woman, I will pull a Christopher Columbus and get right back on my discovery tip!
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@@ellen5603 Yeah, but in fairness those 270,000 American men aren’t just competing with each other. They are competing with possibly 35 million Filipino men, as well as numerous other men from other foreign countries, China in particular. What should set American men apart is income and having more money than the majority of men in the Philippines, provided they are coming with incomes that are decent by American standards. Which means, $1000 a month isn’t going to cut it for the higher quality/beautiful filipinas, and probably never really did. It doesn’t even cross my mind to move her Philippines on a permanent basis, without bringing in at least $6000 a month. Now if that’s that’s still not enough to attract a Liza Soberano or Nadine Lustre, then it might be time to visit Vietnam or Laos!
@@chaz3257 some of the things you say sound a bit contradictory. In one breath you say American men are the prize, and then you’ll turn around and say not even if an American man makes “$10,000” a month is it possible for him to deal with the most beautiful women in the Philippines? Not even making $10,000 a month? Really? At $10,000-$15,000 a month, you can readily attract the type of look you want, even here in the United States. At that income, while not rich, you are no longer average. Also, I guess it depends on what you consider to be the “MOST beautiful” women in the Philippines. There is a lot of ground to cover between beautiful and MOST beautiful women in a given area. I think most men would be just fine with finding a girl who is simply beautiful. We don’t need her to have violet eyes or anything extremely over the top! I think the two Filipina actresses I listed above would do quite nicely by most American men’s standards.
Good Boots on the Ground observation. You always have your finger on the pulse. Great thought for us as visitors/expats to SLOW DOWN.
Same thing i saw in thailand.. in pattaya just b4 coff lockouts the quality was dismal.. fuglies were becoming the norm.. and they were expecting to b treated as princesses i actually changed my mind about retiring there as well as chinese and indians flooding the place it was getting way to busy.. ive been told its better and much quieter now so its a bit better the chinese are not there yet but lots of indians and the thai dont like them because of their odour..
Anyhow i am thinkin of returning to look around again soon i hope since the restrictions are lifted..
Good to see your visit to thailand..
Yes it has some fun city life.. country still has good options.. i will probably visit cambodia too see how its looking.. they r growing quick there too.. have some skyscrapers in city now..lol..
I'm happy for the victory Calvin, hope to link up with you when I get to the Philippines.
Wow, that's crazy! I have no intentions on getting married but if I did get married it would be with a foreign woman. However, she would have to agree to a prenup...it is too late in the game to take any losses.
Preach it brotha...I didn't know trying to look for something better in the Philippines is making the women there becoming what we are avoiding in America.
The reason why I am a sigma male, and staying to myself. If the good lord don't bless you with that special someone it's just not meant to be. You can be alone without being lonely and still live your best life.
Sigma lifestyle.
Seen the same thing in the DR. These dudes are so thristy! Smh!
Sunshine Shoulder i like when you say when "One's go down everybody goes down" i would love to put that logo in the market Calvin esp: on t-shirt's
Checking in from Tampa, FL Great video
When you said “big Shirley” I said “that’s right” out loud.
It was ineviteable by the way things are going with these women over here in the USA
Yeah lol. I wouldn't leave specifically because of the women here or to find a foreign woman, but the thing is if you don't get married or have kids its easy to save a ton of money, and if you don't have kids, you don't really have any vested interest in leaving society better than you found it...so single guys might as well just get their passports and take their money and run. No need to work into your 60s like your dad and your grandpas did.
@@perrykomick9478 Agreed! Best to test these locations. Preparation for a new Living Location especially overseas requires the use of thinking with the big head not the little one.....🙃
Calvin, I watch all of your vids but any man who lets a Filipina call the financial shots or jumps through hoops for one as you put it is a weak or desperate man! That would never happen with me, I don't care how attractive she may be! I can always go to Walking Street satisfy my needs and have my freedom to!
Cal, you are one of the reasons for this change in those Philippine women raising their financial standards. They see how good you are treating Marilyn over there via your UA-cam/Facebook page…and they want the same. They are looking 👀 for their Calvin / MR. Sunshine Shoulder too. The last few videos random women are checking you out doing your walks & talks; lady killer 😎!!
At least he stays true to the bro code but there's a few younger vloggers that brung gallons of kool-aid with them and the viewer's are drinking it.
@@ellen5603 it's a big ask when the average Filipino makes only $200-300 per month.
There's plenty of good FILIPINA all OVER there who are willing to accept us just as we ARE that's my belief brother . Take care God BLESS
It's really that bad here Calvin. Even as a fat man I've had trouble dating beautiful woman. As a salesman I can sell anything 😁. I don't even try here anymore. They don't want boyfriends or husbands, they want to be serviced and paid in some form and the price is just too high. It's not worth the lip. That's why people are going there. My new lead guy just moved over . People are hearing about it and you're right it will go down hill just because of supply and demand.
@MITCH at least you understand what's going on so you winning already. It's easy to pull them. Just catch the right one or you might end up regretting what you wish for. I always learn the hard way lol 🙃
Good luck
I’ve been married and had lots of girlfriends and been to the Philippines. You know the juice Is not worth the squeeze. I’m the prize and I know it.
Thank you for your insight.
I agree at the end of the she will still want a bigger cave to live in!
But it’s that bad Calvin, I lived in the Middle East for the past 6 years and recently got back 4 months ago. Women in the states are difficult.
I’m amazed and concerned for men just listening to how the women are talking at my job. This ranges from ages 16-51 in the restaurant industry.
@@ellen5603 I chuckled
But from my small sample
size of being back, a lot of women here are just mean.
@@ellen5603 go feed your cats...
In her book, Working Women of Manila in the 19th Century, Dr. Maria Luisa Camagay wrote, "... Filipino women of the Spanish period had a mind of their own, assertive, active, and enterprising..." However, due to the norms established by the Spaniards, their status remained inferior to men.
The prioritization of education enhanced women's influence in trade and commerce. Carolyn Sobritchea mentioned in her book that "the type of education Filipino women got during the American colonial period essentially equipped them to adapt to the demands of the colonial bureaucracy and economy." As the female literacy rate advanced, more women got access to new forms of professions and occupations, such as law and science.
The implication of this is that women were able to break free from traditional gender-related roles. This growth in opportunities guided the development of the independent Filipino women we witness today.
Despite Filipina's prominent level of education, we continue to uphold our fundamental spiritual and family values. I've seen a lot of working Filipina single mothers and wives who do an excellent job of caring for their families- they cook, clean, and submit to their husbands.
Notwithstanding, some Filipino women (especially the younger generation) marry foreigners for financial stability rather than love. Marrying a wealthy foreigner for money is acceptable as long as she will help her parents and siblings improve their circumstances.
Concisely, Filipinos also believe that people who earn dollars are financially well-off. It's also why most Filipinos prefer to work abroad. Filipino women, particularly those with limited educational opportunities, see foreigners as a way out of poverty.
Even if the Filipina woman benefits from the relationship by achieving financial stability, the foreign man also benefits from it by gaining a companion and someone to care for him.
We hope that the foreigner will be able to secure a loyal companion.
@@ellen5603 Leader??? Contrary to belief not everyone plays follow the leader....
The best places to go are the locations that NO ONE TALKS ABOUT. It might be wise to seek other global locations
Men, before you even think of going to the Philippines. Watch- The Filipina Pea's Latest Video with the best information that you should know, dated August 12 , 2022.. " Don't Let Your FILIPINA Suck You Dry - Don't Be A Sucker! With over 56,783 views and 1805 Comments.
sad to see the desperation in men .. it's extremely unattractive to women anywhere in the world .. her attitude is 'I can replace you no matter what you do' ? ok .. well darling .. I can replace YOU no matter what you do .. that's the attitude you must have gentleman to be/stay attractive to females
I love your comment about Filipina telling her husband or BF “I can replace you” for me 😂 I would tell them go ahead and replace me
I do love your channel keep up the good work; but western men need to adapt to the Philippines culture
It's that bad Calvin. Things have changed in the US, guys are spending & doing ridiculous things to get women. I knew they were going to bring that simping to the east. So sad.
Use to be men taught men how to be men.
There mothers taught them how to treat woman. Find that culture here is like finding a needle in a hay stack. Part of a relationship is understanding the gender. I’m scared to tell a woman she looks nice here.
Thats facts bro been saying the same thing now theae same simps are spreading their simpin ways! I say go to the middle east where they take care of the simps, off with their heads!!!
I believe the same especially next year the REAL YEAR OF RETURN. WHEW!!
I noticed an increase in content from the Philippines during the pandemic. And a lot of younger guys who're digital nomads are competing against the typical 60+ retiree. It may have also affected the dating scene in the US
Less than half of all Americans even have a passport. Fewer than 1/2 of 1 percent of U.S. citizens will ever immigrate. The most that 99% of Americans will do is go on a two week vacation to to a foreign country. The world is not being “overrun” with Americans fleeing the U.S.
@@misutasutanto6312 Bullshit, there is no dating scene for men in the United States
@@ericpowell4350 Dating for marriage in the US is dead, if you just want to go play the hookup game its alive and well.
Brother Sunshine you do have a lot to do with us coming over to the Philippines
That's what happens when you tell everyone good information it attracts bad people and problems and when everyone doing something it becomes mediocre
I am 60 years old and I waste a lot of money on dating American black women. I recommend you don't waste your time and time. theses guys ruin the game in the Dominican Republic 🇩🇴, Brazil 🇧🇷 and Thailand 🇹🇭. Calvin, I'm following your playbook. I'm not coming there for sex. I do my own cooking, cleaning, wash my clothes, dishes and folding clothes. I have been doing this for 45 years, never been married.
I believe it. Something that seems easy and life changing will get flocked to. Soon it goes downhill and gets abused.
Is so bad in almost every expat video there's more than one comment explaining how they got con for x amount, simping and sending money to someone they haven't even met.
The old adage of “all good things must come to an end”
Calvin if you are buying houses for them that finger points back at you like I said brother the only difference between Filipinos and American women is opportunity if you give them the opportunity that American women have yes you will be taken for granted and left empty he needed conversation no point intended 🌄🦍
I love your channel and subscribed. Dude, you speak the truth and I look forward to more videos and connecting with you to learn more about my future plans. Thank you for being real.
The other thing is that many men are coming here because they now know that they can have a relationship with a much younger woman than they would back in the US. Sometimes the age gap is just too much no matter how you try to justify it.
Hello Calvin, I’ve watched many of your videos. Although your facts are accurate concerning the liberation of women in the Philippines, I am quite surprised by your attitude, lack of perspective, as well as your failure to understand that you are partly responsible for this cultural phenomena and change taking place ! LOL
In the past, you have encouraged men to come to the Philippines by revealing all of the benefits. But now, you’ve turned on these very men who have Learned from you and have taken this great act of courage, to enjoy what you have enjoyed. Really ? You can’t take back years of what you have promoted nor is it realistic for you to expect that You can now reverse this.
Many of those commenting here, are alluding to the same but not calling you out directly for your lack of insight and perspective.
All of the world is changing, and in fact has already changed, and for the worst, regarding both the loss of respect for men as well as the feminization and liberation of women. Never before in all of civilization have men been so degraded and women so empowered, as many here are referencing in their comments. Here’s the bottom line Calvin, men all over the world have already been rejected and considered as useless. Thank God there are still remote places where women can be found whom we can love and will love us !
Things change. I'm still encouraging people to come here but to calm down and act like you got some damn sense. I'm telling you what I'm seeing.
This is so disheartening. Wow. I can't believe it. When you have guys marrying those women within weeks or even days is really and literally killing the game. Man, I can't believe it. Thank you Cali Cal for the information brother. I don't know. I may have to reassess my future plans and goals. Just when I thought I may have settled on a beautiful place for retirement a monkey wrench has been thrown my way...
There's still many good women over here but things are certainly changing.
Thanks for this report, bro. I will go somewhere else.
So much Doom and Gloom, Calvin. Come on man!
bro your really hitting it right on thanks for all the info
Many of us are sitting ducks. There are worse things than being alone.
I'm a little bit older than you. I said this exact same thing about Korea in the early 80s. Americans raised the price of everything in the country. Many of those fools would start a bidding war on the spot. We do it to ourselves.
Thanks for sharing.
Filipina women going to be westernized and modern women soon 🔜 God help us and the standards gonna be higher for them
@@ellen5603 then the question becomes what does the Filipina bring to the table?
If that's all she has then that's all that I want.
I knew this would happen! Now Filipina’s
are becoming the women we’re trying to escape! Nice work fellas! No sense in moving there now…
Calvin, in the states now and even Canada too. Many men are not playing the game now here. So, recently in my opinion , since the Philippines reopen again. The status of so many American and Canadian men having to wait for two (2) long years during the COVID war. Which is still going on but, manageable now. Of course the new wave, jump on the plane and went straight to Philippines. Got out of hand and lost it. That will be like that for about a year or so. Then, everything will get back into normal state again, I believe. Because jf $1,000 American dollars is nothing to Filipina now. Then, how you think the local Filipino brothers think, which most have less than that. Because now their women are just going to straight out tell them, I will find a foreigner man, so get out of my face you broke, busted, Filipino dude. So, I am not worried about what the Filipina women are thinking and doing right now. Let them enjoy themselves with the new wave of desperate foreign men arriving there now. Thanks Calvin for the information. Enjoy the Philippines life.
Calvin what you are describing is simple market economics the laws of supply and demand.
The majority of filipinas understand economics they buy their rice at the place that gives the best deal because every peso counts.
These guys coming over are going to be like kids in a candy store they aren't thinking with their heads.
If you find the woman you settled down with saying "I can replace you" it begs the question how much of me is a partner and how much a commodity?
Think you hit the nail on the head when you said "You better be coming here for somethinf else"
Glad to hear about the support you are getting over the NBI investigation. Any vlogger is going to think "Shit that could hapoen to me"
Anybody who views this or any other chanel will be thinking "WTF this is entertainment or informative nobody's getting exploited"
Unfortunately the internet has given a platform to people lacking character and integrity to vent their and frustration on others.
If I see somebody doing well I'm glad. If they are in the same line of business or have similar interests I'd look and think 'what can I learn here?'
It's not like you are secretive about what you do you shared expriences and supported new UA-camrs.
The fact you have people trying desperately to bring you down highlights their inadequacies ot yours!
Boots on the ground? They just got a boot in the teeth!
Yes guys slow down.
I met my wife from Bataan in 2012 online and didn’t marry her til 2018. This is after living with her beginning 2016.
If you don’t chose the right one it’s your fault.
come on guys we salty dogs have been comming her for over half a century there is nothing new here guys were bringing those woman back home and could not keep them because the woman found out that her man was a loser in the west and she upgraded so guys got a little smarter and kept the woman over there so calvin stop with the click bait i like your style but stay true
I couldn’t agree more. Tourism in the Philippines is still like 40% of what it was pre-pandemic. The Philippines government is trying to figure out how to promote tourism and get it back to where it used to be. Combine that with the fact that less than 1/2 of all Americans even have a passport and less than 0.5% of Americans will ever immigrate to another country. The most that most Americans will do is go on a two week vacation.
So true. All I see 50 year old washed out dudes who been hurt etc in wheelchairs and oxygen tanks or nerds with no game. Maybe the game is ruined for those guys but not for the young dudes 35 and under.
Yea, but how long has the internet been around with all the connectivity allowing Filipinas to constantly communicate with dozens of men. This has caused a paradigm shift so its a reach to compare now to 50 years ago.
@@Bravefit weird they tell me the opposite. I ask if they want 50 they start saying nah I’m good or they start laughing. Hell I even jokingly open on them with saying “so you want to meet lolos “ and they start laughing. So I guess varies by girls.
You’re right, Calvin. I’m one of those lonely men. I went to the Philippines my first time this June. I went there to see a girl I met just in January. I have been an online relationship with another girl before from the Philippines, but I didn’t feel that attraction with her.
For the girl I met in January, I felt like she was such a prize that I had to go snag her up. As much as I’m a lonely average guy, I’m very picky with who I’m attracted to and that’s something I can’t help. There’s just certain little things that turned me off. I like a very particular kind of woman with a very particular kind of face and eyes. I don’t even need her to have a certain body, as long as it’s not terrible. But as soon as I met this woman, she had the perfect kind of look that I’ve always been going for. She doesn’t even look like your average Filipina either, she looks more like a Korean or Chinese.
I can’t even get a “normal” looking girl in the USA. American girls are so picky, moreso than me, and once you get a girlfriend, they look for reasons to break up.
I’m glad I met a Philippines girl. She’s a dime piece like Megan Fox and she feels lucky to have me. I actually encourage her to eat cake and other types of fattening food so she can gain weight and other men will stay away from her lol
hahaha. I always find it cute that my Filipina thinks I am cheating on her. Like really?? But it is important to find a woman who is on the same page as you, and to marry for the right reason.
If you believe getting his girl to put on some more weight will keep other men away from her, I got a bridge in the ocean to sell you. In other words, a "fat" girl in the Philippines will look sexy compared to those in the US, that look like "a thumb." That will be like waving a red flag in the face of a bull. Don't encourage weight gain for her. You may cause yourself problems!
@@misutasutanto6312 This makes it harder to have "second thoughts!" And being that close to what you want to get away from, just may cause one to want a second look. Better to burn that bridge!!!!
@@misutasutanto6312 Filipina speak english, and they also make great wives.
Good morning sir calvin have a gorgeous day👍
You my brother.....If you hadn't ate in 90 days & you come up to a buffet of ALL the food you want what you gonna do?
Words of wisdom!!
Things change. I'm not surprised there are a lot more men from the US coming over. The US has a lot more population than other western countries. As an example Canada has 37.7 million and the US has 331 million people. That's almost 10 times more people in the US than Canada. It might actually be that as a percentage of population fewer men from the US are coming than are coming from other countries. Also I wonder what per cent actually stay. On the bright side, if she has more choice now and she chose you, maybe in addition to your money she also cares about you.
Clearly Calvin you are no longer the only fish in the sea and you need to watch out if Marilyn is all you say she is marry her
Great Video, These men are not listening to what you have been saying for over a year , Flip the script on these Fillipinas who are now playing on the desperation and loneliness of these Expats
facts
You have to be willing to walk away!
They should make you an Ambassador.....👍. . It's that bad over here.
hey Sunshine Shoulders in the usa its called feminist is what the problum is here in the states
Unfortunately Calvin it’s going to happen. America has opened her mouth and poured her culture unto the world. It’s a biblical shift. Cheers
Many people from around the world would like to travel, but don't have the funds. The US is the third biggest country in the world. And the US is one of the few nations where citizens have money to travel. That is one of the reasons Americans are always flooding tourists places. The state of California alone, has more people than Canada and Australia.
Hi Calvin, Please don’t blame all the westerners overseas for this change in the environment in the Ph. It’s more a matter of all the bloggers and their embellishment of the life with women in the “Promised Land.”
Very well said!
Hey brother you doing a great job don't ever stop and don't let them bring you down by the way I think that guy that reported you to the Filipino FBI his his channel is called jimbo360 I have a great feeling of him that reported you.. you might want to check that out because he have nothing but negative things to say about you.. again keep up the good work sempre fi from New Orleans
I am 74 no problem to find nice lady look for single mother cause Filipina men avoid them I have good woman 5 years now with step daughter so if you can't find don't be so fussy stay away if young go for someone with some world experience just relax slow down that's the pace here women still speak to me even I am taken in Australia not nearly as much potential as here
Thanks for the video. I am currently stuck on a Filipina who I have not met. But I am extremely attracted to. I can sense that I will never give her enough; and she scares the hell out of me. 8600 miles from the USA. What’s going to happen to me when we meet next year? I have a girlfriend, but this Filipina has my attention. Again, thanks Calvin.
You can see the color of the flags and you still move forward. I have to swallow my on advice. But you can't miss what you have never had. Good luck Sir!
The writing is on the wall. another 2 decades and it'll be just like home and yes they get comfortable real quick and it's our fault for sure. Lucky we still out number them. Nothing simple about a philipina imo
I've heard the same thing about the Dominican Republic and other hot spots thirsty American men like to travel.
Truth in what you said. Another Vlogger said guys are coming to Cartagena Colombia throwing money around ruining the balance. Buy guys are desperate because in America women are willing to share a Pretty boy or a richy rich with other women rather than have an average man.