Setting Boundaries with Family & The Real Reason We Moved Again…

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  • @dondrell5033
    @dondrell5033 Рік тому +56

    Dope conversation about keeping family and friends out your problems, I agreed once you get married it’s your own family first and creating your own trend..

  • @ZoeeYancey
    @ZoeeYancey Рік тому +5

    Oregon born and raised! A lot of the scenery is unmatched

  • @kyeitafish6773
    @kyeitafish6773 Рік тому +7

    ❤🎉 I am happy for you guys. You guys are moving to a new state to better in your life with your children. That’s a great idea.

  • @bkessinger94
    @bkessinger94 Рік тому +11

    Guess what?? More date nights, more family dinner nights, etc. Im so excited for yall. My mom lives one hour away, my dad lives in same town, my husbands dad live 15 mins away, husbands mom is 6 hours away. Family being so close is so fun.
    I used to be a nanny. That was an amazing experience. Im proud of yall. Date nights are soooo important. Totally agree on God, Spouse then kiddos.

  • @Jennakim87
    @Jennakim87 Рік тому +1

    Josh and savannah I know exactly where y’all are coming from with your parents telling them everything. Josh you remind me so much of my husband and Sav you remind me of myself. You need to talk to your spouse. I had to figure that out because I used to run to my parents and now I don’t do that. Thank you for this podcast. I enjoy listening to y’all and watching your shorts and safe travels to move to OREGON.

  • @meganellis9386
    @meganellis9386 Рік тому +8

    I knew it was Oregon! 100 percent. I live in Washington state. It’s been hot and Smokey the last 3 months. Literally the PNW is on fire. I’m just glad you didn’t move to somewhere like Utah 😂😂😂😂

  • @miahmeier8281
    @miahmeier8281 Рік тому +1

    from an hour away from p town!!! excited to see your church experience and choice!!

  • @hollieshaven
    @hollieshaven Рік тому +2

    It’s 88 degrees in Houston at 9:30 pm. Love you guys.

  • @erinwille1
    @erinwille1 Рік тому +2

    I’m so excited for you guys! It is so nice to be around family even if it’s just for dinner every once in a while! Can’t wait to see the vlogs come back in a new state! Enjoy the journey y’all!❤️

  • @tayjan3306
    @tayjan3306 Рік тому +3

    congrats on your move guys! I hope all goes well! love y'all

  • @AB-ChristianFoster
    @AB-ChristianFoster Рік тому +14

    I can really relate to this podcast. Although you both mentioned it briefly, I have a thorn in my side for speaking to my spouse’s family members regarding our marriage or disagreements. I am 39 weeks pregnant and now we have had to cut ties with his family due to showing up unannounced, calling our church for information and constantly harassing us via text. It’s sad but I know it’s for the best even though we are about to have baby #3.

    • @chelsealaine2550
      @chelsealaine2550 Рік тому +1

      Maybe your husband can be the one to bring up those tough conversations to his family instead? As long as it isn't a problem between your husband and you. I know it is tough, I feel you.

    • @stacycamacho59
      @stacycamacho59 Рік тому

      Sometimes NC is the best for the time being. I am in complete NC with my partner's family. My ex husband's family is also NC with him and my kids too. Which is fine. Old generational México are not accepting of white women marrying into the family, and I am not the first to go NC with them either.

  • @audreybeard9322
    @audreybeard9322 Рік тому +2

    Sav is so witty I love how she talks 🥰 sweet genuine and like naturally funny

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart Рік тому +3

    Aww, I'm glad to hear Nash is with your mom 🐶🤎

  • @rawaneweis4742
    @rawaneweis4742 Рік тому +1

    I could relate to being on our own and moving back home. My husband and I had a HARD time when we moved back to our home town. Our families were pulling at us from different directions. They had their lives that they were living and kind of expected us to continue on their journey. All is well now but it was definitely an adjustment. Still is in some ways since they’re also being introduced to our family dynamic. It’s a learning experience on both ends

  • @ashleyr2425
    @ashleyr2425 Рік тому +1

    Just moved away from family with my husband and son. So being on the opposite end, boundaries are sooo necessary. It goes so deep depending on different family personalities. Completely understand where you two stand with enjoying your alone time as a family. I’ve learned the hard way how important that truly is ❤️ best wishes to you all!

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart Рік тому +16

    I'm so excited to see more of Savannah's mom and sister in future vlogs! Please have Destinee on the podcast too! 💜

  • @debs.213
    @debs.213 Рік тому +1

    Can I just say I love this new set up and the baby on the red carpet is CRAZY 😂🎉🎉

  • @danielleballard1995
    @danielleballard1995 Рік тому +3

    I think that for alot of ppl the reason behind wanting to set dwn roots in one place is usually bcuz of the kids. Once they get school age they dont want to uproot them every so often by moving , but alot of parents are opting to homeschool bcuz of the freedom it gives and they have more control over what their children are exposed to. I think yall have a beautiful family and im excited to see how things go when yall move to Oregon. It will be really nice to be close to family and i think your girls will love it too especially as they get older. I pray that yall have a safe trip in Jesus name Amen ..Sending love and blessings from Louisiana

  • @patriciabosing
    @patriciabosing Рік тому +1

    Couples therapy without the therapist. Wonderfull. It feels like you guys are really honest to each other. A team.

  • @amandahaney507
    @amandahaney507 Рік тому +2

    Where I’m from!! I love oregon I hope I get to run into y’all someday love you guys!! ❤

  • @ACC_23.
    @ACC_23. Рік тому +1

    Loved hearing your consideration for homeschooling ❤

  • @hollynielsen494
    @hollynielsen494 Рік тому

    I’m from Oregon! I’m not a huge city fan but my favorite parts of Oregon are the Columbia gorge and the coast! So many beautiful places to explore. Welcome!

  • @jamirabernard2159
    @jamirabernard2159 Рік тому +10

    Jesus, my spouse then my kids

  • @emilywalton4105
    @emilywalton4105 Рік тому +3

    The Oregon Coast is so beautiful not sure if you have visted it. Crater Lake is in Oregon so beautiful. Oregon is definitely liberal , so wacth out for the drugs and homeless people down town. It is beautiful my grandma lives there I have good memories. Youll like the farmers markets thats they have and saturday markets. I grew up in Washington State now I live in Oklahoma definitely miss the scenery.

  • @waynemiller7692
    @waynemiller7692 Рік тому

    I love you guys , and praying for you and your move to your new state and home🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Kim-uw6tk
    @Kim-uw6tk Рік тому +1

    Congratulations on your move guys!! I've been wanting to visit Oregon for a long time! Hopefully in the near future I will be able to! I love your family and l love watching your videos!!

  • @Lionessshani
    @Lionessshani Рік тому

    This episode was so amazing and it's so cool to hear your thoughts about life and even the changes you both go through! Thank you for sharing!!

  • @abbie.derouin
    @abbie.derouin Рік тому +1

    Love you guys and wishing you the best in your new home!❤️

  • @dawnhayes1231
    @dawnhayes1231 Рік тому +3

    My husband and I have been together since we were 15, have had 4 kids and now married going on 27 years. LONG time ago we decided our marriage came first to the point that our kids knew every Friday it was date night. Now we have an amazing marriage and still are BFFs. We have many friends that have unfortunately divorced because as their kids become more independent the couples don’t know each other without the kids involved. Schedule those dates and keep them regular, you won’t regret it.

  • @samantha_nicole1484
    @samantha_nicole1484 Рік тому +1

    East coast foreverrrrr ❤️!

  • @priscillaricketts766
    @priscillaricketts766 Рік тому

    Another well done podcast !!! Great convo. I always look forward to the Josh&Sav weekly podcast 😄

  • @matthewabanks
    @matthewabanks Рік тому +2

    This was such a great video! I’m with Sav and I’m definitely a snack person too. But also, deciphering the family dynamic with your own family can be challenging for some but yeah boundaries are important. While your children are young and growing up that’s the main reason people stay close to their family. So I agree with what Josh’s said and it is very common to stay close, live close to your family.

  • @meganellis9386
    @meganellis9386 Рік тому +5

    I hope your next guest is Josh’s dad❤❤❤❤ I’d love to hear him. The other thing that came in mind, is I think you guys should do more Bible content ❤❤❤❤

  • @mamanessavlogs
    @mamanessavlogs Рік тому

    28:11 I am the same.. I love my routine and would rather be home and enjoy my day knowing everything is getting done. Plus I feel like having a toddler and leaving the house is not enjoyable sometimes. I like to be able to do activities and feed her when she's hungry. Going out just messes with the routine!

  • @anastasia-black
    @anastasia-black Рік тому +1

    I love how real yall keep it about marriage. ❤

  • @itssheabutter
    @itssheabutter Рік тому +1

    Grill cheese and toast is my girl ultimate diner

  • @julieh5554
    @julieh5554 Рік тому +1

    It’s so funny because my dads side of the fam is from Michigan and my moms side is from oregon! So I love how you guys talk about each state, I always thought I might run into you guys in MI but maybe it’ll be next time I’m in OR 😂

  • @allahnijefferson3695
    @allahnijefferson3695 Рік тому

    Congratulations and Barbie was a great movie! 💕

  • @MarellyRichard
    @MarellyRichard Рік тому

    Yessss! That’s what I’m learning too and Milena C who y’all interviewed said that toooo!!!
    God, marriage, kids 🫶🏽

  • @jackiesmith8683
    @jackiesmith8683 Рік тому +1

    I live in Oregon… I used to absolutely love being here.. but the state has gotten terrible with crime and it is so terribly sad. If I had the opportunity to move out of here I would, 100%

  • @CassieDeJarnett
    @CassieDeJarnett 7 місяців тому

    Honestly surprised you guys moved to the Portland area given everything that’s gone on there within recent years BUT I 100% support moving for the family structure!! That’s the dream!!

  • @MamaRobynR
    @MamaRobynR Рік тому +1

    My entire extended family lived in Oregon my whole life and I’ve been at least 100x it’s by far the most beautiful state I’ve ever been to if you get out the city. The lakes, mountains, small towns are so cute and it’s just gorgeous nature wise! You may be drastically adding to the diversity meter there tho. Lmao it’s very much so a white folks area. Lol but I have mixed kids who’s half black and never experienced any issues. Also, I currently live and have always lived in Michigan near yall.

  • @amaristhompson
    @amaristhompson Рік тому +1

    I love this. My husband and I just got married a week ago. We have been together since high school. This family conversation is spot on!

  • @jamieleewolfe
    @jamieleewolfe Рік тому +1

    One I love your podcast because the way you guys talk to each other it seems like we're not there but it is great conversation. It's great to listen to. Plus I can relate so much because I feel like I was in Savannah shoes where I was going to my parents a lot and I always ask my dad's opinion instead of my husbands so this has really opened my eyes and made me really see how it is supposed to be

  • @harper_peaches
    @harper_peaches Рік тому

    I know you guys might not see this but I also live in Oregon and it is such an underrated state has amazing music food and people are always so nice. I’m sure that you guys will have tons of adventures and fun in Oregon. It’s so beautiful. What part are you in? If you are in Portland, you have to go to pips donuts and you need to go to the coast. It’s beautiful in Manzanita or Newport. There’s also some beautiful hikes and lakes where you can go see the reflection and views of Mount Hood. Just enjoy it Oregon is beautiful! love you guys ❤️

  • @aleithiabell
    @aleithiabell Рік тому +1

    My favorite pod cast ever!!!! ♥️

  • @annettebalaguer9192
    @annettebalaguer9192 Рік тому

    You two are amazing to be such a young couple! I really enjoy watching you! Best of everything to you. This was a great podcast! Especially about family and where your priorities are. That’s amazing!! 👍🏽😍🙏🏽

  • @AnaDuran30
    @AnaDuran30 Рік тому

    Im am so happy for u guys🎉I hope to meet u since I live in Oregon ❤Luv u guys so much

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart Рік тому +1

    You guys don't owe us any explanation for moving again but I'm so glad you did! It makes so much sense now 😅💗 Excited for this new season of your lives & you guys to experience Oregon together as a family! God bless y'all.

  • @more2her92
    @more2her92 Рік тому +2

    It is normal for ppl to marry someone in their own town and both sides are all together. I don’t have that unfortunately. When you don’t..you realize how much of a privilege it is; especially when you have kids. Ppl ask if I will ever move closer to my family and I would love to but idk if they would respect our boundaries and my whole marriage dynamic would change. But deep down I desire it so much.

  • @claricejenkins325
    @claricejenkins325 Рік тому +3

    I made the mistake of running and telling our business to family for years. Now we've been together 11 years and some family members look at my husband sideways. He's a good man and a good father, it was just airing dirty laundry unnecessarily.

  • @nontulondy9032
    @nontulondy9032 Рік тому

    it literally feels like y'all just got to Michigan last month i swear , i hope y'all gonna be as happy where you going...can't wait for lil Starlie and Ri going to olay parks together

  • @CasiaRoseTV
    @CasiaRoseTV Рік тому +1

    The funny thing about watching y’all is that I relate to y’all sooo much it’s funny. My husband is also Josh, we got married young also. Savannah and I had our first babies a couple of weeks apart. And we are also finally moving back to where both sets of grandparents are back home (after not living there for over 6 years). It’s so fun to hear yalls perspective as I’m going through the same transitions 😂❤

    • @CasiaRoseTV
      @CasiaRoseTV Рік тому

      Had to also add that I’ve also become a homebody and I was never a homebody before lol.

  • @eugenesawyer1658
    @eugenesawyer1658 Рік тому +1

    Savannah, you would probably love Montana If you love outdoor activities, you’ll love Montana

  • @jacobyfamily6431
    @jacobyfamily6431 Рік тому

    The PNW is the best. You will love Oregon. I live near Seattle. ❤️

  • @trevin1770
    @trevin1770 Рік тому

    Hey Josh and Sav. Please do a call-in show one of these days. I’m sure the sosh squad would love it.

  • @jazs1999
    @jazs1999 Рік тому

    yeah def agree with the family thing and boundaries

  • @macymagdziarz819
    @macymagdziarz819 Рік тому

    Needed this podcast!!!! 🫶🏼

  • @KristenAngelica
    @KristenAngelica Рік тому

    Soooooo excited for y’all ❤

  • @RitaGonzales-y6l
    @RitaGonzales-y6l Рік тому

    Come on home to Texas!!

  • @jessyelane11111
    @jessyelane11111 Рік тому

    Daaaang all these camera angles 🥹🥹 uppin’ the podcast game and it’s noticed!!!

  • @Awakethysoul
    @Awakethysoul Рік тому +1

    So excited for you guys! Praying for your new journey and new time that you will get to spend together!! Having family around is great 🙌🏽

  • @mariahmesser6293
    @mariahmesser6293 Рік тому +1

    My MIL showed up at our apartment on Valentine’s Day at 9:00pm. It was our first Valentine’s Day being married!😳

  • @anastasiaelece1912
    @anastasiaelece1912 Рік тому +1

    It’s funny you guys moved close to family and my husband, kids, and I just moved 7.5 hours away from our family and support system. I love our family but im excited to do our own thing for Christmas. We always popped up at each others house and we loved it. We have a close family though.

  • @more2her92
    @more2her92 Рік тому

    When I think of Oregon I think of the desert because growing up in elementary school we played The Oregon Trail in computer lab. 😂IYKYK. I had no idea there was a beach lifestyle over there.

  • @larrymoore2313
    @larrymoore2313 Рік тому +2

    Savanna look real beautiful today

  • @Kayti.
    @Kayti. Рік тому +3

    I’m a home body and I’m not a fan of being around others. It’s exhausting. You feel as if your in a constant entertain mode.

  • @tayjan3306
    @tayjan3306 Рік тому +1

    "swaggy" is officially josh's trademark now😂

  • @christyleezilka5592
    @christyleezilka5592 Рік тому

    I literally never knew, heard or was told to honor your partner. I learn over the past year after 6 years of marriage 😬😵‍💫😯 Keeping issues between you two, not speaking ill of your partner to others…and so on. Podcasts/YT channels like yours is needed to help educate people like me who are learning this late in life. Which now it’s so obvious, so while I feel a bit dumb I’m also grateful for figuring it out on my own.

  • @officialcarolineaudreyy
    @officialcarolineaudreyy Рік тому +1

    Josh, I agree with you on the God, Spouse, kids thing. Don’t fact check me on this but I remember reading something in the Bible about how your priorities are supposed to be, God, spouse, kids. Love the podcast and the channel! I also love how y’all aren’t making the Josh&Sav UA-cam channel all about the kids, i like that you are showing them but not making them the main ‘stars’

  • @Italian_LA_P.A
    @Italian_LA_P.A Рік тому +1

    If you don’t put God first nothing will grow stronger and your relationship with your spouse is what makes you both stronger for your kids ❤ congratulations and good luck at your celebrity basketball game! Sav go for the red carpet you deserve it!! I’m always a Michigander but never will move back and I’ve been to Oregon my aunt lives there it’s pretty but Florida holds my 🫶 ❤ also the girls are going to love being around family!

  • @wandarodriguez7057
    @wandarodriguez7057 Рік тому +5

    You guys should just get an RV 😂😂😂

  • @kalimarie3457
    @kalimarie3457 Рік тому

    Omg I was debating w my bf about whether y’all were moving to Washington or Oregon because of the hint “we’ve never lived here before” So I thought def not Oregon because of Sav but…. 😂😂😂 I hope you guys enjoy it and can find a safe suburb neighborhood! Portland is definitely a lot more sketch than what it used to be but it still can be beautiful :) I hope that i run into you guys one day, I’d love to meet you guys ☺️🤍
    Sav I FEEL YOUUUU on the girl dinner. Why is popcorn such a staple dinner that I too look forward to having 😂😂
    I loveeee y’all so much for keeping it 100, alwayssss. It’s so funny to see you guys go back and forth because I can totally see you guys talking like this in old age as well 🤣 🤍🫶🏽

  • @Herlovingsoul
    @Herlovingsoul Рік тому

    So late here. Sad you leave MI but God willing everything will be good for you guys. As we say inshallah. I am hoping all works well. May God take care of you and your family.

  • @hattiesimpson6941
    @hattiesimpson6941 Рік тому +1

    I think a ‘girl dinner’ is like a ‘smorgasbord’ of snacks! I’ll die on this hill haha! It’s like a way less fancy charcuterie board! Damn I typed it before y’all said it lol

  • @mimirich1
    @mimirich1 Рік тому +1

    I eat popcorn for dinner 😊

  • @Kim-uw6tk
    @Kim-uw6tk Рік тому

    Savannah, I hope you were able to go with Josh!😊

  • @kimmytimeus1120
    @kimmytimeus1120 Рік тому +1

    I’m just saying that all the grandparents I know want to help with the grandkids. And that’s the way I feel too! I have friends who take the kids like once a week. Just saying I only work 3 days a week ♥️😉

  • @lizzieschlosser1080
    @lizzieschlosser1080 Рік тому

    Newish viewer. I live in PDX too welcome to Oregon love it here. There is a ton to do and a ton to eat here. Would love to know where you guys found a house. (I know you guys can’t say.) Outsiders see Portland as a dangerous city. Lol

  • @hollykamanda7376
    @hollykamanda7376 Рік тому +4

    Sav you should go maybe your parents can watch the girls

  • @iarasuniversity
    @iarasuniversity Рік тому

    Real

  • @masegodintwe2393
    @masegodintwe2393 Рік тому

  • @mikgonzales
    @mikgonzales Рік тому

    I live here and have my whole life and love it!! My church is incredible too athey creek so if y’all need a new home church, definitely check it out. Super Bible based and focused and not feel good at all

  • @Cjkin9x
    @Cjkin9x Рік тому

    My brother just played in a celebrity basketball game a few weeks ago there are always lit

  • @floraguilar966
    @floraguilar966 Рік тому

    Having such a TOXIC mother in law, me and my husband realized the only way our relationship will thrive is getting as far away from family as possible.

  • @brishevonne
    @brishevonne Рік тому

    i loved this conversation honestly , would y’all ever consider van life

  • @hollieshaven
    @hollieshaven Рік тому

    #Godsplan

  • @adorehazel2757
    @adorehazel2757 Рік тому +1

    Now I know I’ll never be able to see y’all in Michigan randomly when I come lol I’m in Ohio 🤣😭

  • @RslChris11
    @RslChris11 Рік тому

    The set gives a Ying yang vibe

  • @reneilwekowa5784
    @reneilwekowa5784 Рік тому +1

    Can someone let me know the psstors name its not clear,I’d like to watch the sermon.

  • @lilshorty316
    @lilshorty316 Рік тому

    ❤❤

  • @meganellis9386
    @meganellis9386 Рік тому +3

    I feel like Sav is gonna love being back in Oregon, but I think Josh is not going to like it. That’s just me. But I hope it goes well… ❤❤❤

    • @jesusiskingofmyheart
      @jesusiskingofmyheart Рік тому +1

      Why do you say that 😅

    • @meganellis9386
      @meganellis9386 Рік тому

      @@jesusiskingofmyheart well I just know how much he talks about the east coast. Places like New York, and Michigan. I just see his heart being there more. It will probably be better that his dads there. But I just don’t see his heart being there. Not that I know him personally at all…. But moving long distance like that is hard. And it can be culture shock. There a big difference between people from the Midwest/south and people from the west coast. 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @therayborns
    @therayborns Рік тому

    I’m with you Sav! I’m content with my popcorn and little snacks! 🤭 What’s your favorite popcorn? I’m obsessed with Sea Salt Boom Chicka Pop and can eat a whole bag in one sitting if I’m not careful girl 😂 lol!! And my partner is like Josh and he rarely snacks which doesn’t make any sense to me 😪 haha!

  • @audreybeard9322
    @audreybeard9322 Рік тому

    I’m not a snacker usually but I’ve become one recently with a 4 month old 🥰

  • @oneandonly22292
    @oneandonly22292 Рік тому +2

    First

  • @renditv4398
    @renditv4398 Рік тому

  • @danibamb5914
    @danibamb5914 Рік тому +2

    You guys gave away Nash 😢

  • @vanessamclaurin5360
    @vanessamclaurin5360 Рік тому +1

    Are you going to be in Portland Oregon permanently or what

  • @favouredone5558
    @favouredone5558 Рік тому +1

    Atlast a man knows where tp place the ladies in his life.

  • @officiaMarysa
    @officiaMarysa Рік тому

    Great podcast love all the asnwer and questions I will have to say on my end with family all my family I don't speak to at all or call or nothing bc they all negative and controlling like if they come to your place and don't like where you say have your dishes or your clothes or anything they move it like this is not your place it stay where I wait and you can go I had to tell them that 100 💯 times and I hate whenever ppls do that