😛 ive heard pf this phenomenon! Ive even seen it in the wild! That was a sight to behold i tell you. His name was Benjamin it didn’t matter if he was single or not. Tje girls came to him. Even if they knew we wasn’t single. They even came to me as the ugly friend I guess They let me tell him, if any point he wanted to get down. No matter his gf. She is down! That was a regular occurrence… I fugging down know what he did. Amazing i tell you
@@Pssst.ByTheWayNice of you though, there are also some conventionally attractive guys who are still introverted and socially awkward, so that was cool of you. I'm not saying I fall in that category, but one time at an old job I had, there was a cute girl, but of course I was introverted and etc. I only spoke to one other coworker guy, and one time I did see her say something to him then later on that day he asked me a question outta nowhere asking if I had a girlfriend, I said no then I asked why? And he stopped there, I was maybe expecting a "oh because she was asking about you and thinks you're cute". But, he never said it. And I was left with the impression that he was a jealous a hole. And indeed I never actually got the opportunity etc. I later left that job. It's hard. Some girls just aren't direct either so they tell the guy who they think are friendly with the guy they like, but sometimes or alot of the times that guy is jealous and will block that. Such a shame for situations like that. I commend you for actually delivering the communication. Although the guy in your example already had a gf, so if it had been for a guy who was single, that'd be definitely cool. Reading your message just made me remember that thing in my past haha. Have a Great Day Man.
@Pssst.ByTheWay I had a friend like that. I tried my best to do what he did...but I regularly ended up with "eeeeewwwsss" and "I don't like your friend" " your friend isn't good with girls". Friendship eventually dissolved
@@misterbobby8913 thanks for sharing 😊 Yeah , nah, you don’t c block another guy. Thats petty . Did feel great. Probably not. But that’s a me problem. Have a good easter
"A genuine heartfelt compliment can go a long way in making a woman feel special..." It reminds me of this precious piece of dialogue from the film "Charade" (1963): Cary Grant: "Oh, you should see your face." Audrey Hepburn: "What's the matter with it?" Cary Grant: "It's lovely." Nuff said... 😊
I found it interesting that you mentioned women's hormones. It'd be nice if women were encouraged to get over the effects of their hormones the same way men are told to. There was a time many years ago when my ex wife and i were dating. We went out to dinner with her parents and her mother was the type who had very bad pms and everyone knew to steer clear of her when she was in this state. While we were eating a woman walked by and i couldn't help but notice her and my (later) mother in law said to "Get your hormones under control and think with your brain instead. It's mind over body" . I looked her dead in the eyes and said "I'm glad you said that Linda because now you have NO EXCUSE to get emotional or angry when you get pms. Remember, it's mind over body. Just get control of your hormones". Everyone went dead silent. I made it clear that i outright REFUSE to be held to a standard that does not apply to all. I work with the theory of that which does not include me does not apply to me.
Definitely! I am voting for this hair style over the long mane you previously sported. This makes you look more sophisticated and as you move your head it gives you a more energetic bouncy intelligent look. And I should know ( lol) being raised with two sisters and having three daughters and a mother and wife who always would be showing me their latest hair styles over the years. They appreciated my input being an amateur photographer, and artistically inclined. At a certain age, stature or status hair styles become more or less appropriate to show off the best of a woman's hair.
Just be genuine and kind to people. If you shoot your shot and it doesn’t play out the best. Who cares you went after what you wanted and that is very admirable. God speed gentlemen
Her pupils..dilation.......but it can also mean she's scared shitless and wants to run n call the cops. I go by smiles and dialated pupils, and tone of voice,. But all these mean fear too. A woman can have no smile, dialated pupils, a weak voice, tremble, and still want you and want you to move in and take her...crazy I know...the signs of fear and passion can be the same....
@@daleb5967 Many psychedelics result in dilated pupils, especially in women. Not to mention certain pills related to mental health and/or personality disorders guarantee dialed pupils.. You've just described my #1 red flags 😂
I understand that we are all frustrated by not to get what we want, but guys, try to enjoy the advice. The scripting is good. Writing content is difficult. It is just helpful observations and ideas.
i love your content and appreciate your message. Is there a chance you can upgrade your audio equipment? It’s difficult to understand you with the speaker phone mic 😅
@@YourWingmam 🙏🙏🙏 thanks for taking this in stride. I frequently have you in a playlist and occasionally have to skip due to the volume, which is a shame because your delivery is so great. I sincerely appreciate your channel and message
I really like that you share your insights into the female mind. We men need feedback. Btw, how many people asked about your picture and the empty picture hangar? 😊. And how many offered to help? Was this a test😄
Talk to her if she initiates conversation with you. Respect her and don't disrespect her while maintaining your own individuality. She will then obviously chase you to get you. Listen to her, talk less and observe her actions. Let her talk more - don't always talk over her Females are far more communicative in general than males for intercourse - either verbally or non verbally. It's a common theme across all species. Anna telling facts again well done 👏
Ask her what accomplishments she’s most proud of. The good feelings she has remember those things will be associated with you. Also search for: your Wingmam compliment
To me, Anna, you stand out among the numerous female online dating coaches I peruse. It's not just the substance of your content (which is always good stuff) but your soft manner and demeanor. After recently reading some of your book, getting a taste of your substantial wit and humor, and learning about your Mexican mama and abuela, I'm even more of a fan. Are you fluent? (I'm passionate about Spanish, practice every day, and can converse at a pretty high level, B2/C1). 10:03 ... Is that a prison-rape joke?!
I appreciate your advice but for me it all sounds too intimate and, sorry to have to say, rather cheesy... I need to know how to let her know that I fancy her and of course, at the same time, know if she fancies me in return... So far the only sign has been an intimate glance... What do I do next ? I really can't afford to mess up by being too proactive... I hope you can help me ?
Someone I know was having a bad day a couple of days ago. I'd love to reach out and ask if they're doing better. Is a situation like this possible to approach and add a flirty touch?
Depends on how severe the situation is. If it’s one of the Big Ds (not THAT D), death, divorce, disease, disaster subtle is better, non-sexual humour may be appreciated.
I hope people are listening to your advice. These days there are so many options for guys to listen to someone who knows what they are talking about when it comes to dating. Your resource is among the best in giving insights into the dating world. Before the net this was non existent. I hope the guys are listening to you.
Your comment about complimenting her eyes started a cascade here. It made me remember that your eyes grabbed my attention when I first ran across you on YT. You "leak" -- a term I use for the rare people whose eyes seem to act like a slightly open window into their soul. You're comment made me remember that this has not changed (not a flirt, BTW; just the truth). Then I began to realize how much your energy has increased over the past year+. You seem to be steadily blossoming into a much stronger presence than you were some months back (complete with Italian hands ;). It's so incredibly good to see! I'm praying the off-camera Anna is doing as well or better than the on-camera version of you! The video is definitely on-point. Praying for you, as always. Wishing you a blessed Resurrection Day! -- Russ P PS/The dogs survived an Easter egg hunt with the grandkids here yesterday. However, they are close to comatose today. I don't blame them! :)
Uhoh, my window is open? ;) I’m definitely getting better though I save my best days for filming, but I’m happy for the progress. Thank you for your continued prayers, Russ. Kids and dogs and Easter hunt: heartwarming! God bless!
I love your wisdom and advice. I will offer a word of caution to capable men who have mastered the physical world: Definitions and categories:: flirting IS NOT offering any advice, help, counsel, money, automobile support, home repairs, moving furniture, protection, a place to sleep etc. Those all fall into the category of quid pro quo or "transactional relationship." That gives her time to flirt with someone else....and she will. Based on your sage advice it is reasonable to assume that you are one of the most sought after advisors in North America. Congratulations.
Absolutely true! Those fall into the category of simping unless she’s already invested as much value (that the man values) in the relationship. And thank you! ☺️
Anna, You are a rare kind of woman these days. Our culture has castrated so many men it's not funny anymore. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us and God bless you too!!! ( American man whose married to.... and living in South Africa. )
Be tall, good-looking, have a full head of hair, have a low body fat percentage, have developed muscles, have a chisled jaw line, have a deep voice, and especially, have a deep pocket. For starters.
I am 5 feet 6 inches tall, told I look like Tommy Lee Jones, I am 69 yrs old, married three times and I am told by women 20 years or more younger than me how nice I look. You don’t have to be the statue of David to be attractive to women!
I don’t initiate, how do you remain so well dressed? I was born to compliment creatively , I suppress, but am a smart ass after all, what would she like Ovid , Dante, or perhaps the Bard? Thanks
Thanks Anna ( from France ) for your precious advices . One comment, I think you could use a better microphone with profit, yours is a very simple little microphone. It would add value to your videos.
We do videos and music videos here in South Africa and personally I don't hear anything wrong with your sound. It never hurts to get better sound equipment, but I think the sound you have is palatable. God bless!@@YourWingmam
Hey Anna. Love these points. I have a situation with a female and want to ask u if from the signs i tell u, if shes in to me or playing hard to get or waiting for me to make some sort of move. Idk how to contact u directly cuz i want the convo to be private. What would u prefer? I have a gmail if u want. I dont have FB but i do have a IG and whatsapp. If u dont do any of these things its fine. Just figure id ask u
Thank you. I have to try some of these. I’m still at the hi stage - it’s been a long time. I get ‘the look’ but I’m replying hi because I’m a moron. This is happening in random public spaces with strangers.
When I flirt (which is almost never), I do try to avoid being obvious. 1) Do men have oxytocin? 2) I recently was at a friend's wedding, and one of the bride's cousins was a striking beauty. She had intriguing earrings, which I considered mentioning to initiate flirting. That's *Observation!* However, I was too fearful and anxious to try. 3) If one of my secret hobbies is picking my nose, should I mention this? Sharing secrets is fun, but maybe this is a secret that I really should keep hidden from everyone.
1. Yes, but men and women produce it Nader some different circumstances. 2. Let go of attachment to outcome, you were attached to the outcome re: striking beauty 3. Women have a higher sensitivity to “ick” nose picking qualifies lol ;)
"Blessings" back at ya on this Easter Holiday. I will give you an Easter Egg......... The moniker 'Phaedrus' comes from my days in college when I studied the Classics. There was a philosophical dialogue concerning the 'Nature of Love', with the characters of Socrates and Phaedrus. I'll give you a second Easter Egg: Brian ...... and a third: Doctorate in Systematic Theology / Masters in Divinity and also Education (Counseling). Holy! That joke at 10:00. Well, 'Potty Mouth', I do declare, someone has been in the coffee. Once again, "By the power vested in me, ...................
On the lighter side, I was dancing with the same friend of mine and she said, "I want to put you in a corner. ( to practice a dance move that was just taught)"..... "Woah, woah, woah, woah! What would your husband say if he found out?" They we both laughed....
Hi Anna I watched some of your videos, learned many info that I didn't know before. And should tell you that... I'll be doing the line of your consulting services,no matter if it's Looo..ng , it'll be a well done investment!. With higher revenues and rewards!.
“Spontaneous” light touch on or between shoulder and elbow, starting with back of hand to see reaction. Upper arm and top of hand are too intimate for first touch. If she responds with ‘mirror’ touch, ie between shoulder and elbow especially with open hand then you may repeat may ie she has at least subconsciously given you permission, she’s comfortable and open to touch on the forearm - maybe hand - BRIEFLY. IF HER FIRST response to your first exploratory touch is a touch on the forearm, or even top of hand - woohoo!
Just met an older woman in an office scenario she has a ring on her finger and borderline flirts like I’m a “troublemaker” I just responded back “ain’t that the truth..”
Dear Anna: Happy Easter my love!!!! I hope you are having a a peaceful blessed day Thank you so much for another great video. After all this time, you still manage to keep us hooked on your videos. Great content, great delivery, and of course, looking at you is the best part. I am off to spend time with the family now. Once again thank you for the video. We got biology, psychology, communication classes all in one. I know you are not a holiday person but I hope you are having a a great Easter Sunday. May God bless you today and always. Hug and a peck on each cheek. You are beautiful Anna Maria.
(I edited the spelling mistakes) I had a friend in college who was a sight to behold. His name was Ken. It didn’t matter if he was single or not. The girls came to HIM. Even if they knew we wasn’t single. They even came to me , as the ugly friend I guess (he wasn’t that good looking or ripped tbh. Im not gay, but if a good looking guy steps to my gf, i feel threatened… i would have never seen Ken as a threat. Shorter than me. Not as well built, never serious, couldn’t count on him to do anything (not even for his make friends) Edit : Thinking back he definitely had that i dgaf about anything carefree vibe. 🤷♀️ He didn’t care. I cared too much. Still the women were drawn to him like a moth to a flame! And they all got burnt. But even if they knew he was a pos they must have thought. „With me he will be different!“ They let me tell him, if any point he wanted to get down. No matter his gf. She is down! That was a regular occurrence… I fugging didn’t know what he did. Amazing, i tell you.
Morgan Freeman offered up an interesting take. He said he'll offer a woman an entirely sincere compliment..."your hair looks fabulous, I love your perfume, etc." Then he'll just turn and walk away, and she soon follows him across the room seeking more.
But of course gold looks good on you, Anna. It's a really good look. The priest and the prisoner? I laughed my ass off (way to bring the unexpected). OMG.
I’ve noticed that my most success recently has occurred when I’ve been relaxed. The confidence, flirting, and reading body language all just occurs naturally.
Me watching this video, to know what not to comment on my female friend's post so she doesn't think i am flirting 🤣 reverse engineering the whole video
I like how you discussed the difference between friendly talk and flirting. This is a dicey boundary. A toe in the water or the dive into the deep pool potential choice by both parties. 😉
Whenever I used to hear the word "flirt" in the past. I thought it was bad because it's the dirty tactics men use to get women, but always there is healthy way to do flirting like the ones you mentioned in the video. We have to be confident when it comes to approach a woman first and then I believe naturally we will feel connected I guess. You are so funny everyday dear. You are beautiful always ❤and I like when you have a long hair and now almost your hair is fully grown back, but still you always look good and you are a very smart woman as well Anna.
@@YourWingmam No, really good stuff I liked it all of the questions and comments are good at all stages of relationship. How about that dance like nobody's watching, the embrace. Reminding me of a tune .. Come From the Heart Song by Kathy Mattea
Key words in all of this: : "If she likes you, it won't matter." 😏🤣
😛 ive heard pf this phenomenon! Ive even seen it in the wild!
That was a sight to behold i tell you.
His name was Benjamin it didn’t matter if he was single or not. Tje girls came to him. Even if they knew we wasn’t single.
They even came to me as the ugly friend I guess
They let me tell him, if any point he wanted to get down. No matter his gf. She is down!
That was a regular occurrence…
I fugging down know what he did.
Amazing i tell you
@@Pssst.ByTheWayNice of you though, there are also some conventionally attractive guys who are still introverted and socially awkward, so that was cool of you. I'm not saying I fall in that category, but one time at an old job I had, there was a cute girl, but of course I was introverted and etc. I only spoke to one other coworker guy, and one time I did see her say something to him then later on that day he asked me a question outta nowhere asking if I had a girlfriend, I said no then I asked why? And he stopped there, I was maybe expecting a "oh because she was asking about you and thinks you're cute". But, he never said it. And I was left with the impression that he was a jealous a hole. And indeed I never actually got the opportunity etc. I later left that job. It's hard. Some girls just aren't direct either so they tell the guy who they think are friendly with the guy they like, but sometimes or alot of the times that guy is jealous and will block that. Such a shame for situations like that. I commend you for actually delivering the communication. Although the guy in your example already had a gf, so if it had been for a guy who was single, that'd be definitely cool. Reading your message just made me remember that thing in my past haha. Have a Great Day Man.
@Pssst.ByTheWay I had a friend like that. I tried my best to do what he did...but I regularly ended up with "eeeeewwwsss" and "I don't like your friend" " your friend isn't good with girls".
Friendship eventually dissolved
@@misterbobby8913 thanks for sharing 😊
Yeah , nah, you don’t c block another guy. Thats petty . Did feel great. Probably not. But that’s a me problem.
Have a good easter
@JustinArut You can't flirt like a pro if tha bro don't know how.
"A genuine heartfelt compliment can go a long way in making a woman feel special..." It reminds me of this precious piece of dialogue from the film "Charade" (1963):
Cary Grant: "Oh, you should see your face."
Audrey Hepburn: "What's the matter with it?"
Cary Grant: "It's lovely."
Nuff said... 😊
Thats so cheesy it might actually work. Not on the city girls but the wholesome ones
And those that are a bit or a lot insecure
Grant was super suave
Great ... and a great movie.
Grant was a known homosexual.
I found it interesting that you mentioned women's hormones. It'd be nice if women were encouraged to get over the effects of their hormones the same way men are told to. There was a time many years ago when my ex wife and i were dating. We went out to dinner with her parents and her mother was the type who had very bad pms and everyone knew to steer clear of her when she was in this state. While we were eating a woman walked by and i couldn't help but notice her and my (later) mother in law said to "Get your hormones under control and think with your brain instead. It's mind over body" . I looked her dead in the eyes and said "I'm glad you said that Linda because now you have NO EXCUSE to get emotional or angry when you get pms. Remember, it's mind over body. Just get control of your hormones". Everyone went dead silent. I made it clear that i outright REFUSE to be held to a standard that does not apply to all. I work with the theory of that which does not include me does not apply to me.
Amen 🙌
Definitely! I am voting for this hair style over the long mane you previously sported. This makes you look more sophisticated and as you move your head it gives you a more energetic bouncy intelligent look. And I should know ( lol) being raised with two sisters and having three daughters and a mother and wife who always would be showing me their latest hair styles over the years. They appreciated my input being an amateur photographer, and artistically inclined. At a certain age, stature or status hair styles become more or less appropriate to show off the best of a woman's hair.
I'm at the age where I can't offer a woman anything anymore. Actually, it's a relief.😺
Same here. I am just happy to have friends, acquaintances, and dance partners. Not exactly expecting any lady to strike an interest in me.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Increasing your animal fat and red meat intake can increase libido.
@catgolfer1: May I ask, what age you're at?
Lol. I hope to get there soon.....lol
Just be genuine and kind to people. If you shoot your shot and it doesn’t play out the best. Who cares you went after what you wanted and that is very admirable. God speed gentlemen
Thank you I love to listen your video
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
"Hey what's up, stressed out chica!" 😁
Lol
100% keep compliments few and far between but make the ones you do make them for something that wasnt easy...like her appearance.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Okay thanks for your advice
My pleasure ❤️
It's amazing to me how frequently I watch your video's and think, "How did I not already know that?" You are a gift.
Great video, Anna...👍
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
any recommendation for a good hormone tracker?
Her pupils..dilation.......but it can also mean she's scared shitless and wants to run n call the cops. I go by smiles and dialated pupils, and tone of voice,. But all these mean fear too. A woman can have no smile, dialated pupils, a weak voice, tremble, and still want you and want you to move in and take her...crazy I know...the signs of fear and passion can be the same....
I don't but maybe someone else does :)
@@daleb5967 Many psychedelics result in dilated pupils, especially in women.
Not to mention certain pills related to mental health and/or personality disorders guarantee dialed pupils..
You've just described my #1 red flags 😂
I understand that we are all frustrated by not to get what we want, but guys, try to enjoy the advice. The scripting is good. Writing content is difficult. It is just helpful observations and ideas.
Very well done as always. I like the little girl noises you make which create humor and keep it fun to watch. Big hugs and thanks 🙂
i love your content and appreciate your message. Is there a chance you can upgrade your audio equipment? It’s difficult to understand you with the speaker phone mic 😅
Thank you for that feedback (pun) and yes, I'll work on it. :))
@@YourWingmam 🙏🙏🙏 thanks for taking this in stride. I frequently have you in a playlist and occasionally have to skip due to the volume, which is a shame because your delivery is so great. I sincerely appreciate your channel and message
I really like that you share your insights into the female mind. We men need feedback. Btw, how many people asked about your picture and the empty picture hangar? 😊. And how many offered to help? Was this a test😄
Talk to her if she initiates conversation with you.
Respect her and don't disrespect her while maintaining your own individuality.
She will then obviously chase you to get you. Listen to her, talk less and observe her actions.
Let her talk more - don't always talk over her
Females are far more communicative in general than males for intercourse - either verbally or non verbally. It's a common theme across all species.
Anna telling facts again well done 👏
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
How do you make sure you don't touch her 'too soon'?
Move closer to her and see if she moves away
@@YourWingmam Do that first, and if she moves away, don't take her out again?
If it's a first date & I don't know her, which compliments should I give her? I don't know her personality or what achievements she may have.
Ask her what accomplishments she’s most proud of. The good feelings she has remember those things will be associated with you. Also search for: your Wingmam compliment
@@YourWingmam What if she mentions something trivial? Should I pretend to be impressed?
@@DavidZ4-gg3dm I don't think so. Who wants to be with a partner that genuinely doesn't impress them?
To me, Anna, you stand out among the numerous female online dating coaches I peruse. It's not just the substance of your content (which is always good stuff) but your soft manner and demeanor. After recently reading some of your book, getting a taste of your substantial wit and humor, and learning about your Mexican mama and abuela, I'm even more of a fan. Are you fluent? (I'm passionate about Spanish, practice every day, and can converse at a pretty high level, B2/C1).
10:03 ... Is that a prison-rape joke?!
Anna, I love you, I do not mean romantic. I just love your information
I appreciate your advice but for me it all sounds too intimate and, sorry to have to say, rather cheesy... I need to know how to let her know that I fancy her and of course, at the same time, know if she fancies me in return... So far the only sign has been an intimate glance... What do I do next ? I really can't afford to mess up by being too proactive... I hope you can help me ?
Someone I know was having a bad day a couple of days ago. I'd love to reach out and ask if they're doing better. Is a situation like this possible to approach and add a flirty touch?
Depends on how severe the situation is. If it’s one of the Big Ds (not THAT D), death, divorce, disease, disaster subtle is better, non-sexual humour may be appreciated.
A good line is, "Can you keep a secret?" What woman could resist!
Your amazing as usual .❤
You're the best! 💞
I hope people are listening to your advice. These days there are so many options for guys to listen to someone who knows what they are talking about when it comes to dating. Your resource is among the best in giving insights into the dating world. Before the net this was non existent. I hope the guys are listening to you.
Thank you for appreciating my videos! 🙏
The best way is to fall asleep when she keeps talking and snoring helps too
Are you saying her voice is relaxing or that she's boring?
I had a woman flirt with me. It doesn't happen very often. I really blew it. Thanks for this videos.
these are great!
Thanks Anna! Happy Easter dear! 🌹🌹🍷🍷🥂. -- Tony
Same to you! 🙏
The audio's a bit off on this clip.
Sorry about that 🙏
🙌🙏✨ Happy Easter Anna!
Thank you, you too! :)
Your comment about complimenting her eyes started a cascade here. It made me remember that your eyes grabbed my attention when I first ran across you on YT. You "leak" -- a term I use for the rare people whose eyes seem to act like a slightly open window into their soul. You're comment made me remember that this has not changed (not a flirt, BTW; just the truth). Then I began to realize how much your energy has increased over the past year+. You seem to be steadily blossoming into a much stronger presence than you were some months back (complete with Italian hands ;). It's so incredibly good to see! I'm praying the off-camera Anna is doing as well or better than the on-camera version of you! The video is definitely on-point. Praying for you, as always. Wishing you a blessed Resurrection Day! -- Russ P PS/The dogs survived an Easter egg hunt with the grandkids here yesterday. However, they are close to comatose today. I don't blame them! :)
Uhoh, my window is open? ;) I’m definitely getting better though I save my best days for filming, but I’m happy for the progress. Thank you for your continued prayers, Russ. Kids and dogs and Easter hunt: heartwarming! God bless!
I love your wisdom and advice. I will offer a word of caution to capable men who have mastered the physical world: Definitions and categories:: flirting IS NOT offering any advice, help, counsel, money, automobile support, home repairs, moving furniture, protection, a place to sleep etc. Those all fall into the category of quid pro quo or "transactional relationship." That gives her time to flirt with someone else....and she will. Based on your sage advice it is reasonable to assume that you are one of the most sought after advisors in North America. Congratulations.
Absolutely true! Those fall into the category of simping unless she’s already invested as much value (that the man values) in the relationship. And thank you! ☺️
Grrreat video, thanks fo tha info!🤸
Anna, You are a rare kind of woman these days. Our culture has castrated so many men it's not funny anymore. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us and God bless you too!!! ( American man whose married to.... and living in South Africa. )
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
does this apply to older post menopausal women?
Yes :)
Be tall, good-looking, have a full head of hair, have a low body fat percentage, have developed muscles, have a chisled jaw line, have a deep voice, and especially, have a deep pocket. For starters.
Yes be that ideal man who doesn't exist
I am 5 feet 6 inches tall, told I look like Tommy Lee Jones, I am 69 yrs old, married three times and I am told by women 20 years or more younger than me how nice I look. You don’t have to be the statue of David to be attractive to women!
The most successful guys I have seen at PU were being direct and obvious. They were not wasting time.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Thank you for this 😁
great value
Happy Easter spicy señorita Anna! ❤🥚🐇 Hope you're having a great weekend
You too, John!! 💞
@@YourWingmam Thanks, Anna! 💝
This is cool. You are teaching what I asked about last week. Thank you, AJ.
Happy to help! And thanks for watching!
Just and only the tip ????
🎉 hello good advice, how do you keep your relationship great !!??
Watch my video linked at end: how to keep a woman happy. (She must do her part too.) :)
Yes, all about what women want and nothing about what men want to need
My videos are for men who want to learn and grow, 97% of my audience is men and they already know what the want and need...and I'll add, deserve. :)
I don’t initiate, how do you remain so well dressed? I was born to compliment creatively , I suppress, but am a smart ass after all, what would she like Ovid , Dante, or perhaps the Bard? Thanks
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Thanks Anna ( from France ) for your precious advices . One comment, I think you could use a better microphone with profit, yours is a very simple little microphone. It would add value to your videos.
Thank you for the feedback, I'll look upgrade. Thanks for watching!
We do videos and music videos here in South Africa and personally I don't hear anything wrong with your sound. It never hurts to get better sound equipment, but I think the sound you have is palatable. God bless!@@YourWingmam
Hey Anna. Love these points. I have a situation with a female and want to ask u if from the signs i tell u, if shes in to me or playing hard to get or waiting for me to make some sort of move. Idk how to contact u directly cuz i want the convo to be private. What would u prefer? I have a gmail if u want. I dont have FB but i do have a IG and whatsapp. If u dont do any of these things its fine. Just figure id ask u
In my mind set people don’t say much to me because they don’t know me but how does a woman get to know me
You have to talk to them, and do things that allow easy conversations to take place (hobbies you like that women may like…in the real world)
Thank you.
I have to try some of these.
I’m still at the hi stage - it’s been a long time.
I get ‘the look’ but I’m replying hi because I’m a moron.
This is happening in random public spaces with strangers.
Manageable steps. Next add, "How are you today?" til that's comfy.
You look Great Anna!!✝️❤️🙏😊😉
Thank you! 💞
Nice try, Steve.😂
Great advice but I’d never suggest she was a closer Beaver fan! Wouldn’t want to insult her.
Peekaboo cat looks icebergs or what those are? A little too cold or ethereal subject to fill rooms theme? And faint red heart.
Anna....i miss your background Cat....😂
I think it pops up briefl in EVERY single video.
Look harder
I found it
Check again! ;)
Your a beautiful woman doing this for others and with a great attitude, that makes you Gorgeous!!!!❤
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
🎉I don't care what anyone says; You are awesome!
Yay, thank you!
@@YourWingmam No need to thank me. 🤗
When I flirt (which is almost never), I do try to avoid being obvious.
1) Do men have oxytocin?
2) I recently was at a friend's wedding, and one of the bride's cousins was a striking beauty. She had intriguing earrings, which I considered mentioning to initiate flirting. That's *Observation!* However, I was too fearful and anxious to try.
3) If one of my secret hobbies is picking my nose, should I mention this? Sharing secrets is fun, but maybe this is a secret that I really should keep hidden from everyone.
1. Yes, but men and women produce it Nader some different circumstances.
2. Let go of attachment to outcome, you were attached to the outcome re: striking beauty
3. Women have a higher sensitivity to “ick” nose picking qualifies lol ;)
@@YourWingmam What about farts?
Got any tips on how I can be 6' 2"? I'm 5' 8".
I find that the quickest way to end a long story is to ask if it is going to be a long story.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
"Blessings" back at ya on this Easter Holiday. I will give you an Easter Egg......... The moniker 'Phaedrus' comes from my days in college when I studied the Classics. There was a philosophical dialogue concerning the 'Nature of Love', with the characters of Socrates and Phaedrus. I'll give you a second Easter Egg: Brian ...... and a third: Doctorate in Systematic Theology / Masters in Divinity and also Education (Counseling). Holy! That joke at 10:00. Well, 'Potty Mouth', I do declare, someone has been in the coffee. Once again, "By the power vested in me, ...................
Those are a lot of qualifications lol and yes, I may have been caffeinated here!
On the lighter side, I was dancing with the same friend of mine and she said, "I want to put you in a corner. ( to practice a dance move that was just taught)".....
"Woah, woah, woah, woah! What would your husband say if he found out?" They we both laughed....
Lol! Good one!
Hope you had a great day🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@@YourWingmam awww...always my dear...if it makes you smile.
Too much work 😝
🙏 ❤️
You're the quintessential cute Canadian girl! 🧡🖤😊
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Is that picture supposed to be hung up the wall behind you ??
Awesome
Anna: “ Let me hang this picture, oh wait, video time”😂
Lol mid change up
Anna: _"...and she WON'T."_ 🤭
Just love your hairdo in this clip!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Can't walk beside her and put my arm round her shoulder she's 6'2" I'm 5'9"😂😂😂😂😂
Hi Anna
I watched some of your videos, learned many info that I didn't know before. And should tell you that... I'll be doing the line of your consulting services,no matter if it's Looo..ng , it'll be a well done investment!. With higher revenues and rewards!.
Glad you’re finding value in my videos and good for you to take the next step! 🙌
“Spontaneous” light touch on or between shoulder and elbow, starting with back of hand to see reaction. Upper arm and top of hand are too intimate for first touch. If she responds with ‘mirror’ touch, ie between shoulder and elbow especially with open hand then you may repeat may ie she has at least subconsciously given you permission, she’s comfortable and open to touch on the forearm - maybe hand - BRIEFLY. IF HER FIRST response to your first exploratory touch is a touch on the forearm, or even top of hand - woohoo!
Just met an older woman in an office scenario she has a ring on her finger and borderline flirts like I’m a “troublemaker” I just responded back “ain’t that the truth..”
Sounds like she’s the troublemaker lol
What's wrong with obvious as long as you don't come across as needy?
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Does this work if you’re chubby
If you’re confident, it can. Of course there’s never a guarantee no matter what someone looks like. :)
I would like advice on how to flirt with Anna! 😂
Anna, you need help hanging the picture?
Thank god other people noticed, I thought I was just odd.
I thought the hanger on the wall was dirt on my screen. I kept trying to wipe it off LOL
Good call@@AndyBeez
@@smiles7631 Me too 😂
Great content ❤
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Dear Anna:
Happy Easter my love!!!! I hope you are having a a peaceful blessed day
Thank you so much for another great video. After all this time, you still manage to keep us hooked on your videos. Great content, great delivery, and of course, looking at you is the best part.
I am off to spend time with the family now. Once again thank you for the video. We got biology, psychology, communication classes all in one. I know you are not a holiday person but I hope you are having a a great Easter Sunday. May God bless you today and always. Hug and a peck on each cheek. You are beautiful Anna Maria.
Glad you enjoyed it and thank you for the compliment! Enjoy your time with your family and Happy Easter! :)
Wonderful insights, thank you
Flirting without being obvious - kinda self-defeating activity!!
For guys who need to build confidence just talking to women. Approach anxiety is more self-defeating :)
Happy Easter, Anna
Happy Easter ❤
(I edited the spelling mistakes)
I had a friend in college who was a sight to behold.
His name was Ken. It didn’t matter if he was single or not. The girls came to HIM. Even if they knew we wasn’t single.
They even came to me , as the ugly friend I guess (he wasn’t that good looking or ripped tbh. Im not gay, but if a good looking guy steps to my gf, i feel threatened… i would have never seen Ken as a threat. Shorter than me. Not as well built, never serious, couldn’t count on him to do anything (not even for his make friends)
Edit : Thinking back he definitely had that i dgaf about anything carefree vibe. 🤷♀️
He didn’t care. I cared too much.
Still the women were drawn to him like a moth to a flame! And they all got burnt. But even if they knew he was a pos they must have thought. „With me he will be different!“
They let me tell him, if any point he wanted to get down. No matter his gf. She is down!
That was a regular occurrence…
I fugging didn’t know what he did.
Amazing, i tell you.
Exactly! Unlike most guys, he was not invested in the outcome, likely not invested at all. Totally changes everything.
I edited the spelling mistakes!
Morgan Freeman offered up an interesting take. He said he'll offer a woman an entirely sincere compliment..."your hair looks fabulous, I love your perfume, etc." Then he'll just turn and walk away, and she soon follows him across the room seeking more.
It works, say hi, drop a nice comment and walk away.
If she's not shy, but is curious or attracted to you, yes :)
But of course gold looks good on you, Anna. It's a really good look. The priest and the prisoner? I laughed my ass off (way to bring the unexpected). OMG.
Thank you and glad you got a chuckle! Hehe
I like your hair like that.
Thank you!
@@YourWingmam Your husband is a very lucky man! Are you English or Irish? ..
I’ve noticed that my most success recently has occurred when I’ve been relaxed. The confidence, flirting, and reading body language all just occurs naturally.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
I love the priest/prisoner joke!
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
I appreciate your advice, thank you, but I can assure you that I always flirt like I've never flirted before. 👍
Lol, thanks for watching!
Me watching this video, to know what not to comment on my female friend's post so she doesn't think i am flirting 🤣 reverse engineering the whole video
lol ✔️
Happy Easter Anna ❤
Thank you and you as well! 💞
I like how you discussed the difference between friendly talk and flirting. This is a dicey boundary. A toe in the water or the dive into the deep pool potential choice by both parties. 😉
Put a picture on that picture hanger please
Chasing women doesn’t work
Do your own thing
Be successful
Women will flirt with you
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@@tonyscott4333 that’s not how it works
Great advice Anna, my birthday was yesterday so I'm stuffed between yesterday and today lol. Happy Easter! ☺👍
Happy Belated Birthday! 🥳
@@YourWingmam Hey thank you very much Anna! 🥳
We enjoy your video and we enjoy your empathy
Digging the hair as you grow it out again. You're designed to run your hair long
Oxytocin is way too misunderstood. It's given way too much credit for things it really doesn't do, and is ignored for the effects it actually does do.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Whenever I used to hear the word "flirt" in the past. I thought it was bad because it's the dirty tactics men use to get women, but always there is healthy way to do flirting like the ones you mentioned in the video. We have to be confident when it comes to approach a woman first and then I believe naturally we will feel connected I guess. You are so funny everyday dear. You are beautiful always ❤and I like when you have a long hair and now almost your hair is fully grown back, but still you always look good and you are a very smart woman as well Anna.
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Yeah, she's never going to grow that long hair back.........she's still healing.......that was part of the process...,
Ouch.......It's not a dirty tactic......lol. Well..........unless they are married......lol
Haha this should be good.
Any surprises?
@@YourWingmam No, really good stuff I liked it all of the questions and comments are good at all stages of relationship. How about that dance like nobody's watching, the embrace. Reminding me of a tune ..
Come From the Heart
Song by Kathy Mattea