The way Evan stays so calm especially in front of the kids when Carlin is going through her seizures is so admirable. I’m sure he’s stressing inside but the way he handles himself is amazong
Evan. It's OK to have a minute to breakdown to have a moment of wobble. I can see it in your face the stress the worry. Go and do something to relieve stress. A session of Boxing or something. Hit the golf course! You are doing a fantastic job but you are allowed to not be ok for a minute. Carlin same goes to you xxxx
Praise Jesus. I was diagnosed with epilepsy after having 2 seizures in a 24 hour period. I am a single mom with little to no help but I rely on God. I pray for answers for y'all!
When your daughter said, 'it's okay, mom', that brought tears to my eyes. Praying that you'll get answers soon or better yet, God heals her in Jesus' name.
So sweet when Layla says, "It's ok mom." What a tender heart! And so wonderful of Evan trying to get Layla to then look at the trees so she wouldn't be scared.
Bless little Layla saying "it's about to rain" she was trying to distract herself from Carlin's seizure. Zade looks like his sister! Sending prayers for Carlin's health and the whole family's needs🙏
Every time I watch these video snippets it's apparent how well they're managing everything with the children. I know it must not be easy, at all, but the love and care for those kids really shines out
Again i know these videos are 2 years old, but when you mentioned the trees to get her attention from her mom and you stayed so calm, at least on the outside, Evan you are truly amazing. Always lean on your family and friends. God put them in your life for a reason. Love you all. Still keeping everyone in my prayers.
Please, please, please take Carlin for a second opinion!! These episodes have been going on for far too long, and because now they seem to be getting worse it’s getting more and more dangerous for her. I am so surprised that the doctors you’ve been seeing haven’t been able to give you any definite answers, and letting this continue is totally unacceptable. I would call the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota, and self refer Carlin. The doctors at Mayo are the best of the best and will not send you home without any answers ♥️
Someone close to the family, please step forward and set up a Go Fund Me for Carlin's medical expenses. Your subscribers are behind this family 100% and want to help. Please, get her to the Mayo Clinic as soon as possible. This continues to be difficult to watch as your doctors don't have any answers and her episodes have gotten worse. ♡
@@MissFancyClancy that’s so nice of u. what do others do? That maybe don’t have people swooning over them cause they have a channel on UA-cam! Go fund me isn’t for people with money. They seem to spend a lot of money so t please don’t use go fund me like that
Or the Cleveland Clinic, in Cleveland, Ohio. I was sick for 18 months, but no drs could tell me why I was sick. I saw my 8th neurologist in Cleveland and they knew immediately what was wrong with me and started tests to prove that I had what they called POTS. Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome. She would need a tilt table test and one that runs radioactive dye in blood and Cardiologists see how blood flows in the body. They had me laydown and breathe only, my heart rate never went below 120 the whole time. I have seen some people with this online and it can cause seizure like symptoms. Sending ♥️ and prayers for ya'all especially Carlin and Zade. Happy Belated Birthday Evan!
@@cynthiahall3492 This is last thing these folks need, they're really going through alot. I am sickened by ur opinion. Sending prayers for you as well.
Her seizure was so difficult to watch. I can’t even imagine how you all feel seeing your loved one go through this. Sending you all love and prayers ❤️❤️
I'm a nurse and they need to do test with her blood clotting disorder. All of this started when she was giving birth to Zade( it's not standard for women to lose consciousness when your having a baby. It's like she is throwing mini blood clots go see a hematology her blood is the issue
Watching Carlin have her seizure was very emotional. I am praying that the doctors find answers soon. I am glad that they mentioned the Mayo Clinic. They are truly the best and since they know so many people travel far distances to go there, they make sure they schedule all of your tests in the time that you will be there. Evan, I am in awe of you, your calmness, your love and support, your genuineness, and the way that you Have stepped up in so many ways. Praying for the Stew Crew always 💙💖💕💙
My son sees a neurologist at the Mayo Clinic in Minnesota and they are amazing! They don't quit until they've done every test possible. He got his seizures under control but was still having other issues so his neurologist ran every test he could and found out he can't absorb iron. Praying for you Carlin.
please dont feel bad about evan not working as an electrician carlin! he's doing the right thing by staying home with you right now and you've got the boutique. there's always jobs for electricians so dont stress too much ps - i was my husbands boss for awhile and i was harder on him than anyone else because i didnt want anyone to think i was favoring him. take my advice and dont do that lol
My son is a electrician journeyman and yes, there are so many calls out there for jobs. Fortunately with his trade he will never have to worry about getting a new job when the time comes.
@@carolfuller7123 exactly mine is also an electrician for 32 yrs now and he's never not had work even outside his regular job there is always work on the side for him so if anything Evan can start his own at least til he got a regular 40hr job
Carlin....this is the part of your vows 'through sickness & health'. He isn't doing anything that you wouldn't do if it was him with the health issues.
I'd say at this point, Carlin should qualify for a home health aide for times you need to go to work, run errands, doc appointments for the kids, etc. She also should be able to get an assistance dog to alert her and you that a seizure is coming.
You need to check into getting her a home health aid and a service dog that since a episode coming that way you can work Evan and not worrying about everything at the house while at work
Your daughter is precious saying “it’s ok Mom” when there’s no way she can fully understand what is happening. Like man the things kids say 🥺 Also I appreciate how Evan was doing things to keep her distracted so she wouldn’t have to watch her mom. At first I thought “can he get the kids away or in another room when she has a seizure” but obviously I realized “oh yeah she might have these out and about with her kids”. Admirable job Stewart family ✌🏼🙏🏻
My heart broke into a million pieces watching Carlin like that. It reminded me so much of epilepsy convulsions from what I have seen my friends go through. I hope and pray someone can give you answers to why this keeps happening and what can be done to help Carlin
@@AshtheJesuslover101 i know she had one where they hooked up monitors all on her head but I am talking laying down in a CT scan where they can see the entire body and brain activity.
As a young married couple you both are amazing role models. I have a chronic illness call myeloma (incurable blood cancer) and also am blessed to have an amazing husband cheering me on. Life definitely doesn't always go as we planned or hoped, but perspective and faith will get you through the storm. Sending you both virtual hugs and strength to get through these next month's. You've Got This! 🥰
IMy husband has two forms of cancer, my dog has cancer and I’m taking care of my 80 year old sister. Keep the faith kids…God is certainly with you. Life is so hard at times…Evan, you are a rock star!
Carlin, you are so brave to let this footage of yourself in a vulnerable position be shared ❤️ I know you must be so discouraged by these episodes, and I pray you get some answers very soon. I’m so thankful you have a supportive husband and loving family nearby. You are doing amazing with what you’ve been handed to walk through ❤️
Evan😜 you were absolutely amazing with Layla and Carlin during her episode props to you number one dad and husband I’ll be saying a prayer for all of you
Carlin, you’ve got a great man there. He puts you and his children right under God, and there are not many men out there that would willingly do this. Evan, I understand the magnates of the journeyman license. My former love was a Master Electrician, and I remember how proud he was when he made it. That’s something that not everyone can do, no matter how much they want it. It’s tough to get that far. I lost him in 2003 to a massive heart attack, but he taught me a lot about love, family and God before he went home. He gave me what even my parents could not, unconditional love and appreciation. What you both have is amazing. Nurture it daily and always remember that complements are essential. Hugs
Carlin, you have such an amazing partner in life. The way Evan takes care of things; from Carlin’s medical to their kids are so calm and admirable. ❤️ Praying constantly for you and your beautiful family!
I will be praying for you Carlin. My husband had seizures years ago. The tests did not reveal anything, and the doctor says his seizures were due to stress. After a short time, he no longer had seizures. Praise God! I will be lifting you up in prayer for healing. You have a great husband and will pray for him to during this time also. God will provide all your needs. Hugs!
Heavenly Father, my heart breaks for this young couple who clearly loves you and depends on you. I ask for healing in this moment for Carlin. You created this beautiful young woman who has followed you as a wife and mother. You knit her being together years ago. You know exactly what is happening in her body. I ask for Your healing hand to be on her right now. I ask that You put back together whatever is causing these episodes. I pray You make right whatever has gone wrong inside. I ask that You restore her to complete health. I also ask for protection over this entire family. I ask for blessings to rain down on them in this season. Lord, the love Evan shows his wife and family can only be possible because of his love for You first. He has put his wife and kids needs above his own day after day during these past months and I ask that you bless him beyond anything he could expect. I pray peace, comfort, and healing over this family. You have given them this platform and they consistently point back to You. May this healing be a testimony to Your power and goodness. I ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
Layla and Zade look so much alike....such cuties.🥰 Layla saying "It's ok Momma" pulled at my momma heart.😟 You handled that so well Evan and I'm glad Zach sand Whitney were there to help. Much love and prayers!!! Faith honors God and God honors faith! God bless y'all ❤️
Prayers for the medical community to be able to find out what’s causing your seizures, for Evan to be strong and able to provide for the family. God has a plan and He’s working that plan everyday. Stay focused on Him and the family. Love to yall❤️
My heart just breaks for the two of you. You both are so loving and giving of yourselves and God will bring you through this. Just know you are wrapped in His love and wrapped in love and prayers by all of us, your loyal followers. Evan you are an incredible husband!!
They are such a sweet couple! The more I see them through the prism of Carlin’s illness the more I love them. Evan remains a rock and I’m so impressed by him. Someone mentioned how he remained calm in front of Layla while Carlin was seizing so she wasn’t affected seeing her Mother like that. I pray they learn what is going on with Carlin and that it’s treatable.❤️🫶🏼
Continuing to pray for you Carlin. If by chance you end up at Mayo Clinic in Minnesota, I live 20 minutes away. I will be there to help you in any way possible including housing. My husband and I have a guest room and live in the countryside so the kids would be able to play and be safe while you attend appointments. Evan, you are a blessing to Carlin and those sweet babies.
Congratulations Evan! Becoming a journeyman is an accomplishment to be proud of, as is taking care of your family. I can’t wait to see what the future holds for the Stew Fam. Y’all are in my prayers.
I started having seizures after my 3rd daughter , very similar to Carlins experience. I had to up my medicine dosage but finally got it right . I’m still on my meds but it’s been 10 years without a seizure. Praying for y’all !
So heartbreaking to see her going through that. Sending love and prayers. God will provide the answers you're looking for. Keep the Faith and your answers are coming. Stay safe and Evan you're an amazing father and husband. Carlin is an amazing mommy too I wish you all the best. Mayo Clinic is wonderful. Please go there. 💕💕
I completely agree that the family should seriously consider going to Mayo Clinic to seek more help. You truly need answers. God bless you all! Praying for you all!
So sorry Carlin that you are still going through this. Evan you are so calm and strong. You're such a good daddy to keep your daughter calm while mommy is having a seizure. Glad Zade is going to be ok as you have so much else going on right now. I have to agree that Carlin should go to the Mayo Clinic. They are the best clinic to go to. They will be able to figure it out. My husband had back surgery there and he had been to other specialists and he got no where. Sending prayers.
Mayo Clinic is awesome! They have specialists who work hard to get all the answers & they are the nicest bunch of doctors. You can tell how much they care 😉 Please go if you get that referral 💕
That broke my heart seeing her go through that ! Oh my goodness ! We will keep praying . The way you stayed so calm especially for the baby was also such a great thing ! I'm sure it's hard to stay calm ! Well keep lifting Carlin up in prayer !
Happy birthday, Evan! My son's birthday is the 24th also. Prayers for Carlin. 🙏 Health issues are so difficult. In 2019 my son was diagnosed with AML. We spent 7 months in the hospital while he underwent 5 rounds of intense chemo. With God's grace he is in remission and just got married. You'll get through this, and you'll come out of it stronger than you were.
Carlin's seizure looked similar to my best friend's seizures. The nuerologist she switched to put her on an older medication. It has worked wonders. Please don't be afraid to ask for help. Trying to do it all on your own isn't healthy. Praying for y'all to find much needed answers.
I’ve had several episodes very very similar post Covid while I was pregnant and Postpartum. Just like Carlin, everything has came back normal. They did say that I was having Focal Seizures. My heart rate would go really high before having one so I was able to feel them coming on as well. But are unsure what is causing them due to the uncertainty of Covid. Prayers for you all as you go through this!!
My heart breaks for you guys that you have had so many things to deal with in such a short time. You guys are such light & such leaders for young couples/parents! God has you and he will keep you through this as well! Many prayers for your family & Carlin’s health. 💕💕💕
My gosh! I have tears running down my face. I've never been so sad for Carlin as much as this one made me. All of her episodes are bad, but this one crushed my heart. Praying so big for you all❣
I burst into tears seeing the seizure. My heart is with both of you. Since I suffered seizures after having my oldest, my heart understands Carlins fears, discouraged mentally and scrambled eggs after the episode. Evan… after my first seizure, I will never forget the fear my husband had on his face. He thought he was losing me. Your gifts are many, but calm, encouraging and loving will help more than you can possibly know. Extended family: my husband was in the midst of Grad school. My mom, Dad and sisters and friends were my angels on earth. I hope I can pay it forward. Carlin I am over 21 years seizure free and NOT on meds.❤️
Did they diagnose what yours were and did you have them quite often like Carlin? Praise God that you are seizure free. So happy for you. I just thought.maybe you could shed some light as to what yours were caused from and maybe that will help. God Bless!
@@carolgorham1440 I only had two seizures. It was caused by sleep deprivation. What I did learn was that it was much more common for new mothers to sufferer seizures or develop epilepsy after childbirth. My experience was 21 years ago, and there have been so much new knowledge. I have so much faith that she will find the cause, heal and help so many other woman.
Praying that your family receives answers soon. Take some time to rest, Evan. You are a wonderful , dedicated caregiver. Carlin, there is a medical facility that has a solution. God’s with you on this journey. You are incredibly patient and will find an answer.
Be prepared the wait for an appointment for Mayo is long, however in my experience it's worth it 100%. It will mean planning for a week of appointments aka stay. Definitely stay at a hotel connected to Mayo. 100% worth it. Also you will need all your medical files for this in hand. Mayo neurologist was amazing. First male neuro to believe me. ❤️
My heart aches for you - but I know the Lord is walking with you during this dark season. I know you trust Him - even when you don’t understand the “why.” I pray answers and healing will soon come and that your trials will soon turn to rejoicing.
Praying for you. I was diagnosed with epilepsy last year and it has taken a full year to find a medication and dosage that works and keeps me from having breakthrough seizures. As far as the “brain fog” it’s common with anticonvulsant medicine. Be patient. God will work this out for you.
Oh Carlin, My heart just breaks when I saw that video. I want you to know that I have you on my prayer list and I pray for you every day . Thanks for sharing your journey I can pray specific for your needs. The Lord has a plan, we can't see it now but he's got this. You will be continually in my thoughts and prayers.
Citalopram (40 mg) & Alprazolam (.5mg) used together at 6 pm will stop the seizures. Citalopram for anxiety and alprazolam to stop seizure. Not epilepsy. Fight or flight and a reboot is all it is. Worth asking! The only thing that worked for me.
I want to share something wonderful with you. I started having seizures in 1973 when I was 23 and the mother of three children. It was very difficult trying to work, be a mother and take care of an invalid grandmother. I was raised in a Pentecostal Church and I believed in God’s healing power. I prayed around the clock standing on God’s Word. Praise God He came through for me. When I was 30 in 1980 God healed me completely. I am almost 73 and I have never had another seizure. I am standing on God’s Word for you. Continue to Praise His Holy Name daily and you will receive your miracle. I love you and your family.
Every time I see one of Carlin’s episodes it makes me so emotional!! And Layla seeing it this time, poor sweet thing! 😭 I can’t fathom the anxiety and fear this brings Carlin and Evan watching his wife during them! I pray the doctors can figure it out, prayers for healing for you Carlin! 🖤
Happy Belated Birthday, Evan! Congratulations on becoming a journeyman! Thank you for these updates as I know so many people are concerned and praying for your entire family, as are we. Also, Evan, I want to thank you for being such a Godly example of how a man is supposed to be with his wife and his children. Stay strong. Be safe. May the Lord bless and keep you all. May He make His face shine upon you and be gracious to you. May He lift up His countenance upon you and give you His peace.
Sweet Carlin, I have been dealing with health issues for a while now and also still don't have an answer. You are not alone! Hopefully Mayo Clinic works out for y'all. The wait time to get in was too long for me. :( Praying for peace and healing for you. ❤
Carlin you are so blessed to have Evan, most men wouldn’t jump right in and want to help there wife. Like with kids and house and dr’s appointments and take off from his job then to be let go. He is Amazing and just know that God designed Evan just for you. He’s so good with the kids when you are having an episode he does really well, so calm and patient.. Continue prayers for you Carlin you hang in there remember God has a purpose and a plan for you sweetie.. You just hold on to your Faith, He will see you through it all...🙏🏻
Evan you are living up to this huge challenge. I know it’s a heavy burden and praying for you as you support your wife. Both of you are showing great maturity and it’s inspiring. As far as some of the suggestions on seizure alert dogs, it can take awhile to get one so you have to be on a list, but in the meantime, I’d highly recommend a device called the Embrace Alert. It is what my son uses and it’s like a watch that will send an alert to your phone if Carlin has a seizure. It’s been a life changing device for us. I was unable to sleep well until my son started wearing one. God bless you all! Praying for you!
So proud of you guys, your love for the Lord, love of family, and love for each other. You pray and make sound decisions. I’m praying for all of you and for Carlin to get answers soon. Hang in there! I know a lot is going on but God’s got this. You’ve got family, friends, and so many of us behind you cheering you on! 💜
Hi Stewart family. I've been reading through the comments and then had to cry for Evan. I like the many comments about a service dog (a little pricey) and home care now and then. I'm praying God gives you wisdom, the drs wisdom and for your entire family. As you see in the comments, you are very loved!
I am just so sorry for all you are going through. Evan the way you kept as calm as u did during the episode for you daughter is incredible. I know this is frustrating not having answers to "fix" the cause but I know you will get them soon. I'm praying for you all.
Praising God Evan that you did finish your apprenticeship before Carlin needed you to be home to help her. Also praising Him that y'all have the work with the boutique! I'm focusing on Praising God for those things as I continue to pray about answers on the seizures. Excited to hear the doctors mentioned the Mayo Clinic. This too will pass. Thanks for the updates. Glad we can fight the good fight of faith with you!!
Carlin.. Momma, I feel your heart, and please know, somehow, someway, this IS all going to be ok. What seems like forever right now, will pass. Evan, your strength is amazing. You're an amazing support for Carlin & you keep calm for your babies. I'm thankful you have other support around you both as well. I'm praying for answers and healing!
I was sent to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester about 7 years ago (we live in Florida). I would suggest having your neuro start the referral process now as it takes time. We scheduled to fly out for a week and only had one confirmed appointment for that Monday morning. What they had us do was "check in" to the other departments that the initial doctor wanted me to see each day and we were able to get seen as they would have last minute no-shows or cancelations. It was a pretty good experience and, for me, it was comforting to know that my doctors had done everything that could be done. Mayo followed up with my doctors to continue treatment and, if needed, I could go back to Mayo for follow up. If you see this and have any questions about my experience I would be more than happy to answer them. Good luck! I know how hard it is when you are waiting for answers.
I love an hour half away! I live in Jonesborough TN near Johnson City! I love all you all. Your an incredible father Evan and I know it’s been hard on Carlin. I had cancer when I was pregnant and didn’t find out till 38 weeks. I tried to make so many memories with my newborn son just incase it was my time. I felt like I was being cheated bc cancer tx made me so tired and thank God for family but still hard not being the full devoted mother at that time. I am about to have surgery number 30. My son is now 13 years. It was only 15 % survival rate for 10 years and praise God I have seen my son hit 13. Long story short I know it hurts her heart having to have help, but I’m so thankful you have the support but it is so hard. I know your doing better now but I’m still praying for you all. I go to UT cancer center and Duke cancer center. If anything like this happens again hands down get to Duke!! I can get you in the right area as well. Jeremiah 29:11❤️
Happy belated birthday to Evan!! Oh goodness, you two have been through in sickness, now we hope you get some in health!! We pray that these doctor's find what is wrong and find a cure or treatment! You found a keeper Carlin!!
Happy Birthday Evan! My heart breaks for your young family and I’m praying for you. Maybe you should start a Patreon because I know I would give to help you out during this trial. Keep the faith!
I was thinking the same thing. There are several channels I watch that ask to support the channel through PayPal or patreon. I haven’t done that before but I would give a contribution every month for several months during this difficult time for Carlin.
Awwe im so sorry you guys 😞 my husband and i have been there, getting fired, (for being honest actually) and the unknown physical issues ( mine was anaphylactic reactions and it was finally figured out that I have Alpha-gal Syndrome from a tick bite, dealt with it for about 6 months or so before answers - I also have a immune system disease) 😥it can really make you feel like your wrung out emotionally just trying to get it all figured out... but just know that Jesus already knew and has it figured out🙂 and He STILL has a plan!! I promise. It was a 6 year long ride for us but somewhere in all our "chaos" (lots more going on then just a job and physical issues) Jesus was at work in our hearts and in our lives 💙 He makes no mistakes with what He allows. Love Him so much🤍🥲 so so glad I have Him!! In my darkest moment when all felt lost.... I still had Him. He can be trusted!! 💙🤍
Amen!! Unconditional Faith & Trust in the Lord! And he will always cradle you in his arms & heart. Evan, you are one of the most amazing husbands I have ever seen. I think the biggest blessing here is that your family has YOU. You are leading like a Rock Star!! It is not a sign of weakness to have a break down moment Evan. We surrender unto the Lord remember. It is all part of the process of this journey. Please rest yourself, have some very lazy days, the strong need to stay refreshed as well. And it is all for your family. Truthfully, Carlin was my least favorite of the Bates'. Don't even know why I watched your first video ( led there?😊), But, watching you through this ordeal, my heart & prayers go out to you. And once again, lesson learned for me as well. You are both so precious & positive. Better paths are yet to come!
Praying for her. My 19 year old had seizures often for 2 years. There have been many answers along the way with each bringing some relief. He’s 90% recovered now. We are pretty sure mold was the biggest culprit and suspect that his body does not properly detox from mold exposure like healthy bodies do. We did also find that an ice pack applied to the vagus nerve on the back/side of the neck would often shorten or stop his episodes. Keep on trusting the Lord and seeking answers. She will get better!
I’m a nurse in southern Minnesota and have many friends that work in the MAYO hospital, many more and family that have gone to them for answers too. They take such good care of their patients! I’m so glad to hear they’re on your radar. To put you at peace logistically too, the city it’s located in is literally there for the hospital (Food, lodging, entertainment). So many people come from around the world and they know how to take good care of them.
I'm wondering if they can locate the foci of the seizures if it can be ablated.....They are going to have to stop the meds to catch her in status and track it..
The Mayo Clinic is garbage now-a-days! All they will do is run all the same tests. 🙄. I’ve had so many family memebers not get answers from them after getting so many tests….so many family members have had to switch and gotten answers immediately upon switching to other hospitals/clinics. Oh and to top it off, Mayo will NOT listen to patient requests.
@@michellegeorges8560 I suggested Vanderbilt because of the convenience. They can stay at Evan’s parents and it’s just 3-5 hour drive instead of a costly plane flight. Vanderbilt is a top notch hospital. I have long history with them
I am so sorry that happened to your loved ones- having worked NeuroICU seizures are buggars without a smoking gun like tumor, trauma, heart or chemistry- for sure many seem to manifest after pregnancy but many times there are no answers just control
Oh Carlin I’m praying for answers for you. Evan you’re such a wonderful husband and dad. I was a teenager when I got diagnosed with epilepsy but, I don’t get the shakes like Carlin does . I’m sorry Evan had to leave his job but also happy you are able to work at the boutique with Carlin . ❤️ y’all have a great visit with Joy
I started having seizures at 16. I had my first one in acting class in New York City - miles away from my family. It was so frightening. But I have learned to live with my epilepsy and I am praying for you to find answers and for the Lord to richly bless your lives.❤
Prayers to your family, my dad has suffer from epilepsy for over 40 years and it took a year to get him under control but the doctors finally did and he hasn't had a seizure in over 5 years. You are an amazing family and we are all praying for good things to come your way
Continued prayers for Carlin!! Hearing sweet Layla say ‘It’s ok Mommy’ made me tear up!! Working with your spouse is fun! My husband started his own business and working from home almost three years ago. Praying God continues to bless you!
You guys are so strong God is in control Evan you and Carlin are both loved just hang in there He knows what you need God Bless you both much love from Arkansas
I am really praying for a breakthrough and healing!! I think of the verse "I have never seen the righteous forsaken or his seed begging for bread." Bless you all!! I know breakthrough is coming in Jesus name!! Love you all!!
I hate the heath issue Karlin is having. I have always loved her. You are a great husband and I prayer for complete healing in Karlin’ body. Prayers and hugs from SC.
Evan I am so sorry about your job! So glad you have "plan B" to fall back on. Carlin, my heart goes out to you! I can't imagine going through what you are with your health, independence, etc. Praying for the 2 of you and your family. I am especially praying that you can find some concrete answers and a cure for this health issue. Blessings !!!
I'm so sorry that you're going through this. My heart just breaks for all of you and sweet little Layla!!! Sending lots of prayers!!! Please, if you can, go to Mayo Clinic!
Oh goodness my heart goes out to you guys! I sincerely hope and pray you are healed. I pray you get a definite answer on what is causing the seizures and that it can be quickly resolved! I know God will bless Evan’s steadfast care of his family and Carlin’s strength. You are so heavily in my prayers!❤
My heart goes out to you guys!! I have been praying for you both. Carlin, your going to get this figured out and I feel it is going to be with somebody like the Mayo clinic. I am glad that you will have your Journeyman's certificate forever Evan. That is something they can't take away from you!! I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers as you share this chapter of your lives with us all. God Bless You !!!❤❤❤❤
Evan - Just make sure your health insurance is in place with the IBEW. IBEW has excellent health insurance coverage. Don’t worry electricians are in such short supply there are plenty of jobs waiting for you. Praying for you both to get through this season of life. You both are going to come through this as you continue you to lean on each other. Love you guys!!!
Try not to let it discourage you. I was diagnosed with epilepsy at 6 months old and I was not seizure free until 18. I did have a few year breaks here and there. Epilepsy is a roller coaster ride for sure but I always say the families are the biggest super heroes. Good luck on your journey! Have you considered maybe getting a service dog? I know it’s all new but a really good thing to consider.
I had seizures when I was pregnant my husband left me during this time Evan you are right your family needs you right now God will bring you a new job - blessing to your old job for hanging in as long as they could there is no ( bad or wrong) in this situation we will continue to pray blessings over all ❤️❤️❤️
My heart sank when I saw the title but now that you explain it it makes sense. Hoping you guys can figure everything out and get it manageable for Carlin!
There are a lot of neurological issues occuring due to the C19 vaccination. Maybe you should consider that too. Sending prayers to the whole family. Be protected. Love, Katharina
Carlin, the confusion with speech could be the seizures. I have focal seizures, just diagnosed 2 years ago and this is very common for me. I do not have black outs or convulsions so my heart breaks for you. But when I have seizures I am out for days. I am on Trokendi and this medicine has done wonders for me. I am praying for you! We are both so blessed to have great husband's that love and support us. I love to see your hubby being so supportive. I know how you feel, like maybe what stress you are putting on your husband, I was there and still feel that way. God had blessed us with great men! Praying for you!
My heart broke seeing Carlin going thru that seizure ...my goodness....I know how aweful they can be and not always getting answers is heartbreaking and frustrating...took me a long time to find a diagnosis but things were finally figured out....praying continuously for her and your family
I had them and was told I had pseudo seizures "fake seizures" I'm thinking it was my hormones because after I got pregnant with my second son they stopped. Do you mind telling me what your outcome was? I was so angry the doctors never really did anymore testing on me.
@@barbraworkman5122 my seizures were caused by fluid on the brain (hydrocephalus) I had a shunt placed as an infant but it malfunctioned and needed replaced, I've been good ever since :)
@@barbraworkman5122 hoping u find answers, I too was told I was causing myself to have seizures but once the new shunt was placed and fluid drained, everything disappeared
Same. I've been having seizures most my life and I always cry seeing others go through it. Feel so helpless and powerless and wish I could make it go away for them.
How you remain so calm Evan is beyond me.
The way Evan stays so calm especially in front of the kids when Carlin is going through her seizures is so admirable. I’m sure he’s stressing inside but the way he handles himself is amazong
He's a Swan swimming calm on top frantic below🦆
What I see is the fruits of God's grace.
She's got herself an amazing husband. I love them together.
I admire him because I don't know if I could stay that calm.
Talk about a rock of a husband. You taking care of your wife while keeping calm for your children. I really hope you find answers!
Evan. It's OK to have a minute to breakdown to have a moment of wobble. I can see it in your face the stress the worry. Go and do something to relieve stress. A session of Boxing or something. Hit the golf course! You are doing a fantastic job but you are allowed to not be ok for a minute.
Carlin same goes to you xxxx
This is so true. Caregivers need self care. My husband cares for me and he’s so much better and refreshed after he gets out.
Absolutely! 100%
U love hummingbirds? So do I. Also monarch butterflies.
Caregivers absolutely need time for themselves. You can’t fill from an empty cup. You’re doing an amazing job Evan!
Yes! Evan, make sure you are taking some self care time for yourself!
Praise Jesus. I was diagnosed with epilepsy after having 2 seizures in a 24 hour period. I am a single mom with little to no help but I rely on God. I pray for answers for y'all!
When your daughter said, 'it's okay, mom', that brought tears to my eyes. Praying that you'll get answers soon or better yet, God heals her in Jesus' name.
So sweet when Layla says, "It's ok mom." What a tender heart! And so wonderful of Evan trying to get Layla to then look at the trees so she wouldn't be scared.
Yeah I know sometimes they can be scared ❤️
I thought that was super sweet too. ❤️❤️
I think it’s #postpartumpreeclampsia
@@sox1085 ohhh can that happen to mommas
@@gabbyclark1807 yes it’s seizures, high blood pressure. Dizzy spells. Seeing auras. Etc
Evan you are an absolute gem. Carlin’s seizure was so very frightening and bless your heart handling it so graciously with Layla.
Bless little Layla saying "it's about to rain" she was trying to distract herself from Carlin's seizure. Zade looks like his sister! Sending prayers for Carlin's health and the whole family's needs🙏
Every time I watch these video snippets it's apparent how well they're managing everything with the children. I know it must not be easy, at all, but the love and care for those kids really shines out
So heartbreaking watching Layla and Evan trying to distract her. And it looks like Carlin had the same baby twice! Lol.
Again i know these videos are 2 years old, but when you mentioned the trees to get her attention from her mom and you stayed so calm, at least on the outside, Evan you are truly amazing. Always lean on your family and friends. God put them in your life for a reason. Love you all. Still keeping everyone in my prayers.
Please, please, please take Carlin for a second opinion!! These episodes have been going on for far too long, and because now they seem to be getting worse it’s getting more and more dangerous for her. I am so surprised that the doctors you’ve been seeing haven’t been able to give you any definite answers, and letting this continue is totally unacceptable. I would call the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota, and self refer Carlin. The doctors at Mayo are the best of the best and will not send you home without any answers ♥️
Yes!
Someone close to the family, please step forward and set up a Go Fund Me for Carlin's medical expenses. Your subscribers are behind this family 100% and want to help. Please, get her to the Mayo Clinic as soon as possible. This continues to be difficult to watch as your doctors don't have any answers and her episodes have gotten worse. ♡
@@MissFancyClancy that’s so nice of u. what do others do? That maybe don’t have people swooning over them cause they have a channel on UA-cam! Go fund me isn’t for people with money. They seem to spend a lot of money so t please don’t use go fund me like that
Or the Cleveland Clinic, in Cleveland, Ohio. I was sick for 18 months, but no drs could tell me why I was sick. I saw my 8th neurologist in Cleveland and they knew immediately what was wrong with me and started tests to prove that I had what they called POTS. Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome. She would need a tilt table test and one that runs radioactive dye in blood and Cardiologists see how blood flows in the body. They had me laydown and breathe only, my heart rate never went below 120 the whole time. I have seen some people with this online and it can cause seizure like symptoms. Sending ♥️ and prayers for ya'all especially Carlin and Zade. Happy Belated Birthday Evan!
@@cynthiahall3492 This is last thing these folks need, they're really going through alot. I am sickened by ur opinion. Sending prayers for you as well.
Her seizure was so difficult to watch. I can’t even imagine how you all feel seeing your loved one go through this. Sending you all love and prayers ❤️❤️
And what it’s doing to her brain is concerning
I'm a nurse and they need to do test with her blood clotting disorder. All of this started when she was giving birth to Zade( it's not standard for women to lose consciousness when your having a baby. It's like she is throwing mini blood clots go see a hematology her blood is the issue
Watching Carlin have her seizure was very emotional. I am praying that the doctors find answers soon. I am glad that they mentioned the Mayo Clinic. They are truly the best and since they know so many people travel far distances to go there, they make sure they schedule all of your tests in the time that you will be there. Evan, I am in awe of you, your calmness, your love and support, your genuineness, and the way that you Have stepped up in so many ways. Praying for the Stew Crew always 💙💖💕💙
My son sees a neurologist at the Mayo Clinic in Minnesota and they are amazing! They don't quit until they've done every test possible. He got his seizures under control but was still having other issues so his neurologist ran every test he could and found out he can't absorb iron. Praying for you Carlin.
God Bless you Evan!! Your an amazing husband and father. Your a true role model for husbands to follow. God Bless you, Carlin and your family🙏🏻
please dont feel bad about evan not working as an electrician carlin! he's doing the right thing by staying home with you right now and you've got the boutique. there's always jobs for electricians so dont stress too much
ps - i was my husbands boss for awhile and i was harder on him than anyone else because i didnt want anyone to think i was favoring him. take my advice and dont do that lol
My son is a electrician journeyman and yes, there are so many calls out there for jobs. Fortunately with his trade he will never have to worry about getting a new job when the time comes.
@@carolfuller7123 exactly mine is also an electrician for 32 yrs now and he's never not had work even outside his regular job there is always work on the side for him so if anything Evan can start his own at least til he got a regular 40hr job
Can’t someone in her family come to help?
@@michellegeorges8560 I wondered the same. The younger girls always seem to be at Alyssa's house...I don't get it!!
@@michellegeorges8560 I also wondered the same. And, if Evan isn’t working, do they still have health insurance?
Such a good dad and husband! Prayers the little guy feels all better soon and answers for Carlin!
Carlin....this is the part of your vows 'through sickness & health'. He isn't doing anything that you wouldn't do if it was him with the health issues.
With my sons seizures we have ativan for breakthrough seizures. Maybe get that. All my prayers
I'd say at this point, Carlin should qualify for a home health aide for times you need to go to work, run errands, doc appointments for the kids, etc. She also should be able to get an assistance dog to alert her and you that a seizure is coming.
Good points
I agree, this is scary for Carlin and Evan.
Very good ideas.
Awesome ideas
You need to check into getting her a home health aid and a service dog that since a episode coming that way you can work Evan and not worrying about everything at the house while at work
How awesome is Evan? So patient, caring, kind and selfless. Carlin I hope you get your answers soon.
Praying for complete healing for Carlin and Zade. That is just so scary. She is so lucky to have you, you remain calm and are a true rock for her.
Your daughter is precious saying “it’s ok Mom” when there’s no way she can fully understand what is happening. Like man the things kids say 🥺
Also I appreciate how Evan was doing things to keep her distracted so she wouldn’t have to watch her mom. At first I thought “can he get the kids away or in another room when she has a seizure” but obviously I realized “oh yeah she might have these out and about with her kids”. Admirable job Stewart family ✌🏼🙏🏻
My heart broke into a million pieces watching Carlin like that. It reminded me so much of epilepsy convulsions from what I have seen my friends go through. I hope and pray someone can give you answers to why this keeps happening and what can be done to help Carlin
I wondering if Carlin has ever had a cat scan just to see if brain activity looks normal. The spin and everything.
Same. It kills me to see this. And to think some troll channels and groups was saying she was faking when she was having the baby.
@@Hockeyfan_972 in a past vlog they say she had one everything was normal
@@michelle3445 what?!!!!! OMGosh!!! Ugh people suck.
@@AshtheJesuslover101 i know she had one where they hooked up monitors all on her head but I am talking laying down in a CT scan where they can see the entire body and brain activity.
As a young married couple you both are amazing role models. I have a chronic illness call myeloma (incurable blood cancer) and also am blessed to have an amazing husband cheering me on. Life definitely doesn't always go as we planned or hoped, but perspective and faith will get you through the storm. Sending you both virtual hugs and strength to get through these next month's. You've Got This! 🥰
IMy husband has two forms of cancer, my dog has cancer and I’m taking care of my 80 year old sister. Keep the faith kids…God is certainly with you. Life is so hard at times…Evan, you are a rock star!
Carlin, you are so brave to let this footage of yourself in a vulnerable position be shared ❤️ I know you must be so discouraged by these episodes, and I pray you get some answers very soon. I’m so thankful you have a supportive husband and loving family nearby. You are doing amazing with what you’ve been handed to walk through ❤️
That was one of my first thoughts: that I hope her husband has asked her if she is ok with this being posted
Evan😜 you were absolutely amazing with Layla and Carlin during her episode props to you number one dad and husband I’ll be saying a prayer for all of you
Seriously! He’s incredibly strong
Carlin, you’ve got a great man there. He puts you and his children right under God, and there are not many men out there that would willingly do this. Evan, I understand the magnates of the journeyman license. My former love was a Master Electrician, and I remember how proud he was when he made it. That’s something that not everyone can do, no matter how much they want it. It’s tough to get that far. I lost him in 2003 to a massive heart attack, but he taught me a lot about love, family and God before he went home. He gave me what even my parents could not, unconditional love and appreciation. What you both have is amazing. Nurture it daily and always remember that complements are essential. Hugs
Carlin, you have such an amazing partner in life. The way Evan takes care of things; from Carlin’s medical to their kids are so calm and admirable. ❤️ Praying constantly for you and your beautiful family!
I will be praying for you Carlin. My husband had seizures years ago. The tests did not reveal anything, and the doctor says his seizures were due to stress. After a short time, he no longer had seizures. Praise God! I will be lifting you up in prayer for healing. You have a great husband and will pray for him to during this time also. God will provide all your needs. Hugs!
Heavenly Father, my heart breaks for this young couple who clearly loves you and depends on you. I ask for healing in this moment for Carlin. You created this beautiful young woman who has followed you as a wife and mother. You knit her being together years ago. You know exactly what is happening in her body. I ask for Your healing hand to be on her right now. I ask that You put back together whatever is causing these episodes. I pray You make right whatever has gone wrong inside. I ask that You restore her to complete health. I also ask for protection over this entire family. I ask for blessings to rain down on them in this season. Lord, the love Evan shows his wife and family can only be possible because of his love for You first. He has put his wife and kids needs above his own day after day during these past months and I ask that you bless him beyond anything he could expect. I pray peace, comfort, and healing over this family. You have given them this platform and they consistently point back to You. May this healing be a testimony to Your power and goodness. I ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
Layla and Zade look so much alike....such cuties.🥰 Layla saying "It's ok Momma" pulled at my momma heart.😟 You handled that so well Evan and I'm glad Zach sand Whitney were there to help. Much love and prayers!!! Faith honors God and God honors faith! God bless y'all ❤️
Prayers for the medical community to be able to find out what’s causing your seizures, for Evan to be strong and able to provide for the family. God has a plan and He’s working that plan everyday. Stay focused on Him and the family. Love to yall❤️
My heart just breaks for the two of you. You both are so loving and giving of yourselves and God will bring you through this. Just know you are wrapped in His love and wrapped in love and prayers by all of us, your loyal followers. Evan you are an incredible husband!!
They are such a sweet couple! The more I see them through the prism of Carlin’s illness the more I love them. Evan remains a rock and I’m so impressed by him. Someone mentioned how he remained calm in front of Layla while Carlin was seizing so she wasn’t affected seeing her Mother like that. I pray they learn what is going on with Carlin and that it’s treatable.❤️🫶🏼
Continuing to pray for you Carlin. If by chance you end up at Mayo Clinic in Minnesota, I live 20 minutes away. I will be there to help you in any way possible including housing. My husband and I have a guest room and live in the countryside so the kids would be able to play and be safe while you attend appointments. Evan, you are a blessing to Carlin and those sweet babies.
Congratulations Evan! Becoming a journeyman is an accomplishment to be proud of, as is taking care of your family. I can’t wait to see what the future holds for the Stew Fam. Y’all are in my prayers.
Absolutely to all of this
I started having seizures after my 3rd daughter , very similar to Carlins experience. I had to up my medicine dosage but finally got it right . I’m still on my meds but it’s been 10 years without a seizure. Praying for y’all !
So heartbreaking to see her going through that. Sending love and prayers. God will provide the answers you're looking for. Keep the Faith and your answers are coming. Stay safe and Evan you're an amazing father and husband. Carlin is an amazing mommy too I wish you all the best. Mayo Clinic is wonderful. Please go there. 💕💕
I completely agree that the family should seriously consider going to Mayo Clinic to seek more help. You truly need answers. God bless you all! Praying for you all!
So sorry Carlin that you are still going through this. Evan you are so calm and strong. You're such a good daddy to keep your daughter calm while mommy is having a seizure. Glad Zade is going to be ok as you have so much else going on right now. I have to agree that Carlin should go to the Mayo Clinic. They are the best clinic to go to. They will be able to figure it out. My husband had back surgery there and he had been to other specialists and he got no where. Sending prayers.
Mayo Clinic is awesome! They have specialists who work hard to get all the answers & they are the nicest bunch of doctors. You can tell how much they care 😉 Please go if you get that referral 💕
I'm so impressed with how calm Evan was while that seizure was happening.
That broke my heart seeing her go through that ! Oh my goodness ! We will keep praying . The way you stayed so calm especially for the baby was also such a great thing ! I'm sure it's hard to stay calm ! Well keep lifting Carlin up in prayer !
Happy birthday, Evan! My son's birthday is the 24th also. Prayers for Carlin. 🙏 Health issues are so difficult. In 2019 my son was diagnosed with AML. We spent 7 months in the hospital while he underwent 5 rounds of intense chemo. With God's grace he is in remission and just got married. You'll get through this, and you'll come out of it stronger than you were.
Thanks for sharing a difficult situation with all of us!
Carlin's seizure looked similar to my best friend's seizures. The nuerologist she switched to put her on an older medication. It has worked wonders.
Please don't be afraid to ask for help. Trying to do it all on your own isn't healthy. Praying for y'all to find much needed answers.
I am keeping Carlin and the entire family in my prayers. Praying for some answers soon. God bless you all! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I’ve had several episodes very very similar post Covid while I was pregnant and Postpartum. Just like Carlin, everything has came back normal. They did say that I was having Focal Seizures. My heart rate would go really high before having one so I was able to feel them coming on as well. But are unsure what is causing them due to the uncertainty of Covid. Prayers for you all as you go through this!!
My heart breaks for you guys that you have had so many things to deal with in such a short time. You guys are such light & such leaders for young couples/parents! God has you and he will keep you through this as well! Many prayers for your family & Carlin’s health. 💕💕💕
My gosh! I have tears running down my face. I've never been so sad for Carlin as much as this one made me. All of her episodes are bad, but this one crushed my heart. Praying so big for you all❣
I agree 🙏🏻
Agreed Misty. Awful to watch. I can't imagine having to watch her do that all the time. Made me cry too.
I burst into tears seeing the seizure. My heart is with both of you. Since I suffered seizures after having my oldest, my heart understands Carlins fears, discouraged mentally and scrambled eggs after the episode. Evan… after my first seizure, I will never forget the fear my husband had on his face. He thought he was losing me. Your gifts are many, but calm, encouraging and loving will help more than you can possibly know. Extended family: my husband was in the midst of Grad school. My mom, Dad and sisters and friends were my angels on earth. I hope I can pay it forward. Carlin I am over 21 years seizure free and NOT on meds.❤️
Did they diagnose what yours were and did you have them quite often like Carlin? Praise God that you are seizure free. So happy for you. I just thought.maybe you could shed some light as to what yours were caused from and maybe that will help. God Bless!
@@carolgorham1440 I only had two seizures. It was caused by sleep deprivation. What I did learn was that it was much more common for new mothers to sufferer seizures or develop epilepsy after childbirth. My experience was 21 years ago, and there have been so much new knowledge. I have so much faith that she will find the cause, heal and help so many other woman.
Praying that your family receives answers soon. Take some time to rest, Evan. You are a wonderful , dedicated caregiver. Carlin, there is a medical facility that has a solution. God’s with you on this journey. You are incredibly patient and will find an answer.
I thinks it preeclampsia
@@cynthiahall3492 what do those two have to do with each other? Lol
Be prepared the wait for an appointment for Mayo is long, however in my experience it's worth it 100%. It will mean planning for a week of appointments aka stay. Definitely stay at a hotel connected to Mayo. 100% worth it. Also you will need all your medical files for this in hand. Mayo neurologist was amazing. First male neuro to believe me. ❤️
My heart aches for you - but I know the Lord is walking with you during this dark season. I know you trust Him - even when you don’t understand the “why.” I pray answers and healing will soon come and that your trials will soon turn to rejoicing.
Oh Carlin. My heart goes out to you. Evan you are such a great support system.
Praying for you. I was diagnosed with epilepsy last year and it has taken a full year to find a medication and dosage that works and keeps me from having breakthrough seizures.
As far as the “brain fog” it’s common with anticonvulsant medicine. Be patient. God will work this out for you.
Glad you're doing better now! It had to have been super scary for you.
@Rachael Nelson It is also listed as one of the most common side effects of anticonvulsant medications such as Keppra, Topamax and Lamictal!
Oh Carlin, My heart just breaks when I saw that video. I want you to know that I have you on my prayer list and I pray for you every day . Thanks for sharing your journey I can pray specific for your needs. The Lord has a plan, we can't see it now but he's got this. You will be continually in my thoughts and prayers.
Citalopram (40 mg) & Alprazolam (.5mg) used together at 6 pm will stop the seizures. Citalopram for anxiety and alprazolam to stop seizure. Not epilepsy. Fight or flight and a reboot is all it is. Worth asking! The only thing that worked for me.
I want to share something wonderful with you. I started having seizures in 1973 when I was 23 and the mother of three children. It was very difficult trying to work, be a mother and take care of an invalid grandmother. I was raised in a Pentecostal Church and I believed in God’s healing power. I prayed around the clock standing on God’s Word. Praise God He came through for me. When I was 30 in 1980 God healed me completely. I am almost 73 and I have never had another seizure. I am standing on God’s Word for you. Continue to Praise His Holy Name daily and you will receive your miracle. I love you and your family.
Every time I see one of Carlin’s episodes it makes me so emotional!! And Layla seeing it this time, poor sweet thing! 😭 I can’t fathom the anxiety and fear this brings Carlin and Evan watching his wife during them! I pray the doctors can figure it out, prayers for healing for you Carlin! 🖤
Happy Belated Birthday, Evan! Congratulations on becoming a journeyman! Thank you for these updates as I know so many people are concerned and praying for your entire family, as are we. Also, Evan, I want to thank you for being such a Godly example of how a man is supposed to be with his wife and his children. Stay strong. Be safe. May the Lord bless and keep you all. May He make His face shine upon you and be gracious to you. May He lift up His countenance upon you and give you His peace.
Amen🙏✝️👑🔥❤️
Sweet Carlin, I have been dealing with health issues for a while now and also still don't have an answer. You are not alone! Hopefully Mayo Clinic works out for y'all. The wait time to get in was too long for me. :( Praying for peace and healing for you. ❤
Evan. What grace you have and what strength. Going back and watching these while working is so heartwarming. Bless you all ❤
Carlin you are so blessed to have Evan, most men wouldn’t jump right in and want to help there wife. Like with kids and house and dr’s appointments and take off from his job then to be let go. He is Amazing and just know that God designed Evan just for you. He’s so good with the kids when you are having an episode he does really well, so calm and patient.. Continue prayers for you Carlin you hang in there remember God has a purpose and a plan for you sweetie.. You just hold on to your Faith, He will see you through it all...🙏🏻
Evan you are living up to this huge challenge. I know it’s a heavy burden and praying for you as you support your wife. Both of you are showing great maturity and it’s inspiring. As far as some of the suggestions on seizure alert dogs, it can take awhile to get one so you have to be on a list, but in the meantime, I’d highly recommend a device called the Embrace Alert. It is what my son uses and it’s like a watch that will send an alert to your phone if Carlin has a seizure. It’s been a life changing device for us. I was unable to sleep well until my son started wearing one. God bless you all! Praying for you!
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So proud of you guys, your love for the Lord, love of family, and love for each other. You pray and make sound decisions. I’m praying for all of you and for Carlin to get answers soon. Hang in there! I know a lot is going on but God’s got this. You’ve got family, friends, and so many of us behind you cheering you on! 💜
Hi Stewart family. I've been reading through the comments and then had to cry for Evan. I like the many comments about a service dog (a little pricey) and home care now and then. I'm praying God gives you wisdom, the drs wisdom and for your entire family. As you see in the comments, you are very loved!
I am just so sorry for all you are going through. Evan the way you kept as calm as u did during the episode for you daughter is incredible. I know this is frustrating not having answers to "fix" the cause but I know you will get them soon. I'm praying for you all.
Praising God Evan that you did finish your apprenticeship before Carlin needed you to be home to help her. Also praising Him that y'all have the work with the boutique! I'm focusing on Praising God for those things as I continue to pray about answers on the seizures. Excited to hear the doctors mentioned the Mayo Clinic. This too will pass. Thanks for the updates. Glad we can fight the good fight of faith with you!!
Bless your heart Evan. You are the best. Praying nonstop!
Carlin.. Momma, I feel your heart, and please know, somehow, someway, this IS all going to be ok. What seems like forever right now, will pass. Evan, your strength is amazing. You're an amazing support for Carlin & you keep calm for your babies. I'm thankful you have other support around you both as well. I'm praying for answers and healing!
I was just in tears watching Carlin and Layla being right there my heart hurts so much for you guys right now
I was sent to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester about 7 years ago (we live in Florida). I would suggest having your neuro start the referral process now as it takes time. We scheduled to fly out for a week and only had one confirmed appointment for that Monday morning. What they had us do was "check in" to the other departments that the initial doctor wanted me to see each day and we were able to get seen as they would have last minute no-shows or cancelations. It was a pretty good experience and, for me, it was comforting to know that my doctors had done everything that could be done. Mayo followed up with my doctors to continue treatment and, if needed, I could go back to Mayo for follow up. If you see this and have any questions about my experience I would be more than happy to answer them. Good luck! I know how hard it is when you are waiting for answers.
I love an hour half away! I live in Jonesborough TN near Johnson City! I love all you all. Your an incredible father Evan and I know it’s been hard on Carlin. I had cancer when I was pregnant and didn’t find out till 38 weeks. I tried to make so many memories with my newborn son just incase it was my time. I felt like I was being cheated bc cancer tx made me so tired and thank God for family but still hard not being the full devoted mother at that time. I am about to have surgery number 30. My son is now 13 years. It was only 15 % survival rate for 10 years and praise God I have seen my son hit 13. Long story short I know it hurts her heart having to have help, but I’m so thankful you have the support but it is so hard. I know your doing better now but I’m still praying for you all. I go to UT cancer center and Duke cancer center. If anything like this happens again hands down get to Duke!! I can get you in the right area as well. Jeremiah 29:11❤️
Happy belated birthday to Evan!!
Oh goodness, you two have been through in sickness, now we hope you get some in health!!
We pray that these doctor's find what is wrong and find a cure or treatment!
You found a keeper Carlin!!
Happy Birthday Evan! My heart breaks for your young family and I’m praying for you. Maybe you should start a Patreon because I know I would give to help you out during this trial. Keep the faith!
I was thinking the same thing. There are several channels I watch that ask to support the channel through PayPal or patreon. I haven’t done that before but I would give a contribution every month for several months during this difficult time for Carlin.
Not sure I agree. Do you not have a state benefits system in the US?
Awwe im so sorry you guys 😞 my husband and i have been there, getting fired, (for being honest actually) and the unknown physical issues ( mine was anaphylactic reactions and it was finally figured out that I have Alpha-gal Syndrome from a tick bite, dealt with it for about 6 months or so before answers - I also have a immune system disease)
😥it can really make you feel like your wrung out emotionally just trying to get it all figured out... but just know that Jesus already knew and has it figured out🙂 and He STILL has a plan!! I promise. It was a 6 year long ride for us but somewhere in all our "chaos" (lots more going on then just a job and physical issues) Jesus was at work in our hearts and in our lives 💙 He makes no mistakes with what He allows. Love Him so much🤍🥲 so so glad I have Him!! In my darkest moment when all felt lost.... I still had Him. He can be trusted!! 💙🤍
amen!
Amen!! Unconditional Faith & Trust in the Lord! And he will always cradle you in his arms & heart.
Evan, you are one of the most amazing husbands I have ever seen. I think the biggest blessing here is that your family has YOU. You are leading like a Rock Star!! It is not a sign of weakness to have a break down moment Evan. We surrender unto the Lord remember. It is all part of the process of this journey. Please rest yourself, have some very lazy days, the strong need to stay refreshed as well. And it is all for your family.
Truthfully, Carlin was my least favorite of the Bates'. Don't even know why I watched your first video ( led there?😊), But, watching you through this ordeal, my heart & prayers go out to you. And once again, lesson learned for me as well. You are both so precious & positive. Better paths are yet to come!
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Praying for her. My 19 year old had seizures often for 2 years. There have been many answers along the way with each bringing some relief. He’s 90% recovered now. We are pretty sure mold was the biggest culprit and suspect that his body does not properly detox from mold exposure like healthy bodies do. We did also find that an ice pack applied to the vagus nerve on the back/side of the neck would often shorten or stop his episodes. Keep on trusting the Lord and seeking answers. She will get better!
In sickness and in health Carlin. It won’t always be this way. This is a difficult time but bright side you get to spend lots of time together. 💛
I’m a nurse in southern Minnesota and have many friends that work in the MAYO hospital, many more and family that have gone to them for answers too.
They take such good care of their patients! I’m so glad to hear they’re on your radar.
To put you at peace logistically too, the city it’s located in is literally there for the hospital (Food, lodging, entertainment). So many people come from around the world and they know how to take good care of them.
I'm wondering if they can locate the foci of the seizures if it can be ablated.....They are going to have to stop the meds to catch her in status and track it..
The Mayo Clinic is garbage now-a-days! All they will do is run all the same tests. 🙄. I’ve had so many family memebers not get answers from them after getting so many tests….so many family members have had to switch and gotten answers immediately upon switching to other hospitals/clinics.
Oh and to top it off, Mayo will NOT listen to patient requests.
@@michellegeorges8560 I suggested Vanderbilt because of the convenience. They can stay at Evan’s parents and it’s just 3-5 hour drive instead of a costly plane flight. Vanderbilt is a top notch hospital. I have long history with them
@@thewellministries431 good thought - whichever has a seizure center- and they likely do
I am so sorry that happened to your loved ones- having worked NeuroICU seizures are buggars without a smoking gun like tumor, trauma, heart or chemistry- for sure many seem to manifest after pregnancy but many times there are no answers just control
Oh Carlin I’m praying for answers for you. Evan you’re such a wonderful husband and dad. I was a teenager when I got diagnosed with epilepsy but, I don’t get the shakes like Carlin does . I’m sorry Evan had to leave his job but also happy you are able to work at the boutique with Carlin . ❤️ y’all have a great visit with Joy
I started having seizures at 16. I had my first one in acting class in New York City - miles away from my family. It was so frightening. But I have learned to live with my epilepsy and I am praying for you to find answers and for the Lord to richly bless your lives.❤
Prayers to your family, my dad has suffer from epilepsy for over 40 years and it took a year to get him under control but the doctors finally did and he hasn't had a seizure in over 5 years. You are an amazing family and we are all praying for good things to come your way
Praying for Carlin and for a speedy recovery.💖🙏
Continued prayers for Carlin!! Hearing sweet Layla say ‘It’s ok Mommy’ made me tear up!! Working with your spouse is fun! My husband started his own business and working from home almost three years ago. Praying God continues to bless you!
You guys are so strong God is in control Evan you and Carlin are both loved just hang in there He knows what you need God Bless you both much love from Arkansas
I am really praying for a breakthrough and healing!! I think of the verse "I have never seen the righteous forsaken or his seed begging for bread." Bless you all!! I know breakthrough is coming in Jesus name!! Love you all!!
I hate the heath issue Karlin is having. I have always loved her. You are a great husband and I prayer for complete healing in Karlin’ body. Prayers and hugs from SC.
The hills and valley in life can throw you curves. Be strong, prayers to y’all.
Evan I am so sorry about your job! So glad you have "plan B" to fall back on. Carlin, my heart goes out to you! I can't imagine going through what you are with your health, independence, etc. Praying for the 2 of you and your family. I am especially praying that you can find some concrete answers and a cure for this health issue. Blessings !!!
I'm so sorry that you're going through this. My heart just breaks for all of you and sweet little Layla!!! Sending lots of prayers!!! Please, if you can, go to Mayo Clinic!
Yes-- call Mayo!!
Yes Mayo Clinic is amazing place! CALL!
Agree! Mayo is amazing. They really helped me when I needed it.
The doctors they have are doing their best. And traveling might not be safe right now for her
Was diagnosed with epilepsy 5 years ago and I’m the same age as you Carlin. I am praying for you keep faith with God my love he’s got you.❤️ from LR
SO crazy they can't figure out whats wrong yet! Poor girl and family praying so hard they can get it figured out💖
Been praying for you all, so hearbreaking. Hope everyone has a good weekend.
Oh goodness my heart goes out to you guys! I sincerely hope and pray you are healed. I pray you get a definite answer on what is causing the seizures and that it can be quickly resolved! I know God will bless Evan’s steadfast care of his family and Carlin’s strength. You are so heavily in my prayers!❤
My heart goes out to you guys!! I have been praying for you both. Carlin, your going to get this figured out and I feel it is going to be with somebody like the Mayo clinic. I am glad that you will have your Journeyman's certificate forever Evan. That is something they can't take away from you!! I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers as you share this chapter of your lives with us all. God Bless You !!!❤❤❤❤
Evan - Just make sure your health insurance is in place with the IBEW. IBEW has excellent health insurance coverage. Don’t worry electricians are in such short supply there are plenty of jobs waiting for you. Praying for you both to get through this season of life. You both are going to come through this as you continue you to lean on each other. Love you guys!!!
Is he union? That would be a Godsend!
He got fired.
@@jillmoran5972 it depends if his insurance is through the union or the employer.
Try not to let it discourage you. I was diagnosed with epilepsy at 6 months old and I was not seizure free until 18. I did have a few year breaks here and there. Epilepsy is a roller coaster ride for sure but I always say the families are the biggest super heroes. Good luck on your journey! Have you considered maybe getting a service dog? I know it’s all new but a really good thing to consider.
I had seizures when I was pregnant my husband left me during this time Evan you are right your family needs you right now God will bring you a new job - blessing to your old job for hanging in as long as they could there is no ( bad or wrong) in this situation we will continue to pray blessings over all ❤️❤️❤️
My heart sank when I saw the title but now that you explain it it makes sense. Hoping you guys can figure everything out and get it manageable for Carlin!
My heart breaks for you all. You all are in my thoughts and prayers ❤️
There are a lot of neurological issues occuring due to the C19 vaccination. Maybe you should consider that too.
Sending prayers to the whole family. Be protected. Love, Katharina
Carlin, the confusion with speech could be the seizures. I have focal seizures, just diagnosed 2 years ago and this is very common for me. I do not have black outs or convulsions so my heart breaks for you. But when I have seizures I am out for days. I am on Trokendi and this medicine has done wonders for me. I am praying for you! We are both so blessed to have great husband's that love and support us. I love to see your hubby being so supportive. I know how you feel, like maybe what stress you are putting on your husband, I was there and still feel that way. God had blessed us with great men! Praying for you!
My heart broke seeing Carlin going thru that seizure ...my goodness....I know how aweful they can be and not always getting answers is heartbreaking and frustrating...took me a long time to find a diagnosis but things were finally figured out....praying continuously for her and your family
I had them and was told I had pseudo seizures "fake seizures" I'm thinking it was my hormones because after I got pregnant with my second son they stopped. Do you mind telling me what your outcome was? I was so angry the doctors
never really did anymore testing on me.
@@barbraworkman5122 my seizures were caused by fluid on the brain (hydrocephalus) I had a shunt placed as an infant but it malfunctioned and needed replaced, I've been good ever since :)
@@barbraworkman5122 hoping u find answers, I too was told I was causing myself to have seizures but once the new shunt was placed and fluid drained, everything disappeared
Same. I've been having seizures most my life and I always cry seeing others go through it. Feel so helpless and powerless and wish I could make it go away for them.
@@nataliegilbert1240 I'm so sorry to hear u are going thru this. I pray u find answers very soon