I am HIV-positive. So what? | Avin Tan | TEDxNTU

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  • Опубліковано 3 жов 2024
  • As a gay person living with HIV in a conservative Asian society like Singapore, Avin Tan shares the challenges he faced and life-lessons he learnt after his diagnosis and coming out in the public. He calls for a less discriminative society and a better HIV educated community.
    Avin Tan is one of Singapore’s most prominent HIV advocate, and is only the second person to come out as a person living with HIV in Singapore. He stands for the equal rights and support for people living with HIV, as well as better access to care and treatment.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

КОМЕНТАРІ • 132

  • @justinamusyoka4986
    @justinamusyoka4986 4 роки тому +37

    Thank you for sharing. We're strong in this journey. Bless you.

  • @flip1980ful
    @flip1980ful 2 роки тому +20

    Reparenting myself was the best thing I did to begin the journey back from a horrible family experience where I was systematically isolated and punished for being different.

    • @williamsbiden756
      @williamsbiden756 2 роки тому

      *After using the medication I got from Dr abiola on UA-cam now I am completely cured from HIV* 🇺🇸🇺🇸

  • @adamtanpahawa850
    @adamtanpahawa850 7 років тому +73

    no one can defined anyone for their mistake.we are human we learn and going forward.he is more than the diagnose he is a student who learn from our past and that is us too.

  • @lydiantuli8245
    @lydiantuli8245 2 роки тому +33

    Today I say I forgive the guy who gave me hiv and yes am hiv so what♥️

    • @cameotaylorz974
      @cameotaylorz974 2 роки тому +4

      ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾💯 Amen

    • @williamsbiden756
      @williamsbiden756 2 роки тому

      *After using the medication I got from Dr abiola on UA-cam now I am completely cured from HIV* 🇺🇸🇺🇸

    • @williamsbiden756
      @williamsbiden756 2 роки тому

      @@cameotaylorz974 *After using the medication I got from Dr abiola on UA-cam now I am completely cured from HIV* 🇺🇸🇺🇸

    • @RobinPadaplin-mc8fo
      @RobinPadaplin-mc8fo 9 місяців тому

      I'm sorry , i feel guilty

  • @glenquagmire4232
    @glenquagmire4232 3 роки тому +34

    I got tested today im thankfull because its a non reactive.. i hope people more people should be aware about this issue it must be teach in children in adults in all of us because this thing "HIV" is a global awareness thing.

    • @southside4892
      @southside4892 2 роки тому

      Non reactive how can we know

    • @happysoul794
      @happysoul794 2 роки тому

      but still it can get transferred right?

    • @williamsbiden756
      @williamsbiden756 2 роки тому

      *After using the medication I got from Dr abiola on UA-cam now I am completely cured from HIV* 🇺🇸🇺🇸

    • @williamsbiden756
      @williamsbiden756 2 роки тому

      @@happysoul794 *After using the medication I got from Dr abiola on UA-cam now I am completely cured from HIV* 🇺🇸🇺🇸

  • @jennifersinclair7249
    @jennifersinclair7249 5 років тому +24

    This guy is freaking awesome.

  • @melvyncarrot4741
    @melvyncarrot4741 5 років тому +23

    Avin, you are an inspiration to each and everyone of us and the LGBT community. ❤️

  • @angadsingh9099
    @angadsingh9099 6 років тому +15

    best example of conviction of courage

  • @catherinekathini2909
    @catherinekathini2909 2 роки тому +2

    Keep on moving what a good story

  • @thomaslivingstone6734
    @thomaslivingstone6734 4 роки тому +1

    ‘Never stop’ I Like that.

  • @jake3311
    @jake3311 2 роки тому +15

    Yeah I'm not just sure he's a good motivational speaker, I'm HIV positive.

    • @chandanbehera8367
      @chandanbehera8367 2 роки тому +1

      Bro ART taking and now how are you feel

    • @williamsbiden756
      @williamsbiden756 2 роки тому

      *After using the medication I got from Dr abiola on UA-cam now I am completely cured from HIV* 🇺🇸🇺🇸

  • @JimmiAlli
    @JimmiAlli 4 роки тому +5

    Good on you Avin.

  • @edwardi41
    @edwardi41 4 роки тому +3

    thanks, it really helps

  • @BlueEyesBrittany
    @BlueEyesBrittany 7 років тому +19

    Following on a comment below where someone says that sending all those who have hiv to an island, I can conly comment that this will neither stop hiv, nor be a solution. Part of the solution is for people to be wiser and certainly responsible with what they do and have safe practices. The other solution would of course be to abstain (both male and female) prior to marriage and then complete fidelity but sine there is no way we can guarantee that men are vigrins or that partners will be faithful, i suppose that complete absitnence or protecting one self all the time are the only viable solutions. I chose abstinence because love cannot be reduce to sex for one and for a second, as i will never be able to trust anyone knowing what the deal is, i am just not going to take any risk and any chance.

    • @eugenekim3012
      @eugenekim3012 7 років тому +2

      Just ignore that foolish skank.

    • @williamsbiden756
      @williamsbiden756 2 роки тому

      *After using the medication I got from Dr abiola on UA-cam now I am completely cured from HIV* 🇺🇸🇺🇸

  • @easttocentralmidwestpublis5673
    @easttocentralmidwestpublis5673 8 років тому +6

    Interesting indeed!

  • @Mrguykenya
    @Mrguykenya 4 роки тому +16

    I remember watching a tv show where an Asian-American psychotherapist was informed by a former lover that he had hiv. She was sure she had to have it too, and soon afterward, she became very sick with a fever. Then she was tested. The test came out negative and her fever subsided without treatment. Interesting, isn't it? It wasn't hiv giving her the fever, so what was it? The mind is quite something, don't you agree? You'd be surprised how many people would receive positive results if tested, and yet they're living perfectly normal lives without any treatment whatsoever. Don't get it twisted, I am not an anti-medical parader, I am just making observations.

    • @spiderjump
      @spiderjump 4 роки тому

      Joseph Chuzzy or she had a virus

    • @bradcampbell5766
      @bradcampbell5766 4 роки тому +2

      Fear and the placebo/nocebo effect play a big role. If you have HIV, and you are convinced it needs treatment then you will submit to protocols that do more harm than good, and probably shorten your life. Meanwhile the people with HIV who have no "access" to these "miracle drugs" and PREPS do better. and are not discernable from anyone else. I think humans have the wrong story about viruses. We have made them the enemy to be subdued which is an absurd notion. If you study enough you will realize that HIV does not cause AIDS, but we have been fooled by a false premise. See Kary Mullis, and DR. Zach Bush MD from The Highwire interview last thursday.

    • @williamsbiden756
      @williamsbiden756 2 роки тому

      *After using the medication I got from Dr abiola on UA-cam now I am completely cured from HIV* 🇺🇸🇺🇸

    • @abhaysinghkanwar6354
      @abhaysinghkanwar6354 Рік тому +1

      You make a point

  • @jeffersondelatorre3990
    @jeffersondelatorre3990 3 роки тому +14

    I am hiv + so what 😍

    • @naginaparmar952
      @naginaparmar952 3 роки тому

      All thanks to Dr.Auchi on UA-cam for cure me from Hiv disease with his herbal medicine

    • @yumitmorwal
      @yumitmorwal 2 роки тому

      Toh kuch nhi G marao aur..👍

    • @mannuparu997
      @mannuparu997 2 роки тому +5

      @@yumitmorwal bro this is not a reply just. U r discouraging. U should encourage.

    • @williamsbiden756
      @williamsbiden756 2 роки тому

      *After using the medication I got from Dr abiola on UA-cam now I am completely cured from HIV* 🇺🇸🇺🇸

  • @nalayinisivanesan8041
    @nalayinisivanesan8041 8 років тому +6

    wow inspiration

  • @russelltoliaodevera5669
    @russelltoliaodevera5669 7 років тому +6

    hey Avin how are you hope all is well with you i just wanted to say :)

  • @lizabeth3892
    @lizabeth3892 6 років тому +9

    Only God knows the answer

  • @bablootv5910
    @bablootv5910 2 роки тому +1

    Real hero

  • @nickygreenfingers
    @nickygreenfingers 5 років тому +18

    I know thousands with HIV who never take medication & are completely fine, Dr Claus Kohnlein , Neville Hodgkinson, Peter Deusberg , Dr Joe Sonnabend , Dr David Rasnick , Kary Mullis, just listen to these people please, my best wishes

    • @a.muchemi4360
      @a.muchemi4360 4 роки тому +10

      @Ron Si haha 22yrs no symptoms, no medications and very healthy ..... our body are different. Those who need medication should take it but those whose CD's are still good can wait meanwhile. Good Doctors give right information and also look out for them ........ all bodies arent the same ..... i eat well, sleep well doing my Phd all who are HIV have a life. If u chose the HIV to difine u u will be sick .......

    • @ashishhinduja3277
      @ashishhinduja3277 4 роки тому

      @@a.muchemi4360 were you diagnosed hiv positive ?

    • @loriedeebanayat6170
      @loriedeebanayat6170 4 роки тому

      A. Muchemi p Opo

    • @pppppp7500
      @pppppp7500 4 роки тому

      @@a.muchemi4360 hi

    • @bradcampbell5766
      @bradcampbell5766 4 роки тому

      I concur. We are voices in the wilderness. It's time for people to know the truth. I have been on a steep learning curve being inspired by Covid, and I realize the similar dysfunction which has led to unnecessary suffering and death. Have you watched the interview from last thursday with Dr. Zach Bush MD on The Highwire?

  • @positivelymindful6579
    @positivelymindful6579 5 років тому

    Thank you

  • @Maverick-ck6cv
    @Maverick-ck6cv 3 роки тому

    Being big positive makes u good orator!

    • @williamsbiden756
      @williamsbiden756 2 роки тому

      *After using the medication I got from Dr abiola on UA-cam now I am completely cured from HIV* 🇺🇸🇺🇸

  • @คฑาวุธเรืองบุญรบ

    I waching again positive 'point and yes 70'30% felt like body ' every time .24 hr Ai track fire pretty girl highlight ..ไม่ไห้ดูได้ไง AV ...เขารู้มันหมายความว่าไง..เขาถึงมีกฎห้ามมีความสัมพันธิ์ .Agency Stars ..

  • @blammy8489
    @blammy8489 4 місяці тому

    How can get Singapore guy for date?

  • @misshenry9207
    @misshenry9207 2 роки тому +2

    I am writing this comment with tears of joy a months ago i found out i was diagnosed with HIV, but now am HIV negative all Glory to Dr Abiola on UA-cam .

  • @georgecurry9226
    @georgecurry9226 3 роки тому

    Dr. Jibola on UA-cam helped me with the Herbal Med that got rid of my Hepatitis B permanently

  • @chaitea3912
    @chaitea3912 6 років тому +1

    I love Singapore.

    • @williamsbiden756
      @williamsbiden756 2 роки тому

      *After using the medication I got from Dr abiola on UA-cam now I am completely cured from HIV* 🇺🇸🇺🇸

  • @cruthika
    @cruthika Рік тому

  • @Trendingkiller5
    @Trendingkiller5 6 місяців тому

    I am Positive I need Positive girl partner I am 24 year old boy

  • @scottseptne5239
    @scottseptne5239 Рік тому

    HIV eliminated permanently. All Thanks to Doctor Alued for his good work and I promise to let the world know about your UA-cam channel Doctor Alued

    • @evanb7876
      @evanb7876 9 місяців тому

      F U. Go hide in a dark hole and don’t even joke.

  • @yank196101
    @yank196101 4 роки тому +4

    I know hiv will take ten years off your life span.

    • @yank196101
      @yank196101 Рік тому +1

      @VERA VEVA if it is on youtube then it has to be true...

    • @chanduucharan6915
      @chanduucharan6915 8 місяців тому

      More than hiv the fear will kill us ...its really sad weird virus ..but I don't think people are dieing with hiv or they dieing with fear of depression ..more depression can also led down immunity system..no one knows

  • @Maria-rj7sf
    @Maria-rj7sf 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Dr mason channel on UA-cam for curing me of my infection..Keep saving lives sir

  • @mustafakamal9334
    @mustafakamal9334 6 років тому

    Losing everything will you be wise but by then it's too late for choice of repentance

  • @designer-jocks_mc6517
    @designer-jocks_mc6517 7 років тому +1

    ❤️&✌️

  • @flikcof7910
    @flikcof7910 6 років тому +1

    Time to stop farking around

  • @HIVPositiveDatingSitesApps
    @HIVPositiveDatingSitesApps 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing.. keep moving