The TRUTH about Iranian MARRIAGE 💑 👩❤️👨(#13)
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- Опубліковано 25 жов 2020
- Not every marriage story is a love fairy tale! And a lot depends on the social and cultural views regarding marriage. In this video I talk about the TRADITIONAL Iranian views and customs regarding marriage.
- Music: Here Comes The Bride by Sound Idea
- My video on the financial situation of Iranian people:
• The TRUTH about Irania...
Hey narges I am western-Iranian girl... Whatever that means. ..anyway I'd like to tell you that the 'dating' you think happens in west is so not perfect. Ok I can see the problems with the iranian way but there are huge problems with the western way too. People get married very late here and no one commits until they absolutely musttt, I.e they want children. So forget about it if you want to marry your love and go for trips around the world enjoying yourselves for years before kids. This doesnt happen often. People have a partner for few years and then split up. Some people make it work and live their happily every after but it doesn't seem all that common. There is nothing holding a relationship together here. No family and no religion people want comfort and to do what makes them feel right ( which is understandable of course). I am not religous at all and because of the dating scene here I am scared to get into a relationship with a guy because I dont want to be heart broken and I want to be married and have commitment. I never fell in love but I hope if I do ,it is to a nice man who want to marry me.
Hi homie 🙋🌷
I didn't say the western way was "so perfect"!
At least you won't need to hide anything from your parents and worry about keeping your damn virginity.
Sorry but I sort of hate it when some people in the west insist that "here there are problems too", I KNOW! But there IS a bloody difference.
@@NarsFromMars I think maybe I wasnt so clear. I am iranian but born and raised in west. So it means that my parents have some iranian expectations from me how to live my life. So no I cannot do the dating the way you think and no I cannot have bf for a few years then break up etc until I find the 'one'. On top of this I am non religious so my prospective husband pool is very small. Who am I going to marry who is not religious but wants commitment. ? It's rare, at least until age 35 its rare at least.
@@fapo9379 It sucks to have to meet parents' expectations. They ruin too many chances; I've been there and I know. I think financial independence would help with the situation. I myself have to live with them, so it's 'their house, their rules' as I said.
im coming to iran and i will find good person for marriage wiht me i hope i will find good person so can i contact with you i dont have any one friend in iran
Hello! We are Iranian&Korean International married couple! I need to learn Iranian culture so I found out your video 😍 I love Persian culture♥♥♥🇮🇷🇰🇷
Hello and thank you for your comment 😌 Best wishes for you guys🙂🌺
Your video is very informative. I am from India and I know about the places of Iran as there are plenty of videos for that, but your content is different, it's informative which is not very common. Keep it up!
Oh thank you 🌺 I do my best to be honest, there ARE other topics I'd like to talk about, but the risk would be much higher than what I've already have.....not everyone has freedom of speech, you know😢
Very interesting. My Dad is from Iran
And learning about the Culture is Something I am interested in. Thank you! ❤
Hi Michelle 🙋🌺 Honesty is the key; I wish I could talk about many things even more openly, but I live in Iran, and taking more risks than I've already made would be too dangerous.....
Hi Narges! I love your channel! I've been dating my Persian boyfriend for 4 years and I found your channel just today and gladly subscribed! Love your informative videos especially about pragmatic things to understand Iran and persian culture better, thank you! 💖🥳
Thank you azizam and welcome 🤗😘
You are Very kind to respond to me.
Thank you, I understand. I am from the United states. And was wondering about Family Last Names.
You are Very Beautiful and Brave. Bless You for Sharing 😙💖💐
Good Evening Narges! Interesting video of marriages and super informative you are. I'm from the United States 🇺🇲, born and raised and I come from a Hispanic background as my parents are both from Latin America. I have never been married myself but I was engaged to be married a long time ago when I was 22 years old as I was dating a woman a few years older than me and she had proposed to me out of the blue, which I said "Yes" to the proposal question. Eventually, we went our separate ways about a year later. I'll be 36 in November but I feel like when it's with the right woman, I'll feel it. In my perspective, I feel like to have sex with the person is because you feel comfortable with them, you like or love the person, and have good chemistry. If the person is someone who you can see yourself with long term, it's good to express it to the other person hoping that the feeling is mutual. Stay beautiful, Narges 🌹
Hey Nargis! It's me again! Hope you're doing well. Just a personal question: if someone proposed to you, should he go through the whole process of traditional marriage as you described it or there is a room for flexibility? What if he wants to take you out of Iran to a Western country?
All would depend on my parents, although I've had enough and don't want to try anymore.
So the decision still lies with your parents! You're not that rebellious as you seem to be..lol
@@atofasaloma7584 rebellious? As long as you're not 100% independent financially and live with them it'd be THEIR HOUSE THEIR RULES. plus, you'd need an official permission from your dad to get married/leave the country.
Hi Azizam, thank you for your video, it has been very interesting. I do have a question for you: is the merrieh (dowry) really mandatory when you get married in Iran, or is it more a traditional way and habit? I mean, does the merrieh is the law for getting married in Iran or are persian girl protected with other systems? I do have full doubt on it and I do really need an impartial reply (if you can), I mean nor traditional nor "modern". Thank you in advance for your support :-)
I am half persian and half italian, I was born and raised in Italy but I have met my love here in Italy and he is persian. For many reasons we will get marry in Tehran and then come here, but I need to know how it really works. mersiiiii
Ciao cara!
Well, dowry is the 'jahizie', all the STUFF the girl has to take with her. Different in different parts of Iran. Mehrie is the marriage portion, which is what the guy has to give the woman "whenever she wants it", but as I said usually it's talked about only when it comes to divorce.
To be honest, you've got an advantage: you're not an Iranian citizen; so you ARE protected. But Iranian women.....
You can watch my other video "I'm divorced, officially single, and virgin" to learn more.
Best of luck to you and your love life.
Hugs🥰🌺
@@NarsFromMars Hi dear! thank you very much for your response which has been totally meaningfull! You are so mehraban! kheili kheili tashakkor and I will watch at your video "divorced" for sure! :-* :-)
@@morvaridabrooni9344 Grazie mille azizam🥰🌺
Hello! I have seen all the videos, I think the content is of great quality, it is entertaining and interesting. Thanks for sharing. I have some doubts, I hope you can guide me, How is the amount of the mehrie fixed?
How much does each gold coin cost?
When is it due?
This is something independent of the patrimonial regime in the marriage or is it the only right of the woman in case of divorce?
Hi there. Thanks for your compliments.
I'm a bit surprised you know all about this! It's a bit too complicated and that's why I didn't include it in the video.
I explained everything and posted my comment 6 times but it keeps disappearing. Apparently UA-cam doesn't like that one! Sorry!
@@NarsFromMars Whoops! How curious about the censorship. It's a shame. Anyway, thank you very much for your answer.
generosidad sobre todo deseo un feliz domingo a usted dios le bendiga con cada paso
Hey Narges!
I am Iranian and have been living in france for 4 years. I have a boyfriend for 3 years now which took me 2.5 years to tell my parents and I didn't dare to tell them we live together and have sex and everything, I just told them we love each other for 3 years! It has been also around 3 years that I could not go to Iran(first there was the pandemic and then I had the last year of my PhD so I couldn't go)
Now I am going to Iran for the new year with my boyfriend and I am just nervous what will happen 😅😅 watching your videos I so understand you!
Salam azizam 🥰🌷 Thank you for your comment. I'm so happy you don't live here anymore and also congrats on having found love+ your PhD.
Yeah it's absolutely ridiculous how much pressure we have to endure for some medieval beliefs.
Hope everything goes greatly when you visit Iran.
Love and hugs 🤗
@@NarsFromMars Thanks a lot!!! I feel happy now but it took time...
Yes, it is really preposterous and very painful as well when we leave the country. It takes a long time to get over the hurt coming from these religious and traditional views.
I wish you the best in your journey!
@@fatemesadattabatabaei3429how did it go
The ending broke my heart. This means majority of people do not like the traditional way. My advice, leave the country, get a better career. Find someone with a good career and one you love. Inform your families and marry them.
In marriage, it is the man and woman who work things out not their families.
Immigration is utterly impossible for me. I can't afford it.
Marriage. Have you watched my latest video? I'm done with marriage and dating. Forever. Or at least this is how I feel for the time being.
@@NarsFromMars nooooo. I know many people that will love to marry you ladies from Iran. They are all over in Canada and USA. We have to find ways of connecting you guys.
Many races admire you ladies from Iran a lot. It’s just what will connect both parties. Do not give up. Talk to God and he will find a way when there seems to be no way
@@itsallaboutyouforever2773 God. Here we go again😐 I'm not a religious/spiritual person. Everything bad I went through in life had at least something to do with religion or religious peoole.
Guys in US and Canada.😅 At my previous job a few foreigners did show some interest in me, u know. The last 1 was a Greek dentist, I'd like to get to know them, but I didn't even go for a coffee with them, because anyway considering my religious family that would go nowhere. And I'm too emotional for a long distance relationship....
At the moment I'm really heart broken and even thinking about trusting another GUY sounds like a nightmare to me😔😔😔
@@NarsFromMars trust is something all of us must sacrifice to give at all times no matter the circumstances that reduces its integrity. I feel you should take any opportunity that comes your way. Culture, which is a way of life, is to help us keep a certain moral that is good for the community as well as religion, which is intended to bring us closer to the maker by the good works we do to ourselves and our community is similar in all perspectives and dimensions they come: be it rural or urban, Muslim or Christian, we are all meant to use these tools (culture and religion) to live a happier life.
As an educated person, you understand this and your goal is to find someone who has this ideology, so that you can live a happy life. No parent won’t want their children happy as long as they are well and good. That should be the focal point at which you set out to trust and love again.
Hope this helps. I wish you happiness, happiness beyond your utmost imagination.
@@itsallaboutyouforever2773 hi there 🙋🌺 thank you for your comment.
"Use religion to live a happier life"???? Seriously?
Everything terrible I've been through in life had at least something to do with religion and religious people. So I'm not a fan, you know.
I think this is a great tradition.
It shows you care about the girl's reputation. You should be proud of that:)
Come on, girl.
What reputation?
Super helpful I’m thinking of marrying an Iranian girl
You are very beautiful. Thankyou for your video.
Thank you so much 🥰🥀
Hi. Can you please tell me about what an Iranian marriage contract means and what someone is allowed to add as an amendment? I mean about traveling for example, working, damages in case of a divorce, standards of legal “permission” for second wives, continuing education etc.
I replied to a similar question on here but my reply kept disappearing! Apparently UA-cam didn't like it!! I'll try to post my reply to your question now, and will let you know in case something similar happens.
Quite a comprehensive question....
In a nutshell, the rules are in favour of men over here. The right to decide about divorce is men's. It means in 99% of the cases it's not the court that decides: the husband can say "i will/won't agree to divorce you".
When it comes to divorce, the husband is supposed to pay the Mehrieh (part of his property/arbitrary amount of gold etc agreed upon at the time of marriage), but because it's the husband who decides about divorce, sometimes the wife would say I don't wabt anything, just let me go.....
Amendment. Yes, the 2 can agree on something, for example the right to decide about divorce for the wife, and add it to the marriage contract.
Permission. Yeah, legally speaking, the 1st wife's permission is needed even for a temporary 2nd marriage (basically it's you wanting to have sex with another woman but want to make it religiously ok in front of God!!!!!), but it happens a lot even without the permission. Don't know how! Really.
Continuing education. Well, things ARE changing over here and most young couples aren't that traditional, ao usually there would be no problems....
Hasn't disappeared so far!
NarsFromMars How much is a typical amount for a divorce settlement? Can this be enforced by the local sharia court by liquidating assets or does this depend on the guy’s good mood? Can the right to travel freely and demand a divorce be included in the contract?
@@hadasah6309 Yes, it's enforceable by the law, but as i said because the right to decide is for men, in rare cases the guy can say i won't divorce her anyway.
Yes, some mutual agreements on travel, divorce, etc could be added to the legal contract.
Hiiiii dear Nars, I'm curious about talking in the room, what they talk about!🤔 Mehrieh is a problem too, although they say "who gives, who takes"!
I will propose my partner in the future, that everything be equal in Rights (Is it possible?)
Cheers, Omid.
Exactly. Mehrieh is the polite word for "bride price" 🥺🥺🥺 It's a problem for both parties. If Iranian marriage was like the western marriage no Mehrieh would be needed: everything they have would be divided half-half. Plus, it's the court who decides on divorce n it's rights. But here? Every right is for men, so the girl needs the Mehrie to use as a "safe measure" in case the man doesn't agree to divorce. A firend of mine did this: i don't want anything n just let me go....🥺
On the other hand, the amount would be too much if the guy has to pay🥺 U know, a corrupt system is bad for both parties. Everything MUST change some day.
Hello, first of all, your chanell is very informative, goodjob🥳🥳.
I have a question. Am black and currently dating an Iranian. I have to ask few questions. How are this kind of interrelations viewed in your culture?
2. I know we have so many cultural differences , do parents approve of such relationships? Or marriage?
I dont want to live in fantasy on something that wont work. So let me know, because am thinking of ending it before we get deeper into the relationship. Thank you
Hi Beryl and thank you for your comment 🌺
We're 85 million people over here and I wouldn't like to overgeneralise anything, so my advice is to get to know your partner more and analyse them/their family 'on an individual basis' (everyone should do this and I think it helps fight many of our biases).
But to be honest I myself know dating a black person wouldn't be that welcome in MY family (although every religious person in the world- including my parents- claim to be anti-racism).
My own skin tone is considered dark compared to the average Iranian, and back at high school my classmates often brought it up: "poor thing! You have light eyes, if only you had light skin too..... You would look European, girl!"
😑😑😑
All in all, wish you and your partner best of luck, focus on getting to know them, give it time🌺🌺🌺
@@NarsFromMars thank you so so mich for your response🤗🤗. Yes its true it depends on an individual basis. Also am sorry you had to go through that in school. I hope you never experience that again.. Much love ❤
@@berylatienom1901 No it's ok, I love my skin tone now, and it's sort of what makes me more special, but back then I felt sad and wished I had lighter skin🤓
Thank you very much @@NarsFromMars
Dear big thumbs up from india
Hi,
One of my friend in iran forced by family to marry one boy.. now she want to take devorce..can u tell the process..
Sorry to hear that. It's complicated and since everything over here is in a man's favour, I'd say she MUST consult a good lawyer.
@@NarsFromMars she recently marry before 1 month..she says man is his friend and very good ... don't have any problem..
But she is not happy in this marriage bcs she doesn't love him...she love another man another country
@@ezazamber007 I don't know any of them so I can't judge
Hi I am 20 year old Iranian American and speak Farsi I want to know if being raised in the states will give me a hard time finding a partner who I would want to take back with me, culture is not the issue because I am conservative but it’s just bringing her to another country that I want to know if will bring problems or not. Thank you great video
Hi there 🙋 Why don't you find an Iranian-American partner who's already there? Travelling to Iran isn't a good option at the moment, especially if you have dual citizenship. But yeah, many Iranian girls would die for having a partner who resides in the US
the answer is apparent. If in Irani does not choose the most complicated path full of harrowing obstacles and hindrances what kind of Irani is he then especially in terms of self esteem? I went through two yrs in prison but i will never regret rather the other way round. Kheili Mamnoon Khoda hafez.
@@kalebind1 OMG the sarcasm😅 Seriously? Prison????🥺🥺🥺🥺 Please tell me you're kidding me ....what for???
@@NarsFromMars Sarcasm? Not that I knew knew what your statement on this particular instance could mean. Not even the most distant tiniest clue whatsoever...What for? For a certain appropriate act of justified violence...
@@kalebind I meant the way you described Iranians.
If this has really happened to you I'm truly sorry and ashamed. Yes, many unfair situations happen over here, despite some people insisting on saying the opposite, stupidly.
I've been through a lot because of my nosy religious relatives.
❤ good her channal❤
Test drive is one thing, but you're not supposed to put 9000 miles on the car, either. Let's be honest, that's what happens when you get the rules out of the way...
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Good point :)
Hi narges I'm Khalid from Pakistan 🌱 I like ur chanel and ur videos verry nice but I want to shift in qoom Iran plz tell me proceger
Iranian that was raised in usa, I went to iran to get married to a girl i liked, but their family wanted alot of mahir(dowry)...I was suprised.
So you guys broke up?🥺
@@NarsFromMars i can't conjure up 150k usd in cash. that is ludicrous.
@@kh-fk3ko 🥺🥺🥺
What is the process of marrying iranian women
There's no defined "process", and I don't know for sure, meet someone and do your research 🤷
Love from Bangladesh
Hello and thank you ☘️
Keep it up sister
I would like to marry an iranien girl. Do you know where in this internet you can find serious girls who want to marry and live in turkey?
It would be better if you went to Iran as a tourist and learn on how best to get one. Websites have scammer mostly
Modern relationship rock . traditional marriage suck . From experience
Iran natural beauty 🇮🇷😍
I love Iranian people 🫶💕🥀
What is baha'i marriage in Iran? Please reply...
Hi there.
Baha'ism is a faith despised a lot by the current theocracy. Honestly I don't know any Baha'i person or anything about their traditions. I'll try to do some research and be back to you.
I think some of the things you said about this are based solely on your perception and not on real facts. First of all, I don't think all customs are completely illogical. These are not just Iranian customs at all, this practice of meeting people has been the rule all over the world. The case you described is more extreme, I watched a documentary about Iran and dating through an agency and many people found their happiness in life that way. Also, you can't compare test driving a car with human relationships. I live in Eastern Europe but I have the opportunity to travel a lot, and what I have seen meeting people is that many girls have psychological problems (emotional baggage) due to failed relationships from the past. So your story of a western way (meeting someone, having relationship and then living happily ever after) sounds more like a fairy tale. And the divorce rate is also high in Western countries. Personally, I'm not very conservative, but I think that both ways have their advantages and disadvantages, some customs may be a bit impractical nowadays, but we shouldn't call illogical something we don't like, if someone wants to lead their life that way. Although our views differ on this, I respect your opinion and I will follow the channel, I have been interested in Iranian culture and language for a long time, and I'll be happy to watch every new video you release.
1. Hello and thanks for your comment 😊☘️
2. The test drive analogy was a "Gabby" joke (Desperate Housewives) about having sex before marriage. I strongly believe you can't just "wish" or "hope" for having sexual comparability with your future spouse.
3. I never said "the Western way" is perfect and always lead to "a fairy tale" as you said. Maybe if you watch my other video you'll understand me more: "I'm divorced, officially single, and virgin".
4. Thanks for the sub.
@@NarsFromMars "divorced, single and virgin" I think you're the first person ever to put these three words in the same sentence.
I absolutely understand your arguments. I just don't think sexual compatibility is an equall to happy relationship. I'll tell you a story. My grandparents were in World War II, my grandfather as a soldier, and my grandmother as a nurse, they met after the war and got married immediately. They had absolutely nothing, they created everything from scratch while the whole country was completely destroyed. They knew nothing about sexual compatibility but they built a big family and a happy marriage, they lived for almost 100 years (they both died in 2010). It all depends on what you are looking for in life, but if you think too much about compatibility, the size of someone's hands and similar things, I am afraid that you will attract the wrong type of person. In any case, I hope that you will have a fulfilled life, alone or with someone, and that you will remain true to yourself.
@@zeljkokrsic1394 I see. Nothing is a GUARANTEE for happiness in q relationship/marriage. Everything is relative and about probabilities.
Sorry to hear your grandparents passed away. It was a touching story.
Well, honestly I don't have an easy life at the moment, don't like myself much, and I feel I'm having another bout of anxiety.
@@NarsFromMars Keep fighting your demons, we all have some struggle in life, you're probably around my age (28) so i can relate to the some extent to you. I believe what the Greek philosophers said. In life, you have to have a higher goal that you strive for in order to be happy. When you sacrifice yourself every day for something bigger than yourself, then you give meaning to your life. Without that, over time, a person falls into depression and anxiety. I don't know what you do in life, but maybe you should try new things and maybe you will find yourself in something...
@@zeljkokrsic1394 thank you for your comment, and I'm 35☘️
Hey, I’m from Pakistan and I live in London. Can we talk sometime
Hi there 🙋
I talk to many people on the channel, it's ok🙋
How to you marry you?
How can Marriage to an Iranian Girls as a foreigner Muslim?????????
Do you have a email???
I would like to talk to you privately.
Too much on my plate and I don't do it🥺 Let me limit the moaning to the channel, when I can be goofy enough, so that it's at least tolerable....😔🌺🌺🌺
I hear the frustration in your voice explaining these rigid, unrealistic expectations around courtship and marriage. It sounds oppressive and patriarchal with no room for personal freedom. At the same token though, I do wanna say that as someone coming from the black community here in the states, the grass is not always greener on the other side 😩 this isn't to belittle your experiences at all. But the reality is, here in the US might be more ideal than Iran...but it is still far from ideal
Frustrated I AM..... with many things over here.
I see. Who said anything was ideal anywhere??
@@NarsFromMars You didn't say verbatim that the western world is the gold standard when it comes to dating/marriage, I just imagine that living under the oppressive rules in Iran, it might seem like the norms of a place like the US is the better alternative...and, while its definitely better, it still sucks for women and men alike 🥴
@@GrayzoneGab Yeah of course. Everywhere there are, for sure, crazy rules, crazy ideas, and crazy people! But it's the SCALE, you know.
I have this Aussie friend/surrogate mum who's always like "here we do have this problem or that problem so I understand". I know she intends to make me feel better but honestly it pisses me off a bit, and I think "no you don't, my dear Denise, you'll never UNDERSTAND how it feels to be struggling to find a normal minimum-payment job when you have a bloody master's degree; you'll never understand how it feels to have undergone 3 forced virginity checks in your life, you'll never understand how it feels to know you'll be living with your parents till the end of your life unless you get married".
Hope things change for the better in the US, no hope for Iran any time soon😔
@@NarsFromMars I hear you 😔I will never claim to understand what that must be like, it sounds totally dehumanizing and like your sense of autonomy has totally been stolen. It is at a much different scale than the issues here in the U.S., I won't try to minimize that. I guess it's just...the U.S. anthem ends with "o'er the land of the free, and the home of the brave!", and it's true, we enjoy alot more freedom than other nations and that extends to how we conduct our intimate relationships. But even with these freedoms, we've still ended up with far less desirable outcomes when it comes to dating, marriage, and family life here... Of course the answer isn't to revoke these freedoms, but, I just thought it would be important to note that us "westerners" are also up a creek- just a much slower, shallower creek lmfao.
@@GrayzoneGab Totally agree. Actually I love George Carlin's view on this: "the illusion of freedom", "the illusion of choice". He was a philosopher indeed....
Wow ! The tradition is soo similar to India....:(
Hi Amit. I guess so..... And there are things too complicated to talk about here. I would change EVERYTHING if I could.....
@@NarsFromMars Oh you bet ! Its soo complicated and interestingly the involvement of the relatives spices it up quiet a bit......
@@amit2867 "Hi Narges. How's it going? Listen. There's this boy who'd like to come to your house with his mum, he has a decent job. I gave your number to his mum, she'll send you his photo; and she wants to see your photo as well. I mean, how long do you want to remain single?", says some dumb-nut religious cousin on the phone every once in a while!!
@@NarsFromMars Hmmmm. How does one get the message out clearly .."STOP POKING YOUR @#$^&*! NOSE IN MY LIFE!!!"
Yeah as I remember till 5 years ago when a police see a girl and a boy are with each other go and ask them what are you guys doing here, what's your relationship..
Now it's rarely happen. Cuz police finally understood its better they date at park not at home:-P
Are Iranian women open to date non Iranian guys of other religions?
Hi there. No. Iranian men can marry women of other faiths but not the other way round 😢 The guy HAS TO convert to Islam, at least on paper...
@@NarsFromMars but what if he doesn't follow the Muslim lifestyle?
@@somyatomar8486 I think the formalities are the most important for the regime.....
@Christo Tom single girls would need an official permission from their fathers to leave the country, but if they do I think they can marry under a different legal system.
I hope so or my Iranian fiance has been breaking a few rules. Actually, she wouldn't care about those rules at all, so no problem for her or me.
When Mutah become prohibited and haram why it is allowed in iran an Islamic country ...
An honest answer to that question can get me in trouble!
#totalitarianism
Can we be friends..
@@ezazamber007 I do feel like 'friends' with my subscribers here, but I usually don't connect with them on other platforms....
@@NarsFromMars that's ok..but I want to know something about .... that's why...
So hilarious i didn't understand one of your points at all. If you do not have the information, then what are you doing here y the discussed Marry topic? If you're not able to answer them because you do not have the current info.
It's better find Marriage foringer lawyer who assist to complete this usual things while guideness
Because the same language is spoken in the whole world of true love it's my bealives.
Btw Greetings from. 🇵🇰🇹🇷
Greetings. And what exactly are you talking about? What point you didn't understand?
@@NarsFromMars
Actually my Quarries is different
My point is if a foringer comes Iran for marriage like me I'm coming next hopefully but my Gf inform me they take a interview so I'm still curious what kind of interview they recommended from us
Even blood test also necessity thing
@@alykhalifa262 you said "if you don't have the info why you discuss a topic".
My topic was Iranian marriage. Between 2 Iranians. I never said I was an expert on marriage between Iranians and foreigners; apart from the fact that when people ask me I tell them what I know. One thing is for sure. A non-muslim guy who's gonna marry an Iranian girl IN IRAN, he has to convert to Islam.
@@NarsFromMars I'm already Muslim so
@@NarsFromMars well it's easier thing between Iranian
Pls bring some fresh info according to my Topic next
like your information..are u on Instagram?
Thank you 🌺🌺 No, I'm not, I've always found the Iranian Instagram community quite toxic🙃
@@NarsFromMars any email address?
@@Ak-kj2ze Sorry I don't connect personally with people online🌺🙈
@@NarsFromMars ok I understand ..no problem..thanku
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Merriage center ???
Didn't quite get your question, man
@@NarsFromMars how can a foreigner merriage Irani girl ? ways? merriage center ?
@@betaab1603 I don't know any "marriage centres" here. But a lot of Iranian girls are on T.i.n.d.e.r
Aslamualikum my name ahsaan Ahmed I am Pakistani
Hello and welcome 🌺
@@NarsFromMars most welcome
@@NarsFromMars you WhatsApp number send me
That means your not married? You are so beatiful🥰....
Yeah, no one wants me😅
@@NarsFromMars hahaha you killed all his hopes :)
@@amit2867 By saying I'm not married?
@@NarsFromMars :) :) "No one wants me". That's wicked....
@@amit2867 😁😁😁
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I am currently studying Farsi because my bestfriend is Iranian and I have to say I am shocked by your video.
First of all why would one want to give his/her virginity to someone without commitment... I am sorry but I prefer traditional cultures in that regard. The overcontrolling aspect in Iran is terrible but tbh is very specific to Islam (none of that in my religion and I am very religious). I am sorry that people go through that. But the way the West is going where people sleep with 30 people before marriage is really bad as well.
I am also shocked you’d use such an expression as „Buying a car without a test drive” that’s such a horrible way to talk about what is supposed to be the most intimate thing between two human beings. You complain about the inhumane and illogical way of approching marriage in Islamic culture but what you promote is just as evil. Look at studies on hookup culture and its devastating effects on the western youth.
If two people love each other they will make their sexual life work, no need for „testing” we are humans with feelings not robots. In my religion forced marriages are not allowed and it is a decision taken by two people who are in love and want to raise their children in the faith. Parents have little two say although their benediction is appreciated. There is a world between radical Islam and the madness of liberalism you know.
I hope Iran leaves radical Islam but I for one doesn’t wish at all for it to become like the West where people (and especially women) are treated like sexual objects. Good luck.
Hi Nelly. Can't say much, as I'll be attacked by SOME people AGAIN.
But the "test drive" was a line by Gabby from Desperate Housewives, everyone seems to despise that quip.
Hii. I am an American and my girlfriend is persian. We have been dating for the past 7 months and we’ve both agreed upon getting married. However, she wants to go the more traditional route so we agreed upon beings friends, and I will get engaged when I am financially stable. Do you have an Instagram or a Twitter where I can bombard you with all of these questions that I have😂😂 I would really appreciate it as I don’t know much into the culture, and I’m trying to learn as much as I can so I can better understand and connect with her family and her.
Best of luck to both of you guys🌷
But I'm aftaid that sounds like trouble (answering Qs on Iranian culture when someone's dating an Iranian).
My advice: don't concentrate on traditions etc for the time being, take your time, take things slow, and focus on getting to know her as an individual, and then her family