ranting about my attachment issues (i cry at the end lol)

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  • Опубліковано 11 гру 2024

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  • @AlexMontahon
    @AlexMontahon 4 місяці тому +3

    From a semi-retired performance arts teacher, counselor, songwriter and performance artist some advice to avoid burnout: "do what you must then do what you want". Since you so love your art you'll find when performing becomes your "work" you will be in your element. For me, the actual work was travelling, setting up stages, dealing with clients,...mostly not so bad but always with the focus on getting on that stage.
    Music is great therapy and few know the joys in creating new music and the thrill of preforming it. Turn to creating and refining your work when you are so called as I'm sure you often are.
    Despite all the hardships you're enduring now you have a star quality shining through. I'm sure I'll be hearing much more of you in the future. Stay strong and take care!

  • @robertflynn4215
    @robertflynn4215 4 місяці тому

    I realize when times are moving Faster by the time I was in 4th grade I was standing on top of a playground equipment and I just looked around and I had this revelation that I was getting older and I was basically growing up and I realized my time in this school was coming to an end and I just kept happening at by the time I ended my grade school junior high and High School so you're not alone in this. All we can do now is spend our time as much as we can where we can and hope we have people around us or our dreams become a reality. But always speak your mind never let anybody called you up or tell you to ignore these feelings or thoughts that basically creep up to you because you realize how time speeds up slows down or just kind of doesn't exist. You deserve to be you and no one can tell you otherwise always remember that and you can do no wrong🖤🌈🤍🤘

  • @hw_plainview1179
    @hw_plainview1179 4 місяці тому +1

    I really liked listening to your story.

  • @hw_plainview1179
    @hw_plainview1179 4 місяці тому

    Time ticks by, how imperfect the impermanence of it all. But I never did mind about the little things. Me, I'm long for this world. Sort of like in sports how you have to let the game come to you. Sometimes you have to let life come to you. Just keep your eyes open to opportunities as they present themselves.

  • @Paasy
    @Paasy 4 місяці тому +1

    The reason why we feel like time moves faster with age, is our development. As a child, everything is new and refreshing. Almost everything you see is forming who you are and creates new pathways in your brain. The older you get, the more you have experienced and those experiences don't "hit" that hard anymore. Our Memory is bound to emotions, that's why people that love certain things in school for example, learn it faster.
    And one big thing i can tell you from own experience. Everybody is fucking different, but most of us try to life the live of someone else. Do what you love and don't force to be someone you are not. The last 2 years showed me that the path society forced on me, is simply not for me. I want to be free, develop myself, help people and care for a family later. That's why i stopped giving a fuck what other tell me who i should be and nowadays do my shit.
    One thing i feel from listening to you, is a introverted tendency to overthink. I am an INFJ and love that shit, but it can have a bad influence on how i feel. I had to learn to shut my head off from time to time and just do. I had luck for having a really bad time and stopped caring, but after that i noticed that these chains that hold me back, are just imaginary.
    In Germany we have a saying that goes along the lines of: "you are the architect of your own fortune". I hope my insight could help you a bit, even if its quite general.

  • @ByThePond
    @ByThePond 4 місяці тому +1

    What kind of cars do you like?

  • @justinhasan9155
    @justinhasan9155 3 місяці тому +2

    I swear sweety let it go let all of it go whether private or public k, do you ok always

  • @dimitrijem9356
    @dimitrijem9356 3 місяці тому

    Whats your zodiac sign?

    • @LiliMelt
      @LiliMelt  3 місяці тому +1

      pisces

    • @dimitrijem9356
      @dimitrijem9356 3 місяці тому

      @@LiliMelt oh dear,it explains a lot...they are sensitive and feel deep,they can be melancholic from time to time and often have daydreaming periods...you can search it for more and find yourself and understand yourself in some situations,whats your rising sign and moon sign?

    • @LiliMelt
      @LiliMelt  3 місяці тому +1

      @@dimitrijem9356 pisces sun, sag moon and aries rising

    • @dimitrijem9356
      @dimitrijem9356 3 місяці тому

      @@LiliMelt Hmmm..its heavy,aries rising are honest people and they cant hide how they feel about someone/something,heart on sleeve.sag moon are great students of life,philosophers....saw your videos and this astro combinations explains you,ofc mars and venus signs are important,i can read your whole chart,where can i contact you,any social media beside youtube?

  • @voyagersmarch8776
    @voyagersmarch8776 4 місяці тому

    well if you're anxious on being an adult, you can always be my baby