Excellent, excellent video. Loved how you used the word seduce. Man-woman relationship is seduction. It's a dance where the man always leads, but guides the woman so gracefully, that she melts into his arms. Also, liked how you used the word influence. Influence often seems to be the opposite of dominance. Dominance is often defined as forcing people to do what you want, while influence is often defined as seducing people to do what you want. Of course, influence is far more powerful than dominance, because there is no resentment or push-back. A seducer will either respond quickly to a text and say "I so wish that I could text with you today, but I'm on deadline and will get back to you as soon as I can." If a seducer does not respond quickly to a text, he will say, "So sorry for the slow response, but was on deadline." If a seducer has to tell someone something they don't want to hear, he will start out with "Sweetie, ...." I once got busted on this when I was telling a girl how to break bad news. She said, "That's what you do to me." Oops. A true person of influence will never neglect anyone. He sees everyone from janitor to CEO as vital to his network of influence and seduction. The influencer seducer can date multiple women and have several women in the background ready to date, if one his primary relationships changes, because they all love how he leads the relationship as he makes them feel good about themselves.
@@YourWingmam yes, the influencer-seducer influences people, not by making them feel good about him, but making them feel good about themselves. That's what makes him irresistible to almost everyone. Come to think of it, that may be what makes you so irresistible to almost everyone. Of course, I remain unaffected.
Very interesting take. I call women "Sweety" on occasion. Soften the blow for change of plan, bad news, delicately point out an error. I had a period in my life where I had a small circling harem, and a bottom girl, it didn't suit me well. I'm not well organized enough for that and 1 is enough to keep my attention. It turned out to be a self solving problem.😏 I have a distinct moment in my memory, during one of the deciding verbal battles of my previous marriage, where after she rattled of a diatribe of "You are always doings", I auto fired back "That's what you do to me". Because it was. The phrase has edge.
Words certainly have meaning but, getting too hung up on words can blur the reality. Influence and seduction can also take the path of manipulation. Manipulation can be a dangerous and hostile relationship and is characteristic of criminal behavior. At least with dominance, which i view as negative rather than leadership, there is overt behavior to assess in the interaction. Placing too much emphasis on the value of dominance rather than leadership is what leads to bad-boy relationships that ultimately fail to provide the security that women supposedly value most.
Re: "A true person of influence will never neglect anyone. He sees everyone from janitor to CEO as vital to his network of influence and seduction." Wise words. Too few ambitious men understand this.
I'm dealing with one now, I'm 100% myself being straight forward telling her the plain truth about myself and what I want. I'm not pretending to be ANYTHING else, I'm not spinning her any stories. I have boundaries, feel good about myself, are not co dependent, but just want someone add happiness to my life, not one I depend on for happiness. She loves it.
7:46 “An emotionally healthy woman who sees the value in your values [because you value these values above all other values{?}] is actually going to feel safer with you when she sees you commit to your values - even when it means she needs to compromise or be second priority sometimes; she will trust that you know what your priorities should be” -your wingmam ; this is an excellent reasoning and incentive for cultivating your own values (as they will naturally rise up to become what others will consider “high/er values” and, because they’re fit for you, for adhering to them and becoming trusted with adhering to them by others and your self; thank you for sharing this enlightening idea with your audience!
I can see how I've been too much of a nice guy in the past, part of it was going along to get along. What that tells me is I didn't know enough about myself to assert myself in a positive way. And this comes from a broken childhood where I hid from myself, had parents who tried to make me into someone I didn't want to be, and just running away. As much of this dust clears, I am actually happy with myself, and expect that I can be the kind of leader a woman wants and needs. But I am not there yet.
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I get friend zoned All the time. I am a kind man. I’m 6ft 1 1/2. I’m not a doormat. I don’t sleep around. I am Going to go out and enjoy my Life. I am tired of being hurt.
I recently found your videos and really enjoy your perspective. I gave up a long time ago and now I am 33 I see that it's a lost cause to even try. Your videos has helped with simplifying interactions with people in general when I am out and about or being social. Takes the pressure off knowing not every interaction will be positive. Just move on. I am now in the process of looking into starting a family on my own as I want to be a father before it's too late. Adoption and surrogacy are my primary options, so I am gathering information and opinions as much as I can. Looking into both pros and cons of not involving a mother and going into this as a solo parent. Doing this when I am 35/36 so I am aiming to put myself in a solid financial situation. Other than that just wan to say thanks for the different topical videos you make. Peace!
Thank You. It was only yesterday (after watching some other vids on UA-cam about this topic) that I learned how important 'feeling secure and safe' was to females. The person (on the vid) gave the example of where they asked an auditorium full of men and women to raise their hand if in the past month they felt 'genuine fear' about a situation they happened to be in. The vast majority of woman raised their hand, but only a few men. She stated that this is something that men are NOT aware of, but it is constantly on the mind of females. [This blew my mind. I agree, men don't know this. Feeling genuine fear is not something men worry about very often. ]
It's true, thank. you for sharing that! The reality is most violet and sexual crimes (over 95%) are perpetrated by men (even on other men). Certainly, it's a smaller percentage of repeat and multiple offenders but women don't know which ones they are. There are physical strength and sex drive differences between sexes as well (which studies continue to confirm despite feminist disapproval). Most men are good men and safe! And yes, there are physically abusive women out there as well, most unreported. Most women (not all) use verbal abuse more than physical because of these differences. Lots of studies on all of this.
@@andrewjones575 Their lizard brain tells them the reckless violent man can protect them from other reckless & violent men. In the evolutionary past this likely had some truth.
The takeaways I hear: (1) serve by leading (or, lead to serve); and (2) you're going to attract more high-value women by working toward purposes / goals that are more important to you than attracting women. Like cats: you don't get them to jump up on your lap by inviting them to.
Balance is important and this gives great insight. As well as really clarifying on some long mysterious areas. So showing someone they are special and making our time a priority is important, but not at the expense of your own goals and well being. Thank you for explaining what a healthy dominance is, and that there is indeed such a thing.
One of your better topics recently. Thank you. It dovetails with other videos you've made so I won't repeat whatever I said other than that worthwhile women crave and respond well to a direct man. Something I learned late in life.
I'm so glad you found value in this one! And no, I'm definitely not lol but as long as I can eat, I'm good! :) p.s. please share the videos you like! x
Anna, Thank you for another powerful and insightful video. I stand by this video and everything you've said in it. Keep up the good work and know that I got your back! *Your Channel is a international treasure🙏🙏* -Team Anna Wingmam
A good woman is not about looks, I would take a woman with a good heart and a sharp mind and a pleasant personality, over a beauty queen...You want someone who is going to be in your corner, who is going to help you become a better man, as well as you help her achieve her goals and become a better woman...looks aren't that imporant to me, just be easy on the eyes...I try my best to avoid hot women who are crazy...just get a good woman who truly wants you !
@@YourWingmam But men are stupid...there are plenty of guys who are 5s and 6s who think they deserve 10s anna maria. and they know its not gonna happen
Yea and no. I’ve tried to have relationships with women who are lacking physical attributes I would like. She can tell you’re not that attracted to her, and it ends up hurting her.
This entry was particularly insightful. The insights in your videos are tangibly helping me get out of a long pattern of a series of relationships with high drama women with golddigger/self-involved traits and be more circumspect and discerning with my choices. Thank you.
I like how you break it down to Healthy vs. Unhealthy Dominance. Nice Guys believe that putting himself "below" her and making her his priority will win her over when the opposite is true. Making his life, values, and mission his priority will attract the right kind of woman to him rather than him chasing women from a place of neediness. Nice Guys don't really put women on a pedestal, but rather digs himself a ditch from which he looks up to a woman to rescue him.
Knowing my weaknesses is empowering. Being just a little bit naughty while not being exploitive or manipulative of others might just be my super power with truly desirable women of a certain age and demeanor 😊
I always find it difficult to not be nice. I was always told to treat women like you would want your daughter treated😁. I'm sure I will get there with your help. I'm enjoying putting all your good advice to good use👍🥰🥰🥰
It's a fine line. It's not about being not nice, but always placing self-respect above all else. A good dad teaches his daughter to respect a high value man's standards and boundaries, otherwise she becomes an entitled princess. If she can't, wrong match for her. :)
People are seeking love and being wanted while coping with loss, grief and feelings of abandonment. The best ways are not taught like spending time in nature, drinking water eating fresh food. Instead escape by dating drinking movies books ect...the natural choice you can choose is the best choice at the moment...walking in nature safely ect..
Your Wingmam has been "firing on all cylinders" of late, producing some of your best videos yet. An example, would be the video, a couple of months back, that stated that a woman reflects how a man feels about himself. This was not an easy lesson to accept, and one that called for significant change. This most recent video is a furtherance of your "tough love" approach toward men; the importance of being dominant. Dominance does not necessarily mean physical dominance or intimidation, but "predominant" in terms of self-discipline, especially over time and money. If a father wanted to provide his son with quality instruction on how to attract and treat women, he could do no better than recommend that his son watch Your Wingmam videos, including this one. Well, that's enough for now. My initial thought was only to say that you are one of the few women who can do justice to the wearing of purple, just as Agnes Moorehead did.
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Lol that's awesome! It only sounds creepy if you haven't watched enough of my videos to know that's the Wingmam motto: Always leave them wanting more! ;)
Thanks Anna, I'm always so confused by #emotionalthinking of the ladies. I guess just making an emotional impact is the most important, well the right emotional impact lol I know a lot but am rusty and realize I still have so much more to learn
I agree, Anna. One has to say NO sometimes when it goes against one's standards. Sometimes when she wants to do something and you have other plans set on stone. In short, you cannot be wishy-washy type of person. That also include knowing what one can and cannot do and not giving in to others saying otherwise Most of the time. ( gotta challenge yourself occasionally.) I have a story to tell, but it would make this comment too long....
Agreed, wishy-washy is so unattractive! But compromise may be necessary sometimes, too. Such a fine line at times. Such is life! Your comment got cut off
I really enjoy your channel and have dipped in and out over the last couple of months... The info seems grounded and often solid enough. But I'm also constant remind by other channels I watch with the saying never ask a fish to well teach you to fish. So maybe I simply need to watch more of your video's rather than dipping in and out >.
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Ya, saying no is the key when you really mean it. Don't say it too manipulate but when you have to. For ex- If she asks you to hang out on short notice, " I have to work late tonight can we do it tomorrow if or later this week." Don't be at her beckon call or she'll lose interest and respect. Be a man on your purpose and make that the priority even if it's hard and might hurt her feelings.
I agree with you! But I would like a clear definition of the "high value woman in modern times"? All men and all women have biological strengths and weaknesses. In addition, all women are also affected by their family, culture, religion and laws. Here is my point. It does not matter how honest, moral, empathic and loving a woman is she must ALWAYS react to her own biological and hormonal nature. All of us live in a culture that provides benefits especially to women. In "modern times" ( your words) a married woman only needs to utter the words " I'm not happy" and her friends, family and culture has a fast ready response defining her as a "victim" ( the law is clear about women as victims). Sign on the dotted line for dissolution papers can quickly lead to emotional damage to both her and her husband. Many studies over years shows that the financial, emotional and spiritual damage to the husband is not revocable once the divorce papers are served. Why? This "good guy with the good type of dominance" ( personal responsibility, accountability, ambition, kindness) can easily be destroyed by simply signing one document. The divorce machine has started and it will operate without stopping without requiring any more input from her ( the legal "victim"). When men observe these FACTS , they respond in many different ways. One popular definition of insanity is when a person repeats the same behavior resulting failure or trauma and expects a different result. Men opting out of relationships is just one way to avoid this pain and misery. Can your conjecture explain why marriages that last 30, 40 or even 50 years can predictably result in a divorce? I have worked in the divorce industry and have not seen any decline in the divorce rate of marriages longer than 20 years. It is obvious that as the length of marriages increases, the percentage of dissolution filings by women increases even more. The length of marriage does imply that the marriage will continue without divorce. Modern women can say where did all the good men go? Try this hypothetical thought question: Of those marriages last longer than 20 years, where are the "high value" women who WILL divorce in the future? What happened to these "good women" as they continue to file for divorces for the next 10, 20 , 30 years? Once a man is divorced, at any age, the statistics are obvious for alcohol, drug abuse and suicide.
Side note. Most US states have family law policies of a ten year marriage as the "magic" number for women. One result is that few men will initiate divorce once ten years has been reached. There is no reality of the word "equitable" for assets or child custody after ten years of marriage. Popular songs discuss this as it is "cheaper to keep her" after ten years ( implied of her cheating or lack of responsibility or accountability). These words "accountability and responsibility" are not permitted in Prenups in many states.
Brian, there may be numbers to back up her points. But in my real world view, I have noticed the tall, good looking men get all the attention from the ladies. I have been invisible for almost 27 years.
@@briar35981 same here I’ve been invisible my whole life and I’m 44. I just don’t care anymore my heart is frozen I mean a deep freeze that even the heat in Death Valley can’t melt it at this point
The study actually shows it was the men who predicted who the women would get with not the women. They got with the men who looked more dominant than the other men, not more attractive than the other men. If you have a bias your brain will look for evidence that confirms it and ignore the rest. I get plenty of success stories from men who are not highly attractive or top 10% $ or over 6' tall. Focus on doing what you can, and stop arguing for your self-perceived limitations. :)
@@YourWingmam I’m pretty physically dominant. I’m 5’11, 275, bench press 350 and leg press 1108(yes just maxed out Sunday) and I get virtually no female attention at all. Why? Because I’m ugly a sub 5 as it’s referred to. Which is sad because I’m a great person with a good heart but nobody cares because I’m just not attractive to anyone
I understand the term: "HIGH VALUE WOMAN", I believe. I see the term meaning: High expectations & demands. (expensive & time demanding). I value low demand & expense. How do I find a good low value woman?
What people want for LTR vs one night stand does vary, but it's more about the emphasis and points on a spectrum than absolutes. Eg for a LTR a woman will put more emphasis on a man's reliability, but she still wants a guy who can be sexy and a bit dominant. I remember some survey on preferred breast size, my ideal for sex was the 'large' model but my ideal for LTR was the 'medium' - so even looks preference can vary depending, it's not necessarily about compromise.
... true! And women's preferences vary depending on where they are in their menstrual cycle *and* if they're on birth control or not! Naturally cycling women prefer more masculine qualities more of the time. :)
Great video, thank you. A recent report, interestingly in a study done by women in labs, demonstrated that testosterone is not a hormone of aggression but rather of dominance. When aggression is used it is to reinforce/ achieve dominance. P.s. I am totally aversive to aggression.
How about a video on what you think makes men look attractive, I know it's subjective but what do you find attractive. Gray hair vs dyed hair. Clean cut vs long hair vs bald, beard vs close shave vs goatee. Fit vs Dad bod, pants and a button up vs jeans and a t-shirt. Sneakers vs dress shoes vs cowboy boots. Tall, average height or shorter. Tattoos or not. Something along those lines, only seen a few of your videos and would like to hear your thoughts on what you find more visually pleasing.
thanks wingman, im curious as how many modern women actually are really looking into the internal qualities of a man, how many are being influenced by movie role characters and stories in novels? or even the shared experiences of whats being said amoung their girlfriends. in your own experince have you ever done the math about how many modern women actually seek the values in men? how many do you know that just dont. thank you for your videos ive enjoyed them immensley.
As a frustrated avg North American male I find these ridiculous standards perplexing. I saw the difference on tinder where Hot women would choose you who would never give you the lime of day suddenly have to work to get your attention. You feel like what the average women feel on tinder that you don’t have to work on yourself to attract a mate. The North American dating marketplace is an unhealthily unbalanced environment. Women here Dont know how good they have it with a guy who will treat her like gold. Nice guys finish first and dont have to transform themselves into psychopaths to succeed !in the north American dating market.
Completely off-topic: Thank you for a clear look at the Bardot movie poster! The original French version of a Roger Vadim film no less! Bardot and Vadim were quite the pair off camera. And both were known for their s3xy escapades on and behind the camera (Vadim's Barbarella, for instance, capturing the attention of young men for decades). Fits well with your chosen profession. And I don't know how a redhead pulls off pink as a color, but you did! On topic: the younger fellas need to hear this over and over. They are fed a steady diet of "it's all looks and money." While there are clearly women focused on these things, they aren't relationship material to begin with IMHO. Going for a woman of quality changes the equation entirely, as you point out. Good job! Praying for you! -- Russ P PS/Mr. T was snoring "Hello" until my granddaughter woke him up.
It's an original movie poster, yes! Went through a BB phase, have all her movies, though they're all VHS (I'm aware this ages me lol)... As for younger fellas, I agree! Though mature men also need it if they've fallen into the nice guy friend zone at any time. And exactly, the women who only go for looks and cash *are not* high value. *Hot does not equal high value.* Thank you for your prayers, scratch for Mr. T! :)
Another great video. I chose the 'bow out' from chasing the dingbats. I'm the better catch, they can chase me. I should have unsubscribed a long time ago, but Anna is very cool and I often share her videos to my weak buddies.
Thank you for being here, I appreciate you! Understanding women better is a benefit in all areas of life where you need to interact with them, so no harm done *and* you're helping your buddies that need it! 👏
@@YourWingmam I don't know about Canadian girls but our Moscow chicks want a guy to protect them from street muggers and make them laugh like hyenas ... In other words, all they need is a clown-ninja ...
Friends is not a terrible thing *as long as you don't wait for her and you continue dating other women without holding back that info from her.* She has to know there's something at stake. "Would love to get to know you... you can give me advice when I get real dates ;)" That's a tease. *Never actually ask her for advice about anything consequential if you're not living with her at least, especially about other women.*
So is it possible for me to attract an actress from the UK, she is biracial half Norwegian half Nigerian ,Like! what advice do women have for men like me?
I am free, you clarified this perfect!! For years I grew bitter because I didn’t understand the contradiction of what they claim they want and end up with. I have watched other videos explaining this concept vaguely but you nailed it. Thanks, now subscribing.
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Honestly I’ve been kind my whole life and well don’t want to be anymore I don’t like my feelings getting walked over my girlfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago and well it sucks I feel I was good to her always tried to support her and always came up with ideas to celebrate our anniversary I don’t know what happened to her love maybe it was the distance my folks said maybe someone else but she told me there was no one else..idk how to feel and it’s terrible I was so in love that it hurts..I connected with her so well now she’s all of a sudden gone I’m confused and can’t process this..what do I do now?
I've said it before and it is worth repeating. Women want 3 things. Cash, cash and of course, cash. High value ones are those clever enough to collect cash from many exes.
So, guys , always be nice to that pretty lady that is overweight and introvert ! They understand being real ,and nice ! Many times they will run into you down the road and you will be seeing a beautiful women in front of you that in the last year worked hard to loose that weight ! The used up pretty baby mamas are head cases ,stay clear !
You *can* date if you want to, you just have to stay focused on your purpose, which sounds like studies rn. However, if you prefer to stay single for now, I will add how to fulfill the love part in a video. It might surprise you! ;)
Your Wingmam, are you trying to bring men and women together and build relationships? In some of these videos you seem to be telling men or women stay away. Am I correct in believing that you are a dating or relationship coach? I guess I am somewhat in a different situation due to my disability. I had trauma growing up, and now I am disabled. Dating is not high on my list of things to do!
It is pretty simple.. Get your self together and go achieving something with your life, not just for your self but for others as well. Then the high value women will come to you - all by them self.. ;)
You're starting to really zero in on things. If you understand man and woman, as created beings, there's even more clarity for you in understanding what makes people tick, as they do. You're a smart woman.
Hey Anna! Nice to see you here again. It's Natasha, we were pals when you were in LA. I finally got to releasing the videos r recorded with you. Just wanted to let you know about my intention. I will credit you and will give links to your channel. Please contact me if your like to catch up. Great work on your channel.
Nice vid. Always helpful and informative Anna. Nice plants! I've been told I'm a good guy but I'm not a carpet. *Shrugs* 🤷♂️ For some reason single moms are always attracted to me or girls who are still close to their ex's but want to move on...😒 Have a great week.
@@YourWingmam thanks 😊 Wow you have vids for every topic huh? ☺🙂thats good and thanks! I learned years ago being too nice gets you taken advantage of in general.
Anna please make a video that talks about good first date ideas. I don't like dates that are the same old thing etc every other Guy does. movie and pizza etc. I want to take her somewhere where I can talk to her and sweep her off her feet. But put her in a position where we can be competitive, and pick on each other etc. I come up with bowling putt putt, even ax throwing. To me you can learn a lot from someone by how they react to being ahead or behind etc.
Excellent, excellent video. Loved how you used the word seduce. Man-woman relationship is seduction. It's a dance where the man always leads, but guides the woman so gracefully, that she melts into his arms. Also, liked how you used the word influence. Influence often seems to be the opposite of dominance. Dominance is often defined as forcing people to do what you want, while influence is often defined as seducing people to do what you want. Of course, influence is far more powerful than dominance, because there is no resentment or push-back. A seducer will either respond quickly to a text and say "I so wish that I could text with you today, but I'm on deadline and will get back to you as soon as I can." If a seducer does not respond quickly to a text, he will say, "So sorry for the slow response, but was on deadline." If a seducer has to tell someone something they don't want to hear, he will start out with "Sweetie, ...." I once got busted on this when I was telling a girl how to break bad news. She said, "That's what you do to me." Oops. A true person of influence will never neglect anyone. He sees everyone from janitor to CEO as vital to his network of influence and seduction. The influencer seducer can date multiple women and have several women in the background ready to date, if one his primary relationships changes, because they all love how he leads the relationship as he makes them feel good about themselves.
Great comment, all around full of wisdom! I see effective dominance as positive influence and being dominating as being negative and forcing, yes.
@@YourWingmam yes, the influencer-seducer influences people, not by making them feel good about him, but making them feel good about themselves. That's what makes him irresistible to almost everyone. Come to think of it, that may be what makes you so irresistible to almost everyone. Of course, I remain unaffected.
Very interesting take. I call women "Sweety" on occasion. Soften the blow for change of plan, bad news, delicately point out an error.
I had a period in my life where I had a small circling harem, and a bottom girl, it didn't suit me well. I'm not well organized enough for that and 1 is enough to keep my attention. It turned out to be a self solving problem.😏
I have a distinct moment in my memory, during one of the deciding verbal battles of my previous marriage, where after she rattled of a diatribe of "You are always doings", I auto fired back "That's what you do to me". Because it was.
The phrase has edge.
Words certainly have meaning but, getting too hung up on words can blur the reality. Influence and seduction can also take the path of manipulation. Manipulation can be a dangerous and hostile relationship and is characteristic of criminal behavior. At least with dominance, which i view as negative rather than leadership, there is overt behavior to assess in the interaction. Placing too much emphasis on the value of dominance rather than leadership is what leads to bad-boy relationships that ultimately fail to provide the security that women supposedly value most.
Re: "A true person of influence will never neglect anyone. He sees everyone from janitor to CEO as vital to his network of influence and seduction." Wise words. Too few ambitious men understand this.
(8:43) "Women don't respond to what they want. They respond to what they need." Great statement.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
I'm dealing with one now, I'm 100% myself being straight forward telling her the plain truth about myself and what I want.
I'm not pretending to be ANYTHING else, I'm not spinning her any stories.
I have boundaries, feel good about myself, are not co dependent, but just want someone add happiness to my life, not one I depend on for happiness.
She loves it.
7:46 “An emotionally healthy woman who sees the value in your values [because you value these values above all other values{?}] is actually going to feel safer with you when she sees you commit to your values - even when it means she needs to compromise or be second priority sometimes; she will trust that you know what your priorities should be” -your wingmam ; this is an excellent reasoning and incentive for cultivating your own values (as they will naturally rise up to become what others will consider “high/er values” and, because they’re fit for you, for adhering to them and becoming trusted with adhering to them by others and your self; thank you for sharing this enlightening idea with your audience!
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
I can see how I've been too much of a nice guy in the past, part of it was going along to get along. What that tells me is I didn't know enough about myself to assert myself in a positive way. And this comes from a broken childhood where I hid from myself, had parents who tried to make me into someone I didn't want to be, and just running away. As much of this dust clears, I am actually happy with myself, and expect that I can be the kind of leader a woman wants and needs. But I am not there yet.
Not there yet but on your way, that's awesome! Awareness is the first step to change. You got this!
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I get friend zoned All the time. I am a kind man. I’m 6ft 1 1/2. I’m not a doormat. I don’t sleep around.
I am
Going to go out and enjoy my Life. I am tired of being hurt.
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@raidersteve7274: The kind of self-pity, you display in your comment, is probably part of the answer.
@@psoidonym2389 you sure ain't holding back with this one😭
I recently found your videos and really enjoy your perspective. I gave up a long time ago and now I am 33 I see that it's a lost cause to even try. Your videos has helped with simplifying interactions with people in general when I am out and about or being social. Takes the pressure off knowing not every interaction will be positive. Just move on. I am now in the process of looking into starting a family on my own as I want to be a father before it's too late. Adoption and surrogacy are my primary options, so I am gathering information and opinions as much as I can. Looking into both pros and cons of not involving a mother and going into this as a solo parent. Doing this when I am 35/36 so I am aiming to put myself in a solid financial situation. Other than that just wan to say thanks for the different topical videos you make. Peace!
I'm happy the videos are helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
Thank You. It was only yesterday (after watching some other vids on UA-cam about this topic) that I learned how important 'feeling secure and safe' was to females. The person (on the vid) gave the example of where they asked an auditorium full of men and women to raise their hand if in the past month they felt 'genuine fear' about a situation they happened to be in. The vast majority of woman raised their hand, but only a few men. She stated that this is something that men are NOT aware of, but it is constantly on the mind of females. [This blew my mind. I agree, men don't know this. Feeling genuine fear is not something men worry about very often. ]
It's true, thank. you for sharing that! The reality is most violet and sexual crimes (over 95%) are perpetrated by men (even on other men). Certainly, it's a smaller percentage of repeat and multiple offenders but women don't know which ones they are. There are physical strength and sex drive differences between sexes as well (which studies continue to confirm despite feminist disapproval). Most men are good men and safe! And yes, there are physically abusive women out there as well, most unreported. Most women (not all) use verbal abuse more than physical because of these differences. Lots of studies on all of this.
@@andrewjones575 Their lizard brain tells them the reckless violent man can protect them from other reckless & violent men. In the evolutionary past this likely had some truth.
@@andrewjones575 Yes, but that's not what her feels are telling her.
The takeaways I hear: (1) serve by leading (or, lead to serve); and (2) you're going to attract more high-value women by working toward purposes / goals that are more important to you than attracting women.
Like cats: you don't get them to jump up on your lap by inviting them to.
Essentially, yes! And great analogy re: women are like cats (true)!
Great camera work Anna. You're a perfectionist in many ways.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
I have watched many UA-cam videos to understand women, but I think this is the best. It has everything. Thank you!
Balance is important and this gives great insight. As well as really clarifying on some long mysterious areas. So showing someone they are special and making our time a priority is important, but not at the expense of your own goals and well being. Thank you for explaining what a healthy dominance is, and that there is indeed such a thing.
You're welcome! Glad I explained something complicated in a way that was easy to understand! :))
One of your better topics recently. Thank you. It dovetails with other videos you've made so I won't repeat whatever I said other than that worthwhile women crave and respond well to a direct man. Something I learned late in life.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Needed this. Thanks. I hope you're making lots of money here, because you deserve it.
I'm so glad you found value in this one! And no, I'm definitely not lol but as long as I can eat, I'm good! :) p.s. please share the videos you like! x
@@YourWingmam You bet, Anna,...as soon as I get unblocked by FB, lol. I had to square away somebody messing with my sister-in-law.
Anna,
Thank you for another powerful and insightful video. I stand by this video and everything you've said in it. Keep up the good work and know that I got your back!
*Your Channel is a international treasure🙏🙏*
-Team Anna Wingmam
Thank you so much, I appreciate you! :))
A good woman is not about looks, I would take a woman with a good heart and a sharp mind and a pleasant personality, over a beauty queen...You want someone who is going to be in your corner, who is going to help you become a better man, as well as you help her achieve her goals and become a better woman...looks aren't that imporant to me, just be easy on the eyes...I try my best to avoid hot women who are crazy...just get a good woman who truly wants you !
Indeed, it would really help if men embraced that 🙂
@@YourWingmam But men are stupid...there are plenty of guys who are 5s and 6s who think they deserve 10s anna maria. and they know its not gonna happen
But what if the woman is everything you are looking for but you just aren't physically attracted to?
@@frionelhero Looks arent everything.
Yea and no. I’ve tried to have relationships with women who are lacking physical attributes I would like. She can tell you’re not that attracted to her, and it ends up hurting her.
True story. It happened to me as well. I never made any sense of this mentality women have. It so illogic but for some reason makes sense to them.
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This entry was particularly insightful. The insights in your videos are tangibly helping me get out of a long pattern of a series of relationships with high drama women with golddigger/self-involved traits and be more circumspect and discerning with my choices. Thank you.
Glad you liked this one! Worth watching again. And I'm so happy you're establishing some good standards for yourself! :))
Best so far, strong and well explained points
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Thanks
You're welcome ❤
@@YourWingmam You’re more than welcome
And thank youuuu❣️
I like how you break it down to Healthy vs. Unhealthy Dominance. Nice Guys believe that putting himself "below" her and making her his priority will win her over when the opposite is true. Making his life, values, and mission his priority will attract the right kind of woman to him rather than him chasing women from a place of neediness. Nice Guys don't really put women on a pedestal, but rather digs himself a ditch from which he looks up to a woman to rescue him.
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Bingo !!!!!! Talk about hitting the hammer on the nail...
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Money, game, clothes, social status, confidence, reading her mind.
Security, assertiveness, style, social status, confidence, curiosity and not acting like you need to read her mind ;)
Well said, Anna. Great video
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Knowing my weaknesses is empowering. Being just a little bit naughty while not being exploitive or manipulative of others might just be my super power with truly desirable women of a certain age and demeanor 😊
I always find it difficult to not be nice. I was always told to treat women like you would want your daughter treated😁. I'm sure I will get there with your help. I'm enjoying putting all your good advice to good use👍🥰🥰🥰
It's a fine line. It's not about being not nice, but always placing self-respect above all else. A good dad teaches his daughter to respect a high value man's standards and boundaries, otherwise she becomes an entitled princess. If she can't, wrong match for her. :)
I’m nice but you piss me off I’ll turn into a prick very quickly
Fantastic video as usual - thanks.
My pleasure ❤️
People are seeking love and being wanted while coping with loss, grief and feelings of abandonment. The best ways are not taught like spending time in nature, drinking water eating fresh food. Instead escape by dating drinking movies books ect...the natural choice you can choose is the best choice at the moment...walking in nature safely ect..
Excellent point and good advice!
I read the title and was like
1. key to the house
2. key to the car
3. key to the dog house
its just a joke but was to easy xox
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Very funny!
Love your content AND, you have the best voice on You Tube
Appreciate that, thank you very much ❤ 🙏
Another great video ...I love you Anna!👍👍👍
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!
Your Wingmam has been "firing on all cylinders" of late, producing some of your best videos yet. An example, would be the video, a couple of months back, that stated that a woman reflects how a man feels about himself. This was not an easy lesson to accept, and one that called for significant change. This most recent video is a furtherance of your "tough love" approach toward men; the importance of being dominant.
Dominance does not necessarily mean physical dominance or intimidation, but "predominant" in terms of self-discipline, especially over time and money.
If a father wanted to provide his son with quality instruction on how to attract and treat women, he could do no better than recommend that his son watch Your Wingmam videos, including this one.
Well, that's enough for now. My initial thought was only to say that you are one of the few women who can do justice to the wearing of purple, just as Agnes Moorehead did.
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Hi Anna, You're so awesome thanks for your hard work!!!!
My pleasure ❤️
Wow Anna.
Magenta really works for you!
Great lesson today as well.
Thank you!
And by the way,
If you'll forgive the long, long delay in response,
Yes to the video on "clothes all women love"
Great Video Anna, I'm in the waiting, Single dad duties. All is good.
Thank you for sharing. You will find these top 7 critical dating advice for a single dad wanting to date again helpful 👉 ua-cam.com/video/KwLhkrms3ig/v-deo.html
@@YourWingmam Thanks again Anna
Great info!
Thank you! Let me know what you think of this one!
Anna, you're always leaving me wanting more :)
That sounds creepy
Lol that's awesome! It only sounds creepy if you haven't watched enough of my videos to know that's the Wingmam motto: Always leave them wanting more! ;)
Thanks Anna, I'm always so confused by #emotionalthinking of the ladies. I guess just making an emotional impact is the most important, well the right emotional impact lol I know a lot but am rusty and realize I still have so much more to learn
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Great observations...Wonder how you came to these conclusions. Do you observe and talk to other women during dating process ?
Conversations, books and studies :)
@@YourWingmam Great research ! Because women are complex. Sometimes they tell something but do something else. lol
Lots of good information in this video. I am eating dinner, and watching this and Winchesters.
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Hi Anna! I love your videos. Thank you for your wisdom. Stay healthy and hydrated, Senyorita Jorgensen!
So glad you appreciate my videos! Hydrating...! ;)
@@YourWingmam Danke
I agree, Anna. One has to say NO sometimes when it goes against one's standards. Sometimes when she wants to do something and you have other plans set on stone. In short, you cannot be wishy-washy type of person.
That also include knowing what one can and cannot do and not giving in to others saying otherwise Most of the time. ( gotta challenge yourself occasionally.)
I have a story to tell, but it would make this comment too long....
Agreed, wishy-washy is so unattractive! But compromise may be necessary sometimes, too. Such a fine line at times. Such is life! Your comment got cut off
Not really. I had my comment longer, then deleted it not to make it too lengthy. I tend to ramble on in comments. Attempting to be more direct.....
Thanks for this video. This is very motivating start to my day.
You're welcome, glad you liked it!
👍 thanks for the video Anna 🦋
You're welcome! :)
I really enjoy your channel and have dipped in and out over the last couple of months... The info seems grounded and often solid enough. But I'm also constant remind by other channels I watch with the saying never ask a fish to well teach you to fish. So maybe I simply need to watch more of your video's rather than dipping in and out >.
You will find my video on why you should never listen to women's dating and relationship advice interesting. Check it out here 👉 ua-cam.com/video/BDY5hc7V8_I/v-deo.html
@@YourWingmam I will give it a watch!
Ya, saying no is the key when you really mean it. Don't say it too manipulate but when you have to. For ex- If she asks you to hang out on short notice, " I have to work late tonight can we do it tomorrow if or later this week." Don't be at her beckon call or she'll lose interest and respect. Be a man on your purpose and make that the priority even if it's hard and might hurt her feelings.
Exactly!
I agree with you! But I would like a clear definition of the "high value woman in modern times"? All men and all women have biological strengths and weaknesses. In addition, all women are also affected by their family, culture, religion and laws. Here is my point. It does not matter how honest, moral, empathic and loving a woman is she must ALWAYS react to her own biological and hormonal nature. All of us live in a culture that provides benefits especially to women. In "modern times" ( your words) a married woman only needs to utter the words " I'm not happy" and her friends, family and culture has a fast ready response defining her as a "victim" ( the law is clear about women as victims). Sign on the dotted line for dissolution papers can quickly lead to emotional damage to both her and her husband. Many studies over years shows that the financial, emotional and spiritual damage to the husband is not revocable once the divorce papers are served. Why? This "good guy with the good type of dominance" ( personal responsibility, accountability, ambition, kindness) can easily be destroyed by simply signing one document. The divorce machine has started and it will operate without stopping without requiring any more input from her ( the legal "victim"). When men observe these FACTS , they respond in many different ways. One popular definition of insanity is when a person repeats the same behavior resulting failure or trauma and expects a different result. Men opting out of relationships is just one way to avoid this pain and misery. Can your conjecture explain why marriages that last 30, 40 or even 50 years can predictably result in a divorce? I have worked in the divorce industry and have not seen any decline in the divorce rate of marriages longer than 20 years. It is obvious that as the length of marriages increases, the percentage of dissolution filings by women increases even more. The length of marriage does imply that the marriage will continue without divorce. Modern women can say where did all the good men go? Try this hypothetical thought question: Of those marriages last longer than 20 years, where are the "high value" women who WILL divorce in the future? What happened to these "good women" as they continue to file for divorces for the next 10, 20 , 30 years? Once a man is divorced, at any age, the statistics are obvious for alcohol, drug abuse and suicide.
Side note. Most US states have family law policies of a ten year marriage as the "magic" number for women. One result is that few men will initiate divorce once ten years has been reached. There is no reality of the word "equitable" for assets or child custody after ten years of marriage. Popular songs discuss this as it is "cheaper to keep her" after ten years ( implied of her cheating or lack of responsibility or accountability). These words "accountability and responsibility" are not permitted in Prenups in many states.
25 signs she's a keeper: ua-cam.com/video/ltwUe7Kebqs/v-deo.html
Excellent and very helpful video Coach. You're the best. Stay safe n God bless.
Thank you! 🙏
1. Be highly attractive
2. Be top 10% of income bracket
3. Be over 6 feet tall
Brian, there may be numbers to back up her points. But in my real world view, I have noticed the tall, good looking men get all the attention from the ladies. I have been invisible for almost 27 years.
@@briar35981 same here I’ve been invisible my whole life and I’m 44. I just don’t care anymore my heart is frozen I mean a deep freeze that even the heat in Death Valley can’t melt it at this point
The study actually shows it was the men who predicted who the women would get with not the women. They got with the men who looked more dominant than the other men, not more attractive than the other men. If you have a bias your brain will look for evidence that confirms it and ignore the rest. I get plenty of success stories from men who are not highly attractive or top 10% $ or over 6' tall. Focus on doing what you can, and stop arguing for your self-perceived limitations. :)
@@YourWingmam I’m pretty physically dominant. I’m 5’11, 275, bench press 350 and leg press 1108(yes just maxed out Sunday) and I get virtually no female attention at all. Why? Because I’m ugly a sub 5 as it’s referred to. Which is sad because I’m a great person with a good heart but nobody cares because I’m just not attractive to anyone
I have bought all the broken dreams I can buy...and am trying to sell the ones I stole...peace Quentin
Big hug, don't buy any more dreams, work on making your life as good as you can, Quentin, that's all you can do. :)
I understand the term:
"HIGH VALUE WOMAN", I believe.
I see the term meaning:
High expectations & demands.
(expensive & time demanding).
I value low demand & expense.
How do I find a good low value woman?
Wow ! Excellent !
What people want for LTR vs one night stand does vary, but it's more about the emphasis and points on a spectrum than absolutes. Eg for a LTR a woman will put more emphasis on a man's reliability, but she still wants a guy who can be sexy and a bit dominant. I remember some survey on preferred breast size, my ideal for sex was the 'large' model but my ideal for LTR was the 'medium' - so even looks preference can vary depending, it's not necessarily about compromise.
... true! And women's preferences vary depending on where they are in their menstrual cycle *and* if they're on birth control or not! Naturally cycling women prefer more masculine qualities more of the time. :)
Great video, thank you. A recent report, interestingly in a study done by women in labs, demonstrated that testosterone is not a hormone of aggression but rather of dominance. When aggression is used it is to reinforce/ achieve dominance. P.s. I am totally aversive to aggression.
How about a video on what you think makes men look attractive, I know it's subjective but what do you find attractive. Gray hair vs dyed hair. Clean cut vs long hair vs bald, beard vs close shave vs goatee. Fit vs Dad bod, pants and a button up vs jeans and a t-shirt. Sneakers vs dress shoes vs cowboy boots. Tall, average height or shorter. Tattoos or not. Something along those lines, only seen a few of your videos and would like to hear your thoughts on what you find more visually pleasing.
You will find my video on the 12 things men wear that women love interesting. Check it out here 👉 ua-cam.com/video/JwG9qE2rVa0/v-deo.html
thanks wingman, im curious as how many modern women actually are really looking into the internal qualities of a man, how many are being influenced by movie role characters and stories in novels? or even the shared experiences of whats being said amoung their girlfriends. in your own experince have you ever done the math about how many modern women actually seek the values in men? how many do you know that just dont. thank you for your videos ive enjoyed them immensley.
Well spoken quality info, thank you.
You're welcome, glad you enjoyed it!
As a frustrated avg North American male I find these ridiculous standards perplexing. I saw the difference on tinder where Hot women would choose you who would never give you the lime of day suddenly have to work to get your attention. You feel like what the average women feel on tinder that you don’t have to work on yourself to attract a mate. The North American dating marketplace is an unhealthily unbalanced environment. Women here Dont know how good they have it with a guy who will treat her like gold. Nice guys finish first and dont have to transform themselves into psychopaths to succeed !in the north American dating market.
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Completely off-topic: Thank you for a clear look at the Bardot movie poster! The original French version of a Roger Vadim film no less! Bardot and Vadim were quite the pair off camera. And both were known for their s3xy escapades on and behind the camera (Vadim's Barbarella, for instance, capturing the attention of young men for decades). Fits well with your chosen profession. And I don't know how a redhead pulls off pink as a color, but you did! On topic: the younger fellas need to hear this over and over. They are fed a steady diet of "it's all looks and money." While there are clearly women focused on these things, they aren't relationship material to begin with IMHO. Going for a woman of quality changes the equation entirely, as you point out. Good job! Praying for you! -- Russ P PS/Mr. T was snoring "Hello" until my granddaughter woke him up.
It's an original movie poster, yes! Went through a BB phase, have all her movies, though they're all VHS (I'm aware this ages me lol)... As for younger fellas, I agree! Though mature men also need it if they've fallen into the nice guy friend zone at any time. And exactly, the women who only go for looks and cash *are not* high value. *Hot does not equal high value.* Thank you for your prayers, scratch for Mr. T! :)
I've got to take initiative to forge a meaningful relationship.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Another great video. I chose the 'bow out' from chasing the dingbats. I'm the better catch, they can chase me. I should have unsubscribed a long time ago, but Anna is very cool and I often share her videos to my weak buddies.
Thank you for being here, I appreciate you! Understanding women better is a benefit in all areas of life where you need to interact with them, so no harm done *and* you're helping your buddies that need it! 👏
I am not interested in what women want. I am interested in the women who wants me.
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Feel we'd enjoy having a chat about many things without expectations getting in the way.
Very awesome advice and very true
Thank you!
Who you want and who you need, are sometimes two different people 😉
You're absolutely right!
Women are like clouds because eventually they go away and it's a nice day ...
Moscow, Russia
Sense of humour: check! lol ;) Let me know if there were any surprises in this one for you! :))
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@@YourWingmam
I don't know about Canadian girls but our Moscow chicks want a guy to protect them from street muggers and make them laugh like hyenas ...
In other words, all they need is a clown-ninja ...
Such beautiful hairstyle + matching lipstick & top 💖💗💖💗💖💗💖
Thank you! Hope you like the video, let me know what you think! 💞
You inspire me as always.
I've met a girl who wants to be friends with me before dating me.
Friends is not a terrible thing *as long as you don't wait for her and you continue dating other women without holding back that info from her.* She has to know there's something at stake. "Would love to get to know you... you can give me advice when I get real dates ;)" That's a tease. *Never actually ask her for advice about anything consequential if you're not living with her at least, especially about other women.*
@@YourWingmam DANG LOL THAT'S ALOT TO TAKE IN.
Trust me: Your friend is screwing someone else and you never, ever is going to get it on with her!
@@andrewjones575 well, I've felt like I should cut her off.
If she wanted to date me or sleep with me, she would've done so by now.
So is it possible for me to attract an actress from the UK, she is biracial half Norwegian half Nigerian ,Like! what advice do women have for men like me?
You'll find my video on how to make her want you helpful. Check it out here 👉 ua-cam.com/video/soEFFiq-TNM/v-deo.html
Thank you for responding.@@YourWingmam
Very true words.
I am free, you clarified this perfect!! For years I grew bitter because I didn’t understand the contradiction of what they claim they want and end up with. I have watched other videos explaining this concept vaguely but you nailed it. Thanks, now subscribing.
Glad it was helpful! And thank you for subscribing! :))
Love the plants !!!!!!!🌿🏵️🌿🌷🌿🌹🌿🌸🌿🥀
Me too! It was really tall (over 7') but I moved and it rebelled so we're starting over... but I didn't give up on it and look at it now! :))
Anna I have a really good question for you. Could you please make a video on good first date ideas.
Noted, in the meantime consider getting my online dating program it's only $10US and also has how to make first contact, 30 first date ideas, first date etiquette and how to follow up after: members.wingmam.com/double-your-online-dating-2/
Hi Anna, cute outfit as always! 💋🍾🥂🌹
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@@YourWingmam 💋🤗
One of the reasons I like the white lotus, distinct personalities that people can identify with in every day life , love your tips Anna
I'm not familiar with the white lotus but thank you for appreciating my videos!!
I always wanted a friend like you. I’m so disappointed you are married or otherwise obligated.
🙏
I know the one best way to attract a woman. Just be Leonado Dicaprio.
Lol but nah
Hey Anna what's up; can you make a video about the book the rational male and it's red pill ideologies.
I will have to read it first lol but I will put it on my list! :)
Honestly I’ve been kind my whole life and well don’t want to be anymore I don’t like my feelings getting walked over my girlfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago and well it sucks I feel I was good to her always tried to support her and always came up with ideas to celebrate our anniversary I don’t know what happened to her love maybe it was the distance my folks said maybe someone else but she told me there was no one else..idk how to feel and it’s terrible I was so in love that it hurts..I connected with her so well now she’s all of a sudden gone I’m confused and can’t process this..what do I do now?
Great video. what exactly is a high value woman
25 Signs to Know She's a Keeper (the more she has the higher value): ua-cam.com/video/ltwUe7Kebqs/v-deo.html
@@YourWingmam cool. I'd check it out
Yep a great summary of the gender Dynamics
Thank you!
I've said it before and it is worth repeating. Women want 3 things. Cash, cash and of course, cash. High value ones are those clever enough to collect cash from many exes.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
Pink 👚 looks great on you, Anna you wear it well. Happy Tuesday spicy señorita ❤🙏🏻
Thank you, John, happy Tuesday! :))
Beautiful video.
Thank you!
Yes...Likes attract (opposites attract is a myth mostly)
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They don't want a nice guy. A nice guy is not a qualification. They want an attractive guy who is nice.
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So, guys , always be nice to that pretty lady that is overweight and introvert ! They understand being real ,and nice ! Many times they will run into you down the road and you will be seeing a beautiful women in front of you that in the last year worked hard to loose that weight ! The used up pretty baby mamas are head cases ,stay clear !
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Hello Anna how are you doing today ? Happyness is being single.
I'm actually a bit tired today (poor sleep lol) but yes, if you're truly happy being single then make the best of that single life!
@@YourWingmam how are you doing today ?
Anna do u have a video about how to be self sufficient in term of love cuz at this moment i cant date or marry..still studying..
I sent it
You *can* date if you want to, you just have to stay focused on your purpose, which sounds like studies rn. However, if you prefer to stay single for now, I will add how to fulfill the love part in a video. It might surprise you! ;)
Your Wingmam, are you trying to bring men and women together and build relationships? In some of these videos you seem to be telling men or women stay away. Am I correct in believing that you are a dating or relationship coach? I guess I am somewhat in a different situation due to my disability. I had trauma growing up, and now I am disabled. Dating is not high on my list of things to do!
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@@YourWingmam but you still didn't answer my questions.
It is pretty simple.. Get your self together and go achieving something with your life, not just for your self but for others as well. Then the high value women will come to you - all by them self.. ;)
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Best Wingmam on the net Anna
Thank you, kindly!
You're starting to really zero in on things. If you understand man and woman, as created beings, there's even more clarity for you in understanding what makes people tick, as they do. You're a smart woman.
Agreed and thank you, wonderful compliment! :)
Anna, do you have a patreon we can join?
Not yet, but might offer a YT membership this year, thank you for suggesting!
Hey Anna! Nice to see you here again. It's Natasha, we were pals when you were in LA. I finally got to releasing the videos r recorded with you. Just wanted to let you know about my intention. I will credit you and will give links to your channel. Please contact me if your like to catch up. Great work on your channel.
On a scale of 1 - 10, I'm a 1. Is there a specific type of cologne I can use? I need all the help I can get!
The good news is... you've got a lot you can work on! ;)
Mad, try a fragrance called "Platinum Card"
7:30 WOW
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Nice vid. Always helpful and informative Anna. Nice plants! I've been told I'm a good guy but I'm not a carpet. *Shrugs* 🤷♂️ For some reason single moms are always attracted to me or girls who are still close to their ex's but want to move on...😒 Have a great week.
Good guy who can't be walked on is good! You may need to expand where you meet women. Start here: ua-cam.com/video/VM3roQKZeMI/v-deo.html
@@YourWingmam thanks 😊 Wow you have vids for every topic huh? ☺🙂thats good and thanks! I learned years ago being too nice gets you taken advantage of in general.
Anna please make a video that talks about good first date ideas. I don't like dates that are the same old thing etc every other Guy does. movie and pizza etc. I want to take her somewhere where I can talk to her and sweep her off her feet. But put her in a position where we can be competitive, and pick on each other etc. I come up with bowling putt putt, even ax throwing. To me you can learn a lot from someone by how they react to being ahead or behind etc.
Noted and mentioned in another comment :)