Something to think about for Layla’s back pain… Kidney issues can present there. Could she have a kidney infection or something? It might not be a bad idea to go to the pediatrician. Prayers for all of you!❤️🙏🏻
“The brooms been a big hit” couldn’t help but laugh. Kidney issues or UTI’s usually causes back pain too. Carlin, I pray that the doctors will find answers for you. You guys are the cutest and sweetest family ever!
My daughter kept complaining of back pain, and it ended up being a urinary tract infection. She had no other symptoms. Maybe do a urinalysis for Layla.
I agree with @Lo Lo It's best to take her to the pediatrian as soon as you can get her in. This truly isn't something that shouldn't be second guessed. Besides, it's always good to have peace of mind and a prayer 🙏 for her on top!👍🙏✝️👑🔥❤️
Definitely could be a urinary tract infection, my daughter also only gets lower back pain when she has them. And when I was younger that was A sure tale sign for me also.
Yes, definitely get her checked out by her pediatrician. When I was little, I had an undiagnosed UTI. It got so bad that I ended up in the hospital with sepsis. Best to get it checked out before something little becomes a bigger health issue.
Continued best wishes during your search for answers! My daughter has had chronic migraine disease for six years which took over two years to be diagnosed, and our specialist told us it takes a *long* time to get under control. As a mom I implore you to have all the tests; you never know which one could be the winning choice in discovering what you need. Your sweetness and kindness to each other and your children is a beautiful thing for all of us to see. That love you share will support you every step of the way. ❤️
Carlin so glad you were not seriously hurt. Also wanted to say trust your Mom gut. There's nothing wrong with taking Layla for a check up with her Dr if it will ease your mind. Evan you are a hoot.
Thank God things worked out the way they did. My migraines caused my seizures as it was found out (after 3 years) and finally the 5th Neurologist (the BEST) figured it all out. And Carlins brother Zack deserves a great BIG thank you for being there when they need him. ❤Zack❤ God Bless You 🙏🏼
I love how you’re teaching Layla manners. She’s so sweet. You all are! Hope & pray Layla starts feeling better. Evan, you are a hoot! As I’ve said before, love your videos. Prayers Carlin starts feeling better, too.
My son, right before he turned 3, had the same thing! Started with complaining in the car seat and then he would wake up at night as well. Always his lower back. Started running random fevers too. Ended up taking him to Denver children's hospital and he stayed a week... ruled out lots of scary stuff but never found out what was wrong. My parents flew out to us and brought a handkerchief anointed by our preacher and he never complained again! We went home the next day... it was tough never getting a diagnosis but at the same time I'm just so thankful and blessed it wasn't anything worse! We ended up switching car seats too and even did some physical therapy just to make sure!
Prayers for little miss Layla and Carlin and Evan!!! You guys are so so strong! Also Evan my dad and I say that too and I didn't think anyone else did until this so thank you for that 🥰
The THANK U MAMA was absolutely precious!! I had to replay that part over a few times because it was so sweet!!! ❤I remember when mine were little and saying things like that. Precious memories NOW I have ONE ALMOST 17 and almost 26. I know you do but enjoy every single sec and soak in every moment because time goes to fast and in the blink of an eye they are grown and u want to do it all over again. I know I would in a hot second!! God bless y’all and your beautiful family
My husband experiences complicated migraines that present as epilepsy. Finding answers is definitely taxing and scary! We will pray for you both as you continue to take care of each other and walk this road.
Layla is so adorable, she’s always so precious to see see in these videos. Thank you for sharing her, she’s to precious not to share with the world 💖💖 Layla your nails look so pretty, great choice.
I am SO happy you went to the 'special' neurologist! I did this myself and my life has completely changed. The Migraines kicked my butt. I went through the whole heart tests and such and I was checked for epilepsy and finally migraines! I would have them where folks thought I was having a stroke. I couldn't talk my face drooped, my body went numb and down I went. It was awful. But it was severe migraines! I was put on medicine and praise the Lord, I haven't had any 'bad' ones in a year. I'll get a 'headache' but none of the symptoms of the 'other' stuff. 3 IB will cover it for me now! I will continue to pray for your healing and getting answers! On another note, you need to watch a youtube clip of "Les Nessman" and his "Office" (WKRP). That's EXACTLY what I was thinking of when you were setting up your new "office space!'🤣 And Zack slapping his feet up on the desk...hysterical!
Y'all should record your dr appointments in your voice memo app or something so that you can pull it back up and remember everything they told you! It has helped me SO much because my memory is so bad. Glad you are safe Carlin!
As a flight nurse-mom.... the 1st thing I would check for your beautiful baby girl is urinary tract health. Such a common problem, yet most of us fail to just get a UA. A relatively easy problem to fix. Little girls are notorious for urinary problems. Definitely the first thing on my list. Y'all have a blessed day!
Hey Carlin! So glad your feeling better & starting to get answers. I really wonder if changing your diet could help. Health starts with healing & nourishing your gut. I used to be on a laundry list of meds for a laundry list of conditions & sick most of my life. Going gluten free & eating pretty clean & even going low tox in my life has healed a good bit of my health issues. I’m off ALL meds which is HUGE for me. I’m feeling better than I ever have. Most doctors don’t have much nutritional training & won’t suggest making these changes but are often shocked at how big of an effect nutrition can have on the body. Something to look into. A 30 day gluten detox can tell you a lot. I used to gave daily headaches & multiple a week migraines & now I have a migraine maybe ever 2-3 months. Prayers continued for you & now for Layla.
Praying for you sweet Carlin that they find out exactly what is going on with you. Y'all are the sweetest little family ever and hope the best for y'all
You are such a strong, wonderful couple! Evan, you have been amazing, adjusting your life and work to be there as a husband and father! Carlin, you are staying strong and trusting during these challenging times. I admire you both so much 🥰
I would have her pediatrician check her out. I would ask for him to order a urinalysis for her . Also, make sure she is going number 2 regularly. Constipation can cause back pain. Just some suggestions from one mom to another. Praying 🙏🏻 for all of you. God bless you and your precious family. Your husband is so funny 🤣, I needed the laugh ! 💕🤗🙏🏻💕
Absolutely there was a time when my son was 3 years old he was complaining it hurt when he urinated! I took him to the doctort thinking its a UTI and come to find out my aon had strep throat! Apparently strep is lond of like mumps and others that will dropped to thr testicles!
Our daughter at the same age would say this exact thing. And we couldn’t figure it out either. Took her to the pediatrician and orthopedic doctor…for us, it was constipation and a Miralax regimen helped! I know what it’s like to wonder why they are saying this and it’s scary to not know because they are old enough to say it bothers them, but they aren’t really specific behind that. I hope you figure her issue out. 🙏🏼
Hello, Sorry you had another scary incident Carlin. I would definitely get Layla checked out better safe then sorry. Praying for your family 🙏 Thank you for sharing. Have a great weekend ☺️
Something to think about with Layla, my daughter complained about her lower back hurting for a while they kept saying growing pains. Her pain progressed to her legs and she was having a hard time walking long distance. After 5 months going back and forth with her peds they referred her to a specialist (rheumatologist) and turns out she had Juvenial idiopathic arthritis at age 3. She is now under medication and seems to be doing better.
Heads & fingers bleed a lot because the capillaries are right under the surface…none the less freaks people out! I’m so glad you’re okay & many prayers for Layla’s backaches!
Praying for you Carlin! I am sorry you are going through so much! You are one of the strongest people I know! You have the best husband and cutest kids ever! Great editing Evan!
I took topamax when I had 2 sleep deprived seizures, and now a decade later, my neurologist has me on topamax for my migraines. Also, some prescribe anti anxiety/depression meds because they give the other meds a “boost”.
You two are something else. I'm so glad you both can still be positive, and keep that smile on your face. Carlin, thank God you weren't hurt bad. Head cuts do scare the poo out of you. I cut my head open, and it bled some much. I thought for sure I was going to die. For real though. It sounds like the doctors are finally getting to the real source of your problem. Let's all keep on praying. Love you guys. ♥️
We live in Knox and had a VERY similar problem with our daughter. Her back hurt for years and the doc called it ‘growing pains.’ It took years to diagnose and was way more serious than I ever expected! I hope Layla’s back pain improves. I would be happy to share more details with you. Our doctor, diagnosis, treatment etc. I just don’t like to say too much on social media. Blessings to your sweet family.
Evan you might consider taking some emergency situation classes. That would help you feel more in control and less panicked. Prayers for you both and your sweet little family. p.s. take a day off (with your buds) and go have some fun
Ouchie!!! That sounds like it was painful. So happy you are ok Carlin. I am glad you guys are getting answers and keeping your spirits up. Layla is so cute. She is a total diva! ♥ her!!!
Everybody should give Evan a thumbs up on these videos. They really share so much. I pray the Lord protects Carlin from falling and getting hurt and she can have some answers in 2023!
You should have her seen for her back. My son started that when he was three but the doctor had no idea why. He seemed to be getting worse. By the time he was five it hurt so bad he couldn’t stand to move or even laugh. We found out just before Christmas he had a tumor between the vertebrae in his spine. He had the world’s longest surgery and back then it took weeks to get his results back. God was looking out for my baby. The tumor wasn’t cancer. He’s 27 now. The first time he laughed after the surgery was the sweetest sound ever.😊
I'm so happy you're medicine is working for you, hope they give you a diagnosis. If Layla has been complaining about the same spot hurting, she should be seen don't take any chances please.
100% see a pediatrician. A 4yr old in our family was complaining of pain in back. During her exam, she was sent to CHOP in a Philly. It was a wilms tumor…kidney cancer.
Definitely get her tested for a UTI! Rest is so important, if kids are restin, they say momma should too but I don't see why daddy can't join! Down time is so important 🙂
I also have had seizures and had for the last 20+ years. Everyone always thinks it’s epilepsy, but it’s not. I was born with a neurological disorder, and have mutated chromosomes. I see a neurosurgeon because they tend to specialize in rare conditions versus a neurologist. Yes, it makes a difference. I wish you the best as you navigate through this scary unknown path to answers.
It was so cute seeing Evan dress zade in his outfit!!! So cute 🥰 I’m so sorry about your head Carlin, I’m glad u didn’t have to go to the hospital!! I hope Layla gets better? It might be a bladder infection. Love you guys ❤
I have never had seizures, but migraines are terrible! I have a neurostimulator for the pain, and my doctor is in Nashville. I am so much better, mostly pain free after living in constant pain. Hang in there and don't give up!
Attention Bates sisters please give Evan some respect he deserves a great deal of respect for all he does lol I’ll give you respect love you guys from Arkansas ❤
Carlin you have found the best husband. He’s been there with you every step of the way with your health issues. My husband has been by my side with all of my orthopedic surgeries. I’ve had well over 50 plus surgeries, infections, hospital stays for most of our marriage and we’ve been married 21 years and together 27 years. I’ve put my family thru hell but my husband has been there for me. It’s not easy for anyone. He’s a rockstar in my books.
Poor Layla girl! Usually with my kid’s growing pains are pretty intense and subside after a while. And usually it’s their legs, feet, arms. Don’t ignore that mama instinct. It’s definitely a real thing. Maybe a new car seat will help her though! Maybe she’s also saying this because she sees mama hurting at times. Little ones don’t know how to navigate emotions like that yet. Just a thought. Sending well wishes and good vibes to your sweet little fam 😊
I love the team work between you both getting yourselves and the kids ready when you showed us you all getting ready for church at the beginning of this video ! ❤. It looks like it’s all run like clockwork but I bet sometimes it’s not lol
Personally about Layla, I'd def get her check. I've learned to follow my mom gut. My daughter was 4 and I thought appendicitis and argued with a Dr for 7hrs in a hosp to get her scan just to be sure. She was comfy in the hosp after being in ER they thought for poss start of pneumonia. Just before leaving she screamed in pain, I went to find Dr cause he didn't want to do a scan cause of the dye at a young age. Dr came back and said he should listen to mom gut. Thankfully it was done, appendix ruptured as it was taken out. If you feel something is off,go with it. Like you said she is complaining about it when it wasn't even in the seat. Our mom gut is a really good resource to follow. It's helped so often when my older kids were lil(now adults) and now with my 2yr old. Who finally last wk, Dr ordered a CBC after I insisted it being done and found out she has extreme low WBC,body doesn't fight infections and germs,so gets sick all the time. Follow your gut girl!
I personally have severe kidney and bladder issues, and my “back” pain started when I was 3. Take her to the pediatrician and ask them to do a urine specimen. It can VERY quickly things out. A huge issue I have is recurring UTIs and kidney infections. My first symptom is back pain. I am praying for relief and answers soon for sweet Layla! ❤️❤️❤️
Ps I had urinary tract regurgitation and had to have surgery. Please please get her urine checked immediately. It is very painful and uncomfortable. 💔💔💔
RN two cents here about Layla - being that she has a history of a heart issue, other health issues can co-exist that are "midline" (fetal development happens from the outside to the inside AKA: Midline. Anyway, it would be good to get her seen by a pediatrician. It could be anything from scoliosis to a misplaced kidney (not necessarily as scary as it sounds). But definitely needs an evaluation.
What a sweet family. I have suffered with migraines since I was 11 years old. They are horrible, horrible debilitating things to have. Bosses that have never had them don't understand. However I'm pretty lucky that I had sick leave where I worked and vacation time I could use. Plus if I had to I could have Filed for FMLA to use intermittently, thank God I never had to do that. I am so very sorry you suffer from Migraines and epilepsy I will say some prayers for you. I can tell you I was having horrible migraines for about 4 years after being hit by a red light runner doing 70 mph in town, he was texting. He T- Boned my new car and totaled it. From that day I starting suffering horrific migraines. My head hit the steering wheel either before or after the air bags when some how he hit me again on the other side of the car. I had at a minimum of 4 a week. Last year in November 2021 I had been praying like I had never prayed before for my daughters best friend. She had finally gotten pregnant after years of trying but right before Thanksgiving she went fir her monthly check and there were all kinds of things wrong with the baby and they rushed her by ambulance to another town and hospital where specialist were at near the childrens hospital. They were even saying they didn't know if she would survive. I never prayed so hard for the baby and the momma. They didn't know if the baby would live at all all the test and special test they did on him inside of her said he wouldn't. Well everyone in this valley and far away was praying. Well 3 days later when they took him by C-section he was born, breathing on his own and everything that all three doctors saw on their tests were gone completely. The only thing he had to have done is put a shunt in his head. He is a beautiful baby boy today. The power of God. So I wanted to tell you while I was praying for him on the day he was born I lifted my arms to heaven and asked God to take care of my daughters friend and her baby and if he had any thing left over if he could get rid of my migraines or make them better. Right at that time I felt through the tips of my fingers and my arms like I got this huge electrical shock that went through my arms and I started crying. I knew then that God heard me and my migraines from that day foreword are gone or if I do have one every once in a while I can take Tylenol and Advil to make it go away or be manageable. I have prayed most of my life but not that often for myself. I thought I was selfish praying for myself but God showed me. I think about that day and what God did all the time. God is very good. 💗💗💗💗🙏🙏🙏🙏
Evan you are a trip 😂Watching you and not getting any RESPECT had me laughing so hard. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. ❤️Love you all
My daughter kept saying her back hurt and she had a kidney infection.. My son had growing pains and yes those are a real thing they said since he was going to be tall (now 6'2)was why he had such issues with his legs even to the point of not being able to walk at times ! Praying you find answers !
Omg poor Carlin!!! 😢 You've been through so much! Glad the Iron injury wasn't too terrible! And my daughter has epilepsy as part of her medical condition, we have always called her Neurologist her "Brain doctor" lol
Oh no Carlin so glad you are ok. I pray you have a better year in 2023. You are always so upbeat positive and happy. God Bless you. Love your cute little family ❤
Evan I feel you so much on your panic. My son split his head open last year and there was sooo much blood. I panicked and also called an ambulance, by the time they got to my house it had stopped bleeding and ended up needing a few staples :(.
I have a story about when I had to go to the hospital. My husband and I were going to a birthday party right down the road from our house. I am in the passenger seat when all of a sudden the side window blows out and I felt pain. My husband wanted to look because he thought I got shot. When he saw it he was like put your hand over it. It was kids throwing rocks at cars. I still have the scar right above my right eye! The ambulance took me to the hospital because when they came to my house they thought I could go blind. That was so scary! Hope you are feeling better Carlin!
Hi there Carlin and Evan. I Love watching You Both and hearing how Your Beautiful Family is doing... Please Take Care of Yourselves and I Pray that You will Have a Blessed Evening and I look forward to seeing You Again soon, (God Willing) ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My epilepsy is triggered by changes in my hormone levels, so during my cycle I’m more likely to have issues. I tend to have grand mal seizures but It also brings along headaches, tiredness and pins and needles all over my head, among various other things during that time. It took along time to diagnose so keep on going even when it feels futile, you will get there albeit slower than you’d like x
Hey y’all! Not sure if you watch Jesssfam, but if you look back a couple of years, her son Landon went thru the same exact situation! Now his did turn out to be a small growth on his spine, if memory serves me correctly, but it was benign and something he was born with. I do agree with the majority of everyone saying possible UTI and kidney problems as it’s super common with little girls, esp if taking bubble baths. I’m praying for y’all!
Talk to the doctor. My daughter did the same thing, and she ended up having kidney reflux, which is something that needs to be taken care of...by the time I found out BOTH her kidneys were only 30% the size they were supposed to be. Much love to you all
I second/third/fourth everyone mentioning having her checked for a uti/kidney infection. The placement of pain would make sense with that area. Sending lots of prayers of peace and comfort for baby girl!
Hope Laylas back pain gets better with the new car seat and more than that, she's so precious. Evan, I would have been the same way as you seeing all that blood, I freak out if I see a lot of blood too. And Evan, thanks for making us laugh every week!!
My first thought with Layla is Kidneys. When I was her age diagnosed with a Chronic Kidney Condition (Kidney Infections) etc. We were told I would likely be on medication for a lifetime. But after a number of years doctoring medications, strict diet & numerous do's & don'ts I outgrew it but was an answer to prayers & I have never had even the first sign of a problem since. A total game changer also was the doctor telling us to stop using Tide Soap. Tide is very bad for anyone with Kidney or Bladder infections or prone to Skin Allergies . We had a woman thank us for years learning this information & changed her life health wise when she changed laundry detergents. But Kidney ailments & back pain go hand & hand.
Hi Carlin hope you're feeling better not trying to scare you but I know when my back hurt I've had a UTI and once it was a kidney infection if you can't I just have it checked out as better to be safe than sorry and I know y'all are good parents I'm not trying to tell you how to raise your child I'm just making a couple suggestions having you so funny you always give me a good laugh Layla and Carlin will be in my prayers please keep us updated on Layla she is so sweet and precious love you guys and your fur baby God bless ❤️
My two-year-old son complains about his stomach hurting when his lungs hurt , he also gets extremely car sick but only when he has an ear infection. He will tell me that his head hurts every time in the car sometimes it could be something very minor but I would definitely get it checked out good luck! Lots of love to you guys
I learned the hard way on irons overhead. I was putting hot iron on a shelve away from my dogs. Fell off hitting my chest area leaving 2nd degree burn. stay safe from irons.
Chiropractors can feel the smallest things with their fingers. They are trained to feel a piece of thin wire under a piece of paper with gloves on! Just take her already. 😊 If she’s already out of alignment a new car seat might not even help. Just ask them to examine her and hold off on the X-rays to see if adjusting works.
Something to think about for Layla’s back pain… Kidney issues can present there. Could she have a kidney infection or something? It might not be a bad idea to go to the pediatrician. Prayers for all of you!❤️🙏🏻
Yes!!asap!!
I would take her to the pediatrician lower back pain could be something with her kidneys do it just to rule it out
Chiropractic care is awesome for kids too!
I was thinking the same thing
💯 Yes. One of my preschoolers had this. She needed a round of antibiotics.
“The brooms been a big hit” couldn’t help but laugh. Kidney issues or UTI’s usually causes back pain too. Carlin, I pray that the doctors will find answers for you. You guys are the cutest and sweetest family ever!
I laughed so hard I cried when I saw that Layla had the broom in bed with her! Funniest thing ever!
Not these doctors. But, they " are so sweet". OMG!
You need to go to the doctor for it as soon as possible
My daughter kept complaining of back pain, and it ended up being a urinary tract infection. She had no other symptoms. Maybe do a urinalysis for Layla.
And uti tests are available at walmart
It could also be kidneys which is why it’s a good idea to see your pediatrician if it remains consistent even after trying some things at home
I agree with @Lo Lo It's best to take her to the pediatrian as soon as you can get her in. This truly isn't something that shouldn't be second guessed. Besides, it's always good to have peace of mind and a prayer 🙏 for her on top!👍🙏✝️👑🔥❤️
This was my first thought too. Hope she improves. ❤
Definitely could be a urinary tract infection, my daughter also only gets lower back pain when she has them. And when I was younger that was A sure tale sign for me also.
Yes, definitely get her checked out by her pediatrician. When I was little, I had an undiagnosed UTI. It got so bad that I ended up in the hospital with sepsis. Best to get it checked out before something little becomes a bigger health issue.
I LOVE how Zach always shows up for his sister. That’s awesome!
Yes Zach is a great big brother!
Continued best wishes during your search for answers! My daughter has had chronic migraine disease for six years which took over two years to be diagnosed, and our specialist told us it takes a *long* time to get under control. As a mom I implore you to have all the tests; you never know which one could be the winning choice in discovering what you need. Your sweetness and kindness to each other and your children is a beautiful thing for all of us to see. That love you share will support you every step of the way. ❤️
Evan your sense of humor is priceless..You always look at the funny side.. Yall are a sweet family
Carlin so glad you were not seriously hurt. Also wanted to say trust your Mom gut. There's nothing wrong with taking Layla for a check up with her Dr if it will ease your mind. Evan you are a hoot.
Thank God things worked out the way they did. My migraines caused my seizures as it was found out (after 3 years) and finally the 5th Neurologist (the BEST) figured it all out. And Carlins brother Zack deserves a great BIG thank you for being there when they need him. ❤Zack❤ God Bless You 🙏🏼
I agree...Zach and Whitney have been amazing during the traumatic medical challenges Carlin and Evan have been goning through.
I love how you’re teaching Layla manners. She’s so sweet. You all are! Hope & pray Layla starts feeling better. Evan, you are a hoot! As I’ve said before, love your videos. Prayers Carlin starts feeling better, too.
Praying for Carlin and your family. 🙏❤️
My son, right before he turned 3, had the same thing! Started with complaining in the car seat and then he would wake up at night as well. Always his lower back. Started running random fevers too. Ended up taking him to Denver children's hospital and he stayed a week... ruled out lots of scary stuff but never found out what was wrong. My parents flew out to us and brought a handkerchief anointed by our preacher and he never complained again! We went home the next day... it was tough never getting a diagnosis but at the same time I'm just so thankful and blessed it wasn't anything worse! We ended up switching car seats too and even did some physical therapy just to make sure!
Praying for Carlan and sweet Layla. Thanks for sharing. Much love and blessings.
STOPPP🥹🥹 her little “thank you momma” that was to die for she’s such a sweetheart
Prayers for little miss Layla and Carlin and Evan!!! You guys are so so strong! Also Evan my dad and I say that too and I didn't think anyone else did until this so thank you for that 🥰
The THANK U MAMA was absolutely precious!! I had to replay that part over a few times because it was so sweet!!! ❤I remember when mine were little and saying things like that. Precious memories NOW I have ONE ALMOST 17 and almost 26. I know you do but enjoy every single sec and soak in every moment because time goes to fast and in the blink of an eye they are grown and u want to do it all over again. I know I would in a hot second!! God bless y’all and your beautiful family
My husband experiences complicated migraines that present as epilepsy. Finding answers is definitely taxing and scary! We will pray for you both as you continue to take care of each other and walk this road.
Omgosh, the same thing happened to my husband. We had to go the ER and he had to have 9 staples. Glad yours wasn’t bad.
And continuing to pray for you all!
Layla is so adorable, she’s always so precious to see see in these videos. Thank you for sharing her, she’s to precious not to share with the world 💖💖 Layla your nails look so pretty, great choice.
I am SO happy you went to the 'special' neurologist! I did this myself and my life has completely changed. The Migraines kicked my butt. I went through the whole heart tests and such and I was checked for epilepsy and finally migraines! I would have them where folks thought I was having a stroke. I couldn't talk my face drooped, my body went numb and down I went. It was awful. But it was severe migraines! I was put on medicine and praise the Lord, I haven't had any 'bad' ones in a year. I'll get a 'headache' but none of the symptoms of the 'other' stuff. 3 IB will cover it for me now! I will continue to pray for your healing and getting answers! On another note, you need to watch a youtube clip of "Les Nessman" and his "Office" (WKRP). That's EXACTLY what I was thinking of when you were setting up your new "office space!'🤣 And Zack slapping his feet up on the desk...hysterical!
Y'all should record your dr appointments in your voice memo app or something so that you can pull it back up and remember everything they told you! It has helped me SO much because my memory is so bad. Glad you are safe Carlin!
ohh gosh you have just been through so much!! Praying that 2023 is a much better year for you all!
We go to the same church. I had Layla in nursery that Sunday ❤ she wore my necklace the entire time. Love her cute personality.
As a flight nurse-mom.... the 1st thing I would check for your beautiful baby girl is urinary tract health. Such a common problem, yet most of us fail to just get a UA. A relatively easy problem to fix. Little girls are notorious for urinary problems. Definitely the first thing on my list. Y'all have a blessed day!
Hey Carlin! So glad your feeling better & starting to get answers. I really wonder if changing your diet could help. Health starts with healing & nourishing your gut. I used to be on a laundry list of meds for a laundry list of conditions & sick most of my life. Going gluten free & eating pretty clean & even going low tox in my life has healed a good bit of my health issues. I’m off ALL meds which is HUGE for me. I’m feeling better than I ever have. Most doctors don’t have much nutritional training & won’t suggest making these changes but are often shocked at how big of an effect nutrition can have on the body. Something to look into. A 30 day gluten detox can tell you a lot. I used to gave daily headaches & multiple a week migraines & now I have a migraine maybe ever 2-3 months. Prayers continued for you & now for Layla.
Praying for you sweet Carlin that they find out exactly what is going on with you. Y'all are the sweetest little family ever and hope the best for y'all
You are such a strong, wonderful couple! Evan, you have been amazing, adjusting your life and work to be there as a husband and father! Carlin, you are staying strong and trusting during these challenging times. I admire you both so much 🥰
I would have her pediatrician check her out. I would ask for him to order a urinalysis for her . Also, make sure she is going number 2 regularly. Constipation can cause back pain. Just some suggestions from one mom to another. Praying 🙏🏻 for all of you. God bless you and your precious family. Your husband is so funny 🤣, I needed the laugh ! 💕🤗🙏🏻💕
I was thinking this same thing. 🙏🏻
Absolutely there was a time when my son was 3 years old he was complaining it hurt when he urinated! I took him to the doctort thinking its a UTI and come to find out my aon had strep throat! Apparently strep is lond of like mumps and others that will dropped to thr testicles!
Our daughter at the same age would say this exact thing. And we couldn’t figure it out either. Took her to the pediatrician and orthopedic doctor…for us, it was constipation and a Miralax regimen helped! I know what it’s like to wonder why they are saying this and it’s scary to not know because they are old enough to say it bothers them, but they aren’t really specific behind that. I hope you figure her issue out. 🙏🏼
So glad y'all are in good spirits!! Thank you for sharing a portion of your world with us! Layla and Zade are the cutest!!
Hello, Sorry you had another scary incident Carlin. I would definitely get Layla checked out better safe then sorry. Praying for your family 🙏 Thank you for sharing. Have a great weekend ☺️
Something to think about with Layla, my daughter complained about her lower back hurting for a while they kept saying growing pains. Her pain progressed to her legs and she was having a hard time walking long distance. After 5 months going back and forth with her peds they referred her to a specialist (rheumatologist) and turns out she had Juvenial idiopathic arthritis at age 3. She is now under medication and seems to be doing better.
Thank you for the updates! Love and blessings sent your way! ❤️🙏
Her little voice! Love you all ♥
Heads & fingers bleed a lot because the capillaries are right under the surface…none the less freaks people out! I’m so glad you’re okay & many prayers for Layla’s backaches!
Glad you're in good spirits. May God continue to bless you all. Praying the doctors find a diagnosis. Praying for baby girl Layla. Happy Saturday
Praying for you Carlin! I am sorry you are going through so much! You are one of the strongest people I know! You have the best husband and cutest kids ever! Great editing Evan!
Oh my heart!!! Layla is adorable!! Happy Birthday sweet girl! Loved this video! What special memories she and Zade will have!! ❤❤
Your eyes look really clear after having an episode. I think your meds are helping you.
I took topamax when I had 2 sleep deprived seizures, and now a decade later, my neurologist has me on topamax for my migraines. Also, some prescribe anti anxiety/depression meds because they give the other meds a “boost”.
Your children are just the cutest.. your whole family, extended family has amazing genes.. it’s good she’s is so vocal
You two are something else. I'm so glad you both can still be positive, and keep that smile on your face. Carlin, thank God you weren't hurt bad. Head cuts do scare the poo out of you. I cut my head open, and it bled some much. I thought for sure I was going to die. For real though. It sounds like the doctors are finally getting to the real source of your problem. Let's all keep on praying. Love you guys. ♥️
We live in Knox and had a VERY similar problem with our daughter. Her back hurt for years and the doc called it ‘growing pains.’ It took years to diagnose and was way more serious than I ever expected! I hope Layla’s back pain improves. I would be happy to share more details with you. Our doctor, diagnosis, treatment etc. I just don’t like to say too much on social media. Blessings to your sweet family.
Evan you might consider taking some emergency situation classes. That would help you feel more in control and less panicked. Prayers for you both and your sweet little family. p.s. take a day off (with your buds) and go have some fun
Praying for Layla’s back pain! Praying for more answers for you Carlin! Thanks for sharing your life with us! Love and Prayers Always
Ouchie!!! That sounds like it was painful. So happy you are ok Carlin. I am glad you guys are getting answers and keeping your spirits up. Layla is so cute. She is a total diva! ♥ her!!!
Carlin your smile could light up any room you enter♡♡
Everybody should give Evan a thumbs up on these videos. They really share so much. I pray the Lord protects Carlin from falling and getting hurt and she can have some answers in 2023!
You should have her seen for her back. My son started that when he was three but the doctor had no idea why. He seemed to be getting worse. By the time he was five it hurt so bad he couldn’t stand to move or even laugh. We found out just before Christmas he had a tumor between the vertebrae in his spine. He had the world’s longest surgery and back then it took weeks to get his results back. God was looking out for my baby. The tumor wasn’t cancer. He’s 27 now. The first time he laughed after the surgery was the sweetest sound ever.😊
I'm so happy you're medicine is working for you, hope they give you a diagnosis.
If Layla has been complaining about the same spot hurting, she should be seen don't take any chances please.
Definitely needs to see her pediatrician. She is so adorable 🥰
100% see a pediatrician. A 4yr old in our family was complaining of pain in back. During her exam, she was sent to CHOP in a Philly. It was a wilms tumor…kidney cancer.
Definitely get her tested for a UTI! Rest is so important, if kids are restin, they say momma should too but I don't see why daddy can't join! Down time is so important 🙂
Love the editing style!! Thanks for putting in the time!!
I also have had seizures and had for the last 20+ years. Everyone always thinks it’s epilepsy, but it’s not. I was born with a neurological disorder, and have mutated chromosomes. I see a neurosurgeon because they tend to specialize in rare conditions versus a neurologist. Yes, it makes a difference. I wish you the best as you navigate through this scary unknown path to answers.
Thanks for sharing your journey with us. God bless your little family. ❤️
It was so cute seeing Evan dress zade in his outfit!!! So cute 🥰 I’m so sorry about your head Carlin, I’m glad u didn’t have to go to the hospital!! I hope Layla gets better? It might be a bladder infection. Love you guys ❤
Glad you’re not hurt too bad. Love the pink sparkly nails
I would definitely get it checked out asap just in case 🤷♀️❤️❤️❤️
I have never had seizures, but migraines are terrible! I have a neurostimulator for the pain, and my doctor is in Nashville. I am so much better, mostly pain free after living in constant pain. Hang in there and don't give up!
Attention Bates sisters please give Evan some respect he deserves a great deal of respect for all he does lol I’ll give you respect love you guys from Arkansas ❤
Carlin you have found the best husband. He’s been there with you every step of the way with your health issues. My husband has been by my side with all of my orthopedic surgeries. I’ve had well over 50 plus surgeries, infections, hospital stays for most of our marriage and we’ve been married 21 years and together 27 years. I’ve put my family thru hell but my husband has been there for me. It’s not easy for anyone. He’s a rockstar in my books.
Poor Layla girl! Usually with my kid’s growing pains are pretty intense and subside after a while. And usually it’s their legs, feet, arms. Don’t ignore that mama instinct. It’s definitely a real thing. Maybe a new car seat will help her though! Maybe she’s also saying this because she sees mama hurting at times. Little ones don’t know how to navigate emotions like that yet. Just a thought. Sending well wishes and good vibes to your sweet little fam 😊
Way to be optimistic! ❤ prayers for you! Thanks for sharing! Love your entire family
I love the team work between you both getting yourselves and the kids ready when you showed us you all getting ready for church at the beginning of this video ! ❤.
It looks like it’s all run like clockwork but I bet sometimes it’s not lol
Personally about Layla, I'd def get her check. I've learned to follow my mom gut. My daughter was 4 and I thought appendicitis and argued with a Dr for 7hrs in a hosp to get her scan just to be sure. She was comfy in the hosp after being in ER they thought for poss start of pneumonia. Just before leaving she screamed in pain, I went to find Dr cause he didn't want to do a scan cause of the dye at a young age. Dr came back and said he should listen to mom gut. Thankfully it was done, appendix ruptured as it was taken out. If you feel something is off,go with it. Like you said she is complaining about it when it wasn't even in the seat. Our mom gut is a really good resource to follow. It's helped so often when my older kids were lil(now adults) and now with my 2yr old. Who finally last wk, Dr ordered a CBC after I insisted it being done and found out she has extreme low WBC,body doesn't fight infections and germs,so gets sick all the time. Follow your gut girl!
I personally have severe kidney and bladder issues, and my “back” pain started when I was 3. Take her to the pediatrician and ask them to do a urine specimen. It can VERY quickly things out. A huge issue I have is recurring UTIs and kidney infections. My first symptom is back pain. I am praying for relief and answers soon for sweet Layla! ❤️❤️❤️
Ps I had urinary tract regurgitation and had to have surgery. Please please get her urine checked immediately. It is very painful and uncomfortable. 💔💔💔
Pray without ceasing...I'm praying for you all. Love you my sweet Stewart family ❤️❤️❤️❤️
RN two cents here about Layla - being that she has a history of a heart issue, other health issues can co-exist that are "midline" (fetal development happens from the outside to the inside AKA: Midline. Anyway, it would be good to get her seen by a pediatrician. It could be anything from scoliosis to a misplaced kidney (not necessarily as scary as it sounds). But definitely needs an evaluation.
Also RN too. I agree, great advice!
Best of all to Layla & family.
What a sweet family. I have suffered with migraines since I was 11 years old. They are horrible, horrible debilitating things to have. Bosses that have never had them don't understand. However I'm pretty lucky that I had sick leave where I worked and vacation time I could use. Plus if I had to I could have Filed for FMLA to use intermittently, thank God I never had to do that. I am so very sorry you suffer from Migraines and epilepsy I will say some prayers for you.
I can tell you I was having horrible migraines for about 4 years after being hit by a red light runner doing 70 mph in town, he was texting. He T- Boned my new car and totaled it. From that day I starting suffering horrific migraines. My head hit the steering wheel either before or after the air bags when some how he hit me again on the other side of the car. I had at a minimum of 4 a week. Last year in November 2021 I had been praying like I had never prayed before for my daughters best friend. She had finally gotten pregnant after years of trying but right before Thanksgiving she went fir her monthly check and there were all kinds of things wrong with the baby and they rushed her by ambulance to another town and hospital where specialist were at near the childrens hospital. They were even saying they didn't know if she would survive. I never prayed so hard for the baby and the momma. They didn't know if the baby would live at all all the test and special test they did on him inside of her said he wouldn't. Well everyone in this valley and far away was praying. Well 3 days later when they took him by C-section he was born, breathing on his own and everything that all three doctors saw on their tests were gone completely. The only thing he had to have done is put a shunt in his head. He is a beautiful baby boy today. The power of God. So I wanted to tell you while I was praying for him on the day he was born I lifted my arms to heaven and asked God to take care of my daughters friend and her baby and if he had any thing left over if he could get rid of my migraines or make them better. Right at that time I felt through the tips of my fingers and my arms like I got this huge electrical shock that went through my arms and I started crying. I knew then that God heard me and my migraines from that day foreword are gone or if I do have one every once in a while I can take Tylenol and Advil to make it go away or be manageable. I have prayed most of my life but not that often for myself. I thought I was selfish praying for myself but God showed me. I think about that day and what God did all the time. God is very good. 💗💗💗💗🙏🙏🙏🙏
Praise God. I rejoice in your healing!
Thank you for sharing such vulnerability moments with us . I know the Lord Will heal you Carlin. ❤ praying for you guys
I have been treated for chronic migraines with an epilepsy medication , Topamax, since 14. Praying for answers.
Evan you are a trip 😂Watching you and not getting any RESPECT had me laughing so hard. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. ❤️Love you all
My daughter kept saying her back hurt and she had a kidney infection.. My son had growing pains and yes those are a real thing they said since he was going to be tall (now 6'2)was why he had such issues with his legs even to the point of not being able to walk at times ! Praying you find answers !
Omg poor Carlin!!! 😢 You've been through so much! Glad the Iron injury wasn't too terrible! And my daughter has epilepsy as part of her medical condition, we have always called her Neurologist her "Brain doctor" lol
Oh no Carlin so glad you are ok. I pray you have a better year in 2023. You are always so upbeat positive and happy. God Bless you. Love your cute little family ❤
“Lord willing, and the creek don’t rise” is how we grew up saying it. ❤️
That’s what we say to if the lord’s willing and the creek don’t rise it’s what we say sometimes when we tell each other good night and sleep good
Praise the Lord your're okay and getting answers. will continue praying for you guys regardless. Blessings.
Evan I feel you so much on your panic. My son split his head open last year and there was sooo much blood. I panicked and also called an ambulance, by the time they got to my house it had stopped bleeding and ended up needing a few staples :(.
Hope you fell better SOON and congrats on the sponsorship
Continued prayers. Thanks for the update.❤🤗🤟
I have a story about when I had to go to the hospital. My husband and I were going to a birthday party right down the road from our house. I am in the passenger seat when all of a sudden the side window blows out and I felt pain. My husband wanted to look because he thought I got shot. When he saw it he was like put your hand over it. It was kids throwing rocks at cars. I still have the scar right above my right eye! The ambulance took me to the hospital because when they came to my house they thought I could go blind. That was so scary! Hope you are feeling better Carlin!
Glad you are OK Carlin , wow that had to Hurt having a iron hit your head.
Love seeing your Family. Lot's of prayers. God bless all of you.
Zade is such a happy baby!
Hi there Carlin and Evan. I Love watching You Both and hearing how Your Beautiful Family is doing... Please Take Care of Yourselves and I Pray that You will Have a Blessed Evening and I look forward to seeing You Again soon, (God Willing) ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My epilepsy is triggered by changes in my hormone levels, so during my cycle I’m more likely to have issues. I tend to have grand mal seizures but It also brings along headaches, tiredness and pins and needles all over my head, among various other things during that time. It took along time to diagnose so keep on going even when it feels futile, you will get there albeit slower than you’d like x
Hey y’all! Not sure if you watch Jesssfam, but if you look back a couple of years, her son Landon went thru the same exact situation! Now his did turn out to be a small growth on his spine, if memory serves me correctly, but it was benign and something he was born with. I do agree with the majority of everyone saying possible UTI and kidney problems as it’s super common with little girls, esp if taking bubble baths. I’m praying for y’all!
Praying for you Carlin
Talk to the doctor. My daughter did the same thing, and she ended up having kidney reflux, which is something that needs to be taken care of...by the time I found out BOTH her kidneys were only 30% the size they were supposed to be. Much love to you all
Love you guys. Your personalities are fantastic. Please keep bringing us along with you.
I second/third/fourth everyone mentioning having her checked for a uti/kidney infection. The placement of pain would make sense with that area. Sending lots of prayers of peace and comfort for baby girl!
Hope Laylas back pain gets better with the new car seat and more than that, she's so precious. Evan, I would have been the same way as you seeing all that blood, I freak out if I see a lot of blood too. And Evan, thanks for making us laugh every week!!
My first thought with Layla is Kidneys. When I was her age diagnosed with a Chronic Kidney Condition (Kidney Infections) etc. We were told I would likely be on medication for a lifetime. But after a number of years doctoring medications, strict diet & numerous do's & don'ts I outgrew it but was an answer to prayers & I have never had even the first sign of a problem since. A total game changer also was the doctor telling us to stop using Tide Soap. Tide is very bad for anyone with Kidney or Bladder infections or prone to Skin Allergies . We had a woman thank us for years learning this information & changed her life health wise when she changed laundry detergents. But Kidney ailments & back pain go hand & hand.
Hi Carlin hope you're feeling better not trying to scare you but I know when my back hurt I've had a UTI and once it was a kidney infection if you can't I just have it checked out as better to be safe than sorry and I know y'all are good parents I'm not trying to tell you how to raise your child I'm just making a couple suggestions having you so funny you always give me a good laugh Layla and Carlin will be in my prayers please keep us updated on Layla she is so sweet and precious love you guys and your fur baby God bless ❤️
My two-year-old son complains about his stomach hurting when his lungs hurt , he also gets extremely car sick but only when he has an ear infection. He will tell me that his head hurts every time in the car sometimes it could be something very minor but I would definitely get it checked out good luck! Lots of love to you guys
Praying for Carlin and the family. It sucks seeing you guys go through so much. Love you guys! Still praying for your beautiful little family.
Yep, the head and face bleed a lot because the vessels are so close to the surface and it usually will look worse than it is. Glad everything is okay.
Praying for Carlin and hope you guys find answers and I love you guys so much.
Evan and Carlin are so much fun to watch 😊
I learned the hard way on irons overhead. I was putting hot iron on a shelve away from my dogs. Fell off hitting my chest area leaving 2nd degree burn. stay safe from irons.
Chiropractors can feel the smallest things with their fingers. They are trained to feel a piece of thin wire under a piece of paper with gloves on! Just take her already. 😊 If she’s already out of alignment a new car seat might not even help. Just ask them to examine her and hold off on the X-rays to see if adjusting works.