The Brutal Truths Of Being A Man

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  • @shaqaman1862
    @shaqaman1862 Рік тому +691

    Never Tolerate Disrespect Gentlemen! Walking Away is a Man’s Greatest Strength 🚶🏻‍♂

  • @malone4735
    @malone4735 Рік тому +297

    “All men need to learn that nobody is going to save them or truly cares. Only women, children and dogs are loved and cared for unconditionally.
    Men are only loved and cared for under the condition they can provide something.
    -Chris Rock and Rich Cooper💯

  • @Marl3ycook
    @Marl3ycook Рік тому +240

    “Sometimes you need to suffer and restrict yourself away from all of the worldly things to get better.. to get to the next level”

  • @learnthebasics101
    @learnthebasics101 Рік тому +119

    There's so much power in not giving a f**k. Life as a man is already hard.

  • @malone4735
    @malone4735 Рік тому +237

    “Truth will always be truth, regardless of lack of understanding, disbelief or ignorance.”
    -W. Clement Stone💯

  • @stephann777s14
    @stephann777s14 Рік тому +75

    Steph is here to save us protect this man At all cost

  • @cksochill
    @cksochill Рік тому +118

    Felt that at 13:58 altenator went out on my whip last week. No big deal. Got it towed to the shop/home, picked up a rental and came to work to knock out those 12hrs. Ended up buying the part and putting it in myself to save on labor from the dealership. Life is less stressful when your finances are in order. You just move how you need to when you’ve consistently put in the work. Consistency = affordability

    • @kushkidish
      @kushkidish Рік тому +2

      😂ok

    • @Potatoroomr
      @Potatoroomr Рік тому +4

      Stay the Course keep pushing and educating yourself my G you got infinite riches around you.

    • @cksochill
      @cksochill Рік тому +1

      @@Potatoroomr likewise bro keep on keeping on

    • @coldsolider
      @coldsolider Рік тому +1

      good job chris, keep it up bro !!!

    • @war6nheaven
      @war6nheaven Рік тому

      @@kushkidish😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @say_go_dj
    @say_go_dj Рік тому +228

    Fellas take notes. Steph constantly gives proper motivation BUT YOU STILL HAVE TO PUT IN THE WORK !
    I’m tired of being tired but I’ll never be tired of SELF- IMPROVEMENT

    • @bangclips4018
      @bangclips4018 Рік тому +9

      Thats me bro
      I was never tired to spark up blunts and chill on corners but now the grind is all that is in my brain

    • @KingWilliams661
      @KingWilliams661 Рік тому +2

      Facts 👌💯

  • @New_Creature_
    @New_Creature_ Рік тому +60

    Steph is real because he revels in the fact that nobody is coming to save him. Self-control is complete empowerment.

  • @deanogordon2819
    @deanogordon2819 Рік тому +49

    "You'll be the best or you'll be nothing"-Vegeta

  • @trevor828nc
    @trevor828nc Рік тому +72

    You got to deal with the cards you are dealt that’s facts! The quicker you can accept that. The quicker you can get to work and becoming better. 💪🏿

  • @TheCourageOfBrandonMike
    @TheCourageOfBrandonMike Рік тому +19

    Its hard being a man, but through constant challenges we face increases our masculine energy.

  • @yungrend1582
    @yungrend1582 Рік тому +45

    He brought back the OG music what a great play🔥

  • @weridguyyy
    @weridguyyy Рік тому +12

    As a man nobody cares about your problems we got told the truth

  • @deanogordon2819
    @deanogordon2819 Рік тому +138

    Steph came across my mind day before yesterday and I was wondering when was the last time he posted and now he's back once more. Being a man ain't a walk in the park so just make everyday of being a man counts

  • @bangclips4018
    @bangclips4018 Рік тому +9

    "as a man you just Gon have to accept that you Gon be alone ma nigga"😂😂
    I love how we laugh at our pain

  • @diamantesmith9800
    @diamantesmith9800 Рік тому +5

    I just found out too that it says somewhere in the Bible that God doesn't want us men chasing women. So not only it doesn't feel good to chase women, not only its not good or okay chasing women, but God himself out of his own words don't want none of us men that God created on Earth to be chasing women. God wants us chasing him and to have a better relationship with him💯💯💯💯💯

  • @KOB2063
    @KOB2063 Рік тому +45

    Steph I been watching for 3 years since I got out the army. 4 months ago I left my ex wife and all the stuff I’ve learned made it so simple this time. But the process of breaking beta is HARD ASF.
    I’m well off now. Set for life.

    • @chi-town6305
      @chi-town6305 Рік тому +6

      Salute my man

    • @TheNIKO813
      @TheNIKO813 Рік тому +1

      Before I got out the Army, I’d watch Steph in the B’s. His videos made me think about life fr.

    • @coldsolider
      @coldsolider Рік тому +1

      congratulations on your successes

    • @cfdmedicmikerelfambo688
      @cfdmedicmikerelfambo688 Рік тому +1

      Thank you for your service I feel embarrassed I couldn’t pass the asvab test, But I entered the work force and worked hard, Broke up with my high school sweetheart and was alone for 3 years and met my beautiful wife Nikita and she was a virgin and got me back in church as God Bless with a Good Job As A Chicago Fire Department Ambulance paramedic, I almost messed up my marriage, Because when will make that money women will make they approach and they do it because you are married, women love trying to get a man in a relationship or marriage I was being stupid, But I thank God my wife forgave me because when today are no good, Gen-Z men you got it hard, I’m teaching my son’s and my daughter’s honest hard work doesn’t hurt no one

    • @townbythetown
      @townbythetown Рік тому

      Mind if I ask why you ended up leaving her? I’m in a situation where I should probably do the same. This woman is bringing me down

  • @johnathandavis9098
    @johnathandavis9098 Рік тому +26

    Crazy I work 80+ hours a week and I'm eating rice and chicken breast rn. 😂

    • @leonitus1075
      @leonitus1075 Рік тому +10

      Keep diggin G 💪🏽

    • @4Gway
      @4Gway Рік тому +3

      Rly work 80 hrs a week cuh???? Wats ya job ?

    • @johnathandavis9098
      @johnathandavis9098 Рік тому +14

      @LuhWicc I'm working 2 rn. Shit is tiring mentally and physically but seeing that account build and knowing the goal is what keeps me going.

    • @johnathandavis9098
      @johnathandavis9098 Рік тому +14

      @LuhWicc I'm a lead at a warehouse sitting behind 2 computers all day and my night job I fry, prep and do dishes for $18. Super easy and we get free food. Can't beat that.

    • @terencegordon5631
      @terencegordon5631 Рік тому +2

      @@johnathandavis9098 keep it up. You will see the benefits

  • @TayonJCox
    @TayonJCox Рік тому +2

    "How to become OP early" LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • @Goodgame32
    @Goodgame32 Рік тому +5

    Cutting people off is the best form of protection!

  • @ubermensch6669
    @ubermensch6669 Рік тому +9

    Real strength is from standing on your own ,fighting for your life because it’s the only thing you have that means something

  • @isaiahspencer9022
    @isaiahspencer9022 Рік тому +52

    Man I love being a man

    • @WillieBerryhill
      @WillieBerryhill Рік тому +3

      So trew

    • @Liqo315
      @Liqo315 Рік тому +12

      Facts bro and it's funny how women be saying I wish I was a man🤣😭

    • @isaiahspencer9022
      @isaiahspencer9022 Рік тому +3

      @@Liqo315 Rs but yet can handle the basic premise of being one smh

    • @Liqo315
      @Liqo315 Рік тому +1

      @@isaiahspencer9022 ikr smh

  • @ednarmendez5438
    @ednarmendez5438 Рік тому +37

    Bro Steph ,I used to watch all your videos daily when I was 16-17 and then I felt like I got better wich i did ,all your advice helped ,it helped me deal with life knowing the truths of being a man ,but when everything started going back down and I had forgotten what I learned ,watching you again bro helped me feel hope ,yes we as men are alone ,but knowing there’s other men out there who feel exactly what I feel and especially you who dedicated themselves to sharing the knowledge +pain and hard truths ,it’s truly amazing bro ,I guess you could say you changed my life for the better and at-least definitely improved my mindset ,please don’t ever stop doing this Steph ,because I know there other guys out here like me who were lost and all it takes is for them to run into your videos man ,thank you honestly for everything you do

  • @MasonDillardd
    @MasonDillardd Рік тому +35

    Steph is right. My best friend unalived himself. Gotta keep working. The world keeps going on. The world don’t care about our problems or our mental health. My co workers wife has cancer and he has to keep showing up to work. Missing time away from his wife. Because he has a job to do. The last laugh is self improvement. No matter what we going thru. Gotta keep grinding and working towards our purpose. Wether it’s providing a better life for our family or securing a better future for ourselves.

  • @vibewithhabib425
    @vibewithhabib425 Рік тому +9

    I feel like the UA-cam algorithm been lowkey shadow banning your bro, keep making more content

  • @lindadlamini5621
    @lindadlamini5621 Рік тому +6

    “It’s either you’re gonna cry to quite my nigga or you gon cry to keep goin” felt that😢

  • @TSierra
    @TSierra Рік тому +5

    Ain’t nobody going to come and save you, the only person that’s going to save you is you.

  • @LetMeEatDem
    @LetMeEatDem Рік тому +6

    I’ve been in red pill rage for 2 years. It’s a long road. 23 years of programming to reset.

  • @hyperformp
    @hyperformp Рік тому +14

    This hits every man's soul on another level, it penetrates straight through, damN Steph you a legend!

  • @drekewright1817
    @drekewright1817 Рік тому +7

    Never tolerate disrespect gentleman walking away is the best strength to do and keep it pushing don't stop grind mode 🐐🥶

  • @PridedWaif
    @PridedWaif Рік тому +8

    No matter what failure is not an option. No one really cares about you, but you. Gotta keep going strong.

  • @abdallahsevede6525
    @abdallahsevede6525 Рік тому +1

    I'm so glad the stephiscold beat is back man

  • @loveislifefamilyisbuisness5914
    @loveislifefamilyisbuisness5914 Рік тому +17

    Thank you bro! I needed this motivation today! 💯

  • @crispyngold9181
    @crispyngold9181 Рік тому

    MY GUY IS BACK! LOVE TO SEE IT!

  • @maliqpirtle5288
    @maliqpirtle5288 Рік тому +1

    Its a good day when steph post

  • @MJT187
    @MJT187 Рік тому +2

    Steph back with another banger. Never disappoints🤺

  • @yusufthedon597
    @yusufthedon597 Рік тому +3

    SHOUT OUT G
    You've been killing it
    BIG UP

  • @gerardozelaya7972
    @gerardozelaya7972 Рік тому +2

    This past month has been hard but things are starting to look better… just got to keep pushing thru

  • @twinlive5
    @twinlive5 Рік тому +13

    Good to see you’re still up and striving blood! 💯🙏🏾👌🏾

  • @garthyahudahandrews8504
    @garthyahudahandrews8504 Рік тому +1

    Steph always keeps it a 100hunnit thanks for this message bro

  • @SeryDogma
    @SeryDogma Рік тому +1

    These your best vids by far… talking that good shi and this instrumental in the back just does it

  • @brionmartin5693
    @brionmartin5693 Рік тому +1

    This teaching was on point bro!!! Wow. I'm definitely motivated 💪🏽

  • @MrGeek847
    @MrGeek847 Рік тому +2

    The THEME is back!!! ✊🏾good video!!!

  • @theliquidator8770
    @theliquidator8770 Рік тому +3

    Steph as always man! Thank you bro for your videos they changed my life today am proudly sayin to you.

  • @amindiran5595
    @amindiran5595 Рік тому +5

    This Video Hit Deep. Thanks you Steph 🙏

  • @EricPierce100
    @EricPierce100 Рік тому +2

    He’s back. Glad to see your good bro

  • @Cfn_lamar
    @Cfn_lamar Рік тому +4

    Needed dis one today, the older we get the colder 😴

  • @Movieclips_101
    @Movieclips_101 Рік тому +8

    Facts we have to put in the hard work to achieve the things we want in life and when you master being alone you become a dangerous person and you will have the last laugh in the end 💯💯

  • @gavinx1282
    @gavinx1282 Рік тому +1

    Been tuned since 2019. Steph the goat

  • @Dan-Man53
    @Dan-Man53 Рік тому +4

    Love your content dawg, you got me out of my mental funk today. I can only imagine how many people you are helping on a daily basis!

  • @vsynonum4911
    @vsynonum4911 Рік тому +1

    this instrumental so legendary G , also great video bro

  • @yahkempnewkirk4847
    @yahkempnewkirk4847 Рік тому +1

    This video just changed my life thanks king !!!!!

  • @Camouflage913
    @Camouflage913 Рік тому

    Cold video and the instrumental is back in the background. Love it, my G

  • @alexandertaylor335
    @alexandertaylor335 Рік тому +4

    Good to see a video from you been awhile !!🙌

  • @rarevaldo7129
    @rarevaldo7129 Рік тому +2

    Steph is always here to uplift our spirit. Love you bro

  • @juniorfelix4877
    @juniorfelix4877 Рік тому

    I hear you Stephiscold, keep on doing what you doing. I love it.

  • @gamingrevolution2227
    @gamingrevolution2227 Рік тому +22

    Real talk and very truthful advice steph we must go through the pain until we are dead and gone are job is to get up and get after it regardless of how we feel

  • @chris9527
    @chris9527 Рік тому +1

    Its been a minute steph i don't know why i quit watching you're videos cuz you the truth man i appreciate this video real talk.

  • @MiaDmo
    @MiaDmo Рік тому +2

    sometime i run these videos back jus to stay on point. if u see this some of us need more content like this brodie

  • @limitlessoroosh
    @limitlessoroosh Рік тому +1

    Missed you G, looking good. COLD 🥶

  • @terrywilliams2349
    @terrywilliams2349 Рік тому

    This was 💯💯. We gotta get Colder!!

  • @sylvesterbiersay369
    @sylvesterbiersay369 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this video and for your time and effort and for the knowledge and information and for the truth and for the heads up and for the Insight

  • @austinmiller3618
    @austinmiller3618 Рік тому +22

    Much love steph been here since 500 subscriptions it’s been great to watch you grow & help inspire me to be the coldest version

  • @Kadenxe
    @Kadenxe Рік тому +13

    protect this man at all costs

  • @earthchild04
    @earthchild04 Рік тому +1

    When you made that Superman reference that hit me like 10,000 pianos falling on me. Great video Steph and keep doing what you are doing!

  • @anthonynix9659
    @anthonynix9659 Рік тому +3

    You one the most authentic UA-camrs I’ve listened too bro 💯!! Thanks!! I’m subscribing, can’t wait to hear more

  • @ImGonnaSayTheNWord
    @ImGonnaSayTheNWord Рік тому

    Hell yeah the OG music is back! This track is the. Best one.

  • @contractseasonworldwide9378
    @contractseasonworldwide9378 Рік тому +1

    Glad you back King 🙏🏾💯📶💪🏾

  • @norbertferrellstyles10
    @norbertferrellstyles10 Рік тому +3

    Big facts I’m going through this now but you sometimes you gotta take a step back to slingshot forward. Back to the basics and start putting yourself first

  • @ning726
    @ning726 Рік тому +4

    Your vids are beyond motivating and real

  • @landismithCOJ
    @landismithCOJ Рік тому +7

    Play the hand that you were dealt, but always have an ace available 💯. Thank you, Steph.

  • @ashbrightsamuel2307
    @ashbrightsamuel2307 Рік тому +1

    It's good that you are back to posting my Gee. I hope you have been doing good lately

  • @dholmesjr
    @dholmesjr Рік тому +2

    Facts. Expect to be alone..

  • @davien001
    @davien001 Рік тому +2

    You're an inspiration to me bro, thank you.

  • @distinctive882
    @distinctive882 Рік тому +1

    New intro fire

  • @roodejiidtv
    @roodejiidtv Рік тому +6

    LOVE ALL THE WAY FROM SOUTH AFRICA 🇿🇦❤

  • @duanechurch4490
    @duanechurch4490 Рік тому +6

    Steph, to be real I'm studying to get into the Army and I needed to hear this before I pass the test to get in. I really appreciate you keeping it a buck 💯

  • @kireemhinton2749
    @kireemhinton2749 Рік тому +3

    Please keep this instrumental bro, its your sound foreal! 🔥🔥

  • @zacharymitchell3986
    @zacharymitchell3986 Рік тому +17

    Keep grinding and don’t let anything hold you back from doing so

  • @BigMan3445
    @BigMan3445 Рік тому +4

    Grinding For Legendary Gear. I’m bout to use that as a motto. That makes a lot of sense

  • @acrididi
    @acrididi Рік тому

    Steph is always giving it cold to you and I love it

  • @chris284able
    @chris284able Рік тому +1

    Steph is ‘COLD’. Fr your the coldest my G, keep up the good work👏🏾

  • @curtismadden861
    @curtismadden861 Рік тому +2

    Just had a daughter my first kid 11days ago I needed this fam thanks steph is cold

  • @NOOT803
    @NOOT803 Рік тому +10

    You be right on time Steph 💪🏽

  • @PO-qr2zj
    @PO-qr2zj Рік тому +17

    Genuinely put a smile to my face seeing that you uploaded, was wondering where you been. Welcome back brother!

  • @Alex-zd9tx
    @Alex-zd9tx Рік тому +1

    We all struggling nowadays but we gotta keep shining bright if we improve no matter what happens we will be seen and heard and remembered

  • @julianjones7714
    @julianjones7714 6 місяців тому +1

    Steph this is some of your best work in my humble opinion. Ty, for the content.

  • @emannakins
    @emannakins Рік тому

    This man is spittin once again 💯 talk that talk

  • @OnlySouthSudan
    @OnlySouthSudan Рік тому

    Thanks for bringing back the iconic background music

  • @tiktokatnight7364
    @tiktokatnight7364 Рік тому +2

    This dropped right on time 😮‍💨💯

  • @user-kd7ib7yk7j
    @user-kd7ib7yk7j 10 місяців тому

    Needed this mane . Young black men need this !!! Time to go hard preshate the game steph

  • @terencegordon5631
    @terencegordon5631 Рік тому +4

    I like the way you held yourself accountable too 👏🏾

  • @IsmaelMohatar
    @IsmaelMohatar Рік тому +1

    Keep grinding young kings 💪💪 Our time is going to come

  • @juanchavez4152
    @juanchavez4152 Рік тому

    No excuses felt this one 💯💪

  • @Iggy715
    @Iggy715 Рік тому

    Welcome back Steph, I was worried about you. Slacking with the consistency g, glad you mentioned it

  • @deeday3187
    @deeday3187 Рік тому +3

    I was wondering where you been but I know we all need a break in life fam. Hope all is well.

  • @trillflaco
    @trillflaco Рік тому +8

    my man explained life with video games and i understand exactly what he was sayin, steph the goat

  • @wallstreetvazy151
    @wallstreetvazy151 Рік тому +9

    Stay strong brothers ,my heart bleed fa yall daily 💪🏿

    • @zackp1045
      @zackp1045 10 місяців тому

      Mashallah 🙏🙏🙏

  • @KIDNEPHRITE
    @KIDNEPHRITE Рік тому +8

    Staying on your purpose & always value yourself is two of the most important factors that we must maintain as individuals especially in today’s society with how much distractions there are always love these videos steph nothing in life is guaranteed and absolutely life doesn’t owe you anything so get up and make it happen Keep that mind right always!🙏🏾💯💪🏾