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  • @stephengregory1655
    @stephengregory1655 2 місяці тому +20

    Nope... had a homie cheat on his woman.
    Had... a homie... who cheated on his woman
    Had...
    He was a good dude... but you right. You are who you surround yourself with

  • @DianaPrinceitiswhatitis
    @DianaPrinceitiswhatitis 2 місяці тому +149

    The double standard is the problem. She dumped him after he said that. 😂😂😂

    • @codyturner9741
      @codyturner9741 2 місяці тому +6

      Usaully the double standards are coming from the other way but ya no double standards i dont go clubing i dont want my girl to go clubing but im not gonna tell her not to do something im going to do i may hang with the guys but we probably doing stupid nerdy shit not up to any bs

    • @caddchambers950
      @caddchambers950 2 місяці тому

      Life’s not fair.

    • @lordkin-kong8888
      @lordkin-kong8888 2 місяці тому

      We're not influenced the way women are..
      Where influenced by logic and we're usually not connected to our homeboys personal lives in that way..
      We have what you would call boundaries..
      That's different for women.
      Women influence other women that do most things including horrible things..
      Spur of the moment type things..
      And most of the time those things aren't usually thought out at all..
      And they're usually life-changing..
      This is usually the realization after a late night out or a girl's trip..
      These are not stereotypes for no reason..
      It's observable over and over and over and over and over again..
      So no, there's still logic here..
      No double standard..
      We live in a world now where one can walk outside throw a rock and hit a thot..
      Most females f*** off of audacity..
      They drop panties just because you had the audacity to ask..
      It's crazy🤣🤣
      If you don't believe me you either ain't ask n or you ain't ask n right👀

    • @shanegallant7044
      @shanegallant7044 2 місяці тому +5

      There are no double standards at all in this conversation. She asked about clubbing and cheating. Why were the two words in the same conversation at all? or ask yourself this: What is at a club for any respectable person in a meaningful relationship?

    • @davidperry4310
      @davidperry4310 2 місяці тому

      It's only that men are not hive minded like women. His friends cheating will not influence him to cheat. Women are easier to influence, and they don't want to be the odd one out! That's why, all double standards are because women and men are not the same.

  • @IOSALive
    @IOSALive 2 місяці тому +73

    Mental Hub, amazing video you deserve more views

  • @J-xc4pw
    @J-xc4pw 2 місяці тому +188

    If he does his girl dirty, what makes you think he won’t do you dirty.

    • @Dakidd-pb9zc
      @Dakidd-pb9zc 2 місяці тому +21

      Nice try, but it doesn't work like that!

    • @MICHAELJAMES-ud4zd
      @MICHAELJAMES-ud4zd 2 місяці тому +9

      Yup not at all, he not in a relationship with me, nor are we fckn.... soooo

    • @J-xc4pw
      @J-xc4pw 2 місяці тому +25

      @@Dakidd-pb9zc integrity isn’t something you pick and choose to have. You either have it, or you don’t.

    • @stuffthings1417
      @stuffthings1417 2 місяці тому +6

      we ain't like that. nice try.

    • @Dakidd-pb9zc
      @Dakidd-pb9zc 2 місяці тому

      @J-xc4pw He cheated on his girl but managed to be a loyal friend for years before he ever met and got involved with this woman and now he's just supposed to cut his friend off? Ma'am, you're a prime example of why people should never listen to women who think like you!

  • @omokaroojiire
    @omokaroojiire 2 місяці тому +101

    She flipped the question around and he revealedt his true character without realizing it!!!

    • @wildthang1086
      @wildthang1086 2 місяці тому +2

      What true character?

    • @r4a2g0
      @r4a2g0 2 місяці тому +4

      She changed the question entirely so no.

    • @omokaroojiire
      @omokaroojiire 2 місяці тому +4

      He said "You are who you surround yourself with" when the first question was asked about the girl. Obviously "The bird of the same feather flocking together," didn't apply to him when it came to the second question, since he will still hang around a cheating friend! That revealed that he is a cheater, since he already established that "You are who you surround yourself with."
      Basically his character is flawed, because of the flip, flopping!!!
      When someone tells you who they are, you will save yourself a lot of heartaches if you Pay attention!!!

  • @heyarcher2782
    @heyarcher2782 2 місяці тому +109

    The clubbing GF affects him directly, the cheating friend does not.

    • @janetconley3564
      @janetconley3564 2 місяці тому +41

      Your lack of comprehension is affecting the 3 ppl that liked your comment. This scenario is about the gf FRIENDS clubbing NOT the gf. Also clubbing does not equate to cheating but being friends with a cheater says a lot about your character.

    • @Lite-TD
      @Lite-TD 2 місяці тому +18

      So you didn't listen to what the question was, she clearly said her friends go clubbing she never said would you date a girl that goes clubbing every weekend, her friends going clubbing has nothing to do with their relationship

    • @tessw9744
      @tessw9744 2 місяці тому +7

      ​@@janetconley3564
      Your first sentence has me DED!😂🤣😂💀

    • @kellygarnet6329
      @kellygarnet6329 2 місяці тому

      He just said a girl who goes clubbing with her friends is a hoe so what does that make him? He's a cheater.

    • @Stoodle901
      @Stoodle901 2 місяці тому

      He wouldn't date a girl who's friends go clubbing, because you're like the people you surround yourself with (a hoe). But he's okay with surrounding himself with a cheater, which by his own logic, would make him a cheater.

  • @annm3064
    @annm3064 2 місяці тому +83

    .... It is human nature that you end up acting like the people you surround yourself with.
    The guy doesnt see his hypocrisy but will understand that his girl wont be there much longer.

    • @stuffthings1417
      @stuffthings1417 2 місяці тому

      no hypocrisy. guy's can't be hoes.

    • @Gr8nessnMe070
      @Gr8nessnMe070 2 місяці тому +5

      What hypocrisy? Are you lost? She said, your FRIEND! One person! No context whatsoever! This may be his best childhood friend and he supposed to ditch him because he “cheated” on a girl you don’t even know? She started with the girl hanging with a bunch of girls who were loose. Keep it straight.

    • @Gr8nessnMe070
      @Gr8nessnMe070 2 місяці тому

      I think you need to actually rewatch the short! She said: WOULD YOU DATE A GIRL… I’m not even dating this imaginary person yet. I have a choice to protect myself from the goofiness. BUT MY FRIEND!!!! Come on guy! Surely you didn’t think you comment was that smart did you? 😱😱😱😱😱

    • @janetconley3564
      @janetconley3564 2 місяці тому +7

      ​@@Gr8nessnMe070so it's not possible that these are childhood friends of hers just like it's possible that's a childhood friend of his. Lol you didn't think that comment was smart did you? The fact of the matter is she's not the one that's going out every week just like he's not the one that's cheating but he has a problem with her friends that are only going out to have a good time vs his friend being in a relationship but choosing to be a cheater. It's very hypocritical to have a problem with her friends that go out to have a good time but not have a problem with his friend being a cheater.

    • @user-jc2ds3xw4u
      @user-jc2ds3xw4u 2 місяці тому

      Not necessarily, because everybody I am around are parents or married, and eyes am neither

  • @vickihines-martin6058
    @vickihines-martin6058 2 місяці тому +79

    "you are who you surround yourself with" is the critical statement in both cases. If you associate with cheaters, you find that acceptable behavior. So the actions you want her to exhibit (avoiding her friends), you should also . Ignorance and judgmental attitudes , so embarrasing....

    • @Rundvelt
      @Rundvelt 2 місяці тому +6

      Except that the former is "surrounding", where the latter is one. Also, there's a difference between men and women being "slutty". So, they're not comparable.
      Glad I could help you out.

    • @korvonfrancis6552
      @korvonfrancis6552 2 місяці тому +1

      Exactly Rundvelt

    • @klovenkane5982
      @klovenkane5982 2 місяці тому +2

      Bullshit 😂

    • @MrPewpew93
      @MrPewpew93 2 місяці тому +4

      @@klovenkane5982it’s only bullshit if the sock fits lol glad I could help

    • @vickihines-martin6058
      @vickihines-martin6058 2 місяці тому +4

      Wow...just wow. thanks for being the example of my point...

  • @downbad2874
    @downbad2874 2 місяці тому +7

    And just like that I’d be single

  • @NoName-ys7co
    @NoName-ys7co 2 місяці тому +53

    My Bro ain't gonna give me herpes

    • @shaneikaj.8711
      @shaneikaj.8711 2 місяці тому +9

      He could 😂😂

    • @deestupi
      @deestupi 2 місяці тому +16

      How does going out with her friends give the bf herpes?

    • @tessw9744
      @tessw9744 2 місяці тому

      And her girlfriends ain't gonna give her herpes either, so what's your point? SMH

    • @PivotGrowth
      @PivotGrowth 2 місяці тому

      @@deestupidoes that need explained? Are you 10

    • @kjm85
      @kjm85 2 місяці тому +9

      ​@@deestupi lmao you better stay single

  • @rurutherussian
    @rurutherussian 2 місяці тому +12

    Definitely not the same thing, and you’re coping if you think that it is. Cheating is not a group activity. Clubbing is a decision to go to an incredibly secular location where you are knowingly placing yourself in a potentially compromising situation. You consciously make that decision every single time you go out and step foot in that club. If your friend cheats, you by no means have any control over that behavior, nor do you have the power to predict it. But if you go clubbing, you are _choosing_ to place yourself in a potentially compromising position EVERY TIME.

    • @Nitropanda16
      @Nitropanda16 2 місяці тому +6

      Yeah 100%, not to mention women are the gatekeepers to sex and a dude who can score is high value... don't condone cheating, but your buddy also won't try to convince you to cheat like the girls will with clubbing.

    • @JuliusTurner-hm6ff
      @JuliusTurner-hm6ff 2 місяці тому

      Lol. Whatever helps you to sleep with other women at night. Lol.

    • @Gr8nessnMe070
      @Gr8nessnMe070 2 місяці тому +3

      Also, the question is, would you date a girl?” Not would you leave a girl? Most people missed that part!

    • @janetconley3564
      @janetconley3564 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@@Nitropanda16I was in a relationship with this simpleton that had friends that cheat on their wives. When I first got with him I felt like he wasn't a cheater until he started hanging with his friends more and more and I eventually found out he was cheating on me. You can not speak for all men. Some men can and will try to convince their friends to cheat. You can not speak for women because most women I know including myself will never try to convince a woman to cheat on her man. Going out to the club does not automatically mean you're going to cheat on your man and having friends that go out all the time does not automatically mean you're going to go out all the time. If you think it's ok for you to have friends that cheat on their women then it should be ok for your woman to have friends that go out if not then that most definitely makes you a hypocrite. It's just that simple.

    • @Nitropanda16
      @Nitropanda16 2 місяці тому +3

      @@janetconley3564 You make some fair generalizations and I'm sorry you had to date a "simpleton" that cheated on you. I don't defend all men or their friend groups, nor did I say all clubbing women convince their friends to cheat.
      My point is simply that the guy you were with obviously had some value otherwise he wouldn't have had the ability to cheat (also if he is the simpleton, what does that say about you?).
      Furthermore, a girl clubbing shows she is willing to monkeybranch to a better dude or at least is willing to compromise her current relationship (assuming she is dating someone). As the gatekeepers to the bedroom a 'good' or faithful woman doesn't put herself in those situations.
      Also I didn't say it outright, but of course a 'good' man would also distance himself or be weary of a male friend that has cheated, especially if he cheated on a wife. Likewise, he should not associate with girls looking to go clubbing.

  • @marsson25
    @marsson25 2 місяці тому +1

    She got a point

  • @clarencedonovan231
    @clarencedonovan231 2 місяці тому

    The answer is No. If he's willing to cheat his girl, he's willing to cheat you. I'd distance myself from that man.

  • @familydevelopedinthetoraho2026
    @familydevelopedinthetoraho2026 2 місяці тому +1

    While it's NOT true that just because he's hanging with a cheater doesn't make him a cheater also, he should be holding the cheater accountable ... Just as she should hold her friends accountable. While we can't control our friends actions, we can hold each other accountable because of the contract of friendship. What are the standards? Move away from friends who aren't being "friendly".
    "Show me your company, I'll tell you who you are"!!!
    (Not my quote... Old quote)

  • @tonystone10K
    @tonystone10K 2 місяці тому +196

    A lot of guys are actually this slow and don't get the hypocrisy.

    • @Kelvinapplegate
      @Kelvinapplegate 2 місяці тому +22

      As a man I approve this message

    • @stuffthings1417
      @stuffthings1417 2 місяці тому +29

      no hypocrisy. girls and guys are different. only a female would miss that.

    • @tonystone10K
      @tonystone10K 2 місяці тому +43

      ​@@stuffthings1417you're proving my point. If you think that girls and guys being "different" somehow invalidates the hypocrisy claim, you're obviously a slow guy who doesn't get the hypocrisy. Congratulations, you're case study #1.

    • @Cresto615
      @Cresto615 2 місяці тому +30

      @@tonystone10KI agree with the message HOWEVER if my girl going out every week clubbing then no I wouldn't date her. If they hang out elsewhere where there aren't drunk individuals then yes. Having said that, if my guy friend cheats on their girl, it has nothing to do with me or us you get me? lol so I see what you mean about the hypocrisy but comparing MY woman going out clubbing with friends and my friend cheating on his girl... they're very different

    • @samuraihilbily9709
      @samuraihilbily9709 2 місяці тому +12

      if you are in a relationship with someone who wants to go to the club, you are not in a serious relationship. Clubbing is for hooking up. Date an adult, not a teenager.

  • @rickeshpatel4025
    @rickeshpatel4025 Місяць тому +1

    This is so stupid you don’t date your friends. It’s like comparing apples and oranges.

  • @smania7575
    @smania7575 2 місяці тому +1

    I know a few guys like this. Thankfully, my husband and most of his family are the opposite. He wouldn't let someone be cheated on that he knows. He would tell them then cut out the friend.

  • @zmcg
    @zmcg 2 місяці тому

    I don't know what kind of losers you've all been dating, but as a guy, I would never mess around with a friend's girl. It's not worth losing a friend for a fling with a cheater.

  • @timsartistic7328
    @timsartistic7328 2 місяці тому +10

    This is called a False Equivolancy - Clubbing & Cheating are 2 different activities. A Married Woman would have the same problem with her Husband hanging out late Clubbing with his Single Friends.
    Once you're a Committed Couple, both Men & Women have different expectations for each other.
    People can be Friends with someone who is a known cheater depending on how long they've known them without judging them and simply waiting for them to learn the lesson on their own.

    • @janetconley3564
      @janetconley3564 2 місяці тому +2

      So it is ok for a married woman to be friends with a cheater?

    • @KyuubiKin
      @KyuubiKin 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@janetconley3564Well as long as the wife isn't cheating then yes. The line is drawn when the actions of those within the relationship reflect the actions of those they befriend.

    • @janetconley3564
      @janetconley3564 2 місяці тому +1

      @@KyuubiKin I totally agree with you

    • @kellygarnet6329
      @kellygarnet6329 2 місяці тому

      But that's not what he said. He said that if she associates with clubbing women she's a hoe by that association. Therefore by the same standard he's a cheater by association with his cheating friend.

    • @apritellolives3920
      @apritellolives3920 2 місяці тому

      I think u missed the hypocrisy . Its the logic of the boyfriend. He believes that the girl being friends with a hoe means she is a hoe. So with that logic, he *should have* said if he is friends with a cheater he is a cheater but he twisted it

  • @IAMBoker
    @IAMBoker 2 місяці тому

    It's less hypocritical than you think. In the dating economy is women give access to intercourse and men give access to relationship. Women having promiscuous friends is telling of her own promiscuity... for men.. promiscuity is a given. The question should have been, are you friends with men that fail to provide and protect for the women they are with.
    The female equivalent is checking if he has responsible friends.

  • @TechMoneyDev87
    @TechMoneyDev87 2 місяці тому +1

    Clubbing is equal to cheating? See the mental leap to justify the point?

  • @wyzer9
    @wyzer9 2 місяці тому

    Are _all_ of his friends cheaters and/or did he say the girl should stop being friends with her friends? _NO (to both)._ Not only does this comparison fail to acknowledge the differences in male/female social dynamics, it erroneously attempts to compare individual vs group dynamics _AND_ implies that the same psychology would be used for personal and interpersonal situations. TL;DR- This doesn't make sense because it's comparing "hapless" to "ho-ranges". 😆

  • @jtthomas7349
    @jtthomas7349 2 місяці тому +1

    He's right on both accounts tho

  • @aprilwashington3150
    @aprilwashington3150 2 місяці тому +2

    Cognitive dissonance

  • @dodong4806
    @dodong4806 2 місяці тому +8

    Im too grown for these bloody topical reels

  • @benjaminweston2065
    @benjaminweston2065 2 місяці тому

    Q "Would you date a guy whose friends go clubbing every weekend?"
    A "You know men who go clubbing EVERY WEEKEND?"
    Q "Would you stay friends with your BFF if she cheated on her guy?"
    A "Wait, was it MY guy? No? Well, OK, you go girl!"
    To quote ScoobyDoo, "RuhRo!"

  • @davidperry4310
    @davidperry4310 2 місяці тому

    What is the difference between a master lock, and a master key. If you answer correctly, you would see no hypocrisy. Men and women are not equal, nor are we the same! Hint, the key is male the lock is female!

  • @RaindropsBleeding
    @RaindropsBleeding 2 місяці тому

    It's not hypocrisy. People should be allowed to outlive their past. If you still do bad stuff I don't want to be around you. if you did it in the past but you regret it, you're alright.

  • @Mrkrazyjuggalo408
    @Mrkrazyjuggalo408 2 місяці тому +3

    Makes sense show me your friends and i will tell you your future lol . Birds of a feather flock together

  • @shadesofblue8425
    @shadesofblue8425 2 місяці тому +15

    A friend cheating on their partner never goes around bragging about doing so or convincing others to do the same. Women convince each other that it's perfectly fine when "they're not getting what they need out of a relationship." Men and women are different, who'd have thought.

    • @downbad2874
      @downbad2874 2 місяці тому

      This is false asf and your still trying to not to get the point stfu also man cheat for no reason at all so your logic is lacking smh men and women being different has nothing to do with this unless your saying all man and women are the same which also isn’t logic

    • @bettyc.parker-young1437
      @bettyc.parker-young1437 2 місяці тому

      Maybe you know only good upstanding citizens.😂😂😂 Y'all are kids. Wait till you grow up and learn the truth.

    • @janetconley3564
      @janetconley3564 2 місяці тому +3

      It's very ignorant to speak for all men and women. Just like there are some women that try to convince their friends to cheat there are most definitely some men that try to convince their friends to cheat. Although I've never had a friend that tried to convince me to cheat I've had a man that allowed his cousin to convince him to cheat. Speak for yourself that way you'll sound much less ignorant.

  • @katiesims1903
    @katiesims1903 2 місяці тому +37

    Sounds like he has boundaries for his own relationship, not other people's relationships.

    • @janetconley3564
      @janetconley3564 2 місяці тому +5

      So it's ok for her to have the boundary that he doesn't be friends with cheaters?

    • @evilannie8884
      @evilannie8884 2 місяці тому

      So if she's a hoe cuz her friends are hoes.... so he's a cheater cuz his friends are cheaters.
      Yup.

    • @Lite-TD
      @Lite-TD 2 місяці тому +5

      No he only have boundaries for her not himself

    • @tessw9744
      @tessw9744 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@Lite-TD
      Yep, he has boundaries for *her* relationships, not his own. Why is that so hard for people to see?

    • @Stoodle901
      @Stoodle901 2 місяці тому +1

      The problem is his reasoning. If the gf is a ho because of who her friends are, then what does that make him, being friends with a cheater?

  • @lettyletty8456
    @lettyletty8456 2 місяці тому +1

    Double Standards

  • @joels310
    @joels310 2 місяці тому

    Neither... If he has no integrity with a woman why would he have integrity with his friends.

  • @leeben1504
    @leeben1504 2 місяці тому

    I actually stopped being friends with my old buddy when he cheated on his girl. I'd never feel comfortable bringing a girl around him again. This is a skit, meant to point you in a certain direction. I can see a lot of other guys in the comments did the same thing I did

  • @Gr8nessnMe070
    @Gr8nessnMe070 2 місяці тому +1

    A lot of people missing “false equivalence” and now the comments are rage quitting! The closest she could’ve gotten would’ve been, if your friends PLURAL were cheaters would you stay friends with them. Not one dude with zero context, who may have saved his life in combat or protected him from bullies in school. One friend???? She started with FRIENDS PLURAL - now we’re down to one? 😂😂😂 I may stay friends with a murderer depending on the context.

    • @janetconley3564
      @janetconley3564 2 місяці тому

      But would you stay friends with a pedophile especially if that pedophile raped a 5 year old if so I'd question your character

  • @animefitnessandphilosophy
    @animefitnessandphilosophy 2 місяці тому

    The girlfriends are actively trying to ruin her the male friend is not. Thats the big difference.

  • @wildthang1086
    @wildthang1086 2 місяці тому

    Lots of girls saying there is hypocrisy when there is not.

  • @sanghi286
    @sanghi286 2 місяці тому

    I don’t understand how going clubbing is being equated to being a ho3. If you think that if your girlfriend went clubbing, she would cheat, then basically you are relying on the fact that your girlfriend never gets an opportunity to cheat in your entire life. There’s no internal restraint or respect for the relationship

  • @shaunhilts9113
    @shaunhilts9113 2 місяці тому +25

    False equivalency. If the girls friends go clubbing, they'll ask her to go out with them. She'll probably say yes and go out with them where every single man she encounters will do whatever they can to sleep with her. Some of these guys might actually be a better match. On the flip side of the coin, a guy who cheats on his gf wont coerce his friend into sleeping around.

    • @stuffthings1417
      @stuffthings1417 2 місяці тому

      exactly. girls pretend we're all the same, males and females.
      not at all.

    • @saltycat662
      @saltycat662 2 місяці тому

      Wow the lies you just told are astounding. Men definitely push other men to cheat. Gtfoh.

    • @downbad2874
      @downbad2874 2 місяці тому

      No one said it was equal also the point is u are who u surround yourself with so by his logic he is a cheater cause his friend is one but y’all try to rationalize stupid so much u can’t see how stupid u sound

    • @Truthtella
      @Truthtella 2 місяці тому +4

      Yes they will. In what world do you live in. That's totally a false statement. Cheaters want other cheaters around them because it reenforce what they are doing. It's all a game if the cheater takes yo girl. I bet you would blame her in that situation. You shouldn't be mad though because you didn't want to hold your friend accountable for his actions.

    • @stuffthings1417
      @stuffthings1417 2 місяці тому

      @@Truthtella infedelity only really counts if you're married.

  • @funnythings5454
    @funnythings5454 2 місяці тому

    Friends that go clubing are alright
    Promiscuous friends are dangerous to relationships.
    Clubbing wile in a relationship is dangerous due to the promiscuity atmosphere clubs usually provide and encourage.
    A friend that ends up cheating on their lover is just embarrassing, but (deppending on what happend) isnt warranted on breaking off the friendship.
    Remember that relationships are built on love and trust. Their needs to be both to survive. Someone's boundaries are not ment to be fair or logical. They are their because they are okay with things and not okay with things. If their boundaries do not aline with yours, the relationship will just not work.
    Example: my girlfriend is okay with 3somes. I am not okay with 3somes. This means there will be no 3somes in this relationship. If she is okay with that, all is fair in the relationship.
    Again, boundaries are not ment to be fair. They are limitations that someone has. They can be modified if the person talks about things. But again, boundaries are not ment to be fair. Keep this in mind when you enter relationships

  • @williamjohnson3226
    @williamjohnson3226 2 місяці тому +1

    Just curious, I would really like to know would you date someone who insist that you use the correct pronouns when you date them?

  • @John-Wolfe
    @John-Wolfe 2 місяці тому

    Everything is contextual, and these are hypothetical questions. When dealing with questions that are not based in reality, in real world situations nothing is really true unless its tested.

  • @beyoutyisinthei5552
    @beyoutyisinthei5552 Місяць тому

    Wow! Just wow. 😮

  • @timothyjackson2317
    @timothyjackson2317 2 місяці тому

    I just want to point out the massive difference of wearing skimpy clothes and getting drunk with a bunch of single girls at a bar or club where dudes are looking for women is much different then the dude cheating. One is your relationship the other is not

  • @CategoricalImperative
    @CategoricalImperative 2 місяці тому

    I'm pretty red pill..... however; YOU GOT ME ON THIS ONE. ROFL.

  • @thelikebutton2464
    @thelikebutton2464 2 місяці тому

    That's actually bullshit... No man respects a man who cheats on his woman. I definitely want to stay friends With that kind of guy.

  • @johnnycash4161
    @johnnycash4161 2 місяці тому

    But there's a difference. She asked if he would date a person like that.
    To which he responded with no. In that situation it would be his business. Because he is dating that woman.
    If it was one of my male friends I'm not trying to date him. So what he does in his relationship is none of my business.
    And despite that being said, I would still explain to my friend that what he did was messed up.
    But that's still my homeboy.

  • @xianxu137
    @xianxu137 2 місяці тому

    The difference is, he is in a relationship with the girl . He is just friends with the guy. The hypocrisy is fake.

    • @Lite-TD
      @Lite-TD 2 місяці тому +3

      What he saying is it's ok for his friends but not ok for her friends

    • @xianxu137
      @xianxu137 2 місяці тому

      @Lite-TD I disagree. She said she wanted to partying with her friends at a club. then asked if he would end his friendship with his friend who cheated. I'll bet if he was going to the club with his cheater friends she would stop him.

    • @Lite-TD
      @Lite-TD 2 місяці тому +1

      @xianxu137 she never said that listen to it again, she asked if he would date someone whose friends go clubbing every weekend, not if she went clubbing so her friends going out to party even if they invited her dose not mean she herself would have went, also just because a woman is at a club dose not mean she is a slut or a bad person, but someone who is cheating is never good. Depending on the situation it could possibly affect your relationship

    • @xianxu137
      @xianxu137 2 місяці тому +1

      @Lite-TD you're correct and I'm wrong.

  • @aarbear83fierce
    @aarbear83fierce 2 місяці тому

    That boy just admitted to cheating…..

  • @DraakoTheDragon
    @DraakoTheDragon 2 місяці тому

    This scenario isn't setup or flushed out properly. When girls go out clubbing every weekend they 99% of the time are getting drunk and while drunk make bad decisions which often leads to cheating. Now that's not to say she shouldn't be friends with them but she shouldn't go clubbing every weekend now that she's in a relationship. Now for the flip. If his bro cheated on his girl he's free to be friends with him but if he's smart he would limit the interactions between his friend and his girl because his friend can't be trusted to make honorable choices.

  • @JustaStickwithGooglyEyes
    @JustaStickwithGooglyEyes 2 місяці тому

    The dividing factor is whether or not she goes out with them, which she doesn't mention.

  • @DragosMoga
    @DragosMoga 2 місяці тому +25

    If you think those two situations are the same, you are the problem.

    • @Truthtella
      @Truthtella 2 місяці тому +10

      If you don't think those situation are the same you're the real problem. Integrity is still a thing. Don't practice hypocriticacy.

    • @DragosMoga
      @DragosMoga 2 місяці тому +4

      @@Truthtella keep that buzzword for yourself, as with your kind of mindset it fits you perfectly.
      You are indeed the problem.

    • @janetconley3564
      @janetconley3564 2 місяці тому +4

      @@DragosMoga the problem is you are too simple minded to understand the fact that having friends that go out all the time does not make you a cheater just like having a friend that cheats doesn't make you a cheater but going out is not equivalent to cheating so having friends that goes out is better than having a friend that chooses to cheat

    • @DragosMoga
      @DragosMoga 2 місяці тому

      @@janetconley3564 The problem is you are comparing things however you like and think that's an argument. Good for you for having imagination I guess.
      It's a really simple subject that doesn't need your complex 4head thinking.
      The point of this video is for your kind to take offense how could a man that has a cheater friend not be a cheater himself, while if a girl goes to clubs with the hoes (a.k.a. her friends) and is being a hoe, how dare we call her a hoe.
      As I said, pretty simple. You are the 2nd problem to comment.

    • @kashfortheking
      @kashfortheking 2 місяці тому +4

      One thing I know to be certain is in at least one of those situations, someone is definitely at risk of getting a STI.

  • @aeonhelendale8777
    @aeonhelendale8777 2 місяці тому +1

    And what if you surround yourself with nobody. No friends, no family. Just a husband and a cat?

  • @farmersgrip
    @farmersgrip 2 місяці тому +2

    I can control my own actions... but I can only set my boundries for hers, so this logic checks out

  • @philr9465
    @philr9465 2 місяці тому

    Not a Real Man who operates in true Manhood of the Scriptures

  • @Ceeboyforlife
    @Ceeboyforlife 28 днів тому

    Women are influenced by the pack, she turns to them for advice. Men are taught to stand on what he himself believes.

  • @ThePredator1997
    @ThePredator1997 2 місяці тому +28

    This is so dumb, he isn't dating his friend. It's ok to have standards in a partner you won't have in a friendship.

    • @teresaakers1191
      @teresaakers1191 2 місяці тому +8

      Then it can be reversed and it could be the same thought about him.

    • @maxine2564
      @maxine2564 2 місяці тому

      Just because she’s out having fun every night, that makes her a hoe???

    • @saucyjames4999
      @saucyjames4999 2 місяці тому +6

      It is dumb. I’d be friends with a girl or a guy who goes out clubbing or cheats, but I wouldn’t date them. Big deal

    • @stuffthings1417
      @stuffthings1417 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@@teresaakers1191you made no sense. it can't be reversed.
      dating his guy friend?

    • @charminglady2011
      @charminglady2011 2 місяці тому +4

      My household do not have friends who cheat. Cheaters are liars who hate their partners. If they have no problem disrespecting their partner, think of what they can do to you. Clubbing is interesting to me though. What's wrong with dancing? I used to go with my girls with our bottled waters and fake rings and went. Lots of ladies did that. Because the majority of us just wanted to dance. It is a false equivalency.

  • @Ideaz86
    @Ideaz86 2 місяці тому

    You are who u surround urself with 😂😂

  • @eowynsetzer-storrs2856
    @eowynsetzer-storrs2856 2 місяці тому

    Most men, don't see the irony 😒

  • @MrVivi0001
    @MrVivi0001 2 місяці тому

    There is nothing's hypocritical here one is HIS woman, the other is his FRiENDS woman. What my friend is doing is not my business, what my woman is doing is. That being said person in question would never be a close friend.

  • @michelleorton1718
    @michelleorton1718 2 місяці тому +1

    Just bc I love to dance! Woe, I think people go clubing for lots of reasons and it pretty obvious why this guy is going!

  • @paulchaudoir190
    @paulchaudoir190 2 місяці тому

    Oh.... He doesn't practice what he preaches.

  • @Creon692
    @Creon692 2 місяці тому

    How many double standards do women have on men?

  • @robertmcdonald8342
    @robertmcdonald8342 2 місяці тому

    Definitely. Whether or not I agree you definitely think after you hear this. I don't think it is a double standard asmuch as an addit much as an additional component, in this case loyalty with garland there's an "us versus them" aspect.

  • @DennysMakesMusic
    @DennysMakesMusic 2 місяці тому

    The difference is the one is his partner. Not just a friend, for a friend you may not agree but hes just a friend so rly who cares other than him. Theres more emotions to relationship. Personally id say both are fine, but im explaining how its not rly a fair comparison

  • @grimreeper7225
    @grimreeper7225 2 місяці тому

    Ignorance is a Bliss...

  • @Alex-xc1xl
    @Alex-xc1xl 2 місяці тому

    When someone is cheating, they dont ask their mate to come watch and invite a willing partner for their friend to be there to. I mean, I've been looking for this situation to happen, but no luck so far.

  • @user-pc4ze8fl7d
    @user-pc4ze8fl7d 2 місяці тому

    Nor does he know why he 'cheated'

  • @Contentious_Point_
    @Contentious_Point_ 2 місяці тому

    I get what she's TRYING to say, but this is a false equivalency....

  • @pacoloco883
    @pacoloco883 2 місяці тому

    He right about the girlfriend going clubbing while their in a relationship

  • @DrDeen1828
    @DrDeen1828 2 місяці тому

    Soooo, because he's a hypocrite, we should just ignore the truth of his statement..?

    • @Truthtella
      @Truthtella 2 місяці тому +2

      No he should practice the message he's preaching.

  • @staticthewhitewolf7040
    @staticthewhitewolf7040 2 місяці тому

    We barely say 3 words to each other while spending 8 hours together. She will not stop hearing how go it is to be a 304.

  • @zombii4125
    @zombii4125 2 місяці тому

    Def different scenarios

  • @Godislove2066
    @Godislove2066 2 місяці тому

    😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Stoodle901
    @Stoodle901 2 місяці тому

    His reasoning is that you are who what you surround yourself with. If the girl is friends with ppl who club, then she must also be a ho. But if that's true then being friends with a cheater would make him a cheater.
    The issue isn't about the difference between dating and friendship standards, or between clubbing and cheating, it's about his logic: defining who someone is by their friends. He's not applying that logic on himself.

  • @christianbarrr9936
    @christianbarrr9936 2 місяці тому

    I don't get it. He said you are who you surround yourself with. He never said he wasn't a cheater. He never said he thought cheating was bad.

    • @apritellolives3920
      @apritellolives3920 2 місяці тому +1

      Lol the issue is that he said "you are who u surround yourself with" so if he is friends with cheaters that will make him....a cheater

  • @acur7227
    @acur7227 2 місяці тому +1

    I love these videos! Hahaha! Too cute!

  • @asurathemenace6915
    @asurathemenace6915 2 місяці тому

    It isn’t a double standard. Blud is definitely cheating on you

  • @DaFlawless_1
    @DaFlawless_1 2 місяці тому +16

    Cause bros are a different breed.

    • @saltycat662
      @saltycat662 2 місяці тому +1

      Yeah, they're worst.

  • @gabriellecasares2601
    @gabriellecasares2601 2 місяці тому

    Facts

  • @MsLauraLove626
    @MsLauraLove626 2 місяці тому +1

    Ughhhhhh I cannot and going clubbing doesn’t mean they are hoes but ok.. and I’m not advocating for or against it just saying clubbing doesn’t mean u take home a dude every night it just means u go out with ur girls and have fun it can mean a lot of things like wtf?

  • @derekb5455
    @derekb5455 2 місяці тому

    Make sense to me. Logic is sound.

  • @mickalinjezerx7104
    @mickalinjezerx7104 2 місяці тому

    People don't realize that this is not a contradiction. If you want to talk about it I can prove you hands down. Trying to simplify and then make it fit it's not the same thing.

    • @mickalinjezerx7104
      @mickalinjezerx7104 2 місяці тому

      Those who cannot wait and no one to prove me wrong so I give you a prime example. You got a cool relationship versus an open relationship. What happens in their private relationship have little to do with you. You can have a friend that does drugs don't mean that you're drug addict. Yet most people will be quick to agree with this. If you have a bunch of friends that's gay and you go to a gay club with them. Don't be surprised when you turn out to be gay too. Once again a lot of people will in fact agree with this. It's basically the same principle. You hear that and you say oh that's a double standard. It's not because somebody's actions have little effect on your actions. Versus you choose to be around those people in that environment. Which is more likely to affect your actions. This is literally basic psychology. Women are more likely to be socially, manipulated. Also more likely to be manipulative. Show no wonder they read into everything that somebody says or does.

    • @janetconley3564
      @janetconley3564 2 місяці тому

      ​@mickalinjezerx7104 yet men cheat more so you proved nothing. Having a cheating friend is just as likely to convince you to cheat as having friends that go out

  • @queenuthopia4003
    @queenuthopia4003 2 місяці тому

    Double triple stands

  • @james-harris
    @james-harris 2 місяці тому +4

    Two very different scenarios. If she is still clubbing with her 304 friends, very likely she a 304 too. Most guys aren’t in the bed with their cheating friend.

    • @tessw9744
      @tessw9744 2 місяці тому +3

      *"You are who you surround yourself with."*
      You missed that part? 😂

    • @apritellolives3920
      @apritellolives3920 2 місяці тому +2

      Lol it didn't say she was clubbing with them 😂

  • @lindsaygarrigues4536
    @lindsaygarrigues4536 2 місяці тому

    I don't see the problem. A guy can't have his own personal opinions? It suddenly makes him a bad person? Ridiculous.

  • @captaindred342
    @captaindred342 2 місяці тому +2

    the big difference here that most in these comments are missing is that men dont bring their friends with them when they cheat.
    Women do. They 3ncourage it. Men try to tell their bros to think about it and not ruin what they have - which is why cheating men dont go on guys trips or guys nights out. They may use that as their excuse but they dont go out with their bros, they go out with their side chick and lie about being with their bros at the bar.
    Women on the other hand.... go out clubbing with their friends or on girls trips when they looking to cheat amd expect their friends to be their accomplice, not just their alibi.
    MASSIVE DIFFERENCE

    • @Truthtella
      @Truthtella 2 місяці тому +2

      That's not true men do have their boys run game by helping pick up girls in the bar or club.

    • @janetconley3564
      @janetconley3564 2 місяці тому +2

      This is MASSIVELY delusional 😂

  • @monke12354
    @monke12354 2 місяці тому

    "Would you stay friends with your bro if you cheated on his girl?"
    What? You mean if *he* cheated on *his* girlfriend?

  • @ASW305
    @ASW305 2 місяці тому

    OK, but the drawn and didn’t breastd are killing me right now😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Felworen
    @Felworen 2 місяці тому

    Idc what her friends do but if she goes clubbing then i will leave her. Idc what my friends do in their relationships

  • @MrHoundDoug
    @MrHoundDoug 2 місяці тому

    So all girls friends go out cheating every weekend. One of boys friends cheats at least once. First question is would boy feel comfortable trusting the girl if all her friends are cheaters. The second question is about does her see himself differently because of one of his friends behaviour. Not how she might see him. A better equivalent question would be if all of his male friends were cheaters on a regular basis would be stop hanging out with them so she felt safe from being cheated on. But that would be boring and less devisive.

  • @brandonanderson2066
    @brandonanderson2066 2 місяці тому

    No and No. Not friends with sleezes of any kind

  • @brittanyjensen6358
    @brittanyjensen6358 2 місяці тому

    That's a red flag. I'd be like, BYE! ✌️

  • @Grimreaper45705
    @Grimreaper45705 2 місяці тому

    Wired differently

  • @johnboettcher1962
    @johnboettcher1962 2 місяці тому

    I cut ties with my best friend of 15 years when he started cheating on his wife.
    Your misandry is showing.

  • @r4a2g0
    @r4a2g0 2 місяці тому

    How about we use similar analogies for this instead. I would not go out clubbing with my friends just as i expect her not to. She would remain friends with her cheating friends as i will mine.

  • @urbanvr
    @urbanvr 2 місяці тому +2

    Men and women are different. Women follow one another. They take each other's advice. They say the same things. Do the same things. Into the same things. Dress the same. Etc etc etc. Generally speaking. Men are not like that. We do our thing regardless. We're men.

  • @JuliusTurner-hm6ff
    @JuliusTurner-hm6ff 2 місяці тому +17

    Here comes the masculine excuses. Lol.

    • @XIII.1337
      @XIII.1337 2 місяці тому

      Not at all. Women are quick in excuses for slutty behaviour 😂 if I had a friend since childhood and he would cheat on his girl I would not approve this but he would still be my friend.
      1 case is about MY girlfriend doing slutty things with friend circle with slutty behaviour
      2 case is having a single friend who cheated without context whatsoever
      Imagine I had only male friends who all would do drugs, drink, do felonies, cheat, lye.
      See the difference ?
      Happy to help you out

    • @soapboxer6711
      @soapboxer6711 2 місяці тому +1

      Cuddle fish

  • @miguelmagana3691
    @miguelmagana3691 2 місяці тому

    My boys don’t cheat on their girl so no you right.

  • @korvonfrancis6552
    @korvonfrancis6552 2 місяці тому

    Females in the comment trying to compare apples to oranges, nice try though.