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  • @Lance_p84
    @Lance_p84 5 місяців тому +278

    Easiest thing for a black man to do once he get out of jail, start a family 😂

    • @bks7889
      @bks7889 5 місяців тому +33

      Wow, this should def be TOP COMMENT ... that is TRUE AF

    • @fastattacktough688i6
      @fastattacktough688i6 5 місяців тому +7

      😆

    • @RASTAGOOB
      @RASTAGOOB 5 місяців тому +56

      While blue collar brothers gets used and manipulated for his resources barely getting a text back from
      Women

    • @kw4900
      @kw4900 5 місяців тому +8

      This should be the topic of all these black women podcast😂

    • @illoneson.5218
      @illoneson.5218 5 місяців тому +2

      ​@@RASTAGOOBthose guys shouldn't be wasting their time

  • @cmearl2009
    @cmearl2009 5 місяців тому +118

    I had college classmate get pregnant by pookie and the dude dumped her. Sitting in class crying. The dude wasn’t even a student. University of Houston

    • @chrisbear100
      @chrisbear100 5 місяців тому +40

      😂 it's not funny, but these girls fall in that same trap over and over again. It's like sitting back and watching a movie that you have watched 5 times already. You know what's going to happen!!

    • @nathaniel3867
      @nathaniel3867 5 місяців тому +26

      I knew a girl who was a fiend of mine she told me she was interested in a dude. She told me new was a felon and he left her a single mom. She got 2 kids the last time I heard

    • @seensay2132
      @seensay2132 5 місяців тому +24

      I had an RA at a co-ed dorm and of all the good BM getting their education and trynna live right around her, she chose a Pookie from the block (not even a student) who she moved into her unit. Til stuff started coming up missing from other rooms on her floor. Lol He got her kicked out of school while he got locked up 😂😂😂 But these women know exactly what they want. Don’t feel sorry for none of em choosing trash over value 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @thehourshow2851
      @thehourshow2851 5 місяців тому +1

      stopppppppppppp man this is crazy

    • @marquisevans2243
      @marquisevans2243 5 місяців тому +4

      Seen that time and again. University of Houston c/o `97!

  • @DefiesAllStereotypes
    @DefiesAllStereotypes 5 місяців тому +85

    "At one point in my life I was attracted to glocktavious". Yes we know Black woman....we know........

    • @neon_one_neo3317
      @neon_one_neo3317 5 місяців тому +17

      They still think we're the same gullible black men back in the 90s

    • @xerxes666
      @xerxes666 5 місяців тому

      ​@@neon_one_neo3317❤OMG... Facts❤💁🏾‍♂️🇺🇲🙏🏾🌎✈️✈️

    • @DefiesAllStereotypes
      @DefiesAllStereotypes 5 місяців тому +15

      @@neon_one_neo3317 I came up in the 90s....I used to fall for the sob stories, until I began to notice Pookie and RayRay was fathering all of their children.

    • @T.Harry79
      @T.Harry79 5 місяців тому +1

      Yup. We know their patterns now. It’s messy. Now clean as you go.

  • @nobodyknows2919
    @nobodyknows2919 5 місяців тому +118

    She's blaming social media, unaccountability will be the end of these women. BW have been loving pookies long before social media, social media is just exposing and vindicating BM. Before social media we were just gaslight "it's just the women you know " but now that BM in NY CA TX AL and across the US are seeing and saying the same thing

    • @treiskushrenada6332
      @treiskushrenada6332 5 місяців тому

      It’s never they just were attracted because they like those dudes lol after she let them run through her until she got smashed so silly she accidentally woke up😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @alexandercoffman8319
      @alexandercoffman8319 5 місяців тому +1

      I AGREE IN FULL!!

    • @Blvck_6
      @Blvck_6 5 місяців тому +2

      Gangster rap made her do it 🤣🤣

  • @mostunclean6619
    @mostunclean6619 5 місяців тому +88

    I saw this all the time when I attended Stanford University. So many of our black female contemporaries would go to the surrounding hood areas to date a Pookie rather than a fellow university student.

    • @ITech2005
      @ITech2005 5 місяців тому +29

      This is hilarious because i live in Palo Alto, less than 10 minutes from Stanford. I dated a chick that i thought was a virgin for 2 years. She may have been but im not sure now. I waited and never tried to pressure her into it. She went off to college and dropped out after the first d@m semester after getting pregnant by some bum off campus. I dont think ive ever been more disappointed.

  • @robertmonroejr1315
    @robertmonroejr1315 5 місяців тому +32

    When I was in college, my roommate got a call one morning telling him that a friend of his from Hampton had been murdered.
    She came from a “Cosby family”…one parent was a doctor and the other was a lawyer…but, liked to hang out with thugs. Even after she graduated and had a good job still liked having access to the material goods that thugs provided.
    The night before the phone call, she was driving a thug’s car and was stopped at a red light. Someone who had been done dirty by the thug pulled up along side of her and lit the car up killing her in the process.
    Messing with these thugs is all fun and games until it’s time to pay the consequences.

  • @cyes1156
    @cyes1156 5 місяців тому +81

    Fellas be careful......Its getting to the point where black women in their late 20's and early 30's are predators looking for the good men that they were NEVER NEVER checking for in the entire 20's........Tell those women to keep dating tbe men you've always been attracted to.....Leave the good men alone

    • @myronl505
      @myronl505 5 місяців тому +5

      🎯

    • @dubbcee1000
      @dubbcee1000 5 місяців тому +10

      I've always asked women that I begin talking to if any of their ex dudes had felonies.

    • @RoyPeters1
      @RoyPeters1 5 місяців тому +1

      I concur 🤜🏾🤛🏾💯😁

    • @kevinumba6281
      @kevinumba6281 4 місяці тому

      Now they're going to Afrotech looking for Engineers and software developers

  • @klr1523
    @klr1523 5 місяців тому +186

    We need to stop calling it social media and realize that it is social engineering and social manipulation.
    Correction: We need to recognize that social media contains the good and bad of society. There can be misuses in play such as social engineering and social manipulation tactics that we should be mindful of.

    • @malikgordon5230
      @malikgordon5230 5 місяців тому +4

      No.

    • @TheSmithmich
      @TheSmithmich 5 місяців тому +12

      "Instagram got yo bish!"

    • @derricknorris9488
      @derricknorris9488 5 місяців тому

      FACTS

    • @chrisbear100
      @chrisbear100 5 місяців тому +5

      No, those are words people made up to avoid telling people that they don't have common sense.

    • @nashambenyisrael7689
      @nashambenyisrael7689 5 місяців тому +2

      I mean that’s what one of the earlier programmers said about that ish. It’s doing more harm than good.

  • @leonblack7637
    @leonblack7637 5 місяців тому +31

    Me and my friends, that grew up in the suburbs, all used to wonder why black suburban women didn't want black suburban men. What's even worse is they would act even more ratchet than the actual hood chics. They can't complain when the guys they say they want end up with Spanish, Asian and white women

  • @KrisIsHere4040
    @KrisIsHere4040 5 місяців тому +78

    It's not just social media. Reality TV influences these women too.

    • @corneliuselbourne1044
      @corneliuselbourne1044 5 місяців тому +2

      Big time.

    • @GameFame1959
      @GameFame1959 5 місяців тому +1

      absolutely my brotha

    • @KrisIsHere4040
      @KrisIsHere4040 5 місяців тому +2

      @@GameFame1959 all this fighting out in The open that you see these women do, we didn't start seeing it at this level until shows like RHOA and others started to come around. It's sad

    • @GameFame1959
      @GameFame1959 5 місяців тому

      @@KrisIsHere4040 yep

    • @RetroBigCat75
      @RetroBigCat75 5 місяців тому

      Indeed!

  • @T.Harry79
    @T.Harry79 5 місяців тому +92

    Most of them are easily impressionable like children.

    • @nashambenyisrael7689
      @nashambenyisrael7689 5 місяців тому

      Lol they are children, why do you think our ancestors kept them in their place with no rights. They can’t make accountable decisions.

    • @justiceforjuicy9795
      @justiceforjuicy9795 5 місяців тому +5

      Bingo.

    • @josephharden5592
      @josephharden5592 5 місяців тому +14

      Yep . They see other girls go after a certain dude...now they clamoring for him because they can't think for themselves 😂

    • @corneliuselbourne1044
      @corneliuselbourne1044 5 місяців тому

      not just that there easy victims to propaganda there idea of masculinity Is actually wrong, and to be quite honest I don't believe women can even comprehend masculinity and what it is because there emotional based beings they can only feel it and understand it based on that feeling they are having.

    • @isiahjean-baptiste434
      @isiahjean-baptiste434 5 місяців тому +3

      Because there's no father

  • @pontiac00
    @pontiac00 5 місяців тому +74

    Too late, blackwomen

    • @user-vk6qs7wn9d
      @user-vk6qs7wn9d 5 місяців тому +3

      Yes because we as Black Men those of us decent we got a passport and gone

  • @bigdunks4eva
    @bigdunks4eva 5 місяців тому +121

    But yet they will ARGUE YOU DOWN that they are not intentionally going after bad men. I have two sisters and both of them choose the WORST type of men to have get involved with, completely ignoring the advice of their brothers. Now they're both single mothers, complaining about their kids' fathers. And one of them was college educated, making $100k/yr. She had a real good dude at one point, who loved her son, was best friends with my stepdad and the whole family like him. But she ruined that, flipping out on him. I think he's married now, while she's single with two kids from two men...
    I remember simping HARD a few times in my younger days. There were 3 different women over the years They were all single moms, and i was ready to be the simp to save them. All of them friend zoned me, only to end up with ANOTHER deadbeat baby daddy. Fast forward to make years later, and they all have multiple kids by multiple men!

    • @youngreckless1608
      @youngreckless1608 5 місяців тому +26

      😂😂😂😂 That was a Blessing in disguise that they friend-zoned you.
      As for your sisters that’s how the women around me friends,family,associates etc.
      All did the same thing your sisters did 😂.
      I say don’t save em they don’t want to be saved 😅😂.

    • @Solider7
      @Solider7 5 місяців тому +13

      Just shut the door on those losers, forever.

    • @bdavis9197
      @bdavis9197 5 місяців тому +13

      That’s how it goes but they just can’t admit they love futures and nba young boys 😂😂😂😂

    • @brandonholloman6835
      @brandonholloman6835 5 місяців тому

      🤣😂😅

    • @Humble01able
      @Humble01able 5 місяців тому +2

      Rejection is protection

  • @manhattanbaruch3633
    @manhattanbaruch3633 5 місяців тому +48

    I dealt with this all my life. I grew up in the projects in Brooklyn the hardrocks got the girls. I tend not to be attracted to women who at one time dated hood duds or hardrocks and I refuse to take care of his children!!!!!!

  • @MenBeingHappy
    @MenBeingHappy 5 місяців тому +98

    4:49 Yeah, it’s why I tell black men. Don’t accept the reach back. If her dating history doesn’t like you, don’t let her network ruin your life.

  • @XD-cw1yw
    @XD-cw1yw 5 місяців тому +62

    Which also keeps those prison stocks up by guaranteeing bodies. They're so busy being rebellious they don't see how they're literally playing right into the system..

  • @The-L-Factor
    @The-L-Factor 5 місяців тому +88

    Unfortunately most bw won't have much of a choice anymore, BUT to date a Pookie.
    Most of the successful, hardworking bm who were shunned and ignored, have moved on.

    • @RASTAGOOB
      @RASTAGOOB 5 місяців тому +21

      Brothers done found the light and left the crap hole

    • @ampthefreethinker5335
      @ampthefreethinker5335 5 місяців тому +11

      Facts !!

    • @illoneson.5218
      @illoneson.5218 5 місяців тому +7

      as they should

    • @MelanatedSoulja
      @MelanatedSoulja 5 місяців тому

      Facts, they go from Pookie and Glocktavious to a lower tier non bm and ultimately become a carpet muncher...the fake valley gurl inflection is proof who she is caping for now

    • @deetaylor2202
      @deetaylor2202 5 місяців тому +4

      Facts

  • @NoLiesDetected889
    @NoLiesDetected889 5 місяців тому +40

    The crazy part is the men she precive as masculine are super feminine.

    • @lawreecefluellen4872
      @lawreecefluellen4872 5 місяців тому

      Underrated comment. I was thinking this the other day: “hood” dudes are literally the bitter black single mother who raised them but in the body of a male.

    • @sunsoza8320
      @sunsoza8320 5 місяців тому +17

      Super emotional n unstable

    • @jfkmydad69
      @jfkmydad69 5 місяців тому

      Facts. They are feminine and super Simps.

  • @MrEOM41
    @MrEOM41 5 місяців тому +51

    It’s 2024 and the fact that they ain’t realized to stop dealing with that type of guy is ridiculous 😅😅

    • @Chiefmane1
      @Chiefmane1 5 місяців тому

      They cant help it. Those type of men gets their panties wet.

    • @KaylaA4344
      @KaylaA4344 5 місяців тому +5

      It’s programmed by social media to go for that type of thugs. I’m just praying for the younger generation of black girls growing up to not chase those type of hood dudes because it’s promoted in the music like sexyyred etc

  • @LVE2103
    @LVE2103 5 місяців тому +43

    Also, shout out to AC. NEVER accept the reach back from these chicks, under ANY circumstances.

  • @avigrett1484
    @avigrett1484 5 місяців тому +19

    They refer to good men as corny .

  • @aplan4u328
    @aplan4u328 5 місяців тому +31

    I used to work with this young girl that came from a married two parent home and lived in a nice neighborhood. I used to tell her that her parents set the blueprint, and it's best to follow it don't be like these other women and mess up your life. But i could see the wildness in her eyes, and sure enough, she gets knocked up by some pookie that immediately denies her baby.

    • @dman221
      @dman221 5 місяців тому +14

      Don't worry, you will be getting that "Hey Big Head text and I was just thinking about you the other day." Believe me, I had this black woman I knew 20 years ago. She tried to come to me with that shyt! I showed her my million dollar house and car. She said "I guess you a BALLER now....😆😆😆 Embarrassing an old washed up woman would still used that terminology at her age. 😆😆😆 Of course she probably looked me up because everything is Public Records these days. And Then I told her I am not interested in having coffee or anything else with her...😂😂😂😂 These black women really think you stay the same as you were when you was a 23 year old man. I am now in my 50's..I actually asked the question "What made you think of me after all those years?" The funny thing there were no sexual relationships between us. We just happened to work at the same State Job. I was already married and she already had 2 kids by some Bum at the age of 23 years old. Get this...she actually said "What happened to that sweet shy guy I once knew".........I told her "Life Happened". Now lose my number....😂
      P.S. To the black young men out there...I came from the hoods of Virginia and only had a High School diploma. My advice to young black men is never let your penis control your destiny. If you do...you will end up limp every time. Free game given...now chew on it and digest it.

    • @titanjake8640
      @titanjake8640 5 місяців тому +1

      ​@@dman221my dude. I applaud you!!! That is what i am talking about MGYOW!!!

    • @darkyoumemento5307
      @darkyoumemento5307 3 місяці тому

      A tragedy

  • @314jrock
    @314jrock 5 місяців тому +55

    @ 10:01 "........Where the nerds at?" The nerds are either married, dating, or overseas. Black Male Nerds that are still in the USA are more than likely involved in an interracial relationship. IT'S TOO LATE!!!!!! No man wants to be the last option for a woman. Even if a woman is still young and they don't have children, good men are not going to get into a relationship with these types of women. The vast majority of these young women knew EXACTLY what they were doing.

    • @tpatt513
      @tpatt513 5 місяців тому +10

      BLERD GANG

    • @illoneson.5218
      @illoneson.5218 5 місяців тому +2

      💯

    • @neon_one_neo3317
      @neon_one_neo3317 5 місяців тому +9

      Now you know why they gatekeep you from becky while they chase brad, you're their backup plan

    • @314jrock
      @314jrock 5 місяців тому +5

      @@neon_one_neo3317 100% Truth

  • @Unseen_but_Well_Heard
    @Unseen_but_Well_Heard 5 місяців тому +38

    That was me that said "Glocktavious" in the chatroom. Thanx for the shout out!😁👍🏾

    • @RASTAGOOB
      @RASTAGOOB 5 місяців тому +3

      Trigga Brim; Felony Fred; Corner Store Conchavious just to name a few

    • @Michelle-qj1ge
      @Michelle-qj1ge 5 місяців тому +5

      Also it seems like potential Glocktavious is attracted to Glocktavious. I personally know suburban young boys who desire to be about that life because of the music and movies ofcourse. Thank God not all are pulled into the low vibrational functioning.

    • @KingJancelot
      @KingJancelot 5 місяців тому

      @@RASTAGOOB Gunplay Goon, Double barrel Bryan, The 38 Special Stepper, etc

  • @boondoggle4820
    @boondoggle4820 5 місяців тому +116

    The rap industry is a huge reason why so many women love Glocktavius. Hollywood has been pushing this “hood” image for the black community since the 90s (the whole era of “keeping it real”).

    • @KevinJohnson-io7ed
      @KevinJohnson-io7ed 5 місяців тому +26

      It’s always been like this music does add to the problem but way before rap even existed they were on this type of time of picking dead beats

    • @jonathancue1584
      @jonathancue1584 5 місяців тому +27

      ​@@KevinJohnson-io7ed Thank you don't cut them no slack or ease up on them they need to learn accountability and responsibility. Exactly don't blame all on the music they should have common sense to tell the difference between real and fake

    • @BlakDynamite615
      @BlakDynamite615 5 місяців тому +13

      way before the 90s with blaxploitation

    • @dman221
      @dman221 5 місяців тому +12

      So, let me see if I understand you correctly. Only Black Women listen to rap music? No other groups of females in the entire world listen to rap music? 😂😂😂😂 I begged to differ....there are plenty of other ethnic groups of women that listen to rap music and they are not searching for a Pookie. They choose black men that are about something....enough with the lame excuses.

    • @amariantiquity8543
      @amariantiquity8543 5 місяців тому

      ​@@dman221More accountability less pillow talking.....the data speaks louder than you pandering simps.
      54% of Black men dont have any children.Black women are only group of women getting impregnated by the same pool of 12-16% of men (Pookies & Ray-rays) according to US Census
      This data is not excuses. It is tangible evidence that Black women mating choices are insane

  • @tpatt513
    @tpatt513 5 місяців тому +27

    I remember when those lovely ladies said that the real men are in prison. Their chaotic nature is beyond manipulated that no wonder that most of them don't want to take accountability for it because of the consequences of their actions.

  • @Supramedical68
    @Supramedical68 5 місяців тому +19

    That's all they wanted 20-30 years ago. All the more reason for men to break out the Matrix.

  • @Youngking03
    @Youngking03 5 місяців тому +24

    So basically, she hit the wall.😅😅😅

  • @saonedixon5476
    @saonedixon5476 5 місяців тому +32

    Those college types and suburban type chicks be the ones who love the thug types and "some" hood chicks be wanting the square type cats, cause all they are around are pookie's and ray Ray's, i guess opposites attract 😅

    • @bisquit48
      @bisquit48 5 місяців тому +2

      Hood women with sense want better for themselves so dealing with a level headed man is a plus for them

  • @ampthefreethinker5335
    @ampthefreethinker5335 5 місяців тому +22

    The do that in here in Nashville!! We got 3 historical black colleges ,those women will not date those dudes in those universities .they go and mess with jamarquavious and nem and get knock up by them before they even get out of school! Insane

    • @illoneson.5218
      @illoneson.5218 5 місяців тому +4

      those college brothers will get women elsewhere outside of black America.

  • @genovasquez8361
    @genovasquez8361 5 місяців тому +18

    That's why I became what you call a Pookie back in the 1994.
    The women saying they don't like Pookie are going to still cheat with one even when they get married to a square.

  • @DreamieEnt
    @DreamieEnt 5 місяців тому +36

    It’s too damn late now. Who they giving these PSA’s to? Gen Alpha?

    • @qman313
      @qman313 5 місяців тому

      🤣

  • @fastattacktough688i6
    @fastattacktough688i6 5 місяців тому +33

    Man, its pure entertainment now. They just dont get it😅😅😅

  • @edwardgilbert3232
    @edwardgilbert3232 5 місяців тому +21

    We already knew she liked pookie 😂, look how she wears those glasses 🤓🤣

  • @gradymorrrowjr37
    @gradymorrrowjr37 5 місяців тому +22

    We tried to WARN them BUT they still won't LISTEN 🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦

    • @314jrock
      @314jrock 5 місяців тому +10

      Black Women already knew about this. Black Women wanted to mess around with bad boys in their early twenties and avoid the consequences of their actions in their late twenties and beyond.

    • @neon_one_neo3317
      @neon_one_neo3317 5 місяців тому +6

      Its been 6 decades of "warning" them, sysbm

    • @gradymorrrowjr37
      @gradymorrrowjr37 5 місяців тому

      @@314jrock Yeah BUT let's NOT forget it's not all Black women it's just the Modern Day women they overshadow the Real women out here looking for a good man 💯

    • @KingJancelot
      @KingJancelot 5 місяців тому

      @@gradymorrrowjr37 I see shadows everywhere. The shadows over-shadow in the black burbs too.

  • @mapope
    @mapope 5 місяців тому +26

    It's almost like a rite of passage for a lot of women. Its like they have to date G-bo, tanktank, Big J, and 21 savage type dudes first. Or their life won't be complete or full filled.

    • @RASTAGOOB
      @RASTAGOOB 5 місяців тому +6

      They need stories to tell brother. Kinda sick when you think about it

  • @BoRice82
    @BoRice82 5 місяців тому +13

    I had a very good woman with a great job and i wasn't ready for the commitment. I told her and stepped off. Now she found the right guy and they're doing excellent. Had to get da f out da waaay.

    • @barbararichardson2747
      @barbararichardson2747 5 місяців тому +2

      Most adults have rejected one or more decent people; making the war between the sexes ridiculous! Takes a big person to admit they blew it.Those are the ones that deserve and most often get another chance.The rest never take responsibility and blame everyone and everything but themselves.

  • @cuhyah9661
    @cuhyah9661 5 місяців тому +14

    As MHD always says; "Attraction is not a choice." Is there any helping them?

    • @redlord-blacksigma2795
      @redlord-blacksigma2795 5 місяців тому

      BM shouldn't be worried about who they are attracted to. If it's not you, it's not you. Who cares? Just be with women who you want to be with, and they feel the same. Just don't be the fall guy for these thots. The western BW is far from being the only woman on the planet. Being a member of #TeamAsia I know this to be true. SYSBM

  • @OzWorldChannel
    @OzWorldChannel 5 місяців тому +14

    No, the funny thing is: She whipping her black hair that's not whipping.

  • @TheArenaRevised
    @TheArenaRevised 5 місяців тому +7

    2:24 I screamed out loud "THERE it is right there!" Like Ross Jeffries said, "there's what women say they want, what women THINK they want, and what they ACTUALLY respond to." Back in the 90s when I was in college, it seemed like our women were the only ones getting their "baby mama card" WHILE enrolled or just after graduation.

  • @MrNYCme
    @MrNYCme 5 місяців тому +7

    I'm a firm believer of black classism.

    • @lawreecefluellen4872
      @lawreecefluellen4872 5 місяців тому +3

      I totally see why the black bourgeoisie historically existed. lol

  • @diplomat249
    @diplomat249 5 місяців тому +2

    Keep fighting young lady, don't give up, pookie needs your support.

  • @RickyManner
    @RickyManner 5 місяців тому +27

    Glocktavious? 😂

    • @ramonantoniodejuanbennett6239
      @ramonantoniodejuanbennett6239 5 місяців тому +2

      And Glocktaveon, Macktavius, Herpesius, and Chlymidius Gonnarhius!
      They like them too. Let's not forget them.😂

    • @leontaecoleman3644
      @leontaecoleman3644 5 місяців тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤷🏾‍♂️🤦🏾🤦🏾🤷🏾‍♂️🤦🏾😬😬😬😬😓🤣🤣😅😅😅🤣😮😮😮🤣

    • @KingJancelot
      @KingJancelot 5 місяців тому

      He got a pitbull name Glocktapuss.

  • @chiefsmoketheprophet
    @chiefsmoketheprophet 5 місяців тому +2

    I got married in Brazil this year. Y'all got y'all hands full with the ABW. 😂

  • @gh00stbeard
    @gh00stbeard 5 місяців тому +9

    Damn! They're always a day late & a dollar short. 😂 Well, at least she's younger. Maybe the next batch will choose better.

    • @ampthefreethinker5335
      @ampthefreethinker5335 5 місяців тому +6

      Don't hold your breath on that one ! Most of them will never learn !

  • @primeva7579
    @primeva7579 5 місяців тому +8

    I grew up in the suburbs and suburban kiesha and hood kiesh have the same type. This is why other races scoop up good bm

  • @kendalsaulsberry2180
    @kendalsaulsberry2180 5 місяців тому +11

    there's nothing wrong with concealed carry when doing your second amendment rights

    • @deamon152
      @deamon152 5 місяців тому +3

      Absolutely, I was actually kind of offended when she used the term Glocktavius because my favorite concealed carry is a Glock 26😂😂

  • @darriuspierre6342
    @darriuspierre6342 5 місяців тому +18

    No more thuggin lovin lol

    • @djdspence
      @djdspence 5 місяців тому +5

      Boondocks Lmao

  • @jayburnham3994
    @jayburnham3994 5 місяців тому +5

    She's the perfect example. It was fun, did what she had to do now she ready to chill with a good guy for a bit. It is what it is. Cherry on top would be if she had a couple kids

  • @kendallbriggs1226
    @kendallbriggs1226 5 місяців тому +8

    I wish I could share this. I literally said that women do not want a good man. Cause their actions don't match their words. There was so much pushback. Or that I needed to heal, lol. I live in reality, unfortunately. I see it on T.V., social media, and in real time in 4K. But you gotta let them cook.

  • @anthonygooden1757
    @anthonygooden1757 5 місяців тому +4

    Gloccctavious is wildddd! I’m crying!

  • @NB-yu4lj
    @NB-yu4lj 5 місяців тому +11

    Let me guess she’s 28-30

    • @PFlaw317
      @PFlaw317 5 місяців тому +1

      She seemed much younger to me

    • @youngreckless1608
      @youngreckless1608 5 місяців тому

      @@PFlaw317Probably Mid 20s 😅 is when most wake up lol.
      That’s why Leonardo DiCaprio only date 21-24.

  • @glenndoleberry8418
    @glenndoleberry8418 5 місяців тому +2

    I remember back in the 2K’s on NYC radio Wendy Williams said THEE SAME THING..we see how this played out

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  • @bedinabebe4521
    @bedinabebe4521 5 місяців тому +6

    There's a huge difference between Masculine & Brute

  • @othelloBlaq
    @othelloBlaq 5 місяців тому +5

    I'm asking because I really want to know. Straight talk. Are black women too far gone as a majority? 🤔
    What does our side really think?

    • @redlord-blacksigma2795
      @redlord-blacksigma2795 5 місяців тому +8

      You answered the question by asking it.

    • @ampthefreethinker5335
      @ampthefreethinker5335 5 місяців тому

      YES !! about 90 percent of black women are to far gone you will never change their minds ,no men that worth something will be with them, thats all they will have left is jamarquavious and nem .😂😂

  • @LordShockwave9
    @LordShockwave9 5 місяців тому +9

    Glocktavius.... wow, what is next? Drugmetrius? 😂 Carjackin' Jarvis?
    I'm out. 😊

    • @leontaecoleman3644
      @leontaecoleman3644 5 місяців тому +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🤣🤣😅😅🤣🤣

    • @KingJancelot
      @KingJancelot 5 місяців тому +2

      Carjackin Jarvis, lol

  • @SirNic4180
    @SirNic4180 5 місяців тому +31

    Big forehead keshia 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @aizensama9141
    @aizensama9141 5 місяців тому +2

    I would say at this point it's the chicken and the egg question. They're easily influenced and they're just naturally attracted to Glocktavious. It's time to accept that this is who and what they are.

  • @vondeezl2961
    @vondeezl2961 5 місяців тому +2

    Imagine if men as a whole, lacked thee accountability, discernment and emotional fortitude that women as a whole DO! 🤔

  • @dricoirving3236
    @dricoirving3236 5 місяців тому +16

    Hood Tyrant 😂😂😂

    • @radedfaded3700
      @radedfaded3700 5 місяців тому

      Nope we don't pose a threat to the earth, the k.k.k do though!

  • @nodribbler
    @nodribbler 5 місяців тому +4

    Tbh bro, hood dudes not the only ones doing this stuff

  • @erickqwesibentilmanie2382
    @erickqwesibentilmanie2382 5 місяців тому +9

    If useful to the group was a person😂. Let them talk enough, they will snitch on themselves 😂

  • @delanomartin6640
    @delanomartin6640 5 місяців тому +1

    It been going on years even back in those times when we thought we acted better bad choices are timeless

    • @barbararichardson2747
      @barbararichardson2747 5 місяців тому

      Life is a learning experience and so is bad choices. Only fools continually make the same decisions.

  • @BigWelt
    @BigWelt 5 місяців тому +2

    Stop laughing MM...she is reformed. 😂

  • @illoneson.5218
    @illoneson.5218 5 місяців тому +4

    don't let these chicks try and come back to you brother's don't save them save yourself

  • @RoyPeters1
    @RoyPeters1 5 місяців тому +2

    They'll continue to love them. They can't help themselves 😂 pookie built different

  • @tjsmoothrock
    @tjsmoothrock 5 місяців тому +3

    I’m still trying to figure out how thugs became the measuring stick of quality sex.

    • @KingJancelot
      @KingJancelot 5 місяців тому +1

      When black women was born

    • @morrymoreturns9813
      @morrymoreturns9813 5 місяців тому +1

      Because they’re typically rough and non-caring which is ironically what Keisha loves

    • @KingJancelot
      @KingJancelot 5 місяців тому

      @@morrymoreturns9813 This is who they are. They glorify the men that destroy our community. They praised them for going in and out of jail They uplift them for robbing, stealing, killing then they turn around and say "Where are the decent men in our community?"

  • @BluEx22329
    @BluEx22329 5 місяців тому +2

    Umar needs to see this

  • @shogun8807
    @shogun8807 5 місяців тому +1

    @medium man, thank you for another great video! Workout 🏋️‍♀️ on Legs 🦵 tomorrow.

  • @johnh8705
    @johnh8705 5 місяців тому +2

    The tethers are tethering

  • @sneakybidder4584
    @sneakybidder4584 5 місяців тому +2

    This is pure comedy 😂😂

  • @mastershokhan
    @mastershokhan 5 місяців тому +4

    Pookie and Ray Ray are necessary. He is consequence and savior.

  • @KiamKweli
    @KiamKweli 5 місяців тому +3

    All I heard was "Crack is wack. Crack is cheap". From a certain world famous singer. 🤔🙄
    Correct it's not even a certain type of girl that's attracted to them. Social media is a cancer. Tubi, and BET are promoting this bs too.

  • @user-hp2ij6hy4f
    @user-hp2ij6hy4f 5 місяців тому +1

    Bless this young woman for being brave enough to tell the truth that she no longer accepts degrading herself. As you can blatantly see she is fairly young but wise enough to notice the poor choices she has made. @Medium Man, it's pretty sad how you are laughing at her? All she is saying is we can do better. Also, there are so many factors that play in a woman's decisions an absent father, abuse, movies rap culture young influence. Let's applaud young girls who realize are accountable for their past mistakes, not shame them. 💯

    • @rbean1954
      @rbean1954 5 місяців тому +3

      Stop the BS. He's laughing at her hypocrisy, because he knows she's full of BS. Once a woman has a "type" of dude it does not change.

    • @moniquejohns7737
      @moniquejohns7737 5 місяців тому +1

      @rbean1954 If you want to choose to stay a young girl and not learn from your mistakes that can be true. However there are tons that learn not to keep hitting the break wall. I'm glad to see young woman realize this before they have children.

  • @tlqwtlqw6957
    @tlqwtlqw6957 5 місяців тому

    I grew up in Brownville brooklyn if you strong minded you can pick and choose which men you gravitate too . Period !!!!

    • @Ptah1130
      @Ptah1130 5 місяців тому

      ENY baby!! Bamas

  • @anthonyosburn3786
    @anthonyosburn3786 5 місяців тому

    She is telling the truth period.

  • @YoungBrotha438
    @YoungBrotha438 5 місяців тому +2

    This might’ve been the most hilarious video I’ve watched on UA-cam but it was hard to laugh

  • @KOJO_WINS
    @KOJO_WINS 5 місяців тому +2

    Don't fall for the reachback, as AC says. They're damaged.

  • @anthonyosburn3786
    @anthonyosburn3786 5 місяців тому +2

    Medium man she is coming from her own experience and she is admitting that she picked a toxic man. At least she is admitting her issue and i don't see nothing wrong with that. I commend her for telling the truth about herself and the fact she is telling other black women to stop it.

    • @RASTAGOOB
      @RASTAGOOB 5 місяців тому +1

      This the problem you’re missing with your point. Every prototype of BW from the bottom feeders, ratchets to the high earners “boss chicks” they’ve just about dealt with and continuously deal with street cats or pookies…

    • @cyes1156
      @cyes1156 5 місяців тому +2

      The problem is once black women are in their late 20's or early 30's that's when they all of a sudden want the good man when they were attracted to bad boys for 10 plus years....... Leave those good men alone and keep dating the bad boys

    • @youngreckless1608
      @youngreckless1608 5 місяців тому

      Bro the only thing that piss me off is guys like Umar and Boyce.
      Who say these women don’t know that the guy they are with or who they attracted to are Thugs or Scammers.
      🤦🏽‍♂️ Umar even admitted what this women in the Video said in one of his videos 20s Thot 30s Thots then want a Husband at 40 😅.
      But on Dailyrap crew he bit his words and say men are at fault 😂.
      Boyce admitted to with his debate against Anton.
      Boyce

  • @kslikk34
    @kslikk34 5 місяців тому +1

    Glad I'm a law abiding citizen that carries a sig and hellcat.

  • @Blvck_6
    @Blvck_6 5 місяців тому +3

    I want to make it known that I started the phrase Glocktavious

  • @workconverseify
    @workconverseify 5 місяців тому

    HBCU's have this issue in the worst possible way

  • @omvful
    @omvful 5 місяців тому +1

    and then they try to blame all men for their choice

  • @treiskushrenada6332
    @treiskushrenada6332 Місяць тому

    This is the same chick that said she doesn’t date American Black Men😂😂😂

  • @dqsmooth34
    @dqsmooth34 5 місяців тому +1

    It should be a rule that women like this should watch their own video 50x before posting it. LMAO! I was laughing just as hard with you MM!

  • @williescott6701
    @williescott6701 5 місяців тому +1

    It’s a fit in thing. Black women grow up seeing this type of guy in the spotlight whether on music videos, gangster movies, and tv sitcoms. And, the women who they look up to tend to be with those types of guys. And, as a result of pecking order, the women who are beneath this group of women tend to imitate the behavior and actions of those women, like Nicki Minaj. W.A.P! Then the women under those women follow the that group of women. And, the cycle continues

  • @EggheadJr1
    @EggheadJr1 5 місяців тому +1

    I went to Morehouse in the late 90s. We used to watch those Spelman princesses drive daddy's benz right on down to the projects to find her husband....
    The music at the time infuenced that stuff a lot Jagged Edge, Ja Rule, Dru Hill, DMX, Jay-Z even 50 Cent. All these acts had songs that reinforced what I call the Thug Love Movement of the 99/2000's. Ja Rule and Ashanti played off of each other for years during that time. You could probably time breakups/relationships to their releases.

  • @Cyber-Rain
    @Cyber-Rain 5 місяців тому +2

    People need to stop with the whole "I can save her/I can fix him" complex.
    1. No you can't, most likely.
    2. Whose to say that person even wants to be saved/fixed?
    Why purposely put yourself in an uphill battle? Women have the fantasy of being the special person who can tame the wildest of beasts. Men have the fantasy of being the hero savior. These women think they have the Golden WAP that can change Pookies' and Ray Rays' ways. They can take a nomadic jail bum and reform him into an upstanding gentleman. Then, they further reward bad behavior by giving these guys a child or two. Now, they're boohooing because their plan predictably fails after purposely ignoring multiple warnings. The next guy has to meet higher forms of expectations and demands just to get the honors of cleaning her mess. Such a sweet deal.😂

  • @carltheyoda2155
    @carltheyoda2155 5 місяців тому

    She's part of the many and irrationally proud Pookie Concubine Club!!!

  • @lifealliancegroup
    @lifealliancegroup 5 місяців тому

    Well, we know our sisters are the most beautiful of all them women on GOD'S earth, but what makes them even more beautiful, is when they become wise very early, and carry that wisdom to the rest of our black community, despite the position being unpopular !!!!! GOD BLESS THESE WOMEN IN THIS VLOG !

  • @chilzone966
    @chilzone966 5 місяців тому +2

    It's too late, accountability arrived July 2023. Now many men no longer care and $$$$$'s are traveling everywhere.

  • @jrt2792
    @jrt2792 5 місяців тому +1

    Guess that 🎶"Thuggin' Love"🎵 didn't end that well.

  • @SigmaImperial
    @SigmaImperial 5 місяців тому +1

    It’s way too late and the damage is done. 😂 👋🏿

  • @wren23_bass-synths
    @wren23_bass-synths 5 місяців тому +1

    Yeah, okay. Whatever you say. Actions speak louder than words.

  • @bama2dabone229
    @bama2dabone229 5 місяців тому +1

    Women prefering pookies inspires young black men to become future pookies

  • @geepee1500
    @geepee1500 5 місяців тому +1

    This just in! She looking like one of the flying Fish from Super Mario Brothers.

  • @cbbruer1350
    @cbbruer1350 5 місяців тому +2

    Back in the late 80's there was alot of proBlack, Asiatic Black Man, etc. Rap music. I think that the Powers that Be decided that this was too much. And the next thing you know Gangsta Rap blew up. It was no coincidence. Dead Prez can't even get a Ham Sandwich.

  • @821C
    @821C 5 місяців тому +2

    Let them talk long enough and they will always tell on themselves

  • @martinrandyd
    @martinrandyd 5 місяців тому +6

    It’s a product of the media we are fed. Black tv, movies and music overwhelmingly tap into certain stereotypes that keep us behind. Thats why they are attached to Glocktavious.

    • @redlord-blacksigma2795
      @redlord-blacksigma2795 5 місяців тому +7

      Just because a plate of 💩 is placed on a table in front of you doesn't mean you have to eat it. I'm not eating 💩 just to fit into the community box with those who chose to eat it, and I reject those who feel I should by feeding it to me. I grew up in the Jets of Chi-Town, so IDGA💩 about the excuses people make.

    • @martinrandyd
      @martinrandyd 5 місяців тому

      @@redlord-blacksigma2795 that’s easy to say. Media especially music is powerful. We shouldn’t discount that.

    • @redlord-blacksigma2795
      @redlord-blacksigma2795 5 місяців тому +3

      @martinrandyd It's easy to say and not hard to do. I don't care how much I hear BW is God, I'm not accepting it. I don't like liver, no matter how it's cooked. The only time you accept things is when you want or like what you are getting. Force never works when one has freedom.