Wim Hof: "How not to lose your cool as a parent."
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- Опубліковано 28 лип 2022
- Sometimes it can be difficult to keep your cool as a parent 👪❄️
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“The Iceman” Wim Hof is a Dutch athlete and multiple Guinness World Record holder known for his ability to withstand extreme cold and his extraordinary achievements.
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He’s on a mission to share the potential health benefits of his method, working with scientists around the world to prove that his techniques work.
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When his partner said "it's okay to be scared". This is perfect as it allows the child to feel whatever he or she needs to feel without judgment. Many people say "don't worry", or "it's okay, there is no need to be scared" This type of language sends a message to the child that it is not okay to be afraid or to feel whatever they're feeling and can lead to inauthentic behaviour and emotional repression later in life. Thank you... This is a wonderful example of giving space to a child in order to allow them to develop with minimal interference. Only intervening when the child expressed a need for physical and emotional support.
Amazing
I have to admit to say "stop beeing worried, I'm here. I'll catch you!" or "Stop crying! nothing happened." to calm the situation without even realizing, It may lead my children to think "The way I feel is wrong" and this may result in something like "I'm wrong".
Thank you for sensitize me with your comment!
You mean "wife"
I wish i knew of Wim Hof 15 years ago. I look up to him so much, he's so inspiring to me
5:23 is my favourite moment, when the kid just says "No" when Wim goes to help. He knows his limits and capabilities clearly and he knows he wants to do this himself. It's such a confident "No". Every person, young or old, instinctively knows how to behave around their edge. Those instincts have to be protected
Thanks a lot for pointing that out. Really great point! 👏
"Thank you Noonie for showing me! " 🥲 So sweet Wim
People think that when you get older you loose deep connection within your self I'm a teenager and I still go threw my own stuff but age doesn't define your problems happiness is free love is free at any age, Wim climbing that tree helping his kid shows no matter the age you can always help be in the moment giving love
Wim should make a day in life video showing him doing "normal stuff" like going to the market etc... Would be entertaining to watch 🌛
No he shouldnt hes not a carcrashian.
@@scottrobertson3193 you mean Kardashian 😂😂😂😂😂
@@scottrobertson3193 you probably right 😂
@@scottrobertson3193 I would rather watch Wim do normal stuff than Kardashians
@@yxb_21 dumbest commentary 😂😂
Also when you was a true rolemodel and climbed high after helping your son, then i think he forgot all his previous fears and got excited to go more.
This is the way of a real alpha leader. Without showboating, just natural stuff. We need more of those and in the right positions.
facts
why should it be rated? Why would one need to be the Alpha? Lets just be equals without a ranking :)
My kids teach me more than I can ever teach them. I overcame anger, I can now meditate anytime re center, and Start from a place of love not fear. Hold love in your heart and they will feel it too.
Times change....60 ..plus years ago..it was a natural thing to just go out and play...we were sent out...no parents to watch over us..
We got on and learned ..sometimes the hard way...parents were busy keeping house and providing...no mod cons etc...as one of five siblings we were told to go out and come back for dinner ..shared bath water and shared bed in a house with no heating except one fire...hey ...we were so happy ..and free..❤🤞
It's natural instinct for children to climb tree's, explore, test etc. For a parent suppress that instinct is harmful for the child's development and self-esteem.
Love from Australia
Definitely need this one, I have 3 homeschooled autistic children and zero outside help, just us constantly 24/7
I feel ya I’m the same!! We wouldn’t change it though!
@@jemmajohnson7037 I sometimes feel I would just for the break, and for them to make friends but I would never put my children in a system that trys to force what is practically child abuse these days.
I feel for you. Must be hard to channel the energies. Wind down time is almost an impossibility... Books help 🌼
Please know that You are amazing. 🙏💕😍
Hello. Just trying to help: search for autism saw as an autoimmune disease. There's something about the diet that triggers it, and look into it may help.
100% agree. I was raised by my great-grandparents who were born in the early 1900s.We were allowed to run in the woods all summer and play in the lake. Now my kids think I'm crazy if I let their younger sister climb up a tree. Why? I let you do it too and you're fine!
I heard this recently that's a warm, wonderful, truth to me,
"Love, is the glue to solution".
✨🎯✨💗✨😍✨🌈✨
00:55 how true is that! I was always climbing things, falling off and bruising bits but like you say, it’s character building and utilises parts of the growing brain that just aren’t used by today’s generation of mollycoddled children. Nowadays, children are busy being bullied, abused and brainwashed online instead of just being children outside, where they could be learning the invaluable skills of resilience, problem solving and confidence.
BTW, what a cute kiddo 😊
In the Corporate Age, being a real human being is a revolutionary act.
We have a nearly 3 year old boy, he is everything to us... My partner (dad) is very protective of everything he does , even clambering around on the sofa , I since found out why he's to scared of our little boy climbing, so when my partner was a teenager, one of his friends little brothers (toddler age) was climbing on a big set of drawers, the whole thing has fallen on top of him , 😔 an he didn't survive....
It's absolutely sad an so tragic.. but I keep trying to reassure my partner our little boy will be safe aslong as you are right beside him .. 😔
I feel out of a tree a tree at 8. It certainly taught me the value of considering the consequences. I still remember how it hurt. It's great he's got you to guide him down the tree as that's the hard part.
The power of the mind and having a healthy relationship to fear and other emotions.
I’m 66 and still love tree climbing
Love nature
Thank you, exactly what I needed this evening. Today was an exhausting day with my handicapped adult son. Love and peace, Jessica
Thank you.. hope u keep posting more like these. Your one my 3 wisest living men! and I'm raising at the same time..myself and my joy boy jaxson who is one year younger than your son and my lack of life experience and recent life awaking I'm 42 years around the sun and in need of your parenting expertise with my son lol . Thank you for all you do you are changing lives.. forever grateful..
Wim is a great teacher.
Oh my god, this is so cute I had to watch it 3 times!😍 Our parents also let us climb trees and run around barefooted. I am 36 now and I still enjoy doing both🙃
Thank you for everything you do beautiful soul
Wim my name is Dinara i from in Tashkent Uzbekistan u are realy respect man👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻❤️ come to Tashkent❤️
Oh Wim. You have a Tarzan in training there. So the apple does not fall far from that tree! What a beautiful little man your son is. Thank you for sharing this.
So happy that you give us your opinion on this, thank you for everything ❤️
So cool to see him work with his kid!
Love is in the air when we let our kids live and be free. Thanks God I was raised like Wim Hof kids, playing in nature. Our kids need nature as we do. We are the change People. LoveHugs&Peace always wins.
So wholesome. Love your videos
Simply Perfect dear Wim !!
Great father!
Wim you are such an amazing human thank you I really needed this video today!!!
Wim's vibes are too fucking good.
I'm turning 40 soon and I was never allowed to do anything or climb trees. I 'm so happy to see such excellent attitude and presence of mind. I'm cold showering 2-5 minutes every day and recovering from PTSD. You have inspired me deeeply. I'm going to climb in tree tomorrow when noone is there to see.. :-P All best to you and your family.
Thanks wim.
I love you so much Wim!
You are 100% correct Wim. He is adorable and cute! 💟
Loved this. It was so healing to watch how gracefully and lovingly you handled the situation. Thank you.
This is such a beautiful video. Thank you for sharing such precious wisdom. 😇
What a great father, what a great teacher
Godspeed Wim, we love you brother
Perfect!!
What a great video! So sweet also, thank you Wim!
Me encantan estos dos! "De tal palo tal astilla" muchas gracias por compartir chicos!!!
Be there for them. Great tip! ❤️ thank you wim!
Super duper Wim, our daughter starts cycling on the road and loves boldering at Monk in Amsterdam north.
Thanks for the mindset, resonating deeply.
She is already trained in ice baths and deep breathing , I will help her understand the parallels: relax, trust and step through limiting beliefs with ❤️ and courage
I love this so much and so very true! Unless they are not putting themselves in danger let them play and be free!
Beautiful stuff man, beautiful 🤩
It s ok to be scared ...I love that!!!
Just gotta love this video! I'm always telling my 2 kids its ok to be scared, sometimes its even fun to be a little scared like on rides but long as they know your there for them. Let them push past any boundary they think they have.
Hvala, Danke, Thank you for the simpel and powerfull message.
I wish i had have a daddy like you. You are wonderful!
Maravilloso!!
Nice perspective, Wim! I think this one's a big one already! 😎
Great stuff wim keep up the good work
Ty wim
Thank you for this video I hope to see more like this one thanks
Beautiful 😍
Powerful ways to live our lives; age notwithstanding!!
Thanks WIM ❤️
Thanks from Denver, CO, US
My daughter earlier in her 3s would climb and get into situations with no fear, in parks for 5+ yos. As she gets older her fear and anxiety has been overtaking her in social situations and the same things she was great at climbing now has a hesitation to them.
Fear and anxiety is our thinking taking over and pausing is, but letting go is the answer for so much of this.
Wow! First day on a bike and riding like a pro! Amazing! Wim’s the IceMan and his son is the BikeMan. 😀
Grande Wim ! Congratulazioni per la rua fantastica famiglia from Italy
Hey Wim, I just got your book, it’s wonderful and inspiring :) Thanks for the video!
Congratulations!! It's a very beautiful video😘😘
I am so happy for this kid!
Teacher. Parent. Leader. #WimHoff Thank you. 🙏
I just love this.
Thanks for sharing I'm a young man pushing 49 and I have four children ranging from2-18and I'm still learning.
Can't even remember how many times i went through this exact scenario with my son! luckely, as a rockclimber, i like climbing trees too :-) And now me and my son have amazing times together in the climbing gym!!
So nice, I've met them that day ❤️
Your an awesome dad wim great work brother :) he's gonna be a top quality person right there :l
That is every dad when left with their kid.just "ohhhh there you are!" 🤣🤣
So sweet
I like to let them know they can do it themselves, that they are capable, that they don't always need help.
Beautifull😃💚
Love it ❣️❣️😊😊😊
Gefeliciteerd familie, hier word ik blij van. Om te zien wat onderling vertrouwen in elkaar ons sterker maakt- Dichterbij wat we zijn: apen.
“Little Wim! Time for your bath!” 🥶
Gracias. Thanks. Merci. 😊🙏💚
amazing video! thank you, we are 8 months pregnant and can't wait :)
beauitful story (:
great man
I cannot fit it inside my head how a parent can keep his emotional distance from the most precious being they have on planet earth so they don't interfere with their freedom, while being there for them at any point in time 150% emotionally available. Now THAT'S a skill.
I would describe it as exactly knowing what is needed for your child to be a happy strong and healthy person, once you know you can’t just ignore it and you automatically don’t listen too much to your thinking mind
Je bent top ! En gefeliciteerd met 2 miljoen leden. Alleen jammer dat je in het Engels alles vertelt. Hoop dat je weer voor ons gewoon in Nederlands vertelt 💪🏻
1:20 "yes you are high!"
I can't hahahahaha
Geweldig!
Great 👍🏻
Sometimes it can be difficult to keep your cool as a child when your dad is famous and publicly broadcasts sacred initiations to millions of his fans*** love you Wim
Let the children play Capoeira also, the best sport to know our bodies! Un abrazo de todo corazón! Gracias!
Very encouraging and loving. However I am compelled (by experience) to say: helmet please !! Serious concussions can happen even without impact. You are both too precious to the world Wim! Protect your noggin’! 💕🧜🏽♀️🙏🏼
In the Netherlands nobody wears helmets, because of our infrastructure
It is a fabulous infrastructure. However it doesn’t prevent falls or accidents though.
yes!!!!!!!!!
Entiendo lo que dice, me crié en el campo y en los montes de mi país, cruzando ríos profundos a caballo, puede haberme ahogado Sinembargo estoy aquí hay que tener un poco de suerte también! 🙋🏻♂️🇺🇾
So that's Wim's stylish antique bycicle? Incredible!🚲
Not nessecarily a antique bike. This type of bike is pretty much the standard bike here in the Netherlands. They're still being mass produced. Though the one without the horizontal crossbar is generally a woman's model
Kool dad! One day i may become one
Whenever I see Wim my breathing automatically changes lol
So cute 😍
My childhood friend and I would climb 80 foot Eucalyptus trees when we where 8 years old. The higher I climbed and the more focused I was the more fearless l became. When I got to the top and looked down I was scared shitless. It took me five minutes to climb up and thirty minutes to climb down. I could have fallen just as easily on the way up as on the way down. 90% of fears is just your mind playing tricks on you. A wise man once told me FEAR is just False Evidence Appearing Real. Win handled the situation pertect.
Hi Wim,
Do you recommend iced drinks too ♥️
Can you do more videos on raising children Wim?
Pozdrawiam całą rodzinkę 👍
Kiss your Feet !! You are Grandmaster 🙏🏽