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  • Опубліковано 29 гру 2024

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  • @KaySaOnline
    @KaySaOnline Рік тому +17

    I think people need to live with more depth. So many people are wrapped up with surface level understanding of things it perpetuates internal degradation. I like how this man is capable of reflecting and thinking through his own identity as a man.

  • @zamikhayajonas
    @zamikhayajonas 4 місяці тому +1

    Nation need this massage

  • @hughlowe4431
    @hughlowe4431 Рік тому +9

    This is the real , genuine message that every man needs to hear

  • @alwandekhumalo174
    @alwandekhumalo174 Рік тому +5

    This guy is the best

  • @Balance-222
    @Balance-222 Рік тому +21

    Heavy stuff you talking about there ABBA. The way I see it ,we sometimes expect the impossible from our kings we are busy turning them into living corpses,they can hardly breathe. They are not even allowed to express their emotions without being shamed about it. You see these monsters whom are devouring us right now they were created by all of us unfortunately, we have wounded our devine masculine and denied him his femininity which allows him to feel an express all that he wants to express. After all those repressed feelings, emotions,as well his playful nature he becomes a monster. Before we judge men about all his failures to become indoda , let first take responsibility for the part we have played in turning him the way that he is today . One love my people ❤

  • @DingiNqaba
    @DingiNqaba Рік тому +4

    Very deep, people do not understand why I want to go back to the EC and be closer to my kids

  • @odette.p.shongwe8408
    @odette.p.shongwe8408 Рік тому +2

    Food of the soul.we give thanks Abba❤.

  • @eyenavy1711
    @eyenavy1711 Рік тому +1

    this podcast needs more recognition

  • @amolemomhlauli1773
    @amolemomhlauli1773 Рік тому +5

    How I wish this platform could bowl up....Our brothers need to hear this.
    Thank you, ABBA,for the teachings 😊😊

  • @cathrinenzimande8906
    @cathrinenzimande8906 Рік тому +4

    Beautiful message, we need more men like you. Priests and fathers of the home.

  • @younesr2183
    @younesr2183 Рік тому +2

    We miss the foundation that's why we keep falling. Great message, thank you and peace

  • @sihart
    @sihart Рік тому +1

    Great teaching high priest. Thankyou very much for the enlightenment. Uyasivuselela🔥

  • @primorantso7128
    @primorantso7128 Рік тому +9

    The Man or Woman in the mirror knows only Truth. Therefore, one cannot claim to be iNdoda by any physical attributes. Likewise with A Woman.
    Bua Monna

  • @mxcury3472
    @mxcury3472 Рік тому +1

    Masibuyele ebu dodeni ❤ i love this thought provoking conversations we need

  • @masemolampho7564
    @masemolampho7564 Рік тому +1

    Thanks Abba I been looking for this episode

  • @kappawam
    @kappawam 5 місяців тому

    Profound information for the current shape of society.

  • @MarksmanKnowsIt
    @MarksmanKnowsIt 5 місяців тому

    Deep and well-articulated message.

  • @buntun3670
    @buntun3670 Рік тому +2

    Give thanks Abba - here is my little unpopular opinion(borrowed really). I agree 100% ubudoda is communal, it starts from within but confirmed by our actions and in how we manage our environment as PEOPLE. Its a pitty we have the expected group(males) not living up to this as leaders of households.
    I stick to leadership and households because therein lies the issue, we no longer have households led by amadoda, we have deregulated society and a deregulated consumer lifestyle where even sex is a commodity. And its getting cheaper and cheaper by the day. It used to cost the commitment of marriage but now it costs close to nothing as you point it out. Men and women think they are outsmarting each other in this trade but really they are fooling themselves.
    NB: The West is in a difficult time where they no longer have "men and women" defined by what'd between your legs.

  • @katlegomothwa49
    @katlegomothwa49 Рік тому

    Abba , thank you very much

  • @Nawal_SA
    @Nawal_SA 4 місяці тому

    Ndavela nda like before watching❤🎉

  • @matondoalexandre
    @matondoalexandre 2 місяці тому

    this is the time that i need to learn some zulu so i can get the full message!
    Blessing to you!

  • @FeliciaNobukhosiKhumalo
    @FeliciaNobukhosiKhumalo Рік тому

    👏 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 I am so happy you get to use this platform this way, as it will allow you to reduce your injections when having a guest. preach Leader❤

  • @Fezile580
    @Fezile580 Рік тому +1

    I like your analysis of things bhuti wam.

  • @zamikhayajonas
    @zamikhayajonas 4 місяці тому

    Keep educating our brothers they forgot it what it mean

  • @uchihagamer.4867
    @uchihagamer.4867 4 місяці тому +1

    Amen❤

  • @MandlaBonene-ov4tg
    @MandlaBonene-ov4tg Рік тому

    Give thanks for your Enligthment.

  • @awomanmadeyou
    @awomanmadeyou Рік тому

    Abba the conversation as usual has only just begun...

  • @nyashamahleko7007
    @nyashamahleko7007 Рік тому

    This was Deep my Brother. Even me i have Self-reflect on me

  • @bbygzas7990
    @bbygzas7990 Рік тому

    As always....much more love than much love......respect. 😢😢😢

  • @snapper2186
    @snapper2186 5 днів тому

    I totally agree.

  • @thekword5885
    @thekword5885 Рік тому +3

    He needs to have a show discussing the mind and semen ejaculation connection.

  • @KhweziNombembe
    @KhweziNombembe Рік тому

    Beautiful message makwande

  • @tsebolator777
    @tsebolator777 Рік тому

    Respect to brotherman u always drops teachings every aiwa siter di show I gain knowledge

  • @Tefl-Tesol-teacher
    @Tefl-Tesol-teacher Рік тому

    Great one Abba, keep doing the great work ❤❤❤

  • @9twelve
    @9twelve Рік тому +1

    we said✊🏽

  • @Mbalenhle_Salvatoris
    @Mbalenhle_Salvatoris Рік тому

    Preach 🙌🏾

  • @africanliberationstationwi2594

    Greetings My brother. I agree with you 💯 💯💯

  • @tumishangwina848
    @tumishangwina848 Рік тому +1

    Can we please get more information on this topic, especially on relationships. I am a teenager going into my adolescent era, and I am being exposed a lot with what you stated, even more. And my gut feeling always feels weird when I encounter these situations, especially when it comes to a man having a high number of woman, etc. Because that's not me as a person. I would really appreciate it if you'd touch on the topic of relationships and how we are supposed to treat each other, the native African way from the male's perspective and the female's perspective. I'd really appreciate it if you do touch on it.

  • @hlogingwenyama8860
    @hlogingwenyama8860 Рік тому

    More videos like this specifically for teenage boys please

  • @sibusisomotha7145
    @sibusisomotha7145 Рік тому

    May we please get on episode talking and explaining about izithunywa zikamenzi🙏🏽 Give thanks

  • @tulininefor
    @tulininefor Рік тому

    felt like you dropped it too soon....we need more of this I!

  • @isaacmayieka8758
    @isaacmayieka8758 Рік тому +1

    give thanks . wish words indeed .a people without there history and culture is like a dead community

  • @OwethuIDyan-ht5ic
    @OwethuIDyan-ht5ic 3 місяці тому

    🙏🙏

  • @lehlohonolomogadime6161
    @lehlohonolomogadime6161 4 місяці тому

    🖤

  • @100KMKHULUNTSHEBE
    @100KMKHULUNTSHEBE Місяць тому

    Can you please talk about isiphiwo / talent

  • @LeratoFigland
    @LeratoFigland Рік тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @masixolemphati408
    @masixolemphati408 8 місяців тому

    So should i as indoda make the effort to go back to a father that did not raise me, its personal but its a genuine question?

  • @Truly_Unbreakable
    @Truly_Unbreakable 10 місяців тому

    Those are the same principles of a man.

  • @leratomonegi3337
    @leratomonegi3337 Рік тому

    🙌

  • @darianclery4455
    @darianclery4455 Рік тому

    Ok yes

  • @El_royDlamini
    @El_royDlamini 10 місяців тому

    😂😂😂it's always Dlamini what did I do every topic is Dlamini

  • @thewolfshowZA
    @thewolfshowZA Рік тому

    Monna le Ndoda or Indoda, not the same. Nna ke monna cause I have learned.

  • @thaboshikwambane
    @thaboshikwambane 3 місяці тому

    Athi joligamy 😂😂

  • @tshepomotshepana7635
    @tshepomotshepana7635 Рік тому

    Re nna monna when the concept was destroyed. Secondly the concept has been sold that a man is just a provider due to his economic availability. Thirdly it's his sexual standing. We must go back to the Ntu and redescover the meaning to what it means to be a men. Finally let me say this the concept of a man has been dictated by women whom themselves do not know keng monna. Pula

  • @LeratoFigland
    @LeratoFigland Рік тому

    What is your opinion on the sudden surge of men claiming to be polygamists as a way to disguise promiscuous behavior?

    • @unpopularopinion_za
      @unpopularopinion_za  Рік тому +2

      Hi Lerato, you want to miss the next Episode. We feel you will have some thoughts to share afterwards. Thank you for watching as always 🌍🤎

  • @GSMMbizana
    @GSMMbizana Рік тому

    🕯️🥋

  • @RainEmpress888
    @RainEmpress888 Рік тому

    I've heard someone say "a re sana bo Ntate, ke banna fela...ba nna" basically translating to everything you are speaking to in this video. Men are really sleeping on themselves therefore sleeping on us as women and daughters. Go senyegile ka nnete

  • @nkosivumilesizwesihlangane27i

    Wena TshayiNgwe kudala ndiyilindele lencoko and andikayimameli yonke

  • @shaunwordplay3111
    @shaunwordplay3111 Рік тому

    I love this. Lol why did you have to say uDlamini. Anyway women are born women, men become men but unfortunately not all men become this.

  • @brownzhou1636
    @brownzhou1636 Рік тому

    Sbonge ayah

  • @ngakabulelani2682
    @ngakabulelani2682 10 місяців тому

    Camagu

  • @thelionofjudahfakenews9456
    @thelionofjudahfakenews9456 Рік тому +2

    Am a from the Caribbean i dont understand the African language parts..wish i good get a translation r a sid of wall u all saying.. respect to the Chanel

    • @unpopularopinion_za
      @unpopularopinion_za  Рік тому

      Thank you for taking your time and watching. We are working on adding subtitles on episodes more consistently. We hope to have funds to get someone to do these full-time, we will get there soon.