when we fight.. // RawBeautyKristi Came to Visit!
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- Опубліковано 20 сер 2019
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It’s been an absolute blast being with you both for the last week. You’re THE BEST.
Love the videoo!!!
RawBeautyKristi i cannot believe two UA-camrs I adore from two different spectrums came together :,) I loved this
RawBeautyKristi as I was watching I sat there and thought...hmm she looks a lot like Marie Bits N Clips makeup friend!!!
Ita cool to see you on this channel.
RawBeautyKristi love the both of you! Found both of y'all when y'all did Face Awards years ago!
I can’t wait for you and Zack to have all your homesteading dreams come true 🧡🧡🧡
so i saw the title... then i saw the tent... looked like that was the solution!
Same
The tent was the neighbors she mentioned that moved in. But yeah getting a tent and using it for the “dog house” is a great idea!!
Haha I thought the same thing
LOL that's what i thought
Me too,Baron in the doghouse tent👉🏕🧔
So I used to watch your videos way back when... My ex and I were planning on hitting the road together with our dog but now he's my ex, and I'm on the road. I stopped watching your videos for a while because I hated the reminder of an idea I fell in love with "our dog, us, and our bus." Slowly I started watching again, and often I get emotional watching your videos, but now I'm so happy to be on the road, on my own. The "good" stuff, the "bad" stuff... It's all inspiration. Sending you all love. Loved seeing Kamp in action, and I'm going to start playing French music while I cook.
Good for you . . . you are going with the flow of what is!
wow you're so organic and heartfelt and I wanna send you as much love as freakin possible. a broken heart is hell.I wish you peace of mind on your journey, and may the universe provide you with all you may need
That's kind of what happens when you decide you're going to go on the road to help keep yourself together with your ex at the time. You need to have a solid relationship before you do something like that.
Girl, you got this!
I’m sorry to hear that your dealing with that sadness. Me and my SO are working towards selling the house and exploring the world in our Jeep and the thought of losing that future is overwhelmingly sad. I’m glad your still doing it!
I was waiting for this!! Arguments are hard. Thanks for keeping it real in an increasingly fake world. 🧡
As long as you don't fight with Kamp, it all good.
@Barry Barry "So shines a good deed in a weary world."
If you and your three subscribers think it's fake, then all four of you don't have to watch.
The rest of us 250,000 will continue to enjoy!
Perfectly worded. Thanks for keeping it real in an increasingly fake world.
The 👍
I wondered too. Its life, but in that small of an area I applaud them. Much respect.
So, what are you saying? You’re just a normal couple? Love you both. Rock on!
Ya I bet that trailer rocks at times.
If you don't communicate well, you are doomed. A good lay is basically a bandaid. If you don't open up, he will resent you. If, for some reason, you feel like you can't talk to him you are with the wrong person. I can see on your face that you are a stubborn person, but, you don't want people to know that. You need to change that. Being shut out sucks.
"This squirrel doesn’t know anything about metal" 😂😂😂
🤣🤣
Kamp had an argument with a squirrel then a cat.
Hahahah!
40 pound bite if you corner a squirrel, careful with them
@Yar Nunya hi...unless your going to eat the meat(which you need to be careful of rabies) then, even in jest, not too funny. Blessings
😂😂😂
Tough day, lol.
Your videography is always excellent and even better, the audio...that has an ASMR effect on me. Thanks for sharing some of the normal relationship issues we all have but in a tight space. Lots of respect for you guys.
Playing French music while cooking is the best idea ever.
I am such a genuine mega fan of both you and Kristi. I never comment, but religiously watch you both as someone who equally loves the outdoors and makeup. They both bring so much calm and beauty into my life. Thank you from bring my passions together and showing that the two aren't enemies.
"This squirrel doesn't know anything about metal," that was the funniest and cutest thing ever!! Lmao love you guys so much!!!
I am having an absolute moment. I love Kristi. She’s amazing. Fights are so normal in relationships. It’s all about how you handle it during, and making sure there is lots of communication afterwards. ❤️
Putting this out is both courageous and very healing - for me as a viewer too. Speaking about it openly affords others the space to do the same. This is true healing. I feel a deep sense of relaxation from viewing this. Thank you 🙏
Aw, yay Liz! Thanks for talking so openly.
And also, I love how you're exploring this new visual voice. It's so captivating.
I just adore you Elsa! I love hearing about the real life ups and downs. You speak beautifully and eloquently 🌈❤️😻
We are all human, as long as you’ve made up before bedtime. Never go to sleep fighting/ arguing.
Amen! No matter how bad the disagreement, always do everything you can to not go to bed angry. I've practiced this for years now. When I was young I read this verse and ignored it. I would go to bed mad at family alot. But as I got older I started trying to see if it really made a difference like the elders would say. It really does. Life as a whole is more peaceful. Yes I've said I was sorry before while still believing I was right but the effort toward making peace made it worth it. It opened the door to communicate and I was then able to explain my point of view calmly and they were more open to listen in a reasonable rational way. And vise versa.
So yes I agree 100%! Don't go to bed angry.
@@JustHeAndMe7733 the elders got it from the good book - the Bible says - do not let the sun go down on your anger
@@eMotoAZ you're right. Ephesians 4:26
@@JustHeAndMe7733 thank you Dacia
@@eMotoAZ you're welcome ☺️
I’m 45 and married and I do the exact same thing when it’s called for. Walk my 17 lb dog around the block. Works every time! Well... most of the time. ☮️🤙🏽
Well all I can say is ...been married 40 years . I don’t argue ..when ya argue ya say hurtful things ya can never take back . Much easier to give each other a lil space , regroup and realize life’s too short for arguments. Love is the key to your hearts , use it .
Great comment. Difficult though to find the right person.
No eggshells , we work it out after we cool down .
Kristi in her overalls is the cutest thing I've ever seen.
awww. being vulnerable softens life. keep'on keep'in on 💚
I love Kristi and Zack! She's how I found your channel ❤
Thanks for your brutal honesty. Makes this real. You’re a true treasure....❤️
One of the first people to watch this is lit. Fights are healthy in relationships. Being 14 and knowing this I feel like a wise man. Love you videos. Keep it up👍🏼😁
To fight is not healthy. To disagree is. People need to learn the difference!
& how to handle those disagreements before they end up like our neighbors who were "passionate people" who "fought until the cops came out", then "passionately made up", once or twice a month (& was proud of it), until one of them took a bat to the other's head!
But they swore it was "healthy & normal"!
We have lived on a boat for 25+ years together - nothing like living in small spaces with nowhere else to go 😂😬🙄 love that your friend puts on French cooking music when she cooks!
Yeah, I really hate arguments. We live in a 24ft RV. I usually end up crying and I have to calm down and try to talk out my feelings. I’m the absolute worst at verbal communication when I’m upset. I heart you Elsa!
I have been in a relationship that we spent 95 percent of our lives together. As beautiful as that is to be in that deep of love to even want to, it is at times the hardest to do . Personalities mixed into to such a tight relationship can add to the rifts.
It is important to tackle it head on and not by pass what is happening and there is so much work in a pair of peoples lives that you have to stop and talk it out.
Thank you for the peek in to your hard moments but also ty for sharing so much more all the time .
It's good to be transparent but even healthier to keep some of the intimate things for you and him private.
Beautiful couples talk on how to keep it strong .
We admire you, there's so many that would like to do what you're doing. Of course it's not easy, do whatever it takes, appreciate each other endlessly. Best regards and love😘
Thank you for being so raw and real! It is so refreshing!
Thank you for sharing this side of your world. Its easy to compare yourself to others online without realizing its often the highlight reel of their life while the complicated things are happening behind closed doors. You two are wonderful and I loved the video :)
Kristi mentioned your channel on her last video so I came over to see...I truly enjoyed the way you vlog... the fact that you journal...everything! You have a new subscriber here. Thanks for sharing. Communication is the key for a relationship to survive & continue to grow.
Well, we always suspected, but thank God we now know for sure - you two are human!! Love you both
momma, that was on point.
I started watching your channel after RawbeautyKristi recommended it! Love it ❤
I appreciate your total honesty about relationships in a small space, its hard and some peeps only show the happy side of tiny living. You articulated it beautifully! ❤️
I’m here because of Kristy and she was so right...fantastic people and amazing editing!
Ive been wondering about this for months. Thank you for the honesty
I just LOVE how real and honest you are!!! Makes me like you guys that much more!!!!
I love every single one of your videos. The content is always enjoyable and the cinematography is always impressive! I find myself wanting to watch your videos over a few times. 💕
I do all the time!
Hi guys! my first comment here. I just had to say how much we love your videos. I lived in Florida (Yuk) & worked all the time to keep a certain life style. But when my little sister took her own life in 2010 I bought a camper & left everything. I moved across the country to Ca. Then moved to WA State. I now live happily in the N. Cascade Mountains in a tiny little town. I now live on less that $1000 a month selling things I make online. I also do caregiving to shut-ins. I have a partner now, Holly, who is an absolute miracle. Keep doing what you do so well. Much love & good energy, you give us hope. Sabrina Cannell, fellow planet earth person. :-)
Hi...you were able to positively redirect your grief...fantastic...& your sis came to help you w/ holly!!! Blessings for many, many happy times together.
I think so. The anniversary of her passing was just 2 days ago in fact. She was an amazing person! (her name was Donna Kaye 40 yrs) She could never understand how people can be so cold & uncaring to one another. in the end I think she was just broken hearted. she jumped from a 5th floor window in a Marriott hotel in Portland Or. as I was on the phone with her trying to talk her out of it. She was an artist, poet & musician & yes, I seriously believe that she led me to Holly. Holly is so much like her it almost spooky. (but wonderful) The universe is a odd place. Miraculous but odd. Thanks for listening, Sabrina.
@@427bk hi...thank you for sharing this so personal story of Donna. It is never easy to comprehend why she took the final step. Remember, there is nothing you could of said/did to stop her. Once someone decides to end their suffering, as she obviously had a plan, no one can deter the action, unfortunately. Anniversary's are difficult for those of us left behind but once again you have concentrated on her gifts & what she brought & gave of herself. This world we live in today is hard on those who truly care for the others who are hurt/killed for no apparent reason. She, like many, cannot come to gripes w/ the evil of the human spirit & her caring was felt so deeply. Know she is w/ you. Your guardian angel. 😇 Blessings
Pics of Donna... facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=367212227562938&set=pcb.367213570896137&type=3&theater
You’ll never know how much I appreciate this honesty, and the journey you’ve brought us on🕷
I think you express yourself very well with words AND you are very real.
Yalls intros are so good. Calming.
When I saw that you guys were together I FLIPPED I love Kristi and Zack so happy you guys are all friends!!!
Such a great video! I love Kristi too and your camaraderie came over on video really well. The silver pieces are lovely...I’ll need to check those now. Btw, I would give anything to be able to journal well. I think you might do everything well, Elsa. Barron, too. Take care and never lose sight of your bliss.
With the caption for this post and then the opening shot of the tent, I thought that was the “you’re in the dog house” space :) glad that wasn’t the case. thank you for your candor and openness. Love, Christine
Love the regular uploads. Hope y'all are well!
beautiful. life is life and we can choose to live it, or fake it. i am so glad you all are living it
Your content is exactly what I need right now ♥️ it's so inspiring and calming
You are delightfully human and lovely. Living in a small space is very challenging and it’s normal to get annoyed with those we love the most. You’re talking through it and coming out stronger. Well done. ❤️
Agreed, to a point. Disagreements will happen, but you don't have to let it escalate to fights!
Make love, not war! Avoid triggers & build on your common ground!
Like a healthy garden, you need to put in a lot of work, & the more work you put in, the better the garden!
Thank you for keeping it real! 🤗👍✌️
I thought that intro shot of the tent was how you dealt with arguments. Like the camp way of "you're sleeping on the couch tonight" 😂
Hahaha, this is what a few people thought but putting up the tent would be way too much effort when we’re already stressed out🤣
Maybe that's what Pop-up tents were originally designed for. 😂
I like the back burner analogy when you're talking about "fights," arguments when talking about relationships. That's literally the perfect analogy!!
Love how real your channel is. Love you guys!
Love the stamped pieces! Going to check out Kristi's channel. I've been married almost 21 years(we got married very young lol) and you have a great way of handling arguments. Communication is so vital in a relationship.
I love the honesty of your vlogs
Thank you for sharing your real lives with us. Elsa, your journals are a beautiful accomplishment and a precious gift for those who will come after you. You two are making wonderful lives together. Keep on.
My universe is so complete now. Ugh.... I can’t be more in love with you and RawbeautyKristi than I am at this moment in time! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
So true!! It’s a lot of hard work just living in a RV or camper add passion, love, misunderstandings and miscommunications and it really will test any relationship. We’ve been in our RV just over two years and together for five - we have becomes each other’s safe space through and through for this reason alone but it was hard to get here and we know we will never escape disagreements but there are so many constructive ways to handle them! Thanks for sharing!
It’s so nice to see you guys in a home and playing with electronics lol! Thanks to Kristi and her husband! Lol A couple who doesn’t fight isn’t a perfect relationship!!
Psychologists & psychiatrists argue whether it is healthy or not to fight, but something they all agree on is that fights escalate over time (look at the stats for domestic abuse- most people who make up those numbers would describe themselves as "normal" & would say their fight just "got out of hand"). So, how is it healthy for a life long relationship?- Normal does not equal healthy!
If you love someone you can disagree without escalating it to a fight! But that takes both people looking for the other's interest, true love based on respect, trust, & being each other's best friend. & trying to see it from the other person's point of view. Not that chemical attraction so many are suckered into believing is love (Hollywood I'm looking at you!), which is believed to last an average of 2 years anyway.
That video was soothing, beautiful to watch, and interesting. Thank you. ❤
Raw beauty kristi is one of my favorite beauty utube channel's. So cool that you guys are together
Thanks for keeping it real & raw & sharing. 💕
Love the authenticity and realness that you share. I have been following your journey and love your way of life! My honey and I have been living tiny for a year and half and we have also learned to adjust the way we handle our emotions in a small space together. I never comment, but felt I should show my support. So fun to see you in Washington state now, my home!
I love seeing and listening to you elsa! It feels like such a long time since you’ve had a conversation with us, even though there’s not much conversing 😂 I still miss the body paint days but I enjoy this free spirit probably more! Much love ❤️
Thank you for being you. 💕
I totally understand that you and your sweetie are going to have arguments during stressful times. You are both Real and Precious. You have such a sweet face even when your stressed. You probably have one of the Healthiest Relationships on the planet.💖
DANG IT!!! My family and I were just in Leavenworth and we missed you! I would’ve totally lost my crap if I saw you guys there!!! I talk about you guys to my husband all the time. You’ve both changed the way I look at being in the outdoors since I grew up in LA but now live in North Idaho. Dang it!!! I so wish I could’ve met you!
Keeping it real. Understand - human. Sometimes I realize were here alone, came into this world solo and will exit solo. Yet also realize was born loved by others and enjoy being loved along the way. Now 65 still find in my real time alone, yes this journey called life is often alone in thought, space and time. Relationships are work and worthy of the effort for love is special. We all need space yet yearn for companionship.
Be safe and remember "This" above all: to thine own self be true."
Babies that are not held & touched regularly in the first few months die!- really! There is precedence (preemies were dieing in a ward, but one bed had a significantly higher survival rate, because the janitor would mop up to the last bed, stop, & hold/play with whoever was in that bed before moving on)! Some shrinks have couples hold hands while they try to talk something out. The first one to let go is the one hurting the relationship, because it is a subconscious reflex to pull away from someone you don't want to cooperate with.
Also, if you've spent time away from a loved one, laying next to each other literally brings your heart beats back into unison. This helps reset each other!
Hi...I have never subscribed to the saying, "we come into this world alone & leave alone". There are some souls who do sadly depart alone. We enter w/ our mothers & hopefully, our fathers along w/ the doctor & nurses & when we depart, our loved are there to send us off to our next journey. This is my perspective & I've ushered into life 2 daughters & held many a hand of love & peace sending my loved ones off onto their journey. Blessings
You both are a blast of fresh air. Keep on keeping on.
Your brutal honesty in this video, and the thoughtfull air you show is very appreciated and inspiring. My partner and I have for a while until recently actively tried to avoid anything that could remotely start a fight. This was from fear that any fight, regardless of what started it, would lead to us seperating. And it really started to damage our relationship and limit conversation. It came to an explosive bulkhead and we concluded that fights are going to happen, it comes with the territory when sharing you're life with someone. And this knowledge has made us more honest with each other, and given us a stronger connection. Thank you for sharing, and I hope you and Barron ,while you two sometimes walk alone as you said , enjoy many many more walks together in the future under the sun.
OMG im coming over to your channel cause Kristy was talking about you guys on hers so I was so stoked that she was in this video! I love that you & your boyfriend are so real :) your lifestyle is so cool & I enjoyed getting a little peek into what this kind of living would be like, so thank you! Xo
The editing and filming you guys do is sooo nicely done. Quality work!!! Love the vibe. The honesty, the flow of how your capturing your adventure.
Aw!♥️ Love RawBeautyKristi! Love you guys too! ☮️
Thank you for sharing this with us. It’s hard to think that you guys don’t show us everything that goes on in your life (of course). It just connects the audience more to see that you’re not a cookie cutter relationship and even though it seems you’re living this fantasy life of adventure that you are still experiencing regular relationship stress. It makes you real! Thank you
Found you guys because of a recommendation from Kristi a while back. So it was really awesome to see her on here!
Great video. Two of my favorite channels in one. Thank you
Thank you for sharing your real experiences with us all. Finding the space and balance are great tools for life. Best wishes for your journey
So truthful and peaceful. Thank You
This was my favorite video. Thank you for being real♥️. Y’all are awesome.
I love this video. It's so refreshing to listen to someone speak so candidly about their fights. I admire your honesty.
Try using dryer sheets stuck in strategic places in the car motor to keep furry critters away when parked.
I like your honesty💞
Love you both always just got my lost in the right direction sticker today! ♥️
Words to live by! 🙌
So beautiful Elsa. You ARE very articulate and the segment on fighting was raw and loving. Well done. And boy was I surprised to see DRAWERS! Too true, my first thought was the weight. Man, that’s why fiberglass was created. But what challenge that would be! Much love to you and Barron.
best video yet!! Love the honesty..
That pasta looked amazing!
I always put on french music when i cook too:)
I love your honesty!
Thank you for being so transparent and keeping it real Elsa Rhae. You are beautiful. 💗
Two of my favorite UA-camrs! Both of you are so honest, authentic and beautiful!
I actually found this video very refreshing. Life can be trying, particularly when one is at odds with someone that is so close. You're being vulnerable on camera made me appreciate you so much more. I was able to see more sides to a very soulful person. I have been watching you both for some time, thank you for showing us another side to the trials and tribulations on life off road. Happy New Year!
I love the way you journal, so unique.
Omg it is Kristy!!! I was like "I know that laugh!" Hahaha this is amazing!!
Leavenworth is so dear to my heart. Loved seeing it in this video.
I just found your channel like 2 days ago & I'm bingeing now. Also about to look for a bullet journal video from you because your journal is beautiful. I love planners & journals.
liking the new transitions!
fights are so real and necessary part of life together .... learning to fight is as important as breathing....there are rules that can't be broken...and shit happens. keep up the good real life.
Don't know how you do it!? You two are very SPECIAL PEOPLE to live this UNIQUE COUPLE EXPERIENCE! It is normal to fight real people argue... If you don't you don't grow and know each other in a deeper Relationship. Your Amazing, keep on keeping on!!😎
Melting my heart with these edits.
You are very good with words too... very lovely to listen to x
At minute 2:35 looked like you guys were in Helen, Georgia.
Thx for sharing this with us. Love your honesty.
That's what it looks like to me to 😊 love that area used live close to there.
It’s Leavenworth, WA 😊