Are You Married to a Narcissist? (Find Out the Glaring Signs)
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ARE YOU MARRIED TO A NARCISSIST? Are you married to a difficult or toxic personality and ever stopped to wonder “Am I married to a narcissist?” What are the traits of a narcissist? What kinds of ways do narcissists behave in relationships? If you are trying to survive a marriage with a narcissistic husband or wife, or you are thinking your spouse is a narcissistic liar and considering whether it’s worth saving your marriage to a narcissist, then check out this video to get your answers.
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1: shamelessness
2: magical thinking
3: arrogance
4: envy
5: entitlement
6: exploitation
7: no boundaries
You’re welcome 😉
How do you know my ex-husband to be of 33 years?🙄🛐😁
My husband 100%
👍.
Wow another "bullseye on target" thank you Mrs. Cenjar
What about:
1. Abusive
2. Violent
3. Tattoos
4. Drunk
5. Threatening
6. Swearing
7. Criminal
I would say the first sign will come from your own gut feeling which will send signal to your body telling you that this person doesn't make you feel comfortable being around him/her. The fact that you are already asking this question should alert you to be careful. Something will feel off and you won't know what it is exactly. Covert narcissists can act very charming in the beginning but there will be often also present underlying sense of superiority about them. That sense is actually deriving from them feeling insecure about themselves, so they tend to quietly degrade others in order to feel better about themselves. On the other hand if covert narcissist feels that you are above his league, he will act like your servant, trying to please you - almost annoying in a way. But make no mistake. If you decide to stay in a relationship with him, he will downgrade you and abuse you like all the others. Because in his mind, if you love him, he thinks you are unworthy of him. Covert narcissists hate themselves so if someone loves them, than they think this person is worth less than them and that they can do better. Other sign to look for is any kind of judgment towards others. If he criticises other frequently, he will more likely criticise you as well once he gets more comfortable around you. Pay attention to how he treats people that are dependent on him as well. Narcissists hate those especially if they can't get anything of of that for themselves. Moreover, Cheating in marriages is not restricted to only men. Women cheat as much as men do. If you're suspecting your husband of infidelity, you'll have to keep an eye on him without his knowledge. One of the best ways to know if your spouse cheats on social platforms is by paying close attention to how your spouse behaves while online. The signs are pretty the same. Is your spouse more time on the app without explanation and gets unnecessarily defensive when you ask about it? If your spouse behavior has changed lately, and continues to spend more time on social apps, it's time for you to take action, with the help of a private investigator (suggested; *METASPYHUB@GMAIL. COM* , you can find out what is taking all their time on social apps, who they are talking to and other things happening,,
you are so right about the underlying sense of superiority
Ok my husband has never been tested but he has every single trait in this video..and yes he has drained the LIFE out of me.
Georgia Todd they will definitely drain the LIFE out of you! Joy killers, life zappers, etc...They are parasites!
Mine too
@Felicity Muench I agree 100 %.
Me too
Mine too! I'm getting out now.
I left mine in January. Best thing he ever had or will have, and he blew it. Oh well, his loss. I love him, but I definitely love me more!
Janet YES, we have to love ourselves more.
Maybe you could tell me how to do it because it's a man's responsibility to try to hold a marriage together and I feel responsible if we separate in divorce as a Christian man
@@I_support_peace The pair make a marriage 💑.
my husband was on & off ......he eventually ghosted me .....for a third party ............thanks to ...................suprememagictemple@gm ail. comee ,,,,,,,,
He returned back home .........and apologized to me & .............we are happy now! ..................she’s a genius❤️🙏❤️❤️✍️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@I_support_peace Both parties are responsible to do what it takes to make the marriage work. If my husband would have spent as much time trying to work things out with me as he was being arrogant, stubborn, and prideful, our marriage would not have ended. All the best to you!
Another word is belittling they belittle others to build up there self worth and put people down for the same reason
My husband 100%. Omg my poor kid's. He's distroyed all of us. 33 years of pure hell. I'm done
18 years. 2 kids. Still fighting the battle
Did you leave?
One day the world will see that all along we were describing demons within people.
I wondered about this... or attached to them and not within... as my husband was great for 2 decades and then this past decade plus he has gone off the rails...
@@momof5kiddos Jesus was casting demons out with authority and they trembled upon his presence. Dirty spirits would leave the host body and look for a new home. You will see them with the gift of spiritual discernment. To GOD be the Glory.
I'm sure in some cases yes but not always, some people are just extremely selfish and lack empathy, there is one place in the bible where jesus cast out 6000 demons out of a man 😊
EXACTLY!!!
@Ima Wake great comment! Love your name 😁
I thought I could help, love, heal, and restore... now feel drained, used, jaded, cognitive dissonance... spiritually & emotionally exhausted. Also ashamed & humiliated.
Yep.
Are you talking about my husband lol!! I bought a brand new car one time and my husband had a tantrum because my credit was good and his was not. He said that he had work so hard and that he deserved get the car first. He took my car to the store and I notice a dent in the back door 🤨. Yes , it had to be him. He was so jealous he couldn’t even hide it. That is just 1 incident. I could mention 10000 experiences with him. I am so ready to leave 💪 everything I have heard , describes my husband. Thank you for opening my eyes 👀
I wish I could hear more of your story.
Power to you. I have found it hard to walk away 3 and a half years ago she cheated then blamed me for not being there for her. I tried to overlook and forgive. Anytime I tried walking away from arguments I was told that I was abandoning the kids and her but the whole time saying “I want a divorce “ for 3 years we’ve been separated almost 12 months now but I still find it very difficult cause she can pull me back in with little effort I’m addicted. Would like to know how you are coping with it after a year
@@johnhernandez4033 I was cheated on AFTER he'd given me the ring because, he said, he'd decided he didn't want to commit! So why did he lie, insist I stay with him, not take the ring back, lie when I found about the multiple people he was cheating on me with? He promised he'd never do it again and would spend the rest of his life proving he would be faithful to me alone. Insisted we marry. I refused for a long time because I couldn't trust him, he cried, bemoaning he'd never get my trust back. It took years but I finally took the plunge, and immediately after he acted as if I no longer exist, devaluing me, showing disrespect constantly. Unwilling to discuss my unhappiness. I became so lonely.
@@johnhernandez4033 Please try to remember it's an addiction and try to get over it the same way. Think of it as an addiction that is literally killing you! No one should ever allow someone else to treat them that way, so please find a therapist who will help you restore your self esteem. It really helped me to disconnect and I know it will help you too. Peace, John! 💘
@@sharilyon5983 wow I’m so sorry that you had to endure that crap. But happy that you’re moved on 🙂
Empath here...omg I wish I knew all of this before spending 10 years together. Divorce is in the process.
EXACTLY!!!! Its coming up on my one year anniversary of finding the strength to finally leave a covert narcissist. Your videos have been a revelation for me....I just wish I would have found them a long time ago.
Congrats to you !!!! I've been married to a narc for 30 years now, but never knew that that's what I was dealing with. Finally stumbled across these videos and working on my escape plan !! Like you, wish I had found them sooner. Good luck !!!
@@christophergarland4507 I think what best sums up my way of thinking is that its never too late to live a happy life. Good luck to you!
Amen. Ms. Zung is one of the brightest Angels on UA-cam!
@@christophergarland4507 Just woke up Nov 2019 from 33 year sleep. Now I know what this is. Escaping July 31, 2020.
@@alzeppelin I couldn't agree more. Hope things are going well for you. One of my biggest problems is, I spend too much time thinking "there's no way she can take care of herself". Instead of thinking of my own happiness first. But I'm turning that around. She's just gonna have to figure it out......
Thank you! I knew I was married to a Narcissist but listening to this video made me realize I need to file for divorce: which I’m doing now! Thank you!
Me too, 23 years and finally realised.. sent Divorce papers today..
@@pahaynes1 Good for you; concentrate on taking care of yourself
@@yvettemorris7295 I am, and the same to you Yvette.
Some of us are just stuck. My wifenarc is legally blind, disabled (her medicare takes ALL her disability $), under pain meds and such, 65 (I'm 70) and will do her utmost to clean me out if I wanna separate. Totally co-dependent relationship; i stay in because there is no way out, as im her eyes and she's my memory!
Do you know my husband, this is him! I’m divorcing him and it’s been awful due to his lying and not owning up to responsibility
Lie and steal and think it is ok for them
@@rosemarsolais1985 )
@@kelseyklima1653 can I advise you dear ?
Lori Leveto,You got a lovely smile 😊!!
I’m married to a narcissist. This describes my husband 99%. His mom and his sister are the same way. I feel empty. I can’t reason with them. I’m so tired of it. What can I do?
I know of a man who can help you bring back your ex like he helped me bring back my ex without any delay.
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Message him on WhatsApp
Leave. Plan an Exit. Call a Domestic Violence Shelter. If not call 211. I just left mine. He was attempting and at times successfully dating and having sex with every Gender and age.
I had to shake myself and come to my senses and think this guy is punishing me for stuff that his mother did to him.
Me and my next-door neighbor I had war because mine was trying to sex her!
That was the last crap I was going to tolerate! Just tried!
I was married to one…leave!!! I was married to one for ten years his mom and sister were also narcissistic LEAVE!!! My life was miserable and I am so happy now
Exactly. Thank you so much for this video and your channel. I've been dealing with this for 22 years waiting for my youngest child to turn 18 so I could get a divorce without child custody issues. It is so exhausting.
They absolutely never take responsibility or blame , always project and gas light.
And you’re lonely all the time. If I express my feelings or needs, he mocks me and calls me a snowflake. You can’t have any feelings or needs. Those are not allowed. You must be more robotic. You have to be perfect like them. Lol. And even then that’s not good enough. Been married to one 13 years. I have many years left in my sentence 🤖💩
ditto
I’m so sorry:( I too have felt this, although “snowflake” isn’t his choice of insult. Seek happiness and self-love and NEVER be ashamed of your unique spirit. I hope you find the strength to leave one day.
Me too 13yrs , now free 🙏🙏🙏
Same. How can we carry on if you dont want to exit right now
Rosa Glass Why stay? This type of relationship is toxic. You will start feeling depressed and not being your best you. I wish you well.
I am 41, I’ve gone blind over the years due to having glaucoma. Got married when I could see a little. The first few years of our relationship was so beautiful I was on cloud nine. In terms of intimacy, it was the best I’d ever had. Then things started to change after our Second child, my daughter was born.
She started to withhold intimacy, find faults with everything I did. Started to blame me for the things I did even though it was site related.
Started to cuss me out, say things like “I wish I never married you,” told me I’m wrong if I ever disagreed with her.
She makes me scared to even criticise her, even slightly.
She only gives me intimacy when she wants, she doesn’t hug me or kiss me anymore.
She has this weird stance when she gets close, she doesn’t seem to want to look me in my face.
I spend nights alone, feels like I’m freezing inside.
I’m so alone, I feel like I’m going crazy.
Have even referred myself to a psychiatrist.
I can’t leave, she will not let me. She says that she doesn’t love me but wants me to stay for the kids as she is doing the same. She said I would be irresponsible to just leave.
Anyway, this is the first time I’ve opened up to anyone, thank God for UA-cam😉
Love yourself, God and your children love you 🌹
Jesus Christ 😢💔 that’s horrible 🙏🏼 ill pray for you
I’ve been married to a narcissist for 52 years. This man would leave every Fri or Sat night to go watch sports with his buddies. Didn’t see him again til Sunday evening. He never left a phone, name anything. He’d turn his phone off. If one of our kids got sick, there was no way to reach him. The girls don’t like him to this day.
Same here
If she can’t look you in the eye then she’s most likely cheating!
Exhaustion is an understatement. Im ready to get my life back and experience joy/laughter again.
My covert does act very arrogant and thinks she's the best at everything and when she's proven wrong she gets very upset
My wife is the same.
I'm an Empath married to a narcissist. He has completely drained me. He has zero empathy or regard for anyone's feelings. Sad and sickening! You're so correct, unfortunately.
Same here. You have to get out, they’ll be done with you at some point any way, after taking everything they can from you.
Me too and I’m currently going through a divorce! I can’t wait! 😀
I am 2+ years divorced and still recovering. He's already engaged (pregnant) and I'm just learning to take care of me.
Exactly 😭
OMG you are right on! Due to extenuating circumstances, I'm having problems getting away from this jerk!
Good luck in getting away and moving on. You can do this!
You can take your time and SAFELY plan your exit.Many of them become dangerous stalkers.I found that out the hard way twice.
Thank you so much for your input! Everything you have said is 1000% correct. I’m in the middle of a divorce with a covert narcissistic wife! After 36 yrs and raising 6 children who are grown and out the door. I finally realized that my entire married life was all about being devalued and then came the discard in grandiose fashion by her separating and filling for divorce with out notice. All of your videos are spot on and have been of great help as we get deeper into the divorce process. More importantly, I’m learning to value myself and reinvent the man I was before marriage. I should write a book on 36 yrs of hell! I stayed in it for the children’s sake but I paid the price as I became someone I didn’t even know! Keep up the great videos!
I'm sorry to hear about your experience, I understand what your saying. I glance in the mirror and say what the hell happened. Years of being yelled and screamed at, every idea invalidated that isn't love at all. To err is human to forgive divine. Forgiving can be a moment by moment process, and best of luck, I just wrote to say your not alone and stay well. Thank you
Sending prayers your way as I’m on my 3rd and final exit from my narcissistic husband. Had know idea what I was dealing with until he “love bombed” me back into this fake marriage. So over the BS, gaslighting, temper tantrums, lying, criticizing, and absolutely no real love, or emotional connection. We’re scheduled to celebrate 24 year on 8/10, but I’m out here! No more fake anniversary celebrations for me! May the Lord watch between me and thee, cause I’m out!
@@ninadrake2167 Oh, Nina! Soooo happy you're leaving your "fake marriage" for good. My heart goes out to you!
@@sharilyon5983 thank you Sis! 👏🏾
It’s our 25th Year Anniversary but I’m glad he hasn’t tried to text or call. Starting my paperwork next week! 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I feel your pain brother been stuck for 17 years, it's not terrible but it's not great either. Sucks going through life feeling like you're being used
EXACTLY... my wife and I went to a marriage counselor who was a narcissist. After failing to gaslight, she finally gave up and told us that she had done all she could do. She hated me.
If you are in an intimate relationship with a covert narcissist let's say they will project their imperfections onto their target which will be their primary Supply
Yeah, I get blamed because he can’t perform. He’s 75 and drinks. Gosh I wonder if that could be his problem and not me...
Yes! I got blamed for his hot and cold relationship with God 😭
😔
This must be the worst pain I have ever felt,is knowing she never loved me...
Tony Longo 😢An OVER WHELMING SADNESS that you took yourself out of the market when you could have met someone else who would have loved and appreciated you through actions taken on a regular basis. Hopefully, you still have time to meet that person all the while wiser to see the signs of a bonfied narc or anyone remotely similar. Wishing you well to overcome your negative experience day by day.
@@AM-.. yeah that's the worst part..that and the way they think they are so smart with their social engineering/ manipulation..I still feel so betrayed in the end and yuck it suck's..just kill me now..I gave all I had...what a mistake..
I cap le of living anyone else
I agree. But once you watch 120 hours of these videos and others. Thank you Rebecca.
Also Richard Grannon.
Legends.
You just hit on two of the breaking boundaries that he did recently. I guess I never had stated my boundaries before. Now, I have clearly stated what I do not want, face to face. I felt a bit scared too, but I knew it was the proper way and the proper time, FOR ME, AND FINALLY TOO, for me. THANKYOU FOR THIS CLEARITY AND THIS VERIFICATION. I feel and I think it was ✅. I'm no longer split in two parts, with anxious thoughts about hurting him. It's about NOT allowing him to narcissistic abuse me anymore. I am free to be me without fear of his stepping over my boundaries, I hoped so, when I " put my foot down " figuratively speaking. Bless all you who are a narcissists prey. I hope you have fortitude and do the right thing for you and yours. YOU ARE LOVED, MADE IN THE IMAGE AND LIKENESS OF GOD.
I'm married to a narcissist. I thought I was but was sure. But after watching and knowing the way I have been negotiated for yrs. I'm the empath and my heart is to big and have put up with something's. But I am empty now and I swear his goal is to make sure that I hate him
I know of a man who can help you bring back your ex like he helped me bring back my ex without any delay.
+(234)90 25 71 2 1 4 2.
Message him on WhatsApp
But, don't fall for hating him, Hate the devil, or demonic spirit of which he is being pursuaded to allow to 7se him as a weapon to hurt and destroy you with.
The demons are subtle, very sneeky!
Don't be decieved because, if yiu allow yourself to hate him, I can almost garantee, before you know it you will hav3 open3d up a spiritual portal door in your own life, body, spirit and soul for a transferrence of those same demonic spirits which are being cl3arly manifesred inside if him and others like him, and they will recieve power from your hatred to fuel their transference over into you. And two demons fighting each other are actually not getting anywhere
So. I will pray for you to receive power from the Holy Spirit of God into your life, so that you may be able to overcome these attacks from the evil manipulating covertly evil spiritual world.
Inpray that God will reveal to you his powerful truth even more and more, b3cause Rebecca has hit the nail on the head with the hammer of truth!
God has given her power through the knowledge which she has discovered, and we all do well to listen and learn and apply these truthes, because they have the power to save our sanity and our lives from untter distruction which is ultimately the devil's # 1 goal.
I hope that you will be blessed to understand what ai am sharing with you, because, I know personally how devastating experiencing this onsloughts by these weak human beings and their parasitic demons can be towards us.
It can be totally overwhelming.
Since it is Supernatural Spiritual Warfare, we must take seriously what Rebecca is teaching us, and above all,
WE'VE GOT TO PUT WHAT WE LEARN INTO SERIOUS ACTION:
The Holy Bible has given us understanding about these kinds of situations, but NOT MANY PEOPLE tend to want to even check to see what Our LORD JESUS CHRIST has said about this.
JESUS CAST OUT EVIL SPIRITS!
That is what the Holy Bible says: It states, that THESE KINDS OF SPIRITS COME OUT ONLY BY FASTING& PRAYER.
We, can't be retaliating on the wicked people whom are neing controled, themselves, and oppressed themselves by demonic spirits.
The word of God teaches that ANY KINDOM DIVIDED BY IT'SELF CANNOT STAND.
Therefore, we must ensure our help can come from the opposing kingdom of God!
Only Our Holy God, is fully able to defeat the Luciferian Kingdom and all of it's evil workers of iniquity.
According to Bible Scripture it states: " Finally my bretheren, BE STRONG IN THE LORD, AND IN THE POWER OF HIS MIGHT!
and HOW DO WE DO THIS?
He gives us instructions through the Apostle Paul, who is one of his desciples who was moved upon by the Holy Spirit of God to write these instructions to all of the believing saints of God, SolO WE WILL BE ABLE TO STAND, and having done all we can to stand, CAST OUR CARES OVER INTO THE LORD FOR HIM TO RELEASE HIS SUPERNATURAL ANGELS TO FIGHT FOR US AGAINST LUCIFER, AND HIS EVIL R3BELLIOUS FALLEN ANGELS.
They had the nerv3s to resist God, and got kicked our of heaven. NOW, GOD KNOWS THAT THEIR PLAN IS TO SEEK AMONGST US HUMAN BEINGS WHOMEVER THEY CAN DEVOUR.
God is not going to STOP the devil and other people from having their will to do evil, but instead, GOD HAS GIVEN US HIS POWER, HIS WISDOM, to use, to Get ACCURATE KNOWLEDGE OF HOW TO WAGE SPIRITUAL WARFARE AGAINST THE DEVIL. GOD HAS GIVEN EACH OF US CHOICE, we can bow down to the devil,bor we can STAND UP AGAINST HIM, AND RESIST HIM STEADFASTLY WITH THE POWER GOD HAS GIVEN TO US, THROUGH THE KNOWLEDGE OF HIS HOLY SCRIPTURES,
We can take it or leave it!
We can keep trying to fight these evil forces on our own with head knowledge, but, we must be careful to get fully clothed in the righteous Spiritual Armor of God, so we can fight and be able to enforce Satan's deat.
Here is another tool which God has given to everyone who will believe him, and what he has to say about what is going on in the Soiritual realm of reality.
We can take it or leave it!
God forces no one to receive his Supernatural help against the rulers of darkness of this world., and afainst Spiritual wickedness in high places.
The help that God wants to introduce to us to use afainst our enemies, foriegn and domestic etc... is recorded in the Holy Bible in the Book of
Ephesians Chapter 6: 10-20 (KJV)
GOD WANTS US TO KNOW AND ACCEPT THE TRUTH , ESPECIALLY IF WE WANT TO BE ABLE TO DO WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE, SO WE CAN CHASE THESE EVILS SPIRITS AWAY FROM US.
Verse # 12 In the Book of EPHESIANS CHAPTER 6
says this: WE WRESTLE NOT AGAINST FLESH & BLOOD, but against PRINCIPALITIES, AGAINST POWERS, AGAINST THE RULERS OF THE DARKNESS OF THIS WORLD, AGAINST SPIRITUAL WICKEDNESS IN HIGH PLACES.
What must we do about this?
GOD GIVES US HIS ANSWER, But it is up to us to believe that GOD DOES EXIST, and that GOD IS A EEWARDER TO THOSE WHO DILLIGENTY SEEK AFTER HIM, TO UNDERSTAND HIS INSTRUCTIONS WHICH IF WE WILL OBEY THEM WE SHALL BE PROSPEROUS AND SHALL HAVE GOOD SUCCESS.
But... this Book 8s a covenental Book.
IT WILL NOT WORK UNLESS WE WHOLEHEARTEDLY SEEK GOD'S HELP AND SHOW THAT WE FULLY TRUST HIM, BY DARING TO OBEY HIM IN EVERYTHING THAT HE INSTRUC5S US TO DO.
SO, MUST NOT ALLOW OURSELVES TO HATE!
I ALMOST WAS DESTROYED WHEN I DID THAT AT ONE TIME IN MY LIFE, BUT, I REMEMBERED WHAT THE WORD OF GOD SAID, which is THAT I MUST NOT HATE IN MY HEART, BUT I MUST RESIST, THE EVIL OF THE PERSONS WHO TRIUBLE ME.
I DON'T HAVE TO PUT UP WITH THEIR EVIL CONNIVING LOW DOWN MANIPULATIVE WAYS.
In fact God tells us, How can light and darkness exist together.
IT IS CONTRARY!
OFTEN TIMES...WE MUST LITERALLY CUTT SONE PEOPLE OFF FROM OUR PRESENCE, OR COMPLETELYBOUT OF OUR LIVES, SO AS TO PROTECT OUR SANITY, AND OUR LIVES.
That it means when Jesus told Us: " GAURD OUR HEARTS, FOR OUT IF OUR HEARTS IS THE ISSUES OF LIFE!"
Whats INSIDE of us will come OUT of Us.
Most of ys can attest to that wisdom as TRUTHFUL WITNESD!
we must take the shield of FAITH, wherewithal WE SHALL BE ABLE TO STAND IN THE EVIL DAYS...
We must STAND, THEREFORE, having our loins girt about Us with TRUTH...
HAVING ON THE BREASTPLATE OF RIGHTEOUSNESS AND OUR FEET SHOD, with THE PREPARATION OF THE GOSPEL OF JESUS CHRIST' PEACE... ( ABOVE ALL OF THAT...Taking THE SHIELD OF FAITH IN GOD, AND IN THE LOVE, TRUTH & POWER OF GOD, IN AND THROUGH A PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM...WE SHALL BE ABLE TO QUENCE THE FIREY DARTS OF THE DEVIL which he uses whenever he convinces those who are weak, and able to be enslaved by the devil to war against God & Us.
It is with this information and with the information which God is orividibg to us through Rebecca's Videos which is going to be able to help us be victorious against all of the powers of the devil and our enemies.
I JUST WANTED TO MAKE SURE THAT I SHARED THIS VALUABLE INFORMATION WITH YOU AND ANYONE ELSE WHO MIGHT BE ABLE TO BENEFIT FROM IT!
IT HAS TRULY HELPED ME TO NOT GET BITTER IN MY OWN SPIRIT, AGAINST THESE TYPE OF PEOPLE AND THE TERRIBLE SITUATIONS WHICH THEY CREATE IN AN ALL OUT EFFORT TO CAUSE US TO GIVE IN TO THEIR MESSY LIFE STYLES AND UNACCEPTABLE UNACCEPTABLE UNGODLY GRIEVIOUS BEHAVIOURS.
I HOPE THIS WILL HELP YOU TO CONTINUE TO BE ENCOURAGED. BE STRONG, AND NEVER LET THOSE WHO ARE EXIBITING THOSE EVIL CARACTERISTICS GET THE BEST OF YOU!
DON'T GIVE UP, AND DON'T GIVE IN ... NEVER SUBMIT TO THIS EVIL!
GOD DOES NOT EXOECT YOU TO DO THAT, GOD SAYS BE ANGRY... BUT, SIN NOT!
PROTECT YOURSELF!
STAY WISE!
DON'T LET THEM TRIP YOU UP,
I KNOW THAT THERE HAS BEEN MANY TIMES IN THE PAST, THAT I HAVE FALLEN INTO THE TRAPS WHICH WAS SET OUT FOR ME, BUT, YOU OUGHTA HAVE BE3N BLESSED TO SEE ME, AND HOW QUICKLY, THAT I CALLED OUT TO GOD TO FORGIVE ME AND SAVE ME FROM THE EVIL PERSONS AND FROM MY OWN SELF TENDENCIES TO RETALIATE UNLAWFULLY.
An eye for an eye
It is so sad, when I would weaken and do that, because the dirty lowdown evil persons, would act like I was just like them or even worse.
It only made me ashamed of my self, because I had actually stuped to their level, and had given up my right standing place in God.
There is soooo much for us to learn yet... so, I just would like to try my best to share my own experience with you & others🔍👀
PLEASE KNOW THIS⭐🙏
I have no intentions of offending anyone by sharing my personal faith in Jesus Christ, but, i am also NOT ASHAMED OF MY FAITH IN JESUS CHRIST, either!
It is just that, to me, and my human logic...
It stands only to reason that although there is an evil kingdom, that there also exist a Holy Righteous Kingdom of God, We have but only to choose which one we are going to allow ourselv3s to be a part of.
I think this is my favorite of all your videos. I was a self confident, upbeat, friendly outgoing Marine when I met this immature beautiful female from a wonderful family. I saw her has being sheltered with enormous potential that I could help her actualize. I'm in the discard faze and my head is spinning with my acceptance of all I denied for our THIRTY YEAR MARRIAGE.
I know of a man who can help you bring back your ex like he helped me bring back my ex without any delay.
+(234)90 25 71 2 1 4 2.
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Is never too late, 30 years as well and finally ……
For sure my husband is a narcissist. All, everything you mentioned... he has all those traits. I'm now using all the wisdom learned from studying this subject, enjoying seeing him struggle to get me back into my old mode of fighting. He tries everything that used to work on me but it's lost it's effect. I'm so fortunate to be able to listen to so many wise people speaking out about this subject.
I never knew it would be this way. I’m really paying for it for the choice I made marring him. I ruined my life. Now I’m stuck. This description is right.
My husband is all this. jealousy, trust issues, gaslighting, entitled, no empathy no sympathy, takes over conversations all the time, needs attention a lot, and manipulation. It's quite shameful frankly
Exactly!!! Thank you Rebecca. You have no idea how much you are validating my suspicion on my husband. I literally was questioning myself, maybe he was right, i am crazy, imaging things, saying nonsense...etc Too funny, i remodeled kitchen cabinets all by myself last year and a few days later, I heard him speak with his friend about how he worked so hard breaking down the cabinets, honestly, i was taken aback. I found that odd that he didn't mention me doing it. He was so vague (as always) when i asked why he didn't tell him the truth. Anyway...thank you a million times.
Everything in this video is what I've experienced with my narsisstic husband. O recently just divorced him. The last few yrs before divorce were a nightmare. Lieing name calling putting me down cheating just way too much. I've gone no contact and am starting to feel better. What a wild and weird and hurtful experience.
The degradation happened in the bedroom frequently
Holly Dusek,You look stunning 🌹🌷🌷,hope you are not with a narc 😈!!
This video is healing. After suffers with a narcissistic husband and now being along realization of what was called marriage shaped up- lovebombing, de- evaluation and discard. Simple. Sad. But true. Thank u, Rebecca.
Best video I’ve seen on UA-cam yet regarding narcissism. Thank you so much. Preparing for court!
Nothing is their fault … I heard that all the time
Yes yes yes absolutely nothing is their fault. My husband is like that.after having my son I gained so much weight, boy oh boy he literally fat shame me every time. I have no self esteem.now I call myself ugly
@@famattavarney2081 you’re absolutely NOT UGLY . He is, he’s a monster and knows he is. That’s why he deflected to make you feel bad and is trying to blame something on you, like having a baby!! Absolutely horrendous words, and unfathomable that he can utter such hateful words without guilt or shame. Stay strong and believe what you think of yourself.
Exactly! I was married 24 years, now divorced for 21 years. Thankfully, we did not have the physical violence issues, and I am very grateful and happy now. Maintain your self respect, you are totally worth it.
I can’t listen to enough of these! OMG I’m finally getting it! I am so looking forward to being accepted in your Narcissist Negotiations Facebook group.
This has to be one of best descriptions I've come across. Thank you.
He has discarded me.......but he will not let me go. He doesn’t want me, but he doesn’t want anybody else to either and he sure doesn’t want me to heal and get my confidence back.
The good thing about that is, it is not up to him.
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Now I know why spouses kill each other
EXACTLY! I wish I knew this 40 yrs and a divorce ago.
Me too 😭
I agree, I wish I knew all this 37 years ago. They are toxic and put you through hell.
Me too..
Me too!
This is so accurate. I'm so drained with everything.
Best video I’ve ever seen on narcissistic personality (and I’ve seen probably 20+ now). Thank you so much. ✨🙏✨
Everything you have mentioned and listed, I have experienced. I had a ex GF with all traits! She used her sexually to draw me and I went through a living hell, with her constant CONSTANT put-downs, arrogance, no boundaries! I did feel so drained when I left. The most mentally tired I have ever felt. Thanks YOU’RE RIGHT ON! Very happy I subscribed.
IS AMAZING HOW ACCURATE YOUR DESCRIPTION IS
Dead On 🤯 I truly can’t believe I ran across this channel today, thank you! thank you! thank you! Let The Truth Be Told!!
Thank you so much for making me feel like I'm not crazy
Ok
You married
Thats what they do. Its not you, its them.
"It's a Heartache", song by Bonnie Tyler, sums it up after the love bombing ends and devalue, discard stages follow.
Rebecca, thank you for everything you do. You have helped me so much.
Lies, manipulation, lack of responsibility, blames every one else for his problems and failures. I’m an empath. My tanks are totally empty. I kicked him out and am finally getting me back. My esteem and strength. Everyday away from him I feel better and happier.
I separated with my narcissist wife on January 1st. We were assigned to one another by GOD, and the spiritual attack she brought into our relationship divided us, I will always love her, but I love GOD first. So I have to leave her with the lie
Rebecca you are such a kind and loving person to make these videos and to have created the FB Group for all
of us. Thank you for all
that You do.
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Melissa Dauphars,You look stunning 🌹🌷,hope you are not with a narc 😈!!
Omg. This is insane how on point it is.
I am in tears, I am going through so much w my husband... to the point that I am ready to leave it all behind. This is spot on
You are awesome. I’ve learned so much from your channel. And yes, I am married to a narcissist. I’ve been with her for 12 years. Unfortunately, I’m just learning what a narcissist is. Nevertheless, thank you for all you do with this channel.
Omg! I’m Married to Narcissist! I’ve been giving too much and feel drained and empty inside. Everything is Always my Fault and doesn’t own up or take responsibility for his actions 💔
I was apparently married 20 years to one and she left me after I stopped feeding it and started complaining. I’m poorer but happier now. Unfortunately divorce is very difficult financially for men and I really miss my kids being home all the time because it’s very hard to get primary custody.
Narcissist are like dust in the wind. They are, like you say, a chocolate bunny; empty, incable of love and in the end going nowhere, except if they are latched on and being carried by you. The most difficult part is facing this. You have the power, and they really have none. (Except you are conditioned to believe that you are weak and they are strong). The only way to exhibit that strength is to leave. Never confront them except through a lawyer. Your weakness will always be your distorted persona of them. So get educated quickly.
Just left my narcissistic wife and the peace is amazing.
I had no idea. It makes so much since now. Thank you for this
Was married to one for 22 years with the last 13 being awful! I stayed to protect my daughters and filed in June 2019. He has all the symptoms and his family and friends can't see it. I'll be free soon!!
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You have got them down pat!! Clear cut description!
Exactly!
Thank you for all of your help, Alven Mahler
MY GOD!!!! Exactly!! I REFUSE TO DEAL with it anymore. It is deadly!
Exactly!!! My soon to be ex-husband is all of the above!!
Me too. Escaping 33 years July 31st.
Hopefully,me three very soon! He is ALL OF THE ABOVE and more! 17 too damn long years that I’ve been tied/married/sentenced to this person. I have already divorced this man(mentally) 18 months ago when I’ve realized this man is a narcissist and he’s never going to change. Thank you for your videos. Very enlightening!
Great video! Thanks.
Exactly! I've finally, after 7 years, realized the mess I'm in and now having the hardest time trying to figure out how to get out....I say every day - all you do is take, take, take. You only care about yourself, and you're sucking the life out of me. All 7 are right on the money. Now I need to learn how to be strong and not engage and stop letting my fear of what he might do and his threats of alinony keep me from divorcing him. I just want my life back!
EXACTLY, and even more Exactly!!! Spot on video.
Ex a ctly
Exactly! So happy to have discovered you. Your advice is the antidote to my poisonous husband of 25!!!!! Years.
Incredibly insightful. TY
Exactly ! Thanks for this video
You nailed my life in this video.. so frustrating 🤨
Stacy Prettyman,You look stunning 🌹🌷🌹 dear,hope you are not with a narc 😈!!
Just wow!!!! I was just reading through all the comments I wonder what the majority of the people involved with a narcissist are women? I guess I'll do research on that but I'm probably correct in stating it's mostly women.... thank you for making your videos may sound so helpful so encouraging and it looks like you're covering all the bases probably going to take me about a week to read all this and do more research but thank you thank you thank you! I just feel so bad that I attempted to bring up two children in this relationship one left because he couldn't take it anymore and then my daughter just moved out of state she couldn't take it anymore so I'm on my way out but it's going to be tough since I am 60 years old! I am definitely tapped out but I am not giving up! I deserve better!
I am 67 and I finally left 3 years ago. So you can do it.
60 is the new 30, ladybug! You can do it!
There are lots of men who have partners who are narcissists.
tom joe, I've known many narcissistic women and had to stop being friends with them. I watched in horror as they used and abused their sweet husbands, neighbors, friends, family. Finally the husband was the only one left in their life as everyone else was terrified of them. Having a female malignant narcissist for a neighbor is truly frightening.
Exactly for 38 years. I want to leave but I’m AFRAID to.
Awesome video. Thank you very much. I didn't realize narcissism until now. I'm sharing.
Been watching these videos and it is making me more nervous than before. I'm leaving my narcissistic wife in the middle of the night with my son on the 18th of this month. My son is 17 but will be 18 in less than 4 weeks. Spoke to a lawyer that said to go to the courthouse to get a restraining order where she cannot harass me since I will be leaving the state. I will have to bring my son who will have to tell the judge that he is going to leave despite his (judges) desire he stays home until he is 18 as my son is scared of her.
I'm getting very nervous because I feel powerless against this bitch. She is very vindictive and has threatened to kill me if I ever leave her but luckily I am moving 10 hours away in another state and will only have a PO box. I fear that somehow the judge will be an ass and say my son will have to remain until 18. I fear my wife finding out beforehand. I fear the stress she will bring to the courtroom. I fear her family who have personal anger issues too. She scares the shit out of me.
I tried sharing my experiences with her in one long blog that I found therapeutic to do as I have been bottling this crap up for years. It has been 24 long years and I am so stressed right now. I have to workout to release the building tension I am feeling.
sunshinesbehindtheclouds.blogspot.com/
Get out I feel for you Iam in a situation where she puts me down but I can't defend myself without the threat of putting me out with nothing
Iam in Florida and waiting to go to Dallas in 2 months 2021 when the weather is better...Yes I must go she just too toxic and it's all about her she takes my stimulus without me opening my own mail
She been MARRIED divorce 4 times with me the 5th time
This woman is so wrong for any relationships ..She blames blames blames but never her self...Shame.. Men Run Run Run but plan your escape and never look back ...
Tried clicking the link to read your blog but it’s not there
@@bshatajshina I took the blog down. It was unknown to my son and I that she knew she had liver cancer but did not share it. She died just over 3 weeks after we left. It caused my son a lot of guilt as we were told the night before she died that she was in the hospital as both my son and I received a text from her sister that she was dying. We thought it was some sick twist on their part to find out where we were at but it turned out to be true. We raced back home (about a 10 hour drive) and I had my son visit her in the ICU but he came back out with swollen eyes and said that she was yellow, lost weight fast as he could wrap his fingers around her forearm, and she could only moan but not open her eyes. She died about 8 hours later on her way to hospice. Her narcissistic family decided to attack him verbally in the hospital. The family made the viewing on the day of his birthday of all freaking days and my son begged me not to let him go to the funeral or viewing. He said they were horrible to him and he could only imagine what the rest of the family would be like if they were to see him at the viewing. I told the family that we will not be attending for their ill treatment of my son. The sister of my late wife said she would call and apologize but only ended up calling him to verbally bash him some more as my son pulled the phone away from his ear and softly said to me "She's doing it again." Only one person in that family will text him on holidays or his birthday to say hi and that is it. His aunts, uncles, cousins, and even the grandfather disowned him. I deleted the blog for his sake and to completely sever myself from all of them.
Thank you so for this amazing video, I just find out recently I've been living with one for 6years now is like my world is coming to an end.... He abuse me physically, mentally, verbally and spiritually I have never been good enough for him the list are endless..
Wow! Have you been sitting on my shoulder for the last 10 years? You just described my life.
Trying to find the strength to detach from my narcissistic husband. 26 years of hell!!!
I've been married to one for 34 yrs. I always knew something was not right. I'm dead inside but everything im seeing here makes so much sense.
I'm getting ready to leave and looking for a lawyer that specializes in dealing with Ns but having a hard time locating one.
I'm starting to slowly move my stuff out little by little then I'm gone. He's had me so under his thumb all these years. I'm the sole breadwinner and he's such a loser he doesn't work. He had me convinced that he had so many.issues he couldn't work. But he had time to go to the beach everyday. When I would say something, he would get upset with me. Tell me that it wasn't recreational to.him it was for his health. And how I was so horrible that I didn't want to see him healthy. For years he had me believing so much bs. Oh the stories I could tell you.
Been married with mine for 32 years. Five years ago I started seeing Psychologist and that’s the best thing I ever did. He lost most of the power over me, but I’ll continue to work on that. It’s impossible to live with a narcissist without a good support group and a therapist. Best of luck.
Thank you for giving me hope. I feel so much stronger listening to your videos. Yes I am married to a covert passive aggressive narcissist for many many years.
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Wow this is great information and so relating.
Thank you for taking the time to, and making, your informative videos...much appreciated.
I was wondering if you could do a video about "divorcing Narcissistic Parents"?....I know that's not your typical divorce...but someone was talking about divorcing their Narc Parent the other day...and I thought to myself....."that's an interesting topic..is that even a thing?"
I'm sure a lot of people who are attracted to, have married, and are divorcing a Narcissist...probably had one or two Narcissistic Parents, or Caregivers.
Thank you in advance for your consideration of this.
Looking forward to more of your excellent videos...
Cheers.
Exactly!
Your amazing Rebecca. 💖 👏 😇appreciate all your knowlegde and service
Exactly! Been married to one for so long and I’m finally breaking free.
Wow…yes, this this video resonates so much with what I have experienced in my 2.5 year relationship with my ex boyfriend. I felt abandoned, invalidated and was often left wondering if I was remembering events accurately because he would remember it differently and he was always Right! He held back on intimacy and kept in contact with his ex’s. He gaslighted me and could not take criticism. He would give me ultimatums and put unrealistic rigid boundaries on our relationship. Gosh, I could go on and on. I had finally had enough and ended it.
Vivian Griggs,You are absolutely gorgeous 🌹🌹🥀,hope you are not with a narc 😈!!
You have just described my wife
True findings and analysis..
Watching Rebecca is addicting! She is helping so many people suffering from narcissistic abuse:( They isolate you so you won't have any narrative rattling around in your head but theirs! If you can't get them to counseling, how the heck can you get them 'diagnosed?'
I had to listen a second time to be sure I wasn't dreaming.
You are describing my ex to the "T".. I knew nothing about narcissists until after I left and divorced one but I saw all that you are describing going on when we were married ..he sucked the life out of me and had me thinking I was unstable and crazy even though I was perfectly sane and stable before I met him..my love and admiration to all narc survivors...
Exactly😁! Thank you!
I had enough after I had heart attack symptoms and he said you don't need 911. ?? Are you kidding, I went to hospital next day with afib, thank God I did not have a heart attack, I c have had a blood clot. It was caught in time. No empathy 🙄
Betty lou Rapp,You are absolutely gorgeous 🌹🌹🌺,hope you are not with a narc 😈!!
Going on 25th! He's my favorite dumb animal! That's "exactly" my "exact" description of him, he's even 👱 blond!
Thank you so much for your content....
EXACTLY 👍Spot on.
Yeah, The same attributes of Lucifer.