When You Leave The Narcissist!….

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 174

  • @shawnshalik1219
    @shawnshalik1219 3 місяці тому +61

    A Wise Man Once Said “STAY YO Ass OFF THEY SOCIAL MEDIA”🫵🏽

    • @tab6957
      @tab6957 3 місяці тому +6

      Agreed....they put on a show. I made the mistake of letting the narc know I was checking them out and theatrics resumed. Funny how they don't act with affection when no one is looking.Terrell is right, it's a show they put on. In reality they are miserable.

    • @janecampbell5021
      @janecampbell5021 2 місяці тому

      They also block you and have a narcissistic rage when u tell them

  • @theunknown11986
    @theunknown11986 3 місяці тому +22

    Narcissism is really huge among the Black/African communities I've seen. Most don't even know, realize or grasp being a narc.

  • @KarenWalker-pq4vf
    @KarenWalker-pq4vf 3 місяці тому +46

    I left and came back over and over, him begging me back on the merry go round. I finally left FIRST for good. After you leave and settle down, you'll be mad at yourself for putting up with all the BS they dished out. It's sooo obvious now.

    • @tatanishagatewood2426
      @tatanishagatewood2426 3 місяці тому +1

      Facts....

    • @saulescamilla3605
      @saulescamilla3605 2 місяці тому

      Wish i would’ve left but I gave her so many chances and each time she got worse until I got discarded.

  • @Journey4Vitality
    @Journey4Vitality 3 місяці тому +22

    😂😂😂😂 Don’t UNBLOCK THEM. Like Terrell says, once you realize how great you are- you’ll also realize they NEVER deserved you. Stay Strong, Heal & Love someone deserving within time. 😊😊Thanks again for everything, Terrell🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @goddessdiamondaloha888
    @goddessdiamondaloha888 3 місяці тому +37

    “Before they leave yo funky ass” 😂😂😂😂

  • @QueenBee-fg1iz
    @QueenBee-fg1iz 3 місяці тому +16

    His panic pick got tired of him after a year and started calling him out on his crazy, so he started messing with his adult son’s mom. She thought she won the prize, but then he recycled back to the panic pick. I’ve been no contact 2 years and have found peace. They can all have him!

  • @IAmGoodKarma78
    @IAmGoodKarma78 3 місяці тому +10

    He ain't showing nobody cuz he don't want the other supplies to see that shit 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 3 місяці тому +60

    Better be glad someone else got that problem. Cause child that sh*t is hazardous to your health 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @luxbeauty4952
    @luxbeauty4952 3 місяці тому +41

    I tried leaving the narcissist every week. He wanted to inflict the worst kind of trauma because of it. I didn’t know what narcissist was at the time I just thought he was crazy

    • @pallana3701
      @pallana3701 3 місяці тому +10

      Well u were right he is Crazy 😢

    • @luxbeauty4952
      @luxbeauty4952 3 місяці тому +9

      @@pallana3701 when you catch on they don’t always let you go

    • @kimpointer21
      @kimpointer21 3 місяці тому +3

      That’s because he IS!!!!!

    • @tab6957
      @tab6957 3 місяці тому +1

      Kinda the same here. I didn't know he was a Narc. I thought he was crazy too.

    • @Farrah121
      @Farrah121 3 місяці тому +1

      I didn't know I was with one either....at first.

  • @matthewmiller471
    @matthewmiller471 3 місяці тому +9

    Man you ain’t lying about stirring it up without touching the spoon. I’d been no contact with this girl for two months. A month ago I blocked her on social media and mannnn did it hit the fan. I’m getting like ten calls a day all from different numbers, text messages, Facebook messages, fake friend requests, WhatsApp messages etc. then she broke it off with the new supply. These people are predictable as hell.

  • @CrazyKat-TLH
    @CrazyKat-TLH 3 місяці тому +5

    Knowledge is not power, Knowledge applied is power.

  • @BlissfulBundlesgiftshop
    @BlissfulBundlesgiftshop 3 місяці тому +3

    "We don't even dial numbers, we click names" lol

  • @pamelathomas5324
    @pamelathomas5324 3 місяці тому +10

    A panic pic for sure he went to the bottom of the Landfill and picked this one whole gutter rat.

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 3 місяці тому

      That's exactly what he did the lowest of the low 😂😂😂😂

    • @TheVerbalAssassinFAFO
      @TheVerbalAssassinFAFO 3 місяці тому +2

      Same smh. It was the last straw for me. I cussed him out one good time and went radio silent. AND he crossed the line because she also works with us. I'M OUT.

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 3 місяці тому

      @@TheVerbalAssassinFAFO they really don't have a bottom

  • @gdaniale9073
    @gdaniale9073 3 місяці тому +13

    Love it! What a sick bunch of people. I got rid of him… now I’ve been free for a year!! Thank you Terrell!

  • @1111spiritualone
    @1111spiritualone 3 місяці тому +23

    wish i discarded them first but i didn’t know they where a narcissist till after the fact. i didn’t know they would leave. they knew i was sick and tired of them but i thought they was going to work on there behavior. They already had someone lined up and left me for them. #panicpick 😅. best thing i did was go NC
    I been blessed since i went NC. I’m happily dating someone. I’m no longer controlled/manipulated/lied to/cheated on/devalued etc. I don’t have to here them brag all the time or talk about previous supply. I realized I didn’t need them and i have no drama/chaos. I live peacefully
    I stay off they social media!!! Idc who they with or what they doing. they know not to hoover me. 😂😂😂. stay yo butt over there!!!

    • @KayNKateTV
      @KayNKateTV 3 місяці тому +6

      Nice win!!💪🏾🌻 Best thing EVER! The peace is loud at first but becomes soothing when you love on yourself.

    • @elove2.038
      @elove2.038 3 місяці тому +2

      I'm sincerely Happy for you. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️ I know what it's like to feel that way too.

    • @JLUX100
      @JLUX100 3 місяці тому +1

      I'm happy you have peace finally and got away from the abuse!! The abuse never ends and destroys every aspect of your life and being slowly. They're diseases that latch on and try to kill who you are.. . I hope you took a good break before jumping Into another relationship though. You need time alone after these relationships to heal alone for atleast 6 months to a year. This way you can slow your life down and truly heal from the trauma and make sure you don't bring these Traumas into your next relationship which will just hurt your new partner and your relationship which will further hurt you. Anyways, I'm happy you got away and are happy I truly hope this stays this way. I'm happy you got away from the narc ❤ much love and Namaste

    • @1111spiritualone
      @1111spiritualone 3 місяці тому +2

      @@JLUX100 i stayed single 2 years before dating again

    • @JLUX100
      @JLUX100 3 місяці тому

      @@1111spiritualone that's awesome. Good for you, I'm glad to hear you took the time for yourself and I hope you finally feel like yourself again. All of the best to you in life and happiness 💜 much love 🙏🏻🤙🏻🕊️

  • @debbierockz1
    @debbierockz1 3 місяці тому +6

    The ex narc keeps having different spammers and bill collcters call or text me ..I just keep blocking them. I don’t let it get under my skin..it’s very childish to.

  • @KarenWalker-pq4vf
    @KarenWalker-pq4vf 3 місяці тому +13

    Terrell has got this information down!!! This is where you can hear the cold truth. Better listen!!!

  • @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm
    @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm 3 місяці тому +6

    My guy spoke 1,000,000% wit this one 🎯🎯🎯

  • @nicci6139-d1m
    @nicci6139-d1m 3 місяці тому +1

    Yup, she called them "trolls" in her DM's.

  • @zappamann
    @zappamann 3 місяці тому +14

    This may have been the best video you’ve ever put out. Keep this vibe bro. You’re saving lives here.

  • @loveofmylife1578
    @loveofmylife1578 3 місяці тому +9

    They stop at nothing to throw you off track. Don't do it. I promise you'll be pissed off because that's their way of trying to control you still. Best advice is focus on you. They effed over you andit's messed up, but don't feed them any energy negative or positive

  • @marvanewborn2287
    @marvanewborn2287 3 місяці тому +3

    🧐 "YA 'HARD-HEADED'...., 'DISS-O-BEDIENT'!!💥 😂😂🤣😂 THAT WAS "CLASSIC!!"🤣😂🤣

  • @veeizfree7
    @veeizfree7 3 місяці тому +4

    This man speaks the way I need him to speak big bro , uncle ish lol but all facts !!!

  • @elove2.038
    @elove2.038 3 місяці тому +11

    For a minute I forgot that I was grown.😂 It brought me back to the 80's & 90's of my mama scolding me.😂 Terrell had me laughing at the butt dialed part😂😂😂

  • @curli-lettey4319
    @curli-lettey4319 3 місяці тому +10

    Just when you're heating up and saying the raw, that's when the video is about to end.

  • @Joy.1111
    @Joy.1111 3 місяці тому +3

    Dam Straight! They ain’t special.

  • @laustin2832
    @laustin2832 3 місяці тому +7

    I haven’t talked to my ex in over a year. I’m already moved on and married. Yesterday I got a call from a bill collector asking for him. He didn’t have any debt when we broke up 2 years ago because he couldn’t get a credit card, so this is all new nonsense. He ran into my best friend a couple of times and was suddenly so nice, but before the breakup he was always trying to fight my friend for no reason. It’s so crazy that they all do the same goofy stuff. I love this channel. You get into the relatable details that no one else mentions.

    • @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm
      @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm 3 місяці тому +2

      @laustin2832
      Lol facts… the Devil doesn’t know new tricks just new people to try them on

    • @laustin2832
      @laustin2832 3 місяці тому

      @@INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm faaaaacts! You said a word!

  • @latayj
    @latayj 3 місяці тому +3

    Man! All I can say is I love you Terrell! Your delivery on this one was so on point! I needed this so much lol! 😂

  • @nekendracook4914
    @nekendracook4914 3 місяці тому +13

    You be speaking the truth, I really like your page, your so real and on point

  • @lavitawilliams2207
    @lavitawilliams2207 3 місяці тому +5

    Coach Terrell;This Is A Beautiful Message❤
    *All True
    *All Right
    *EVRY WORD ON POINT
    *You Hit The Nail On The Head
    FROM BEGINNING 2END
    *THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR BEING A TREMENDOUS BLESSING❤

  • @lilian2355
    @lilian2355 3 місяці тому +2

    OMG!! So, true!

  • @ladyvirtue650
    @ladyvirtue650 3 місяці тому +3

    OmG! A True Prophet! You are Definitely Spot On 🎯👑

  • @justicebarone6420
    @justicebarone6420 2 місяці тому

    You so right about the fact nobody wants them 😂😂😂

  • @nicci6139-d1m
    @nicci6139-d1m 3 місяці тому +1

    Yup, she thinks because one time we didn't speak for a total of 9 day's that's the threshold for every time we don't speak. However, that is when she reaches out again because she said if she doesn't reach out to me she knew that I wouldn't.

  • @Donnygoinup
    @Donnygoinup 2 місяці тому

    “Ya hard headed, disobedient.”😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ShelovesJesus25
    @ShelovesJesus25 3 місяці тому +1

    There tactics are endless

  • @katiejackson1987
    @katiejackson1987 2 місяці тому +1

    You’re the BEST man on narcs out there! Thank you for making me laugh 😂❤🎉

  • @Kim-jp3oe
    @Kim-jp3oe 2 місяці тому

    😂😂😂😂😂😂” We dont dial numbers no more we click names😂😂😂😂FACTS!!!!

  • @Kim-jp3oe
    @Kim-jp3oe 2 місяці тому

    “My name start with a T MF😂😂😂✨✨✨ I CANT BREATHE 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @anngelaallen
    @anngelaallen 3 місяці тому +1

    This is soooo True, yet entertaining I had to watch this again, your sooo FUNNY 😂😂😂!!

  • @dannaholiday5108
    @dannaholiday5108 3 місяці тому +5

    Yup he told them I was crazy ran his credit up and threatened to kill him🤷🏽‍♀️smh.

  • @cynthiaclark9729
    @cynthiaclark9729 Місяць тому

    He just called telling how so many women are on him. 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @Joy.1111
    @Joy.1111 3 місяці тому +1

    Right!

  • @Kristedlove333
    @Kristedlove333 3 місяці тому +2

    That male narc swear he the shit.. meanwhile he balding on top like u said
    Teeth gray n messed up and bad breath
    Name dropping, strip clubs, chronic gambler, cheater, liar, toxic friends and parents
    Financing a used Tesla and trapping/showing off money (all for supply and self worth) but still living with his devil momma
    Saying he a millionaire but I gotta fight tooth n nails for him to help with our two girls smh
    Dude pushin 40 in couple years Smhh

  • @kenyabishop9417
    @kenyabishop9417 2 місяці тому

    Only time people dont know what they are doing is when they get caught 😂

  • @TheDevineFempress
    @TheDevineFempress 3 місяці тому +1

    To be continued is dope

  • @DeniseHSmith222
    @DeniseHSmith222 3 місяці тому +3

    😂 u so real bro

  • @ShelovesJesus25
    @ShelovesJesus25 3 місяці тому +1

    Regular people 🤣sad truth cause thru definitely not regular

  • @DeniseHSmith222
    @DeniseHSmith222 3 місяці тому +2

    Luv u Big Brother.❤️
    Thank you for keeping it real ❤️🙏🏻❤️

  • @Narc-EXP
    @Narc-EXP 2 місяці тому

    Absolutely brother 💯 with this shit ... The last discards the worse. Bro this is true but funny best to keep it this real

  • @EricStrickland-ct4qj
    @EricStrickland-ct4qj 3 місяці тому +2

    Love your content bro you have really helped me and educated me on this situation

  • @ladies1.0.1.5
    @ladies1.0.1.5 3 місяці тому +1

    You are cracking me all the way up. 🤣🤸🏿‍♂️🥳👑

  • @lilian2355
    @lilian2355 3 місяці тому +1

    Love it!

  • @carloshenry337
    @carloshenry337 2 місяці тому

    I SO GLAD I DISGAURDED THE 304 BUT IT TOOK ABOUT 13 YEARS AND 3 CHILDREN. 🤬.

  • @aliciaseyeviews
    @aliciaseyeviews 3 місяці тому +1

    This clip has me hollerin lmao 😂😂😂

  • @lilian2355
    @lilian2355 3 місяці тому +2

    Freeloaders!

  • @JL-bq8lm
    @JL-bq8lm 3 місяці тому

    Truth!

  • @Therealpercijenkin23
    @Therealpercijenkin23 3 місяці тому +2

    So true 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @1stwastheword893
    @1stwastheword893 3 місяці тому +4

    my x narc reverse discarded me 🫣

  • @ShelovesJesus25
    @ShelovesJesus25 3 місяці тому +1

    You classic‼️‼️‼️ stay your goofy az off they page you can’t say that enough 😅

  • @Farrah121
    @Farrah121 3 місяці тому

    You are so on the money how it goes when they panic and start hoovering.....

  • @Joy.1111
    @Joy.1111 3 місяці тому +1

    💯

  • @AngelaBohn-ed3rd
    @AngelaBohn-ed3rd 3 місяці тому +2

    Yeeess Tyrell ❤

  • @chrtyhwrd
    @chrtyhwrd 19 днів тому

    I was all serious listening to this and omg I just fell out..the no job, no ambition ans no hair on the top of their head. Well, my man has been unemployed for over a year and but sit here trying to dictate what I should do, pick me apart, and criticize my intelligence. He is indeed going bald on the top of his head. Only thing different..he has his nerve to say I'm the reason why his hair falling out. 😮‍💨

  • @ShelovesJesus25
    @ShelovesJesus25 3 місяці тому +1

    You can stir up some shi* and not even touch the spoon🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @THE1804SHOWCHAPTERTWO
    @THE1804SHOWCHAPTERTWO 3 місяці тому +2

    Facts bro

  • @NanashellNanashell
    @NanashellNanashell 3 місяці тому

    I got the message but I'm laughing so hard😂

  • @thepurestbashir-xr5ex
    @thepurestbashir-xr5ex 3 місяці тому

    I waisted10 years of my life and I’m devastated the years have gone and I’m not young I could have met someone good in that time… he was living a double life and he made me sick I went hospital coz he was pushing me away and playing mind games with me

  • @Napoleon-j7d
    @Napoleon-j7d 3 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤love this song into

  • @queenrezilient8609
    @queenrezilient8609 27 днів тому

    Panic pick took me out 😂

  • @Camillyahreal
    @Camillyahreal 3 місяці тому +1

    I remember my bd told his momma I was crazy and told best friend he hate me. Of If I find this out after broke up… for 😌

  • @ShelovesJesus25
    @ShelovesJesus25 3 місяці тому +1

    Not before they discard your funky azz🤣🤣🤣🤣BRAAAAAAA back and forth back and forth whewww LORD so on point I discarded him but like you said I’m a joke still

  • @DeniseHSmith222
    @DeniseHSmith222 3 місяці тому +2

    Rick Flair like 😂😂😂

    • @SusanRenee
      @SusanRenee 3 місяці тому +1

      That had me cracking up!😂

    • @DeniseHSmith222
      @DeniseHSmith222 3 місяці тому +1

      @@SusanRenee I know right. I love him 😍 he funny 😂🤣😂 but he just keeps it real LIKE THE BIG BROTHER I NEVER HAD 😊

  • @ladies1.0.1.5
    @ladies1.0.1.5 3 місяці тому +1

    Unhinged 🤣😂💣💥

  • @loriLolo
    @loriLolo 3 місяці тому +1

    Ya lyin bihh💀

  • @CarlaMcmillion
    @CarlaMcmillion 3 місяці тому +1

    💯🔥✔️

  • @sheliasmith2884
    @sheliasmith2884 3 місяці тому +1

    You know you preached today

  • @prissywilliams7961
    @prissywilliams7961 3 місяці тому

    I'm screaming lololol 😂 no hair on top of their head.

  • @stephybobo1991
    @stephybobo1991 3 місяці тому

    😂😂😂😂😂 im subscribing you funny

  • @michelehoneywood3521
    @michelehoneywood3521 3 місяці тому +1

    SYAOTSM !!!!!

  • @jevonnamcadory5389
    @jevonnamcadory5389 Місяць тому

    Lmao 🤣😂🤣 talk to me bro

  • @Camillyahreal
    @Camillyahreal 3 місяці тому

    Oh man your such a Aquarius ♒️ 😫😁

  • @quintondavis3492
    @quintondavis3492 2 місяці тому

    Lol your little cousin that can’t talk yet! I’m a new subscriber my ex wife is a NARC.

  • @donnettewoods5577
    @donnettewoods5577 3 місяці тому +3

    😂😂

  • @Melissa-y6o
    @Melissa-y6o 18 днів тому

    Making fake accounts, to contact you

  • @Donnygoinup
    @Donnygoinup 2 місяці тому

    Wait a second. Is that your song in the beginning??? Is that you singing???

  • @pjdavis4420
    @pjdavis4420 3 місяці тому +2

    I listen to u I stayed tf off they page n level 🎚️ up

  • @rashidarowe7882
    @rashidarowe7882 3 місяці тому +20

    I left him and it hurt, but I could not take any more of his shit after one year and 7 months, how do people stay with them for years TF, any longer i would be in a mental hospital, I miss him but I miss me more, to hell with his toxic ass.

  • @jamesrichardson4965
    @jamesrichardson4965 3 місяці тому +27

    It's the saying with a narcissist they don't miss the water til the "supply" runs dry. Always give them the one and done treatment. Stay away from the emotional witchcraft.

    • @INFJ2
      @INFJ2 2 місяці тому

      Love that- Emotional Witchcraft. That was gold

  • @helenlesleysmith7559
    @helenlesleysmith7559 3 місяці тому +17

    I did leave been 8 months now.😂No contact I'm proud of myself! Yes it wasn't easy but I did it😅

  • @2remyred
    @2remyred 3 місяці тому +23

    😂😂😂 how you knew my ex didn't have no hair on top of his head. This is on point

    • @lavonnewiley7525
      @lavonnewiley7525 3 місяці тому +7

      Ha! That's the same thing I was thinking 😮😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 3 місяці тому +3

      Yall crazy 😂😂😂😂

  • @Purposeovereverything
    @Purposeovereverything 3 місяці тому +14

    You were cooking bro …. I’m waiting on part 2 😂😂😂

  • @KayNKateTV
    @KayNKateTV 3 місяці тому +18

    “To be continued”! 😩😂

  • @TheVerbalAssassinFAFO
    @TheVerbalAssassinFAFO 3 місяці тому +5

    This was hilarious 😂 That boy be playing phone GAMES frfr. Last time he texted me out the blue with: GM. And then: Is this Chris? I just texted back: Yes (My name isnt Chris) 😂 He didnt say anything else lolol
    A couple months later he successful hoovered me and then told ME how crazy *I* am to answer Yes to the wrong name. He's literally INSANE 🙄

  • @littlegirlmelaninlittlegir995
    @littlegirlmelaninlittlegir995 3 місяці тому +5

    Facts! That new supply gonna feel your absence too! 🙌🏾

  • @LynnFury
    @LynnFury 3 місяці тому +10

    My narcissist kept threatening to leave me for three years but never left. I finally discarded him. No contact for 8 months. He still calls from different numbers and I never answer. It makes him so mad. Then he quit calling again. WTF

    • @Verolv
      @Verolv Місяць тому

      I Been no contact for about 1year and he still calls like a maniac from different numbers hoping I’ll answer !when he discarded me he told me he wanted to be single and he could do better and he was much happier when we didn’t talk 😂😂 but a year and 2 months later this man literally calls everyday ! Smh

  • @STYLISHHILLS
    @STYLISHHILLS 3 місяці тому +2

    This video has me in stitches!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @tamikaspencer4796
    @tamikaspencer4796 3 місяці тому +10

    ❤😂 They got stuff on their social media........stay yo a-- off they social media 😂

  • @Cmtjune5
    @Cmtjune5 3 місяці тому +4

    They will be blocked immediately

  • @MsCReads-jc8dc
    @MsCReads-jc8dc 3 місяці тому +6

    Omg the accuracy of this! His jackass self can kick rocks frfr