EVAN GOT FIRED... CARLIN'S LATEST EPISODE ON CAMERA... OUR PLANS MOVING FORWARD!

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  • @esthersilchuk3259
    @esthersilchuk3259 Рік тому +742

    The way Evan stays so calm especially in front of the kids when Carlin is going through her seizures is so admirable. I’m sure he’s stressing inside but the way he handles himself is amazong

    • @Jennifer-5
      @Jennifer-5 Рік тому +16

      He's a Swan swimming calm on top frantic below🦆

    • @kimlersue
      @kimlersue Рік тому +32

      What I see is the fruits of God's grace.

    • @ArtfulAmber
      @ArtfulAmber Рік тому +45

      She's got herself an amazing husband. I love them together.

    • @dustinsindledecker154
      @dustinsindledecker154 Рік тому +16

      I admire him because I don't know if I could stay that calm.

    • @juliekarpenske5449
      @juliekarpenske5449 Рік тому +30

      Talk about a rock of a husband. You taking care of your wife while keeping calm for your children. I really hope you find answers!

  • @Noodles-hp9yh
    @Noodles-hp9yh Рік тому +205

    Evan. It's OK to have a minute to breakdown to have a moment of wobble. I can see it in your face the stress the worry. Go and do something to relieve stress. A session of Boxing or something. Hit the golf course! You are doing a fantastic job but you are allowed to not be ok for a minute.
    Carlin same goes to you xxxx

    • @hummingbirdenthusiast1481
      @hummingbirdenthusiast1481 Рік тому +22

      This is so true. Caregivers need self care. My husband cares for me and he’s so much better and refreshed after he gets out.

    • @melissamcswain9617
      @melissamcswain9617 Рік тому +7

      Absolutely! 100%

    • @belindasanders7072
      @belindasanders7072 Рік тому +4

      U love hummingbirds? So do I. Also monarch butterflies.

    • @vicky266
      @vicky266 Рік тому +5

      Caregivers absolutely need time for themselves. You can’t fill from an empty cup. You’re doing an amazing job Evan!

    • @amielawson8344
      @amielawson8344 Рік тому +4

      Yes! Evan, make sure you are taking some self care time for yourself!

  • @janellehoeft1139
    @janellehoeft1139 Рік тому +31

    When your daughter said, 'it's okay, mom', that brought tears to my eyes. Praying that you'll get answers soon or better yet, God heals her in Jesus' name.

  • @MalloryNewcomb
    @MalloryNewcomb Рік тому +18

    Your daughter is precious saying “it’s ok Mom” when there’s no way she can fully understand what is happening. Like man the things kids say 🥺
    Also I appreciate how Evan was doing things to keep her distracted so she wouldn’t have to watch her mom. At first I thought “can he get the kids away or in another room when she has a seizure” but obviously I realized “oh yeah she might have these out and about with her kids”. Admirable job Stewart family ✌🏼🙏🏻

  • @user-np6wq1tx9c
    @user-np6wq1tx9c Рік тому +223

    So sweet when Layla says, "It's ok mom." What a tender heart! And so wonderful of Evan trying to get Layla to then look at the trees so she wouldn't be scared.

    • @gabbyclark1807
      @gabbyclark1807 Рік тому +8

      Yeah I know sometimes they can be scared ❤️

    • @reactionswitherin5504
      @reactionswitherin5504 Рік тому +3

      I thought that was super sweet too. ❤️❤️

    • @sox1085
      @sox1085 Рік тому +2

      I think it’s #postpartumpreeclampsia

    • @gabbyclark1807
      @gabbyclark1807 Рік тому

      @@sox1085 ohhh can that happen to mommas

    • @sox1085
      @sox1085 Рік тому

      @@gabbyclark1807 yes it’s seizures, high blood pressure. Dizzy spells. Seeing auras. Etc

  • @carolfuller7123
    @carolfuller7123 Рік тому +69

    Evan you are an absolute gem. Carlin’s seizure was so very frightening and bless your heart handling it so graciously with Layla.

  • @erdissa1
    @erdissa1 Рік тому +17

    God Bless you Evan!! Your an amazing husband and father. Your a true role model for husbands to follow. God Bless you, Carlin and your family🙏🏻

  • @karenbaldwin9694
    @karenbaldwin9694 Рік тому +244

    Please, please, please take Carlin for a second opinion!! These episodes have been going on for far too long, and because now they seem to be getting worse it’s getting more and more dangerous for her. I am so surprised that the doctors you’ve been seeing haven’t been able to give you any definite answers, and letting this continue is totally unacceptable. I would call the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota, and self refer Carlin. The doctors at Mayo are the best of the best and will not send you home without any answers ♥️

    • @kellilongfellow587
      @kellilongfellow587 Рік тому +5

      Yes!

    • @MissFancyClancy
      @MissFancyClancy Рік тому +20

      Someone close to the family, please step forward and set up a Go Fund Me for Carlin's medical expenses. Your subscribers are behind this family 100% and want to help. Please, get her to the Mayo Clinic as soon as possible. This continues to be difficult to watch as your doctors don't have any answers and her episodes have gotten worse. ♡

    • @averyshenan958
      @averyshenan958 Рік тому +15

      @@MissFancyClancy that’s so nice of u. what do others do? That maybe don’t have people swooning over them cause they have a channel on UA-cam! Go fund me isn’t for people with money. They seem to spend a lot of money so t please don’t use go fund me like that

    • @gaminggrannyyaall
      @gaminggrannyyaall Рік тому +14

      Or the Cleveland Clinic, in Cleveland, Ohio. I was sick for 18 months, but no drs could tell me why I was sick. I saw my 8th neurologist in Cleveland and they knew immediately what was wrong with me and started tests to prove that I had what they called POTS. Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome. She would need a tilt table test and one that runs radioactive dye in blood and Cardiologists see how blood flows in the body. They had me laydown and breathe only, my heart rate never went below 120 the whole time. I have seen some people with this online and it can cause seizure like symptoms. Sending ♥️ and prayers for ya'all especially Carlin and Zade. Happy Belated Birthday Evan!

    • @gaminggrannyyaall
      @gaminggrannyyaall Рік тому +17

      @@cynthiahall3492 This is last thing these folks need, they're really going through alot. I am sickened by ur opinion. Sending prayers for you as well.

  • @crystalmanteuffel8858
    @crystalmanteuffel8858 Рік тому +641

    I'd say at this point, Carlin should qualify for a home health aide for times you need to go to work, run errands, doc appointments for the kids, etc. She also should be able to get an assistance dog to alert her and you that a seizure is coming.

    • @janetrogers5429
      @janetrogers5429 Рік тому +14

      Good points

    • @Lit123ful
      @Lit123ful Рік тому +14

      I agree, this is scary for Carlin and Evan.

    • @beths.364
      @beths.364 Рік тому +6

      Very good ideas.

    • @crystallharrison4925
      @crystallharrison4925 Рік тому +4

      Awesome ideas

    • @harleyjrmom
      @harleyjrmom Рік тому +22

      You need to check into getting her a home health aid and a service dog that since a episode coming that way you can work Evan and not worrying about everything at the house while at work

  • @susanc4864
    @susanc4864 Рік тому +99

    Her seizure was so difficult to watch. I can’t even imagine how you all feel seeing your loved one go through this. Sending you all love and prayers ❤️❤️

  • @lauralogan3046
    @lauralogan3046 Рік тому +70

    Carlin, you are so brave to let this footage of yourself in a vulnerable position be shared ❤️ I know you must be so discouraged by these episodes, and I pray you get some answers very soon. I’m so thankful you have a supportive husband and loving family nearby. You are doing amazing with what you’ve been handed to walk through ❤️

    • @MalloryNewcomb
      @MalloryNewcomb Рік тому

      That was one of my first thoughts: that I hope her husband has asked her if she is ok with this being posted

  • @nikkis7901
    @nikkis7901 Рік тому +7

    As a young married couple you both are amazing role models. I have a chronic illness call myeloma (incurable blood cancer) and also am blessed to have an amazing husband cheering me on. Life definitely doesn't always go as we planned or hoped, but perspective and faith will get you through the storm. Sending you both virtual hugs and strength to get through these next month's. You've Got This! 🥰

  • @micheleohmer4117
    @micheleohmer4117 Рік тому +199

    Bless little Layla saying "it's about to rain" she was trying to distract herself from Carlin's seizure. Zade looks like his sister! Sending prayers for Carlin's health and the whole family's needs🙏

    • @MsSera21
      @MsSera21 Рік тому +11

      Every time I watch these video snippets it's apparent how well they're managing everything with the children. I know it must not be easy, at all, but the love and care for those kids really shines out

    • @ArtfulAmber
      @ArtfulAmber Рік тому +3

      So heartbreaking watching Layla and Evan trying to distract her. And it looks like Carlin had the same baby twice! Lol.

  • @darlenecorcoran2892
    @darlenecorcoran2892 Рік тому +185

    please dont feel bad about evan not working as an electrician carlin! he's doing the right thing by staying home with you right now and you've got the boutique. there's always jobs for electricians so dont stress too much
    ps - i was my husbands boss for awhile and i was harder on him than anyone else because i didnt want anyone to think i was favoring him. take my advice and dont do that lol

    • @carolfuller7123
      @carolfuller7123 Рік тому +20

      My son is a electrician journeyman and yes, there are so many calls out there for jobs. Fortunately with his trade he will never have to worry about getting a new job when the time comes.

    • @mtblondie0036
      @mtblondie0036 Рік тому +5

      @@carolfuller7123 exactly mine is also an electrician for 32 yrs now and he's never not had work even outside his regular job there is always work on the side for him so if anything Evan can start his own at least til he got a regular 40hr job

    • @michellegeorges8560
      @michellegeorges8560 Рік тому +3

      Can’t someone in her family come to help?

    • @kathleengadarowski2149
      @kathleengadarowski2149 Рік тому +2

      @@michellegeorges8560 I wondered the same. The younger girls always seem to be at Alyssa's house...I don't get it!!

    • @mmoore3743
      @mmoore3743 Рік тому +1

      @@michellegeorges8560 I also wondered the same. And, if Evan isn’t working, do they still have health insurance?

  • @christinajanzen1601
    @christinajanzen1601 Рік тому +8

    Praying for complete healing for Carlin and Zade. That is just so scary. She is so lucky to have you, you remain calm and are a true rock for her.

  • @therapkingfamily7550
    @therapkingfamily7550 Рік тому +21

    I'm so impressed with how calm Evan was while that seizure was happening.

  • @vicky266
    @vicky266 Рік тому +83

    Watching Carlin have her seizure was very emotional. I am praying that the doctors find answers soon. I am glad that they mentioned the Mayo Clinic. They are truly the best and since they know so many people travel far distances to go there, they make sure they schedule all of your tests in the time that you will be there. Evan, I am in awe of you, your calmness, your love and support, your genuineness, and the way that you Have stepped up in so many ways. Praying for the Stew Crew always 💙💖💕💙

  • @Pama502
    @Pama502 Рік тому +93

    Such a good dad and husband! Prayers the little guy feels all better soon and answers for Carlin!

    • @kathrynlester2352
      @kathrynlester2352 Рік тому +1

      Carlin....this is the part of your vows 'through sickness & health'. He isn't doing anything that you wouldn't do if it was him with the health issues.

    • @charthornbrugh7437
      @charthornbrugh7437 Рік тому +1

      With my sons seizures we have ativan for breakthrough seizures. Maybe get that. All my prayers

  • @jlavery1981
    @jlavery1981 Рік тому +3

    My son sees a neurologist at the Mayo Clinic in Minnesota and they are amazing! They don't quit until they've done every test possible. He got his seizures under control but was still having other issues so his neurologist ran every test he could and found out he can't absorb iron. Praying for you Carlin.

  • @Susiegmc85
    @Susiegmc85 Рік тому +8

    How awesome is Evan? So patient, caring, kind and selfless. Carlin I hope you get your answers soon.

  • @leadebartolo1604
    @leadebartolo1604 Рік тому +5

    I'm a nurse and they need to do test with her blood clotting disorder. All of this started when she was giving birth to Zade( it's not standard for women to lose consciousness when your having a baby. It's like she is throwing mini blood clots go see a hematology her blood is the issue

  • @preemiemom2007
    @preemiemom2007 Рік тому +72

    My heart broke into a million pieces watching Carlin like that. It reminded me so much of epilepsy convulsions from what I have seen my friends go through. I hope and pray someone can give you answers to why this keeps happening and what can be done to help Carlin

    • @preemiemom2007
      @preemiemom2007 Рік тому +2

      I wondering if Carlin has ever had a cat scan just to see if brain activity looks normal. The spin and everything.

    • @michelle3445
      @michelle3445 Рік тому +2

      Same. It kills me to see this. And to think some troll channels and groups was saying she was faking when she was having the baby.

    • @AshtheJesuslover101
      @AshtheJesuslover101 Рік тому +1

      @@preemiemom2007 in a past vlog they say she had one everything was normal

    • @preemiemom2007
      @preemiemom2007 Рік тому

      @@michelle3445 what?!!!!! OMGosh!!! Ugh people suck.

    • @preemiemom2007
      @preemiemom2007 Рік тому

      @@AshtheJesuslover101 i know she had one where they hooked up monitors all on her head but I am talking laying down in a CT scan where they can see the entire body and brain activity.

  • @meaganlaplant3363
    @meaganlaplant3363 Рік тому +10

    That broke my heart seeing her go through that ! Oh my goodness ! We will keep praying . The way you stayed so calm especially for the baby was also such a great thing ! I'm sure it's hard to stay calm ! Well keep lifting Carlin up in prayer !

  • @acsmith8209
    @acsmith8209 Рік тому +52

    My heart breaks for you guys that you have had so many things to deal with in such a short time. You guys are such light & such leaders for young couples/parents! God has you and he will keep you through this as well! Many prayers for your family & Carlin’s health. 💕💕💕

  • @jeanellhuckaba6491
    @jeanellhuckaba6491 Рік тому +53

    My heart just breaks for the two of you. You both are so loving and giving of yourselves and God will bring you through this. Just know you are wrapped in His love and wrapped in love and prayers by all of us, your loyal followers. Evan you are an incredible husband!!

  • @tiffanybroom8512
    @tiffanybroom8512 Рік тому +16

    Layla and Zade look so much alike....such cuties.🥰 Layla saying "It's ok Momma" pulled at my momma heart.😟 You handled that so well Evan and I'm glad Zach sand Whitney were there to help. Much love and prayers!!! Faith honors God and God honors faith! God bless y'all ❤️

  • @hannahburke6901
    @hannahburke6901 Рік тому +7

    I’ve had several episodes very very similar post Covid while I was pregnant and Postpartum. Just like Carlin, everything has came back normal. They did say that I was having Focal Seizures. My heart rate would go really high before having one so I was able to feel them coming on as well. But are unsure what is causing them due to the uncertainty of Covid. Prayers for you all as you go through this!!

  • @elyanamichael7848
    @elyanamichael7848 Рік тому +1

    Praise Jesus. I was diagnosed with epilepsy after having 2 seizures in a 24 hour period. I am a single mom with little to no help but I rely on God. I pray for answers for y'all!

  • @shazeljuliano8874
    @shazeljuliano8874 Рік тому +50

    Carlin, you have such an amazing partner in life. The way Evan takes care of things; from Carlin’s medical to their kids are so calm and admirable. ❤️ Praying constantly for you and your beautiful family!

  • @tammyjohnston4874
    @tammyjohnston4874 Рік тому +34

    Carlin, you’ve got a great man there. He puts you and his children right under God, and there are not many men out there that would willingly do this. Evan, I understand the magnates of the journeyman license. My former love was a Master Electrician, and I remember how proud he was when he made it. That’s something that not everyone can do, no matter how much they want it. It’s tough to get that far. I lost him in 2003 to a massive heart attack, but he taught me a lot about love, family and God before he went home. He gave me what even my parents could not, unconditional love and appreciation. What you both have is amazing. Nurture it daily and always remember that complements are essential. Hugs

  • @roansmom2004
    @roansmom2004 Рік тому +3

    They are such a sweet couple! The more I see them through the prism of Carlin’s illness the more I love them. Evan remains a rock and I’m so impressed by him. Someone mentioned how he remained calm in front of Layla while Carlin was seizing so she wasn’t affected seeing her Mother like that. I pray they learn what is going on with Carlin and that it’s treatable.❤️🫶🏼

  • @robinnieto2703
    @robinnieto2703 Рік тому +4

    Continuing to pray for you Carlin. If by chance you end up at Mayo Clinic in Minnesota, I live 20 minutes away. I will be there to help you in any way possible including housing. My husband and I have a guest room and live in the countryside so the kids would be able to play and be safe while you attend appointments. Evan, you are a blessing to Carlin and those sweet babies.

  • @amym.
    @amym. Рік тому +147

    Congratulations Evan! Becoming a journeyman is an accomplishment to be proud of, as is taking care of your family. I can’t wait to see what the future holds for the Stew Fam. Y’all are in my prayers.

    • @MsSera21
      @MsSera21 Рік тому +3

      Absolutely to all of this

  • @alexischavez3754
    @alexischavez3754 Рік тому +44

    Evan😜 you were absolutely amazing with Layla and Carlin during her episode props to you number one dad and husband I’ll be saying a prayer for all of you

  • @jennifermaley9589
    @jennifermaley9589 Рік тому +4

    I am just so sorry for all you are going through. Evan the way you kept as calm as u did during the episode for you daughter is incredible. I know this is frustrating not having answers to "fix" the cause but I know you will get them soon. I'm praying for you all.

  • @NJ-Cathie
    @NJ-Cathie Рік тому +22

    Evan - Just make sure your health insurance is in place with the IBEW. IBEW has excellent health insurance coverage. Don’t worry electricians are in such short supply there are plenty of jobs waiting for you. Praying for you both to get through this season of life. You both are going to come through this as you continue you to lean on each other. Love you guys!!!

    • @michellegeorges8560
      @michellegeorges8560 Рік тому +2

      Is he union? That would be a Godsend!

    • @jillmoran5972
      @jillmoran5972 Рік тому

      He got fired.

    • @NJ-Cathie
      @NJ-Cathie Рік тому

      @@jillmoran5972 it depends if his insurance is through the union or the employer.

  • @cherylgushard2581
    @cherylgushard2581 Рік тому +22

    I am keeping Carlin and the entire family in my prayers. Praying for some answers soon. God bless you all! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @charlottewatkins2549
    @charlottewatkins2549 Рік тому +40

    Prayers for the medical community to be able to find out what’s causing your seizures, for Evan to be strong and able to provide for the family. God has a plan and He’s working that plan everyday. Stay focused on Him and the family. Love to yall❤️

  • @deborahboyce5390
    @deborahboyce5390 Рік тому +2

    Prayers to your family, my dad has suffer from epilepsy for over 40 years and it took a year to get him under control but the doctors finally did and he hasn't had a seizure in over 5 years. You are an amazing family and we are all praying for good things to come your way

  • @JL-vy8mf
    @JL-vy8mf Рік тому +3

    Health struggles are truly the hardest, and you guys are handling it so well. It tests your faith, but I pray you will get answers very soon with the right meds. What a blessing Evan is,
    Willing to stay at home and thankful you have the boutique. Hang in there.

  • @donitahess3179
    @donitahess3179 Рік тому +63

    Praying that your family receives answers soon. Take some time to rest, Evan. You are a wonderful , dedicated caregiver. Carlin, there is a medical facility that has a solution. God’s with you on this journey. You are incredibly patient and will find an answer.

    • @sox1085
      @sox1085 Рік тому

      I thinks it preeclampsia

    • @PandoraStolen
      @PandoraStolen Рік тому

      @@cynthiahall3492 what do those two have to do with each other? Lol

  • @michellesampson1249
    @michellesampson1249 Рік тому +83

    So heartbreaking to see her going through that. Sending love and prayers. God will provide the answers you're looking for. Keep the Faith and your answers are coming. Stay safe and Evan you're an amazing father and husband. Carlin is an amazing mommy too I wish you all the best. Mayo Clinic is wonderful. Please go there. 💕💕

    • @janet9128
      @janet9128 Рік тому +2

      I completely agree that the family should seriously consider going to Mayo Clinic to seek more help. You truly need answers. God bless you all! Praying for you all!

    • @tammylineweaver5990
      @tammylineweaver5990 Рік тому +1

      So sorry Carlin that you are still going through this. Evan you are so calm and strong. You're such a good daddy to keep your daughter calm while mommy is having a seizure. Glad Zade is going to be ok as you have so much else going on right now. I have to agree that Carlin should go to the Mayo Clinic. They are the best clinic to go to. They will be able to figure it out. My husband had back surgery there and he had been to other specialists and he got no where. Sending prayers.

    • @staceydonda9244
      @staceydonda9244 Рік тому +1

      Mayo Clinic is awesome! They have specialists who work hard to get all the answers & they are the nicest bunch of doctors. You can tell how much they care 😉 Please go if you get that referral 💕

  • @Alisha_79
    @Alisha_79 Рік тому +6

    Be prepared the wait for an appointment for Mayo is long, however in my experience it's worth it 100%. It will mean planning for a week of appointments aka stay. Definitely stay at a hotel connected to Mayo. 100% worth it. Also you will need all your medical files for this in hand. Mayo neurologist was amazing. First male neuro to believe me. ❤️

  • @dianastephany3162
    @dianastephany3162 Рік тому

    IMy husband has two forms of cancer, my dog has cancer and I’m taking care of my 80 year old sister. Keep the faith kids…God is certainly with you. Life is so hard at times…Evan, you are a rock star!

  • @misty8301
    @misty8301 Рік тому +22

    My gosh! I have tears running down my face. I've never been so sad for Carlin as much as this one made me. All of her episodes are bad, but this one crushed my heart. Praying so big for you all❣

    • @Sunnydreamer1470
      @Sunnydreamer1470 Рік тому +3

      I agree 🙏🏻

    • @ArtfulAmber
      @ArtfulAmber Рік тому +2

      Agreed Misty. Awful to watch. I can't imagine having to watch her do that all the time. Made me cry too.

  • @sarahkelly2293
    @sarahkelly2293 Рік тому +18

    Oh Carlin. My heart goes out to you. Evan you are such a great support system.

  • @kathysam8316
    @kathysam8316 Рік тому +6

    Sending prayers to you & your beautiful family. My heart just breaks for you Carlin...praying the doctors will give you answers & it will lead to a solution to these scary episodes. Stay strong & lean on God & each other. You are blessed with a great support system. Sending prayers & hugs 🙏❤️

  • @amyhuckaby2467
    @amyhuckaby2467 Рік тому +1

    praying for you guys! I have done the "shaking" thing twice in my life. We concluded that it was "over-stimulated" induced panic attacks. An anti-anxiety med has really help alot. It takes alot of work and effort. I had to re-understand my body. I am a hyper/fun mother of three boys and both me and my husband work. I had to get a good sleep schedule, eat similar each day. Avoid choatic momets. Plan ahead. Hugs to you!

  • @stacylamb203
    @stacylamb203 Рік тому +27

    I started having seizures after my 3rd daughter , very similar to Carlins experience. I had to up my medicine dosage but finally got it right . I’m still on my meds but it’s been 10 years without a seizure. Praying for y’all !

  • @AS-yz2iz
    @AS-yz2iz Рік тому +44

    Happy birthday, Evan! My son's birthday is the 24th also. Prayers for Carlin. 🙏 Health issues are so difficult. In 2019 my son was diagnosed with AML. We spent 7 months in the hospital while he underwent 5 rounds of intense chemo. With God's grace he is in remission and just got married. You'll get through this, and you'll come out of it stronger than you were.

    • @jodifoster1973
      @jodifoster1973 Рік тому +6

      Thanks for sharing a difficult situation with all of us!

  • @debbiemoore1287
    @debbiemoore1287 Рік тому +4

    Love your wonderful faith, your positive attitude. Praying for all of you 🥰🥰

  • @TeressaJ1960
    @TeressaJ1960 Рік тому +20

    Bless your heart, Evan. You are a solid rock for your family. I'm praying Carlin finally gets some answers. I know it has to be frustrating to have to wait. My husband had so many health problems and each one was a trip to the doctor, labs, xrays, questions to answer, procedures... it seems to never end. But it does. Keep the faith.

  • @alicemaggio8854
    @alicemaggio8854 Рік тому +46

    Happy Belated Birthday, Evan! Congratulations on becoming a journeyman! Thank you for these updates as I know so many people are concerned and praying for your entire family, as are we. Also, Evan, I want to thank you for being such a Godly example of how a man is supposed to be with his wife and his children. Stay strong. Be safe. May the Lord bless and keep you all. May He make His face shine upon you and be gracious to you. May He lift up His countenance upon you and give you His peace.

  • @kathy3178
    @kathy3178 Рік тому +12

    Carlin's seizure looked similar to my best friend's seizures. The nuerologist she switched to put her on an older medication. It has worked wonders.
    Please don't be afraid to ask for help. Trying to do it all on your own isn't healthy. Praying for y'all to find much needed answers.

  • @nadiazanchetta1388
    @nadiazanchetta1388 Рік тому +2

    Evan you are truly an angel with everything that's happening!

  • @brittanykline4080
    @brittanykline4080 21 день тому

    Evan. What grace you have and what strength. Going back and watching these while working is so heartwarming. Bless you all ❤

  • @_Nat_A_
    @_Nat_A_ Рік тому +29

    I burst into tears seeing the seizure. My heart is with both of you. Since I suffered seizures after having my oldest, my heart understands Carlins fears, discouraged mentally and scrambled eggs after the episode. Evan… after my first seizure, I will never forget the fear my husband had on his face. He thought he was losing me. Your gifts are many, but calm, encouraging and loving will help more than you can possibly know. Extended family: my husband was in the midst of Grad school. My mom, Dad and sisters and friends were my angels on earth. I hope I can pay it forward. Carlin I am over 21 years seizure free and NOT on meds.❤️

    • @carolgorham1440
      @carolgorham1440 Рік тому +1

      Did they diagnose what yours were and did you have them quite often like Carlin? Praise God that you are seizure free. So happy for you. I just thought.maybe you could shed some light as to what yours were caused from and maybe that will help. God Bless!

    • @_Nat_A_
      @_Nat_A_ Рік тому +2

      @@carolgorham1440 I only had two seizures. It was caused by sleep deprivation. What I did learn was that it was much more common for new mothers to sufferer seizures or develop epilepsy after childbirth. My experience was 21 years ago, and there have been so much new knowledge. I have so much faith that she will find the cause, heal and help so many other woman.

  • @DesignerSavvy
    @DesignerSavvy Рік тому +29

    So proud of you guys, your love for the Lord, love of family, and love for each other. You pray and make sound decisions. I’m praying for all of you and for Carlin to get answers soon. Hang in there! I know a lot is going on but God’s got this. You’ve got family, friends, and so many of us behind you cheering you on! 💜

  • @susanmasters6459
    @susanmasters6459 Рік тому +4

    Bless you Carlin🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I know this has got to be such a trying time for you and Evan🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I pray you find answers to all of your health concerns! I am so very sorry about Evan’s job but I am so thankful you can help out at the boutique and be there for your family! Love, hugs and God’s peace be with you all!✝️

  • @lauraanderson2199
    @lauraanderson2199 Рік тому

    You all are doing a fantastic job as a young family dealing with complex medical issues. Thank you for sharing your journey!

  • @825bharvell
    @825bharvell Рік тому +17

    Praying for you. I was diagnosed with epilepsy last year and it has taken a full year to find a medication and dosage that works and keeps me from having breakthrough seizures.
    As far as the “brain fog” it’s common with anticonvulsant medicine. Be patient. God will work this out for you.

    • @jodifoster1973
      @jodifoster1973 Рік тому +1

      Glad you're doing better now! It had to have been super scary for you.

    • @825bharvell
      @825bharvell Рік тому +1

      @Rachael Nelson It is also listed as one of the most common side effects of anticonvulsant medications such as Keppra, Topamax and Lamictal!

  • @leilei6576
    @leilei6576 Рік тому +8

    Every time I see one of Carlin’s episodes it makes me so emotional!! And Layla seeing it this time, poor sweet thing! 😭 I can’t fathom the anxiety and fear this brings Carlin and Evan watching his wife during them! I pray the doctors can figure it out, prayers for healing for you Carlin! 🖤

  • @carolwalters6469
    @carolwalters6469 Рік тому +13

    I was sent to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester about 7 years ago (we live in Florida). I would suggest having your neuro start the referral process now as it takes time. We scheduled to fly out for a week and only had one confirmed appointment for that Monday morning. What they had us do was "check in" to the other departments that the initial doctor wanted me to see each day and we were able to get seen as they would have last minute no-shows or cancelations. It was a pretty good experience and, for me, it was comforting to know that my doctors had done everything that could be done. Mayo followed up with my doctors to continue treatment and, if needed, I could go back to Mayo for follow up. If you see this and have any questions about my experience I would be more than happy to answer them. Good luck! I know how hard it is when you are waiting for answers.

  • @adriannemarie4705
    @adriannemarie4705 Рік тому +7

    Praying for you!! If you go to Mayo in Minnesota, stay at the Residence Inn in Rochester. It has a elevator that goes down to tunnels that connect to Mayo Clinic. It's very convenient and not a far walk. It was much easier not to deal with parking especially when they give you early appointments, which they often do.

    • @JLuvBug2
      @JLuvBug2 Рік тому

      Wow!! That's neat!

  • @rosemarykirkpatrick1930
    @rosemarykirkpatrick1930 Рік тому +6

    Continued prayers for Carlin!! Hearing sweet Layla say ‘It’s ok Mommy’ made me tear up!! Working with your spouse is fun! My husband started his own business and working from home almost three years ago. Praying God continues to bless you!

  • @musicdiva9365
    @musicdiva9365 Рік тому +32

    Happy Birthday Evan! My heart breaks for your young family and I’m praying for you. Maybe you should start a Patreon because I know I would give to help you out during this trial. Keep the faith!

    • @lisajessing6005
      @lisajessing6005 Рік тому +6

      I was thinking the same thing. There are several channels I watch that ask to support the channel through PayPal or patreon. I haven’t done that before but I would give a contribution every month for several months during this difficult time for Carlin.

    • @lizgilmore7314
      @lizgilmore7314 Рік тому

      Not sure I agree. Do you not have a state benefits system in the US?

  • @sarahbrooks4153
    @sarahbrooks4153 Рік тому +4

    Still praying for you guys. Y'all are handling everything you're going through with patience and strength. Finding answers is extremely difficult. You have to follow certain steps to get further answers. I am going through some health issues also and waiting for answers is awful. You are doing great with everything.

  • @carlalewis6080
    @carlalewis6080 Рік тому +1

    Keeping you and your family in my prayers!! Thank you for the updates and making the videos. I miss watching the Bates!🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @tamilyncreations
    @tamilyncreations Рік тому +18

    Bless your heart Evan. You are the best. Praying nonstop!

  • @franbertucci3570
    @franbertucci3570 Рік тому +8

    Oh Carlin, My heart just breaks when I saw that video. I want you to know that I have you on my prayer list and I pray for you every day . Thanks for sharing your journey I can pray specific for your needs. The Lord has a plan, we can't see it now but he's got this. You will be continually in my thoughts and prayers.

  • @michellemickey4444
    @michellemickey4444 Рік тому

    Y’all are precious!! Prayers all around!! ❤️❤️

  • @sandijambrek2215
    @sandijambrek2215 Рік тому

    You guys are such a wonderful family. My heart goes out to you! May God keep his hands upon you with healing!

  • @happilyeverafter_71
    @happilyeverafter_71 Рік тому +33

    Sweet Carlin, I have been dealing with health issues for a while now and also still don't have an answer. You are not alone! Hopefully Mayo Clinic works out for y'all. The wait time to get in was too long for me. :( Praying for peace and healing for you. ❤

  • @omirasantillanes5150
    @omirasantillanes5150 Рік тому +16

    Praying for Carlin and for a speedy recovery.💖🙏

  • @kiragropp1236
    @kiragropp1236 Рік тому +1

    Happy Birthday Evan ! Praying for Carlin and your whole family ♥️

  • @carriebarnhart4497
    @carriebarnhart4497 Рік тому +2

    Y’all are the sweetest couple. I admire so much about you both!! Just the way you stick together and figure things out as they come. How you lean on the Lord and his provision over your lives and so much more!
    I pray for you guys and that the Lord will continue to guide you in the right direction to finding answers to Carlins health. 🙏🏻
    Thanks for the updates!! I look forward to these vlogs. They’re the highlight of my week .
    God bless🤍

  • @Jolynn777
    @Jolynn777 Рік тому +5

    Hi Stewart family. I've been reading through the comments and then had to cry for Evan. I like the many comments about a service dog (a little pricey) and home care now and then. I'm praying God gives you wisdom, the drs wisdom and for your entire family. As you see in the comments, you are very loved!

  • @Vicklynne
    @Vicklynne Рік тому +8

    Congratulations Evan! That’s something to be so proud of! You are such an amazing person, husband, daddy and supporter for your whole family.
    Just want you to know you are all in my prayers daily.🙏🏼 Hang in there Carlin, you are so strong, just know God is with you and will get you through.
    You all are such a beautiful family, we love you all! 💕Thank you for keeping us updated and allowing us to be here for you all! Stay strong and don’t get discouraged! 💕💕🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @cjohnson3550
    @cjohnson3550 Рік тому +2

    Praising God Evan that you did finish your apprenticeship before Carlin needed you to be home to help her. Also praising Him that y'all have the work with the boutique! I'm focusing on Praising God for those things as I continue to pray about answers on the seizures. Excited to hear the doctors mentioned the Mayo Clinic. This too will pass. Thanks for the updates. Glad we can fight the good fight of faith with you!!

  • @ronikaclack7521
    @ronikaclack7521 Рік тому +3

    Omg this is heartbreaking to watch. Praying for Carlin that you all get the answers yall need

  • @dianeammons2150
    @dianeammons2150 Рік тому +4

    My heart cries for both of you. I love seeing how strong your faith is to keep looking up through it all. You are an inspiration. So many people are praying that the doctor can find Carlin’s problem and get her on the right medicine to help her get better. 🙏🙏 Love you and your family.

  • @mandymcgarity1277
    @mandymcgarity1277 Рік тому +11

    Carlin.. Momma, I feel your heart, and please know, somehow, someway, this IS all going to be ok. What seems like forever right now, will pass. Evan, your strength is amazing. You're an amazing support for Carlin & you keep calm for your babies. I'm thankful you have other support around you both as well. I'm praying for answers and healing!

  • @coupondrake1128
    @coupondrake1128 Рік тому +3

    Lord that was super scary seeing Carlin seize like that! Gonna keep you in my heart and prayers. Thank you for sharing with us. You guys are so Inspiring

  • @perfectday777
    @perfectday777 Рік тому +2

    You and your family are on the Prayer Roll. Hugs! ❤️

  • @jayneholmes6355
    @jayneholmes6355 Рік тому +9

    My heart goes out to you guys!! I have been praying for you both. Carlin, your going to get this figured out and I feel it is going to be with somebody like the Mayo clinic. I am glad that you will have your Journeyman's certificate forever Evan. That is something they can't take away from you!! I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers as you share this chapter of your lives with us all. God Bless You !!!❤❤❤❤

  • @balfourgrl
    @balfourgrl Рік тому +4

    My prayers are with you both! Praying for answers on Carlin's seizures. I'm glad the boutique is doing well! Blessings to all!

  • @lauriewidder5025
    @lauriewidder5025 Рік тому

    Sending Prayers for Carlin and your family every day. 🙏

  • @ashleygarner2367
    @ashleygarner2367 Рік тому +2

    Y’all are incredible. Praying God’s hand and favor for this season. Big hugs.

  • @justforfunny7674
    @justforfunny7674 Рік тому +10

    Evan you are living up to this huge challenge. I know it’s a heavy burden and praying for you as you support your wife. Both of you are showing great maturity and it’s inspiring. As far as some of the suggestions on seizure alert dogs, it can take awhile to get one so you have to be on a list, but in the meantime, I’d highly recommend a device called the Embrace Alert. It is what my son uses and it’s like a watch that will send an alert to your phone if Carlin has a seizure. It’s been a life changing device for us. I was unable to sleep well until my son started wearing one. God bless you all! Praying for you!

  • @melissanorfleet5268
    @melissanorfleet5268 Рік тому +7

    I will continue to pray for you all. Thank you for sharing your story/life with us!❤️

  • @dawnbritt6215
    @dawnbritt6215 Рік тому +3

    Y’all are so adorable. Praying that the answers will come soon and y’all can go on with your lives. May God watch over you all and heal Carlin. Meanwhile, it doesn’t get much better than working together. God is great all the time, It’s all in his plans. I love y’all’s faith! ✝️🙏🏻✝️

  • @kathyg1346
    @kathyg1346 Рік тому

    You are on my daily prayer list for these seizures to end. Layla’s concern and Evan remaining calm are just perfection. God works all things together for the good and I believe His hand is all over your story. 🙏

  • @pennihairston4907
    @pennihairston4907 Рік тому +25

    My heart goes out to you and your family. 🙏 Praying that the doctor will find some answers for you all.

  • @randomroz545
    @randomroz545 Рік тому +4

    What a trying time yet you still have so much to be thankful for! Keep your level heads and find the joys like you've been doing. Thanks for sharing!

  • @tararichardson264
    @tararichardson264 Рік тому +9

    Coming from someone who has witnessed my own mom experience seizures, my heart breaks for poor little Layla to see her mama like that. But, you do an amazing job Evan staying calm & making sure you keep Layla calm as well! Praying for you guys! 🤍✝️

    • @RockinRita03
      @RockinRita03 Рік тому

      It scared me when Evan told Kayla her mommy was just sleeping. People can die from seizures. God forbid that should happen to Carlin while she's having one of these episodes and Layla is there witnessing it, it could have dire consequences!

    • @tararichardson264
      @tararichardson264 Рік тому +2

      @@RockinRita03 he is doing the best he can with the circumstances he is given. Layla is far too little to know what is seizure is but she does know that something is wrong with mommy & daddy is taking care of her.

    • @RockinRita03
      @RockinRita03 Рік тому

      @@tararichardson264 totally agree that he's doing the best he can but imo that is also why he should treat her with a little more than "kid gloves." She's a smart little girl and knows mommy isn't just sleeping

    • @jacquelynmurray9140
      @jacquelynmurray9140 Рік тому

      My mom had seizures, too. It was terrifying. I'm praying for you all.

  • @greenthumb1523
    @greenthumb1523 Рік тому

    Carlin I'm praying for you. Brining awareness to the situation is good. Hoping you find answers. Evan you are such a great supportive pillar for your family and the way you handle the situation is just wonderful and you stay calm for the children.

  • @mmeadows1014
    @mmeadows1014 Рік тому +3

    Evan you are so incredibly strong! That moment of the video with Carlin seizing was heartbreaking, I have been there and it’s terrifying. You kept it together so well and even distracted Layla, that was so sweet. Stay strong, this will pass. 💪🏼

  • @asta-mariepoulsen
    @asta-mariepoulsen Рік тому +16

    Praying for you guys!❤️i love her Little “is okay mom”❤️

  • @morganbodily5398
    @morganbodily5398 Рік тому

    You are a beautiful beautiful family. The love that you have for each other is just radiant. And hearing whit and zack helping during the seizure too - that brought tears to my eyes. I am hoping with all my heart you get an answer soon. ❤️

  • @rebekah2306
    @rebekah2306 Рік тому

    I can't stop crying watching this! Praying for your family!