Great vid! I think a lot of us greatly struggle with criticism and I personally know my own reaction to it usually leads to some type of rebellion 😂. Small, tiny measures of rebellion but it really is for my own sanity. It’s hard. HARD to move past criticism from any angle. I just think about it, talk it out with myself and determine it’s was, like you said, that person’s problem/ unhappiness in their zone. Probably lashing out like a trapped tiger. Now I just try to smile and quietly shake my head. So much time can be consumed focusing on the negative that we forget what is so good in our lives. The simple things like a great coffee in the morning, a beautiful sunrise, crisp cold air in your lungs, a sweet cat rubbing your leg for snacks and a pat on the back… bringing yourself back to these small but meaningful places helps with the fowl rank unhappiness around us. Always remember it’s easier to destroy than to create. Peace and love- and Happy holidays ❤
Thank you. I’m an INFP. I take everything so personally. I’m extremely self-critical and I figured out it’s likely to make sure I figure out stuff and do it right before someone else can criticize it. It’s great to see there is hope. Thank you for making this video as a real example of how it’s possible to overcome this.
Yeah great advice! Had some guy criticize my handwriting and telling me to change it and i am glad i could just let it go. I think there is a difference though between just nasty commentd and constructive criticism. I'm still learning how to integrate constructive criticism to get better.
You're the best psychologist for us INFP. And an inspiration, too. No one understands us better. (I'm typing this and I want to delete this comment in fear of criticism)
You have to admit that the guy's comment was really low! I put everything I've got into what I care about, so I think I will always be sensitive to criticism. But criticism does act as a mirror for your actions. If you really care about something you want to get it right! However, if you really care about something, how can you not do it? In the end I may have some reflective paralysis, but I pick myself up and start again.
I took a new personality test through, dating app and it said i am an infp, when i read info, it resonates with me, but this whole time i was thinking i was infj. Does infj resonate with any of you fellow infp's? Also yes im still terrified everytime but continue to post and create videos and each time it gets easier
Hello :) Take a look at the cognitive function and how they present themselves in daily life.For Infp the function stack is Introverted Feeling,Extroverted Intuition,Introverted Sensing and Extroverted Thinking. For the Infj it will be Introverted Intuition,Extroverted Feeling,Introverted Thinking and Extroverted Sensing. Although they might appear very similar on the outside ,infp and infj are very different in the way their brain operates. Maybe one helpful thing is to figure out to what kind of behavioral pattern you fall back into when stressed.Or where you are most insecure. Good luck :)
@@majamayer3138 great ! thanks man, I haven't studied enough to understand the differences between them all. it all sounds like calculous to me haha. I will keep researching, once I took the first Myers Brigs test, all I watched was INFJ videos that may be a reason. Why I was led off course. Thanks for the help, when im stressed or experience and adverse experience, i tend to go inwards and ruminate over whatever happened. its painful, but now i can control it. i think this is what lead me to smoking marijuana in the past because it was such a relief to smoke, and retreat to my cave away from the outside world and hide in my fantasy world, and process all the bs i went through that day.
Great vid! I think a lot of us greatly struggle with criticism and I personally know my own reaction to it usually leads to some type of rebellion 😂. Small, tiny measures of rebellion but it really is for my own sanity. It’s hard. HARD to move past criticism from any angle. I just think about it, talk it out with myself and determine it’s was, like you said, that person’s problem/ unhappiness in their zone. Probably lashing out like a trapped tiger. Now I just try to smile and quietly shake my head. So much time can be consumed focusing on the negative that we forget what is so good in our lives. The simple things like a great coffee in the morning, a beautiful sunrise, crisp cold air in your lungs, a sweet cat rubbing your leg for snacks and a pat on the back… bringing yourself back to these small but meaningful places helps with the fowl rank unhappiness around us. Always remember it’s easier to destroy than to create. Peace and love- and Happy holidays ❤
Thank you. I’m an INFP. I take everything so personally. I’m extremely self-critical and I figured out it’s likely to make sure I figure out stuff and do it right before someone else can criticize it.
It’s great to see there is hope. Thank you for making this video as a real example of how it’s possible to overcome this.
Yeah great advice!
Had some guy criticize my handwriting and telling me to change it and i am glad i could just let it go.
I think there is a difference though between just nasty commentd and constructive criticism. I'm still learning how to integrate constructive criticism to get better.
You're the best psychologist for us INFP. And an inspiration, too. No one understands us better. (I'm typing this and I want to delete this comment in fear of criticism)
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I think this was the push I needed to get started with a creative project I’ve been putting off ❤Thanks Brendan!
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I do not enjoy criticism, but I do value it, although it may take me a while to appreciate it.
You have to admit that the guy's comment was really low! I put everything I've got into what I care about, so I think I will always be sensitive to criticism. But criticism does act as a mirror for your actions. If you really care about something you want to get it right! However, if you really care about something, how can you not do it? In the end I may have some reflective paralysis, but I pick myself up and start again.
I took a new personality test through, dating app and it said i am an infp, when i read info, it resonates with me, but this whole time i was thinking i was infj.
Does infj resonate with any of you fellow infp's?
Also yes im still terrified everytime but continue to post and create videos and each time it gets easier
Hello :)
Take a look at the cognitive function and how they present themselves in daily life.For Infp the function stack is Introverted Feeling,Extroverted Intuition,Introverted Sensing and Extroverted Thinking.
For the Infj it will be Introverted Intuition,Extroverted Feeling,Introverted Thinking and Extroverted Sensing.
Although they might appear very similar on the outside ,infp and infj are very different in the way their brain operates.
Maybe one helpful thing is to figure out to what kind of behavioral pattern you fall back into when stressed.Or where you are most insecure.
Good luck :)
@@majamayer3138 great ! thanks man, I haven't studied enough to understand the differences between them all. it all sounds like calculous to me haha. I will keep researching, once I took the first Myers Brigs test, all I watched was INFJ videos that may be a reason. Why I was led off course. Thanks for the help, when im stressed or experience and adverse experience, i tend to go inwards and ruminate over whatever happened. its painful, but now i can control it.
i think this is what lead me to smoking marijuana in the past because it was such a relief to smoke, and retreat to my cave away from the outside world and hide in my fantasy world, and process all the bs i went through that day.