Exactly. But here's a tip from myself as a dating expert: Google " valley talk" sometime, and then, if you're guilty of using it like the dating expert in this video, try to avoid it, and boom! Watch how you'll get more dates instantly. You're welcome. :-)
I'm 17 and I use a flip phone. I use a computer or tablet to access the internet and other stuff. I think most smartphones are trash because they're too complicated. The only smartphones I do like are Doro smartphones. I have the Doro 632 flip phone.
How does one become a "dating expert"? Wouldn't dating experts be happily married people? I mean, that's what I would consider a "dating expert." Call me old fashioned if you will, but I still subscribe to the idea that marriage is the end goal of dating for most people. (Yes, I know there's a huge contingent of people that want to date but don't want to get married, but studies still show that most people see themselves in a marriage sometime in the future.) So, since I'm married and happy, let me give all you singles some advice about smartphones: you don't need one in order to date. You're welcome.
Dude I started dating my now-husband in 2007 with flip phones and we texted each other like 50 times a day at least. We each had like 3 photos on our Facebook profiles though - not a lot of stalking material...
Wow! The girl on the left seems put together, and the smartphone users are so awkward. I can't believe the kid in the middle is a senior editor, but it is the Atlantic. He is super awkward, incoherent, seems a little high, no confidence, can't hold a thought or direct the conversation. I would be hesitant to hire him as a cashier or stockboy. Start learning Mandarin, folks.
I definitely do not want a smartphone. Waste of money, waste of time, most people with smart phones are very rude disrespectful of others that their with. No one needs a smartphone to date...
Wtf is this, an interview or a prosecution? Or a Tyra banks expose? And this guy, suggesting that you need to keep up to date with someone’s social media otherwise they will talk to someone else......
I find the most worrying thing about this article the responses. So many people are denigrating the article and the author in the process. "How does he know this?" (He explained his credentials and his process.) Why is he doing this? (It's his job and he is interested in helping people.) He is only sixteen (You calculated that completely wrong. How is your math?) It's an elaborate joke. (It is a good paper written by a conscientious, trained scientist.) The author NOWHERE advised you to stalk your date on social media, quite the opposite. This feels so judgemental. (Honestly, how many professional articles based on social problems have you read? This is not in the least judgemental, but rather concerned.) I am glad to see the few from people who use flip phones or have restricted their online time on their own. I suggest everyone read the entire article and then all the comments. You will find the majority of comments reactive, paranoid and just wrong. The author knows what he is talking about and his statistics are sound. On the other hand, if you are involved in this problem you are very likely to denigrate this article. Read your own reply and see if that is what you are doing. Articles like this as written to help people. The author is articulate and his statistics are right. I checked. Did you? If you know how to use that smartphone, you should know how to research the net.
Wow, they really mock the woman without the smartphone. If I were her I would have "accidentally" dropped one of theirs, then stepped on it on the way out.
If I get a smartphone, will people think Im a sophisticated big shot? I almost enjoy gettin ripped on by having a 2013 LG Revere 2. Works for me. Holds a charge for 5 days, never drops a call and it's $29 a month. If I need to get on the internet, I have a desktop,,,,,a Dell Optiplex 755 from 2008.....and it actually has windows 10! Im good to go.
They are interviewing this girl like she is the prehistoric iceman from that South Park episode.
Yeah, the guy seems really rude to her.
TheGreatIndoors1979 I know! Is the dating expert 10 years old? I texted plenty of girls pre-iPhone and it was literally no different.
TheGreatIndoors1979 because to her generation she is the iceman(woman)...
I'm 30 and I've never had a smartphone.
I think people with basic phones have better social skills. Not a fact, just my opinion.
Im 22 and have NO PHONE for 8 months and I feel so free!!!!
Anna bella Just curious - was it a conscious choice? Was it by accident? Do you see yourself getting a phone soon?
Anna bella You know, you can have a smartphone and don't use it 24/7. If you can't do that then yes, maybe you are better off without it.
+Anna bella im 22 and no phone to
22 and without a phone?????..... Marry me!!
Good for you!!
"Dating expert" advising to stalk your date on all social media platforms. Guess everyone can be an expert these days...
How is that guy a senior editor and a doctor when he's only 16 years old?
I thought the guy is in his early 20s
ROTFLMAO
His real name is Doogie Howser.
Amancalled Adam doing THING in life?
Roll to the end where he admits he's a "t.v. doctor"...
.... I feel like this is an elaborate joke and one of these three people is not in on it... and I have no idea which.
all. especially Michael Cera MD
@ 2:25 "They'll start texting someone else who has emojis"
Possibly the saddest way to lose a person.
Possibly the best way to lose some idiot that ranks your worthiness based on emojis...
A "dating expert" can't imagine dating without a smartphone?
a joke!
FACT: before smartphones, no one EVER dated.
What a joke
I hate people using emoticons other than a few basic like a smile, angry face, sad and teary.
When I date, I send messages by carrier pigeon. That's how they did it back in the day.
i have a flip phone i like it good battery life not distracting
honestly... flip phones are waay cooler to use
back in 2006 the flip phones were cool....I had a nokia 3310 back in 2006...but now... it´s not the same...
Vedraj r.m truuue
I love how he realizes half way through saying “how do I tell people I’m at a cool place”, how stupid that sounds
"dating expert"
Exactly. But here's a tip from myself as a dating expert: Google " valley talk" sometime, and then, if you're guilty of using it like the dating expert in this video, try to avoid it, and boom! Watch how you'll get more dates instantly. You're welcome. :-)
LOL
Shouldn't there be a number of ???? after that?
@@c.a.savage5689 yo I made this comment 8 years ago I do not remember it at all 😢
I deleted my twitter and istagram account and i feel so free!!
Delete UA-cam now
"It's impossible to date without a smartphone??" Really?? What a sad world....
this feels so judgemental.
i love my flip phone.
I thought there isn't youtube in flip phones... hmmm...
Umm...maybe she uses a thing called, "a computer. "
Ohhh computers... those mystical things that weird people keep using
Well done girls, FLIPS are best
I have a longer attention span because I have a flip phone!
I'm 17 and I use a flip phone. I use a computer or tablet to access the internet and other stuff. I think most smartphones are trash because they're too complicated. The only smartphones I do like are Doro smartphones. I have the Doro 632 flip phone.
I love how insanely awkward he is
I don't. lol
From a distance. Close up, not so much.
My Samsung Juke is about to turn 10 years old. Very proud.
Those were SICK!
@@mikalbrown3227 I still got it :)
How does one become a "dating expert"?
Wouldn't dating experts be happily married people? I mean, that's what I would consider a "dating expert." Call me old fashioned if you will, but I still subscribe to the idea that marriage is the end goal of dating for most people. (Yes, I know there's a huge contingent of people that want to date but don't want to get married, but studies still show that most people see themselves in a marriage sometime in the future.)
So, since I'm married and happy, let me give all you singles some advice about smartphones: you don't need one in order to date.
You're welcome.
Delightful video, hard to believe how things were just a few years back
I just have an iPod touch. I use an app for phone calls and text when wifi available.
I have a flip phone and it makes easy for me to sell drugs
Ikr... I mean ummm hahahahaha 😅
Same here brother.
What's your number???
Dude I started dating my now-husband in 2007 with flip phones and we texted each other like 50 times a day at least. We each had like 3 photos on our Facebook profiles though - not a lot of stalking material...
He's a senior editor at a national magazine. He looks like a baby. I'm doomed. I will never be able to get a job again.
Well, he didn't let her talk enough about the subject, did he?
he is like a mom trying to get her kids to share
Wow! The girl on the left seems put together, and the smartphone users are so awkward. I can't believe the kid in the middle is a senior editor, but it is the Atlantic. He is super awkward, incoherent, seems a little high, no confidence, can't hold a thought or direct the conversation. I would be hesitant to hire him as a cashier or stockboy. Start learning Mandarin, folks.
That's the joke lol
He's funny
Flip Phones are so cool that when you use one in public everyone stares at you!
She doesn’t understand how people can date without smartphones, lmao. She knows people still dated and got married before iPhones right
It's a real-life Doogie Howser!
Wow!, that dude and chick on the right are awkward AF!!!
2:36 "How could you date someone without a smartphone". That sounded serious, untill the end of the vid. "That's how they used to do it." Good joke.
Wow.. he is a senior editor at the Atlantic. So young!
Man I'm 21 and really worried for my future of people ahead of me
It's so sad seeing these cute young people struggling with face to face communication...
I'll go for the left chic anyway.
well, yeah
I like the right one better
How does the Atlantic still have any credibility? Can children be senior editors? Lol
I definitely do not want a smartphone. Waste of money, waste of time, most people with smart phones are very rude disrespectful of others that their with. No one needs a smartphone to date...
I will buy one!
I miss my slider phone
is the social and the company that matters rather than staring at your smartphone and checking worthless tweets.....
Full cringe. Love it.
hamblin is the man
Don't you mean Doogie Howser?
Not all simple phones are flip.
I'm maybe in the minority but I don't like flip phones. Slide phones or candy bar phones are better in my opinion.
I'm not the only one....
That guy is an MD, what is he Doogie Howser?
well ... that was just awkward and hard to watch
I hardly ever use emojis
I deleted my Instagram account
I don't have a Facebook or twitter
I still have a smartphone
Wtf is this, an interview or a prosecution? Or a Tyra banks expose? And this guy, suggesting that you need to keep up to date with someone’s social media otherwise they will talk to someone else......
Wall land line only. Always works but it's on a wall. ; )
I find the most worrying thing about this article the responses. So many people are denigrating the article and the author in the process. "How does he know this?" (He explained his credentials and his process.) Why is he doing this? (It's his job and he is interested in helping people.) He is only sixteen (You calculated that completely wrong. How is your math?) It's an elaborate joke. (It is a good paper written by a conscientious, trained scientist.) The author NOWHERE advised you to stalk your date on social media, quite the opposite. This feels so judgemental. (Honestly, how many professional articles based on social problems have you read? This is not in the least judgemental, but rather concerned.) I am glad to see the few from people who use flip phones or have restricted their online time on their own. I suggest everyone read the entire article and then all the comments. You will find the majority of comments reactive, paranoid and just wrong. The author knows what he is talking about and his statistics are sound. On the other hand, if you are involved in this problem you are very likely to denigrate this article. Read your own reply and see if that is what you are doing. Articles like this as written to help people. The author is articulate and his statistics are right. I checked. Did you? If you know how to use that smartphone, you should know how to research the net.
well ... that was almost as awkward and hard to read as this video was to watch - JAFO
Flip phones generally hold a longer battery charge and u can drop them harder and also ur bill is less. HaHa just call me....
I shut off my mobile data on my smartphone and use my computer to surf the Internet. I can keep it, but I'll feel more alive!
Was this whole video a joke?
This is what I hate about my generation. Smart phones Dumb people.
this is a first date how did it endup
not only is james hilarious but the reactions he gets from his guests are priceless :DDDD
Is this a comedy sketch? It is, right? No way that chick is a dating 'expert', or that clueless dweeb and 'MD"...?
This kid is an MD?
Hilarious
I'm trying to figure out if this is a joke
They would make a nice couple
uhhhh this is slightly no.. VV irritating
83 percent of people under 40 have a smart phone? I thought it was more like 100 percent
Think about poor people ..
Qayxsw they don't have old smart phones?
We are doomed.
Wow, they really mock the woman without the smartphone. If I were her I would have "accidentally" dropped one of theirs, then stepped on it on the way out.
I feel like 90% of people don't know that this is a joke
This dude must be Doogie Howser
If I get a smartphone, will people think Im a sophisticated big shot? I almost enjoy gettin ripped on by having a 2013 LG Revere 2. Works for me. Holds a charge for 5 days, never drops a call and it's $29 a month. If I need to get on the internet, I have a desktop,,,,,a Dell Optiplex 755 from 2008.....and it actually has windows 10! Im good to go.
he is so delightfully awkward.
very cute
A flip phone is a good idea for a secondary phone.
Why not date cortona she muti IO.
Oh wait I just hit the #metoo moment at 1:15
Smart phones have some practical uses that flip phones don't like calling an Uber.
A useless app in probably 3/4ths or more of the country.
Why not date cortona she muti IO.