Daughter Wants Her Father To Accept Her Transition | KARAMO
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- Опубліковано 4 жов 2022
- Leighton is a desperate father trying to get his family back together. However, his daughter, Aryana, claims that he doesn’t acknowledge her as a woman after her transition. Furthermore, his other daughter, Mikaela, won’t even talk to him until he starts respecting Aryana and takes accountability for the mistakes he’s made. Can Leighton swallow his pride and own up to his mistakes to save his family?
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If it were a real black woman, a black man would have called her out for having on a dress that didn't even cover her @~~. Let it be a black man dressed as woman and she's stunning, rather than inappropriate? It's mockery, hatred, and confusion... SMH.
Remember if u can’t accept your lgbt children now that nursing home gone kill u later 😵💫 that’s even if u get out in one yo ahh gone be brain dead and lonely 😂
Don't force a man to accept a practice he considers to be a taboo to him. Gay is evil. The Anus is only for excretion and not for insertion of a penis.
I’m confused too. Do they want him to say. I’m the bad guy, just hate me. Because they seem like they have their mind made up.
Respect goes both ways, it's not fair that they want their dad to instantly accept the transition but won't allow him time to adjust to the transition
I completely agree 100 percent
he's going to have to accept her no matter what so
Excatly I don't why people who trans expect everyone to just except their change
exactly. they were constantly being disrespectful
Well, the thing about it is that she transitioned quite a while ago if she looks like that
I'm confusion'd. This man was calm. Respectful. Said all the things he needed to say & all he got was attitude & sarcasm. He called her by her new name but she correcting him. No excuses but that's how old school people talk. He never once called her Isiah on this show. I'm team Dad!!
Ayden_Chadway, I’m with you #teamdaddy. In the Bible it states abomination.
@@babygirl0806 thanks but iono about the bible part but...🥴
That's how men act...tradition, weave, nails, dress, he's still a man.🤨
both kids are saying the same thing, the mother said the same thing, hell the father even agreed with what they said by saying he wants his family back.... but for some reason were rooting for dad..
Right. He made attempts but was unable to pronounce her name correctly. I know many folks that cannot pronounce certain names or words.
I could feel how alone the father was through the screen, yet he didn’t crack. He has been through some things no doubt. I pray for this family’s recovery.
He will accept his daughter or lose her it’s
Simple
@@miphaestrella1606he said he accepted him so what was the point in bringing him up here
its a show thats why@@goead
@@goead😭😭😭 you’re funny
@@miphaestrella1606he accepts his son. That’s not his daughter. U can’t lose a a daughter if it’s a son
Im sending the father my support. He didn’t deserve to be bashed on national television.
You dont know all the details, the dads a bozo
@@austinmartin683And she's sitting there with her legs open like a man...
Didn't he ask to be on the show
@@aarontaylor5143 hell no
Dads bozo
I love how he said “I wouldn’t care if she was a dinosaur that’s still my child 🥰💖” I have faith they’ll be just fine
He basically trying to say she out of this world
@@yellayella7680 lmaoo shut uppp😭😭😂
But he should care it’s messed up that this world wants force someone to be ok with this
But he should care it’s messed up that this world wants force someone to be ok with this
@@Empressofroyalty22 you can’t force anyone to do anything. We have control over our own lives and makes our own decisions. There’s plenty of parents that do not accept or support their child being different HOWEVER that doesn’t stop the love or the relationship. If you’re suggesting he shouldn’t love his child no matter the personal choices they make you’re insane. Either way this conversation is over. #greatday
The daughter’s attitudes are a clear depiction of what happens when a parent involves children in adult business. You can tell the mother was venting to them and airing out their marriage issues to them.
Exactly, well said
That's so true!!!
If the husband/father was physically and emotionally available, she will not be involving the kids in their adult affairs.
@@peacegracemercy5445 so the mother destroying the children is the father’s fault?
The mother should get some friends, a therapist, or a support group and stop abusing the children dumping her emotional baggage on them!
Boom 💥
I went to school with Leighton back in CT. He was a real stand up dude.
Nice.
The way he would say her name the right way, and she still continued to correct him💀
I mean, he didn’t use the correct pronunciation of ‘a’ and she corrected it. It’s picking, sure. But it wasn’t pronounced correctly.
@@VONiiE8 womp fucking womp get some real issues in life 😂
Y'all want to go team dad but you have not heard the complete story from the daughter side if you watch her video, she states that he had beat her very badly as a child for no reason and he has called her asking her for things and still being verbally abusive calling her a fag and she does correct anyone that gets her name wrong, and he was in prison and is still on parole for many changes of child molesting. So please before you choose a side get it right.😘
You can see right through the dad eyes , he is torn , his body language tells it all
Right.. I think he did actually put his pride to side just to get in closer.. Most men would express having troubles with their son transitioning, and instead he chose to tell himself to just accept in order not to add any more fuel to the fire..
@@copperamerindian050 its definitely going to take some time for him to fully accept his kids actions , because it took 3 full yrs for my grandmother to accept my auntie gay decision, again as parents you cannot change your kids thoughts and feelings towards someone, they got to learn to let the kids be happy and thats just what it is
I don’t think it’s fair that peoples choices have to be forced upon others to accept and If they don’t accept it then they’re a bad person….that’s not cool at all
@@Biancaonlysister that’s the society we are living in. But we all will be judged including them.
@@Ash2beauty I agree. but what if we simply don’t accept it?
This interview is really getting under my skin!! They are not even trying to hear him out!! NO ONE IS PERFECT!!!
Exactly, their main issue is for him to accept the boy as a girl.
Totally agree with you
Ain't that the truth!!!???
Arianna spends more time correcting her name than trying to hear the father out!!
Why should they? Lmao y’all are sad asf
This is so unfair to this father. He has a right to feel the way he feels. He should be respected for grieving the loss of his son.
for how long tf u can tell she is grown now how long does it take to heal yall are weird
@@cecemarie8417 you are weird thinking it's possible to be the "wrong" gender
@@smokinpoppintrans people are valid and very much exist it’s literally scientifically proven.. you can’t argue w science and facts weirdo
@@cecemarie8417everyone takes a different amount of time to heal
Y'all want to go team dad but you have not heard the complete story from the daughter side if you watch her video, she states that he had beat her very badly as a child for no reason and he has called her asking her for things and still being verbally abusive calling her a fag and she does correct anyone that gets her name wrong, and he was in prison and is still on parole for many changes of child molesting. So please before you choose a side get it right.😘
Speaking from someone who knows people who have transitioned personally; The transition is a transition for everyone so give people time to understand it. From name changes/pronouns..etc. because people in other communities don’t always understand everything but want to learn. Sidebar, Ari is so beautiful!
Everyone's with the fathers side and so am I
It does and I feel sometimes we as in a person who is incredibly feminine and been thinking of transitioning. I think not just us apart of the community but is in all groups that tells us we’re different is we just want to be accepted so bad to the point where we project our own inner lack of acceptance of self to project that onto others. Like for me personally I haven’t started hormones or anything just shaved my face I have long hair and a nice body so I look more feminine because of certain characteristics, but sometimes I have fears to actually do things I want to do like get my hair done with a frontal etc because I don’t wanna look like a man in a wig, but everytime I step out everyone always say they thought I was a women at 1st. When they saw me even with my beard I had ppl coming to me like are you a woman. So it’s funny bc I don’t call myself a woman I just like the looks and my energy is very feminine so I want my look to match the energy bc it’s weird to me. Even how men treat me I don’t get treated as a man I always get told I’m one of the girls, but my own insecurities project that I’m seen different.
@@isaiahkelly8966No one is on the father's side. Everyone is on the bad father train. So now you sound dumb.
@@isaiahkelly8966ok so you’re a follower? lol “Everyone is doing it 🤪”
He has a terrible attitude. The dad needs to leave him alone.
So....They're admitting to not answering when he calls...but say he doesn't reach out...
Right . What do they want
🤦🏽♀️
Hmm idk maybe visit their children and actually create a relationship
@@demarkiusturner292 so just pop u and hope he can find them.....this was a scheduled meet up on TV and the energy they came with was bland at best. How do u think he would be received if he just popped up? I couldn't fathom being that full of myself.
Right!! Whatchu said 🙄🙄
I feel so bad for him because he keeps saying he accepts her but it’s like they are not hearing him . No matter what he says it is just not good enough you can tell he genuinely cares
they don’t WANT to hear him they want a problem
And they are making the transition the primary reason why NONE can have a relationship with him. Come on so you mad because she’s mad and she mad because y’all mad 😂😂
actions speak way louder than words.
They don't like him. He might as well go out & start a new family. He's young, he can start over.
@elizabethhartman3924 Did you not pay attention to the beginning of the video or something? He literally said he’s in his 50’s, that’s NOT young. And he’s said multiple times that he DOES accept Aryana as his daughter.
That's the best transition I've ever seen, she looks like a natural woman, could of fooled me lol
Tf?
@@Zombina638 TF? 🤨
Ikr from the thumbnail I was like “which son” 😂” what transition”
@@char6081 yes I was blown away foreal
Ya I agree. She’s very pretty and can definitely pass as a natural woman. However I’m glad that she doesn’t lie and let’s the world know that she’s trans
I really hope they can start to hear out the father and how he truly feels. He is lonely and wants his family, but they don't seem open to forgiving him.
I feel so sorry for this father. They are so hostile and stand-offish. Can’t wait for them to get older and see how hard life can be and how easy it is to make mistakes.
Imagine how children must feel if grown ass people can't handle life.
@@teresamarie7460 children don’t see the struggles of life. They are children. All they see is the “freedom” adults have to do as they please. Then they become adults are realize that those perceived freedoms arent so free and they come with a lot of responsibility and consequences.
@@teresamarie7460 if children were afraid to be adults based on how adults handle life.. why are they still rushing to be adults?
I feel like your missing the point of the mental and physical abuse whilst drunk. The same hostile attitude he showed to his kids he himself can’t handle??
@@kenyonwoods7140 I think your missing the point where he is trying to “fix” things. He can’t do anything about his past actions. He obviously had an addiction and issues before he was incarcerated for most of their lives. How can anyone heal anything or move forward if you haven’t forgiven the person. If they don’t want him around they should just make that clear and set boundaries but humiliating him on TV.. does what? Solves what? Heals what? Holding a 20yr old grudge hurts THEM too. Some ppl do horrific things and NEVER try to fix it. Give the man a break.
These kids are disrespectful. I don't know what else they want their father to do after acknowledging his mistakes and trying to pick up the pieces
That’s all a man can do in this type of situation to be honest. Aryana beautiful asf - I ain’t gone lie - but she giving her daddy too much shit. You can tell all that sass is coming from a deeper place.
@@makomajin6592 you are absolutely right but she need to tone down the attitude with her dad, a bit too much
@@kukuakukua So I actually just peeped her IG. I’m starting to think maybe her Dad deserved it. I guess not long after this aired he texted her phone and called her the f slur and all that type of stuff. She posted screenshots of it. Damn.
@@makomajin6592 😲 omg
The father is disrespectful and entitled. Acknowledging is only the beginning step, he caused immense pain and trauma in his children’s lives (probably a lot of it also has to do with the transitioning in the first place). He was the adult and he should be thankful that the ones he was responsible for even gave him mercy to express acknowledgment. His mindset is lazy and that’s common in the blk community when it comes to healthy familial relationships.
I’m so sorry for the father, he just find it hard to accept it🥺🥺 and I don’t blame him either 😢😢
I mean don’t have kids if u can’t accept them u may not like their choices but it’s better to live with it then risk losing your kids in the end that nursing home will all u have
@@Agoldenchild553Have faith in Jesus alone to be saved ❤
@@IloveJesus777j77 oh no thank you we worship two different gods and practices different religion
@@Agoldenchild553 I would gladly accept my kids as anything as long as it's real but I would not confirm anyone's delusions reguardless if they were my kids or not as it is impossible to be born in the "wrong" body
I Just wish My Dad was at Least Respectful and Supportive like This Dad 😢
I tell my kids, whatever choices and decisions you make in your life, do not expect everyone to accept it. However no one should disrespect you and you shouldn’t disrespect others either. 🙏🏽
Right 👏👏👏
This the comment right here!!!🗣️💯
Absolutely
Balance!! Wholeness! Yes
Yes, but disrespectful in what way? I believe If you choose to do something that you believe is right but you are objectively wrong, someone telling you you are wrong and you should change isn’t really disrespectful though a lot of people will take it that way
The dad is like a cross between DMX and Ali Sadiq.
Yes
So many people would kill to hear their father say that they love and accept them for who they are my father died right before I started transitioning and I wish he was still here to see me for who I am they just need time to adjust and realize that things take time anything worth having is worth fighting for.
I WISH I HAD MY FATHER…THE ONES THAT DO, NEVER APPRECIATE/RESPECT THEM.💯
She’s being aggressive for no reason. He’s really trying and she is not letting up!
That's right! It's called accountability. She's holding him to it. Years of damage, takes years of repairing.
@@e.6322 yeah but her being aggressive doesn't help anyone or the situation. You can hold him accountable and be respectful doing it.
@@sheridanparker264 I totally disagree. You don't owe anyone respect who has disrespected you.
Respect is earned, NOT given. He has to earn the respect from his children because he lost it. This is his task.
Because this boy blames his father for him hating himself and wanting to be a female
Because she’s not really happy
You have to give parents time to grieve the loss of the child they thought they had.
Exactly
say it for the people in the back!!! they are only concerned of themselves and no one else , sad
That’s a loss that a parent never gets over.
He didn’t lose a child tho in some pants or in a dress his child is still alive and well
they didn’t lose her tho wtf she’s still here living breathing
its hard as a daughter to have respect for your dad when u see the way they treat ur mom. so i feel for the daughters on why they probably cant see him in a positive light from what theyve experienced. i hope this family heals !
The poor dad looks like he’s proper trying and they won’t even give him a chance
Y'all want to go team dad but you have not heard the complete story from the daughter side if you watch her video, she states that he had beat her very badly as a child for no reason and he has called her asking her for things and still being verbally abusive calling her a fag and she does correct anyone that gets her name wrong, and he was in prison and is still on parole for many changes of child molesting. So please before you choose a side get it right.😘
My heart goes out to the dad. There are ppl who would die for a father like that and they’re treating him like a stranger. Shiii I’d swap dads in a heartbeat.
🗣PERIODT !!
Felt this comment 💯 However, he did go to jail and miss a chunk of his families life. I like the guy but he’s one of the problems and so is the mother!
that’s what I’m saying!!!
@@v.g7279 so what. My father was in jail from the time I was 12 until I was 25 years old. So what?? That's my father and we picked up where we left off. I love my Dad and will do anything for that man. They are truly missing out from dishonoring him.
My thing is he's trying. Mine are acting still like they have done absolutely nothing wrong
Aryanna, Just the way hes pronouncing it isn't cause to get so upset, hes trying , she just seems ready to pop at anything he says.
Facts and talking about look at her .. smh but her spirit ain’t looking good he’s calm she’s hyped up
Right
@@nastyyella300 that's that Masculine energy showing up
@@momofabardian1308 ayooooooo
@@momofabardian1308 that part!
Just because this Man made some mistakes doesn’t mean that he deserves to be continually disrespected and spoken to as thought he’s less than a man. Hurt is not a pass to hold someone in bondage and be mean.
My prayers are for them all but mostly him because he doesn’t have support that he also needs.
God, bless that brother and do AMAZING things in his life. In Jesus’ Name🙏🏾
When someone has a used you then you have every right to be mean to them 😭.
This is twisted. Not only is his children ignorant and disrespectful, he’s dealing with something as a father that most men wouldn’t want to experience. Most men cannot process their son wanting to be a woman... That has to be heartbreaking within itself on top of them dismissing his thoughts and feelings completely shutting him out. This energy in this world has to go, it’s wicked...
The best I’ve read so far
Speaking the truth
I totally agree with you
Does Karamo really read these comments. We have turned pure social decay into normal. It is straight turning into trans is psychological issue. The mum even have the gut to throw such shit into her husband’s throat. Its so unfortunate
the dad wasn’t around, you develop respect for someone for who they are and they come and go in your life whenever they want you lose respect regardless him being your dad
They dont know how many people wish to have a DAD
I hope the father reads these comments and knows we support him here!
The daughters are VERY disrespectful to him. He calls, they don’t answer. Why should he keep trying?
Probably because he's the one who f***** it up to begin with.
The Father full of excuses
@@tyjuanbowman1536 And they’re not helping the situation…..they’re messing it up now.
@@officiallylori. they're not messing nothing up. Do you think it's easy for them to just get past all the trauma that he gave them. What about the time he physically, mentally, and emotionally abused them and let's put neglected too because it was no one else's fault that he got thrown in jail by his own. They are willing to try but he has to try harder he has to show them that he's willing to take accountability for the things that he did and fix them.
@@tyjuanbowman1536 You’re right, however, there’s no need to be disrespectful to your parent. The more he apologized, the more they attacked….just going in a circle. Of course, it will take time for him to show them. They need to show their father some respect.
This man is too OG for this 🤣
I just feel like the daughters are looking for a problem😭
He looks like DMX ❤Almost talks like him.
I am all for the DAD.
I was pissed off when his biological daughter says, why do I need to tell him he is a grandfather?.. Such disrespect... It's his grandchild, and they don't realize the negative karma they are displaying is gonna bite them in the ass. I do fault the mother as well. Nobody respects this man, and clearly, they have no idea about compassion or forgiveness. Besides, I believe the mother is letting them run over her... Something is wrong, the mother came out dressed manly, a hoody..why... not displaying any feminity. The father morally sees the marriage as a bond and his kids as his kids, so forgive the man and move forward as a unit... clearly, they All have Daddy issues... but it can be repaired if they knock down the walls, learn how to solve issues, and stop criticizing
@@specialk4455 Exactly!
Facts
Facts all he gotta to do iz cancel they ass and get new kids lol 😂
Me too,he's such a gentleman
Respect is a two way street. These guys are stuck on one. Respect to Pops for staying calm.
Respect is earned, and it’s not easy.
Seriously cuz
After the show the father called her a slur and everything
@@AlluratheenchantressHow do u know 😭was u there
@@ayyitscillashe posted the screenshots …
If I were the father I would love him as my son but I wouldn’t accept the transition.
You don’t really have a right to pick and choose when you abused and abandoned your kids lmao. Either you want a relationship with whoever your child grew up to be or stay the dead beat… why do more damage trying to come back if you can’t accept her rather than leaving her tf alone ? Yall be weird fr
How do the world expects a dad to feel knowing his son now look & believe he’s a woman, that’s a tough pill
People don’t understand that people don’t respond the way they want them to. He’s apologized, he said he wants to do better. He understands his mistakes and he is holding himself accountable. Why can’t see and acknowledge that he understand that he hurt himself by abandoning them and not being their protector like he should’ve been. Give him a chance to change his behavior until he shows otherwise just like Karamo explained. Acceptance, accountability, and the apologies goes both ways. There was something in this man’s past that he was dealing with that caused him to hurt them and abandon them, and they need to understand that as well. Maybe he was a learned behavior he was taught as a child. You can tell me anything, but your actions are what I’m looking for moving forward. I’m praying for this family and I pray they all make a mends and heal.
The father should never have to accept what the word of God rejects. He love his child as made by God which is a Boy. He admitted to his mistakes and said he wishes to make amends which sould be done without dictated standards. I believe he genuinely loves and wants his family back but I also believe He hasn't accepted his born son as a man made change into a girl. Much love and therapy needed mentally and spiritually.
This comment was on point
The kids are unforgiving that's why they can't move forward. They have to truly forgive him first and he has to be consistent with doing better
That family has been traumatized. They have literally had to lift each other up for years in his absence. What if someone was raped, had close ones killed, suffered horrors in this life and he wasn’t there to help them through any of it. They have learned to lean on each other without him. I see a beautiful bond between the sisters and mom. Mom is a hero for stepping up and nurturing her kids alone. He hurt his own family deeply for years. The recompense to forgiveness is harsh and cold. If he wants his family back, it is going to take time.
@@ladybugboo9219 god isn’t real to everyone but that’s good that god is real to you
Poor Father. Sending prayers to Him.
Poor father?
God made you a male. It's hard for him to accept him as a female. They all not seeing that. Dad believe what is right.
Webshpuld send prayers to both the father and the son
He abandoned his children lol… “poor father” ???
They were born into the wrong body
Karamo thank you for having this show!!! Real talks are always important forget what everyone thinks...just be real!!!
No father should have to put up with his son turning into a girl.
Lmaooo
😂😂😂😂😂 don't have children if you can't accept them.
I agree, support and respect your comment 🙏🏽
@@Eli08ishRight like they’re going to grow up and walk their own path and make decisions.
You can’t tell a parent how to love. For some reason, so many trans girls think being a woman is simply putting on makeup, hair and clothes. There is so much more that they will never comprehend when it comes to being a woman. It can’t be put on like an article of clothing. Respect goes both ways.
So what more is it ?
Mike Lee you ain’t lyin knowing your son is transitioning will mess up anybody mentally especially a father
@@amilianaxo8689 he is his son nothing more
They will never understand what it's like to have female body parts. They will never get pregnant, they will never have periods stop playing. Dog on right trying to be a female, you will never ever go through what we go through as women being born with male body parts! And I wish that they would stop mocking woman it's not funny.
You can definitely tell a parent or any person the love you’ll accept though. And if they want to be a part of your life, you have a right to say what is and is not acceptable for you. Period.
They're not going to understand the mistake they're making until their father is in the grave!!! I cry for my mom and dad daily!!!
Amen! So do I.
I lost both of mine and I cry for mine and want mine back all day everyday. You only get ONE DAD ONE MOM
@@choccakey5146your parents must’ve never did you dirty
I’m so sorry 😢
Yall I’m literally binge watching as always and I swear every other video has me crying real life tears. I love your show Karamo!❤
People shouldn't put the blame on anyone, I understand y'all are sympathetic for the Dad but also understand being Physically abused and neglected is not something you let go easily. They just have to adjust to him if they want to as the human mind is complex. And in addition we don't know how the dad was in the past, so we can also not assume who is in the right or wrong. I just hope that family heals❤
Beautifully said
Those daughters got a lot of grace. They are just as much a reason the relationship is fractured than the Dad is.
It’s not the child’s responsibility to keep up a parental relationship
@@demarkiusturner292Oh, so it's ok for them to sit on stage and act like they're their fathers equal, but yet and still receive a pass, because all of a sudden you feel they're children now. Lord make it make sense! It's a child's responsibility to, "Honor thy father and thy mother period, that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee.” (Ex. 20:12. Neither daughter on stage is honoring their father here! This generation of young folk mindset so screwed up, because it's either their way or it's no way at all. If they dislike your comments or opinion, they'll try to have your social media account shut down, because there's no agreeing to disagree when you're dealing with a socialist liberal democrat. They don't believe in Freedom Of Speech! They have no respect for their parents, grandparents, or their elders. That's the typical socialist liberal democrat mindset that's ruining America today. You can't have it both ways.
@@demarkiusturner292 it is both ways, you can't keep fracturing him as a man n u expect him.to lick you
@@fountainmedia4683 you say things like this generation and all this and that….. but it’s your generation that lets these generations get away with behavior like this. Everyone wants to play the blame game instead of taking responsibility of their own actions you don’t get to pick and choose when you want to be treated as an adult. I agree that these girls weren’t honestly open to hearing the father out because the entire time he seemed to be trying on the stage the Ganged up on him and the mother is no better. They wanted someone to blame and instead of actually listening they pointed fingers
@@chloerouse5618
Thank you for giving both sides of the argument this was nice to read
This guy actually calls his children and reaches out.. Which is more then I can say for my father.. But no matter this fathers past mistakes, hes owning up to them.. He takes full responsibility for the wrong hes done.. If hes willing to accept his daughter as she is then they need to be willing to accept him back with open arms.. I think this family will be just fine..
The father does accept him for who he is. Doesn't matter how much hormones or money you pay for surgery. there's a reason men have to do that to look like a woman and vice versa, it's not who you are. It's not possible to become a different sex then your born as. And there's no such thing as a "transgender" it's just men or women living an impossible and perverted fantasy. Since when did society start to accept mental illness and get rid of biological truths?
Oldest daughter said he was abusive twice. They aren't required to forgive shit.
Exactly my father refused to take care of me because my mom refused to marry him at least I can call him a piece of crap
You can't get mad at a guy for trying and I mean seriously what is he going to do????
They don't want to be around him they don't want to really be a family they just want him to validate their existence
They're literally not allowing him to be a father not when it comes to the wife I can't speak
But when it comes to the kids you can't have a father on your terms and you can't get mad because he's trying to be in your life and he's actually trying to make it an effort to except you.... He literally say don't care if you're a dinosaur😮
I wish I had a father like him in my life at least I can say I have one that tried 😭
After they already grown and don’t need him . What about when they needed him the most ?
Bruh I’m sorry but if you beat your children then they are not obligated to forgive you. Weird how ppl r ignoring that
Definitely a beautiful family they deserve to be great together
I would tell my child I accept you but I don't accept your behavior and your choices
Her correcting him with her name was insane like he trying
Foolishness
Not a women.
@@dukeljk2191 and y’all be men with vaginas fr. If she wanna be a women she’s a women slap dick
@@dukeljk2191 woman* get it right.
@@That_gloss_boss men that got surgery to be a woman why do y'all trans people have to have hormones pills if y'all were born with opposite gender
The problem here is not him calling her Isaiah. They all need therapy. The problem is not her being transgender. The man has been in jail…they all need therapy for this. They are making it about the wrong thing.😊
PREACH
They need Iyanla. 14 mins can't fix 14 years of pain. The host is ok but he's not equipped to handle these deep rooted lives that need fixing.
yes
@@rashadhaughton22 Exactly, I was like I wonder if he offers some sort of Therapy or concealing. Because this isnt going to be enough. As soon as they get off the planes, they'll be right back at square one.
how come you weren't on the stage to tell them that then?
Their upbringing and childhood experiences with their dad is what set the tone for their relationship with him in adulthood. It’s good he wants them now but he has to start from scratch. I hope he understands and continues to try. If he’s for real, I hope their forgiving, understanding and accepting
They’re mad because the father isn’t giving the validation she wants.
Ary doesn't grasp the concept that for a parent a child transitioning is heartbreaking bcuz it's like a death has happened without the funeral or any type of closure and that transition for a parent takes time
You would think, since it takes “counseling” to get these hormones and such, they would counsel them with empathizing with family, it’s not all about you
@@Cin_her This part! The entire family is transitioning.
&&& it's death w a live child STILL here in another form.
Thts alot to I just.
As said, the entire family is transitioning, not just U & expecting him to just fall in line is disrespectful & unrealistic.
Very true! It is extremely hard
Feeling like Ary transitioned out of spite. Nothing feminine. Pretty person, but no femininity. Just wanted to hurt dad and it backfired because dad accepted it.
As a fellow trans woman who’s trying to grow and be a better person I’m watching this wondering if I once made my family feel this uncomfortable by being so obnoxiously fem and pushing my transition down peoples throat and I’m quite sure this was me during my younger years and I apologize to all 🤦🏾♀️
Takes a great bit of maturity to admit your wrongs. I’m sure your family will appreciate this.
you are so beautiful!
This was very mature of you I'm pretty sure you doing great now
Well-spoken!
You’re not trans you saying that so people can side with you and if you are you’re being a pick me to these straight loser seek help
As a father, that’s his son forever
Wow all three ladies are so beautiful!!!
As a fellow member of the LGBT myself, I will say what I got to say and I don't care about nobody sensitivity. My generation and the generation after are too entitled and so beyond bratty, it's ridiculous.
Yall don't get to dictate when someone chooses to accept you the way you feel, how you act, how you personify yourself when you want them to do so.
Acceptance takes time and if you were so confident in yourself, you wouldn't have to require someone to accept you or needed validation because you've already be in the position of self-respect and love for yourself and the other person. It's your business.
I'll always be My Father and Mother's Son, no matter what I am or choose to be. They will always see the little boy they grown up with that was full of humor and smiles and I am still that but in a transition. It takes time and a lot of patience. Don't rush the process. Get out your feelings, make nice, let it go, be good to thy mother and father, friends, and family.
Nothing is worth ruining a relationship over pettiness that isn't warranted. My other issue is for these peers of mines who dwell on the past but never want to accept the future. For those who are still complaining that they parents were never there for them but they still in their life, cherish these moments you have with them now.
Don't be petty and dwell on stuff you had no control over. Not to dismiss the pain yall felt but why keep the grudge for, it's nothing helping either or side. Periodt! Have a blessed one.
You said that perfectly!!!
@Choco King yesssssssss this is it
💜🥺 the realist shit imma take your advice and I'm a woman thank you!!
🎤 drop
*Edited* I had to break up those messages for the ones who gonna complain saying: "They ain't gonna read all of that" LOL Run on sentences, I know and understand yall.
I think people have to understand that acceptance is not celebrating. Leighton’s daughter wants to feel celebrated. Acceptance can come across as tolerance when it seems like it’s done begrudgingly.
For some people, acceptance might be as good as it gets.
Fax son 📠📠
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This is disgusting, they have horrible attitude’s and clearly wasn’t raised with respect for him. The father definitely need’s to hold his accountablity but it’s hard if they won’t let you.
@@davillawoo5777 What are you talking about? If they don't have respect for him because he wasn't doing his job. Like you don't need nobody to hold you accountable, that's something you do on your own. He has a lot of work to do to fix the problem that he made.
A lot of the comments are going on about the poor dad. Forgetting he was physically abusive and now he just wants everything to be forgiven and cool. You can't hurt people and then complain about how they decide to handle the hurt.
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HOLD-UP A MOMENT??? The mother looks like she’s one of the sister!
Respect to the dad for showing up and fighting for a relationship with his kids. Some parents mess up and wouldn’t even show up. These girls have no respect for their dad, her being a parent now, she will understand. I think their mother raised them to dislike their dad allegedly in my opinion.
True/Factsss.... .
YOU CANNOT FORCE THIS MADNESS DOWN SOMEONE'S THROAT
Exactly. Sickening
Would you rather have a dead child?? Just saying?? And if you say yes then maybe the kid isn’t the problem
@@linkpazz1088
Yes even you don't ask me this question I would better have a dead child than this. GOD'S WORD, and THAT'S ETERNAL, said when your hand sin cut it off- when your eyes sin rip it out, so when you sin with your whole body kill it. No curse will come near me while I am stated the TRUE AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH. THAT JUDGEMENT DAY IS TRUE
@@hardylisette2756 god created us, yes we have flaws, hell we all have flaws but just bc you are trans doesn't mean you are bad. You are saying you would rather have your child dead is than being trans is crueler. I think you should take a step back and ask yourself who is in the wrong, you, the child, or god because God makes no mistakes
@@hardylisette2756 lol you need to go outside and take a walk sir or seek a therapist you’re going insane
No matter what makeup, clothes, hair , surgeries, the facts is he was a born a boy and will always be a boy , no matter what they try.
I wish my father was this cool, just him accepting me would have been enough for me lol
I know this dad so very well!!!! I am so proud of him staying calm during this!!!! ❤
Baby those kids are Brats and disrespectful and won’t make in this world as adults , nothing he does will be enough for them!
Good
I pray for the dad he the only one with morals
@@Roads2RichesRickkkthe wife is not a good person. You cannot go against your spouse with your kids.
@@Roads2RichesRickkkyou can say that again
He's NOT OBLIGATED to accept anything contrary to the son he know he produced. If he chooses to align himself with nature and God's creation, he doesn't have to support anyone who chooses to defy that.
That part who they think they r... ill just move on with my life ain't no way.
Amen sis
Amen. Let God deal with them.
You’re absolutely right. So keep that in mind when you wonder WHY she doesn’t want him in her life. Because to her. That boy is dead. Dead and gone. And she is now a HER. So if her own father can’t learn to accept her new life then he SHOULDNT be in her life. So he doesn’t have to support or accept it but he better not expect her to want him around. Rightfully so.
@@nikkijenae9346 he
When he hugged her the face expression had my dying bro 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
Don’t let them you beat you down bro,that’s your son not your daughter!!
As a father I would have to say he is a better man than me. If I’m trying, reaching out and doing everything in my power to have a relationship with my children. Yet they want to disrespect me and disregard me, I’m good. I feel for that man.
He isn't doing everything he can tho..Calling is not "everything in his power". He dont even talk to aryana. Like be fr. And nobody disrespected him. You don't do damage and expect folks to welcome you back into they life wit open arms. It ain't even really seem like he cares to fight for his family.
She's irritating as hell because he's trying to call the name you chose, why don't you understand he had a boy you want him to accept something that did not come out of him for the last how many decades. And I don't understand why he can't call you your government name he gave you.. you're forcing your father to call you something he did not have and want him to be comfortable, well he's not. You're not working with him you're not waiting on him y'all want him to do what you want when you want him to do it .... INSANITY... I had a son and then my son decided to be a female you want me to just wake up accept it and just call him by the name he chose I've been raising this boy for over 20 years 15 years 17 years and you just want me to wake up and conform to your shit Insanity your father loves that man who identifies as a woman I don't understand why the child can't understand this shit ain't normal to us the same what we had. Nobody want nobody speaking up for the parent but I will that shit is fucking emotional as a parent to know you had a son who's that daughter and you just want me to wake up and just conform are you fucking insane... SOME MOTHERS COULD ACCEPT THAT SHIT I'M NOT ONE TWO I STILL LOVE MY SON BUT I DON'T GOT TO WATCH YOU BE SOMETHING I DIDN'T HAVE I DON'T. AND Y'ALL WANT HIM TO DO A LOT OF SHIT BUT ARE YOU GOING TO WAIT UNTIL HE'S COMFORTABLE OR YOU GOING TO FORCE HIM. IT'S INSANE THAT MAN DIDN'T HAVE TWO GIRLS HE HAD A MALE AND A FEMALE AND AS A MAN I KNOW THAT SHIT IS HARD FOR HIM. I'M A FEMALE AND IT'S HARD FOR ME TO CONTEMPLATE THAT IF MY SON IS GAY I DON'T WANT TO SEE THAT SHIT. I WANT TO SEE WHAT A FEMALE HAVING KIDS LIKE HISTORY NOT THE WORLD HISTORY THE BIBLE SPEAKS OF ... AND IF HE APOLOGIZED HOW MANY FUCKING MORE TIMES DO WE GOT APOLOGIZE LIKE THEY'RE NOT GOING TO BE HAPPY UNTIL HE'S DEAD STILL APOLOGIZING THAT'S NOT FAIR....
Yeah I wouldn't accept that either. How embarrassing it is for a father to be forced to call his son his daughter. I would've walked out on all of them and be gone forever.
@@kevinfields7500 👍🏽
@@k22hard my dad wasn't stellar by any means, but I'm so glad these "men" weren't my father. Gross
I am part of the queer community, And this honestly pisses me off.
People need to realize that parents grieve the loss of what and who their child used to be. They have to grieve that loss of a child, no matter how it looks to other people. Everyone deals with grief differently.
Maybe in the beginning the dad was not accepting, And i'm sure that was hurtful for the kids. But he's making an effort now and they are pushing him away. They think they have some huge point to make but they're only making themselves look bad.
They won't let him talk. They keep throwing the past in his face.
They clearly don't want reconcilication. They don't want to move on and they don't want to see that he is sorry and that he does love them.
They want all the understanding and empathy in the world but they don't seem to have any to give in return.
He did not say that he didn't love them, He did not say that he didn't accept them. But he did admit to making some mistakes. No one is perfect. They need to focus on his efforts now if they actually want to move forward. Otherwise they need to stop, leave him alone and go live with their victim mentality.
Being queer is not the same as being trans
@@rosesnicks7438the point is they empathize with the situation.
Wonderfully said!
I CAME HERE TO VENT FROM A PERSPECTIVE THAT WAS GONNA PI$$ EVERY LGBT PERSON OFF, AND MAKE NO MISTAKE I USUALLY DO WITH MY TRUTH, YET I SAW YOU HAD GOT THERE B4 ME AND TOUCHED ON A LOT OF WHAT I WAS GOING TO SAY, WHAT YOU SAID WAS OBVIOUS TO ALL, CAN GO SO DEEP ON THIS FARSE YES THE WHOLE SHOW IS A SET UP JUST LUCKILY THE FATHER WAS PLAYED ALL OUT AND EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLY HURT WORSE THAN ANY PRISON CAN DO TO HIM, LISTEN TO THE BIT WHEN THE GAY HOST SAYS EVERYONE IS TALKING IN LINE YET HIM!?!?!?!?, HOW DARE HE SAY THAT IN TOTAL COGNITIVE DISSONANCE OF THE FACT HE BEEN ENCARCERATED AND 25 YEARS BUM BYE BYE WAS RIDING HIGH IN THE CHARTS!!!, YEAH DAT PART AND IT AINT NO ACCIDENT THE MOMMA LOOK LIKE QUEEN LATIFA AND SAID SHE THE MOM AND THE DAD AND ITS EVERY REASON HIS SON EMASCULATED TO THE POINT OF TRANSEXUAL, 25YRS YEARS AGO THEY WOULD BE ON TRIAL NOT HIM YET NOW THEY GO AROUND BULLYING FATHERS FOR BEING WHAT FATHERS ARE MEANT TO BE FROM THE DAWN OF TIME, AND IT DONT HELP HE LOOK LIKE OMAR IS COMING POOR SOD!!!, THIS IS BEING REPEATED IN MANY HOMES IN THE WEST AND ITS ALL DOWN TO THE NANNY STATE EMPOWERING THE WOMEN OVER THE MEN LOOK AT HIM DEFENSELESS TO FIGHT FOR HIS FAMILY TELL ME WHO NEEDS A MAN WHEN YOU MARRIED TO STATE AND CHURCH???, THE WHOLE PSYCHOLOGICAL OF IT IS POWER WOMEN WERE NOT MADE TO WEILD POWER IF THEY WERE YOU WOULD HAVE MORE BATTERD HUSBANDS THAN THERE IS BATTERD WOMEN BY 95% INCREASE I CAN GO SO DEEP ON THIS YET I HAD TO SHOW RESPECT FOR YOUR HONESTY BECAUSE I HAVE THAT ABILITY UNLIKE THE LGBT WHO TRY TO DEFLECT LIKE WITH THE ITS A TRANS COMMENT YOU GOT SAME AS HIS SON AND THE WAY THEY TALK TO HIM, HE LIKE TAKE HIM BACK TO JAIL SO HE CAN BE INSULTED BY DECENT PEOPLE AS OUTSIDE THE LUNATICS HAVE TAKEN OVER THE ASYLUM, = HITLER HAD THE NAZIS, JEWS HAVE ZIONISM, AND GAYS GOT THE LGBT AND WHATEVER ELSE IT WANTS TO ADD ON AND ITS THAT WHATS CAUSING MORE PROBLEMS IN SOCIETY THAN AMYTHING AND YES I CAN COMPARE DO YOU WANT ME TO NAME ALL THE TERRORIST ATTACKS BY LGBT THAT ARE HIDDEN FROM THE NEWS AND THEN DECLARED WHEN NO ONE IS LOOKING YES NAZIS EVERYTHING THEY DO IS A NAZIS M O AND ITS THE SAME NAZIS BEHIND IT ALL THEY NEVER EVER WENT AWAY WW2 WAS NOT WHAT YOU THINK IT WAS DONT BELIEVE ME THEN TELL ME HOW WILL THEY HISTORICALLY WRITE ABOUT THE WAR IN PALESTINE WE ALL ARE WITNESSING HMM YEAH DAT PART, MY POINT IS YOU HAVE BEEN EMPOWERED FOR A MISSION AS SOON AS THE MISSION IS OVER THE SYSTEM WILL COME FOR YOU TO AND NO AMOUNT OF DELUSIONAL ESCAPISM IS GONNA SAVE THE PEOPLE FROM THAT, I PERSONALLY DO NOT HAVE THE PRIVILEGE OF IGNORANCE, I SHARE THIS WITH YOU AS YOU APEAR TO NOT HAVE SUCH A PRIVILEGE AND I KNOW HOW TOUGH IT CAN BE
@@rouztv773no they don’t 😂
Its hard for dad to see his son as a girl.Lets not joke about it ,he feels hurt.
Mom did and amazing job with her daughters they are so respectful good job mom
😂😂😂
They’re all talking to the dad like he’s a child. But crying about respect. This was an intervention style bully session
It really wasn’t if he wants to cry about not being in the family he’s allowed to know why y’all so gullible I see how aloy of y’all get played by men
@@demarkiusturner292 you’re not talking to me because men don’t play me. This generation is so obsessed with how they weren’t raised right. Get therapy, get over it, and live your best life. Everyone is not going to accept you and that’s ok. The rudeness you showed a stranger lets me know the caliber person I’m dealing with so that’s all I’ll say on that
@@neenaspeakstruth How exactly are they talking to the dad as if he’s a child? Y’all steady always saying this generation; why can’t y’all give some accountability towards the previous generation who raised us up. Y’all are weird.
This is what happened when your not an present father . It's not bully it's hard to have a relationship with someone who isn't trying with you to begin with so why now ?
They are real bullies
Why is everyone else saying Aryana and not getting corrected to Ari but when the dad says it he gets corrected??? That’s just being confrontational and looking for a reason to be mad now come on let’s be honest. Hostile and disrespectful.
You are a boy young man!!! U will never ever be a Woman!!! No matter what hormones he takes 💯💪🏾🤷🏽♀️
Exactly, that young man wanted to be confrontational with his dad .
@@centrelledeshazer1398 your weird asf why are u so mad about her being trans , she’s a girl now stop .
@@Iluvhb1111 not a girl
@@SaBaby93 I Don't Understand What Part They Don't Get?? 🤔🤔
As a daughter who had my dad not there in her life but in his head he was,I understand how the daughters feel. I understand why the daughter’s attitude was there,having your father not there and then try to walk I back into your life like nothing happened hurts and it makes you upset
Why you say daughters 😂, that dude will never be a girl
did you not see in the vid, he tried apologize and own up he wasn't in their life, its like your ears turn on and off for specific information you want to take into your system, like pick and choose and listen to what you want to hear
@@theonlygoodonehere2259you act like an apology is gonna fix everything she went through. he did the bare minimum of owning up to his shit
@@fungalklit oh
They wanna move on on their terms and their terms only....not fair
HE REMINDS ME SO MUCH OF DMX .
I said the same thing 💯
Me too
Respect and acceptance is two different things.... I believe the father respects his family but he doesn't have to accept anything.... Smh.....
He has accepted it he trying and calls by the name chosen
Thank you
He literally just isn’t their father as he has been gone for years. They literally had to figure out life without him because he let his family down and abandoned them. Healing will take much longer than a talk show appearance. His apology is a start but his family is still hurt deeply.
You do realize he doesn’t have to accept anything yes but that also means they don’t have to have him in their life esp when he hasn’t even been a father y’all just be talking he crying about not having his family but your trynna justify his non acceptance how that make sense
@@demarkiusturner292 No one is trying to justify any dysfunction that is going on in this family.. What we all know however is that forgiveness is not for the other person but for you... This man can say he is sorry and go start a another family if he wanted. At the end of the day life is to short for some to hold on to grudges and to try to force someone into accepting your life style.....Everybody needs to move on...
The dad is forced to grieve the loss of his son.
There was no resolution here. The closure was underlined by gaslighting and marginalizing the man using as ammunition his past mistakes. He tried calling and was blocked. Both children are adults, and like the father, should be held accountable for making an effort to try to mend the relationship. This was pinning the man into an ultimatum corner! His opinions on the matter were not valid. Certainly, he is not an emotional guy; however, one can see that he has an attachment to the son he once had, and to disrespectfully saying he’s dead must be heartbreaking. The father needed time to heal from that. Unless, all parties (mother included) change their outlook, the same cycle will just continue.
Hes trying to make amends and they are set on being disrespectful making him feel less than
Making amends but is still being hella disrespectful? How tf does that work?
@@giifentii.0 How is he being disrespectful he's owning his past no one is perfect he's trying his best it's obvious he loves them and want to be there and start over if anything the children and mother are being disrespectful he doesn't have to accept the fact his son transferred to a woman that isn't easy for everyone
@@loribrown3938 Beautifully well stated!!!
@@loribrown3938 and they don’t have to accept a absentee father. Her life is hers and if he wants to REALLY be in her life he should accept what her life is. It’s hard not having both parents but she did that.
@@queenamaya5720 Your absolutely right but they are the ones making and pushing the issue he's just going with the flow
People need to accept an APOLOGY they don’t always come with excitement or sincerity. Apology does not mean I want an relationship, but if you want one accept it a work on the relationship HE HAS THE RIGHT TO REQUEST TIME TO DEAL AND CHANGE HIS BEHAVIOR the wait time is on you
No one is obligated to accept and apology
Leighton is very handsome I think he needs to take responsibility for his childrens feelings but outside of that he seems very cool and the mother is giving me a cool aura
Bro was crying before he even hit the stage
Huge lesson on how years of poor treatment can't be rectified with an apology once change happens. It takes times (years many times) to get there. Wishing them the best.
The best and most honest comment in the comment section
literally the best comment.
They need a therapist to move forward.
Much respect to the Father💯
Its funny how men think being a parent is something you can switch on and off and pause to resume when it suits you.
I feel It for the father. It's such a shame that not matter how many times he would acknowledge his past mistakes that the children are so hostile and cold towards him as difficult as it is to be in front of a panel such as social media and not get any respect or recognition but attitude and disrespect.
No not mistake’s it’s choices that he made that got him to this point. They have every right to be. Why should they respect a man who got physical with them and was in jail for half their life’s
Guess what that is called? It’s called consequences for their actions..if you beat and abuse your family and was a drunkard all their life…then accept the fact that they won’t respect you
This father reaching out to the show and trying for his kids means alot...some of us still have fathers with child support from 1991 and they will never reach out....Prayers for the father to find peace within himself hes a King who tried for his sons.
Only one was a boy
This is what happens when you are not there for your kids when there are young. You can't just sashay in as their adults and expect them to love and accept you like you've been there all along. He is reaping what he sowed. Let it be a lesson to other men out there
He has two breakfast daughters!! Both are stunning 🙌🏾🙌🏾🥰🥰
I think Leighton is trying. He fucked up and he knows it, but you can tell he loves them. I hope they can forgive him.
Forgive him for what, he didn’t do nothing wrong?. He was born a man he’s still a man and will die a man. God is too wise to make a mistake. Be happy with the way God made mankind
@@Woodard782 okay so if you hate LGBTQIA people and refuse to acknowledge Trans people then why watch? The host is gay. Calm down and stop being so mean. You don't have to rub things in people's face, it comes across as you're bullying them. It's crazy how people can easily call a bigot and child molester who lost an election a president, or a layperson a pastor just because they ask, but oh no, not the trans people, we can't be nice and call them as they ask. It doesn't cause you pain to respect a person's wishes and be nice. And he DID do wrong when he was in that abusive relationship with the mother, and wasn't there to be around his kids. Stop dismissing his wrongdoing because you have a hangup about a person's personal struggles. Because before anything these are all people.
I feel so bad for the father 😢
I don’t Aryana showed messages that her father sent and they were horrible
@@maudifriends362 as he should she is litterally abusing her dad mentally
*he is
@@maudifriends362what’s her @??
@@AA-ds2mn so you didnt hear that he abused and neglected his family for years? your transphobia is so apparent, the father is the issue and aryana is grown and not taking his shit.