please study -- Darshana Pawar murder case. by ex boy friend --Rahul Handore. She had promised to get married to him. But she avoided him when she got a good Government job. He never got any.
Casey, does hypergamy apply to absolutelly 100% of the women that exist in this world? Like is it possible there to be one that does not think in hypergamy terms?
no its is not possible the woman who choose you maybe innocent feminine introvert but she will never choose poor unhealthy unhygienic ill man or man child. its upto you who you are competing
*Women are naturally drawn to men who have their own life and purpose - when you don’t center your world around her, it sparks curiosity and keeps the dynamic exciting.*
@@koomura5139 yes I still have to rewire myself, and I'm prone to letting my guard down when I really like her. But at least now I'm not dumbfounded, I know exactly the mistake right after I made it, and I understand the effect fully.
thats right because women are biologically programmed to search for the most dominant/masculine (alpha) man, no woman desires a man who is submissive/feminine (beta)
Not really. Rather: "he has his own vision of everything, he is independent and don't demands my affection, he does not try to please me and I cannot move him from his place and change him at my discretion. And he also has a lot of things to do and therefore he does not pay much attention to me - I love him" I am a good man and I am fine with women.
I have experienced this with white girls, black girls, and asian girls. They really are the same. They NEED to feel that they had to work for your attention, otherwise they will treat you like a simp so fast.
@@mr.angelosonassis3069 dont let them. It's a cycle. You start off being difficult, then agreeable. Then cycle and repeat. It's how you keep the hamster wheel running.
When you ignore a woman who isn't into you, one of the following 3 things will happen: - She comes back for temporary attention/validation only to ignore you again (don't fall into this trap by being over-available, don't forget why you went no-contact in the first place) - She realizes your importance in her life and is keen on being serious (proceed very cautiously, gauge what she brings to the table, weigh the pros and cons logically and not emotionally) - She never comes back (let go even if it hurts, work relentlessly hard towards your goals, be glad that it isn't meant to be for some good reason/s)
@CenkAydogdu-hh8dh , the 3 options are obvious, but the solutions mentioned don't strike people when they're in an attached state. They were just gentle reminders to those struggling.
Hi Casey, I have been watching your videos for the last year and a half. I didn't have any experience with women up until 3 months ago when I met my first girlfriend, a woman who quickly became my girlfriend. I made every single possible mistake in the book that you described. I made every single one of them. She was very forgiving for a long time. And we survived all of those failed tests. But unfortunately one time one argument went too far and I just felt like she was trying very hard but at that one point the attraction was gone. And she left. It was a very, very valuable experience and it proves what you are saying is 100% correct. But to be honest with you, if I have to pretend to be someone that I am not, then I would rather be alone.
You never have to be someone you're not it's just the results don't come nearly as quick or easy than if you were to follow the crowd. But they are much more valuable & long lasting
They are hardwired, if you want long term gf unfortunely you will have to pretend with some things. You are a good looking fella, probably that's why you were given a lot of test aka chances. Take care
If you don't want to change - be alone, then. Our civilization has raised generations of androgynous men so it's necessary to pretend to be a masculine man until one day you become one
@@wojciech5177 I’m going on 5 years with my girl not pretending. I’m just curious, where did you get the information that you have to fake it? Maybe in the case she’s hot and you don’t click with her in other areas I would agree
Just out of curiosity the dilemma I have with some of this advice is how and what could be done differently in a marriage. When all they want to do is sit and talk every evening about her feelings and day? I got after 3 years because I wasn’t giving her enough attention and had firm boundaries
High level shit right here. I did this naturally in my life in front end game because I'm a naturally quiet and reserved guy so women would always think I'm not interested in them. I'd find out the hottest and best girls had crushes on me. But I wasn't aware of this so when I got into relationships with them I'd fall for them and they'd fall out of love with me. I had no idea that it was hypergamy.
This is so true. My ex is trying to come back now after 2 years because I've been acting like she doesn't exist. Every time I see her at church, she tries to seduce me. Smh crazy how this works 😂🤦🏽♂️
Oh my God, you're so right, Casey. Now, when my divorce is my new reality, I see everything in retrospect and it's so painful how blind I was to the dinamic between my ex and myself...
I'm trying all of this. Haven't even spoken to a girl in 6 months. Not even a single word. I work a well esteemed job, look phenomenal and dress well. And I follow all of your teachings too. Inverse effect. Noting works for me.
Point is they need tension & they need it slowly relieved in congruence with their cooperation & good behavior. Just have to make sure to ramp up & prolong the tension(putting them on ice) If they want to come bk after that then you have to make them pay a fee either literally or emotionally
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient.
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
@@GregMunro You sound weak. Do you hear me? You. Sound. Weak. "I love her sooo much" Weak. "I caaaaan't live without her!" Weak. She knows it and acted on it. Now you are alone. But no more so than when she was with you. Or were you merely with her?... You didn't stop being alone after you met her. Get it?
Men are too busy running the world to make it comfortable for women and too dumb, to figure all this out and teach it to the young males. Women are too stupid to understand what attracts them and turns them on and keeps them for the long haul. So young men are left to wander around in the dark thru trial and error for the rest of their lives. Combine it with the fact that a (((certain group))) who figured all this out hundreds of years ago opened the floodgates on purpose with mobile phones and social media creating the climate that adds jet fuel to female hypergamy without any guard rails or restraints whatsoever,and welcome to the sexual market of 2024. Men literally have to retake (not regain) their rights as men as codified in the major religious texts.there is no other solution. All the game in the world, all the smv in the world is just coping within a purposely broken system, rather than fixing the system. Even if it takes blood in the streets. The current system is no longer tenable and will result in the complete collapse of society within a generation or two. The men who fumbled the ball were those with the power to stop the sexual revolution /women's liberation movement of the 1960s,rather than profit from it. Zuckerberg et al poured gasoline on those flames and are NOT your friends. They would watch your kids being taken away from you by an "unsatisfied" wife and have their lives ruined while you die alone in a bachelor apartment so that they can continue to earn their shekels at your expense.
Love your content Bro . Be greatful for what these Women ,who ever they turned out to be for good or Bad . Gratitude for what they ,Women. Teach us . Now you can level up to the next one .
They do like men. Their emotions are irrational and make them want to hop to the highest guy possible which is ever changing. Female nature is antithetical to stable societies which is why so many cultures have historically limited and controlled it. The west doesn’t really have culture and just lets people do whatever they want so we see the chaos of female nature on full display
The dilemma I have with some of this advice is how and what could be done differently in a marriage/long term relationship? When in my experience most of them want constant validation and to sit and talk every evening about her feelings and day? I feel most eventually will reject YOU if you are not providing some of this. I got ghosted after 3 years because I wasn’t giving her enough of this and I had firm boundaries and prioritised my business alongside her
This talk explained the 'bad boy' theory for me in a way I can actually understand. Google engineers wrote a book about women's online porn searches. Women gravitate towards four or five porn fantasies involving men who are virtually unable to be around them because they are too busy to spend time with women: pirates, werewolves, vampires, doctors. The fantasy involves her having lots of his wealth at her fingertips, and a man who rarely puts demands on her. He is absent from her world 90% of the time or preferably more. They don't want our companionship. Women get needed companionship from other women and children ... not from their husband. He doesn't get much attention from such a woman. It's a horrible trick to wake up with a woman who didn't tell you she didn't need your companionship. I finally got the reality ... women don't want much companionship from a man, but a man won't have much of a social life without a woman. He tries to pay for it, but it's not what she wants. A woman's social life is complete without a man.
We don't need their companionship. their emotional support is redundant and not needed. boys and men fought campaigns without women in their bedroom. boys got too school segregated from girls for centuries. women "mental support" is like alcohol it's warm and fuzzy, believing it helps us but gets quickly old and starts corruting you. sure from time to time it feels good but it's not even remotely necessary.
The video of ALL videos! Wow you’re Neo seeing the 1s and 0s of the Matrix. Math so simple! And unforgiving- as you say, brutal. Thank you so much I want to teach this to my son but it seems like he’s going to learn from experience. I guess we all go through it
Casey was right women always look for better hypergamy and pre selected men even in a relationship. Here's the story : couple days before a girl sent me request and liked one of my post. I though it was normal until I came to know that she is one of my friends girlfriend. Iam 17 years old and i believe that pre selection is crucial and emotional stability and competency is important. He is always right.
Bad=dangerous or the potential to be Dangerous = ability to protect Before money this was literally the most important thing on earth Todays society calls this man “ bad “ cause he isn’t programmed to be a slave to this system 🤷🏽♂️
I’ll go deeper The nephlim and annunaki Nephlim was a slave race , annunaki women were not supposed to breed with nephlim It’s like it’s in women’s dna to know to avoid the lesser genetics or the slave minded people I know lol, but look into it
Damn bro some of this stuff actually helped me out. me and my girl broke up for about 4 days and instead of me professing my love 5 times a day i talked about being a leader being her man growing an empire with her and being a strong man in her life in general. she finally responded after completely ghosting and blocking me. now were talking about being in love andgetting married again in the future hahaha
so true, every woman I have ever gone somewhere with, it was her being attracted to me, because initially I negged her or said something honest about her, a critique; it wasn't planned or a method, it was just natural and automatic and built in.
Casey, yes, looks, money & status do matter. However, what you are teaching is definitely spot on. Your videos are great, thanks. Both, what you say, and looks, money, & status matter. That is my (many) years of experience.
I think the best way to put this is women want to win over a man who objectifies them sexually. But if they succeed in winning them over to a relationship the get bored and crave someone else.
Yup, She want’s to complain about you to her friends, Her friends will tell her to leave you alone but she knows that wouldn’t be fun because you don’t care in the first place, So in order for her to feel special she need to be able to change how you feel “an accomplishment” and once that goal have been met you are no longer attractive.
thats right because women are biologically programmed to search for the most dominant/masculine (alpha) man, no woman desires a man who is submissive/feminine (beta)
@@EriPages Exactly, Sadly you would have to get to the point where you no longer want a serious relationship nor marriage otherwise it would be hard to accept the idea of never giving in to a Woman.
Women have to feel like they are winning something, like a contest. If you portray liking her too much the excitement of the contest is over for her. Love is viewed, by women, as a beta simp emotion.
@casey Zander; i am probably one of your weirdest viewers but today I HONESTLY became a fan. I am a business man in Cali but also African immigrant. You nailed a simple fact that is like a heavily guarded secret. You won me over by both how super smart you explained this while acting like it is easy info. Men literally go thru an entire lifetime without know this diamond fact😂
What we call “ not licking them back “ is really just indifference based on patients ! If you move fast that is a sign you are attaching ! The man who stoically remains patient and vets her is the man they like Some of us are so into attention we call this “ not liking “
This is the same with investors in business, anyone willing to throw you 10 million without even hearing the pitch is crazy That’s how women see us men, they haven’t even pitched yet and we give them everything 😊
My new neighbor girl showed up to my door and invited me over for her friendsgiving because I had been ignoring her while passing her in the breezeway. I showed up and she displayed interest, so I displayed slight interest in her. Now shes not interested in talking to me anymore. Its wild. I tried talking to her about it (my mistake) and she told me shes just focusing on herself right now and the typical nonsense excuse.. Anyways I won't be talking to her anymore. Not just because theres no point, but honestly I dont want to play these silly games. You can say its natural hypergamy and all this but its still a game. Edit: I havent been texting her and she texted me saying happy Thanksgiving.. I said happy Thanksgiving to you as well and left it at that so I'm not downright rude by ignoring her. I'm just gonna stick to myself. I think shes still interested but I just need to not care anymore, even if she does show that she cares.. I guarantee at some point she'll try coming onto me lol. In which case I'll continue acting like I dont care..I think thats the real trick with this one 🤣
youre on the right track but u shouldnt be pretending not to care, ur lack of care should come naturally. u need to entertain more women in ur life so as not to be in a position where u care about that one girl. u need options, move away from scarcity mindset and u will not need to pretend to not care.
Their fantasies come to that fact. That they can change me for the better. But that I don't necessarily follow. and that I also know that I am good on the inside, but can play mean all over again if I want to
she doesn't want him to be good to her, she wants to make him give her the time of day, to make her his. he'll still keep her at attention, not start simping to her. sexual market value has got nothing to do with it. it's how you treat her. NOTHING to do whatsoever with objective sexual market value. as long as you still return to these false tropes, you'll always be mislead.
Naa if a women likes you she likes you weather u like her back or u don't means nothing. If she actually likes you.. what matters is that you don't show and act like you like her way more then her. And become weak to everything just because it's her. If a girl generally likes you. And u consistently show u don't. She will get pissed off and loose interest or act even down right ignorant or violent if she really likes you. All bs u don't want or need. Most of the time the guy ain't faking it. He can only fake not being as interested as he is. But he has to show and she notice his interest....if ur game is to talk to her and hang wit her but show no interest that works only agàin in the short term if she already liked u...otherwise she choose the next hot guy who does. Showing no intrest to ne actually means acting like a friend. That will get u nowhere. Every guy is showing interest your jus talking about game. And that only works on certain women who already like u. Or barely know u if ur one of her top choices
I was friendzoned by a gal once. We went out on a risky adventure once and I told her "I'm not into most girls". Later, she told me that she thought I meant that I wasn't into her (but trying not to hurt her feelings). That's exactly when she decided to sleep with me. I can think of several other examples of when this has worked for me.
Agreed . I thank GOD I was given good looks and a healthy body . I'm 54 and easily date hot birds in their 30s . If you've got the looks, it's way easier and these rules don't apply as much .
She senses your value within a minute, they are good at shopping. If you know how to enjoy the looks but play the body language game proper, she knows you've talked to women most of your life. Women are competitive too, when they know it's audition time, they giggle and agree with everything you say. Don't act like women guys, don't be goofy, that's there role.
Edward concealed his feelings for a long time and didn’t give her certainty while Jacob made it 100% clear he was into her and wanted to keep her safe… Lo and behold she chose the guy that provided uncertainty and mystery. There’s even a sense of danger getting involved with him. Edward portrays the “bad boy” archetype Casey describes. Jacob portrays the simp white night that most men have been brainwashed into believing will make a woman like you or stay with you.
This is what I don’t understand. In my last relationship that lasted a year she confronted me many times about my interest level. I tried my best to not reciprocate but when I would she would just pull away. I do think I showed too much interest in the end but she made it almost impossible not to.
@@anaxa4883impossible NO.. difficult YES...most men realize woman want a player..ands we resort to spinning plates... meaning...you have to always have a backup..and let her know about.....at least for maybe 95 percent of woman
Within 24 hours of my wedding I told my wife that I loved her. The interest level dropped before my eyes of the course of the day. Sje turned into a diva, Bratty, being difficult, passive aggressive, rude, sarcasm and many more. I left her the next day, Oh she begged and begged as it was not a deal breaker what she done but she don’t know that 😊. Never never never let a woman relax or you will be a slave to their emotions, be prepared to walk away at any time, if she likes you and does not have a high body count she will repent. If they want to go back to the streets that’s ok. Broom her and keep it moving by the time I met my wife I told her I was speaking to 5 woman which was the truth if you pursue many pet projects when your single you got more chance of the woman trying to lock you down
@@HANZELVANDERLAAYThat would not at all worked in my last relationship. She made me delete all woman off my socials. And yes if I didn’t meet those demands she would just leave.
In search of the Holygrail, once found it's time to move on to the next adventure..... Starting to GET It.... Conquering by her beauty and skill..... Fulfilling her lust..... IMO
When do you guys think a woman is completely out of interest? I have a co-worker who recently broke up with her bf, we both agreed that we'd go on a date when she's ready. She likes to talk to me quite a bit at work, and last Sunday at 1:00 in the morning she texted me to ask how my weekend was. I got excited and kept trying to text her to hang out only for her to be too busy. (To be fair she's scrambling to get out of her play because her ex is borderline stalking her, she does have a ton going on) I texted her yesterday that I wanted to see her sometime during this 4 day break but she didn't respond. She was still cheery talking to me the rest of the day at work, do you think it's over for me?
If she couldn’t answer you in 4 days then she really isn’t interested, unless she has a really good excuse. Also it’s not a good idea to date coworkers.
You messed up at the very beginning. She said she'll go on a date "when shes ready". You dont sit around and wait until shes ready, she either wants to go on a date or she doesnt. If Shes really into you, she will say yes, and if shes just playing games/low interest, she'll say no. Then you dont have to wonder if she likes you. Shes probably not ready rn because either you gave her bf vibes and she just wants to be casual and fuck, or shes already getting fucked by some guy and your game wasnt better than his. Dont give women wiggle room when setting things up, everything should be simple and straightforward, leave no room for her to play games.
Coming/growing up, I was enamored with patrise💃my best friend's girl/sister, but I was invisible until I hooked up in 8th grade with Kim chi chona. Anyway, Patsy NOW wanted me. That's when I formulated/realized the Boy/Girl syndrome, what you express here. Thank you BRUH 🌶️🔥
It's very easy being based when you know that women are purely transactional and you dated a few already. Treat it like a car dealership be ready to simply walk out at anytime this is a great attitude for life in general. You only have you, you can't be relying on your happines from outside random factors especially not other people. You don't even need a grand strategy you are bulletproof at that point and women will love you for it. You can even be completely yourself and loving and sweet and whatever it all doesn't matter as long as you are truly ready to walk out at any time. If you came to this point as your general attitude women automatically sense that and know you are not bound to her and would do very well without her anyway. Even without you cheating or having any women on the side, she knows if she acts out you are gone, I nearly never have issues with women mistreating me and relationships are always full of pure harmony until I am bored and get the next one.
I love that you reference Adam and Eve all the time. I think you should do more digging into the Bible. There is countless stories of true female nature in there. Plus all the proverbs about it. Proverbs 21:19-21 AMP [19] It is better to dwell in a desert land Than with a contentious and troublesome woman. [20] There is precious treasure and oil in the house of the wise [who prepare for the future], But a short-sighted and foolish man swallows it up and wastes it. [21] He who earnestly seeks righteousness and loyalty Finds life, righteousness, and honor.
this is true, but I think what you failed to distinguish here is when you say "woman" that is actually at least 2 people per woman. One is the internal calculator that runs the show, and if you show her that you like her, you immediately get tallied into the low value bin, because many other guys are already in that bin, and even her own mental projection may be in the low value bin. Anyway, the higher level thought processes (if you have a woman that even posesses that trait) will backward rationalize anything the calcultor tells her. Interest level cuts through anything.
You're missing a key aspect, plot or situation that happens in alot of 'romance' movies. Where most of them are based on the woman in the movie, cheats on the husband. Women find cheating romantic
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please study -- Darshana Pawar murder case. by ex boy friend --Rahul Handore. She had promised to get married to him. But she avoided him when she got a good Government job. He never got any.
Casey, does hypergamy apply to absolutelly 100% of the women that exist in this world? Like is it possible there to be one that does not think in hypergamy terms?
no its is not possible the woman who choose you maybe innocent feminine introvert but she will never choose poor unhealthy unhygienic ill man or man child.
its upto you who you are competing
*Women are naturally drawn to men who have their own life and purpose - when you don’t center your world around her, it sparks curiosity and keeps the dynamic exciting.*
It's all easy until you find one that you really really like.
@@777lucifero
which only indicates that your masculine center is swayed hence weak
@@koomura5139 yes I still have to rewire myself, and I'm prone to letting my guard down when I really like her. But at least now I'm not dumbfounded, I know exactly the mistake right after I made it, and I understand the effect fully.
@@777lucifero if you can understand to that level, god bless you🙏
He is rude
He is disrespectful
He doesn't give two shits about me
Ok i love him
Because women love bad men
Or many of women have traumas, psychological mental problems, hurt or emotionally immature.
Yes this is sad but true
My strategy was giving boys videogames and candy but im always looking for new ideas
thats right because women are biologically programmed to search for the most dominant/masculine (alpha) man, no woman desires a man who is submissive/feminine (beta)
Not really.
Rather: "he has his own vision of everything, he is independent and don't demands my affection, he does not try to please me and I cannot move him from his place and change him at my discretion.
And he also has a lot of things to do and therefore he does not pay much attention to me - I love him"
I am a good man and I am fine with women.
my boxing coach always said the one who cares less has more power in the relationship
Powerless without the love of God-No boxing with wife!! Everyone grow up. Man up! Read book “man in the mirror.”
@barbaraphillips3040 I am a prophet from God.
This is one of the best videos ever... watched it twice.
I have experienced this with white girls, black girls, and asian girls.
They really are the same.
They NEED to feel that they had to work for your attention, otherwise they will treat you like a simp so fast.
This is the one video all should see, remember dont FULLY commit, give her something but never everything
How do you do that? Woman demand all or nothing and then they take half your stuff.
@@mr.angelosonassis3069 dont let them. It's a cycle. You start off being difficult, then agreeable. Then cycle and repeat. It's how you keep the hamster wheel running.
The three stages of psychology in seduction (TED talk) : Attraction, Interest, Maintenance.
True. Every time i did. They change. Bad self sintered man. No problem. They love it hard
@@mr.angelosonassis3069no. Be in control or your self. And your shit. And enjoy what you like
Taking a dump at work watching this
Still there?
BEST !!!!!!
Same. And after this a cigarette
Likely your only workplace contribution. 😅
How'd it go?
When you ignore a woman who isn't into you, one of the following 3 things will happen:
- She comes back for temporary attention/validation only to ignore you again (don't fall into this trap by being over-available, don't forget why you went no-contact in the first place)
- She realizes your importance in her life and is keen on being serious (proceed very cautiously, gauge what she brings to the table, weigh the pros and cons logically and not emotionally)
- She never comes back (let go even if it hurts, work relentlessly hard towards your goals, be glad that it isn't meant to be for some good reason/s)
so you give three options. she comes back temporarly, she come back, she does not come back. was there a other option to begin with but tnx man 😂
@CenkAydogdu-hh8dh , the 3 options are obvious, but the solutions mentioned don't strike people when they're in an attached state. They were just gentle reminders to those struggling.
This is the best channel on UA-cam. Thank you Casey.
Hi Casey, I have been watching your videos for the last year and a half. I didn't have any experience with women up until 3 months ago when I met my first girlfriend, a woman who quickly became my girlfriend. I made every single possible mistake in the book that you described. I made every single one of them. She was very forgiving for a long time. And we survived all of those failed tests. But unfortunately one time one argument went too far and I just felt like she was trying very hard but at that one point the attraction was gone. And she left. It was a very, very valuable experience and it proves what you are saying is 100% correct. But to be honest with you, if I have to pretend to be someone that I am not, then I would rather be alone.
You never have to be someone you're not it's just the results don't come nearly as quick or easy than if you were to follow the crowd. But they are much more valuable & long lasting
“If I knew working out was so hard and I had to change my habits/diets/lifestyle then I guess I would rather just be skinny fat”
They are hardwired, if you want long term gf unfortunely you will have to pretend with some things. You are a good looking fella, probably that's why you were given a lot of test aka chances. Take care
If you don't want to change - be alone, then.
Our civilization has raised generations of androgynous men so it's necessary to pretend to be a masculine man until one day you become one
@@wojciech5177 I’m going on 5 years with my girl not pretending. I’m just curious, where did you get the information that you have to fake it? Maybe in the case she’s hot and you don’t click with her in other areas I would agree
Gonna be a lotta single moms in 10 years
And a collapsed civilization
Bro all woman i met are woman with many kids and without mann! This IS crazy 😊
Man F single moms!
No, men will keep simping for women. It wont change much at all
They will keep simping but women don’t want those men, they would rather be single.. it’s a continuous loop
These are the truths I've learned as well over the last 3 marriages This guy definitely knows what he's talking about❤
Just out of curiosity the dilemma I have with some of this advice is how and what could be done differently in a marriage. When all they want to do is sit and talk every evening about her feelings and day? I got after 3 years because I wasn’t giving her enough attention and had firm boundaries
High level shit right here. I did this naturally in my life in front end game because I'm a naturally quiet and reserved guy so women would always think I'm not interested in them. I'd find out the hottest and best girls had crushes on me. But I wasn't aware of this so when I got into relationships with them I'd fall for them and they'd fall out of love with me. I had no idea that it was hypergamy.
That happened to me a lot in high school and in my early twenties 😢😂 I'm a very reserved man
Yup. I realized if i just keep my Fn mouth shut.
dam 😂😂
This is so true. My ex is trying to come back now after 2 years because I've been acting like she doesn't exist. Every time I see her at church, she tries to seduce me. Smh crazy how this works 😂🤦🏽♂️
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It's Satan
@@involuntarilychad4048The Devil’s got all the bitches
@@involuntarilychad4048The Devil’s got all the bitches
@@involuntarilychad4048 Yep we must pray for Holy discernment
Oh my God, you're so right, Casey. Now, when my divorce is my new reality, I see everything in retrospect and it's so painful how blind I was to the dinamic between my ex and myself...
Great wisdom Casey ! I can see where you donated your whole life to figuring out woman !!! Thank You !
I'm trying all of this.
Haven't even spoken to a girl in 6 months. Not even a single word.
I work a well esteemed job, look phenomenal and dress well. And I follow all of your teachings too.
Inverse effect. Noting works for me.
You're not attractive enough for her. Or not interesting enough. All this shit is how to keep woman interested, not how to get her in the first place.
you fell for a lie
@@alexanderhoff7974move on, she has an image of you and will not change it
These troll comments are funny
Point is they need tension & they need it slowly relieved in congruence with their cooperation & good behavior. Just have to make sure to ramp up & prolong the tension(putting them on ice) If they want to come bk after that then you have to make them pay a fee either literally or emotionally
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient.
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
@@GregMunro You sound weak.
Do you hear me?
You.
Sound.
Weak.
"I love her sooo much"
Weak.
"I caaaaan't live without her!"
Weak.
She knows it and acted on it.
Now you are alone.
But no more so than when she was with you.
Or were you merely with her?...
You didn't stop being alone after you met her.
Get it?
This is such good stuff. I wish I knew this like a year ago
💯
Thus... EVERYTHING I was taught as a youngster, a young man, and a young husband was absolute crap.
Men are too busy running the world to make it comfortable for women and too dumb, to figure all this out and teach it to the young males. Women are too stupid to understand what attracts them and turns them on and keeps them for the long haul. So young men are left to wander around in the dark thru trial and error for the rest of their lives. Combine it with the fact that a (((certain group))) who figured all this out hundreds of years ago opened the floodgates on purpose with mobile phones and social media creating the climate that adds jet fuel to female hypergamy without any guard rails or restraints whatsoever,and welcome to the sexual market of 2024. Men literally have to retake (not regain) their rights as men as codified in the major religious texts.there is no other solution. All the game in the world, all the smv in the world is just coping within a purposely broken system, rather than fixing the system. Even if it takes blood in the streets. The current system is no longer tenable and will result in the complete collapse of society within a generation or two. The men who fumbled the ball were those with the power to stop the sexual revolution /women's liberation movement of the 1960s,rather than profit from it. Zuckerberg et al poured gasoline on those flames and are NOT your friends. They would watch your kids being taken away from you by an "unsatisfied" wife and have their lives ruined while you die alone in a bachelor apartment so that they can continue to earn their shekels at your expense.
Love your content Bro .
Be greatful for what these Women ,who ever they turned out to be for good or Bad .
Gratitude for what they ,Women.
Teach us .
Now you can level up to the next one .
One of the best videos of yours, Casey.
This is perfect. That's how we dodge problems, by focusing on ourselves. And this applies to every human. No sex involved.
Casey ur impact in my life was so great all i can say is thank you
You're welcome, brother.
It's a ego thing that's all they don't like men period they only care about themselves and having the best option available
They do like men. Their emotions are irrational and make them want to hop to the highest guy possible which is ever changing. Female nature is antithetical to stable societies which is why so many cultures have historically limited and controlled it. The west doesn’t really have culture and just lets people do whatever they want so we see the chaos of female nature on full display
The dilemma I have with some of this advice is how and what could be done differently in a marriage/long term relationship? When in my experience most of them want constant validation and to sit and talk every evening about her feelings and day? I feel most eventually will reject YOU if you are not providing some of this. I got ghosted after 3 years because I wasn’t giving her enough of this and I had firm boundaries and prioritised my business alongside her
Exactly 🐐🙌🏽✨
This talk explained the 'bad boy' theory for me in a way I can actually understand. Google engineers wrote a book about women's online porn searches. Women gravitate towards four or five porn fantasies involving men who are virtually unable to be around them because they are too busy to spend time with women: pirates, werewolves, vampires, doctors. The fantasy involves her having lots of his wealth at her fingertips, and a man who rarely puts demands on her. He is absent from her world 90% of the time or preferably more. They don't want our companionship. Women get needed companionship from other women and children ... not from their husband. He doesn't get much attention from such a woman. It's a horrible trick to wake up with a woman who didn't tell you she didn't need your companionship. I finally got the reality ... women don't want much companionship from a man, but a man won't have much of a social life without a woman. He tries to pay for it, but it's not what she wants. A woman's social life is complete without a man.
We don't need their companionship. their emotional support is redundant and not needed. boys and men fought campaigns without women in their bedroom. boys got too school segregated from girls for centuries. women "mental support" is like alcohol it's warm and fuzzy, believing it helps us but gets quickly old and starts corruting you. sure from time to time it feels good but it's not even remotely necessary.
Thank you, Always Casey Brother 😘 ❤️.
Casey the goat. Sending a salute all the way from cape town 🇿🇦
The video of ALL videos! Wow you’re Neo seeing the 1s and 0s of the Matrix. Math so simple! And unforgiving- as you say, brutal. Thank you so much I want to teach this to my son but it seems like he’s going to learn from experience. I guess we all go through it
Watched this 3 different times, it’s so true!!
Casey was right women always look for better hypergamy and pre selected men even in a relationship. Here's the story : couple days before a girl sent me request and liked one of my post. I though it was normal until I came to know that she is one of my friends girlfriend. Iam 17 years old and i believe that pre selection is crucial and emotional stability and competency is important. He is always right.
🤔🤔🤔🤔 no wonder my ex wants me back. “I don’t like her"
Exactly the same here.
Bad=dangerous or the potential to be
Dangerous = ability to protect
Before money this was literally the most important thing on earth
Todays society calls this man “ bad “ cause he isn’t programmed to be a slave to this system 🤷🏽♂️
I’ll go deeper
The nephlim and annunaki
Nephlim was a slave race , annunaki women were not supposed to breed with nephlim
It’s like it’s in women’s dna to know to avoid the lesser genetics or the slave minded people
I know lol, but look into it
Damn bro some of this stuff actually helped me out. me and my girl broke up for about 4 days and instead of me professing my love 5 times a day i talked about being a leader being her man growing an empire with her and being a strong man in her life in general. she finally responded after completely ghosting and blocking me. now were talking about being in love andgetting married again in the future hahaha
so true, every woman I have ever gone somewhere with, it was her being attracted to me, because initially I negged her or said something honest about her, a critique; it wasn't planned or a method, it was just natural and automatic and built in.
ur right bro then they get all obsessed with u
Once again,great stuff Case! Broke that down real good for us.
Casey, yes, looks, money & status do matter. However, what you are teaching is definitely spot on. Your videos are great, thanks. Both, what you say, and looks, money, & status matter. That is my (many) years of experience.
I think the best way to put this is women want to win over a man who objectifies them sexually. But if they succeed in winning them over to a relationship the get bored and crave someone else.
Yup, She want’s to complain about you to her friends, Her friends will tell her to leave you alone but she knows that wouldn’t be fun because you don’t care in the first place, So in order for her to feel special she need to be able to change how you feel “an accomplishment” and once that goal have been met you are no longer attractive.
thats right because women are biologically programmed to search for the most dominant/masculine (alpha) man, no woman desires a man who is submissive/feminine (beta)
Yes. But the trick is to never FULLY be won over
@@EriPages Exactly, Sadly you would have to get to the point where you no longer want a serious relationship nor marriage otherwise it would be hard to accept the idea of never giving in to a Woman.
@@commonsense3921facts
Women have to feel like they are winning something, like a contest. If you portray liking her too much the excitement of the contest is over for her.
Love is viewed, by women, as a beta simp emotion.
This video makes a lot of sense, I completely understand!
Great video this is hilarious but true
Lord of the Whiteboard👑
Great job Casey
casey loads of love and brotherhood from india
@casey Zander; i am probably one of your weirdest viewers but today I HONESTLY became a fan. I am a business man in Cali but also African immigrant. You nailed a simple fact that is like a heavily guarded secret. You won me over by both how super smart you explained this while acting like it is easy info. Men literally go thru an entire lifetime without know this diamond fact😂
This works very well when you're Dating a girl that you don't like, I know this by experience 😊
Professor Casey bro dropping jewels that will last for eternity.
What we call “ not licking them back “ is really just indifference based on patients !
If you move fast that is a sign you are attaching !
The man who stoically remains patient and vets her is the man they like
Some of us are so into attention we call this “ not liking “
This is the same with investors in business, anyone willing to throw you 10 million without even hearing the pitch is crazy
That’s how women see us men, they haven’t even pitched yet and we give them everything 😊
@@jasongoodman9289 Thats why men are the problem in dating. But they wont accept it, why not?
Thank You Mr Zander...+ just for the record..ur work is very much appreciated....I + we.. just wanted u 2 no that.
My new neighbor girl showed up to my door and invited me over for her friendsgiving because I had been ignoring her while passing her in the breezeway. I showed up and she displayed interest, so I displayed slight interest in her. Now shes not interested in talking to me anymore. Its wild. I tried talking to her about it (my mistake) and she told me shes just focusing on herself right now and the typical nonsense excuse.. Anyways I won't be talking to her anymore. Not just because theres no point, but honestly I dont want to play these silly games. You can say its natural hypergamy and all this but its still a game.
Edit: I havent been texting her and she texted me saying happy Thanksgiving.. I said happy Thanksgiving to you as well and left it at that so I'm not downright rude by ignoring her. I'm just gonna stick to myself. I think shes still interested but I just need to not care anymore, even if she does show that she cares.. I guarantee at some point she'll try coming onto me lol. In which case I'll continue acting like I dont care..I think thats the real trick with this one 🤣
youre on the right track but u shouldnt be pretending not to care, ur lack of care should come naturally. u need to entertain more women in ur life so as not to be in a position where u care about that one girl. u need options, move away from scarcity mindset and u will not need to pretend to not care.
Their fantasies come to that fact. That they can change me for the better. But that I don't necessarily follow. and that I also know that I am good on the inside, but can play mean all over again if I want to
It cracks me up that you can't fathom a dude who doesn't want a relationship under any circumstances. lol
That's me. I will not do a relationship with anyone because I value myself much more than any woman. It's what attracts them to you
This one hits hard. I was that guy,,, and lost wonderful girl.
she doesn't want him to be good to her, she wants to make him give her the time of day, to make her his. he'll still keep her at attention, not start simping to her.
sexual market value has got nothing to do with it. it's how you treat her. NOTHING to do whatsoever with objective sexual market value. as long as you still return to these false tropes, you'll always be mislead.
This is too accurate
Naa if a women likes you she likes you weather u like her back or u don't means nothing. If she actually likes you.. what matters is that you don't show and act like you like her way more then her. And become weak to everything just because it's her. If a girl generally likes you. And u consistently show u don't. She will get pissed off and loose interest or act even down right ignorant or violent if she really likes you. All bs u don't want or need. Most of the time the guy ain't faking it. He can only fake not being as interested as he is. But he has to show and she notice his interest....if ur game is to talk to her and hang wit her but show no interest that works only agàin in the short term if she already liked u...otherwise she choose the next hot guy who does. Showing no intrest to ne actually means acting like a friend. That will get u nowhere. Every guy is showing interest your jus talking about game. And that only works on certain women who already like u. Or barely know u if ur one of her top choices
I was friendzoned by a gal once. We went out on a risky adventure once and I told her "I'm not into most girls". Later, she told me that she thought I meant that I wasn't into her (but trying not to hurt her feelings). That's exactly when she decided to sleep with me.
I can think of several other examples of when this has worked for me.
2min 7sec Wait! don't say it! That is it’s pure chaos. Everything needs to be turned upside down for them to feel anything for us at all.
Epic and to the Point!
Doesn't work with me, but I'm extremely good looking. When you look good game is very different.
Agreed . I thank GOD I was given good looks and a healthy body . I'm 54 and easily date hot birds in their 30s . If you've got the looks, it's way easier and these rules don't apply as much .
This absolutely true with only one caveat… they must be somewhat physically and sexually attractive to the man…
She senses your value within a minute, they are good at shopping. If you know how to enjoy the looks but play the body language game proper, she knows you've talked to women most of your life. Women are competitive too, when they know it's audition time, they giggle and agree with everything you say. Don't act like women guys, don't be goofy, that's there role.
I’ve been messing up showing high interests saying all the lovey dovey stuff
Yes you right 💯
Thank you 🙏🙂
twilight is arguably the biggest romance of all time and Edward was crazy about Bella from the jump though
What's crazy is Twilight fans don't acknowledge that Edward is a paedophile.
Edward concealed his feelings for a long time and didn’t give her certainty while Jacob made it 100% clear he was into her and wanted to keep her safe…
Lo and behold she chose the guy that provided uncertainty and mystery. There’s even a sense of danger getting involved with him. Edward portrays the “bad boy” archetype Casey describes.
Jacob portrays the simp white night that most men have been brainwashed into believing will make a woman like you or stay with you.
Makes sense Casey
How Da fak are you suppose to get the girl if you don’t show interest or try to pursue her?
She’s not gonna chase you.
They will if you follow his videos
This is what I don’t understand. In my last relationship that lasted a year she confronted me many times about my interest level. I tried my best to not reciprocate but when I would she would just pull away. I do think I showed too much interest in the end but she made it almost impossible not to.
@@anaxa4883impossible NO.. difficult YES...most men realize woman want a player..ands we resort to spinning plates... meaning...you have to always have a backup..and let her know about.....at least for maybe 95 percent of woman
Within 24 hours of my wedding I told my wife that I loved her. The interest level dropped before my eyes of the course of the day. Sje turned into a diva, Bratty, being difficult, passive aggressive, rude, sarcasm and many more. I left her the next day,
Oh she begged and begged as it was not a deal breaker what she done but she don’t know that 😊. Never never never let a woman relax or you will be a slave to their emotions, be prepared to walk away at any time, if she likes you and does not have a high body count she will repent. If they want to go back to the streets that’s ok. Broom her and keep it moving by the time I met my wife I told her I was speaking to 5 woman which was the truth if you pursue many pet projects when your single you got more chance of the woman trying to lock you down
@@HANZELVANDERLAAYThat would not at all worked in my last relationship. She made me delete all woman off my socials. And yes if I didn’t meet those demands she would just leave.
this is so fukingg real, honest talk
True, I was chasing this other girl and realized that I was making a mistake now my friend tells me she's been asking about me
Just be the bad boy
I dont show no interest, but i still dont get attraction
Based
you need to spark something first, try the numbers game, approach more
@ I don’t want to approach I rather they give me attraction confirmation
@@alphapimp0073 The trick is to give them the impression that you might be interested but are unsure. Then wait for them to win you over.
It mainly works for attractive men.
This one was a cold ass truth. I shivered like a bitch listening to this uncomfortable information
😂
In search of the Holygrail, once found it's time to move on to the next adventure.....
Starting to GET It....
Conquering by her beauty and skill.....
Fulfilling her lust..... IMO
When do you guys think a woman is completely out of interest? I have a co-worker who recently broke up with her bf, we both agreed that we'd go on a date when she's ready.
She likes to talk to me quite a bit at work, and last Sunday at 1:00 in the morning she texted me to ask how my weekend was. I got excited and kept trying to text her to hang out only for her to be too busy. (To be fair she's scrambling to get out of her play because her ex is borderline stalking her, she does have a ton going on)
I texted her yesterday that I wanted to see her sometime during this 4 day break but she didn't respond. She was still cheery talking to me the rest of the day at work, do you think it's over for me?
If she couldn’t answer you in 4 days then she really isn’t interested, unless she has a really good excuse. Also it’s not a good idea to date coworkers.
You messed up at the very beginning. She said she'll go on a date "when shes ready". You dont sit around and wait until shes ready, she either wants to go on a date or she doesnt. If Shes really into you, she will say yes, and if shes just playing games/low interest, she'll say no. Then you dont have to wonder if she likes you. Shes probably not ready rn because either you gave her bf vibes and she just wants to be casual and fuck, or shes already getting fucked by some guy and your game wasnt better than his. Dont give women wiggle room when setting things up, everything should be simple and straightforward, leave no room for her to play games.
100% confidence with 0% needy = Prince Charming 😎🤴💪
From my experience title is 1,000% accurate
u gotta read sum of dark romance books. Try haunting adeliene
2 i have experienced 2 times in the last 12 months
How does this work? What actions and decisions does this lead to? How do you continue a relationship while not reciprocating interest?
Doesn't this only apply for damaged/toxic/insecure women?
yes
Yes. In today's world that means around 80% of women
@@fernandoavellusZ lmao I guess that's true sadly
yes, but with the "sane" ones you have to game either, just dial down
@@RC-eo8yt Yeah but if you're a grown ass mature adult you should just vibe because you like each other. It's so dumb.
Your right.
you r right
Well if the man is meant to persue a women then how would all of this even start?
Coming/growing up, I was enamored with patrise💃my best friend's girl/sister, but I was invisible until I hooked up in 8th grade with Kim chi chona. Anyway, Patsy NOW wanted me. That's when I formulated/realized the Boy/Girl syndrome, what you express here. Thank you BRUH 🌶️🔥
Patsy I am not 👑
neither was I had
everything makes sense now lol
That's only true if she finds you attractive in the first place.
This is fucking beautiful
This is true guys
It's very easy being based when you know that women are purely transactional and you dated a few already. Treat it like a car dealership be ready to simply walk out at anytime this is a great attitude for life in general. You only have you, you can't be relying on your happines from outside random factors especially not other people. You don't even need a grand strategy you are bulletproof at that point and women will love you for it. You can even be completely yourself and loving and sweet and whatever it all doesn't matter as long as you are truly ready to walk out at any time. If you came to this point as your general attitude women automatically sense that and know you are not bound to her and would do very well without her anyway. Even without you cheating or having any women on the side, she knows if she acts out you are gone, I nearly never have issues with women mistreating me and relationships are always full of pure harmony until I am bored and get the next one.
I love that you reference Adam and Eve all the time. I think you should do more digging into the Bible. There is countless stories of true female nature in there. Plus all the proverbs about it.
Proverbs 21:19-21 AMP
[19] It is better to dwell in a desert land Than with a contentious and troublesome woman. [20] There is precious treasure and oil in the house of the wise [who prepare for the future], But a short-sighted and foolish man swallows it up and wastes it. [21] He who earnestly seeks righteousness and loyalty Finds life, righteousness, and honor.
He can't redact the Bible like his comments section.
this is true, but I think what you failed to distinguish here is when you say "woman" that is actually at least 2 people per woman. One is the internal calculator that runs the show, and if you show her that you like her, you immediately get tallied into the low value bin, because many other guys are already in that bin, and even her own mental projection may be in the low value bin. Anyway, the higher level thought processes (if you have a woman that even posesses that trait) will backward rationalize anything the calcultor tells her. Interest level cuts through anything.
You're missing a key aspect, plot or situation that happens in alot of 'romance' movies. Where most of them are based on the woman in the movie, cheats on the husband. Women find cheating romantic
Your right
If she feels inferior in some aspects to you she will love you. That's all.
guys don’t worry not every woman is this difficult and you won’t have to worry about all this extra bs
Yes hes right shell just be fat with a huge forehead