Greatings Am a boy who was born and raised in a small town named kagiso in gauteng and according the the knowledge and wisdom I just grabbed in a short period of time, I do not know who am I . So my question is how would I know my self if both my parents are lost and they do not know who they are .
The problem I'm finding amongst those that speak about spirit they think there is a formula and an actual algorithm to spirituality. Fathers should be present no doubt about that. Speaking from my own perspective I was never meant to carry my father's last name never in a million years my brother and I are the only ones left to carry the my grandfather's last name. The smartest man in the world knows we don't know anything.
I didn't speak about last names. The last name/surname is a foreign concept to us Bantu. We never had last names but iziThakazelo/iziDuko/Direto and Diboko/iziBongo/iziThutho.
@@ayalehuamlaksekhemankhamun unfortunately they are meshed into our way of life now and to discount that would be disingenuous. The reason why our spiritual ways of life have survived this long is because it's not rigid it can configurate itself to survive trauma and changing times. The disfunction of men in today's society has little(I will concede some cases) to nothing to do with not knowing their father. That approach fixes nothing and isn't based in the immediate reality. The real question is how well rooted are those men spiritually to which ever side they have access to whether it be the paternal or maternal.
Ubunyanga has nothing to do with mother and father. This surname thing is an excuse. The spirit works independently, it doesn't know these labels we give ourselves. The realm of memories is one thing that the nation still needs to transcend. There are people who grew up with fathers yet they wish they never had them. They grow up to be even dumber abanye. The thing of spirit has nothing to do with a father, far from even. The ego of patriarchy needs to dies, so as that one of matriatchy. We think we are so important with our system of labels the spirit doesn't even care. We will die a million times spirit will not even notice. The father figure thing is just ego based consciousness. Actually a father, lol, a father could never have to do with Spirit. My unpopular opinion. We download secrets & knowledge from the Akasia and the field doesn't ask us our surname labels. We travel through time and reach within the womb itself that is outside time and yet that dimension doesn't demand surname labels from us. It is irrelevant it actually doesn't exist there. There are secret doctrines that fathers can never even know. We shouldn't even speak so much of spirituality actually. This thing has its own language. It knows not our culture and traditions. Our surnames and what nots are yet another reality we must transcend before spirit can manifest freely within and without us. 'Spirituality' is the final block to wake up from and transcend. Even in our most intelligent grammar and concepts, we can never speak on behalf of spirit. At the level we are in, truly we are just irrelevant to it.
Amen kuyezwakala but also leave a room in terms of parents must also understand ukuthi ingane bayigadisiwe ngoba inabanikazj bayo,uma ingane isihlupha intshontsha yenza konke that's sometimes is a sign of umnikazi showing his self ukuthi ufuna ukuya kubo as in the paternal side kuyenzeka futhi ingane imazi ubaba iludinge usizo le maternal side meaning parents must also be acceptive that bagadisiswe abantwana akubona ababo if they fight that ngezimfuno zabo it can sometimes cost a life.njengokushintsha,isibongo sako mama uye kwesako baba ngoba ufuna ukuba nabafowenu. Kuyabashaya abanye,abanye kuyabalimaza
I have not watched the video yet. I was wondering about classical Afrikan Rearing and DISCIPLINE OLD WAYS so if this was not covered please please do a class on Classical Afrikan ways of rearing and disciplining our little boys in particular🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Can you please tell us where you can be found we need ur help ...Please sir explain me if Mother is maried to other man and there come me as ivezandlebe likuphi elam ikhaya ndirongo xa ndilandela icala lakulo Baba
I hear you my brother. In some cases you will find out the mother of the child deprives access to the child. I was assaulted and given death threats for trying to connect with my child.
Try to reconnect with your people that is the only way to correct that issue. Should it happen that they are unavailable, then you can ask your people's names sake for help.
The question I have is what if you don’t know the people of your children Father family. Context, I am widow lost my husband in 2022 they were a very small family infact all of them in my husband father side passed away to give me umnombo of his family. For now my boys know who their father was and what is the clan name of his father further to that I don’t know.
Ay uyageja Abba, but i understand ngoba ungumxhosa, thina kwa Zulu sinemi Lanjwana, uyaphelela nje ko Malume , ube intsika yomuzi ka Mkhulu wakho, baningi bezbuyisela kobaba babo izinto zibhede.
Thanks for your enlightening opinions. Regarding fathers I know for a fact that ALL humans have matriachal mitochondria. All kids of unmarried mothers belong to their mothers. Patriarchy is a product of misogynistic tendencies brought by colonialists. The problem you are talikng about is a failure yoomalume. A mother has a womb & as a nurturer is given a child as a gift. You cannot turn a boyfriend into a fathers. Fathers are those who acceot the respinsibility. In magistrate courts the problems discussed are partenal never maternal. Forcing the issue of wanting to make boyfriends fathers will never solve the problem . Men can have 100 kids a year, mothers CANNOT for a reason. Children belong to mothers not fathers. Can a father with 100 kids father them? We are siblinga becoz we share our mother's womb ONLY.
Now why are we blaming victims, to build African families is create new system no more sex before marriage that way every person born will have both parents it’s that simple.
It's not the same without Ntsiki Mazwai shame. Because uTata lona he has a habit of boxing African Spirituality. I feel he doesn't do enough research on matters he does not know. Anyway Great advise there.
Can we rise above personalities and respect the platforms host. Help me understand how he boxes African spirituality; he has expansive knowledge and is well aware that many healers themselves come from different perspectives and experiences, morso nowadays when so many persons are being initiated in so many different ways... He is an Inyanya/herbalist himself by the way.
#MyUnpopularOpinion.....I diagree with you when you say "you don't are related to your mom". that is scientifically and spiritual incorrect. For anything to come to existance it needs two elements, meaning it will inharete from both parties to stick balance. We all know this fact from science to spirituality. so now how are you not related to your mom when you have her DNA, meaning you have everything that is coded in her (Spiritually and Scientifically). Even children who are deprived to visit their mothers home they go through a certain suffering. why, because there is no balance. As children we relate with everybody from mother side and father side, left need right, right need left. Yin and Yang. I think you should go apology to your mom #jokingly.
Yes, I found that part odd; unless he was suggesting the relationship between a married person to their parents, as in now having formed a ''new'' family, with his children born from his wife...??? Even then, his mothers' DNA runs through him totally. He really needs to clarify how he is not then related to mother.
If you listen to the words used to call the people on your mother's side of the family they all relate to your mother and never to you. Like malume, mmane, mamncane etc, whereas your fathers siblings are all call father eg, Rrakgadi, Dadobawo, Babomncane etc. Secondly all cousins on you mother's side are called KaNina meaning of my mother while all cousins on father's side are Mzala meaning one I am born with. It's all in the languages we speak
@@ayalehuamlaksekhemankhamun I hear you that its all in the language but it doesn't show you not being related to your mother side of people. with no argument everything that has made you as a person you are relatively related to it. How you call each other doesn't show anything of you not being related, its just showing how you are related to each other , like from which side of part of me do i relate with them , example When I call Malume it simply indictate that I relate with him from the side of my mother , meaning the feminine energy that has made me .
Wisdom is honey to the wise and bitter medicine to the unwise
Abba Ayalew mi link you on point, I worked at the correctional facility my finds were the same. Mind you, that was 12 years ago.
Thanks for sharing your knowledge and wisdom with us, much appreciated 💯🙏
This is deep King Men are the reason for a child to take a wrong path...Give Thanks.
This applies across the waters of the Americas '. The truth is the antidote to the healing.
You are so good my brother, you are good at lecturing
Greatings Am a boy who was born and raised in a small town named kagiso in gauteng and according the the knowledge and wisdom I just grabbed in a short period of time, I do not know who am I .
So my question is how would I know my self if both my parents are lost and they do not know who they are .
The ability to respond to a situation we created......it's only fair.
More videos please... We dying of thirst 🤤📖♥️
There is a lot keep checking
Well said Abba
Well said👏🏾👏🏾
The problem I'm finding amongst those that speak about spirit they think there is a formula and an actual algorithm to spirituality. Fathers should be present no doubt about that. Speaking from my own perspective I was never meant to carry my father's last name never in a million years my brother and I are the only ones left to carry the my grandfather's last name. The smartest man in the world knows we don't know anything.
I didn't speak about last names. The last name/surname is a foreign concept to us Bantu. We never had last names but iziThakazelo/iziDuko/Direto and Diboko/iziBongo/iziThutho.
@@ayalehuamlaksekhemankhamun unfortunately they are meshed into our way of life now and to discount that would be disingenuous. The reason why our spiritual ways of life have survived this long is because it's not rigid it can configurate itself to survive trauma and changing times. The disfunction of men in today's society has little(I will concede some cases) to nothing to do with not knowing their father. That approach fixes nothing and isn't based in the immediate reality. The real question is how well rooted are those men spiritually to which ever side they have access to whether it be the paternal or maternal.
A person is made up of 4 surnames so Amathonga ayi 4 from mother and father combined
Ubunyanga has nothing to do with mother and father. This surname thing is an excuse. The spirit works independently, it doesn't know these labels we give ourselves. The realm of memories is one thing that the nation still needs to transcend. There are people who grew up with fathers yet they wish they never had them. They grow up to be even dumber abanye. The thing of spirit has nothing to do with a father, far from even. The ego of patriarchy needs to dies, so as that one of matriatchy. We think we are so important with our system of labels the spirit doesn't even care. We will die a million times spirit will not even notice. The father figure thing is just ego based consciousness. Actually a father, lol, a father could never have to do with Spirit. My unpopular opinion. We download secrets & knowledge from the Akasia and the field doesn't ask us our surname labels. We travel through time and reach within the womb itself that is outside time and yet that dimension doesn't demand surname labels from us. It is irrelevant it actually doesn't exist there. There are secret doctrines that fathers can never even know. We shouldn't even speak so much of spirituality actually. This thing has its own language. It knows not our culture and traditions. Our surnames and what nots are yet another reality we must transcend before spirit can manifest freely within and without us. 'Spirituality' is the final block to wake up from and transcend. Even in our most intelligent grammar and concepts, we can never speak on behalf of spirit. At the level we are in, truly we are just irrelevant to it.
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Amen kuyezwakala but also leave a room in terms of parents must also understand ukuthi ingane bayigadisiwe ngoba inabanikazj bayo,uma ingane isihlupha intshontsha yenza konke that's sometimes is a sign of umnikazi showing his self ukuthi ufuna ukuya kubo as in the paternal side kuyenzeka futhi ingane imazi ubaba iludinge usizo le maternal side meaning parents must also be acceptive that bagadisiswe abantwana akubona ababo if they fight that ngezimfuno zabo it can sometimes cost a life.njengokushintsha,isibongo sako mama uye kwesako baba ngoba ufuna ukuba nabafowenu. Kuyabashaya abanye,abanye kuyabalimaza
I have not watched the video yet. I was wondering about classical Afrikan Rearing and DISCIPLINE OLD WAYS so if this was not covered please please do a class on Classical Afrikan ways of rearing and disciplining our little boys in particular🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
It's in the 42 laws of Ma'at.
@@Tha-Rock ok thank you
Thank you my Elder.
Wangishaya namhlanje 🙌
Injalo my King
Abanye abomama mawungaphethanga luthu abafuni ubone umntwana ,ngalesosikhathi ubaba akasebenzi akanayo vele imali 😢okunye abomama abana fair
Silo saManzi🙏🏿
Can you please tell us where you can be found we need ur help ...Please sir explain me if Mother is maried to other man and there come me as ivezandlebe likuphi elam ikhaya ndirongo xa ndilandela icala lakulo Baba
Kuyafana noma obaba bengakhona ezimpilweni zabantwana, imfundiso esiyincela esikoleni, kumabonakude nasemphakathini ikhiqiz' amadoda ayiziyoyoyo...inkinga yethu inkulu kakhulu!!!
I hear you my brother. In some cases you will find out the mother of the child deprives access to the child. I was assaulted and given death threats for trying to connect with my child.
It's not every where women hid the children's father in Jamaica most fathers don't want to be apart of their children lives
I WANT TO LEARN THIS LANGUAGE SO BAD
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Please interview zamalek Giza
Saubona baba. In a case where woman was raped how can a child find hus or her identity...please help to unpack that.
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What should we do Master as the children that were born like that. Now we have the issue of our children are going through same thing
Try to reconnect with your people that is the only way to correct that issue. Should it happen that they are unavailable, then you can ask your people's names sake for help.
The question I have is what if you don’t know the people of your children Father family. Context, I am widow lost my husband in 2022 they were a very small family infact all of them in my husband father side passed away to give me umnombo of his family. For now my boys know who their father was and what is the clan name of his father further to that I don’t know.
It's a problem to most of us
The patriarchy in this opinion 😐.
Abo Baba...Re kopa boNtate e be boNtate fullstop
Camagu King
Ay uyageja Abba, but i understand ngoba ungumxhosa, thina kwa Zulu sinemi Lanjwana, uyaphelela nje ko Malume , ube intsika yomuzi ka Mkhulu wakho, baningi bezbuyisela kobaba babo izinto zibhede.
@unpopularopinion I need to talk to silo samandzi it's urgent
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Thanks for your enlightening opinions. Regarding fathers I know for a fact that ALL humans have matriachal mitochondria. All kids of unmarried mothers belong to their mothers. Patriarchy is a product of misogynistic tendencies brought by colonialists. The problem you are talikng about is a failure yoomalume. A mother has a womb & as a nurturer is given a child as a gift. You cannot turn a boyfriend into a fathers. Fathers are those who acceot the respinsibility. In magistrate courts the problems discussed are partenal never maternal. Forcing the issue of wanting to make boyfriends fathers will never solve the problem . Men can have 100 kids a year, mothers CANNOT for a reason. Children belong to mothers not fathers. Can a father with 100 kids father them? We are siblinga becoz we share our mother's womb ONLY.
Now why are we blaming victims, to build African families is create new system no more sex before marriage that way every person born will have both parents it’s that simple.
That does not guarantee a future for child. Reality works way differently
It's not the same without Ntsiki Mazwai shame. Because uTata lona he has a habit of boxing African Spirituality. I feel he doesn't do enough research on matters he does not know. Anyway Great advise there.
Can we rise above personalities and respect the platforms host. Help me understand how he boxes African spirituality; he has expansive knowledge and is well aware that many healers themselves come from different perspectives and experiences, morso nowadays when so many persons are being initiated in so many different ways... He is an Inyanya/herbalist himself by the way.
An Opinion should be taken as that and not be seen or considered as an Absolute.
How does he box spirituality???
Hence, I am asking how can he contain spirituality???
i believe he is giving more than Ntsiki.
Men are negligent
#MyUnpopularOpinion.....I diagree with you when you say "you don't are related to your mom". that is scientifically and spiritual incorrect. For anything to come to existance it needs two elements, meaning it will inharete from both parties to stick balance. We all know this fact from science to spirituality. so now how are you not related to your mom when you have her DNA, meaning you have everything that is coded in her (Spiritually and Scientifically). Even children who are deprived to visit their mothers home they go through a certain suffering. why, because there is no balance. As children we relate with everybody from mother side and father side, left need right, right need left. Yin and Yang. I think you should go apology to your mom #jokingly.
Yes, I found that part odd; unless he was suggesting the relationship between a married person to their parents, as in now having formed a ''new'' family, with his children born from his wife...??? Even then, his mothers' DNA runs through him totally. He really needs to clarify how he is not then related to mother.
If you listen to the words used to call the people on your mother's side of the family they all relate to your mother and never to you. Like malume, mmane, mamncane etc, whereas your fathers siblings are all call father eg, Rrakgadi, Dadobawo, Babomncane etc. Secondly all cousins on you mother's side are called KaNina meaning of my mother while all cousins on father's side are Mzala meaning one I am born with. It's all in the languages we speak
@@ayalehuamlaksekhemankhamun I hear you that its all in the language but it doesn't show you not being related to your mother side of people. with no argument everything that has made you as a person you are relatively related to it. How you call each other doesn't show anything of you not being related, its just showing how you are related to each other , like from which side of part of me do i relate with them , example When I call Malume it simply indictate that I relate with him from the side of my mother , meaning the feminine energy that has made me .
According to my understanding nothing come to existance by itself and everything that made someone to come to existance it is related to it.