Parents' discrimination started all the trouble?! [Hello Counselor / 2017.07.17]
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sad thing is, it was the mother who didn't offer the same amount of affection, understanding how the younger one feels kinda hurts
hyungwon is done same
Right, i somehow know how the younger brother feel:(
Carmie Liquit it’s okay you’re not alone!! I know how the younger one feels too
hyungwon is done you can find the answer on reply 88 abt this tho, i think its relate
I'm a middle child and my mom takes side of the oldest and youngest the most; however, dad loves me the most since I'm the only daughter 😂😂😂
i'm crying when they redid their childhood photos and it is getting worst when the fact that the father cried silently at his seat while watching his children talked to each other after 8 years . i'm sobbing and i hope their relationship getting better bcs theyre so cute . and hello counselor should update later about this cause i'll dying curious how will their relationship going to be
agree.. an update would be nice. the loveshot they did at the end was cute. I hope they get close soon 😊😊
YOU ARE NOT ALONE~
I seriously bawled like a baby!
I was thinking the same thing, luckily I've just come across a short update! Not a full episode but an update of their relationship is mentioned in another 'brothers re-united' type episode specifically 17:57-19:37 in ua-cam.com/video/uga-Nk4ZWL8/v-deo.html. of HelloCounselor (lol sorry for replying to such an old comment XD I was too excited)
me too! i was surprised finding my tears running down the face!
to Parents: childhood until puberty is the most important time of all. it builds our personality and the way our brain works.. so this means all the things that you do will effect the mental/brain function of the chidren/teenager. This also includes our feelings.
totally agree with you. I've been trough many bad things since elementary-high school. those bad memories won't forget easily. still haunting me until now. and the worst is all those things affects my psychology, perspective, the way I see this life. I hope I can be a nice, wise and caring mother when I have child
Ninis KN I
what you have been through?
i could relate to you..... i was bullied when i was a kid and my father always stops me for whatever that i may wish to be.... so these memories stuck up to me until today.... maybe that is also the reason that a teacher told me that i have no insight of future and i am pretty pessimistic.... which are both true....
you know what? me in the same situation with the sons rn :) but, we still talk each other.
11:26 Most heart-fluttering scene. For a second i think i watching a drama.
yes i think so coz it's the first time after 8 years and i think they care for each other but just cannot say coz of pride
Moshi Yook u
😏😏😏
Righttt...My eyes just burst into tears!!!after 8 years,I thought it's more big problem😢😢😢In the end,it's misunderstood...
Moshi Yook his nails were so nice oml
The end where they were recreating the photos LOL
Yeah I was dieing I checked on a straw
I was reading ur comment but ur profile got me laughing my ass off
Aw the video at the end is so adorable. I'm glad they decided to work things out.
Kpop Lover 4Ever yeah, especially when the older bro said "let's have a meal together" I nearly cried ;)
Kpop Lover 4Ever yes! it was so cute and heart warming :) im very happy they worked everything out
Markelias Ng yes I like reaction of his younger brother ... I think that He loves his hyung
Kpop Lover 4Ever ikr even there friend wanted them to become close
the parents should have reached out to solve the problem they created instead of being stuck in the past and not doing anything about it.
i agree. they are the main reason things turned out that way in the first place
I dont think they knew and would have acknowledged their favoritism (unless other people tell them) towards the older bro. That's why it lasted for so long. Sometimes parents overlook their actions and hurt their children deeply
I think a 3rd party intervention was necessary in this case. Perhaps a relative could have pointed it out to them.
everyone is so creepy towards the older brother in this comment section....
ahahahaha XD because he looks so handsome
i don't think hes even that handsome... lol
But it still creepy to ask people his social media when he's basically non-celebrity who has privacy 😂 enough with all Koreaboos that commenting "youre so handsome look like blablabla" on every Korean man that's look fine 😂 they probably feel disgusted..
jordi h I agree. sigh~ so blinded by looks.
international viewers always complained about how Koreans always paid attention to visual but they did the same all the time lol tbh I like the little bro's more because he's actually more responsible compared to his hyung imo
i mean just because he's the second one does that mean he doesnt deserve to be treated well?
I know I should be serious, by the pictures if then when they were little are so adorable
I know how does it feels a bit. because my parents especially my mom used to love my niece more than me. everytime she get good grades or something good by her own, she always praise her, and in the end of the day she would scold me, like "why you can't be like her?" "get good grades then I'll praise you in front of your sisters and niece" and it hurts me so much.
Anna Fierce she gives her attention more to her niece??? omg :( stay strong.
Anna Fierce, same!!! XD
Anna Fierce my mom always give more attention to my brother,
i feel so broken, but when my mom pass away and i getting more mature
i dont really matter about that anymore, even we still feeling awkward about each other but we know that we need each other :)
dont be sad dear, be you self #CheerUp
aid nope. my niece. my niece and I are 4 months apart. she was born on april and me on august. so we're same-age niece and aunty. I am my mom's one and only daughter meanwhile my sister is her step-daughter. the only one who got her blood is me but she cares my niece more than me, her daughter.
Anna Fierce compare her parenting skills to other mothers and lets see how would that make her feel haha. nah im just kidding..kind of. anywayyy i hope your3 living a happy life despite all that 😊
Favoritism is usually the root cause. Normally in Asian culture the older brother is considered more important cause he's predicted to be the breadwinner of the family in the future. So Asian parents will favor him more it's ridiculous. I'm an older bro in an Asian family and my parents used to favor me over my little brother but when I was around 13 I started to force them to think of my little bro equally. When we went shopping my parents said to just buy me clothing and give my old ones to my little bro but I forced them to buy clothing for him too or I wouldn't buy any for myself. My family treats us all equally now and me and my siblings are extremely close. I'm glad these two brothers are talking again because there's noone more important than your own siblings.
aww, you're so sweet. hope you and your family are doing well xx
I don't know you but you are a star in my eyes
Not just the older ones get treated better than the other sibs. We are 7 in my family 6 girls and 1 boy but whenever we need something they always favored my brother and he's not even the eldest. You can really feel that there's a gap between the affection they give to him and to us, their daughters. And until today, I still feel that they treat him differently. Btw you're so sweet to your little bro.
HitThe Jackpot lol jokes on u cos I'm the oldest and my fam favours my younger sister more than me. im asian btw.
I'd love to see how things turned out for them. What I loved the most was that there actually wasn't any hatred between the two, just built up awkwardness. I hope they become closer, I'd be so happy. I'm close to my siblings, siblings are your first friends in this world.
Sunbeamnim yesssss i 100 percent agree
My younger sister and I first did not speak for 1 year, spoke again for like 4 months then did not speak again for 1 year so we spent 2 years of our lives not talking and the root of everything was also favoritism. :(
Luckily, we managed to fix our problems but I just wished parents loved all their children EQUALLY. All kids deserve love.
your problem same with right now
12:55 lol brothers who get humiliated together, stay together lmao
The hyung has this bad boy look but he doesnt drink... didnt expect that
True was thinking the same
why am I crying and laughing at the same time? 😂 it's cute they got together again and the awkwardness is too cute
The younger brother looked so happy when his brother called out his name and held his hand
Did you guys notice 11:29 when they hold their hand,the older bro's hand grasping his younger's hand first
skysandrainseamoonsnow 7D because actually from the start he wasn't the one that hate his brother, I think
yeah, he never did, he just said that it felt awkward around him.
And they both have beautiful hands 😅
This concern was so heartbreaking and heart melting at the same time! I'm glad they aren't that awkward anymore
ikrrrr :(
Yah
awe i'm so happy that this story have a good ending!! and btw am i the only one who thinks that the younger ones looks more attractive lol
min yoongi IM NOT THE ONLY ONE
yesss I think the younger one looks more cute lmao
idk why but the younger one looks like JunCurryAhn so much and he looks so cute❤❤
I think the younger one looks more attractive as well, but I can't get over how quick they skipped over the topic of being treated differently by the parents // like this must have been happening since their childhood
iqra ikr I noticed that too, like they should've had the mom talk to them aswell. She should love her kids equally not give the excuse of, "oh because he's my first child".
Why do they blame EVERYTHING on puberty????
terabithia because many things happen during puberty that can alter your perspective of things no matter how small or big, it plays a big part in growing up
During puberty you start to realize things such as favoritism and it impacts greatly on ones life.
puberty made them hot & cute anyway lol
Because puberty fucks up the way chemicals come out.
You old geezer you.
i pause this video many times i lost count the cuteness at the end is killing me 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Denieal Nieal me too
Denieal Nieal Me Too
Instead of telling them to stop being bad sons...tell the mother to stop being a bad mom...she is the cause...shame on her...
Its resolved, no need to blame on anyone else honestly
purplehobie shame on her
purplehobie true
@Ash sttarlightts It seems like she's suffered enough having her kids not speak in so many years, if the fault lies with the mom why didn't he just stop talking to her instead of taking it out on the brother? I think everyone is at lease a little at fault in some way honestly.
Am i the only one who thinks its not the mother's fault. What does her actions have to do with them both not talking to eachother. It's kinda like saying this teacher pays attention to this student more so I'll never talk to them. Also, let's say its the mother's fault. The bed and army incident happened when they lived alone so why did they not talk to each other when the entire family lived together. Just because the mother scolded the younger for swearing? Just because the eldest clothes got passed down? Because of trivial things like these one brother wouldn't wake up his brother if a fire takes place but would call his mum first. Even strangers will help eachother in situations like these. This has nothing to do with the parents in my opinion
I just don't understand why they kept blaming puberty...
An easy excuse for no valid reason.
Kpop Lover it could have been part of the problem bc of heightened sensitivity to things but it deeefinitely couldnt be the whole issue
Kpop Lover puberty is when you start noticing things and begin making more mature and frikin rebellious choices.. its basically turning point of becoming a physical adult. theres hormones, shit going on that makes you feel more dramatic. so it sets the kind undertone of the rest of your life from then on.
Puberty changes everything. Your hormones go crazy and you get more sensitive about things
The only thing puberty does is make you more feel more angry. You can't just blame puberty and do nothing about it. The stage of puberty is when you should pay the most attention to children because they can't control their feelings very well and they overthink your ignorance and think that you hate them
WE NEED AN UPDATE ON THIS STORY
Yes the older brother is attractive but I feel like the younger brother is more mature in his manners and his behaviour, he's the type that people will feel attracted to after getting to know him. I'm glad they resolved their problem!
yes i felt that too .. he is realky mature
Agree
Agree 2x
People keep talking about how handsome the older one is but they look very similar. The younger brother just isn't as fashion forward as the older one with his hair, clothes, etc. I think he has the potential to catch eyes too he just isn't upping his game
I do believe the mother favored the older simply because of his looks. To say she forgot about him asking for a bed shows that he isn't as important.
Mi W I think both are handsome in their own ways and can't compete each other look wise. I don't prefer ones looks over the other and they are both cute sunshines. 😅
I thought the younger had better fashion then the older he literally just had a plain shirt and jeans
Mi W the younger one reminds me of hoshi
They do look very similar 😂 It's just the older brother is skinnier thus have accentuated jawline . But yes , the eyes, nose and lips are very similar 😂 😂😅
I don't get good vibes from the mother even if it's her concern -.- like...what the heck. You're supposed to know your own children. You're supposed to learn as it goes.
This is why I like Hello Counselor. Normal counselors wouldn't do this sort of thing. People always used to say that u needed a proper counselor on the show which made me angry (most of the time because sometimes people actually did need proper counselors) because people didn't think that they had consulted a counselor beforehand and it hadn't worked out. People probably used the place as a last resort. Sorry - went of topic a bit :) Coming back to the point, even if they are still awkward now, they have both interacted and spoke which would at least loosen the awkwardness around them a little bit. Bringing out into the open seemed like a really good choice for them to get closer.
Swetha K Not really. Sure it worked well here but there were a bunch of times where the hosts make light of the guests' problems (which i get because this is just a show) and it does more harm than good to be honest.
Yeah, I know. That's why I said most of the time because hello counselor is also comedy orientated like you said. I'm talking about most cases like this one. There was one where a father always went to amusement parks and even forgot his daughter's name. That one didn't go so well as this one. In this one, the two brother's weren't necessarily bad to each other and didn't refuse to change so it was fine whereas the father I mentioned above refused to change and was basically forced into saying he would change. I guess it kind of depends on the sort of problem people face, people's personality and if they're willing to change.
There is family therapy that would bring the brothers together and have them voice their concerns, and parents as well, so therapy would have actually been beneficial. There is actually a lot of role-playing things in family therapy that look like having the brothers facing each other, saying their thoughts, hugging it out, having a meal together, etc.
whodoyougohometo First I apologise is I spelled your username wrong. I know there is family therapy and I feel like Hello Counselor was a way to sort out the problem before they actually went. In this, they helped the family discover what the problem was between the brothers. If they went to a family therapist after this, it would be more beneficial because they what the source (or partly) of the problem was and could work to make it better. I feel like this problem was more of them finding out the problem rather than helping them grow closer together which can be done at a family therapist like you said.
Agree 100% ❤️❤️. I actually was looking for a comment like this
its the parents fault! I had a similar situation with my older sis! honestly parents need to stop liking one child only
I agree with you only in my sad case my mum likes and favours the last one best until now and I am the eldest and gets the worst 😅 The middle one is lost somewhere and now i detest my last sis cos of my mum. I understand how the younger bro feels.
probably one of the best concern,it made me cry and smile,i hope they will be each other's company :)
open communication is such a magical thing.
glad this show does such good things.
hope they get closer.
Lol the ending resolve is great. I love the MCs ideas to recreate the photos. HAHAHAHA.
They are cute. Hope their relationship are now on the road to recovery and the mother won't discriminate again. Parents are not perfect but I hope they learn from this and had a happier relations within the family.
Goodness, this really ended well 😭 good heavens can i mention their visuals though oml
This seems like a mess of a bunch of different factors that just got dragged on for way too long. Starting from the parents' bias towards the elder, the surprising fact that the younger never brought it up judging by the reactions of the parents, the older brother's apathy and the younger brother's ego. The fact that they never confronted each other directly only seemed to fuel the fire, and over time, both brothers just developed a large ego of not conceding to the other. Notice that they used the term 'awkward' a lot throughout the discussion and the fact that they were envious of others who are close to their siblings. Good to see that this pushed them to be closer to each other though. They clearly needed it. The fault seems to lie largely in the parents' unfair treatment so it would have been essential that they had each other's backs at least. Alas, they were young and unassuming once upon a time so they lacked a bit of tact in that sense. It sounded dramatic at first glance, but the concern is not as serious as it seems.
The mother is the real problem here.
The way they all act when the brothers reconcile at the stage is like a succeed in matchmaking that suddenly turns into a bridal photshoot. Look at those elder who had fun and the awkward couple... lmao
The older brother looks genuinely happy that they can start to be close again. Maybe those smiles are also due to awkwardness but those smiles seem genuine to me.
I really do blame the mother for this. I understand what the youngest was going through, and always being put second makes you resent your sibling no matter what.
The brothers are cute...hopefully their relationship get better...hope they leave their mum out of their sibling relationship...if not it will be back to square one...
I love Moonbin's reaction when the older brother kissed his brothers cheek. He was so happy 😍😂
I'm really glad they aren't awkward anymore and even had a "love-shot" 😂💕👌
being an older sibling it will always your responsibility to create a harmonious relationship with your siblings..the end part made me cry and laugh at the same time.
With the older one you feel like you are experiencing things for the first time and it gets old with the younger one? It should have been the same during sex as well then. Don't have more kids if you are not going to care for them :@
Rukhsar Sanjaree soo true '-'
You don't have sex every time you want a child
Seriously! If he was her 5th child than ok you have experienced your child puberty stage more than 4 time but 2nd child ?? How can she forget to buy bed? I mean like every one needs bed at home it is the most basic thing to have at home 😣😡
Damn, it's so true
That Love shot at the ending is so adorableeee 🙂 Have a harmonious life you twooo! 🙂
I would like to see these brothers again on next annyeong news to see their progress 🙂
Funny thing is the end didn’t seem forced or awkward at all. 😍❤️❤️
Why don't you tell the parents to stop being bad parents instead of telling the sons stop being bad sons. Discriminating like that really hurts the relationship between siblings and mentally to te one being discriminated against. If you can love all your children and give them what they need equally why have kids.
One word can change everything. "SORRY."
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭so heartwarming out of his deep pain he was able to love his brother again. 10/10 better than any drama
that old man started to piss me off.and the mother need to love both of her son fairly.
TINA Albert lmao i think he was just playing around, hes an actor after all haha
I think I understand how the younger brother feel like. I still remember how my parents really excited when my first older sister continues her study to one of the best university in my country and my dad rather drive for 9 to 10 hours to send her away to the university. And then 10 years later, I enter the same university that my sister enroll, but they were not excited like they did before. I moved to other states for the first time in my life, without my parents accompany me, but I'm glad that my first older sister was there with me to send me away. I know my mom and dad love me eventho I can feel the different, but I do believe that their love are just same for me and my sisters. The gap of year between me and my sister are 10 years, and we are really close eventho she now 30years old and already have 2 sons. On the other hand, I'm still a student. Hahahaha. I think I can get close to all my sisters just because we all are girls, and girls communicate to each other easily (lol I guess so)
. its the parents fault
my older sister is 24 and im 19 and now we dont talk and we just fight .. the problem is i have always felt my parents love her more and people and friends say she is prettier than me and smart and sociable but im not.. and i was always wearing her old clothes .. when i try to wear her clothes she gets angry about it and even hit me ... but when i buy some new shirt or pants and she wears them first i act normal and dont get angry about it ...
i know my parents love me but u cant help but feel jealousy because i know they care about her more ..
actually one day my mom told my sister not to tell me the places she goes to eat at because she thinks i am jealous ...i didnt like it because my mom talked behind ny back.
one day it was my birthday 4 december and she didnt bring me any gift or just say wish me happy birthday even tho she have a job ... but we were hanging out with her friends and she payed for herself and told me to pay for my self even the little things like street food or a snack ... but tomorrow was her boyfriend birthday and she bought him gifts (clothes and a watch ) and prepare a surprise party in our home cake and stuff .... and when i told her why u didnt buy me anything im your little sister she told me she dont have money and later she was at work and she send me a message she would give me some money if clean our room because her boyfriend comming ( she told me she dont have money but she have money now bc her bf coming )
actually now we dont talk at all and i do really hate her and i dont respect her at all ...
your story sounds like mine haha but we're okay
the totally like...love each other. but both really afraid to start.
i really hope parents all over the world can see this and learn from this sad scenario. parents don't realise the little things they do can affect their children and the whole family for the years to come. not to say that the brothers aren't at fault, but the mother played a huge role in this too. so even as they try to get closer, i hope the mother will try harder to care for her sons equally. they seem like a great family overall, so many wishes for them in this new year xx
Idk is it just me that did not find the older bro attractive? He's just normal in my eyes 😞 I'm glad they're okay now
omg same lol
Same
I like how the MCs didn't take this situation lightly but also didn't make the atmosphere too serious, but light-hearted and made the brothers feel less uncomfortable and anxious around each other. I'm so happy for this family, started tearing up when I sad the dad cry!💓
They look so cute when they recreated their childhood pic. I love the counselors!!
Why did I get most touched when I saw Cha Eunwoo almost started crying?
I hate it when parents aren't impartial between their kids. That just makes them bad parents :(
Siblings are those who do things for each other even if they dont enjoy it, they do it to make each other happy.
this is one of the only (well definitely not so many) problems where I feel like this show really helped. like to the point where I really think everything is ok now, you know?
the shoulders on the younger one tho
I genuinely understand the younger brother on a personal level. Initially, as a sibling who unconditionally loved their older brother and looked up to him, he could not stand the mean actions coming towards him, so the hate going back was inevitable sooner or later. I got the perception that throughout the younger years of childhood, the older brother started to become annoyed of his younger brother and began to act indifferent towards him while the younger brother continued to enjoy his presence and wanted to hangout with him. However, as years passed by, not only did the older brother become indifferent, the parents are showing more love towards the older sibling. As a result, the hurt is evident in his eyes and as a person who has been through the exact same scenario, it is just extremely hard to live with a happy demeanor and want to love those who hate me especially when they are family and despite the fact that we both put continuous efforts to be happy, at this point, it is extremely difficult. :( Sorry for basically sharing my life story but this mental abuse has ruined us and my older brother and I are on the path to become like these boys here..
oh my goddd what a cute ending when they re-enacted their childhood photos, i couldn't stop smiling
Am I the only one tearing up when they hold each other's hand? In this story I pity their father the most he must be so hurt
Wait. I think this is the first time I've actually seen a problem be SOLVED on Hello counselor
I wish this show had updates like I wonder if their relationship has gotten better...I really hope so
Same here. I just about to write then i saw ur comment
@@debbiego9646 younger brother again appeared in the show and said that they now regret about wasted time and they became close now
@@akbotakamaliyeva2444 really?? What show was that??
@@debbiego9646 on this show there was episode about another pair of siblings who didn't talk with each other
The short clip at the ending is so heart warming and cute 😍😭😭😭
Watching this after 3yrs and i cried so much
This though. I went 4 years without talking to my older brother, and the years previous to that was rocky as we were always fighting. Both of us now being in our 20's and having spent a couple years in different countries we've grown a little and have put our teenage feud behind us. We aren't close, but we talk and that's something. Over time I believe things can only get better.
Omg this is my favorite episode now :')👏👏 11:02 and to the end is THE BEST OMG MY HEART😭👍 I'm so happy that they actually talked to each other and gave kisses BROTHER LOVE AHHH!! I'm very happy for them. I'm positive that they'll be much closer now💕 The older one was willing to do what the MC said for his younger brother👏
this episode was one of the best episodes i ever watched. 😭
HHHHH the old man kept making me laugh even tho i was crying at this hhhHHHH at the ''did he forget how to speak korean'' when i was alrdy in tears
I don't think the parents favor the older one, I have been in similar situations with my younger sister we are a year apart I always thought my parents favored her growing up but I think growing up kids are very delicate and something simple can be seen as loving one sibling more that the other.
Alejandra Barrios i agree with you too bcoz i've been in the similar situation among my siblings..but can't blame the kids too..their perspectives are different than us adults..once they matured they will understand though..
Yeah I remember that every time my younger brother fought with me, I was the one that got beat by my parents. I hated him and my parents growing up but when we were a lot older he casually mentioned that his teachers compared him to me a lot and wondered why he was stupid. I finally realised that he actually went through a lot because of me and I didn't even know about it and I felt so bad... I really hope siblings never end up like those two brothers. It will just lead to regret.
Alejandra Barrios going off what i heard in this episode to me it felt like they were unconsciously favouring the older one.. like with the bed :( his mom got his older brother one but somehow forgot to get the younger one a bed too? and the thing with the meat and the sandwich before going to serve.. they werent kids at that time but their parents probably didnt mean to give one child more treatment over the other but it just seemed to turn out this way which made this issue worse :( im glad theyve both made up now though
there was favoritism, which lead to the older one being irresponsible. All of them knew it but only younger one understood the unfairness of it since he was in the receiving end.
They both have big ego... the little brother has his pent up frustrations over the parents' discrimination but he still did the housework, buy necessities for them and wash his big bro's clothes, he's cute lol he said it himself that he wish that his hyung will reach out first and talk to him but unfortunately the hyung seems like he didn't really care. IMO the little brother didn't show respect to his hyung because his hyung didn't really act like one. I agree with what eunwoo said, it would be better if the hyung also shows some interest for his little brother and takes care of him. Anyway, they're both adults now so they should act like ones and deal with each other instead of running away from each other. Their poses are so cute btw haha
The little clip at the end made me smile! Yay I’m glad they’re getting together again
They're father is so cute! 😂😂❤️
its more than just discrimination from the parents. but i do agree how important it is for parents to treat their children fairly. both the parents and children are at fault here. this is what ive been through my whole life but things are getting better after both me and my parents blew up and said what made each of us upset. i realized im at wrong too so do my parents. now we are still trying to be kind to each other ^^
I can relate to them especially the younger one since I'm in the exact same situation so I'm really glad that they have a happy ending.
I have an older sis and we had like only 4-5 conversations in 2010, it was also the first time we speak. Then that's it, the first/only/last time we talked. Until now it's been 7 yrs already. My mum has to act as a middleman 😂 After watching this, I wonder if things will work out between me & sis like them... 😐
Zoe Leah just try and even if it doesn't work at first, just continue to try! Just be the first to start the contact... when we are talking about the ones we love, nothing else should matters. I think it's better to feel a bit embarassed or ankward now, rather than regret later on. Fighting!
i hate to admit that i cry when those brother lower their ego on stage and being nice to each other
I cried a lot while I watched it. It was just reminds me about me and my father. I used to loved him so much back then, but things got messed up and I stopped talking to him when I was 16. We even threw punches at each other.
Now, it's almost a year when we starting to talk again, but we can't get as close as we used then. He still easily lost his temper at some moments and sometimes I can't hold myself to not fight him, but as the time flies, I tried to get a hold of myself. It's not easy, because my father has bad temper and always cursing towards me and mom whenever he got angry. It hurts me and my mom so much, she even told me that she got shocked in their 14 days of marriage that my father cursed at her badly for things that actually not thay bad. As the only child, I've been going through on this for my whole life. I've been frustated, depressed for many times, especially when I was in 8th grade because I got bullied in school, too. I also got jealous when I saw fathers were so close with their daughters, but the wounds from my childhood restrained me to forgave him.
There were sometimes when I wished they never get married at first. I told my mom that she should've married another man or get divorced, but she remained.
Yes, people think that it's impossible to stopped talk with your family members, but actually it's not. We want to talk again, but the wounds won't heal.
really this concern isn't that deep if u exclude the part that they haven't talked for 8 years to one another and like the younger one said he was waiting for the older one to talk to him first, all they needed was courage because they don't hate each other in the first place they just didn't know how to start a conversation. if the parent didn't give up on the idea of them mending things on their own then it would have worked out because she said you do this on your own and just hanged up when she should have sat both of them down like they did on the show which was done so easily. The people around them gave up on them so easily that they thought that the relationship between them would never work out as well. if others give up on us so easily, what's more if we do it to ourselves became their mindset. I cried because i have an older brother and a younger sister and I love talking to them and our anger literally ends within a day and no matter how annoying we get I still worry for them and I love our little laughter and inner jokes. I wish those two stay close to one another and lol give props to both men they are both hotties😉
the younger brother looks like yoo seungwoo from starship ent.
MAT ____ Yes!! That's what I thought.
yes omg, i was wondering who he reminded me of
This warming my heart when they held hands lmao, i used to hate my sister because she was rude and harsh but overtime when she went out to other city i felt so alone and she changed her attitude towards me, i guess she felt the loneliness that i felt too, no besties can replace my sister in my life
even though i don't have any siblings, i still cried when they went up on stage and greeted each other for the first time. im still crying actually 😂 i really hope they don't drift apart anymore.
Thats so cutee in the end :""
Thought the older bro couldn't drink 😂 But I hope they get along. I was an only child for a long time, now my dad has a son and he's trying to have us get along, though I'm socially awkward and I don't get along with my family. I could understand those two being awkward, but they look like they're gonna be close.
i can honestly say that parents are one of the reasons why siblings fall out
wish they talked as a family and settled their differences, especially the feelings of the younger son
This is my favorite so far, it is really heartwarming that they resolve their problem all at once
와~~ 형이 완전 잘생겼다
awww i cried when enwoo said he couldnt go see his younger brother :( i dont even know who he is lol (besides that hes from astro) but he seemed like he was holding in his sadness..
Deborah Correction: Eunwoo
this is now my favorite video, you know it's nice to see them finally get along well, it made me cry how their dad was being so emotional, i wonder how much it broke his heart, i hope they will continue to love happily now and forget about all of the grudges they have.
THE BOTH ARE INCREDIBLY CUTE :3
everyone is trying to get the older brother sns account hahaha pls tell me also!
omg XD me too XD
omayghadd so true😂
Me too😂
I want both! 😂
I want both!!! Can someone help us?😂😭
How to find the older SNS account? He's really handsome...
My country needs this kind of show, and really... I will make a list of my relatives...🤣🤣🤣🤣
this is one of my faves. i loved how the brothers reconciled at the end.
anyone know the name of the older brother instagram account? it's for my science research.
😂😂😂
am i the only one that doesn't think the older brother is attractive? 😂
Love the episode though, it was so heart warming-almost cried!!!
I think he's cute, but I honestly am more interested in the stories than looks. Stop worrying about looks people lol
Waaah I'm really touched *THE TWO RECONCILING MADE MY HEART REALLY HAPPY*
I'm tearing up watching this. Family love is everything 😭