feeling lost in college

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  • Опубліковано 26 січ 2025

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  • @denissse_as
    @denissse_as Рік тому +39

    I study psychology and I am in a therapeutic process, through this I have been learning that what you feel is valid, even if you are at the university of your dreams doing what you like most, it is valid to complain because nothing is perfect and we will always need something more to satisfy us but I think that is exactly what motivates us and causes movement ✨ Even if you feel lost, I wish you can find or create your path, good luck with your finals and thanks for such cool content !🤓

  • @bushilao
    @bushilao Рік тому +19

    it's okay tulip 🌷 you'll be perfectly fine, i believe in you !!! you should trust ur guts too !!

    • @laxmi_11223
      @laxmi_11223 2 місяці тому +1

      I dunno y the hell you all been calling him tulip 🌷😭 , but that was funny 😂 , um...no it's not 🙂🚶🏻‍♀️

  • @chatwcharlie
    @chatwcharlie Рік тому +16

    You got this 🙌🏼 it’s okay to feel lost. You’ll find your way ☺️

  • @yukzaa
    @yukzaa 9 днів тому

    thank you for being so authentic and sharing ur concerns in college. as a high school student, this helped me a lot and taught me that even if i get into college there will still be concerns in life haha

  • @jennycheng1183
    @jennycheng1183 Рік тому +10

    i love these type of content. so real and relatable. keep fighting!

  • @nathanchow5104
    @nathanchow5104 Рік тому +4

    I’m in highschool right now, and I’m feeling the exact things you described right now. Life throws curveballs at us, but bouncing back and trying to find beauty in the things you have is paramount to success. I hope to go to Duke one day, but it is more important to me that I enjoy the process no matter what happens. Enjoy the break!

  • @keerthana3674
    @keerthana3674 Рік тому +3

    i love how comforting the vibe of the videos is

  • @caseypenk
    @caseypenk Рік тому +3

    It’s very normal for college students as well as adults after college to feel lost. You’re not alone! Just know that it’s okay not to have everything figured out, even after you graduate. The important thing is that you’re exploring your interests, keep doing that!

  • @keirafilms
    @keirafilms Рік тому +3

    heyyy just wanna say ur videos are so comforting!!! wishing you the best of luck!!

  • @karthurh
    @karthurh Рік тому +5

    I'm studying in a Science and Technology School here in northeast Brazil for a degree in Mechanical Engineering and let me tell you, you're not alone by having these kind of thoughts. Just take in consideration that every single thought we've had, someone already had also. Don't think much about your grades but your short term future and goals that you want for your life.

  • @mypeyboritetiramisu11
    @mypeyboritetiramisu11 Рік тому +4

    I feel happier rn coz my favourite Tulip just posted 😭❤❤

  • @bezao9186
    @bezao9186 Рік тому +14

    Ano que vem vou fazer o terceiro ano do ensino médio e me dá medo o que está por vir depois, quero cursar algo que eu goste e atingir estabilidade financeira mas eu realmente não sei o que fazer. Estou me sentindo perdido agora e me sinto um pouco mais pressionado já que todos sempre me fazem a pergunta "E você vai fazer o que da vida?", eu falo direito mas falo por falar, não é como se eu realmente quisesse isso... seja lá o que for espero não me arrepender. Forte abraço, quem sabe o que o futuro nos aguarda.

    • @dandinzin
      @dandinzin Рік тому +1

      Eu to nessa também, e eu cheguei na conclusão de que tá tudo bem. Eu vou me descobrindo e descobrindo a vida conforme as coisas vão acontecendo, ninguém tem certeza de nada, porque isso é impossível, a vida é imprevisível. Mas acho que o importante é experimentar coisas novas e não ter medo de tentar, que uma hora as coisas vão se alinhando.

  • @Nstquack
    @Nstquack Рік тому +1

    I Was so surprised that you made such vid 🥺 I’m also kinda lost now so it’s great to hear you speak about it. I hope it will get better for you

  • @jailuke2734
    @jailuke2734 Рік тому +1

    Easy to say, less hard to do, but just go with the flow. You don’t have to have everything mapped out and you don’t have to 100% know what you want to do in your life. I didn’t end up studying design until I was 40 now I’m working as a designer and loving it. Things will present themselves when you’re ready to accept them or take them on. Also your bro is super talented! Keep on keeping on.

  • @Newjeans5752
    @Newjeans5752 10 місяців тому +4

    You said that comparison is the thief of happiness. This means that watching your videos is a reason to steal my happiness because I cannot help but compare myself to you, and I am a little jealous of you
    😢، But despite all this, I love you and i love your personality and you are cute 😊❤

  • @sameerasankar9038
    @sameerasankar9038 9 місяців тому +1

    I am also feeling lost. I am I sophomore studying Mechanical Engineering at a local university. I was really looking forward to going to college, so why am I unhappy? I think academic burnout is a part of it. The college experience in general can also be very lonely at times, even with roommates and friends. I also find that days are really repetitive, but adding more to my schedule will only cause more anxiety and less time for homework. I am just hoping that there is light at the end of the tunnel and all the hard work will pay off. But then again, I also think, where do I go from here? Will my hard work be worth it? I don't know. Anyhow, let's hope there is light at the end for both of us.

  • @letusimagine7
    @letusimagine7 Рік тому +1

    aww i grew up right next to Duke Campus, your videos make me nostalgic and miss home 😭

  • @arishem555
    @arishem555 Рік тому

    6:50 it is just another confirmation, that humans playing music instruments have higher beautyness of their souls.

  • @keerthana3674
    @keerthana3674 Рік тому

    thank you. i feel these thoughts so much.

  • @FaC_26
    @FaC_26 Рік тому

    It's really okay to feel that way, that means that you really care about your grades and your future which is an amazing thing, don't be stressed, you can do it!
    I'm in finals week too, but it's okay we should just study hard and believe in ourselves. Finally please remember that the grades don't matter if your health isn't good, so take good care of yourself and study hard, and I'm saying one more time YOU CAN DO IT.

  • @hannah20_
    @hannah20_ Рік тому

    I love your videos Tulio :)) Also I can really relate to feeling lost but we got this, let’s just trust the process🌞😌

  • @rhyzzaarioste827
    @rhyzzaarioste827 Рік тому

    You are my favorite notification!!!
    Highlights of the Day : Tulio posteddd

  • @batool2003
    @batool2003 Рік тому +1

    I feel happy when I get a notification from your channel❤

  • @Dsauln06
    @Dsauln06 Рік тому

    I searched you up on tt and realized your that guy that roller skates like super fast, nice videos btw!

  • @wafflqs
    @wafflqs Рік тому

    Hey, you still have a long way to go! I’m sure you’ll be able to find your way! I know that because you’re making a lot of progress. On your first week at Duke you told someone that you didn’t have the confidence to like set your phone done and record as you walk away (or something like that😭) but now you can do that because you built up your confidence !!!! (the beginning of the video)
    Anyways i’m sure everything will be alright :)

  • @eugigi329
    @eugigi329 Рік тому

    You play very well, Lucas! Thank you for reminding me how amazing the cello is and encouraging me to play again!🤍

  • @Xieliandni
    @Xieliandni Рік тому

    goodluck with ur finals!!

  • @wilheminaamoah9333
    @wilheminaamoah9333 Рік тому

    It’s a normal feeling ngl thought about my major every semester lmaoo also rethink choosing the sch I chose lol

  • @zeynepirem713
    @zeynepirem713 Рік тому +1

    I'm in my exam year and its really hard to trust the progress sometimes. But i am trying my best to not compare myself with others and go on my way. Hope i can get into my dream uni. ❤

  • @PrakashPant-h9z
    @PrakashPant-h9z Рік тому

    feeling lost in college applications.
    We both are being lost, don't worry. Life is like this. It's gonna be fine some day.

  • @ashannonshowstargrl232
    @ashannonshowstargrl232 Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing.I am proud of you and am happy u have support from your family.And wanting to succeed in life.U got this.😇😉👍

  • @BarryWaterlow
    @BarryWaterlow Рік тому

    If you didn’t feel a little lost at this stage, you’d be the exception rather than the rule. words from a madrigal echo often in my mind, “Take time while time there is, for time will away.” Basically, enjoy life while you’re alive! I suspect you do that. Very cool that your brother is also a musician! How did the two of you get exposed to, and interested in string playing?

  • @charlesradcliffe1398
    @charlesradcliffe1398 Рік тому

    we love tulio papi

  • @nalurolim
    @nalurolim Рік тому

    Due to a UA-cam notification, I opened your video in the middle of a company-wide meeting while sharing my screen. Luckily, I closed it quickly; it would've been hard to explain, haha!
    Your reflection at the beginning of the video reminded me a lot of my college days, and I think it's natural for us to start having these kinds of thoughts. It's part of the maturing process, even if it's a bit tough on us.
    Ultimately, from my own experience and also my friends experience, I feel like life is like floating in the sea. Sometimes, heavier waves come, but there's a lot of calmness, and eventually, you reach dry land* (:
    Oh, your brother nailed the concert! Congrats to Mr. Lucas!
    Note: didn't even call you 'Tulip' today.

    • @TulioSasaya
      @TulioSasaya  Рік тому +1

      Well I'm glad i didn't ruin your company meeting haha. Loved hearing your perspective on this, and Mr. Lucas definitely nailed the concert (thanks for not calling me tulip :) )

  • @zeynepirem713
    @zeynepirem713 Рік тому

    Hi! Thanks for the video. Have a nice day 🌷

  • @BiaRosa-w6c
    @BiaRosa-w6c 9 місяців тому

    Lindas imagens e música inicial adoro e no piano lindo demais

  • @isabellymach
    @isabellymach Рік тому

    Amo seus vídeos ❤

  • @CrazySquirrelProductions
    @CrazySquirrelProductions Рік тому

    Join the Navy; see the world. That'll un-lost you fast. 😂😂😂

  • @Annie-ws4dz
    @Annie-ws4dz Рік тому

    wish i had friends like u

  • @btool5232
    @btool5232 Рік тому +1

    When you get famous don't forget us OK?

    • @Kekescalope
      @Kekescalope Рік тому +1

      Yeah he'd better not because if he does I'll cry

  • @ericzhao2475
    @ericzhao2475 Рік тому +1

    🌷

  • @rhyzzaarioste827
    @rhyzzaarioste827 Рік тому

    EVERYONE WAKE UP TULIP'S BACKK!!!

  • @ihyy._0
    @ihyy._0 Рік тому

    Now im going to eat my dinner while watching your video "_" 🌷

  • @f4b1oJR
    @f4b1oJR 9 місяців тому

  • @rannymaz4272
    @rannymaz4272 Рік тому

    You got this Keep going.....🌷?

  • @KingOfThePirates101
    @KingOfThePirates101 Рік тому

    Tulio. You remind me a lot of the korean singer Eric Nam. 😆

  • @tibi3009
    @tibi3009 Рік тому

    Eu aq sem entender nada ksks (mas to aq)

    • @tibi3009
      @tibi3009 Рік тому

      Agr q vi q tem lengenda pt ksksks

    • @tibi3009
      @tibi3009 Рік тому

      Mas a legenda é meio confusa

  • @amsay5956
    @amsay5956 Рік тому

    It's suspicious that you're posting so much about the usual.tulip? 👍😊

    • @TulioSasaya
      @TulioSasaya  Рік тому +1

      trying to be more active on socials :)

  • @think_ill_miss_you_forever
    @think_ill_miss_you_forever Рік тому

    just found ur channel from insta! u gained a subscriber :)

  • @lsasaya
    @lsasaya Рік тому +2

    🌷