Pearl reminds me of how i was at 13. disconnected from mom, more comfortable with guys, instead of trying to connect with the women in my life i just stuck to what i knew... shes just so wounded bro and needs actual therapy
@@stevesmith1923 when you grow up in a culture that is patriarchal (muslim country in my case) you just take it for granted that men are much more important to have relationships with than women are. but then i actually started seeing men treat me as an object and the female friends I had were the ones who supported me in crisis
As a constant critic of this girl, this interview exposed a lot. She seems to lack the ability to be self aware. She’s created a persona that is soooo consumed with other peoples lives and business that it doesn’t seem she has anything of value to actually say. As soon as you wanted to talk about ANYTHING that wasn’t her talking points she got this distant and bored look on her face. It’s quite sad.
He just does such a fantastic job at mirroring to make her feel more comfortable and then drops absolute BOMBSHELLS of questions to get right into her psyche and she doesn’t even notice.
@@Mayajolie0908 I just hate people when they try to analyze them. Shit, that's going on with their psyche? The guy analyzed pearl from straight up, he analyzed her she's, the type of girl that don't tolerate bullshit that she's the type of woman that demands the truth, I mean you know, exactly what I said stop mirroring. do personality onto someone a pearls nature
Looking at her as she was my daugter. I hope her private live is doing well. As a father, I should worry. All her sentences with 'like'. High voice. Acting like a 19 years old. Downgrading herself. Not taking herself seriously. No insight in own psychy. Laughing all her issues away. Not behaving as a adult, serene woman who brings peace in mind of a man. As a father I would feel guilty. About her upbringing. 27 years old. If she's 30 in not in a relationship, then she probably won't have kids. She's also claimed that it takes about three years for a woman to convince a man to marry her. earl is 27 years old. So by our math and her rules, she's got eight years before she fails her own outlandish standards on marriage.
Three years? Men know pretty quickly if they want to marry you or not. It doesn't take years... Me and my husband knew the night we met. Not a Pearl fan, btw. But yeah, if she wants marriage and kids, it's wise to prioritize that now instead of the boss babe venture she's on.
@@SJ-ru4ejTrue. The kind that’d say it takes them 3 years don’t understand marriage, know what they want and how to get it, or are just plainly trying to string women along.
@@karin38539 Agreed. I've seen so many instances of couples dating/living together for 5 years. They break up, and one of them is engaged within a year to someone else. Pearl is simply very immature and just an influencer whose found ways to go viral. She says all the time that women not married by 25 have issues/are used up and not marriage material. She projects a lot.
She comes off as incredibly vapid. She can only regurgitate on 1 topic, albeit not that in depth. She often looks vacant and talks like an 18 year old and looks 45.
he agreed with almost everything she said. neither of them are crazy. she says things that are uncomfortable for people like you to hear, but most of them are true. sorry!
Not quite. I would speculate it’s the dynamic between her parents and more so to her dad the way she seeks approval. The blame just goes to her mother or maybe other women and is misdirected, because of the actual feelings about her dad she doesn’t even know are there.
I wonder that too. Both her mother and father played big roles in her dad's business. She always talked about her dad working but never her mom. She also said she used to hate how her mom would fat shame her. She says now she appreciates it but we don't know her heart. She always puts her dad on a pedestal which is cool but she leaves her mom out.
I wouldn’t be surprised if her mother resents her a little. Pearl constantly downplays her mother’s role in her parent’s company. She even claimed on H3H3 that her mother was CEO in name only, to get a tax break or something. That was very disrespectful. Can you imagine your daughter doing that to you?
I’m so incredibly bored listening to Pearl’s responses. She doesn’t come off as incredibly intelligent and she apparently cannot conjure up a coherent argument. I want to be open to her opinions but unless this was edited badly, she gives almost nothing when her ideas are pushed back on.
Very common for over thinkers and people who constantly try to portray a certain image. Also for people who have experienced a lot of grief, and don’t want to feel it.
@@CarmelinaM Yes. And I think her being very loud when it doesn’t really fit demonstrates a lot of unresolved anger. (Some people withdraw/very passive but wouldn’t want to see them reach their limit and become very quiet, while others become louder) Both live in a world of should and shouldn’t more than most.
Pearl is disappointed with women, i think she feels or sees it as women are more evil than society potrays them as and everyone keeps blaming every other thing for the evil women do.
Pearl thinks mothers raise the worst kids and abuse the kids. But yet believes in the traditional roles, where the mom is to stay home and raise and be with the kids all day and night.. 🤔
It feels like she is not much aware of herself. No idea who she is. Nor that she cares much about finding it out. However, without selfawareness there is no growth. She could be hiding her inner Self or is just really unaware. But there are not many signes of Self growth. So even if she was fighting for the best case in the world how far can she get? This is probably why she is not liked by many. People get when someone is not understanding them. And we, humans, don't like that. But it is hard to understand others when you don't know yourself. She is by now present to much to do it just for fun of it. This comes with certain responsibility. One more thing.. Even when a woman has strong opinions and strong stand of what her partner should be like and advocates for what Pearl advocates for, she is also using it as a sort of manipulation over man, choice of her man and his future behaviour within their relationship.
@@Sandy-of6gq exactly. . We can not say anything bad about her in that way, but in sense of awareness she is like a child who has an idea. That idea could even be good. I am also not commenting on the content. But now that child needs few decades of life, learning and development to grow into that idea. And that for me is missing and is also, in my opinion, what makes people look away from here. I doubt she is able to find a strong and healthy developed man. At this point maybe just a fun and nice guy to date. She is preaching something that she is yet not ready for. People see through that. But her audience is already too big and from start to here she did not complete her journey. This is where she is loosing her credits. Loud talking, no walking
Ok... but 97% of the people on this planet couldn't walk a 1/4 mile in her shoes. The poop she has to deal with on a daily basis, the hate, the ridicule, the attacks, the scrutiny, the random youtube commentor judging her.... everything she says and does being used against her. People want to take her down. They want to prove her wrong. She is dealing with far more than damn near any of us could bear. That, in and of itself, requires more personal growth than most of us will ever develop.
If she doesn't understand why people care so much about something that are "just words" why doesn't she like to watch when someone talks about her with different opinion? Why does that upset her? It's just words. She can then just be an adult about it and not get upset
She speaks in general & her detractors attack her personally. I guess you can't tell the difference. If I speak in general & you attack me; expect me to flame you the same or worse to the treatment you've given me. It's not difficult to understand.
@@vincentallen1318 I understand what you are saying. But what she says generaly also attacks people personaly. If you generaly say women should not vote, you are also adressing each women personaly. And if she had better understanding of people she would know that. But to have that she would need to have better understanding of her inner world as well.
@@felixiana saying women shouldn't vote is not a personal attack on 1 person. It's a general statement. There are women on the internet that say way worse about all men. I don't take it personally.
@@vincentallen1318 I agree with what you are saying. When people are aware of themselves it is not Important to them what anyone says. But people who gained space and power to pass their words to many should be more aware of the power of those words. Especialy if there are good things they have to say and are not doing it just for fun.
@@felixiana I hear you, but Pearl is 1 woman with that view that is “internet” famous. The View, Oprah, & numerous legacy liberal & conservative outlets have been throwing men under the bus for decades.
Just a few minutes in and she’s already showing her inconsistencies/grifting statements for attention and her disrespect towards her mother. She’s said on Twitter that deadbeat Dads don’t exist, yet mentions them in the beginning. Why bring them up if they don’t exist…? Who refers to their mother as a “chick”? Her parents’ hard work allowed her to do all of the things that many others don’t get to do. She’s talked about her Dad funding her whole business. Most people have to start with nothing. She’s talked down on women who have nannies, childcare help and who have a career instead of being home full time, time and time again so clearly there’s something she’s harboring against her mother.
Gosh, you made that theory up in your head and are desperate to find "evidence" for it. Quote the second she refers to her mom as "chick". Btw, never be a mom. Clearly your "freedom" and "fun time" would be more important than your kids needs for you.
She clearly would have rather had her mother more present during her childhood, and believes mothers should be with their children. There’s nothing inconsistent here.
she said, _“It‘s not like the dead beat dads that they paint- like fathers that are not in their kids lives…“_ They are not the dead beat dads as they are painted. If English isn’t your first language or you struggle with idioms - she’s saying they’re not the dead beat dads others accuse them of being. That’s consistent.
@@-John-Doe- Do not use reasoning mate. Feminists create their made up theories in their minds and expect everyone to go around "supporting" them. It got to a point their delusions are backed not only by all of the simp society, but also by whole governments. There is no turning back. Let them enjoy their cats.
Pearl is obsessed with other women being the perfect woman and she constantly and consistently ignores the fact she doesn't fall into that category at ALL. She is the opposite of what she talks about it and expects a pedal stool for her words.
You're completely wrong about that and your ignorance shows you don't actually listen to what she says. She admits her flaws so I don't know why you said that.
@@manda_musings8459 Genuine question... genuine answer. I'm pretty sure black dudes are in the minority of those that consume her content, we just may be the more visible for some reason. I watch Whatever podcast but I can't stand Brian Atlas so I can't say that black dudes "like" her. There are times that she seems unfairly targeted although she walks herself right into the firing line a lot. Some black dudes may say "she's speaking the truth and saying the things that we always say and feel". It may also be an "enemy of my enemy is my friend" type of situation with black dudes believing we're on the same side. Black dudes may also have an affinity for her because she was fond of Kevin Samuels and many of us would've discovered her from him and followed her journey from that moment. Some of us may respect her grind and the work she's done and how she was able to build her platform the way she has. She also listens to men. She took counsel and even paid for coaching sessions from many of the black male content creators that we know which shows that she's coachable and willing to learn. She also supports those men and their platforms. But, possibly the most understated factor is she's a "Plain Jane" which makes her much more relatable than other women in the space. She's not all "caked up" with makeup and doesn't sexualize herself to get attention and men respect that. Men are very suspicious and skeptical of female content creators that talk about mens issues because they think they're grifters and chameleons. Pearl seems to have past the smell test. There have been many women who've been in the space that have burned men. Many of them went on full campaigns against Pearl so it's possible that black men defended her because of that. Now to be fair... the old Pearl is the most likeable. She saying and doing things now that's not the smartest and going in directions that are obvious landmines. I don't think it's smart for her to do that. It was really her panel show that was her claim to fame but she refuses to bring that back because of the stress I guess.
wild how opinionated she is on any subject that isn't herself. For someone to be curious and so driven to seek the truth. It's shocking how little she knows about her self. My hope is that she gets curious about "little pearl" and everything that makes her who she is and learns how to connect and stay connected with herself. She bright so I know she'll be able to articulate herself very well when she learn how to connect.
You can use the same argument for any female interviewed then. Your point proves nothing. Her podcast is great, you should watch it. I get it though, living your whole life acting like men are bad and women are pure is hard to let go. All men want is for women to be held accountable just like men are. We don't want any privileges (unlike women who act like their privileges are "rights").
I'm being genuine. Why do you think that? like why is the assumption that they were inaccurate or dishonest vs they were truthful? I know through the medium of these conversations it always sounds confrontational. I want you to understand that I am really trying not to be.
She also only interviews men who’ve been part of the extreme situations. Doesn’t interview happily married men, doesn’t interview couples who have equal custody and have remained on good terms even after a divorce, doesn’t interview women who’ve been abandoned or cheated on and left in a bad situation.
I think she has daddy issues because shes desperate for male attention. Like daughters of single mothers. People with mommu issues are desperate for women, just the opposite
@@-John-Doe- keep in mind men are advocating to go back to a system where women can't say anything if theyre being abused, and can be married off as children. So before you assume it's a female problem, why don't you Instead ask yourself why you lack empathy and humanity?
@@JarodJoseph There are examples of female content creators who criticize female behaviors and choices. Pearl is another level. She has a deep hatred for women and this probably has to be linked to her mother. If you follow her and can't see it, you are most likely also a misogynist.
40 minutes in and it doesn’t feel like an interview about her. She deflects very well. It seems like she is here to defeat her support for red pill thinking.
Anytime David tried to ask about Pearl, how she felt, or what she thought, it reverberated to how other people felt or what they thought or did. Pearl's entire personality is about upsetting people and setting asinine standards for others, surrounded by male issues that don't even represent her or her upbringing.
“Everyone just wanted to be good at stuff.” Her parents made the kids compete with each other. She’s angry at her mom for letting it happen. All this misogyny is just mommy issues. So sad!
This is the most vulnerable I've seen Pearl. She hides behind humor & deflects a lot. She lacks wisdom & life experience on many of these topics so she's not as clever as she thinks
I kind of feel like she surrounds herself with people who agree with her in her personal life and that gives her the feeling she knows everything. Then she puts on the "show" but doesn't understand why others don't agree with her because she is "right" I very much get the vibe that I get when my 19 year old explains things... she seems sweet but misguided
Pearl is right though everything she says is right women get away with a lot of bullshit and they are a problem with society they lie and say that the man is abusive to kids when it’s the women that’s abusive the judicial court system is a fraud
Her view of the world and relationships is so simplified, it's like she is mentally 12 years old boy who hates his mom and therefore all famales, it's obvious she has a huge problem with THE MOTHER, but she's so unaware of anything, she doesn't want to see.
Watch when the topic of her and her mother comes up how he adjusts. She mentions that she lives far from her parents and that's why they aren't close and his way of getting her to talk is a pause, then pretends he is thinking about it and sort of pulls up his shoulders to almost show a vulnerability or awkwardness (all body language) and then tells her ' I just want to understand you' Now isn't that music to anyone's ears. He acts more sincere in that moment, uses flattery, disrupts eye contact so as to not make her feel too bombarded with the question so that she will be okay with it . WOW, learnt a lot here.
Pearl is right though everything she says is right women get away with a lot of bullshit and they are a problem with society they lie and say that the man is abusive to kids when it’s the women that’s abusive the judicial court system is a fraud
Pearl is right though everything she says is right women get away with a lot of bullshit and they are a problem with society they lie and say that the man is abusive to kids when it’s the women that’s abusive the judicial court system is a fraud
This is so refreshing. To see two grown adults have a genuine and free flowing conversation. No judgment, no ridicule, no "trying to win", no drama. People today can't even listen to an opposing concept without getting triggered and LOOSING THEIR MINDS. Productive communication. Today... almost everyone walks into a situation defensively and on a hair-pin trigger just waiting..... waiting, itching, to go off. Tension... everything is tense. It is exhausting to deal with.
I've scrolled through a few comments and haven't seen anybody triggered or "losing their minds." It's just that this is a therapy session, and Pearl tossed the ball out of her park numerous times by talking about other situations that didn't pertain to her.
I dont think she has ever been in a relationship. I am pretty sure she has never dealt with men for real, only in her statistics, she doesnt seem to grasp all the bullshit women get from men in relationships.
She has been in one “long term” relationship, and it wasn’t that long. She got catfished by a homeless guy who is now known on UA-cam as Angry Reactions. He was everything she tells men they should avoid. He had no job and two kids out of wedlock. She actually moved him into her parents mansion and helped him build up his UA-cam presence. Then he dumped her and got a hotter girlfriend he shows off on his channel.
I’m not sure if anybody peeped that this guy is just agreeing with her at the beginning to gain her trust. I feel like majority of the things “he’s agreeing with” is just to make her feel safe to talk so he can analyze her true self…..
I think this is some wishful thinking, that he doesn’t really agree with her crazy views. But he outright says he agrees that women shouldn’t vote. Ohhh and now I just got to “why is coloniser bad? I want to reclaim that.” Immediately followed by how Nick Fuentes is an “interesting guy.” YIKES. He so sycophantic as well.
It's like she's suppressed her emotions for so long to avoid how hurt she feels from the way other people have made her feel. Especially her dad, seems he put a lot of rules and standards on her to live up to and even her family it seems like everyone would make her feel embarrassed or something for being weak or some underachiever so it's like am I perfect enough and when i hurt others I don't understand why they're hurt because when I'm hurt i just suppress it and move on, why can't you all do the same? I feel like my mom is kinda like her (she even mentions her mom would call her a fatty to motivate her to lose weight, it's like her whole life she was just insulted and conditioned this way and it's normal for her to turn off her ability to empathize with others instead of being triggered by their words or existence)
This is often a tactic psychotherapists take in order to gain the trust of the patient! To agree and affirm, but then de-root and analyze. For an analogy: if plant is deformed, you don't deny its malformation, you would turn to its root structure or where it's located/constrained by. These conversations would all be arguments if he outright rejected their beliefs.
I don’t understand why men don’t date her. I mean, if she is saying the stuff you want to hear, why go after women who don’t share those values. There will also be traditional women, why go for the ones who aren’t. No need to be angry or upset, just say we don’t want the same things. I wish you all the best.
We have society, the government and the media regurgitating propaganda to give women ever more privileges and bail them out in every bad decision they make but the second someone like Pearl has the courage to speak out against that then it is all "one sided" 🤡 You can see the women that go into her podcast how delusional they are (it's like it is the first time in their lives their ideologies ever got a push back and they are all shocked about it as they are so used of people just bowing down to their demands and supporting everything they say).
She's only listening to one side because that's the side that's consistently ignored. We don't need the woman's side because that's the only side we get consistently.
@@axpsanchez Enlight us how she has "no life experience"? Chick has interviewed thousands of people, both in her podcast and on the streets, gets shit constantly from feminists and simps, got her channel demonetized (yet didn't sell her soul for $$). Pearl has far more life experience than any of you "believe all women" simps will ever do.
This was really eye opening. Pearl has some hatred towards her mother. She doesn’t feel like she’s good enough so she takes it out on other women. It’s quite sad. I can’t imagine a mother fat shaming her daughter and it turning out ok. I also think she has ADHD which explains a lot of her behavior. Lots of people with ADHD have low self esteem, and she definitely does. She’s described herself as all over the place, forgetful, spends money on buying things she forgot, lacks self awareness…
he's pandering to her a bit. I think the idea is that, at any age, it doesn't mean anyone is less attractive, and to what audience? to say it objective that we are less attractive as we get older just doesn't make any sense. Him "admitting" this is true to Pearl is disingenuous because he doesn't even believe that. He's pandering to her opinion to "meet her where she is", which I understand in a sense. But it's factually untrue.
Yes I agree. To call her this sweet girl who just wants to love and share her curiosity about the world is strange. Unless the point was just to get her to put her guard down because she wants people to think that. If so, he could have done that without giving her the princess bullshit
Why are you pandering to ask people like these? Do you really want to be like that bad? Man, something is really wrong with you. I like Pearl, because of her rebellious, I like pearl, because she's unique after all this garbage today, give to you on the Internet. And she's tell you the truth if you like it a lot.
it was definitely to get her guard down. the indications of his tone of voice and forced laughter say it all to me personally. it worked! he coupled that pandering with challenging statements, so many things she responded with backfired and often contradicted her own words! i think this was a great watch
@@pikachu2511 to be honest though pearl understand what these fake therapist? Trying to do that's why she laughed it off like was funny, and that's why she really didn't walk away like normal girls usually do pearl sit there and listen to him and actually made jokes with them. Pearl panda him. To the point that it wasn't even funny, then people talking about Pearl leaving Pearl is creating a new fucking show.clowns have no idea what you're talking about
You have to remember, pearl has never been in a real relationship, shes never been tempted by someone or a man who was tempted to cheat, shes never been with a guy who cheated on her so of course she has very innacurate views when it comes to relationships and marriages. She has no grounds to preach views on marriage let alone infidelity
You have no idea what your talking about. You don't know anything about Pearl at all, if you can say what you just said. Just like most the comment section here. You just hate Pearl with no real reason, your just following the crowd. smh
@VRIceblast she's literally never had a real relationship, she said she dated one guy for a short time and it ended quickly and wouldn't disclose why. I don't like pearl because she takes radical stances and refuses to apply and discuss those radical ideologies to her own life, she's fine with tearing apart other women and won't discuss the exact same topic in relation to her own personal life. She's a hypocrite.
@@VRIceblastshe has all of these opinions and judgements but none are from experience, they're from research or watching someone else. Like him trying to talk to her about her being married someday and he's trying to tell her that women calling men on their bs is inevitable and she says that's wrong. Whether it's right or wrong it's inevitable and she's never dated to understand how two people who love eachother interact, yet she judges so many marriages and based her whole platform on how marriage should be, meanwhile she's barely dated enough to know how real relationship interactions work or effect the relationship
You cannot answer relationship issues for someone else. You can only answer for yourself. This woman is telling you who she is with every comment. She is talking about herself.
I didn’t know therapy was about flattering a person in every way possible and not challenging their thought processes at all lol. Good to know from a therapist’s perspective that’s what you should do 🤦♀️
He is not a licensed therapist. He is a energetics practitioner. I do not know what exactly that entails, but I wouldn’t compare this video to the true therapeutic process especially bc there is a camera and expectation there will be viewers
I really appreciate your open heart and the way you approach these interactions. I can tell you've done a lot of work to heal things most people haven't achieved yet, or ever will. It's inspiring and I admire you. As a nearly lifelong fan (GG dropped when I was EXACTLY Rory's age) - - - - it's unbelievably refreshing to see this very human side of you. Love this content, David. Keep going.
Pearl where is your husband and 5 kids ? why aren’t you home scrubbing floors , nursing a baby , canning food , cooking for your husband and changing diapers ?
Her husband isn’t reality. She hates lies and wants to expose, ok well speaking to ur logic here’s the truth. Whatever age she is, she looks twenty years older than that. Men like young women, since she has nothing to get her in the door in order to start a conversation, men don’t know she is only in her late twenties or early thirties. So because she didn’t settle down early, according to her the older a person is they more 304. She’s a whore, she dates men and doesn’t marry them, she is just acting like a normal woman, because most don’t want to marry in their twenties. So being a whore and not young and beautiful makes her part of the group she criticizes and pokes fun at. Pearl needs to realize there’s karma she will need to settle for all the mean, judgmental and negative things she says. She has no leg to stand on: with zero life experience she has no information value over the next person. She doesn’t understand herself or how to feel emotions. I think she has a good show but I think with time if she got married and did the podcast she would triple her following. She’s a nice girl tho she will grow and learn from her time as a creator
Yep. Me and my husband love each other more than anything but it can be really hard some days. We argue. We have disagreements. We’ve said things we don’t mean when we’re upset. We get on each other’s nerves. There’s some days that are really hard. But all the good things far surpass that. She’ll see if she ever gives up this career to have a husband and family. By her own statements, she’s running out of time and is old to be married now and will only attract some leftover loser: She thinks it’s all a walk in the park.
It’s very ironic that Pearl preaches the kind of beauty that men want, but doesn’t partake in those feminine things herself. I wonder if there’s some jealousy there that influences her attitude towards women
1:17:29 Hannah, the “something you said,” was repeatedly calling women “whales,” and other nasty things like that. We know who you’re talking about and she spoke publicly. It wasn’t because you were conservative or famous, it was because you were being nasty, and you know it. “Don’t watch it,” doesn’t fly. We don’t bury our heads in the sand when it comes to our friends being nasty people. From what she’s said, she gave you chances to explain yourself or backtrack, and you stood by it. No, we can’t always separate the opinions from the person. I would not be friends with a racist, for example. You weren’t betrayed, no one owes you their friendship. Someone decides you’re not a person they want to be friends with, and that’s it. Friendship isn’t transactional.
Rumor is too that she was jealous of that friend getting married. That friend has already been married for years and Pearl is still single. She even said Pearl desperately wanted a relationship when she knew her and has never been in anything long term.
Anyone who thinks this person is a serious therapist is getting scammed. 🤣 all he did was agree with her. the whole point of paying a therapist is for them to help you grow and reflect-something your friend or cousin can’t exactly do, which is why you see a professional. They’re not there to just pat you on the back; they’re supposed to spark self-awareness. Also, I couldn’t care less about Pearl clinging to her idiotic, extreme views. It doesn’t affect me-I’m still voting, being a woman, and living my life while she stays confused about her own ignorance. But if we’re talking from a professional therapist’s perspective, that’s where it matters. It’s painfully clear Tate and Pearl are miserable because they lack any self-awareness. All that fake confidence can’t hide their inability to introspect, and it’s eating them alive by resisting the fact that being terrible people comes with negative consequences. If I actually cared about them, I’d want their therapists to help them see that-before it leads to their own demises. So no, this is not a real therapist, and anyone who has seen a good one knows that. This is pure entertainment.
It’s almost like she wants to infantalize men. Like they need permission to lead and it’s women’s fault if they can’t. Where as David is coming from a place where men should be in touch with their own authority
@@Leo6933 problems that haven't been spoken about by mainstream or popular culture. So it's not that easy, especially when you get de-platformed/ demonetized for speaking on them. By the way, what media outlets actually provide practical solutions in the first place? Besides changing the laws, which is the 1st solution that isn't practical because of how politicians pander to the female demo.
@@vincentallen1318 I’m waiting for her say something besides the same 3 talking points she does in every interview for the last 2 years. Sorry, she comes off VERY disingenuous. She LITERALLY grew up privileged with the perfect parents. What’s her motivation for being red-pill??? Doesn’t make any sense and She rode the red-pill wave when it got popular and says random wild stuff every couple months to stay relevant like saying women shouldn’t be allowed to vote 🙄.
@@Leo6933 she said that the red pill was just a point of interest that took a deep dive into. Nothing wrong with that. She also said that someone close to her (a man) was victim to some the modern circumstances concerning male/ female dynamics as a big reason why she speaks on these issues. I don't see how being born into privilege discredits anyone from talking on these issues. Her believing that women shouldn't vote isn't a big deal. Considering how it’s a trend that women openly say that men should die out & have no use online daily.
My guess on Pearl's underlying family dynamic: it seems quite clear that there was a lot of underlying tension in her parents' relationship and also that there was a strong dynamic of suppression regarding any emotions within the family surrounding that tension and likely similar tensions between siblings. At some point it seems she must have sided with her father for some reason. However, I get the sense that underneath that is perhaps an even deeper well of anger towards her father that would likely be the very last thing she realised if she worked through her emotions properly. This quite severe repression of deep interlocking emotional dynamics I believe is the reason she comes across as flat, emotionless and non-introspective as she does. If so much stuff of that kind has been built up without any recognition is can really turn someone into a kind of empty husk in how they present to the world.
That’s why she doesn’t open up to the personal questions…she doesn’t want to be exposed. The more you dig the more you find out she’s not being genuine.
No one cares the motivations. The important thing is she is doing a great good to humanity attacking feminism and the greatest ills of society that it caused, based in facts, logic and stats. So standing for what is Truth, no one really care why she does it.
Pearl really misses the mark. She’s idolizing men like she idolizes her dad. She didn’t like how her mommy treated her daddy who worked so hard and was treated so… She wants the praise from men when she puts down the women. Question is why? And what has that gotten her? It’s not authority that’s missing or necessary. It’s leadership. Women aren’t allowing men to lead and many men are not showing up as leaders. If men want different kind of women they need to stop messing around with the kind of women they don’t like or wouldn’t take home.
Don't every woman do that, there's REM, not there, that's daddy, girl's there has been like that for ages.I honestly think you are pandering, because you don't know how to be like Pearl, everybody has a conscience, and some people get tired of using theirs for the greater good of the relevant type of bullshit, the female mind, because y'all are fucked up
Pearl is right though everything she says is right women get away with a lot of bullshit and they are a problem with society they lie and say that the man is abusive to kids when it’s the women that’s abusive the judicial court system is a fraud
@@bloodmoonxx3174 Pearl is right though everything she says is right women get away with a lot of bullshit and they are a problem with society they lie and say that the man is abusive to kids when it’s the women that’s abusive the judicial court system is a fraud
hi david! i want you to know that i genuinely thank you for this content. it has opened my eyes to a deeper understanding of myself and i have great gratitude that you offer this to the mass! to feel someone -- that is best takeaway i've learned from you so far. dont ever change!
She's not interested in their side. She believes it's their fault. She wants to hear from the victim which according to her, is always the man. Most of the time, it's both people.
@@Far7rom Right, and she automatically blames them as though she knows what goes on in other people's marriages. She's barely had a boyfriend for more than a few months.
That's because every single other channel (the government, the main stream media, etc) only looks only at the woman side already. It's hard to give a voice to the other side isn't it? Pearl is just about the only female outthere giving a voice to men. If that hurts you, so be it.
Pearl is very dismissive, seems dishonest and tries to come off as nonchalant when you can tell she‘s not. I dont know why she can‘t properly answer like 80% of his questions it‘s kind of frustrating i can‘t even watch this to the end
I think he was just trying to get her to open up, more. She says the most with people who agree with her. She shuts down when people criticize or question her.
People acting like she's murderer. She is a young woman who ran a business employing folk. She is a pro athlete and from a traditional family. Her parents raised kids including adopted ones and are still together. She has views which people disagree with. Oh wait... it's 2024. That's sacrilege. Everyone should present in the socially acceptable, non offensive way 😮
Her family wasn't traditional - The parents are millionaires and she's talked a lot about being with nannies because both were always working. She also talks about how women shouldn't be running or leading anything, should be in the home, married with kids by 25, yet she doesn't practice any of what she preaches. That's one reason people have an issue with her. Quick to point the finger at everyone else yet never wants to talk about herself.
The last 20 minutes of this video is so endearing. He’s looking at her so sweetly and you can tell she’s shy when it comes to more intimate personal things but her smile says it all. He’s right, at the end of the day she’s just a girl. I’m glad he makes this point over and over of humanizing her and seeing her as a woman instead of a character or just a tough persona. I think without the camera there you would see a whole different side of Pearl.
It's interesting the way she criticizes her mother for being 'type A' (strict even) because I would say Pearl's politics are exactly that: Type A/strict. The way our traumas manifest in us is wild.
People bashing her for not being in touch with her emotions are part of the reason why people like her have such a hard time connecting with themselves. The moment people show their vulnerabilities and emotionally connect with however they feel, societal backlash onsets, individual withdrawal starts. Chill out
No.,, she just want to get all this red pill men attention and validation… She like put other women down … And she is looking for a high value man … when she look like this .. she is desperate and delusional… 0 respect for a crazy woman like her who love to put other women down to make herself feel better..
She's the only one responsible as an adult for her emotional development. It may not be her fault that she would up this way, but its 100% HER JOB to take accountability for her healing and personal development!
It sounds so wild how these people speak about women. Like all women MUST be this thing that SHOULD be contained under the right circumstances. It’s cringe but apparently people find it enjoyable so…
Well people speak about men on generalisations too (and worse, governments create whole institutions and draft laws based on those same generalisations). It's only fair we can do the same for women.
@@vincentallen1318 If my women friends started "trashing men" they would find themselves alone without support of men or women. The same goes for men who trash women
@@ElVerdaderoAbejorro The people who created these obstacles to men are the older and more successful men in every generation. Misandry isn't perpetuated by most women, it's men that have ALWAYS tried to fuck other men over.
Oh my god yes!!! All my theories of pearl just confirmed! Amazing. Poor lost human…clearly a cry for help just accepting this interview. My initial two theories were that her channel was a social experiment or she had a bad upbringing with a working mother who had little time for her and a father that only gave attention if a tangible accomplishment was made. She hates her parents deep down and holds deep seated resentment. She was probably the kid that did not achieve things like her siblings and got lost in the shuffle, never left the nest type…so started a UA-cam channel and loved the attention and sense of wanting. Her psychology is so blatant throughout all her videos. It’s also kind of a sad realization that this is what is entertaining…people with traumas. I hope you grow pearl and wish you the best, you really need to analyze why you think the way you do and don’t base it off your small increment of time interviewing men and women in the court system. You clearly hate yourself and this is sad. Clearly not a self analyzer. Also, this guy is a really horrible therapist…maybe this was a tactic to get her to open up though. Did he honestly just say women should not vote?
I try to be charitable to Pearl, but she just seems like an empty vessel. This was at least the least standoffish I've ever seen her in an interview, which isn't surprising because of David.
I don't doubt she needs therapy but I do doubt she'll let her mask down long enough to reveal wtf is going on inside. Have saved this on my 'watch later' list for when my curiosity gets bigger than my care energy, because I really could not care less for her as a human being, her work attempts to undermine women's rights and she seems to dislike herself and hate her mother. But my curiosity as to what makes a person be that way is definitely present.
Pearl is right though everything she says is right women get away with a lot of bullshit and they are a problem with society they lie and say that the man is abusive to kids when it’s the women that’s abusive the judicial court system is a fraud
He did the same thing with Tate. This is how you know he’s only trying to put on a show. He agrees with everything they say and never challenged their beliefs, no matter how fucked up and damaging they are. If you want to see a real therapist who is actually phenomenal at connecting and empowering young men (other demographics too) watch Dr. K from Healthy Gamer. He teaches people to take accountability and do some serious self-reflection without the fucked up BS this guy believes in.
Yes im a therapist myself, 13 years in america, and no offense to this guy but his approach to therapy is lacking alot of push, some of us dont want to be your friend, we got paid or hired to help with a problem not to be your buddy, he isnt challenging her thinking, well time to go clap some cheeeeeeks, oh and if u stilll reeeaaading after this then yeeeep, im not a real theraaaapist just wanted to show u how easily u are deceived and u heard that little noise far away? Thats me clapping ya mommiessss cheeks
I watched all the commercials during this bc it should have more views! I know ppl are def interested in Pearl. I feel like it was suppressed… I have a feeling her crusade against women is in at least some way rooted in the discordant relationship with her mom (and her pro-man stance rooted in the relationship with her “busy” dad - seeking the deeper validation she didn’t get). Also, she has a lot of defenses. Everything that she blows off as no big deal and this idea that she is the cool girl (easy going) is definitely a defense or lack of true awareness. Maybe a desire to be liked and accepted. Definitely notice her avoidance of feelings in her answer to the question about being in tune with how she feels...
Pearl says "they're just words, chill out" while she cant hardly handle criticism herself. Your words have an affect, take accountability for them especially when you say something wrong
Just discovered this girl yesterday and we have a lot in common, except I had a really good relationship with my mom. Pearl's mom is on TikTok and honestly, it explains a lot (her Laundry routine alone). I can feel Pearl's pain. Peak Scorpio too.
@@Jeremy-wp4yh her mom sort of left her and abused her, its like I can sense shame on Pearls face and its bcs she must have been suffered a lot of narc abuse and neglect. Often dominant and wealthy parents lack love so they control children in a psychological games and thats abuse rather then teaching to live. Pearl probably think her mother failed bcs she was not a peace maker in home and loving parent present in their lives. But I also think dad was failing, ofcourse, in last few centuries men are crazy.. I also think Pearl suffered abuse from her mom bcs mom is not religious as Pearl and those children who are more religious than parents suffer a lot of criticism and this I talk from experience, if child is more religious than parents then parents "put down" that child often and you need years to sort of streghten yourself bcs you are an easy target as a child and through development, those children have really hard life. I dont thunk actually that Pearl lacks femininity, I think she is very feminine and atractive, but modern mind see feminine girl as someone who is fake, not authentic, playful in a bad and prideful way, with tons of make up or with dresses and heels, someone who is seductive all the time ect. but thats not feminine, thats just nasty people who want to have fun and success in modern time. I have a lot more to write but I dont want to be boring. Im curious, do you think Pearl defend men bcs she is trying to help them?
@@lukak882 pearl defends men at the expense of women or herself. That is a little strange. An unbiased person should be able to see both sides. But some of pearls takes are quite extreme. I think it's the same formular. Most male redpill creators come from divorced homes. I'm not familiar with pearls background but I haven't seen creators from these communities who come from healthy religious homes.
Would you start a conversation with "I disagree with everything you believe and I think you're an idiot." to get someone to open up? He's a therapist, this isn't some formal debate. He's trying to break down walls not raise them up.
He said he agrees that women shouldn’t vote. He is not a licensed therapist and no ethical practitioner would say something against basic human rights in the US
@@Kelsk3825 What is the basis for your ethics? What is the definition of a 'right'. Universal suffrage for men did not exist anywhere in the world until 1789, and even then was not actually universal. Still to this day it does not exist almost anywhere. No one has a right to vote, it is a privilege that is earned through obligation and duty. Voting was never a basic human right int he US, and it is not a basic human right in any other country either. If it were, then everyone in the world would be given the right to vote in US elections since basic human rights extend to everyone no matter what citizenship they have. Since women have no obligations and no duties, they should not have any privileges.
This was FASCINATING to watch! It also made me think about why my therapist asks me certain questions 😅 I'm so curious about her relationship with her mom & sister(s) vs. with her dad & brother(s)
Pearl reminds me of how i was at 13. disconnected from mom, more comfortable with guys, instead of trying to connect with the women in my life i just stuck to what i knew... shes just so wounded bro and needs actual therapy
What changed for you?
@@stevesmith1923 when you grow up in a culture that is patriarchal (muslim country in my case) you just take it for granted that men are much more important to have relationships with than women are. but then i actually started seeing men treat me as an object and the female friends I had were the ones who supported me in crisis
Not wounded, BASED. She can see through the lies Liberals have been fed for the last 50 years.
Women in general need therapy
As a constant critic of this girl, this interview exposed a lot. She seems to lack the ability to be self aware. She’s created a persona that is soooo consumed with other peoples lives and business that it doesn’t seem she has anything of value to actually say. As soon as you wanted to talk about ANYTHING that wasn’t her talking points she got this distant and bored look on her face. It’s quite sad.
Just say...derrr i hate her...
He just does such a fantastic job at mirroring to make her feel more comfortable and then drops absolute BOMBSHELLS of questions to get right into her psyche and she doesn’t even notice.
Why are you mirroring your personality onto hers? It's because you don't like the way she said it grow a backbone.
@@tystomrte4442 huh? Lol
@@Mayajolie0908 I just hate people when they try to analyze them. Shit, that's going on with their psyche? The guy analyzed pearl from straight up, he analyzed her she's, the type of girl that don't tolerate bullshit that she's the type of woman that demands the truth, I mean you know, exactly what I said stop mirroring. do personality onto someone a pearls nature
@@tystomrte4442women don’t demand the truth.
@@tystomrte4442 what are you rambling about? It’s incoherent.
Looking at her as she was my daugter. I hope her private live is doing well. As a father, I should worry. All her sentences with 'like'. High voice. Acting like a 19 years old. Downgrading herself. Not taking herself seriously. No insight in own psychy. Laughing all her issues away. Not behaving as a adult, serene woman who brings peace in mind of a man. As a father I would feel guilty. About her upbringing. 27 years old. If she's 30 in not in a relationship, then she probably won't have kids. She's also claimed that it takes about three years for a woman to convince a man to marry her. earl is 27 years old. So by our math and her rules, she's got eight years before she fails her own outlandish standards on marriage.
Three years? Men know pretty quickly if they want to marry you or not. It doesn't take years... Me and my husband knew the night we met. Not a Pearl fan, btw. But yeah, if she wants marriage and kids, it's wise to prioritize that now instead of the boss babe venture she's on.
@@SJ-ru4ejTrue. The kind that’d say it takes them 3 years don’t understand marriage, know what they want and how to get it, or are just plainly trying to string women along.
@@karin38539 Agreed. I've seen so many instances of couples dating/living together for 5 years. They break up, and one of them is engaged within a year to someone else. Pearl is simply very immature and just an influencer whose found ways to go viral. She says all the time that women not married by 25 have issues/are used up and not marriage material. She projects a lot.
She comes off as incredibly vapid. She can only regurgitate on 1 topic, albeit not that in depth. She often looks vacant and talks like an 18 year old and looks 45.
Lots of women have kids in their 30s
God , she sounds depressed or uninterested. No presence. David tried and tried, but this was hard going.
yeah wow. I cant believe his patience and ability to talk to her
Almost like it seems there may be some autistic traits?
Lol is this the best you could find to attack Pearl?
Because he is BAD earning trust. If he is a therapist he sucks
so basically y'all just don't like the way she said it, are you serious grow up
Thanks for giving crazy ass people on internet some therapy
this
lmao real
Funny how it’s the internet NPC’s with no profile pics that only say this
I found the triggered, childless cat lady! 😂
he agreed with almost everything she said. neither of them are crazy. she says things that are uncomfortable for people like you to hear, but most of them are true. sorry!
Pearl just hates her mom and that’s why she feels the need to speak up for men and demean women.
Absofreakinlutely
Not quite. I would speculate it’s the dynamic between her parents and more so to her dad the way she seeks approval. The blame just goes to her mother or maybe other women and is misdirected, because of the actual feelings about her dad she doesn’t even know are there.
I wonder that too. Both her mother and father played big roles in her dad's business. She always talked about her dad working but never her mom. She also said she used to hate how her mom would fat shame her. She says now she appreciates it but we don't know her heart. She always puts her dad on a pedestal which is cool but she leaves her mom out.
I wouldn’t be surprised if her mother resents her a little. Pearl constantly downplays her mother’s role in her parent’s company. She even claimed on H3H3 that her mother was CEO in name only, to get a tax break or something. That was very disrespectful. Can you imagine your daughter doing that to you?
@@donnamurphy8551 Ethan told her that's illegal too, lol. I wonder if her family called her up later and yelled at her for that. 😂
I’m so incredibly bored listening to Pearl’s responses. She doesn’t come off as incredibly intelligent and she apparently cannot conjure up a coherent argument. I want to be open to her opinions but unless this was edited badly, she gives almost nothing when her ideas are pushed back on.
I like Andrew Tate and she’s the worst. She is like the biggest pick me but she clearly has nothing in her brain
Interesting to watch the disconnect of her emotions when asked what she was feeling.
Very common for over thinkers and people who constantly try to portray a certain image. Also for people who have experienced a lot of grief, and don’t want to feel it.
Yes agreed. Trauma is a powerful force.@@MrZZsharka
@@CarmelinaM Yes. And I think her being very loud when it doesn’t really fit demonstrates a lot of unresolved anger. (Some people withdraw/very passive but wouldn’t want to see them reach their limit and become very quiet, while others become louder) Both live in a world of should and shouldn’t more than most.
Maybe she was thinking, I know it is a very difficult thing to conceive by those who refuse to do it.
Pearl is disappointed with women, i think she feels or sees it as women are more evil than society potrays them as and everyone keeps blaming every other thing for the evil women do.
Pearl thinks mothers raise the worst kids and abuse the kids. But yet believes in the traditional roles, where the mom is to stay home and raise and be with the kids all day and night.. 🤔
She's right.
She's right.
@@yepwhatever1142 she’s not correct
But if women are so horrible and mothers are so incompetent why do you want them raising children.?@@yepwhatever1142
i think she mean single mothers..
It feels like she is not much aware of herself. No idea who she is. Nor that she cares much about finding it out. However, without selfawareness there is no growth. She could be hiding her inner Self or is just really unaware. But there are not many signes of Self growth. So even if she was fighting for the best case in the world how far can she get? This is probably why she is not liked by many. People get when someone is not understanding them. And we, humans, don't like that. But it is hard to understand others when you don't know yourself. She is by now present to much to do it just for fun of it. This comes with certain responsibility.
One more thing.. Even when a woman has strong opinions and strong stand of what her partner should be like and advocates for what Pearl advocates for, she is also using it as a sort of manipulation over man, choice of her man and his future behaviour within their relationship.
I agree. She's not dumb but there seem to be some giant blindspots in her way of thinking about the world and herself
@@Sandy-of6gq exactly. . We can not say anything bad about her in that way, but in sense of awareness she is like a child who has an idea. That idea could even be good. I am also not commenting on the content. But now that child needs few decades of life, learning and development to grow into that idea. And that for me is missing and is also, in my opinion, what makes people look away from here. I doubt she is able to find a strong and healthy developed man. At this point maybe just a fun and nice guy to date. She is preaching something that she is yet not ready for. People see through that. But her audience is already too big and from start to here she did not complete her journey. This is where she is loosing her credits. Loud talking, no walking
It seems to be she is extremely self aware and realises her and female nature in at whole...
Ok... but 97% of the people on this planet couldn't walk a 1/4 mile in her shoes. The poop she has to deal with on a daily basis, the hate, the ridicule, the attacks, the scrutiny, the random youtube commentor judging her.... everything she says and does being used against her. People want to take her down. They want to prove her wrong. She is dealing with far more than damn near any of us could bear. That, in and of itself, requires more personal growth than most of us will ever develop.
You just made that all up in your head
If she doesn't understand why people care so much about something that are "just words" why doesn't she like to watch when someone talks about her with different opinion? Why does that upset her? It's just words. She can then just be an adult about it and not get upset
She speaks in general & her detractors attack her personally. I guess you can't tell the difference. If I speak in general & you attack me; expect me to flame you the same or worse to the treatment you've given me. It's not difficult to understand.
@@vincentallen1318 I understand what you are saying. But what she says generaly also attacks people personaly. If you generaly say women should not vote, you are also adressing each women personaly. And if she had better understanding of people she would know that. But to have that she would need to have better understanding of her inner world as well.
@@felixiana saying women shouldn't vote is not a personal attack on 1 person. It's a general statement. There are women on the internet that say way worse about all men. I don't take it personally.
@@vincentallen1318 I agree with what you are saying. When people are aware of themselves it is not Important to them what anyone says. But people who gained space and power to pass their words to many should be more aware of the power of those words. Especialy if there are good things they have to say and are not doing it just for fun.
@@felixiana I hear you, but Pearl is 1 woman with that view that is “internet” famous. The View, Oprah, & numerous legacy liberal & conservative outlets have been throwing men under the bus for decades.
Just a few minutes in and she’s already showing her inconsistencies/grifting statements for attention and her disrespect towards her mother. She’s said on Twitter that deadbeat Dads don’t exist, yet mentions them in the beginning. Why bring them up if they don’t exist…?
Who refers to their mother as a “chick”? Her parents’ hard work allowed her to do all of the things that many others don’t get to do. She’s talked about her Dad funding her whole business. Most people have to start with nothing.
She’s talked down on women who have nannies, childcare help and who have a career instead of being home full time, time and time again so clearly there’s something she’s harboring against her mother.
Gosh, you made that theory up in your head and are desperate to find "evidence" for it. Quote the second she refers to her mom as "chick". Btw, never be a mom. Clearly your "freedom" and "fun time" would be more important than your kids needs for you.
She clearly would have rather had her mother more present during her childhood, and believes mothers should be with their children.
There’s nothing inconsistent here.
she said,
_“It‘s not like the dead beat dads that they paint- like fathers that are not in their kids lives…“_
They are not the dead beat dads as they are painted.
If English isn’t your first language or you struggle with idioms - she’s saying they’re not the dead beat dads others accuse them of being.
That’s consistent.
@@-John-Doe- Do not use reasoning mate. Feminists create their made up theories in their minds and expect everyone to go around "supporting" them. It got to a point their delusions are backed not only by all of the simp society, but also by whole governments. There is no turning back. Let them enjoy their cats.
@@-John-Doe-what a breadcrumb of a point to argue about, glossing over everything else. chill, she doesnt have a dick you can ride this hard
Pearl is obsessed with other women being the perfect woman and she constantly and consistently ignores the fact she doesn't fall into that category at ALL. She is the opposite of what she talks about it and expects a pedal stool for her words.
Agree with you, but it’s pedestal, not pedal stool ❤ although you’ve just reminded me of an episode of IT Crowd 😂
You're completely wrong about that and your ignorance shows you don't actually listen to what she says. She admits her flaws so I don't know why you said that.
@@D_Str0ng1 I must of missed those podcast
@@D_Str0ng1why do black dudes like her so much? Because she talks differently than black women? Genuine question
@@manda_musings8459 Genuine question... genuine answer. I'm pretty sure black dudes are in the minority of those that consume her content, we just may be the more visible for some reason. I watch Whatever podcast but I can't stand Brian Atlas so I can't say that black dudes "like" her. There are times that she seems unfairly targeted although she walks herself right into the firing line a lot.
Some black dudes may say "she's speaking the truth and saying the things that we always say and feel". It may also be an "enemy of my enemy is my friend" type of situation with black dudes believing we're on the same side.
Black dudes may also have an affinity for her because she was fond of Kevin Samuels and many of us would've discovered her from him and followed her journey from that moment. Some of us may respect her grind and the work she's done and how she was able to build her platform the way she has.
She also listens to men. She took counsel and even paid for coaching sessions from many of the black male content creators that we know which shows that she's coachable and willing to learn. She also supports those men and their platforms.
But, possibly the most understated factor is she's a "Plain Jane" which makes her much more relatable than other women in the space. She's not all "caked up" with makeup and doesn't sexualize herself to get attention and men respect that. Men are very suspicious and skeptical of female content creators that talk about mens issues because they think they're grifters and chameleons. Pearl seems to have past the smell test. There have been many women who've been in the space that have burned men. Many of them went on full campaigns against Pearl so it's possible that black men defended her because of that.
Now to be fair... the old Pearl is the most likeable. She saying and doing things now that's not the smartest and going in directions that are obvious landmines. I don't think it's smart for her to do that. It was really her panel show that was her claim to fame but she refuses to bring that back because of the stress I guess.
wild how opinionated she is on any subject that isn't herself. For someone to be curious and so driven to seek the truth. It's shocking how little she knows about her self. My hope is that she gets curious about "little pearl" and everything that makes her who she is and learns how to connect and stay connected with herself. She bright so I know she'll be able to articulate herself very well when she learn how to connect.
She’s INCREDIBLY naive to think that the men in her street interviews told her an accurate representation of the facts.
Women always lie and men always tell the truth, duh!
You can use the same argument for any female interviewed then. Your point proves nothing. Her podcast is great, you should watch it. I get it though, living your whole life acting like men are bad and women are pure is hard to let go. All men want is for women to be held accountable just like men are. We don't want any privileges (unlike women who act like their privileges are "rights").
I'm being genuine. Why do you think that? like why is the assumption that they were inaccurate or dishonest vs they were truthful?
I know through the medium of these conversations it always sounds confrontational. I want you to understand that I am really trying not to be.
She also only interviews men who’ve been part of the extreme situations. Doesn’t interview happily married men, doesn’t interview couples who have equal custody and have remained on good terms even after a divorce, doesn’t interview women who’ve been abandoned or cheated on and left in a bad situation.
So, when a number of women make a complaint against a men, are they all lying??
You know how some women have daddy issues and they act out? I think Pearl has mommy issues.
I think she has daddy issues because shes desperate for male attention. Like daughters of single mothers. People with mommu issues are desperate for women, just the opposite
She seems to like her dad and can see how men are treated today. You don’t really need mommy issues with so many women today.
@@-John-Doe-She’s a woman, so are you saying that she hates herself? 🤔
@@-John-Doe- keep in mind men are advocating to go back to a system where women can't say anything if theyre being abused, and can be married off as children. So before you assume it's a female problem, why don't you Instead ask yourself why you lack empathy and humanity?
@@-John-Doe-you don’t need them but she definitely has them
not a virgin, not married, no kids, but thats what she expects of people even younger than her. all i can say is "huh?"
She is correct to expect it
Because she sees and understands what those mistakes do to us mentally
I think she hates herself or has insecurities and projects that deep seeded hatred or insecurity towards all women.
Minimizing a woman down to self hatred for being critical of female nature is absolutely brain dead.
@@JarodJoseph There are examples of female content creators who criticize female behaviors and choices. Pearl is another level. She has a deep hatred for women and this probably has to be linked to her mother. If you follow her and can't see it, you are most likely also a misogynist.
All women are different, just like all men. How some women act isn’t a representative of them as a whole. Same for men.
@@JarodJoseph no not really she is isn’t criticizing she is belittling there is a difference .
@@SJ-ru4ej point taken !
40 minutes in and it doesn’t feel like an interview about her. She deflects very well. It seems like she is here to defeat her support for red pill thinking.
Anytime David tried to ask about Pearl, how she felt, or what she thought, it reverberated to how other people felt or what they thought or did. Pearl's entire personality is about upsetting people and setting asinine standards for others, surrounded by male issues that don't even represent her or her upbringing.
“Everyone just wanted to be good at stuff.” Her parents made the kids compete with each other. She’s angry at her mom for letting it happen. All this misogyny is just mommy issues. So sad!
Or she learned grifting is a money maker and just went with it because it works
@@lauraspates5752 yep. Like the girl just has mommy issues, and now takes it out on all women. How pathetic
This is the most vulnerable I've seen Pearl. She hides behind humor & deflects a lot. She lacks wisdom & life experience on many of these topics so she's not as clever as she thinks
Many of the topics? All of them. Talks about marriage and kids when she's never even had a long term relationship.
I kind of feel like she surrounds herself with people who agree with her in her personal life and that gives her the feeling she knows everything. Then she puts on the "show" but doesn't understand why others don't agree with her because she is "right"
I very much get the vibe that I get when my 19 year old explains things... she seems sweet but misguided
Pearl is right though everything she says is right women get away with a lot of bullshit and they are a problem with society they lie and say that the man is abusive to kids when it’s the women that’s abusive the judicial court system is a fraud
@@amycook3112 dude your a clown I agree with everything she says
@@SJ-ru4ej dude she is speaking facts
In Spanish I would say, tiene mas sabor un vaso de agua. "A glass of water has more flavor"
Imma steal this :p probably pronounce it terribly but I digress 😅
Her view of the world and relationships is so simplified, it's like she is mentally 12 years old boy who hates his mom and therefore all famales, it's obvious she has a huge problem with THE MOTHER, but she's so unaware of anything, she doesn't want to see.
Most relationships are quite simple - people just like to cover their BS with the 'It's complicated' nonsense.
@@thehowlingmisogynist9871 Human beings are some of the most mentally and emotionally complex creatures on the planet. What are you on about?
@@JessP-ut9gl They're actually quite predictable and understandable when you study them on a rudimentary level but sure
@@ttEterna Only if you believe that men are mostly made of meat. You'd have to be a right fool to underestimate any human being.
@@ttEterna You'd have to be VERY foolish to ever assume that.
Watch when the topic of her and her mother comes up how he adjusts. She mentions that she lives far from her parents and that's why they aren't close and his way of getting her to talk is a pause, then pretends he is thinking about it and sort of pulls up his shoulders to almost show a vulnerability or awkwardness (all body language) and then tells her ' I just want to understand you' Now isn't that music to anyone's ears. He acts more sincere in that moment, uses flattery, disrupts eye contact so as to not make her feel too bombarded with the question so that she will be okay with it . WOW, learnt a lot here.
she’s a walking mask it’s almost uncanny valley. she says so much without saying anything at all
Pearl is right though everything she says is right women get away with a lot of bullshit and they are a problem with society they lie and say that the man is abusive to kids when it’s the women that’s abusive the judicial court system is a fraud
Pearl is right though everything she says is right women get away with a lot of bullshit and they are a problem with society they lie and say that the man is abusive to kids when it’s the women that’s abusive the judicial court system is a fraud
Not close to her mother = red flag
Possibly the reason for her take on this topic
This is so refreshing. To see two grown adults have a genuine and free flowing conversation. No judgment, no ridicule, no "trying to win", no drama. People today can't even listen to an opposing concept without getting triggered and LOOSING THEIR MINDS. Productive communication. Today... almost everyone walks into a situation defensively and on a hair-pin trigger just waiting..... waiting, itching, to go off. Tension... everything is tense. It is exhausting to deal with.
I agree! You can see there was a lot of triggered people in the comments but it was a great conversation overall 👍
I've scrolled through a few comments and haven't seen anybody triggered or "losing their minds." It's just that this is a therapy session, and Pearl tossed the ball out of her park numerous times by talking about other situations that didn't pertain to her.
I dont think she has ever been in a relationship. I am pretty sure she has never dealt with men for real, only in her statistics, she doesnt seem to grasp all the bullshit women get from men in relationships.
She has been in one “long term” relationship, and it wasn’t that long. She got catfished by a homeless guy who is now known on UA-cam as Angry Reactions. He was everything she tells men they should avoid. He had no job and two kids out of wedlock. She actually moved him into her parents mansion and helped him build up his UA-cam presence. Then he dumped her and got a hotter girlfriend he shows off on his channel.
"ï don't know" = i dont want to tell
I don't know means resistance/denial
Or it's non of your business.
Pearl gets in to everyone else’s business though.
I’m not sure if anybody peeped that this guy is just agreeing with her at the beginning to gain her trust. I feel like majority of the things “he’s agreeing with” is just to make her feel safe to talk so he can analyze her true self…..
I think this is some wishful thinking, that he doesn’t really agree with her crazy views. But he outright says he agrees that women shouldn’t vote.
Ohhh and now I just got to “why is coloniser bad? I want to reclaim that.” Immediately followed by how Nick Fuentes is an “interesting guy.” YIKES.
He so sycophantic as well.
Wish someone told me sooner that women don't pay taxes 😢
They don’t??? I paid taxes when I was working. I’m a stay at home mom now.
😂 😂
It's like she's suppressed her emotions for so long to avoid how hurt she feels from the way other people have made her feel. Especially her dad, seems he put a lot of rules and standards on her to live up to and even her family it seems like everyone would make her feel embarrassed or something for being weak or some underachiever so it's like am I perfect enough and when i hurt others I don't understand why they're hurt because when I'm hurt i just suppress it and move on, why can't you all do the same? I feel like my mom is kinda like her (she even mentions her mom would call her a fatty to motivate her to lose weight, it's like her whole life she was just insulted and conditioned this way and it's normal for her to turn off her ability to empathize with others instead of being triggered by their words or existence)
Anyone who agrees with Pearl probably shouldn't be a therapist.
Wtf. What a bot take.
I don't think he does, he is building a rapport
This is often a tactic psychotherapists take in order to gain the trust of the patient! To agree and affirm, but then de-root and analyze.
For an analogy: if plant is deformed, you don't deny its malformation, you would turn to its root structure or where it's located/constrained by. These conversations would all be arguments if he outright rejected their beliefs.
Yes, each and every therapist should have the same exact opinions and beliefs 🙄 what are you, a child?
@CesarPadilla-xl2lp As a therapist, I agree. You can't solve a problem from the same level of consciousness.
I don’t understand why men don’t date her. I mean, if she is saying the stuff you want to hear, why go after women who don’t share those values. There will also be traditional women, why go for the ones who aren’t. No need to be angry or upset, just say we don’t want the same things. I wish you all the best.
But she’s only listening to one side of the argument and has no life experience. It’s clear her mindset is juvenile
We have society, the government and the media regurgitating propaganda to give women ever more privileges and bail them out in every bad decision they make but the second someone like Pearl has the courage to speak out against that then it is all "one sided" 🤡 You can see the women that go into her podcast how delusional they are (it's like it is the first time in their lives their ideologies ever got a push back and they are all shocked about it as they are so used of people just bowing down to their demands and supporting everything they say).
She's only listening to one side because that's the side that's consistently ignored. We don't need the woman's side because that's the only side we get consistently.
@@axpsanchez Enlight us how she has "no life experience"? Chick has interviewed thousands of people, both in her podcast and on the streets, gets shit constantly from feminists and simps, got her channel demonetized (yet didn't sell her soul for $$). Pearl has far more life experience than any of you "believe all women" simps will ever do.
This was really eye opening. Pearl has some hatred towards her mother. She doesn’t feel like she’s good enough so she takes it out on other women. It’s quite sad. I can’t imagine a mother fat shaming her daughter and it turning out ok. I also think she has ADHD which explains a lot of her behavior. Lots of people with ADHD have low self esteem, and she definitely does. She’s described herself as all over the place, forgetful, spends money on buying things she forgot, lacks self awareness…
he's pandering to her a bit. I think the idea is that, at any age, it doesn't mean anyone is less attractive, and to what audience? to say it objective that we are less attractive as we get older just doesn't make any sense. Him "admitting" this is true to Pearl is disingenuous because he doesn't even believe that. He's pandering to her opinion to "meet her where she is", which I understand in a sense. But it's factually untrue.
Yes I agree. To call her this sweet girl who just wants to love and share her curiosity about the world is strange. Unless the point was just to get her to put her guard down because she wants people to think that. If so, he could have done that without giving her the princess bullshit
Why are you pandering to ask people like these? Do you really want to be like that bad? Man, something is really wrong with you. I like Pearl, because of her rebellious, I like pearl, because she's unique after all this garbage today, give to you on the Internet. And she's tell you the truth if you like it a lot.
it was definitely to get her guard down. the indications of his tone of voice and forced laughter say it all to me personally. it worked! he coupled that pandering with challenging statements, so many things she responded with backfired and often contradicted her own words! i think this was a great watch
@@pikachu2511 to be honest though pearl understand what these fake therapist? Trying to do that's why she laughed it off like was funny, and that's why she really didn't walk away like normal girls usually do pearl sit there and listen to him and actually made jokes with them. Pearl panda him. To the point that it wasn't even funny, then people talking about Pearl leaving Pearl is creating a new fucking show.clowns have no idea what you're talking about
You have to remember, pearl has never been in a real relationship, shes never been tempted by someone or a man who was tempted to cheat, shes never been with a guy who cheated on her so of course she has very innacurate views when it comes to relationships and marriages. She has no grounds to preach views on marriage let alone infidelity
You have no idea what your talking about. You don't know anything about Pearl at all, if you can say what you just said. Just like most the comment section here. You just hate Pearl with no real reason, your just following the crowd. smh
@@VRIceblastWhat did they say that was false?
@VRIceblast she's literally never had a real relationship, she said she dated one guy for a short time and it ended quickly and wouldn't disclose why. I don't like pearl because she takes radical stances and refuses to apply and discuss those radical ideologies to her own life, she's fine with tearing apart other women and won't discuss the exact same topic in relation to her own personal life. She's a hypocrite.
@@VRIceblastshe has all of these opinions and judgements but none are from experience, they're from research or watching someone else. Like him trying to talk to her about her being married someday and he's trying to tell her that women calling men on their bs is inevitable and she says that's wrong. Whether it's right or wrong it's inevitable and she's never dated to understand how two people who love eachother interact, yet she judges so many marriages and based her whole platform on how marriage should be, meanwhile she's barely dated enough to know how real relationship interactions work or effect the relationship
She has said on video that she wouldn’t leave if a man cheated on her.
Yet she also admitted to cheating on a boyfriend in college.
You cannot answer relationship issues for someone else. You can only answer for yourself. This woman is telling you who she is with every comment. She is talking about herself.
I didn’t know therapy was about flattering a person in every way possible and not challenging their thought processes at all lol. Good to know from a therapist’s perspective that’s what you should do 🤦♀️
Absolutely agree
He is not a licensed therapist. He is a energetics practitioner. I do not know what exactly that entails, but I wouldn’t compare this video to the true therapeutic process especially bc there is a camera and expectation there will be viewers
Trust has to be established first before challenging too hard or people may shut down.
Please put up more of these
This was incredibly boring.
I tried.
Hater
I really appreciate your open heart and the way you approach these interactions. I can tell you've done a lot of work to heal things most people haven't achieved yet, or ever will.
It's inspiring and I admire you. As a nearly lifelong fan (GG dropped when I was EXACTLY Rory's age) - - - - it's unbelievably refreshing to see this very human side of you.
Love this content, David. Keep going.
Pearl where is your husband and 5 kids ? why aren’t you home scrubbing floors , nursing a baby , canning food , cooking for your husband and changing diapers ?
Easy boy. Why do you think she’s publicly speaking? What do you suppose motivates her?
Her husband isn’t reality. She hates lies and wants to expose, ok well speaking to ur logic here’s the truth. Whatever age she is, she looks twenty years older than that. Men like young women, since she has nothing to get her in the door in order to start a conversation, men don’t know she is only in her late twenties or early thirties. So because she didn’t settle down early, according to her the older a person is they more 304. She’s a whore, she dates men and doesn’t marry them, she is just acting like a normal woman, because most don’t want to marry in their twenties. So being a whore and not young and beautiful makes her part of the group she criticizes and pokes fun at.
Pearl needs to realize there’s karma she will need to settle for all the mean, judgmental and negative things she says. She has no leg to stand on: with zero life experience she has no information value over the next person. She doesn’t understand herself or how to feel emotions. I think she has a good show but I think with time if she got married and did the podcast she would triple her following. She’s a nice girl tho she will grow and learn from her time as a creator
She doesn’t want to talk openly about her upbringing but wants to have a hard and fast judgement on everyone else
Correct. Shes a gem for calling out garden tools
@@brentboost2879 Pearl herself has slept around and admitted in an early video that she cheated on a boyfriend in college.
I hope to hear her after 10 years of marrige. She sounds incredibly naive.
Lol I think the same way. One day she is going to understand sooo many things.
Yep. Me and my husband love each other more than anything but it can be really hard some days.
We argue. We have disagreements. We’ve said things we don’t mean when we’re upset. We get on each other’s nerves. There’s some days that are really hard. But all the good things far surpass that.
She’ll see if she ever gives up this career to have a husband and family. By her own statements, she’s running out of time and is old to be married now and will only attract some leftover loser: She thinks it’s all a walk in the park.
And have a baby. Even in her ideal scenario. Taking care of a newborn after 9 months of pregnancy with a partner that only “provides” material things…
Well someone has to marry her.
if you are married after 10 years and your husband leaves you, I want to how are you feel
How interesting to watch her think about how vulnerable she is willing to be. 👀
It’s very ironic that Pearl preaches the kind of beauty that men want, but doesn’t partake in those feminine things herself. I wonder if there’s some jealousy there that influences her attitude towards women
David you can be so much bigger and blow up on this platform. Your insights are so valuable at a time where true working advice is so hard to find.
1:17:29 Hannah, the “something you said,” was repeatedly calling women “whales,” and other nasty things like that. We know who you’re talking about and she spoke publicly. It wasn’t because you were conservative or famous, it was because you were being nasty, and you know it.
“Don’t watch it,” doesn’t fly. We don’t bury our heads in the sand when it comes to our friends being nasty people. From what she’s said, she gave you chances to explain yourself or backtrack, and you stood by it.
No, we can’t always separate the opinions from the person. I would not be friends with a racist, for example. You weren’t betrayed, no one owes you their friendship. Someone decides you’re not a person they want to be friends with, and that’s it. Friendship isn’t transactional.
Rumor is too that she was jealous of that friend getting married. That friend has already been married for years and Pearl is still single. She even said Pearl desperately wanted a relationship when she knew her and has never been in anything long term.
This guy is not a great therapist...
@SanneSanne-n7h Thats the problem. I am watching closely. As a therapist myself he is severely lacking in his approach. What do you do?
Very interesting that she had a nanny as a kid. Explains a lot
Not really. My cousins had nannies and they’re all super successful. Some people just need excuses in order to justify their lack of success. 🤔
Anyone who thinks this person is a serious therapist is getting scammed. 🤣 all he did was agree with her. the whole point of paying a therapist is for them to help you grow and reflect-something your friend or cousin can’t exactly do, which is why you see a professional. They’re not there to just pat you on the back; they’re supposed to spark self-awareness. Also, I couldn’t care less about Pearl clinging to her idiotic, extreme views. It doesn’t affect me-I’m still voting, being a woman, and living my life while she stays confused about her own ignorance. But if we’re talking from a professional therapist’s perspective, that’s where it matters. It’s painfully clear Tate and Pearl are miserable because they lack any self-awareness. All that fake confidence can’t hide their inability to introspect, and it’s eating them alive by resisting the fact that being terrible people comes with negative consequences. If I actually cared about them, I’d want their therapists to help them see that-before it leads to their own demises. So no, this is not a real therapist, and anyone who has seen a good one knows that. This is pure entertainment.
Everything about her makes sense now lol
Yes!!! She couldn't possibly be right about anything. It all makes sense now. Phew, for a second she may have had you believe women weren't omnipotent
props to the people that come on here and leave themselves so vulnerable
"Men tell me they have been treated badly and its all their ex wife's fault"...30 mins later... "men lie all the time"....
It’s almost like she wants to infantalize men. Like they need permission to lead and it’s women’s fault if they can’t. Where as David is coming from a place where men should be in touch with their own authority
David is trying to shield women from accountability by blaming men for everything. Typical simp.
Pearl sees the problem but has really bad solutions.
Do you really want solutions or you just don't like her talking points?
@@vincentallen1318Well it’s easy to always point out the problems.
@@Leo6933 problems that haven't been spoken about by mainstream or popular culture. So it's not that easy, especially when you get de-platformed/ demonetized for speaking on them. By the way, what media outlets actually provide practical solutions in the first place? Besides changing the laws, which is the 1st solution that isn't practical because of how politicians pander to the female demo.
@@vincentallen1318 I’m waiting for her say something besides the same 3 talking points she does in every interview for the last 2 years. Sorry, she comes off VERY disingenuous. She LITERALLY grew up privileged with the perfect parents. What’s her motivation for being red-pill??? Doesn’t make any sense and She rode the red-pill wave when it got popular and says random wild stuff every couple months to stay relevant like saying women shouldn’t be allowed to vote 🙄.
@@Leo6933 she said that the red pill was just a point of interest that took a deep dive into. Nothing wrong with that. She also said that someone close to her (a man) was victim to some the modern circumstances concerning male/ female dynamics as a big reason why she speaks on these issues. I don't see how being born into privilege discredits anyone from talking on these issues. Her believing that women shouldn't vote isn't a big deal. Considering how it’s a trend that women openly say that men should die out & have no use online daily.
Ethan is definitely an asshole but her h3 video, she was extremely unprepared and also wasn't able to back up anything she said. That was all on her
It’s hard to be prepared with you don’t really believe what u say.
@@Leo6933☝️ nail on the head
Yeah Sneako warned her not to go
My guess on Pearl's underlying family dynamic: it seems quite clear that there was a lot of underlying tension in her parents' relationship and also that there was a strong dynamic of suppression regarding any emotions within the family surrounding that tension and likely similar tensions between siblings. At some point it seems she must have sided with her father for some reason. However, I get the sense that underneath that is perhaps an even deeper well of anger towards her father that would likely be the very last thing she realised if she worked through her emotions properly. This quite severe repression of deep interlocking emotional dynamics I believe is the reason she comes across as flat, emotionless and non-introspective as she does. If so much stuff of that kind has been built up without any recognition is can really turn someone into a kind of empty husk in how they present to the world.
Its weird that she doesn't know herself. There is a detachment or avoidant here of some kind. She goes right back to talking about her agenda
“Guy guys, you’re missing the point. It’s all entertainment.”
- Pearl
Translation:Her entertainment.
I really dont like her :) she looks like doing this for wrong reasons, like telling all man all what we wanna hear. Not a fan
That’s why she doesn’t open up to the personal questions…she doesn’t want to be exposed. The more you dig the more you find out she’s not being genuine.
No one cares the motivations. The important thing is she is doing a great good to humanity attacking feminism and the greatest ills of society that it caused, based in facts, logic and stats. So standing for what is Truth, no one really care why she does it.
If you're not a fan why'd you click on a video with her face on it and comment on the video? Pretty weird.
What matters is whether or not what she's saying is true. And it is most of the time.
@@redpillfreedom6692 No that is NOT all that matters lol.
Pearl really misses the mark. She’s idolizing men like she idolizes her dad. She didn’t like how her mommy treated her daddy who worked so hard and was treated so… She wants the praise from men when she puts down the women. Question is why? And what has that gotten her?
It’s not authority that’s missing or necessary. It’s leadership. Women aren’t allowing men to lead and many men are not showing up as leaders. If men want different kind of women they need to stop messing around with the kind of women they don’t like or wouldn’t take home.
but what if I as a woman, don't want to be lead by a man? I'd rather be my own person and not submit to anyone. what's wrong with that?
Don't every woman do that, there's REM, not there, that's daddy, girl's there has been like that for ages.I honestly think you are pandering, because you don't know how to be like Pearl, everybody has a conscience, and some people get tired of using theirs for the greater good of the relevant type of bullshit, the female mind, because y'all are fucked up
Pearl is right though everything she says is right women get away with a lot of bullshit and they are a problem with society they lie and say that the man is abusive to kids when it’s the women that’s abusive the judicial court system is a fraud
@@bloodmoonxx3174 Pearl is right though everything she says is right women get away with a lot of bullshit and they are a problem with society they lie and say that the man is abusive to kids when it’s the women that’s abusive the judicial court system is a fraud
@@bloodmoonxx3174 right!!
Like this isn’t the 50’s anymore
Oh she is HURT deep down
hi david! i want you to know that i genuinely thank you for this content. it has opened my eyes to a deeper understanding of myself and i have great gratitude that you offer this to the mass!
to feel someone -- that is best takeaway i've learned from you so far. dont ever change!
Great chat. Thanks guys.
Pearl never interviews divorced mothers. She bases all her opinions off one biased side of the story.
She's not interested in their side. She believes it's their fault. She wants to hear from the victim which according to her, is always the man. Most of the time, it's both people.
She has had countless divorced women on her show.
@@Far7rom Right, and she automatically blames them as though she knows what goes on in other people's marriages. She's barely had a boyfriend for more than a few months.
That's because every single other channel (the government, the main stream media, etc) only looks only at the woman side already. It's hard to give a voice to the other side isn't it? Pearl is just about the only female outthere giving a voice to men. If that hurts you, so be it.
@@SJ-ru4ej "pearl never interviews divorced mothers" is false.. period.. that's what I'm replying to... now go move around somewhere.
Pearl is the embodiment of “I don’t have friends that a girls cuz I’m not like other girls”
Pearl is very dismissive, seems dishonest and tries to come off as nonchalant when you can tell she‘s not. I dont know why she can‘t properly answer like 80% of his questions it‘s kind of frustrating i can‘t even watch this to the end
She is NOT intelligent or good at arguing, wtf is wrong with him!! How on EARTH does he agrees with her.
I think he was just trying to get her to open up, more. She says the most with people who agree with her. She shuts down when people criticize or question her.
shes so defensive and cut off from herself tbh "I dont know"
People acting like she's murderer. She is a young woman who ran a business employing folk. She is a pro athlete and from a traditional family. Her parents raised kids including adopted ones and are still together. She has views which people disagree with. Oh wait... it's 2024. That's sacrilege. Everyone should present in the socially acceptable, non offensive way 😮
Her family wasn't traditional - The parents are millionaires and she's talked a lot about being with nannies because both were always working. She also talks about how women shouldn't be running or leading anything, should be in the home, married with kids by 25, yet she doesn't practice any of what she preaches. That's one reason people have an issue with her. Quick to point the finger at everyone else yet never wants to talk about herself.
"They're just words" -just an idiotic statement.
The last 20 minutes of this video is so endearing. He’s looking at her so sweetly and you can tell she’s shy when it comes to more intimate personal things but her smile says it all. He’s right, at the end of the day she’s just a girl. I’m glad he makes this point over and over of humanizing her and seeing her as a woman instead of a character or just a tough persona. I think without the camera there you would see a whole different side of Pearl.
It’s just words is a really boring deflection and her only one. She’s boring Dave. I tried!
I understand. 🙂
That doesn't apply when it's about her, though!
It's interesting the way she criticizes her mother for being 'type A' (strict even) because I would say Pearl's politics are exactly that: Type A/strict. The way our traumas manifest in us is wild.
Good conversation. God bless Pearl & her efforts.
People bashing her for not being in touch with her emotions are part of the reason why people like her have such a hard time connecting with themselves. The moment people show their vulnerabilities and emotionally connect with however they feel, societal backlash onsets, individual withdrawal starts. Chill out
No.,, she just want to get all this red pill men attention and validation…
She like put other women down …
And she is looking for a high value man … when she look like this .. she is desperate and delusional… 0 respect for a crazy woman like her who love to put other women down to make herself feel better..
She's the only one responsible as an adult for her emotional development. It may not be her fault that she would up this way, but its 100% HER JOB to take accountability for her healing and personal development!
@@JessP-ut9gl absolutely, didn't say otherwise. Accountability works both ways, the individual and the collective.
@@Dam3k No, the collective is not really capable of taking accountability far too painful. Only individuals can rally make use of it.
It sounds so wild how these people speak about women. Like all women MUST be this thing that SHOULD be contained under the right circumstances. It’s cringe but apparently people find it enjoyable so…
So the way women online/ real life talk about men is just fine in your opinion, I suppose?
Well people speak about men on generalisations too (and worse, governments create whole institutions and draft laws based on those same generalisations). It's only fair we can do the same for women.
@@vincentallen1318 If my women friends started "trashing men" they would find themselves alone without support of men or women. The same goes for men who trash women
@@ElVerdaderoAbejorro The people who created these obstacles to men are the older and more successful men in every generation. Misandry isn't perpetuated by most women, it's men that have ALWAYS tried to fuck other men over.
Man! Pearly sure has been eating well, at least 20+ lbs
Oh my god yes!!! All my theories of pearl just confirmed! Amazing. Poor lost human…clearly a cry for help just accepting this interview. My initial two theories were that her channel was a social experiment or she had a bad upbringing with a working mother who had little time for her and a father that only gave attention if a tangible accomplishment was made. She hates her parents deep down and holds deep seated resentment. She was probably the kid that did not achieve things like her siblings and got lost in the shuffle, never left the nest type…so started a UA-cam channel and loved the attention and sense of wanting. Her psychology is so blatant throughout all her videos. It’s also kind of a sad realization that this is what is entertaining…people with traumas. I hope you grow pearl and wish you the best, you really need to analyze why you think the way you do and don’t base it off your small increment of time interviewing men and women in the court system. You clearly hate yourself and this is sad. Clearly not a self analyzer. Also, this guy is a really horrible therapist…maybe this was a tactic to get her to open up though. Did he honestly just say women should not vote?
I try to be charitable to Pearl, but she just seems like an empty vessel. This was at least the least standoffish I've ever seen her in an interview, which isn't surprising because of David.
I don't doubt she needs therapy but I do doubt she'll let her mask down long enough to reveal wtf is going on inside. Have saved this on my 'watch later' list for when my curiosity gets bigger than my care energy, because I really could not care less for her as a human being, her work attempts to undermine women's rights and she seems to dislike herself and hate her mother. But my curiosity as to what makes a person be that way is definitely present.
@sutcliffedavid.1 🤣
The initial interaction says a lot about how much she is not in touch with herself.
I think there’s a lot to unpack with her relationship to her mom. I think a lot of her ideologies come from the issues she has with her mom
He just got her to be more real and human and relatable than any other clip I've seen.
Im sorry but if this guy is a therapist then he sucks. He managed her to do no reflection regarding her behavior.
Exactly. I don't know where he got his training from. She needs to go on Dr. K's channel
@@JustFollowingOrders12 i was thinking about that doctor when I watched the video. Dr.K is one of the best therapists I have seen in a while.
Pearl is right though everything she says is right women get away with a lot of bullshit and they are a problem with society they lie and say that the man is abusive to kids when it’s the women that’s abusive the judicial court system is a fraud
He did the same thing with Tate. This is how you know he’s only trying to put on a show. He agrees with everything they say and never challenged their beliefs, no matter how fucked up and damaging they are. If you want to see a real therapist who is actually phenomenal at connecting and empowering young men (other demographics too) watch Dr. K from Healthy Gamer. He teaches people to take accountability and do some serious self-reflection without the fucked up BS this guy believes in.
Yes im a therapist myself, 13 years in america, and no offense to this guy but his approach to therapy is lacking alot of push, some of us dont want to be your friend, we got paid or hired to help with a problem not to be your buddy, he isnt challenging her thinking, well time to go clap some cheeeeeeks, oh and if u stilll reeeaaading after this then yeeeep, im not a real theraaaapist just wanted to show u how easily u are deceived and u heard that little noise far away? Thats me clapping ya mommiessss cheeks
Meaning to watch for a while. Well enjoyed. Thanks Dave
Thanks Shawn!
I watched all the commercials during this bc it should have more views! I know ppl are def interested in Pearl. I feel like it was suppressed… I have a feeling her crusade against women is in at least some way rooted in the discordant relationship with her mom (and her pro-man stance rooted in the relationship with her “busy” dad - seeking the deeper validation she didn’t get). Also, she has a lot of defenses. Everything that she blows off as no big deal and this idea that she is the cool girl (easy going) is definitely a defense or lack of true awareness. Maybe a desire to be liked and accepted. Definitely notice her avoidance of feelings in her answer to the question about being in tune with how she feels...
Pearl says "they're just words, chill out" while she cant hardly handle criticism herself. Your words have an affect, take accountability for them especially when you say something wrong
Thanks for bringing Hannah Davis here!
Just discovered this girl yesterday and we have a lot in common, except I had a really good relationship with my mom. Pearl's mom is on TikTok and honestly, it explains a lot (her Laundry routine alone). I can feel Pearl's pain. Peak Scorpio too.
She deflected almost everything. She did not want to do any introspection.
I think her mother need to hug her a lot ❤ that will heal their relationship
I can't figure out if it's mommy or daddy issues. She seems to seek the approval of men alot.
@@Jeremy-wp4yh her mom sort of left her and abused her, its like I can sense shame on Pearls face and its bcs she must have been suffered a lot of narc abuse and neglect. Often dominant and wealthy parents lack love so they control children in a psychological games and thats abuse rather then teaching to live.
Pearl probably think her mother failed bcs she was not a peace maker in home and loving parent present in their lives.
But I also think dad was failing, ofcourse, in last few centuries men are crazy..
I also think Pearl suffered abuse from her mom bcs mom is not religious as Pearl and those children who are more religious than parents suffer a lot of criticism and this I talk from experience, if child is more religious than parents then parents "put down" that child often and you need years to sort of streghten yourself bcs you are an easy target as a child and through development, those children have really hard life.
I dont thunk actually that Pearl lacks femininity, I think she is very feminine and atractive, but modern mind see feminine girl as someone who is fake, not authentic, playful in a bad and prideful way, with tons of make up or with dresses and heels, someone who is seductive all the time ect. but thats not feminine, thats just nasty people who want to have fun and success in modern time.
I have a lot more to write but I dont want to be boring.
Im curious, do you think Pearl defend men bcs she is trying to help them?
@@lukak882 pearl defends men at the expense of women or herself. That is a little strange. An unbiased person should be able to see both sides. But some of pearls takes are quite extreme. I think it's the same formular. Most male redpill creators come from divorced homes. I'm not familiar with pearls background but I haven't seen creators from these communities who come from healthy religious homes.
David is so great! I love his content!
Hoping that you don’t actually agree with Pearl’s opinions and that you were just saying that to get her to open up more
Would you start a conversation with "I disagree with everything you believe and I think you're an idiot." to get someone to open up? He's a therapist, this isn't some formal debate. He's trying to break down walls not raise them up.
He said he agrees that women shouldn’t vote. He is not a licensed therapist and no ethical practitioner would say something against basic human rights in the US
@@Kelsk3825 What is the basis for your ethics? What is the definition of a 'right'.
Universal suffrage for men did not exist anywhere in the world until 1789, and even then was not actually universal. Still to this day it does not exist almost anywhere. No one has a right to vote, it is a privilege that is earned through obligation and duty.
Voting was never a basic human right int he US, and it is not a basic human right in any other country either. If it were, then everyone in the world would be given the right to vote in US elections since basic human rights extend to everyone no matter what citizenship they have.
Since women have no obligations and no duties, they should not have any privileges.
This was FASCINATING to watch! It also made me think about why my therapist asks me certain questions 😅 I'm so curious about her relationship with her mom & sister(s) vs. with her dad & brother(s)
Pearl, it's much better to love listening not just talking with people.