The Biggest Mistake You Can Make When Leaving A Narcissistic Relationship
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If you've experienced narcissistic abuse, you may feel like you're dealing with lasting damage to your mental health. Narcissistic abuse can leave you feeling powerless, confused, and deeply hurt. But there is hope for healing and recovery. In this video, we'll explore the brain damage caused by narcissistic abuse and show you how to reverse its effects.
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They’ll never stop cheating, lying, manipulating. It’s who and what they are. Keep your boundaries and DON’T feel bad for doing what is right for yourself (and kids, if you have them together)! They’ll blame you and lie more, they’ll send their flying monkeys in to help, they’ll try to smooth-talk and charm you … LEAVE (if you can safely)! It is NOT worth your sanity to believe they will change. They won’t. Much love ❤️ Awesome message, as usual.
Omg I exerperenced this it's sooooo draining
Living with a narcissist is disorienting because they distort reality to fit their agenda. I'm in a constant state of disarray, never knowing which version of my husband is going to walk in the door at the end of the day. I never feel safe to simply be me. One of the reasons why I am so confused right now is because I thought I had married the perfect man. He was everything I’d ever wanted in a man and in the beginning presented himself as my biggest fan and supporter. He was charming, loving, passionate, and attentive to my every need, both emotional and physical. Until he wasn’t.
Until a side of him popped up every so often that threw me off balance, he started to cheat, he was so protective of his phone, yesterday I got in contact with a hacker here who helped cloned his phone and that gave me access to his text messages and social media without touching his phone, I wanted to be sure if my suspicion was right or wrong, I still can't believe what I saw today, he's cheating with several women, I've made up my mind not to be with him anymore cause this is the height of it all, I'm sure so many women are in a similar situation andk you deserve to know if you're being cheated on, here's the private investigator information, you can get in touch with him @bugtools
Living with a narcissist is disorienting because they distort reality to fit their agenda. I'm in a constant state of disarray, never knowing which version of my husband is going to walk in the door at the end of the day. I never feel safe to simply be me. One of the reasons why I am so confused right now is because I thought I had married the perfect man. He was everything I’d ever wanted in a man and in the beginning presented himself as my biggest fan and supporter. He was charming, loving, passionate, and attentive to my every need, both emotional and physical. Until he wasn’t.
Until a side of him popped up every so often that threw me off balance, he started to cheat, he was so protective of his phone, yesterday I got in contact with a hacker here who helped cloned his phone and that gave me access to his text messages and social media without touching his phone, I wanted to be sure if my suspicion was right or wrong, I still can't believe what I saw today, he's cheating with several women, I've made up my mind not to be with him anymore cause this is the height of it all, I'm sure so many women are in a similar situation andk you deserve to know if you're being cheated on, here's the private investigator information, you can get in touch with him @bugtools
Completely goiing through this ❤ left me while pregnant, strung me on for a while having me think we were together then i got a message from another woman. Keep your self worth 🙌🙏❤️
I can relate to your story. There is nothing amicable when dealing with divorcing a malignant narcissist alcoholic I just went through. I tried all of that looking out for my children’s best interests as he was counter parenting and using my kids as pawns to seek his never ending , no mercy vengeance on me.
There’s never the chance or hope of thinking he would reciprocate being amicable, cooperate, play fair, abide by the rules and laws.
He went about every situation with a scorched earth approach.. always retaliating when he was called out on and exposed for violating court orders or asked to cooperate and what he hated “told what to do “or he’d be held in contempt .
It was a nightmare being married to him, and almost as bad in the divorce.
Sadly I can relate. Same. They’re the worst.
So true and we don’t have kids together but we do have two dogs and I learnt very quickly how fast they escalate in vindictiveness vileness and just even more abusive behaviour that I just couldn’t stay any longer there were secret cameras he’d get his mates to come into the home to check up on everything even if I was there! So I literally crawled out of my home of 20 years and was taken to a woman’s shelter and thank god they took me because I was still under the illusion that no one would believe me or that they would see that I had been abused because he never pushed it physically too much to leave a mark but I was a complete wreck and on the verge of losing my job because I couldn’t concentrate I couldn’t verbalise myself and I felt I had no one to talk to. Going to the shelter gave me my sanity back and I felt safe and secure no more cameras no more threatening messages and phone calls no more rifling through my things my mail and email checking out everything I did I spent 4 months getting stronger finding people like Caroline who could say something that happened to them that also happened to me I was told about narcissism and educated myself as much as I could and realised he was a covert narcissist a constant liar and cheater and I think he was happy I left without his knowledge because he just continued on with one of his on/off mistresses as soon as I was gone I have since found out he had been cheating for the last 8 years whilst I thought we were happily married and I would always excuse his behaviour down to stress or whatever I could because I never would have believed that he would cheat not ever. I’m so grateful for these videos and thank you Caroline for lifting the blindfold to their behaviour. I’m in a better situation now but I’m going through the divorce process and the lies he’s telling are just unreal and it’s so unfair I’d love to see some videos on the divorce from a narcissist because all I find is how to get out and cut ties but it’s not that simple when it comes to divorce unfortunately and having to live with how unfair it all is can be very draining
❤Be very careful!!
1. Bribed all of my attorneys (so he could break laws & avoid punishment)
2. Had me diagnosed as the dangerous narc
3. Had me arrested, Police assaulted me & I still have back pain. I had to quit my job b/c of pain. He attempted to lock me in a psych ward (Dr.'s let me go after all of my labs came back clean) They apologized to me.
4. Broke into our house & stole documents & broke down the ceiling in the garage.
5. Sent multiple men to our house to "fix" things
6. Stole my car, some clothes, jewelry
🙏🌹🙏 Prayers for your safety!! If you can move away~~DO IT!!❤
@@taffylove6193 sorry this happened to you but as stated in my post I managed to get out but just waiting on my divorce and the police are already aware of his abuse thankfully
It is all about revenge against you the moment you leave them and even if you expose them with facts, they will hate you even more for life. Don't worry about the kids, eventually the kids will become adults and live their own lives. Leave, get out and run for your life!!!! You dodged a bullet! Love yourself ❤❤❤respect yourself ❤❤❤and regain self-confidence
Document EVERYTHING, communicate in writing not verbally. Don’t let them get you noticeably upset, so they can say “see, I told you she/he was unstable” (while they act like the most calm and well intentioned person ever in front of third parties) and remember that narcissists are drawn to the legal profession so your ex may very easily be able to pull this off in court if you aren’t extremely careful. That judges have little patience for complicated he said she says battles and may just chose to believe the one with the more pleasant demeanour, who is able to lie without guilt to spin his story. That judges and mediators are potential weapons to wield against you, who can make all their lies into verified “ffacts” if they can draw them in successfully, while you protest, looking difficult and emotional.
Thank you for doing the work you do 💐
8:45 Caroline that's really cool that you have a support group for SOME of your devoted viewers. Please remember you have men on here going through the same pain. I love you bunches but I don't understand the need for it being a gender-specific support group. ❤
Thank you so much your video is a god send I’m a tuff situation and this is giving me assurance thank you so much
Average of going back back is 7 times.
It's been a couple weeks now for me, and I am having mental fatigue, so just feeling quite tired, I just want to sleep.But I have hardly any hurt or pain within my soul,but understanding what I went through has helped me so much, as I never understood what a narcissist actually was, but watching videos on it has help me understand the type of relationship I was in. But I do not think my ex knows she is a narcissist. I am wondering if I should tell her or just leave it?
❤ Please don't tell her... Safety is #l! They unleash HELL🔥 on you if you tell them. Just Quietly get away! 💞💞💞