How To Use The Past To Motivate You

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  • @StephIsColdG
    @StephIsColdG  5 років тому +33

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    • @quavariussmith7377
      @quavariussmith7377 5 років тому

      Steph you are amazing I just got done weedeating and I thought bout one of your videos so I came here

    • @paulpan5308
      @paulpan5308 4 роки тому

      They lonely days make u want more, u a real one

  • @minnesotaibanez3363
    @minnesotaibanez3363 5 років тому +404

    Taking Ls is part of life. Accept the fact that what comes from God and life is always welcomed. Enjoy your Ls and become a better version of yourself.

  • @EsotericHighway
    @EsotericHighway 5 років тому +448

    Pain is an awakener.
    Pain is a teacher.
    Pain is a transformer.
    Pain evolves you if you let it.
    When pain arises you basically have two choices:
    Be a victim or be a victor.
    The red pill man chooses to be a victor, and applies all the knowledge he learned from pain going forward..

  • @stayingready1748
    @stayingready1748 5 років тому +285

    Bruh I need to stop reminiscing about the past so many negative thoughts but I'm working on it.

    • @MrEOM41
      @MrEOM41 5 років тому +22

      Yessir take that pain and turn it into power 💪🏋️💯

    • @luiginocharles9990
      @luiginocharles9990 5 років тому +12

      Let's go champ

    • @worldstar4810
      @worldstar4810 5 років тому +10

      Staying Ready 1 A person who follows Jesus Christ doesn’t keep a record of his wrong doings . Maybe you should follow Jesus Christ

    • @kieranklipz1185
      @kieranklipz1185 5 років тому +8

      It can be hard

    • @luiginocharles9990
      @luiginocharles9990 5 років тому +1

      @@worldstar4810 Christ is a fictional character

  • @bmorealthegreat7109
    @bmorealthegreat7109 5 років тому +153

    I used to think about my bluepill days an get sad now i just laugh an focus on my purpose

    • @mzmav720
      @mzmav720 5 років тому +1

      That pic 🤣🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @bmorealthegreat7109
      @bmorealthegreat7109 5 років тому

      @@mzmav720 wat the lil durk pic for my profile

    • @mzmav720
      @mzmav720 5 років тому +1

      Bmoreal Thegreat yeah bro

    • @bmorealthegreat7109
      @bmorealthegreat7109 5 років тому

      @@mzmav720 idk free my nigga😂😂😂😂

    • @youngchamp9088
      @youngchamp9088 4 роки тому +5

      To this day is still laugh of how my ex cheated on me... We never had sex... She said she was a Virgin and every time I was about to hit it she would cry that me finguring her is causing her to feel pain so we can't fuck... But the bluepill in me knew nothing😂😂she was just using me for non sexual attention and resources... She cheated on me with some dude... She was so fine, I don't know how I believed she was a virgin😂😂but its just because I was bluepilled asf.. But now no more... I see things differently since I swallowed the redpill

  • @stephonvidal2
    @stephonvidal2 5 років тому +109

    im no bitcchh but this his first vid i cried to felt every pain word u said the past flashed like it all happened yesterday. Use the pain to motivate u preachhhh

    • @B4_E
      @B4_E 3 роки тому

      Facts

  • @mzmav720
    @mzmav720 5 років тому +123

    No bs this video made the boy eyes water a lil bit I have a fitness based business, travel based business, and e-commerce business that’s finally taking off. Sacrifice, sacrifice, sacrifices!!!

    • @israelitewarrior89
      @israelitewarrior89 5 років тому

      MZ MAV for the e-commerce do you use Shopify

    • @mzmav720
      @mzmav720 5 років тому +1

      Manuel Blue yessir the e-commerce business is Shopify based.

    • @israelitewarrior89
      @israelitewarrior89 5 років тому

      MZ MAV I ask because I’m just starting out are you seeing good profits and results with it

    • @mzmav720
      @mzmav720 5 років тому

      Manuel Blue yessir follow my cousin on fb: Boniface Ogunti and on IG: @bonifaceogunti he’s built a multimillion dollar empire from Shopify and marketing.

    • @ssdcatracho77
      @ssdcatracho77 5 років тому +2

      Best of luck on your business my friend.

  • @rosehill113
    @rosehill113 5 років тому +100

    Success is the best revenge! I used to feel guilty about wanting to shit on people who did me dirty but now idgaf. Ima use my pain and turn it into progression. This video helped me a lot, thank you! 🙏🏽

    • @okaydeemuzik9188
      @okaydeemuzik9188 2 роки тому

      Facts. Cause peope will shit on you wen u down so fuck it. What can they do?!!😛😛😒

  • @alexisterriquez6546
    @alexisterriquez6546 5 років тому +75

    Salute to all my brothers watching this shit! Stay cold G’s!

  • @bigblakbubba1289
    @bigblakbubba1289 5 років тому +55

    Joy wouldn't feel so good if it wasn't for pain -Curtis Jackson ... u. So blessed smh

  • @Imhim247
    @Imhim247 5 років тому +64

    You wanna a motivate yourself? Make yourself better at 1% everyday. One step at a time. No rush. Focus on your purpose. I promise you that great things coming on your way. 💪🏾💯 💯 💯

    • @Imhim247
      @Imhim247 5 років тому +1

      @The Paradox Reality You're welcome fam!

  • @RS_91
    @RS_91 5 років тому +149

    "To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in suffering"

    • @uliceschaidez993
      @uliceschaidez993 5 років тому +5

      Dread 91 thank you brotha is amazing

    • @raphaelabreu6057
      @raphaelabreu6057 5 років тому +10

      That’s a dmx quote

    • @RS_91
      @RS_91 5 років тому +3

      @@raphaelabreu6057 Friedrich Nietzsche. Haha! DMX quote, read a book g

    • @formalhault5820
      @formalhault5820 2 роки тому

      @@raphaelabreu6057 RIP DMX

  • @dinky19810
    @dinky19810 5 років тому +48

    Damn, i feel this. Without risk, there is no gain. Stop living safe and comfortable, it's no growth there. Get on your purpose!

  • @donovancrain534
    @donovancrain534 3 роки тому +15

    “The pain is the fuel.” I’ll remember that line forever

  • @coolassclay
    @coolassclay 5 років тому +21

    If used properly, pain is one of the greatest motivators to improve yourself. The greater the pain, the greater the motivation.

  • @apemode3201
    @apemode3201 5 років тому +34

    I just came back from a shoulder workout. I'm 6 minutes through the vid and now I'm about to go back out and run 3 miles.

  • @kennymeminger2518
    @kennymeminger2518 5 років тому +20

    The UNIVERSE NEEDS TO HEAR THIS.

  • @patrickj.8429
    @patrickj.8429 5 років тому +40

    Damn Steph, you been thru some sh!t lol but you on the path to GREATNESS my brotha’ 🏆 - Keep Goin, we need ju’ man - ☝🏾 Hunnit Yrs. 🌐

  • @ayubknn
    @ayubknn 5 років тому +51

    I'm glad I found your channel, I came from AMS. You're really a role model to me bruh, keep doing your thing

  • @lestat9012
    @lestat9012 5 років тому +23

    Great message. Had the pain of being cheated on. Also realization that I’ve wasted almost 4 years on a girl who doesn’t love me and who doesn’t care. It hurts but denying reality serves no purpose. I put that pain into my workouts. So sore now I was in bed by 8 but it feels good to be that then to not work out and by crying like a bitch over someone who can’t love you

  • @mememan_2842
    @mememan_2842 3 роки тому +4

    Not so long ago I was in bed it was 12 am and I just started thinking about my life and everything I went thru and I cried for the first time in my life it was then that I realised that I went thru all that and didn't do shit about it and I use that every day for motivation

  • @dontaLYoung
    @dontaLYoung 5 років тому +14

    Real shit my G. We gotta be alchemist. Use that negative energy and turn into something positive.

    • @micahjimmy9471
      @micahjimmy9471 4 роки тому

      I watch your channel too, not surprised your here though.. great minds think alike

  • @austinmiller3785
    @austinmiller3785 5 років тому +15

    Facts bro. i want to get to the point where i dont have to go through so much pain in order to change. Thats where red pill knowledge comes into play. I dont always want to walk through the fire in order to change and grow. So far thats how my life has been, it taking lots of damn pain then me finally changing.

    • @StephIsColdG
      @StephIsColdG  5 років тому +8

      You’ll get there bro 🙏🏾💯

  • @deandrejohnson5349
    @deandrejohnson5349 5 років тому +26

    Bro, I'm 30. Please make a part 2 to this. U touched on the surface. Go into how u use certain traumas to push u through the loneliness into alpha land, through the gym, through hard ships and eventually u grow reptile skin

  • @SnookyDre
    @SnookyDre 5 років тому +34

    Thanks G, I really needed to see this video bruh for motivation. I'm on the verge of being homeless in a month, but i'm doing everything humanly possible to prevent that. Walking almost 2 hrs to work almost everyday (6 days out the week), appyling and interviewing for a second job and trying to find a room for rent... All this without a cellphone bruh. But I tell myself everyday I know who I am and what I'm capable of and I want success bad. I'm willing to do anything for that bruh real talk. Thanks for giving me more fuel my fire and I wish you good health, wealth and success in your future man.

    • @Dataisthetruth
      @Dataisthetruth 5 років тому +3

      Keep going bro. You gon look back on this situation and chuckle.

    • @SnookyDre
      @SnookyDre 5 років тому +3

      @@Dataisthetruth Preciate it bruh same to you as well

    • @SnookyDre
      @SnookyDre 5 років тому +5

      @Rlaziken preciate it fam I'm doing hella better now 🙏. I got a good job and crashing on my homie couch till I can find a car and a permanent spot. Still grinding bro

    • @wassilkouraichi1496
      @wassilkouraichi1496 2 роки тому +1

      Hope everything is alright 🙏

    • @SnookyDre
      @SnookyDre 2 роки тому

      @@wassilkouraichi1496 Preciate it, I’m doing better than I was here. But still on the grind, you know how it go. “Jobs not finished.” - Kobe Bryant

  • @ToCxldd
    @ToCxldd 5 років тому +5

    pain is temporary it could last a min a day a hour or even a year but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place

  • @PowerIsWithin
    @PowerIsWithin 5 років тому +7

    “She’s waiting for you to win” that’s the realest you might have to make a video dedicated to that in depth thank you and please

  • @gdreyes5901
    @gdreyes5901 5 років тому +25

    Thanks for the time you put into these videos, Steph! I took a a massive L 2yrs ago with a girl I had a strong connection with, but I walked away and never looked back which was one of the hardest things to do. I'm currently building my business. Still early stages and it's not easy because of the negative thoughts I have. I need to switch my mindset ASAP to motivate myself! You get what you give. Enjoy your day bro!
    P. S. I started working out again, and running which is what I enjoyed doing in the past.

  • @IntrovertRockstar
    @IntrovertRockstar 5 років тому +5

    I listen to this shit while I'm working out

    • @garyhumphrey8798
      @garyhumphrey8798 3 роки тому

      Man you silly.🤣

    • @IntrovertRockstar
      @IntrovertRockstar 3 роки тому

      @@garyhumphrey8798 update I don’t even listen to this shit no more 😭😂😂

  • @curtisthomas4908
    @curtisthomas4908 5 років тому +13

    Man...smdh...you just woke me up on all kind of levels...this hit me in the chest very hard😢😭🗣️✊🏿💪🏿💯

  • @airnardo
    @airnardo 4 роки тому +4

    Steph 🤦🏽‍♂️, left me speechless honestly I’ve been using the pain to grow & im honestly happier I’ve stop fapping stop procrastinating & found my purpose. I’m on my grind 25/9

  • @MinneMinecraft
    @MinneMinecraft 5 років тому +10

    🚨 *Be a simple man of simple methods, but a complex outer shell to humanity. Adversity comes when your doing something correct, continue fighting and if you fall rise again soldier. If you stay on your ass you get shit, you stand up you step above the shit and are closer to the sun, which I call the end goal* 🚨

  • @prod.gregupnext2958
    @prod.gregupnext2958 5 років тому +11

    I needed this i feel like this pain of my homie taking my ex to keep going with my grind 🔥

  • @onmypurpose9075
    @onmypurpose9075 4 роки тому +3

    Using my past experiences for me to come back stronger mentally, physically and financially.

  • @Lemon-rk9hq
    @Lemon-rk9hq 5 років тому +2

    Damn bro this is true the past few years have sucked but I guess it’s getting better had many people turn their backs on me and talk shit about me

  • @johnstamos4325
    @johnstamos4325 5 років тому +2

    That FUCKING BEAT MAN... Gets me every time Cuh!

  • @Deathroll201
    @Deathroll201 5 років тому +4

    Coffee,Hatred,and Pain is what gets me going 💯

  • @maxpainmedia
    @maxpainmedia 5 років тому +42

    That music bro lmaooo i be dying when it comes on

  • @IsaiahHollins
    @IsaiahHollins 5 років тому +7

    I keep the past in my pocket stuck in my wallet is a phat version of myself in middle school. I swore to myself to make it my goal to go against everything I used to be. Consistently hitting the gym, can't stop I came to far to be like everyone else. Majority of my friends are getting phat

  • @DR-ik5vb
    @DR-ik5vb 5 років тому +10

    Damn this hit home

  • @bharris0619
    @bharris0619 5 років тому +5

    At a certain part, Stephon be like...hit that music...

  • @Almightybigboideejay
    @Almightybigboideejay 5 років тому +3

    Wanna know why people don't give af about u because they're on they grind and don't have time to baby u forever u have to give af about yourself not other mfs think just gotta motivate you straight up simple brother u feel me

  • @thejizzle21
    @thejizzle21 4 роки тому +2

    It's like dmx said in the intro to slippin; "to live is to suffer, to survive is to find a meaning in the suffering"

  • @dienekesghost6132
    @dienekesghost6132 4 роки тому +1

    You’re absolutely correct. It’s a gift, that’s the mindset of a winner

  • @michaeljlumpkinesquire
    @michaeljlumpkinesquire 5 років тому +7

    Perfect timing bruh

  • @joshwilliams6517
    @joshwilliams6517 2 роки тому +2

    Dark side motivation. Shadow work fellas

  • @OGTREYD3
    @OGTREYD3 3 роки тому +2

    yo my guy, I felt like I was drifting. got on and scrolled thru plenty of your content, just to find this exact one and this entire video is just as great at this moment, than it was when you originally posted
    BRO! this content is genuine, and most content creators CANNOT say that…keep going man this shit is life changing. 💯

  • @Tonymanero1960
    @Tonymanero1960 5 років тому +1

    Hey Stephon,....another excellent video. Hard to believe that a young black man can inspire a 58 year old white man to continue to push himself to be the best that he can be after marriage, adopting another woman's child, subsequent divorce(by her),and financial ruin 25 years ago. What a joy it is to see a young man giving others the knowledge of someone twice his age. Listen to this man gentlemen,.....he speaks the truth.

    • @eugenesmith7904
      @eugenesmith7904 5 років тому

      Can't lie against the truth this is what's called the game

  • @mr.hajijohnson318
    @mr.hajijohnson318 5 років тому +3

    This came right on schedule! Since I started my #redpill journey, I look back and now realize that everything was just smoke and mirrors, and that a paradigm shift needed to take place...and fast!

  • @MikeyIsChosenByGod
    @MikeyIsChosenByGod Рік тому +1

    This is really motivation fr

  • @nguyenojhgv7970
    @nguyenojhgv7970 5 років тому +2

    Dis shit made me cry 😢🥺🥺 thank u big bro dat real motivation

  • @AHMEDSALEH-dk8ri
    @AHMEDSALEH-dk8ri 3 роки тому +2

    Bro never make video without these tracks its addictive

  • @jiarerusoke
    @jiarerusoke 3 роки тому +2

    One of my favorite vids honestly. I’m on my lunch break and this got me revved up 😤💯🔥

  • @Thechrome22dome
    @Thechrome22dome 5 років тому +2

    You my inspiration bro your videos have me thinking and evaluating my life with women and priorities

  • @asapworldwidezemach5677
    @asapworldwidezemach5677 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you steph for changing my life !!

  • @realkmoney5638
    @realkmoney5638 4 роки тому +1

    We forever capitalizing off pain💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💯

  • @YusefAlim33
    @YusefAlim33 5 років тому +5

    KEEP WORKING NOBODY CARES!!!

    • @YusefAlim33
      @YusefAlim33 5 років тому +1

      DISCIPLINE OVER EVERYTHING

  • @halfcastboygmbh8607
    @halfcastboygmbh8607 2 роки тому +2

    this the video I needed bruh love your videos

  • @YoGGfly
    @YoGGfly 5 років тому +5

    This video came right on time 💪🏽💪🏽

  • @rishenmoodley8463
    @rishenmoodley8463 5 років тому +2

    One of your finest videos Steph! I’m struggling at the moment because of a girl that walked away from me and bailed on me even after telling me for so long how great how I was. The pain is rough bro.

  • @alexanderrodriguez8420
    @alexanderrodriguez8420 5 років тому +2

    Amen bro, I choose to learn and meditate on my pain. I want to let it go and move forward.

  • @malikrashaun
    @malikrashaun 5 років тому +4

    This was the realest video so far my G.

  • @DesertWarriorz
    @DesertWarriorz 5 років тому +4

    "When my friend stole my car" Invisible dagger into the solar plexus, really powerful. When you're strong mentally, life universe has no mercy for you.

  • @briangates1234
    @briangates1234 5 років тому +3

    Probably the best vid I’ve seen of yours my dude. Real game!

  • @jhonnyeskovedo3503
    @jhonnyeskovedo3503 5 років тому +2

    I feal what you are saying.... thanks homie

  • @devinisreal9356
    @devinisreal9356 5 років тому +1

    That beat drop hit hard 5:32

  • @zacharyhodgson3299
    @zacharyhodgson3299 5 років тому +1

    Clinks with three videos in one day. Absolute goat

  • @walterestrada9523
    @walterestrada9523 5 років тому +1

    Pain is in most cases ur blessing in disguise . Use it to fuel you not to consume you . Great video man , been following you for a while now . Amazing content . Pain caused me to be red pilled , found Mgtow and I’m never looking back .

  • @joshwilliams6517
    @joshwilliams6517 3 роки тому

    Chills when he dropped the music in

  • @chasethechosenone8478
    @chasethechosenone8478 5 років тому +1

    You inspire me steph tbh if I never found your videos I would’ve never got in the right mindset or stop being a simp I’ve been red pulled for 2 years now you motivate me bro but the pain I went through is also motivation stay up G.

  • @davidx4096
    @davidx4096 5 років тому +2

    Still feeling the pain from a year ago... Word

  • @visualizeme-tz3ng
    @visualizeme-tz3ng 5 років тому +1

    The realist video you've done.

  • @zayzuess7120
    @zayzuess7120 5 років тому +5

    Needed this bro!

  • @TheGoldMindEffect
    @TheGoldMindEffect 5 років тому +2

    This is Real Talk 💪🏾

  • @dannywilliams2321
    @dannywilliams2321 5 років тому +1

    Talking that Shit let’s goooo!!! 💪🏾💪🏾💯

  • @kobegradford1287
    @kobegradford1287 3 роки тому

    Dis music at the end got me extra motivated

  • @youtubedeletedmycomment6160
    @youtubedeletedmycomment6160 4 роки тому +1

    You saved my life with this one

  • @PowerTowerGR
    @PowerTowerGR 5 років тому +2

    yo stephon i've been watching daily for the past weeks you're really motivating me my G. keep grinding. Salute

  • @youngcravito6648
    @youngcravito6648 4 роки тому +1

    Realest video you ever made G 💯

  • @MegaYoungday
    @MegaYoungday 5 років тому +2

    Much respect bro

  • @babykoshkaedits
    @babykoshkaedits 3 роки тому +1

    DBZ Philosophie right there. Pain was the thing for Goku to go for SuperSaiyan!!

  • @youngking2067
    @youngking2067 4 роки тому +1

    Yes lord 🙏 everything happens for you , not you .

  • @akingmovies2912
    @akingmovies2912 2 роки тому

    Bro I needed this information just in time
    I usually blame myself even other people blame me as well for what I did not even do but my naive self say yes it my fault
    But I am tried of all this no blaming and no more judgeing myself on my past
    I quit

  • @chrissummerour3750
    @chrissummerour3750 3 роки тому

    This was one the realest videos in my opinion

  • @brandonlievano1329
    @brandonlievano1329 5 років тому

    Recently discovered your videos, and I'm loving every single one of them so far. I definitely got some pain, some trauma, and sometimes find myself playing the victim. Fuck that. Time to execute. Pain is the fuel.

  • @johnnyjustice8944
    @johnnyjustice8944 5 років тому +2

    SPEAK ON IT!! THE TRIALS AND TRIBULATIONS BUILD CHARACTER!! It depends upon your self-preservation for results. Either be a Victim or a Viking!!!

  • @uliceschaidez993
    @uliceschaidez993 5 років тому +1

    Grateful for you brotha self motivation is key through all pain blessings for everyone!

  • @JEFFMAN90
    @JEFFMAN90 5 років тому +2

    Great video bro. Keep up the good work.

  • @ronaldmendoza8892
    @ronaldmendoza8892 5 років тому +1

    Facts 💯 facts 💯💪 All facts‼️ I respect this topic 💯 #watdaFukyougondowithyolife

  • @charlymacc3896
    @charlymacc3896 3 роки тому +1

    I was on drugs weed alcohol living off off girls I didn’t like lying to them just not to be alone idk how the fuc i let myself down like that now I’m fighting everyday fuccing day to get better still a lot of work to be done I’m willing to sacrifice my happiness for results

  • @chefslyslyberry7792
    @chefslyslyberry7792 Рік тому

    I went through same shit 100%%

  • @joshwilliams6517
    @joshwilliams6517 4 роки тому +3

    "I had to make it happen."

  • @Blessed_1990
    @Blessed_1990 2 роки тому +2

    Use that pain to motivate you to become the best Alpha version of yourself ❗💯

  • @constituent15
    @constituent15 5 років тому +1

    This video is powerful brother.....

  • @prathamjitsingh905
    @prathamjitsingh905 2 роки тому

    Fkin facts our G. Amazing video mannn

  • @southernbrandz4395
    @southernbrandz4395 4 роки тому

    Bro your good at what you do respect all the way brother I’m going through everything your talking about now I’ve been red pilled for awhile but never killed the beta mindset watch your videos everyday have been hitting the gym everyday and have been on my purpose thanks man your videos was the wake up call I needed

  • @MR.IGETUPTOEARLY
    @MR.IGETUPTOEARLY 5 років тому +1

    BLESSINGS BROTHERS 🙏 🙏 🙏

  • @RemedyEverything
    @RemedyEverything 5 років тому

    Another Steph Classic, good editing and delivery as usual. Let's leave June ontop of our goals. We got it, fuck what's holding us back, dont let the bullshit stop you fellas, your is very powerful make sure you use it right.

  • @Jaded.1
    @Jaded.1 3 роки тому +1

    This video saved my life. Only up from here

  • @MrMJB14
    @MrMJB14 5 років тому +1

    You’re the truth brother !