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  • @organicafricanparadigm
    @organicafricanparadigm Рік тому +6

    Wisdom is honey to the wise and bitter medicine to the unwise

  • @sibongilendzena2020
    @sibongilendzena2020 Рік тому +3

    Abba Ayalew mi link you on point, I worked at the correctional facility my finds were the same. Mind you, that was 12 years ago.

  • @galaletsanggaopelo8552
    @galaletsanggaopelo8552 Рік тому +7

    Thanks for sharing your knowledge and wisdom with us, much appreciated 💯🙏

  • @philanishinga2152
    @philanishinga2152 Рік тому +1

    This is deep King Men are the reason for a child to take a wrong path...Give Thanks.

  • @CelestialShaman44
    @CelestialShaman44 Рік тому +2

    This applies across the waters of the Americas '. The truth is the antidote to the healing.

  • @swiingombe6133
    @swiingombe6133 Рік тому +1

    You are so good my brother, you are good at lecturing

  • @kealebogalekagane-hz5zo
    @kealebogalekagane-hz5zo Рік тому +3

    Greatings Am a boy who was born and raised in a small town named kagiso in gauteng and according the the knowledge and wisdom I just grabbed in a short period of time, I do not know who am I .
    So my question is how would I know my self if both my parents are lost and they do not know who they are .

  • @herburnedutainment4668
    @herburnedutainment4668 Рік тому +1

    The ability to respond to a situation we created......it's only fair.

  • @Midmayrza
    @Midmayrza Рік тому +4

    More videos please... We dying of thirst 🤤📖♥️

  • @mathiusbizinesi2482
    @mathiusbizinesi2482 3 місяці тому

    Well said Abba

  • @Mansahx
    @Mansahx Рік тому +2

    Well said👏🏾👏🏾

  • @God_is_an_Atheist666
    @God_is_an_Atheist666 Рік тому +13

    The problem I'm finding amongst those that speak about spirit they think there is a formula and an actual algorithm to spirituality. Fathers should be present no doubt about that. Speaking from my own perspective I was never meant to carry my father's last name never in a million years my brother and I are the only ones left to carry the my grandfather's last name. The smartest man in the world knows we don't know anything.

    • @ayalehuamlaksekhemankhamun
      @ayalehuamlaksekhemankhamun Рік тому +2

      I didn't speak about last names. The last name/surname is a foreign concept to us Bantu. We never had last names but iziThakazelo/iziDuko/Direto and Diboko/iziBongo/iziThutho.

    • @God_is_an_Atheist666
      @God_is_an_Atheist666 Рік тому +4

      @@ayalehuamlaksekhemankhamun unfortunately they are meshed into our way of life now and to discount that would be disingenuous. The reason why our spiritual ways of life have survived this long is because it's not rigid it can configurate itself to survive trauma and changing times. The disfunction of men in today's society has little(I will concede some cases) to nothing to do with not knowing their father. That approach fixes nothing and isn't based in the immediate reality. The real question is how well rooted are those men spiritually to which ever side they have access to whether it be the paternal or maternal.

    • @BaskervilleGroup
      @BaskervilleGroup Рік тому

      A person is made up of 4 surnames so Amathonga ayi 4 from mother and father combined

    • @thozamafunwayo2099
      @thozamafunwayo2099 Рік тому +1

      Ubunyanga has nothing to do with mother and father. This surname thing is an excuse. The spirit works independently, it doesn't know these labels we give ourselves. The realm of memories is one thing that the nation still needs to transcend. There are people who grew up with fathers yet they wish they never had them. They grow up to be even dumber abanye. The thing of spirit has nothing to do with a father, far from even. The ego of patriarchy needs to dies, so as that one of matriatchy. We think we are so important with our system of labels the spirit doesn't even care. We will die a million times spirit will not even notice. The father figure thing is just ego based consciousness. Actually a father, lol, a father could never have to do with Spirit. My unpopular opinion. We download secrets & knowledge from the Akasia and the field doesn't ask us our surname labels. We travel through time and reach within the womb itself that is outside time and yet that dimension doesn't demand surname labels from us. It is irrelevant it actually doesn't exist there. There are secret doctrines that fathers can never even know. We shouldn't even speak so much of spirituality actually. This thing has its own language. It knows not our culture and traditions. Our surnames and what nots are yet another reality we must transcend before spirit can manifest freely within and without us. 'Spirituality' is the final block to wake up from and transcend. Even in our most intelligent grammar and concepts, we can never speak on behalf of spirit. At the level we are in, truly we are just irrelevant to it.

  • @jahknowphoenix3094
    @jahknowphoenix3094 Рік тому

    JAH Guide n Protect more Love Stay strong Working

  • @DeejayMt_RSA
    @DeejayMt_RSA Рік тому +1

    Amen kuyezwakala but also leave a room in terms of parents must also understand ukuthi ingane bayigadisiwe ngoba inabanikazj bayo,uma ingane isihlupha intshontsha yenza konke that's sometimes is a sign of umnikazi showing his self ukuthi ufuna ukuya kubo as in the paternal side kuyenzeka futhi ingane imazi ubaba iludinge usizo le maternal side meaning parents must also be acceptive that bagadisiswe abantwana akubona ababo if they fight that ngezimfuno zabo it can sometimes cost a life.njengokushintsha,isibongo sako mama uye kwesako baba ngoba ufuna ukuba nabafowenu. Kuyabashaya abanye,abanye kuyabalimaza

  • @shaboog2644
    @shaboog2644 Рік тому +2

    I have not watched the video yet. I was wondering about classical Afrikan Rearing and DISCIPLINE OLD WAYS so if this was not covered please please do a class on Classical Afrikan ways of rearing and disciplining our little boys in particular🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

    • @Tha-Rock
      @Tha-Rock Рік тому

      It's in the 42 laws of Ma'at.

    • @shaboog2644
      @shaboog2644 Рік тому

      @@Tha-Rock ok thank you

  • @kannelixelixir3592
    @kannelixelixir3592 Рік тому

    Thank you my Elder.

  • @thembazincume6652
    @thembazincume6652 Рік тому +1

    Wangishaya namhlanje 🙌

  • @siyabulelavelebayi1863
    @siyabulelavelebayi1863 Рік тому +1

    Injalo my King

  • @nomondesolontsi9661
    @nomondesolontsi9661 Рік тому

    Abanye abomama mawungaphethanga luthu abafuni ubone umntwana ,ngalesosikhathi ubaba akasebenzi akanayo vele imali 😢okunye abomama abana fair

  • @Silojehuti
    @Silojehuti Рік тому

    Silo saManzi🙏🏿

  • @nkonzoimbikatikati9434
    @nkonzoimbikatikati9434 5 місяців тому

    Can you please tell us where you can be found we need ur help ...Please sir explain me if Mother is maried to other man and there come me as ivezandlebe likuphi elam ikhaya ndirongo xa ndilandela icala lakulo Baba

  • @senzomajola6805
    @senzomajola6805 Рік тому

    Kuyafana noma obaba bengakhona ezimpilweni zabantwana, imfundiso esiyincela esikoleni, kumabonakude nasemphakathini ikhiqiz' amadoda ayiziyoyoyo...inkinga yethu inkulu kakhulu!!!

  • @thabangnqini-qk7pe
    @thabangnqini-qk7pe Рік тому +4

    I hear you my brother. In some cases you will find out the mother of the child deprives access to the child. I was assaulted and given death threats for trying to connect with my child.

  • @ruthhannahisrael
    @ruthhannahisrael Рік тому +2

    It's not every where women hid the children's father in Jamaica most fathers don't want to be apart of their children lives

  • @bosstalkwithloskie
    @bosstalkwithloskie Рік тому

    I WANT TO LEARN THIS LANGUAGE SO BAD

  • @My_name000Y
    @My_name000Y 3 місяці тому

    "YEEEEEEEEEYYY"

  • @moyahabopride3484
    @moyahabopride3484 Рік тому +1

    Please interview zamalek Giza

  • @SebabatsoAgnes-ct7qm
    @SebabatsoAgnes-ct7qm Рік тому

    Saubona baba. In a case where woman was raped how can a child find hus or her identity...please help to unpack that.

  • @kgomotsomashilane5194
    @kgomotsomashilane5194 Рік тому

    🎯

  • @billy_mdledle07
    @billy_mdledle07 Рік тому

    💯

  • @makhuphukamnguni9782
    @makhuphukamnguni9782 Рік тому

    What should we do Master as the children that were born like that. Now we have the issue of our children are going through same thing

    • @ayalehuamlaksekhemankhamun
      @ayalehuamlaksekhemankhamun Рік тому

      Try to reconnect with your people that is the only way to correct that issue. Should it happen that they are unavailable, then you can ask your people's names sake for help.

  • @emaransat3972
    @emaransat3972 6 місяців тому

    The question I have is what if you don’t know the people of your children Father family. Context, I am widow lost my husband in 2022 they were a very small family infact all of them in my husband father side passed away to give me umnombo of his family. For now my boys know who their father was and what is the clan name of his father further to that I don’t know.

  • @ntokozomncube9059
    @ntokozomncube9059 7 місяців тому

    It's a problem to most of us

  • @tlousetati1937
    @tlousetati1937 Рік тому +2

    The patriarchy in this opinion 😐.

  • @primorantso7128
    @primorantso7128 Рік тому

    Abo Baba...Re kopa boNtate e be boNtate fullstop

  • @kingAce3112
    @kingAce3112 Рік тому

    Camagu King

  • @LungeloNgema-pb4zl
    @LungeloNgema-pb4zl 3 місяці тому

    Ay uyageja Abba, but i understand ngoba ungumxhosa, thina kwa Zulu sinemi Lanjwana, uyaphelela nje ko Malume , ube intsika yomuzi ka Mkhulu wakho, baningi bezbuyisela kobaba babo izinto zibhede.

  • @p.m.w.entertainment
    @p.m.w.entertainment Рік тому

    @unpopularopinion I need to talk to silo samandzi it's urgent

  • @oscarsetswalo369
    @oscarsetswalo369 Рік тому +1

    Camagu Kehla

  • @mogalekganya
    @mogalekganya Рік тому

    👏👏

  • @liziwentshengulana2040
    @liziwentshengulana2040 7 місяців тому

    Thanks for your enlightening opinions. Regarding fathers I know for a fact that ALL humans have matriachal mitochondria. All kids of unmarried mothers belong to their mothers. Patriarchy is a product of misogynistic tendencies brought by colonialists. The problem you are talikng about is a failure yoomalume. A mother has a womb & as a nurturer is given a child as a gift. You cannot turn a boyfriend into a fathers. Fathers are those who acceot the respinsibility. In magistrate courts the problems discussed are partenal never maternal. Forcing the issue of wanting to make boyfriends fathers will never solve the problem . Men can have 100 kids a year, mothers CANNOT for a reason. Children belong to mothers not fathers. Can a father with 100 kids father them? We are siblinga becoz we share our mother's womb ONLY.

  • @lowegoddess3062
    @lowegoddess3062 Рік тому

    Now why are we blaming victims, to build African families is create new system no more sex before marriage that way every person born will have both parents it’s that simple.

    • @BaskervilleGroup
      @BaskervilleGroup Рік тому

      That does not guarantee a future for child. Reality works way differently

  • @paipai9545
    @paipai9545 Рік тому +4

    It's not the same without Ntsiki Mazwai shame. Because uTata lona he has a habit of boxing African Spirituality. I feel he doesn't do enough research on matters he does not know. Anyway Great advise there.

    • @rMalingaT
      @rMalingaT Рік тому +1

      Can we rise above personalities and respect the platforms host. Help me understand how he boxes African spirituality; he has expansive knowledge and is well aware that many healers themselves come from different perspectives and experiences, morso nowadays when so many persons are being initiated in so many different ways... He is an Inyanya/herbalist himself by the way.

    • @ramsestebogo1041
      @ramsestebogo1041 Рік тому

      An Opinion should be taken as that and not be seen or considered as an Absolute.

    • @sibongilendzena2020
      @sibongilendzena2020 Рік тому

      How does he box spirituality???

    • @sibongilendzena2020
      @sibongilendzena2020 Рік тому

      Hence, I am asking how can he contain spirituality???

    • @herburnedutainment4668
      @herburnedutainment4668 Рік тому +5

      i believe he is giving more than Ntsiki.

  • @Mel0UltraMel
    @Mel0UltraMel Рік тому +1

    Men are negligent

  • @molefileroynhlapo5981
    @molefileroynhlapo5981 Рік тому +2

    #MyUnpopularOpinion.....I diagree with you when you say "you don't are related to your mom". that is scientifically and spiritual incorrect. For anything to come to existance it needs two elements, meaning it will inharete from both parties to stick balance. We all know this fact from science to spirituality. so now how are you not related to your mom when you have her DNA, meaning you have everything that is coded in her (Spiritually and Scientifically). Even children who are deprived to visit their mothers home they go through a certain suffering. why, because there is no balance. As children we relate with everybody from mother side and father side, left need right, right need left. Yin and Yang. I think you should go apology to your mom #jokingly.

    • @rMalingaT
      @rMalingaT Рік тому

      Yes, I found that part odd; unless he was suggesting the relationship between a married person to their parents, as in now having formed a ''new'' family, with his children born from his wife...??? Even then, his mothers' DNA runs through him totally. He really needs to clarify how he is not then related to mother.

    • @ayalehuamlaksekhemankhamun
      @ayalehuamlaksekhemankhamun Рік тому +9

      If you listen to the words used to call the people on your mother's side of the family they all relate to your mother and never to you. Like malume, mmane, mamncane etc, whereas your fathers siblings are all call father eg, Rrakgadi, Dadobawo, Babomncane etc. Secondly all cousins on you mother's side are called KaNina meaning of my mother while all cousins on father's side are Mzala meaning one I am born with. It's all in the languages we speak

    • @molefileroynhlapo5981
      @molefileroynhlapo5981 Рік тому

      @@ayalehuamlaksekhemankhamun I hear you that its all in the language but it doesn't show you not being related to your mother side of people. with no argument everything that has made you as a person you are relatively related to it. How you call each other doesn't show anything of you not being related, its just showing how you are related to each other , like from which side of part of me do i relate with them , example When I call Malume it simply indictate that I relate with him from the side of my mother , meaning the feminine energy that has made me .

    • @molefileroynhlapo5981
      @molefileroynhlapo5981 Рік тому

      According to my understanding nothing come to existance by itself and everything that made someone to come to existance it is related to it.