Moving Through Getting Arrested, a DUI & Life After w/ My Sister

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  • Опубліковано 11 лют 2024
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 127

  • @nicolerodriguez8502
    @nicolerodriguez8502 5 місяців тому +144

    The amount of times that y’all say “dude” is crazy 😂 but I loved this podcast🤍

    • @kim_316
      @kim_316 5 місяців тому +3

      ‼️‼️‼️

    • @tovawolk6683
      @tovawolk6683 5 місяців тому +4

      😂 I literally came to the comments to see if anyone else thought this.. and this is the first comment that came up!! 😂😂

    • @courtneythomas9442
      @courtneythomas9442 5 місяців тому +1

      This was going to be my comment word for word. 😅

    • @NiviaqI
      @NiviaqI 5 місяців тому

      Josh said dude, well he didn't say dude 😆

    • @user-tv9li1fi2k
      @user-tv9li1fi2k 4 місяці тому

      Or “ like” it’s too much.

  • @80_vlogs
    @80_vlogs 5 місяців тому +37

    Mad respect for Des she is so transparent about her experiences even if she’s not proud of them. The fact she can take accountability for her actions even when Sav says stuff like “they had a problem” Des will say “& so did I” . This not only is inspiring to see that it’s okay to make mistakes & be held accountable for our actions as long as we learn from them but also she seems like an overall amazing role model . You can definitely feel the big sister energy in this podcast ❤

  • @earnestsingleton7596
    @earnestsingleton7596 5 місяців тому +12

    SAV being a party girl, I just can't picture it. I love Destiny's honesty and really appreciate that she did not try to excuse her behavior, downplay it as youthful indulgence, or glorify drinking and driving. God sent you a wake-up call and you listened--Praise God. Destiny you are a beautiful young lady and I wish nothing but success and happiness for you. The sister podcast should be a regular episode n your podcast.

  • @jcdkd35
    @jcdkd35 5 місяців тому +51

    You guys need your own podcast. This was a different vibe than usual but even as a guy this had me locked in!

    • @cindyvw
      @cindyvw 5 місяців тому

      Noice

  • @Cro944
    @Cro944 5 місяців тому +26

    If I close my eyes I can’t tell which one of you is talking 😂 you guys are so similar!! Love you both ❤

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart 5 місяців тому +42

    Jesus is the answer ❤ Every solution is found in Him 🙏🏻

    • @freedom4063
      @freedom4063 4 місяці тому +1

      Amen that's why Jesus hates divorces . 😢 What happend?? I don't have 40 min to sit and watch. What happened for the split up?? R they remarried ?

  • @JordinMartin-pe4lg
    @JordinMartin-pe4lg 5 місяців тому +12

    I’m a silent watcher/listener, but I love your whole family. I love how real and raw you guys are. I’m so proud of you, Des. This couldn’t be easy to talk about and let the whole world listen in, but it’s incredible to hear your story and the progress you’ve made ❤

    • @elianacolon3349
      @elianacolon3349 5 місяців тому +1

      i am too!! & this was one of my favorite podcasts and i listen every week! i loved it

  • @rachelmccargar6772
    @rachelmccargar6772 5 місяців тому +1

    You guys were so great to listen to and love you, Destiny!! Praise the Lord for how He protected & guided you through that very hard time in your life!❤

  • @kaylamyers7374
    @kaylamyers7374 5 місяців тому +7

    nah fr fr y'all need to do a pod together i LOVED this !! still keep the for us pod tho 🥹

  • @waynemiller7692
    @waynemiller7692 5 місяців тому +2

    I love when you guys are on together you sound like the same person, great job. Happy Birthday Josh and Destiny !!!!

  • @chrissynecole
    @chrissynecole 5 місяців тому +7

    Always a good time when Des is in the pod!! The Byyeee was spot on! Thanks for sharing with us and we’re so glad that God allowed you to come out of that! 🤎

  • @mikaylagombio527
    @mikaylagombio527 5 місяців тому +6

    Duuuude 😄🫶🏼 I loved this episode. Your guys’ relationship reminds me of mine and my sister’s! ❤️

  • @debs.213
    @debs.213 5 місяців тому +3

    That is so crazy guys! I loved this episode so much. I’m so proud of you Des for telling us this. That’s such a blessing from God too that your mom was a cop and got somewhat protected from the worser cases. You’re such a light and you are such a good aunt ❤I hope everything continues to go well for you and even you Sav. You guys are so amazing❤

  • @lolaruffin6249
    @lolaruffin6249 5 місяців тому +5

    Hi ladies* Awesome story telling and personal sharing!!! Des, we're all so happy that you made it through a tough situation. Also happy belated birthday🎉🎉

  • @Kamiajalise
    @Kamiajalise 5 місяців тому +2

    This was such a good episode, thanks for sharing Des. Love the sister vibes and Sav you did good leading. Happy Birthday Josh and Des!🎉

  • @rachelbrown8205
    @rachelbrown8205 5 місяців тому +1

    Happy birthday Des!! My birthday is the 9th and I turned 40😬😬 The 30’s were SO legit, best decade thus far. I appreciate you sharing your story. I had a DWI at 25, but finally stopped drinking 16 months ago. What’s crazy is I never cared how bad it made me feel or that my husband and I were constantly fighting. My 11 year old daughter told me one day that she didn’t like when I drink, because I acted “weird.” I never wanted to be that person OR that parent. I’m so proud of you for choosing and being the person YOU want to be. Great content ladies, Happy early birthday Josh!!

  • @funmi_ttf
    @funmi_ttf 5 місяців тому +2

    I love how Sav kept giving Josh credit but she did so well carrying this podcast herself❤

  • @jxo1141
    @jxo1141 5 місяців тому +6

    loving it already ❤️ watching during lunch break

  • @julianajaynes1847
    @julianajaynes1847 5 місяців тому +1

    I’d like to say thank you for being so open and honest about your life. And additionally I’m so glad you were able to change your perspective. Looking forward to your next drink and craving it is such a problem and can lead to heavy addiction so I’m so glad you did not have to become addicted to alcohol.

  • @AlexisAlbuquerque
    @AlexisAlbuquerque 5 місяців тому +4

    Oh I just started the pod and I am here for this

  • @sharonhague9580
    @sharonhague9580 5 місяців тому +3

    Happy Birthday Josh and Des. My birthday was yesterday the 11th while I am much older. I will say life gets better with age. 40s are the new 20s.

  • @LifeWithRaqk
    @LifeWithRaqk 5 місяців тому +1

    I don’t remember a thing but I believe it’s because of the trauma and toxic environment I was in. I love hearing you guys reminisce, it’s so beautiful.

  • @nancymolina8224
    @nancymolina8224 5 місяців тому +1

    Happy for you Destiny. I’m glad things turned around for you. Alcohol can really make someone lose so much in their lives. I was in a relationship where my bf at the time was addicted to alcohol and broke us apart. I always hope and pray anyone who is in these situations finds their way out. Thank you for sharing 💛 Happy for you Des.

  • @jackiemay3737
    @jackiemay3737 5 місяців тому +1

    Great podcast and message for many people hopefully it’s helps someone else to not drink and drive. Happy Birthday🎉

  • @Cherimrodriquez
    @Cherimrodriquez 5 місяців тому

    Happy birthday Destiny!!! 🎉 loved the podcast!

  • @tyara.collins
    @tyara.collins 5 місяців тому

    Love this I was finishing up dinner when I first started this & I had to do a double take because your sister literally sounds just like you and I always forget until y’all are together 😂😂😂 loved this episode ❤ I’ll be 30 on the 28th and I am actually excited. My 20s were so bad that I’m excited to hit 30 especially because I just got married a few weeks ago. It’s making me excited. It’s like a fresh start and new chapter. Happy bday Des & Josh ❤

  • @Kendall--
    @Kendall-- 5 місяців тому

    Y'all did amazing! Happy be lated birthday Des!

  • @faithlynnxo_
    @faithlynnxo_ 5 місяців тому

    Loving this vibe ! More of this please 🥰

  • @peteimbaha3568
    @peteimbaha3568 5 місяців тому +1

    This is gonna be a lit combination. I am excited for this one..

  • @francesstewart9758
    @francesstewart9758 5 місяців тому

    Love yall so so much ❤ This was awesome ❤

  • @teresamariia
    @teresamariia 5 місяців тому

    Happy birthday to Des and Josh 🎈
    Love y’all!

  • @mdlnat__
    @mdlnat__ 5 місяців тому

    So weird not having Josh on the pod, but loved seeing Des on For Us again. God bless you guys (from your biggest silent watcher)

  • @shay3115
    @shay3115 5 місяців тому

    I loveee this episode!!! Sav & Des are amazing and beautiful❤️

  • @taylormelone
    @taylormelone 5 місяців тому +1

    Happy birthday Des and Josh!!!

  • @user-of9qh8lm7v
    @user-of9qh8lm7v 5 місяців тому +2

    Needed this sister moment!

  • @jbaker1168
    @jbaker1168 5 місяців тому

    Happy Birthday Josh and Des! 🎉

  • @tydun3581
    @tydun3581 5 місяців тому

    Happy Belated Birthday Destiny! Happy Early Birthday Josh!

  • @ryannetienne2839
    @ryannetienne2839 5 місяців тому

    🫶🏼loved this, thank you for being vulnerable with the world.

  • @Karina-jb4sc
    @Karina-jb4sc 5 місяців тому +3

    Perfect timing I’m gonna clean the house while listening 😂❤️

  • @meganellis9386
    @meganellis9386 5 місяців тому +7

    Hit the like button here when you hear the word “dude”❤😂😂😂😂
    Love you dudes

  • @alenacarhart2413
    @alenacarhart2413 5 місяців тому

    I loved this episode! You and Des should do more episodes with the two of you

  • @jerrawickham877
    @jerrawickham877 5 місяців тому

    seriously my favorite podcast ❤️

  • @wandarodriguez7057
    @wandarodriguez7057 5 місяців тому

    Happy birthday Josh and Destiny! 🎂🎈🎈❤️

  • @DaphneDuckett
    @DaphneDuckett 5 місяців тому

    I love this pod. Good job guys.

  • @lindarevis9331
    @lindarevis9331 5 місяців тому

    Very great couple that’s truly know the lord. Young people need your input. Keep being truthful. There is a need for it. Your answers are real. You have lived on the path of righteousness and not off because you are young. I applaud you. Keep doing his work. ❤

  • @loridipzinski5656
    @loridipzinski5656 5 місяців тому

    Happy Birthday Dez & Josh 🎉🎈🎊🎂🥰

  • @brandyfreeman4098
    @brandyfreeman4098 5 місяців тому +1

    I hope your story does resonate with someone. I had a very close family member that had an incident happen about 10 years ago. They had been drinking & then received an emergency call regarding their elderly mom. Without hesitation they jumped in the car to go to her. This person was upset, distracted & had been drinking slightly (not over the limit but as close as you can be.) An accident ended up occurring & this person served 7 years in prison. Never had been arrested in 40+ years, lost their professional license, etc. It was an extremely traumatic time for our family. This person still struggles with what happened but has received help to work through it.
    It’s NEVER worth it to drive after drinking!! Even if you aren’t over the legal limit something terrible could happen. The other person could even be at fault for the accident but because you were distracted, reckless driving, dui, etc you could find yourself somewhere you’d never imagine & living with a nightmare forever! Be safe ❤

  • @arielborges1760
    @arielborges1760 5 місяців тому +6

    Yay we love Dessie content ❤

  • @lindseysims2349
    @lindseysims2349 5 місяців тому +3

    Loved this episode!! I could listen to y’all for hours, and huge shout out to Destinee for being so honest and sharing her story.
    Happy Birthday Destinee and Josh!! 🎉❤

  • @user-we3ts5yv9f
    @user-we3ts5yv9f 5 місяців тому +1

    This is Brittney and you guys were NOT brats. I loved hanging out with you girls. You guys were so nice and sweet and we had so much fun ❤

  • @chelseajones2255
    @chelseajones2255 5 місяців тому

    Happy birthday Josh and Des!

  • @lindseylucy9807
    @lindseylucy9807 5 місяців тому

    I loveee when Des is on the pod

  • @breannawisneski3078
    @breannawisneski3078 5 місяців тому

    Happy Birthday Des and Josh! I turned 30 on the 12th of February 🎉

  • @lolaruffin6249
    @lolaruffin6249 5 місяців тому +2

    Sending well wishes to your little ones 🤗🤗🌸🌸

  • @JadenGiles
    @JadenGiles 5 місяців тому +1

    I feel like most people do the binky fairy which leaves a present in place of the binkies

  • @monalicious92vlogs
    @monalicious92vlogs 4 місяці тому

    Ahaha 😂😂😂👏👏❤️🥰 I love you guys!!! Made my day full of laughter and as moms. I barely have my free time than some during night. ❤️ feel good catching up love follow life and journey of life with you guys and family!

  • @chocolateoreo6489
    @chocolateoreo6489 5 місяців тому

    I’m sending you all love and a great year ❤❤❤

  • @lynetteduncan7856
    @lynetteduncan7856 5 місяців тому

    Love watching you two! And me and Des have the same birthday 🩷 February 8th 🙌🏽

  • @reesemassey4951
    @reesemassey4951 5 місяців тому

    Happy birthday 🎉
    Have a great one

  • @beautyforashes23
    @beautyforashes23 5 місяців тому

    I love this sister conversation. I was laughing with you guys the entire time recalling my childhood. That Stanley incident got me upset.😡😤

  • @Wifeyfolifey
    @Wifeyfolifey 4 місяці тому

    Went to middle school with destiny and I remember going to a dance team competition with you guys lol. Shout out to your mom for giving me a ride 😂💕 -Rachel

  • @elyssa3804
    @elyssa3804 5 місяців тому

    i love y’all so much

  • @ljamslife908
    @ljamslife908 5 місяців тому

    Happy birthday Dez and Josh

  • @brook5440
    @brook5440 5 місяців тому

    Street corn dip was a huge hit at my Super Bowl party !!! ❤

  • @lovethroughhim1575
    @lovethroughhim1575 5 місяців тому

    This is hilarious to me as I'm watching the podcast while cooking and I have to keep looking at the screen to see which one of you is actually talking cause you sound so much alike🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @kellyluna7779
    @kellyluna7779 5 місяців тому

    NOTIFICATIONS ON❤️❤️❤️

  • @heybristevens
    @heybristevens 5 місяців тому +1

    Loved this epsiode, Des has such a sweet vibe. It’s sad how the ‘system’ makes you think needing to go through all of that was a valuable and necessary lesson, a night in jail is absolutely where it should’ve stopped and you didn’t relate to the guys in AA because you absolutely weren’t like them and you didn’t belong there. The $50 you paid every week to pee was not to help you learn, it was to trap you and every moment of your life for a year, they don’t care about you actually getting something positive out of it. That’s why that woman said you’d be back, she wouldn’t have a job otherwise and she thrives on people’s misfortune. I was trying to find momma Kim’s Cops episode and only found Terry’s story and all I have to say is.. wild lmao

  • @joshualefranc2990
    @joshualefranc2990 5 місяців тому

    Sav you did so good !!!

  • @Annabelly_
    @Annabelly_ 5 місяців тому

    I love the girl talk!💓

  • @staceyshortbrown3410
    @staceyshortbrown3410 5 місяців тому

    You guys are soo funny and relatable

  • @wevibinwidsye
    @wevibinwidsye 5 місяців тому

    wait cause this was so good 😊 😊 😊 😊

  • @emilyl8475
    @emilyl8475 5 місяців тому

    🎉 HBD Auntie Des and Josh ❤

  • @BethSchaeffer17
    @BethSchaeffer17 5 місяців тому

    So funny that Starlie puts Riella through it, for us. It's our youngest who puts the oldest through it lol

  • @amandalynnhartman
    @amandalynnhartman 5 місяців тому +1

    Here’s a point. If someone says they can’t afford an Uber, then affording alcohol shouldn’t be feasible either. If you can pay enough to get as wasted as possible, paying for a safe ride should be the only option. I can’t stand how bars won’t be responsible for making sure people have a plan following leaving intoxicated.

  • @Rayutomoto
    @Rayutomoto 5 місяців тому

    I swear I thought the outro was Sav 😂 at 1st because I'm just listening to it like a podcast.

  • @Herlovingsoul
    @Herlovingsoul 5 місяців тому

    I knew someone close to me. She had a whole probation for a year with testing every week. The same process. To this day never reinstated her license and she doesn’t drive anymore. She stopped drinking but she is still terrified to drive. How crazy

  • @deseandudley281
    @deseandudley281 5 місяців тому +1

    Need more sister podcast!

    • @freedom4063
      @freedom4063 4 місяці тому

      ❤ no time to watch. Can you plz tell mee why their parents the reason behind divorce ?

  • @bkessinger94
    @bkessinger94 5 місяців тому

    Ill be 30 in October!! I cannot wait

  • @bettyannerisley943
    @bettyannerisley943 5 місяців тому

    Awesome Show.😊

  • @Lizmacleod324
    @Lizmacleod324 5 місяців тому

    When my first son was two, these kids on the playground were making fun of him and I'm telling you right now I almost kicked their butts. My husband had to stop me and now that he's going to be 16, it's still scary

  • @BethSchaeffer17
    @BethSchaeffer17 5 місяців тому

    Lol I definitely regret showing my oldest how scared I am of bugs, because she will freak out at the smallest bug 😭😭. Thankfully, my second daughter is better because I have learned to hide my fear a little bit lol

  • @Karina-jb4sc
    @Karina-jb4sc 5 місяців тому +11

    Is Savannah pregnant?? 👀 @13:27

    • @kim_316
      @kim_316 5 місяців тому +2

      Wondered that too lol. Maybe it’s just how she phrased it...”since being pregnant.”

    • @saraia8864
      @saraia8864 5 місяців тому +1

      She definitely is

    • @freedom4063
      @freedom4063 4 місяці тому

      Yes#3❤

  • @Ash_Marie0128
    @Ash_Marie0128 5 місяців тому

    Omg!! The story about Sav getting her finger slammed in the door is so crazy. I am the middle child and I have an older sister and younger brother. My brother use to also try to come into our room. One day he would not stop so I went to slam the door in his face but my brother put his hand inbetween the door hinge to stop the door and I slammed it in there.

  • @hope3908
    @hope3908 4 місяці тому

    Realizing you said you were pregnant in this video but it was posted a few days before the pregnancy announcement 😱 lol

  • @mmymoye
    @mmymoye 5 місяців тому

    Have you seen the pacifier weaning kit , they sell at target

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 5 місяців тому

    Enjoyed the video

  • @user-we3ts5yv9f
    @user-we3ts5yv9f 5 місяців тому

    I love how you were like I dont want to see it slowly suck up the big spider and made the sucking sound... hahhaha 😂love you destinee. You are so cute

  • @TravisGarnett
    @TravisGarnett 5 місяців тому

    @21:28 - 🙏
    @53:53 - 🎊Happy 👸🏼👌🏼🎂-th Birthday, Desi‼🎊➕🎊Happy Birthday, Josh‼🎊

  • @faithj.3872
    @faithj.3872 5 місяців тому

    Happy Birthday February Babies!!

  • @samantharosado4531
    @samantharosado4531 5 місяців тому

    Yesssss ❤❤❤❤

  • @gina8546
    @gina8546 5 місяців тому

    If i had to hear dude one more time!!!

  • @_friends3167
    @_friends3167 5 місяців тому +1

    I loved this podcast’s energy! I hope you guys had great birthdays🥰 It would be so cool if you guys had your own podcast, I would tune in💯 #SoshSqaud #DopestSquadOnTheInternet

  • @CeeEmCee33
    @CeeEmCee33 5 місяців тому

    I got a dui a few years back and I’m curious what she blew? Mine was very high as well

  • @user-tv9li1fi2k
    @user-tv9li1fi2k 4 місяці тому

    My brain can’t function after the million likes just within the first 8 minutes.
    😬

  • @star32326
    @star32326 5 місяців тому

    Sav & Des need their own podcast like apart from Josh and Sav podcast.

  • @erinbrantley3206
    @erinbrantley3206 5 місяців тому

    It means you're frustrated it's a cute way of saying it

  • @kaeleenboggs6647
    @kaeleenboggs6647 5 місяців тому

    I just have to say Des looks like Blake lively. I adore your guys relationship too cute!

  • @mimisali1713
    @mimisali1713 5 місяців тому +1

    Lol y'all say "dude" alot😂😂

  • @roseangele5105
    @roseangele5105 5 місяців тому

    Can we please get an episode with Sav’s dad?

  • @larac.8797
    @larac.8797 5 місяців тому

    Lol at 2 we have them just do at night or nap time then at 3 the Easter Bunny takes it to give to other babies in need. By that age they understand bunny and it's not so hard for them.