Sir sir sir itni deep bate bahut hi badhiya example d a nice video Kash aapke videos pahle mile hote life change hoti sir history would have been different.
Thank you very much sir, after delivery i am facing lot of issues... Fights with mother in law .... Not able to handle myself and others as well.... I used to keep quite in my 5 years of marriage... After delivery had some arguments with mother in law , then husband started his own drama my mother bla bla bla .... Feeling lil better after your video.... But one thing i don't know whether i m doing right or wrong i have stopped talking to my mother in law because she trys to control even on phone and give instructions and guidance according to her ... But as i am a working woman , new mom and wife ... I can't follow her guidance and her rituals and way of living ... Also generation gap is a reason.. She is always shouting in the house i did that , 3 bachhe pale ghar banaya Duniyadari pta ni kya kya .. Aur bahuo ko sabse jyada trouble krti wo .... Subah 5 bje uth jati Aur bolti tum bhi utho .... Bina nahaye kitchen me mat jao , khana mat banao , Agr fresh hone gye to aake kapde change kro ... Jb naha k garam garam banaoge tabhi mai khaungi ... Subah ka sham ko ni , sham ka subah ni ... She had countless drama and nakhra Esa lagta h jese kisi janam ka badla le rhi ho hmse .... Merese ni hota manage Husband hamesa bolta h meri maa h ye wo wahi drama ... Ek din subah 5 bje utha k mujhe boli chai banao mere liye ... bahot gussa aaya mujhe Bolti h mera ghar h mene banaya h .. Naak me dum karke rakh deti h ... Aur kuch kaam ni krna hota ... Uske hisab se dinbhar kitchen me khade rho ... Jb bole utho jb bole so jao jab bole beth jao .. To mene baat hi krni bnd kr di .. Ab apna ghar aur apna bachha apne hisab se chala rhi hun ....aur apni capacity k hisab se ... Mujhe bolti h padhne likhne se kuch ni hota .. I am working with bank of america as data engineer... Abhi mujhe farak padna bnd ho gya h ... and i am happy 😊 Chahe koi mujhe achha bole ya bura bolta rhe ... farak ni padta
You are so strong. Sach me sirf khud pe aur apne bacche pe dhyan do. Hum darte hai jhagde se but agle ko hi nahi padi to dheeth aur ziddi banna padta hai. All the best
@monikadwivedi1993 same my MIL also does with me, same she instructs his son wat to do and how to restrict me etc. are you digambar jain ? Bcz wen I read ur things which you posted in an elaborated way it seems like in reading my situation. I cry many times, i shout, I go for complete silent mode , I don't have interest to speak with anybody even not to my birth family, no body means no body. Kabi kabi man karta h why i born as a girl why can't I die in the womb, or after birth etc.
Sir I am really thankful to you for the inspiration.I m facing many problems due to health issues of my husband,even after 28 years of our marriage.Today morning I was totally fed up, after seeing this video I feel much better.Ye waqt guzar zayega. Thank you so much.
Samay accha ata hai to kharab bhi aata hai. Kuch thoda lamba chalta hai par kat zarur jata hai. be brave and fight the battle of life. Zarur jeetengi aap
I know people who are suffering in marriage for 20-25 years and still suffering. It is not bad times , sometimes the husband or wife is psychotic and it is better to divorce the psycho husband or wife. They don’t change .
Yes.......he is not talking about that type of people.... people getting divorce for silly reasons , have no patience, financial problems...etc..etc..this video belongs to .. those 95% of people...ok
I'm already 30 now. Me and many of my classmates are still not married. I had financial and some minor health issues. So I could not marry in time. But my friends did not have any issues but they are still not marrying. I suggest people to get married before at least 27 and average 25. That'll help you in your love life.
Can u tell how to check on these personality disorders? My husband stops talking every 15-20 days without any reason. And on asking he would I don't have anything to say. What to do I don't understand.
In some cases , I have seen that the problems start from saas side but time ke saath vo saas to bol bol kr sb kuch bigad degi aur chup hojati h fir husband wife ek dusre se hi ldte rhte h humesha kisi na kisi baat pr
Very true. Everyone has to go through bad phases in life be it career or marriage. Sometimes if you marry again then the second person turns out to be even worst. This has happened to someone ..
Sir, very nice advice of bad roads and slowing down to second gear. You are doing a great work to make the young people of this country understand deeper aspect of life. Thank you so much for your gyaan
Tq sir 7 yrs after marriage struggling for having children, but still continuing with my husband, hoping he will change ,only to keep my father happy as mother passed away iam single child and father stays alone
Absolutely right advice sir... Marriage is never a smooth ride... It depends on the patience and commitment of the couple to not let the marriage break down.
Mahatma ji Though you ask for comments after every discourse but as far as I think you do not need any. Since observations/solutions are indisputably correct! Are of the highest order, Even on subjects which are never ever covered or dreamed of by anyone!🙏
This advice is good for most people and if we keep calm and carry on most of us make it with a few rolls and punches along the way😅 But if one is in an abusive relationship, or with a narcissist then run for your life. It ain’t getting any better in those cases.
Thank you so much I m going manopause as well as rough marriage at same time. I feel like all my life is slipping out of my hand. Your advice did not help me solve my problem but gave me patience to bear the situation. And patience is only solution which ll help this situation 🙏🏻 Thank you so much sir🙏🏻 today u gave me advice like my father.🙏🏻
The main question here is himmat kab tak rakhein? Jab day 1 se kharab ho aur improvement ka koi scope nahi dikh raha. Kabhi kabhi ek ganda fruit saare fruit kharab kardeta hai to us fruit ko fek Dene mein hi samajhdaari hai..
Guruji, Thank you🙏 your video changed my mindset. I am a teacher, at present middle class. At a right time I am seeing your video I am feeling as if universal blessing showering on me. I am falling short of Words. Dhanyavaad 🙏🏻
Hello sir namaste 🙏. Sir Meri shadi bilkul tutne k kagar pr h meti shafi ko 3 sal huye h or ab mere husband mujhe divorce dena chahte h vo mujhe chorne k liye force kr rhe h kya kru sir me meti mummy k ghr pr hu 1 sal se but husband pr koi frk ni h vo lene ni a rhe h
Sir I very well agree with the RIGHT PEOPLE BUT WRONG TIME (KAAL) concept ... Sometimes astrological planets are such that they can cause situational grievances.. And it is expected that since the time situation is DIFFICULT for the other person, the spouse should be understanding and adjust for the time being.. I am in favour of this statement. But my question is.. What is the limit? Like to what extent should one tolerate? For example if I know that my spouse is of a very calm nature but in the bad times if they becomes aggressive and offensive it can be understood. But if the spouse cheats on the other JUST BECAUSE THE TIME IS BAD... If they do something UNETHICAL which goes against the foundation of marriage DUE TO BAD TIME(because I understand that circumstances can actually play with your mind) .. Even in these situations should the other spouse tolerate? So what should be the DEAL BREAKER in this situation?
Guru Tatva, Agree with you. Family interference and Netflix korean serials seeding ego, monetary, hatred, jealousy, gold digging as most of the time spend on these serials also one of the reasons
I was also going through d phase in my married life..which u described.... but after watching ur video got motivated to fight d bad times n not escape from it...
Sir I have a question. There are so many indian marriages where the discord is not because of money but other factors. These factors are only between husband and wife, it is not related to saas-bahu issues or other family member issue. How such kind of situation should be taken care of? Because I have seen couples being together for 8 to 10 years but things are not changing between them.
Every 15-20 days my husband will stop talking to me without any reasons he has many presumption about me and he will keep on thinking that and will avoid talking to me for months it's really frustrating.
Sir sir sir itni deep bate bahut hi badhiya example d a nice video Kash aapke videos pahle mile hote life change hoti sir history would have been different.
क्या हुआ बहन सबको भाई बोल दिया क्या
Thank you very much sir, after delivery i am facing lot of issues...
Fights with mother in law ....
Not able to handle myself and others as well....
I used to keep quite in my 5 years of marriage...
After delivery had some arguments with mother in law , then husband started his own drama my mother bla bla bla ....
Feeling lil better after your video....
But one thing i don't know whether i m doing right or wrong i have stopped talking to my mother in law because she trys to control even on phone and give instructions and guidance according to her ...
But as i am a working woman , new mom and wife ...
I can't follow her guidance and her rituals and way of living ...
Also generation gap is a reason..
She is always shouting in the house i did that , 3 bachhe pale ghar banaya
Duniyadari pta ni kya kya ..
Aur bahuo ko sabse jyada trouble krti wo ....
Subah 5 bje uth jati
Aur bolti tum bhi utho ....
Bina nahaye kitchen me mat jao , khana mat banao ,
Agr fresh hone gye to aake kapde change kro ...
Jb naha k garam garam banaoge tabhi mai khaungi ...
Subah ka sham ko ni , sham ka subah ni ...
She had countless drama and nakhra
Esa lagta h jese kisi janam ka badla le rhi ho hmse ....
Merese ni hota manage
Husband hamesa bolta h meri maa h ye wo wahi drama ...
Ek din subah 5 bje utha k mujhe boli chai banao mere liye ... bahot gussa aaya mujhe
Bolti h mera ghar h mene banaya h ..
Naak me dum karke rakh deti h ...
Aur kuch kaam ni krna hota ...
Uske hisab se dinbhar kitchen me khade rho ...
Jb bole utho jb bole so jao jab bole beth jao ..
To mene baat hi krni bnd kr di ..
Ab apna ghar aur apna bachha apne hisab se chala rhi hun ....aur apni capacity k hisab se ...
Mujhe bolti h padhne likhne se kuch ni hota ..
I am working with bank of america as data engineer...
Abhi mujhe farak padna bnd ho gya h ... and i am happy 😊
Chahe koi mujhe achha bole ya bura bolta rhe ... farak ni padta
You are so strong. Sach me sirf khud pe aur apne bacche pe dhyan do. Hum darte hai jhagde se but agle ko hi nahi padi to dheeth aur ziddi banna padta hai. All the best
Thik kiya apne
@monikadwivedi1993 same my MIL also does with me, same she instructs his son wat to do and how to restrict me etc. are you digambar jain ? Bcz wen I read ur things which you posted in an elaborated way it seems like in reading my situation. I cry many times, i shout, I go for complete silent mode , I don't have interest to speak with anybody even not to my birth family, no body means no body. Kabi kabi man karta h why i born as a girl why can't I die in the womb, or after birth etc.
Exactly meri saas bhi same aise hi karti hai
आप काफी हद तक सही है.
99 percent marriage problems से गुजरती है.
समय और समस्या अलग अलग होती हैं
पर होती जरूर है.
Sir I am really thankful to you for the inspiration.I m facing many problems due to health issues of my husband,even after 28 years of our marriage.Today morning I was totally fed up, after seeing this video I feel much better.Ye waqt guzar zayega.
Thank you so much.
Stay strong meditate to remain calm to make right decisions. Take care.
Samay accha ata hai to kharab bhi aata hai. Kuch thoda lamba chalta hai par kat zarur jata hai. be brave and fight the battle of life. Zarur jeetengi aap
Divorce के लिए late
I know people who are suffering in marriage for 20-25 years and still suffering. It is not bad times , sometimes the husband or wife is psychotic and it is better to divorce the psycho husband or wife. They don’t change .
This is not ID of sir.
This is absolute fraud
Fake ID spotted
@sango883reported
Yes.......he is not talking about that type of people.... people getting divorce for silly reasons , have no patience, financial problems...etc..etc..this video belongs to .. those 95% of people...ok
sahi ekdum correct
I'm already 30 now. Me and many of my classmates are still not married.
I had financial and some minor health issues.
So I could not marry in time.
But my friends did not have any issues but they are still not marrying.
I suggest people to get married before at least 27 and average 25.
That'll help you in your love life.
Fully agree
Thanks sir, mai lifetime aapki baat yaad rkhungi. Take care.
Shadi se pehle hi advice mil gaya, how to manage up-downs in marriage life, 🙏
❤❤❤❤Ek hi to dil hai guruji kitni bar jito gi...Your are Gods 🎉Grace person
Very true. Bahut badhiya. ❤
When you leave your ego , you can understand other person and his /her problem very easily………
It is not always a ego issue. Sometimes it is a personality disorder. People who are narcissistic, suspicious, paranoid, they don’t change
@@wowser2153 very true. And it takes forever sometimes to realise this.😢
Can u tell how to check on these personality disorders? My husband stops talking every 15-20 days without any reason. And on asking he would I don't have anything to say. What to do I don't understand.
Bhaisahab.. kya gyaan hai iss aadmi mein. Ekdum top class. Erudite who can speak in the common tongue
Marrying means to halve one's rights and double one's duties
Arthur Schopenhauer
In some cases , I have seen that the problems start from saas side but time ke saath vo saas to bol bol kr sb kuch bigad degi aur chup hojati h fir husband wife ek dusre se hi ldte rhte h humesha kisi na kisi baat pr
Toh gaadi achhi Karo na. Understanding banao pati se. With love n patience
👌👌👌👌👌👏👏
Hi😊😊
@@suhanaravichhabriahi😊
U are very kind hearted, like Swami Dayand ji. U are like a true harwani, a well wishers of humankind.
Your knowledge and understanding is very astonishing.
Very true. Everyone has to go through bad phases in life be it career or marriage. Sometimes if you marry again then the second person turns out to be even worst. This has happened to someone ..
Better not to marry again. Why repeat it
@@understanding-why Kindly see a psychiatrist. Don't spoil somebody's life just for sex
Ya thats why those playboys become playboys forever 🤷🏻♂️
@@manjular3678 yup i rather live with cats and dogs 😅
@Ash The Duke Faith, Prayers too help one to go thru married life
Sir, very nice advice of bad roads and slowing down to second gear. You are doing a great work to make the young people of this country understand deeper aspect of life. Thank you so much for your gyaan
Tq sir
7 yrs after marriage struggling for having children, but still continuing with my husband, hoping he will change ,only to keep my father happy as mother passed away iam single child and father stays alone
Leave husband and go live with father. Get new husband
Absolutely right advice sir... Marriage is never a smooth ride... It depends on the patience and commitment of the couple to not let the marriage break down.
Absolutely right sir
Mahatma ji
Though you ask for comments after every discourse but as far as I think you
do not need any.
Since observations/solutions are indisputably correct! Are of the highest order, Even on subjects which
are never ever covered or dreamed of by anyone!🙏
One of the best video , I ever witnessed on this subject matter !!
This advice is good for most people and if we keep calm and carry on most of us make it with a few rolls and punches along the way😅
But if one is in an abusive relationship, or with a narcissist then run for your life. It ain’t getting any better in those cases.
🙏🙏🙏🙏 thanks is a very small word to express my gratitude towards d life solving approach & ur guidance sir
Very well said…I could have gone on listening to it 🙂
Much needed words sir....thank you so much 🙏🙏
Iam following many of yours advices hoping one day my life will be successful
Thank you so much I m going manopause as well as rough marriage at same time. I feel like all my life is slipping out of my hand. Your advice did not help me solve my problem but gave me patience to bear the situation. And patience is only solution which ll help this situation 🙏🏻 Thank you so much sir🙏🏻 today u gave me advice like my father.🙏🏻
I always trust your advice🙏🙏
Ab samjh aa rahi hai aap sahi kah rahe😊
Could not agree more... Thank you 🙏 for sharing.
Facing issues in marriage lekin himmat mili .. thanks
The main question here is himmat kab tak rakhein? Jab day 1 se kharab ho aur improvement ka koi scope nahi dikh raha. Kabhi kabhi ek ganda fruit saare fruit kharab kardeta hai to us fruit ko fek Dene mein hi samajhdaari hai..
Right. But very difficult decision, specially if new problems pop up suddenly after many years of marriage then what to do.
Very very nice video sir... thank u so much 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Enjoyed , liked your suggestions and advice.
Thanks and Best Wishes
Salaam hain aapko sir
Excellent👍👏👏👏 your example is super👌👌👌👌👌
Guruji, Thank you🙏 your video changed my mindset. I am a teacher, at present middle class. At a right time I am seeing your video I am feeling as if universal blessing showering on me. I am falling short of Words.
Dhanyavaad 🙏🏻
Good example and equally good advice.
Bahut Acha Sir! Himat a rahi hai
Wonderful insight 👍
Loved your expressions, rather I personally find the information very well versed.
Great clarity ❤❤❤❤❤
Very nice advice, good examples
Very nicely explained
I vl share this with my sis daughter who is going through rough patch in marriage
Right advice at right time
Hello sir namaste 🙏. Sir Meri shadi bilkul tutne k kagar pr h meti shafi ko 3 sal huye h or ab mere husband mujhe divorce dena chahte h vo mujhe chorne k liye force kr rhe h kya kru sir me meti mummy k ghr pr hu 1 sal se but husband pr koi frk ni h vo lene ni a rhe h
Dum hai guru ji ❤
Your time is bad, not the marriage. Very true.
Namaskar Mr. Sangwan, excellent and wise advice
Sir I very well agree with the RIGHT PEOPLE BUT WRONG TIME (KAAL) concept ... Sometimes astrological planets are such that they can cause situational grievances.. And it is expected that since the time situation is DIFFICULT for the other person, the spouse should be understanding and adjust for the time being.. I am in favour of this statement.
But my question is.. What is the limit? Like to what extent should one tolerate? For example if I know that my spouse is of a very calm nature but in the bad times if they becomes aggressive and offensive it can be understood.
But if the spouse cheats on the other JUST BECAUSE THE TIME IS BAD... If they do something UNETHICAL which goes against the foundation of marriage DUE TO BAD TIME(because I understand that circumstances can actually play with your mind) .. Even in these situations should the other spouse tolerate?
So what should be the DEAL BREAKER in this situation?
Sangwan Sir, please make video on this aspect too
Extreme narcissistic situation
Saadar Naman aapko Sir. Bahut badiya advise di aapne.
U always give best advice
Guru Tatva,
Agree with you. Family interference and Netflix korean serials seeding ego, monetary, hatred, jealousy, gold digging as most of the time spend on these serials also one of the reasons
Sir your efforts are truly commendable,nice content.
Thank you so much sirji thank you so much thank you thank you thank you
Ji Sar aapane bilkul sahi Kaha
Thank you so much sir 😊
Wonderful example
If extra marital affair, then ...
Kese chalae ??
Need this vedio.. thankyou
Present generation lacks patience,they decide very fast and don't want others to interfere in their lives,be it parents or friends
Thq means alot ❤
Such deep wisdom
Can you please put English subtitles so my foreign friends can understand ty 🙏🏼
Aap ke words, bolne ki style bhoot ki interesting hai,
Practical knowledge video sir👌👌
VERY PRACTICAL VIDEO KEEP POSTED SIR, UR SMILE IS ALSO VERY GOOD
Everything you said is true.
👍
Sir Jo apne sabse pehle bola iss video mein ..... Vo last mein kehtey to jyada acha lagta ... I hope u can understand my words ... 🙏
Really appreciate u sir for this video going through such kind of phase,much needed for me
I was also going through d phase in my married life..which u described.... but after watching ur video got motivated to fight d bad times n not escape from it...
Sir ek astrology aur karma pe bhi video bnao
काम की सलाह हैं
Very helpful 👌
💯 pasant each n every word is true sir i salute 🫡 ❤❤❤
Proud of you sir 🎉
Nice topic. Need of the day
Thank you sir 😊
Thankyu Sir please bataye ki, mahilaon ko Lakshmi kyon kaha jata hai. Exact reason Kya hai. 🙏please sir.
Excellent sir
Good stuff, simply explained, alas! life had been so simple.
Apke videos mein aise special signs ❤ 🙏 hona chahiye
This is my 35th year of marriage all due to patience thank god
Real awakening ofyouth
Sir egarly waiting for ur numerology series no: 1 please make one vedio on that topic also 🙏🙏
Thank you🙏🙏
V nice .thank u sir..
Deep and practical.
aaapki fluent english and hinglish is awesome
Marriage is gamble
What about once its ruined?
Thank you
Thanks bade bhaiya aisi advices mere bade jeth dete the jo ab nahi hai
Appreciated Sir 🙏
very true example i like it thank u
Baat to sahi h par already I have patience from 4 year kya or patience rakhna chiye sir ??
Sir I have a question. There are so many indian marriages where the discord is not because of money but other factors. These factors are only between husband and wife, it is not related to saas-bahu issues or other family member issue. How such kind of situation should be taken care of? Because I have seen couples being together for 8 to 10 years but things are not changing between them.
Do whatever makes you happy follow your heart
Same is happening with me. 10 years of marriage nothing has changed. Even worsen with time.
Every 15-20 days my husband will stop talking to me without any reasons he has many presumption about me and he will keep on thinking that and will avoid talking to me for months it's really frustrating.
Sir plz deliver some of your insights on extra maritial affairs prevalent now a days especially in era of globalization.
Excellent!