Wow these were such good tips! Loved the bit about expectations and keeping our sights set on the big picture. This was such an uplifting video, you have such a calming and sweet spirit and are so nice to watch! Thank you so much for taking the time to share all these beautiful, powerful tips! You are amazing. :)
This was wonderful and wise. I loved the part about keeping the end goal in mind. I definitely flew off the handle yelling at my kids today, but hopefully tomorrow I can remember some of these tips and try again :)
So I know this is an older video, but I have 3 kids 4 and under. I notice when I take the kids out by myself, grocery store, zoo, lake, simple outings. I am much more tiered and I am quicker to lose patience.. would you advice to not worry about going out much? Usually I meet with a friend with her kids, or just for fun /:
That IS a challenging thing. For me it helps for the kids to know what my expectations are for their behavior. I also have to remember that they are kids and will have their moments. I would try to only take them out when they were fed and rested (hangry kids are so much harder to reason with). If they misbehaved in the store I would get really close their their ear and whisper a reminder or what kind of behavior they needed to have. I usually bring a snack in the store for my baby/toddler and pull it out once they start getting antsy. I like to have granola bar as reward/incentive for the older kids having good behavior; they get to eat it once we get back to our vehicle. It is easy to feel overwhelmed and more stressed when you’re out with the kids. You’re not alone and know that with consistent parenting and maturity your kids should be able to handle outings better. 🤗👍🏻
It doesn't come naturally to any of us! That's why it's a fruit of the Holy Spirit. ; ) But as we grow in our relationship with God, hopefully it becomes a natural outpouring on those around us.
Thank you so much for this video. There was so much richness in it - so much that I needed to hear. Patience is a virtue I struggle with a lot. Even as I'm in this momentum of typing. 😜 Thank you so much for the practical tips paired along with Biblical truth.
Patience and kindness are key to parenting. I'm so glad I saw your video...these are great tips. Adjust expectations and serve others...I love these. Just subbed.
Hello! This video was so encouraging to me. Just what I needed to hear! Thank you so much for sharing these tips. I loved all the scripture references - they really put things into perspective for me! 😊
I'm from Sarah's channel and wow am I forever grateful for this video! You actually made me tear up a bit and I think I'm going to try that soft voice tip. Sometimes I get so heated with my girls because I'm overwhelmed that I forget that maybe they are emotional too. Sometimes all they need is a hug to calm them back down 😊 I have 3 girls, 5, 2 (3 in March) and 8 month old (on the 18 of Feb)
This was really great, Deanna! I loved what you were saying about Proverbs 15:1! That's something I really need to work on in general, not just with Ezra :)
You’re not alone! It’s a daily battle, not only with our own sinful nature but also remember the Bible says that we aren’t fighting physicals battles. Our battles are Spiritual ones. Keep seeking the Lord, memorize Scripture, and seek forgiveness from your kids when you lose your temper. 💕😊
Wow these were such good tips! Loved the bit about expectations and keeping our sights set on the big picture. This was such an uplifting video, you have such a calming and sweet spirit and are so nice to watch! Thank you so much for taking the time to share all these beautiful, powerful tips! You are amazing. :)
I'm glad you took something away from it! : ) Trust me, anything "good" about me is from the Holy Spirit. Thanks for your compliments though. xo
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Big ups to you for preaching to your children and others through your life.
This was awesome ty! You're so soft spoken I can't even imagine you having issues with patience ☺️ 💗
thank you so much for this. It was perfect.
Lauren Morton Thanks Lauren! I hope you're having a good week. 😊
Thank you very much for this encouragement!!
Loved this video! Wonderful tips 💗 You seem so sweet.
Aw, thanks for watching! Have a great Valentine's Day! : )
Thank you! Can’t tell you how much I needed this encouragement!
I'm so happy you felt encouraged! Have a great week! : )
Gosh this is a great topic I pray for patience daily with 6 kids I feel like it's a constant struggle.
It totally is! Growing in patience is always a great goal. 🤗
Wow, wow, WOW!! Great tips!! :) Love your sweet spirit!
This was wonderful and wise. I loved the part about keeping the end goal in mind. I definitely flew off the handle yelling at my kids today, but hopefully tomorrow I can remember some of these tips and try again :)
Rachel DeCamp You're not alone; we all need to be mindful of Gods word and apply it to our lives! Hope your tomorrow is filled with more victories! 😊
So I know this is an older video, but I have 3 kids 4 and under. I notice when I take the kids out by myself, grocery store, zoo, lake, simple outings. I am much more tiered and I am quicker to lose patience.. would you advice to not worry about going out much? Usually I meet with a friend with her kids, or just for fun /:
That IS a challenging thing. For me it helps for the kids to know what my expectations are for their behavior. I also have to remember that they are kids and will have their moments. I would try to only take them out when they were fed and rested (hangry kids are so much harder to reason with). If they misbehaved in the store I would get really close their their ear and whisper a reminder or what kind of behavior they needed to have. I usually bring a snack in the store for my baby/toddler and pull it out once they start getting antsy. I like to have granola bar as reward/incentive for the older kids having good behavior; they get to eat it once we get back to our vehicle. It is easy to feel overwhelmed and more stressed when you’re out with the kids. You’re not alone and know that with consistent parenting and maturity your kids should be able to handle outings better. 🤗👍🏻
I really needed this. Thanks for sharing! Patience is very tough for me.
It doesn't come naturally to any of us! That's why it's a fruit of the Holy Spirit. ; ) But as we grow in our relationship with God, hopefully it becomes a natural outpouring on those around us.
Very true... they model our behavior. I struggle most with my oldest son, he's 9.
Thank you so much for this video. There was so much richness in it - so much that I needed to hear. Patience is a virtue I struggle with a lot. Even as I'm in this momentum of typing. 😜 Thank you so much for the practical tips paired along with Biblical truth.
I hear ya! Hope the rest of your week goes well. Love the new shelving Shane put up in your kitchen (that you posted on IG)!
Patience and kindness are key to parenting. I'm so glad I saw your video...these are great tips. Adjust expectations and serve others...I love these. Just subbed.
Thanks for stopping by Elysha! I can definitely use these reminders too. ; )
Hello! This video was so encouraging to me. Just what I needed to hear! Thank you so much for sharing these tips. I loved all the scripture references - they really put things into perspective for me! 😊
Aw, I'm so glad! Thanks for stopping by and have a great week! : )
Thank you! I really needed this. I feel like I need to take notes on everything you said so I remember. I love how you're living out the Bible
Thanks Mama! I need these daily reminders too. Every day is filled with a mixture of challenges and sweetness!
I'm from Sarah's channel and wow am I forever grateful for this video! You actually made me tear up a bit and I think I'm going to try that soft voice tip. Sometimes I get so heated with my girls because I'm overwhelmed that I forget that maybe they are emotional too. Sometimes all they need is a hug to calm them back down 😊 I have 3 girls, 5, 2 (3 in March) and 8 month old (on the 18 of Feb)
Sending you a Mama hug; I can relate to feeling overwhelmed. Hang in there and start fresh today! Thanks for stopping by! : )
This was really great, Deanna! I loved what you were saying about Proverbs 15:1! That's something I really need to work on in general, not just with Ezra :)
I hear you, these are things I am reminding myself as well!
This video helped me reflect so much and I love that you included actions we can put into place. BTW I came by way of Happy Home Life!
Thanks for stopping by! I'm glad you were encouraged and found it helpful. : ) Take care!
I lose patience a lot I’m a first time mom 😞
You’re not alone! It’s a daily battle, not only with our own sinful nature but also remember the Bible says that we aren’t fighting physicals battles. Our battles are Spiritual ones. Keep seeking the Lord, memorize Scripture, and seek forgiveness from your kids when you lose your temper. 💕😊