Game Over: The One Thing Narcissists Do That Signals the End for Good

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  • Опубліковано 23 гру 2023
  • Game Over: The One Thing Narcissists Do That Signals the End for Good. In this video, we're going to talk about the "game over" message narcissists send when they're done with you. This is the signal that it's time to move on and make a change in your life.
    If you're in a relationship with a narcissist, you know that it can be tough. Sometimes it feels like the narcissist doesn't want anything to do with you. In this video, we're going to talk about what the "game over" message from a narcissist actually means. This is the message that signals the end of the relationship and the beginning of the "discard phase."
    Have you ever been in a relationship with a narcissist that just kept going round and round… until it abruptly ended one day?
    That's the thing with narcissists. Once they do this one particular thing, it means they're completely done with you, much to your relief.
    But what is it that they do?
    That's what we're going to reveal in this video. You'll also discover the typical behavior they showcase when they do it.
    First, let's explain what narcissism is.
    Simply put, narcissism is when someone has an inflated sense of self-importance and doesn't really care about others. People with narcissistic personality disorder are always craving excessive admiration and truly believe they are one-of-a-kind, which is why they are often expecting special treatment from others. They often have an exaggerated sense of entitlement and lack empathy for others.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 177

  • @emmarae4322
    @emmarae4322 12 днів тому +37

    Only the victim can do the final discard.

    • @Josh-dm5sx
      @Josh-dm5sx 2 дні тому

      the victim is best to go no contact and refuse all further contact with the narcissist, no matter how much they try reeling the person back in

  • @michaeljohns8817
    @michaeljohns8817 5 місяців тому +185

    IF the narcissists if done with someone that's a blessing !!!!!!!!

  • @Horizon25
    @Horizon25 28 днів тому +44

    Let us empaths work together for a better tomorrow and forget about the narcissist's of this world

  • @jplund3149
    @jplund3149 2 місяці тому +115

    i am tired of the statement that we shouldnt label people. if the behavior matches it matches, if it walks like a duck it is likely a duck

    • @lilmami
      @lilmami 2 місяці тому +7

      Thank you 👏👏👏

    • @Mantelar
      @Mantelar Місяць тому +3

      I identify as a duck. Qwak!

    • @DreamChuckie
      @DreamChuckie Місяць тому +3

      Exactly!

    • @alfredbenedek3398
      @alfredbenedek3398 Місяць тому

      BETTER YET?! WHY DON'T SOME ONE, SUCH AS THIS PSYCHIATRIST, OF THIS TAPE, TELL THEM NARCISSISTS ; = = - # D O N' T L E T T H E T H E M N A R C I S S I S TS LABER - TERRORIZE - PEOPLE COWARDLY AND UN REASONABY?? # = =

    • @jjones4314
      @jjones4314 14 днів тому +2

      Agree!

  • @simjam1980
    @simjam1980 2 місяці тому +101

    The discard isnt always the end. They'll come back and blame you for blocking you. Then pretend they want to try again...just so they can discard you again.

    • @TheDevineFempress
      @TheDevineFempress 2 місяці тому

      Yup, the point is to not care about a narc once you know what you are dealing with recognize they a ball of b.s. they’re smoke

    • @jmsmurfy9
      @jmsmurfy9 Місяць тому +4

      very true...

    • @JoeBotg
      @JoeBotg 17 днів тому +1

      you all over

    • @JoeBotg
      @JoeBotg 17 днів тому +1

      no its got nothing to do with blocking you its got to do with takeinf over my phonw playing games with the phone doing everthing in your power to humitiat me be little me would you block a peorson that does that to you i now iys not you pushing the buttons but you are the manager calling the shots behind the game

    • @gabrielleaumont3971
      @gabrielleaumont3971 17 днів тому +2

      Hahaha.. not normal.not healthy not han

  • @wendydaniel1110
    @wendydaniel1110 3 місяці тому +63

    Count yourself very lucky they have moved on . Love yourself more to never look or go back to a person who cannot possibly love...❤

  • @angiea8022
    @angiea8022 2 місяці тому +53

    Please, do NOT shame the victim of the narcissist -- for being caring and trusting. It's who we are. It's how we can lean into our strength and over come their demonic presence.

    • @alfredbenedek3398
      @alfredbenedek3398 Місяць тому

      BLAME THEM PREDITORS! THE NARCISSITS!! NOT THE ABUSED PRAYES OF A NARCISSITS? DON'T DRINK TOO MUCH WATER? WHY? YOU THINK, IT WILL TURN INTO WINE, IN YOUR STUMACH, OR WHAT??!

    • @user-ds5uj6mj9n
      @user-ds5uj6mj9n Місяць тому

      Ano not all narcs the evil malignant wernt abused they were molly coddled. Most them I know I married a malignant monsters

    • @user-ds5uj6mj9n
      @user-ds5uj6mj9n Місяць тому +2

      Stop sticking up for narcs we didn't know what we were getting in to listen to yourself look at you do one

    • @melattard2037
      @melattard2037 24 дні тому +7

      i agree, we should not be shamed for expecting another human to be respectful and a decent human being...thats on them

    • @shelleyletts7959
      @shelleyletts7959 22 дні тому +7

      We are exactly the kind of people they victimize. Empathetic, trusting, loving. They pull you in and over the years shred your personality. You lose your friends and rarely see your family. They have a way of ruining any good time you dare to have. One look across a room if you are talking to someone at a party and you know your ride home will be hell. We live in hell with these people. Toxic is not even a bad enough word.

  • @Ilikefries102
    @Ilikefries102 Місяць тому +30

    They will usually stop arguing and you may feel like things are better than ever. But really they are making their plan.

  • @oachie8862
    @oachie8862 Місяць тому +33

    “Gaslighting” and “Word Salad” is a covert Narcs favorite thing!

  • @Ninanotlina
    @Ninanotlina Місяць тому +35

    The discard is never permanent. They’ll hoover and find a way back in for more supply. Don’t give them the opportunity unless you know what you’re doing. 😊

  • @andrewbeckman7687
    @andrewbeckman7687 Місяць тому +52

    It can be difficult to explain narcissistic abuse to people who have never experienced it. They are usually puzzled about how you could let this happen and not see it coming and why you stayed in the relationship after the abuse started. Some people may think that you are exaggerating. It is especially hard to explain when your narcissistic mate can project an image to other people of being smart, calm, and caring. In the end, you may have to settle for accepting that some people will simply not be able to imagine how you suffered or how badly you were treated.

    • @user-ds5uj6mj9n
      @user-ds5uj6mj9n Місяць тому +4

      Exactley not to mention the trauma bond. And this fellour on here blaming us the suvivors

    • @shelleyletts7959
      @shelleyletts7959 22 дні тому +5

      You just in one paragraph explained the last 42 years of my life. He has everyone thinking he is a great guy! I have stopped trying to explain anything about him to anyone. I did go to therapy and it was extremely helpful, but I did find a great Dr. I learned to stop saying I’m sorry 20 times a day, just to appease this man. There is no appeasing him. Speak when you are spoken to and very little. I used to try to put things right by confronting his lies. Pointless. He chooses to rewrite history to make himself blameless in every situation. Grey Rock is the only way I can live with him. I want to s ream I never said that I never did that! But I learned not to. If I get angry he gets very calm and says I am mentally ill. There is no way out for me. I am old and sick and trapped. Never wrong, never sorry. There is no bigger A hole on the planet than a Covert Narcissist. And no one would believe you.

    • @nella_bella
      @nella_bella 2 дні тому +1

      Well put

    • @roberttruman8444
      @roberttruman8444 День тому +3

      I could see something was coming, I just didn't know it was narcissism.

    • @nella_bella
      @nella_bella День тому

      @@roberttruman8444 Right

  • @tammyfitzgerald5336
    @tammyfitzgerald5336 25 днів тому +23

    Run 🏃‍♀️ they the devil can’t change won’t change

  • @tropicalascendantaries12th23
    @tropicalascendantaries12th23 5 місяців тому +80

    Narcissist will also gaslight their victims.

    • @mccm_
      @mccm_ 14 днів тому +7

      Yes! And gaslight themselves - which is scarier in my opinion. A person who has zero empathy, can flat out lie to themselves, believe it, and react (to their own lies) abusively against those closest to them - and act like a victim, is very sick and very dangerous.

    • @billwahl5909
      @billwahl5909 9 днів тому +1

      ​@@mccm_ You are absolutely correct.

  • @juancarlosdelgadomoreno4915
    @juancarlosdelgadomoreno4915 Місяць тому +39

    It starts when they find someone else,then your done!Why because all they care about is them,If you take them back,they will do it again,once a cheater always a cheater!!

  • @user-cj7ph2qw2b
    @user-cj7ph2qw2b 9 днів тому +7

    I met one. The evil is more than I could even imagined. So pitiful

  • @KA-ub4rc
    @KA-ub4rc 2 місяці тому +31

    Pay attention to the red flags early on on the friendship or relationship

  • @fokker34
    @fokker34 10 днів тому +7

    Once their shine wears off or they think they've got you, watch out!

  • @user-em8on8py9z
    @user-em8on8py9z Місяць тому +15

    I used to ignore red flags, but Im much older and much wiser.

    • @alfredbenedek3398
      @alfredbenedek3398 Місяць тому

      THE QUESTION CAME UP. WHERE DID NARCISSISTICBEAVIOR CAOMES FROM? WHEN PEOPLE WANTED TO ACHIEVE MORE, THAN THE OTHER? WHEN THEY ARE BOASTY, AND THINK OF THEMSELF, AS IF THE DETERMIN DAILY, THAT THEY ARE ACTUALY THE CENTER OF THE EARTH / UNIVERS - WHEN THEY FIRST TRICK OTHERS / MANIPULET OTHERS! JUST TO GET 1 AND A 1/2 DROP OF WATER . . . EVERY ONE HAS THOSE EMOTIONS. BUT MOST PEOPLE HAS THEM, IN MUCH LOWER WAY YET OTHERS CANT IMAGINE, TO LIVE ANY OTHER WAY! - THAN BEING A STRON ARROGANT NARCISSIST?!! SELFISHNESS!! = WHAT YOUR - A I - WOULDN'T UNDERSTA / KNOW, JUST BY MEMORY OR BY MEMORY OF MANU!!

  • @maggielucy9824
    @maggielucy9824 12 днів тому +6

    Married one. Could never tell he was one unless you spend every day with him.

  • @donnasoares9141
    @donnasoares9141 3 дні тому +5

    Worst people I have ever encountered

  • @qybbarrett9283
    @qybbarrett9283 26 днів тому +8

    U hit it on the head. I've been there and done that, but i discarded him, and he said, "Oh well, you when so u lose some." Worst relationship, no situation ever. I learned to trust intuition and make the 1st red flag ur last. It's my fault being involved. I wanted to see his mind set. The relationship was more like a case study for me. I can start my own channel with the events i went through with him. And he was 64. I went against what i knew to be true immediately because my girl said, "Give him a try." And lower my guard. He spoke bad about every woman in his life, so i know he is doing the same to me. Dont care. I feel. Light from and healed😊

    • @user-ds5uj6mj9n
      @user-ds5uj6mj9n 24 дні тому

      Me to I discarded him they come back stalk travel 100 miles I got police. This freek I married bought his pure down grade in my home.
      Wants you start doing nothing for them and stop talking to them that's it he said to me nothing there is the I waked away in another room why should you be nice when you proof of 2 women one was the upstairs neighbour another 2 kids with wile we were married scum of this earth

  • @jeffh3906
    @jeffh3906 Місяць тому +7

    My ex girlfriend was a raging narcissist And an alcoholic. Their whole drive is to control your emotions. That’s where they get a fix. Bank robbers, steal money from banks, Car thieves, steel cars, Drug addicts, do drugs and narcissist control emotions….
    If you want to repel a narcissist do this:
    Stare at them when they yell at you. Just sit there and smile.
    Be happy, help others.
    Find enjoyment in your career.
    Remain levelheaded at all times.
    Set limits
    Always questioning what they’re doing
    Pretty soon they’ll get bored and leave. Their ego is insatiable and as long as you keep feeding it, they will stay.

  • @lionkingk5098
    @lionkingk5098 28 днів тому +8

    Exactly this is what my husband did. He pushed me to get pregnant, we tried for 2 years it was all his problems with diabetes but he kept blaming me that because of me he doesn’t have children. Once I got pregnant by IVF he dumped me in couple of months when I was on bedrest and bleeding. He left me alone in United States where I have no family, he went to India to sleep with his virtual lover. Obviously he failed there with his performance and he broke up with her. Now he is back everyday fighting with me saying I pushed him into these affairs.

    • @user-ds5uj6mj9n
      @user-ds5uj6mj9n 24 дні тому

      Yes they beat you till you can't walk and go out houering no food could not stand they are women haters. Misoginists secrete gay life my malignant narc husband.

    • @gabrielleaumont3971
      @gabrielleaumont3971 17 днів тому +3

      Are you still with him?
      It will only get worse

    • @lionkingk5098
      @lionkingk5098 15 днів тому

      @@gabrielleaumont3971 as of now yes.

  • @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984
    @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984 5 днів тому +1

    The narcissist can only manipulate those who don't know who they are,know who you are and protect yourself from those people and still love them.

  • @billdux3271
    @billdux3271 25 днів тому +6

    I like the ending. YES! This was actually all my fault. I ignored all the red flags and warning signs. Why I do not know. She was beautiful. The more I got pushed away, the harder I tried to hold it together, and once I realized that I was just enabling this person, I finally saw a way out. It was like a huge weight was lifted off my shoulders.
    So yeah, the narcissist is evil, but we cannot blame them. We can only blame ourselves for staying. RUN!!!! As fast as you can. Go dark. Disappear. Do NOT try to reason with them. It won’t work! You are just playing right into their hands. So leave and never looked back.
    I’m free!!!

  • @bvon5630
    @bvon5630 Місяць тому +11

    Thanks for the good points.
    The narcissist is described in the Holy Bible.
    James 3:16
    For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work.
    Jesus saves❤️✝️

    • @lolabear6788
      @lolabear6788 14 днів тому

      Yes. It’s the wicked man of the Bible. It is the Cain response to the fall, unbelieving. The core of narcissism is unbelief in a Good God and therefore unbelief in the value of the self as made in the image of this Good God. The true self and the true God are rejected through unbelief. Then, the true self empowers a false self and becomes its own god which in trim lets the devil takeover the is entity of the person. Jealousy of “normal” people (people who have a relationship and are accepted by the true God like Abel) and hatred of them ensue. Murder (real or by words) follows along with every evil work, because the narcissist can’t feel or give love. All love is deflected to their false idol of self. Then, addictions abound as they search for meaning and satisfaction in life. Those only goal is to satisfy that idol of self which is an impossibility. They must humble themselves and submit to the true God. They must resist evil for it to flee from them. They believe their own lies, so this never happens. It could. They choose not to. Very very sad.

  • @user-os5xj7ce4k
    @user-os5xj7ce4k 2 місяці тому +13

    He is right about the inward stuff...codependent here...I am awake

    • @terrimichelleyoung3744
      @terrimichelleyoung3744 2 місяці тому +2

      In learning about him, I've learned much about myself...co dependent 😔

  • @jilllinson6087
    @jilllinson6087 Місяць тому +8

    Ok, this is where I'm at! It sucks

  • @anamjawaid3465
    @anamjawaid3465 2 місяці тому +24

    What ever the reason is but being a narcissist is completely choice

    • @Josh-dm5sx
      @Josh-dm5sx 2 дні тому

      narcissism is a personality disorder, its not a choice.
      while most narcissistic people dont seek help or therapy etc, the ones who do go to therapy only use it to their advantage and use all these new words and meanings to justify what they are doing.
      Narcissistic people are narcissistic not by choice. They may notice, try to change, but they never do
      There are cases where people with mental illnesses or people who need therapy exhibit signs of narcissistic behaviour and may get blamed for being a narcissist from their behaviour, when really those people can change but they need the right help and resources for them

  • @HeavenlyDivin
    @HeavenlyDivin 5 місяців тому +12

    Good one psychology element!! I love the end. Labeling narcs as demons, are we really progressing!!
    I like these options of self development better

  • @mikepowell5094
    @mikepowell5094 9 днів тому +1

    Mine lied manipulated. Smoke screened. No financial responsibility. Argued over petty stuff. Called the law 9 times trying to get me arrested. The ninth time accused me of rape. My eyes were opened up to this dangerous person. Went and got order of protection against her and not looking back. Fortunately for me the officers saw right through her and helped me too see her for who she really is. She will never be around me again. Her son acted like this was my fault. Family of narcissists I guess.

  • @JacK-qn4zh
    @JacK-qn4zh 2 місяці тому +18

    The most sicking thing is...they win and we recover once knowing one!

    • @TheDYLAUGHING
      @TheDYLAUGHING Місяць тому +11

      They dont win. Karma is real.

    • @alfredbenedek3398
      @alfredbenedek3398 Місяць тому

      NO - NO?!! WE, EVENTUALY WILL & DO RECOVER, OF THEIR UGLY TREATMENTS! = WE / THE INOCENT PRAYERS, WE WIN!! = THEY NEVER EVER CHANGE - THEY DON'T INTENDTO CHANGE AND THEY SELFDISTRUCT THEMSELVES! = THEY LOSE!! = BUT THIS / THESE HAPPEN MANY TIME, IN A VERY LONG SPAN OF TIME TOO!!

  • @user-ds5uj6mj9n
    @user-ds5uj6mj9n 24 дні тому +6

    This mans voice is enough red flag arogant

    • @Josh-dm5sx
      @Josh-dm5sx 2 дні тому

      I hate to break it to you... but thats not a mans voice, its a computer generated voice, its simply just AI

    • @user-ds5uj6mj9n
      @user-ds5uj6mj9n 2 дні тому

      @@Josh-dm5sx naughty that

  • @Love_N_Light240
    @Love_N_Light240 3 дні тому

    This is spot on!!! 💯💯💯👏🏽

  • @jermanelawrence7400
    @jermanelawrence7400 Місяць тому +4

    🕳️ draining interaction entities ⛽ for distance no drama here ✌️

  • @sism3028
    @sism3028 2 місяці тому +3

    TRUE!

  • @dalilajones881
    @dalilajones881 18 днів тому +1

    Wow!! Love this thank you so much I divorce my first husband didn't know anything about narcissist.and now am married to another one .definitely leaving .

  • @teresapayne2679
    @teresapayne2679 27 днів тому +3

    here to Say. Yes. But i Purposly Ignored them 🚩 . 9 years into this one... on my way to healing though. And yes. the breakaway has begun... kind of at a stalemate on Whom will leave. he has Multiple places and i have my lil car... to Whit he knows is all breaking down. and i Believe is waiting for me to b Stuck. but. Ain gonna Happen 🙌✔️👀

  • @joannelewis3390
    @joannelewis3390 14 днів тому +2

    Withholding intimacy and getting their own needs met watching porm

    • @dennyfie
      @dennyfie 3 дні тому

      Mine did withhold intimacy, it was awful,I had to beg for her attention not my idea of a relationship. She had endless time for cyber strangers,that was strange also

  • @dalilajones881
    @dalilajones881 18 днів тому

    Thank you so very much

  • @debbiechadwick861
    @debbiechadwick861 2 місяці тому +8

    Umm the point is im done with them!

  • @hazelhall8609
    @hazelhall8609 25 днів тому +3

    Thank you...for this,most informative information and CONFIRMATION!!!! BUT GOD!!!

  • @KimberlyGray-cd3lt
    @KimberlyGray-cd3lt 2 дні тому +1

    They cant be honest for nothing,play alot head games,and they seem so miserable ,and always somebody's else's fault,they stay in a bad mood, If they have these signs RUN ,you can love them, they hate you more because they know and is jealous that you have that kind of love in you even if its loving them,i know twisted, just RUN its not gong to change there mind, loving them they will still play with you,if your strong there not going to want you,which is a Blessing,it will take time to get over them at the beginning because in your head you say to yourself no one this bad,or,selfish,or mean,they might just bad mood today or maybe they went through something this week and there trying to handle it themselves,No they are really like that its Rare to find 1, but there out there,can they change that's rare too,but it can happen,but its best to let them deal with there own demons because we all know demons come in all forms,the main Red Flag you look for is,If you need them and they dont come through or least reach out,2 if you are around them and your happy but they want to upset or you can fee that bad energy there 1, just let them be and move on, you can miss out on your blessing staying with them,trust me it can Happen

  • @anitanash7777
    @anitanash7777 26 днів тому +3

    You didn’t answer the question in your title clearly; AND whilst I agree we all need to be accountable & conscious for our life choices, the last minutes were very preachy & guilting people who have been targeted by narcs.

  • @dalilajones881
    @dalilajones881 18 днів тому

    Well said

  • @scschavez180
    @scschavez180 12 днів тому +1

    im a super empath thats being abused by a dl narcissistic man for 25 years now he won’t leave me

  • @crystaldance5731
    @crystaldance5731 6 місяців тому +19

    How do they get away with it I wad fooled by someone I truly loved for 10 years he proposed he was everything I dreamed of physically and emotionally he was I thought my best friend lover and soulmate then after all the lies and betrayal of trust he left it went from exstacy to hate and resentment he was abused as a child and lived in a loveless marriage he came into my life and there was an instant connection it was like switching a light bulb on electric I fell in love with him but did he really love me or was he just obsessed if itwax love he would be here but he left me after I lost my daughter so I gues I’ll never know haven’t seen him since 👍🏻😊

    • @martinahavelkova9828
      @martinahavelkova9828 6 місяців тому +13

      Unfortunatelly, they are great actors. They know really well what you want and give it to you at the beginning. Then you always crave for what you once had, but never ever get that again. You live on breadcrums and its crazymaking. You always look for your own mistakes and would do anything to get it back. Its really cruel. But it was never love. They are not capable of love. They are parasites who live from others. It seems like they are always on hunt for something "better" and never satisfied.

    • @mambacaramba7370
      @mambacaramba7370 Місяць тому

      ​@@martinahavelkova9828
      Exactly!

    • @jjones4314
      @jjones4314 14 днів тому

      Unfortunately, I was with a narc for 13 yrs - didn't know what narcissism was at the time. Saw a few red flags but ignored them due to his traumatic childhood. Always remember the "situationship" they had with you was nothing more than smoke & mirrors - an act! In short, you were USED! They are TAKERS, never GIVERS! They take while we give & that's what it's all about! They are selfish, self centered a**holes that prey on & get pleasure from torturing & sucking the life out of people! I've been free of him for almost 5 yrs & it was the best thing I ever did! I finally have peace & loving life again!

  • @joons3374
    @joons3374 2 місяці тому +16

    I found out I am a narcissist not so long ago and I agree there are those dark tendencies, lots of grudge and syuff, but I think it is a lie that I am unable to love or relate, it is something that may seem from the point of external observation but from my point of view we just misread a lot of things like getting less attention signals danger and possible abandonment .
    You know people aren't born rvil and stuff, to produce a narcissist is not so difficult- people have to be treated with narcissistic abuse for ling enough, especially in their childhood and then they turn into that as the natural response of narcissistic victim to narcissistic abuse is very much the same as narcissists, I am a narcissist because I grew up in a family of narcissists ...
    I really opose this dehumanizstion of narcissists because it can happen to anyone - narcissist is basically a past victim of a narcissist.
    I really feel like being aware of my condition helped me a lit to be self aware and see myself for how I treat people and make amends, it helped me to relate to narcissists and diminish my hatered towards them and come to terms with my tendencies.. I really want to be a good person, but consrantly dehumanizing the kinds of me isn't really helpful.

    • @ItaHayes
      @ItaHayes Місяць тому +10

      I agree with you, but the heartbreaking thing is, you can put years into the relationship and it makes no difference. They are incapable of growth and positive change, in my experience.

    • @user-ds5uj6mj9n
      @user-ds5uj6mj9n Місяць тому

      Abusing people is a choice narcs know there abusing us to get supply abuse is abuse end of Mr narcissist

    • @moe_ramz
      @moe_ramz 3 дні тому

      Are you playing victim?

    • @user-ds5uj6mj9n
      @user-ds5uj6mj9n 3 дні тому

      @moe_ramz no I am a suvivor .you play that buy yourself

  • @BeverlyEinerwold
    @BeverlyEinerwold 5 днів тому

    Wow,can I identify, I am tried of games, lies, wanting me to supply their needs, they care less about the giver, it's what the giver can do for them, person that is a giver, could be in need of empathy, forget that they have an emptiness in their being to help!!!!! It's the truth , and it can cut like a knife, they are out for themselves, believe me you don't want to experience there way, it's tixic!!!!

  • @Game_Changer362
    @Game_Changer362 Місяць тому +2

    There is no self pity in the incontinent. 🤔😎🤭😂😇🙏🙏

  • @annrodriguez2891
    @annrodriguez2891 3 дні тому

    Victim blaming lost me...I was a successful woman at 50 before I got targeted by mine.. once and once only...

  • @JoeBotg
    @JoeBotg 17 днів тому

    yes learnt alot domt label people you dont have to tell them whobthey are they tokd you them self yes always lookinf

  • @mentallightspeed
    @mentallightspeed 23 дні тому +1

    Im a Sigma Super Empath...I dismantle them. I seek them out for fuel. It makes me stronger when i get through with them. I go to my God fro my connections. I eat greater narcissist and mid range and low narcissist for breakfast.
    I dont deserve anything from anyone deserving anything from anyone is not what I even care to believe.
    I'm a man of God first. Then a man. A Super Empath is "lethal" to a narcissist in alot of ways.
    We know this already..they dont however.
    What they do know is that once an Super Empath is on to them they loose🎯👑⚔️👑🎯

    • @Josh-dm5sx
      @Josh-dm5sx 2 дні тому

      are you alright in the head?

  • @perrissmith8809
    @perrissmith8809 26 днів тому +3

    Their never done with you!

    • @tammyfitzgerald5336
      @tammyfitzgerald5336 25 днів тому +2

      Disappear ❤🎉move

    • @perrissmith8809
      @perrissmith8809 25 днів тому

      @@tammyfitzgerald5336 I actually did and was still found on google search… stalkers!

  • @dalilajones881
    @dalilajones881 18 днів тому +1

    Yes I do need to work on my self something most be wrong with me to attract them .

    • @mykelmedeiros1528
      @mykelmedeiros1528 11 днів тому

      Yourself is amazing & the light that you radiate attracts them because you are a empathetic person. Don’t change for no one! Take as experience & no with wisdom on the next one that approaches! Use your light to attract another light! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Joy-sm7iz
    @Joy-sm7iz 2 дні тому

    Some of those things were repeated, only put differently.

  • @user-tw6ie6ke5l
    @user-tw6ie6ke5l 15 днів тому

    I faced all of this😢

  • @VarshaVenus
    @VarshaVenus 2 місяці тому +3

    Self improvement cannot happen when I am basically intrinsically an empathetic person
    Its different from being people pleaser.
    You probably havent understood narcissism at a personal level
    This pattern thing doesn't help an empathetic person who has lived hell.
    There could be empowering ways to make the empathetic person come out of the narcissistic abuse

    • @lisam6992
      @lisam6992 Місяць тому

      Hi would like someone to work on a solution together

  • @Kunstertossen
    @Kunstertossen Місяць тому +1

    Yeah they a ghostning you completly

  • @manofsteelgoodmanll.2512
    @manofsteelgoodmanll.2512 6 місяців тому +4

    They always think their all that when their not it's good to be confident but it's not good to be mean or an ignorant jackass and their better then anyone like they think they are...I thought all that narc does is be nice to you just to fake it give them power and admiration.
    I get P.T.S.D flashback from narcissistic emotional abuse from my job when i was under pressure working around assholes who did nothing but tare me down as much as i wanted to hurt them they were lucky i didn't tare my enemies up for sabotaging me and my hard work but I'm managing control over my emotions through medation, working out and being around positive people but I'd have to warn them to be careful around I'm passive aggressive like the incredible hulk i feed off negative garbage...like how ghost rider feeds off bad people...i got a curse in my souls from the devil's manipulators that brain washed me i worst pattrens from my past.
    But thankfully I'm learning to control my dark powerful abilities to use for good not evil my head ain't right after what I've gone through what infected my mind I'm hanging in there, I'm reminding myself i was just around toxic people who were enviously jealous of me...others wanted to build me up to break me down like a little chump now that god removed them fools from my life i got peace through tranquility to began a healing process for my mental health...i accepted that i didn't know who i could trust i learned it wasn't my fault i was only betrayed and used parts of that wasn't my fault some people weren't just right for me I'm a empathic person i care about people but i don't like being token for granted if it happen to me, it'll happen to you don't allow don't anyone to give you a hell load of stressful problems.
    Just to be safe and reminded of my past mistakes I'd try to keep away from others that could be a target or used against me that would be dangerous and I don't need that turning into a battlefeild to go that far I did ignore red flags when their gut feelings telling me that something was off I'm working on improving myself and building up my self confidence from being kicked down and put under pressure even sabotaged a lot I was lokei understood I had to learn lessons to behave and have discipline at work...I made mistakes an sabotaging me was crossing the line it was too far no one had the right to do that to me, no matter how many times I've messed up that just creates more problems for me and the narcs.

  • @shans1986
    @shans1986 2 місяці тому +3

    Maybe a more final tie off is needed to convince the shas that they shoulf go and never come back.

  • @oilequalsgold2837
    @oilequalsgold2837 14 днів тому

    I’m in those boat- we had a relationship for 4 almost 5 years. She would get mad at me and dump me and when she did I would be calling and calling wanting to know why she did that to me. Wondering what happened. It’s so crazy how they just fall out of love so quick it’s crazy I mean just like you never existed. I mean get into An argument ghost for a week or two. I’m done with her so done. She was so rude and not caring. I pulled at her place and she said why don’t you get the hint I said because we have been doing this for 4-5 years now and figured that what was happening then she threatens harassment charges on me. Unbelievable I just helped her pay her rent last month- she sits on the brand new leather couch I bought her- and she flipped me off and said thanks bi**ch I was beside myself

  • @christinekleinschmidt4676
    @christinekleinschmidt4676 2 місяці тому +2

    Can you do one for narcissistic siblings please

  • @user-ds5uj6mj9n
    @user-ds5uj6mj9n Місяць тому +3

    Down button everyone hes mr nasty blaim the real victums

  • @ebonyapplepy3906
    @ebonyapplepy3906 2 місяці тому +8

    I don't like how mean the narrator's voice got towards the end. Sounds like he's blaming the target for getting tricked. I get we need honesty but tough love wasn't the tone you started the video with

    • @sandybayley4461
      @sandybayley4461 2 місяці тому +2

      Watch it again without the sound. It’s very true.

    • @Josh-dm5sx
      @Josh-dm5sx 2 дні тому

      I hate to break it to you, but the AI cant control as well as a human narrator can how it projects what its saying

  • @user-os5xj7ce4k
    @user-os5xj7ce4k 2 місяці тому +3

    Why do they do a reverse discard

  • @jnorway7295
    @jnorway7295 7 днів тому

    This describes ex 45!

  • @gilbertmartinezjr.9010
    @gilbertmartinezjr.9010 11 днів тому

    It is the everything about what narcissists would do is the truth

  • @georyin872
    @georyin872 6 місяців тому +5

    mt wife

  • @Guyjharrison
    @Guyjharrison 12 днів тому

    if someone has changed their last name to King, they are most definitely a narcissist

  • @kennethsumner819
    @kennethsumner819 9 днів тому

    She was always with her partner but saying she was with me

  • @SmilingArcticFox-hv3ex
    @SmilingArcticFox-hv3ex 12 днів тому +3

    Jesus loves all of you.. please repent. Talk to him today .. he can make the narcissist flee the world 🌎 Amen

    • @Josh-dm5sx
      @Josh-dm5sx 2 дні тому

      i thought jesus loves all

  • @davidsmith7587
    @davidsmith7587 17 днів тому

    Not sure he answered the question?

  • @TrailPrincess-sc9kz
    @TrailPrincess-sc9kz 9 днів тому

    This is my ex and, a couple family members. To a T!!!

  • @DavidTower-Frasier
    @DavidTower-Frasier Місяць тому

    Please please please let her perceive her discard as permanent.

  • @marlonvite4152
    @marlonvite4152 Місяць тому +2

    Is the narrator talking about male narcisists or female narcists? Ia there more male narcisists or female narcisists?

    • @alfredbenedek3398
      @alfredbenedek3398 Місяць тому

      Q #2 IS VERYEASY! SINCE THERE ARE & THERE ARE MORE GIRLS / LADYS / WOMEN, OBVIOUSLY, THERE ARE, MORE WOMEN NARCISSISTS! ++ WELL? LIKE IT OR NOT? = THAST ANSWERS THAT!!

    • @marlonvite4152
      @marlonvite4152 Місяць тому +1

      @alfredbenedek3398 Having more females than males does not answer my questions .... I believe all businesses and locations have more than the other. But what is more predominant in all the businesses to be sure

  • @JoeBotg
    @JoeBotg 17 днів тому

    am i really doing that come on take some responsabilaty you now what is going on its not right gaslighting

  • @petergromlich6529
    @petergromlich6529 Годину тому

    Could you be a narcissist if you discard a narcissist when you realize that they are no longer useful to you?

  • @stanleyosburn867
    @stanleyosburn867 2 місяці тому

    If you are dumping you sellabtate party rejoyse praze God and forget theme and move on.

  • @user-bh3jx7ew9s
    @user-bh3jx7ew9s 17 днів тому

    What if it is one of your parents

  • @Twinkie989
    @Twinkie989 6 місяців тому +11

    Labeling narcs is not as bad as being a narc. Way to victim blame. eww.

    • @manofsteelgoodmanll.2512
      @manofsteelgoodmanll.2512 6 місяців тому

      If their victim they treated the same way but they do it to someone else just to gain power or shoe off it's unacceptable we all have problems but it don't give you a excuse to act on...I don't care how angry or hurt you cause sooner or later you'll just might create worst enemies to come after you for causing them pain.

    • @Twinkie989
      @Twinkie989 5 місяців тому +6

      @@manofsteelgoodmanll.2512Yeah, exactly. We know narcs were abused. Lots of people are abused and they don't take it out on others. It is the act of not processing the pain and, instead, putting it off onto others that is the problem.

    • @manofsteelgoodmanll.2512
      @manofsteelgoodmanll.2512 5 місяців тому +1

      @Twinkie989 even if they were abused it don't give anyone a right to abuse anyone else that's not the mature way to solve your problems, I don't care how deep it is....we all go through a lot I've snapped out at others too I've acted like an ass as well but I've had to learn to accept responsibilities learn to love myself more and not blame too many individuals for my problems if it was my own fault....you can blame others for how they pushed you but more then likely it'll be your fault for allow it.. right is right wrong is wrong...wrong is wrong end of story on their parts.

    • @bonaparte54
      @bonaparte54 2 місяці тому

      Exactly, and the video maker is using "narcissist" as label to make the video. Blaming the victim, advising high self esteem from hypocrisy. Narcissist are very good quality people, not demons, what a stupidity. Codependent "love" these demons, so isn't better

  • @JoeBotg
    @JoeBotg 17 днів тому

    do you now anone like that

  • @lupaswolfshead9971
    @lupaswolfshead9971 3 місяці тому +4

    ffs 4 minutes in and all i am getting is frikkin waffle rather than what i want to hear.

    • @hotchocexpresso
      @hotchocexpresso 2 місяці тому +2

      Well if you are looking for something that you want to hear - you won’t find comfort or reassurance in UA-cam vids. Just form new habits, stay busy & remain consistent & I guarantee you, your mind will be busy & you’ll be adding value to your growth areas 👌

    • @Josh-dm5sx
      @Josh-dm5sx 2 дні тому

      lmao you couldnt sound more narcissistic yourself with that comment😂 "ffs ive wasted 4 minutes of my time watching a video that didnt comfort my needs and I need to share my child like breakdown"

  • @user-qr2nl1cj9i
    @user-qr2nl1cj9i 15 днів тому

    Oh shut up..

  • @dougbenton8767
    @dougbenton8767 Місяць тому

    Grow up

  • @aaronrogers965
    @aaronrogers965 Місяць тому +1

    Are you sure this is for narcissist or is it for DEI and affirmative action hires?

  • @marlonvite4152
    @marlonvite4152 Місяць тому +1

    Is the narrator talking about a male narcissist or a female narcisist? What say data, are there more male narcisists or female narcisists? What is more predominant?

    • @Josh-dm5sx
      @Josh-dm5sx 2 дні тому

      honestly there isnt that much of a difference in this video whether its a woman or male, the fact is narcissists show in different ways, this seems to be more of an overt narcissist than a convert, getting data on how much narcissists there are is not possible, do you think they would believe or admit they are narcissists, theres many narcissists out there and no data will ever be able to catch and find out which gender has the majority