He unfortunately knows where she lives since it seems he brought her there. NEVER let a guy you just met know where you live. He can always show up at her residence now. 😬
Or just don’t go on dates with those kind of men period. Maybe we should just focus on setting standards, boundaries and expectations…. Males have said that they’re not going to change so it’s up to us to move more strategically and don’t give them the time of day. They don’t deserve our time nor our presence
Girl when he came to pick me up dressed like a 10 year old on his first date, I would have thrown the whole date away. Most importantly, if this is a first date, there is no way he should be picking you up.
@@MT-xx5cd He's the one that's gonna be crying now that we know what he looks like and who he is. On top of that he definitely ain't getting a second date. Why do broke men try to take women on dates they can't afford?
@@redpete89 Dude had on a dingy shirt with cartoon characters🙄. Stop the cap. God forbid this happens to your daughter.. make sure to tell her that HE dodged a bullet because she didnt want to sleep with him. If that sounds logical to you, then, you're just as dusty as dude in video. Just NO accountability.
@@redpete89and he wont ever get a girl if hes expecting them to give up pussy and if not, hes gonna be passive aggressive and make the person pay lol literally bottom of the barrel behavior.
I wouldn’t even feel comfortable with him taking me home!! I’d walk or call a ride before I left with this man. Pay my bill & never see him again. SMH.
Sadly, we dont live in the times where a guy can pick you up for a date and go out anymore. Its best to drive your own car to a location where it was planned to meet up at. And BYOM!!! Bring your own money!!!
@@goddessanjanee2525 plus the way it looks, he didnt want anything to do with her after he found out she was interested in him paying all of it more than the date itself. Plus this was most likely a first date in which both people should split the check anyways
The fact that she even entertained him after seeing how he put no effort into his appearance is shocking. How? A bacon neck tshirt with an unkempt beard is a NO!!!!
She should be ashamed of herself being out to eat with this male. They say don't judge a book by it's cover but he looks like he doesn't bathe. Embarrassing
First of all. Who would go on a first date with that. Ladies, are we that desperate. He looks like he’s dusty coming to a date like that. Ladies, please tell me what qualities would you see in this cartoon character? I don’t get it. 😮
Ladies should never accept a date if they don't have enough cash to pay for their own food and transportation home. She really shouldn't have said anything to him once he said he's only paying for himself. I wouldn't want his dusty butt knowing my address. Call Uber, pay and leave. Or worse case scenario go to bathroom and sneak out. I would never let him know he affected me in any way.
Wow and didn't want to drive her back home! The payment for the food could have already been discussed prior to dinner, but wow... leaving her stranded?!
I had a female friend go on a date with a guy then he refused to drive her home unless she spent the night. She had to walk a few miles in the snow to get herself home. Dont EVER let a guy DRIVE you somewhere!!! Fyi: this was before uber and cell phones weren't that common yet.
See. It's about being OBSERVANT BEFORE the date occurs. Look at his ungroomed beard, hair, dirty nails....raggedy tshirt. If a man doesn't even take pride in his appearance for a date, he doesn't respect himself, and OFCOURSE will have no respect for you. If a man showed up at my house looking like this to "take me out"....I would have politely said no and never spoke to him again. Red flags, ladies. Sometimes, there are red BANNERS flying in our faces, and we are looking the other way.
Back before I met my husband. I made sure every guy I met knew point blank that I was saving for marriage and that I'd go Dutch on the date. If I ever couldn't afford to go out I just wouldn't go lol
Ma'am I blame you. Look at his appearance and attire. They always shout you don't want give a guy a chance and see your generosity got you. I'm glad you put him on camera so others can beware. He looks homeless.
My first date, which was in college happened like this. He had known me for months. At the time we met, I was on line and was unable to go out during that time. So after I crossed he begged and begged to take me out, so i let him. When the check came he just casually say "its seperate". Mannnnn when I say I was so shocked. I didnt say a word or make a scene. Good thing im the type to bring my own money no matter what. I just dropped him after that. The nerve of him to ask me did i wanna be his girlfriend after And it was a Hell no.😅😅😅
And, you should never expect another person to pay for you unless you been with them for years or unless you spoke about who is paying before. If anything your comment makes YOU seem like the bad guy, over here crying about having to split a check, thats why he made you find a way home
I’m sure many dates I’ve been on have thought this… but really I just felt annoyed or disgusted by their behavior so I ghosted them. I would tell myself “hey at least I got free food” to make myself feel better about wasting my time on such horrible date.
Ladies you already have 100% already on your own just by being single ! Don't settle don't drop down to 0% interest . Just by looking to what he's wearing that tells you he has that have 0% look !
NEVER trust a grown man in a ratchet-ass 90s Disney shirt he copped @ Goodwil.That Macklemore song was 10+ yrs ago&was only stylin w/ rich rappers & hippie chicks.
That's okay, even if I don't have a little extra for an UBER, I'll just call one of the 5 people I have let know my location in case you were psychotic, sir. But fr, in this dating world, you gotta go with enough to cover yourself. And don't let them pick you up at your place, meet them out. Biggest reason why I don't want to live alone, tbh. I do live with my mother, but it's a roommate situation. A roommate is good to mention when trying to date someone, because it tells that person that if you go missing, someone will be aware of it. Especially if you've asked the roommate to check in on you until you get back home.
She shoulda met him there and had money to buy her own meal. Then when he asked for some, she could giggle in his beat face and leave in her own whip. This whole thing is on her tbh. Don’t put yourself in the position to have to rely on Mr. Dusty Musty Crusty! 😂
This why u should get to know a person before u get in they car always drive your own car and have your own money and don't forget to carry a gun u never know with these men nowdays
Lady everything you’re doing is putting your life in danger. Call a friend or family member to cash app you. You cannot be this desperate. Of a man did anything like this to me, I would say goodbye right there. Let him pay for his stuff, I will pay for mine and that’s that. Dude was hit as well. How did he even get a date. Always have at least 100$ or more in your purse when you hit out with a new guy.
I never paid outside the relationship but my family always told me to have my own money and transportation just for these moments. Also, know his car & tags and location to where we’re going.
If you live your life expecting others to take care of you when they disappoint you are the only one holding the bag. It's better to live life with no expectations. That way, then others do step up or forward it is a welcomed surprise. 1. Walk with your own money 2. Have your ride, whether it's a car, taxi, uber, bicycle, tricycle, scooter, skateboard 3. Walk with a weapon, no one has to protect you. 4. Also be prepared for the worst and expect the best from yourself. When you find the one who is your person, the one who will not have you wait more than 1 year to 2 years to marry you, only then you let your guard down and your expectations rise.
Take your own car, bring your own money, take your ass home. Don't depend on no man or no one to take care of you. If you can't afford to go on a date, don't. I'm not saying don't ever let a man pay or the other person who invited you on a date pay. I think if you are invited on a date that means that person should be providing the date. But what I am saying is you should never agree to go on a date when you can't get yourself out of a situation you don't want to be in.
In this situation, I blame her for going out with a guy who looks like him in the first place. He looks unwashed, his knubs are dirty even though he doesn't have visible nails, and he doesn't enunciate. Next time, choose better.
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He looks gross how did he even get that date??? 😂😂😂
U hear her voice? She probably look worse than him 😂
@@nicholasstone4963That's the best you came up with?? You must wear dingy looney tune shirts too huh? 😂😂😂
@@nicholasstone4963wait you think she look bad because of her voice 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mina2719 she sound fat 😂
I wear super mario shirts but yeah he could of fixed himself better for the date
Ladies, always bring extra money for an uber.
Right. NEVER go on a date unprepared.
He unfortunately knows where she lives since it seems he brought her there. NEVER let a guy you just met know where you live. He can always show up at her residence now. 😬
Except this is two dudes
Or just don’t go on dates with those kind of men period. Maybe we should just focus on setting standards, boundaries and expectations…. Males have said that they’re not going to change so it’s up to us to move more strategically and don’t give them the time of day. They don’t deserve our time nor our presence
Eww advice.
She should have looked at him and knew not to entertain him nor go on a date with him🤢
She was to busy trying to finesse him lmao she ain’t no better yall all terrible
She stayed for the swindle😂😅
I'm on dudes side. We're hip to your game now ladies, it won't work anymore.
@tetsuoakira8294 so you want even have basic hygiene? Look at his fingernails 🤢
@@awaters8784 Wow, you women are so fragile. Can't handle being called out for your actions.
Girl when he came to pick me up dressed like a 10 year old on his first date, I would have thrown the whole date away. Most importantly, if this is a first date, there is no way he should be picking you up.
Girl, pay that bill and leave the dust there💨💨💨
Cry more😂😂😂
Show her knee caps
Leave the dust behind
Period 😂
@@MT-xx5cd He's the one that's gonna be crying now that we know what he looks like and who he is. On top of that he definitely ain't getting a second date. Why do broke men try to take women on dates they can't afford?
Girl, trust me, you dodged a bullet
No, he did
@@redpete89 Dude had on a dingy shirt with cartoon characters🙄. Stop the cap. God forbid this happens to your daughter.. make sure to tell her that HE dodged a bullet because she didnt want to sleep with him. If that sounds logical to you, then, you're just as dusty as dude in video. Just NO accountability.
@@redpete89Go back to your red pill channels ...weirdo 😂
@@redpete89and he wont ever get a girl if hes expecting them to give up pussy and if not, hes gonna be passive aggressive and make the person pay lol literally bottom of the barrel behavior.
And you're the problem 😂
Look at his fingernails 🤢.... We wouldn't have made it beyond the parking lot, let alone me letting him pick me up and going inside with him.
Lmao but you can see that shirt from a block away… how you trying to caress some head while wearing looney toons 😂😂😅
If he doesn’t take care of his hygiene, he won’t care about her physical health. They give women UTIs and STDs. No shame.
I promise no one wants to go inside with u either😭🙏
@@SimpleSynixwere you the guy?
@@SimpleSynixYou must have dirty fingernails. It's okay, Dial works well.
Seeing by the collar of his shirt he wasn’t on shit to begin with
I wouldn’t even feel comfortable with him taking me home!! I’d walk or call a ride before I left with this man. Pay my bill & never see him again. SMH.
He looked busted, always be up front, and bring your own funds 😮😮
I wouldn't have walked to the corner store with him, much less a date!!!😮
As a woman i would NEVER be mad @ this type of action. I never have to see you again ✌🏽 and he look like he stinks a lil bit.
Bring your own money when that happen you already have a second plan
😂😂😂😂😂 meanwhile the nice guy is just a friend 🤣🤣😂😂
Sadly, we dont live in the times where a guy can pick you up for a date and go out anymore. Its best to drive your own car to a location where it was planned to meet up at. And BYOM!!! Bring your own money!!!
Hey, he showed you who he was on the first date
She didn't bring Vex/Mad Money ⁉️And you let him know where you live and pick you up 🤦🏿♀️❓
Time out- WHAT DOES SHE 👀 LOOK LIKE? Cuz I’m questioning her sanity if she went ANYWHERE with this guy in public😲😬
Ugh his appearance tells it all sis
There is no way I would have gone with this man anywhere. She must raise her standards and set clearly defined boundaries. ❤️🩹💔❤️🔥
He ain’t dusty bring your own money my momma been taught me that you ain’t bouta get a free meal no where
Your momma taught you right
Yes, I was taught to bring money by my mom, too. Know your worth, ladies.
@@goddessanjanee2525 plus the way it looks, he didnt want anything to do with her after he found out she was interested in him paying all of it more than the date itself. Plus this was most likely a first date in which both people should split the check anyways
He's a grown man wearing looney tune characters so she should expect looney tune behavior 😂😂😂
When a dinner date is arranged, that is when who is paying should be discussed. Not in public, this is totally avoidable for both parties
The fact that she even entertained him after seeing how he put no effort into his appearance is shocking. How? A bacon neck tshirt with an unkempt beard is a NO!!!!
If you aren’t prepared to pay for yourself, DON’T GO! Arguing shows a lack of class.
Look how he showed up for a date!
Always get yourself there and have your own money. If he picked you up looking like that, it should have been an instant decline.
She should be ashamed of herself being out to eat with this male. They say don't judge a book by it's cover but he looks like he doesn't bathe. Embarrassing
Imagine expecting someone to exchange their body for a plate 😅
What a catch!
Girl pay your bill and take an Uber home.
Bring your own money and also never ride with them to the date. Drive yourself and pay for your own food.
His attire!
His beard!
He appears unkempt Ma'am what made you think he was worth effort?
💯 facts!
First of all. Who would go on a first date with that. Ladies, are we that desperate. He looks like he’s dusty coming to a date like that. Ladies, please tell me what qualities would you see in this cartoon character? I don’t get it. 😮
Ladies should never accept a date if they don't have enough cash to pay for their own food and transportation home. She really shouldn't have said anything to him once he said he's only paying for himself. I wouldn't want his dusty butt knowing my address. Call Uber, pay and leave. Or worse case scenario go to bathroom and sneak out. I would never let him know he affected me in any way.
This what giving a mf a chance get you 😂then they complain women only want rich men. Look how yall act just cause she said no 😅😅😂
The so called “good guys”
Ladies, always have your own money. Just pay.
LADIES DON'T EVER LET A GUY DRIVE YOU SOMEWHERE!!!
Unless you know and trust him!
Wow and didn't want to drive her back home! The payment for the food could have already been discussed prior to dinner, but wow... leaving her stranded?!
Why did you go out with him? He’s wearing a damn Daffy Duck shirt along with not being decently groomed. What would you expect?
I had a female friend go on a date with a guy then he refused to drive her home unless she spent the night. She had to walk a few miles in the snow to get herself home. Dont EVER let a guy DRIVE you somewhere!!! Fyi: this was before uber and cell phones weren't that common yet.
What homeless shelter did she pick this stray up from? Wtf.
All the apps you're on 😂😅
He is not HIM. He should be a lot more humble
Look at him he wouldn't get the time of day ... Shes just as crazy as him avoid situations
See. It's about being OBSERVANT BEFORE the date occurs. Look at his ungroomed beard, hair, dirty nails....raggedy tshirt. If a man doesn't even take pride in his appearance for a date, he doesn't respect himself, and OFCOURSE will have no respect for you. If a man showed up at my house looking like this to "take me out"....I would have politely said no and never spoke to him again. Red flags, ladies. Sometimes, there are red BANNERS flying in our faces, and we are looking the other way.
Better have your own money. I only order that I can pay for.
Looks like he slept in that comical t shirt
Look at him. Did you really expect anything different? He wearing a cartoon tee-shirt.
I agree with the splitting of the check, but if you picked her up, you should be responsible for bringing her back home. At least I feel that’s fair.
He aint feeling her. It was a bad date for him.
Back before I met my husband. I made sure every guy I met knew point blank that I was saving for marriage and that I'd go Dutch on the date. If I ever couldn't afford to go out I just wouldn't go lol
Ma'am I blame you. Look at his appearance and attire. They always shout you don't want give a guy a chance and see your generosity got you. I'm glad you put him on camera so others can beware. He looks homeless.
My first date, which was in college happened like this. He had known me for months. At the time we met, I was on line and was unable to go out during that time. So after I crossed he begged and begged to take me out, so i let him. When the check came he just casually say "its seperate". Mannnnn when I say I was so shocked. I didnt say a word or make a scene. Good thing im the type to bring my own money no matter what. I just dropped him after that. The nerve of him to ask me did i wanna be his girlfriend after And it was a Hell no.😅😅😅
I would have never wasted my time😢😢 damn dating apps 😂😂
He looks broke and dusty
He is definitely dustyyyyy
He looks dusty. She really thought he would pay 😅😅😅😅
The guy is wearing a looney toons shirt on a first date….girl just pay and leave that dust.
He's a looney Toon 🤡
I always bring my own money and we wont pull up together until you show me a reason we should.
If that’s his wife or even long term girlfriend then that’s wrongggg.
I had this exact situation happen myself… dude left me in a whole other state & I had to take a $300 taxi home
And, you should never expect another person to pay for you unless you been with them for years or unless you spoke about who is paying before. If anything your comment makes YOU seem like the bad guy, over here crying about having to split a check, thats why he made you find a way home
Sounds like you sold him a dream n had him bring you to another state with promises n then he seen through the bs that you was just tryin to use him
Look at his shirt. That should of been a red flag.
This gotta be a skit… ain’t no way
Ewwwww shouldn't have left in tne first place.😂😂😂😂
What goes around comes around
Yo,stuck in the woods, with the bear is looking more promising 😅
He brought her out to get gas money from her 🤦🏾♀️
Call it even for all the women that use dates for free food. Which is still happening for some reason, though some of the women hang low now
I’m sure many dates I’ve been on have thought this… but really I just felt annoyed or disgusted by their behavior so I ghosted them. I would tell myself “hey at least I got free food” to make myself feel better about wasting my time on such horrible date.
Yeah hes a bum 😂
Ladies you already have 100% already on your own just by being single ! Don't settle don't drop down to 0% interest . Just by looking to what he's wearing that tells you he has that have 0% look !
Say you need to go to the restroom then bounce
Why would you go on a date with that thing
NEVER trust a grown man in a ratchet-ass 90s Disney shirt he copped @ Goodwil.That Macklemore song was 10+ yrs ago&was only stylin w/ rich rappers & hippie chicks.
He looks dirty
Bet she wishing she didn't get the crab legs lmao
Lesson learned bring your own money chick..
Dustyyyyyyyyy😂😂😂
That's okay, even if I don't have a little extra for an UBER, I'll just call one of the 5 people I have let know my location in case you were psychotic, sir.
But fr, in this dating world, you gotta go with enough to cover yourself. And don't let them pick you up at your place, meet them out. Biggest reason why I don't want to live alone, tbh. I do live with my mother, but it's a roommate situation.
A roommate is good to mention when trying to date someone, because it tells that person that if you go missing, someone will be aware of it. Especially if you've asked the roommate to check in on you until you get back home.
I mean the shirt he picked out to bring you out on a date shouldve told you everything you outta know 😭
She should have changed her mind 😮
Dusty, musty, stretched out collar looney tunes faded shirt. Girl his doing you a favor.
Wow. Thats so messed up. I hope she made it home same.
She shoulda met him there and had money to buy her own meal. Then when he asked for some, she could giggle in his beat face and leave in her own whip. This whole thing is on her tbh. Don’t put yourself in the position to have to rely on Mr. Dusty Musty Crusty! 😂
Ew, look at it.
It?? 😅
Im surprised shes not paying the entire bill
This why u should get to know a person before u get in they car always drive your own car and have your own money and don't forget to carry a gun u never know with these men nowdays
The looney tunes shirt tells it all
Lady everything you’re doing is putting your life in danger. Call a friend or family member to cash app you. You cannot be this desperate. Of a man did anything like this to me, I would say goodbye right there. Let him pay for his stuff, I will pay for mine and that’s that. Dude was hit as well. How did he even get a date.
Always have at least 100$ or more in your purse when you hit out with a new guy.
He wore that shirt to bed
I never paid outside the relationship but my family always told me to have my own money and transportation just for these moments. Also, know his car & tags and location to where we’re going.
If you live your life expecting others to take care of you when they disappoint you are the only one holding the bag. It's better to live life with no expectations. That way, then others do step up or forward it is a welcomed surprise.
1. Walk with your own money
2. Have your ride, whether it's a car, taxi, uber, bicycle, tricycle, scooter, skateboard
3. Walk with a weapon, no one has to protect you.
4. Also be prepared for the worst and expect the best from yourself.
When you find the one who is your person, the one who will not have you wait more than 1 year to 2 years to marry you, only then you let your guard down and your expectations rise.
Bro got on a whole looney tunes shirt on a date and you were expecting not to pay half? 🚩 should have knew it was going left when he picked you up
He looks a mess
Gross! Do you see the state of that dusty?
I’m a male & you should never played a women line that I’m so sorry ladies ❤️.
Take your own car, bring your own money, take your ass home. Don't depend on no man or no one to take care of you. If you can't afford to go on a date, don't. I'm not saying don't ever let a man pay or the other person who invited you on a date pay. I think if you are invited on a date that means that person should be providing the date. But what I am saying is you should never agree to go on a date when you can't get yourself out of a situation you don't want to be in.
A junkyard car looks better than this dude
In this situation, I blame her for going out with a guy who looks like him in the first place. He looks unwashed, his knubs are dirty even though he doesn't have visible nails, and he doesn't enunciate. Next time, choose better.