It takes me a long time come to a conclusion on what I feel or think. When an idea or situation is fresh, I'm very likely to go along with what the other person said because I haven't had a chance to think about it yet. However after I have made up my mind I may be disagreeable.
absolutely accurate!! I never fold on my Fi Values and they are Clear - yet I am extremely agreeable until they have to be defended. And while I firmly disagree and challenge a person or collective - I am super kind and bridge-building before - during - and after. Even if I get really worked up and have to scream and use radical words in order to get a cross - which seldom happens, but if it does it lasts seconds to affirm a boundary.
Yes, it's so accurate. I'm definitely not complaining about the situation, but I'm always thinking about everything that is happening and immediately checking how it feels even unconsciously. But suddenly, when I have to defend myself quickly or anything else, there I am knowing exactly why I'm standing for something that not everyone understands in that moment. People around may doubt my intentions and try to guess where I came from, but there is always an energy in the room revealing that they know I have a really big chance to be right about my decision and judgments behind my actions. All this chemical that happens inside of us may be unconscious, silent during the process but so loud when we express it that sometimes people hate to admit they would never be able to judge so accurately as we do. It's just unique. We should be prouder.
Yes I agree. And I saw your other video and right away thought this was referencing that. I don’t know if I commented on the last one, but my thought was to put boards with nails in the bags so if he rolls over them again he gets a flat. I hope I didn’t post that, but somehow it seems okay to say it on this post.
1. Damn you, UA-cam, for not algorithming this channel to me until now! 2. Love you, UA-cam, for suggesting this channel to me! INTP here, and both excited and bit uneasy why so many of your points resonate so hard (not just from this vid, from binge watching the shorts)
Ti works pretty similarly to Fi imo. My younger sister is an INTP, I’m an INFP. Our thought process on stuff (especially when it comes to values) is very aligned. Like what the guy says in this vid resonates with my sister too
I feel like I’ll appear to be agreeable because I’m hearing you out and giving you the benefit of the doubt. I’ll need time to process what was said and see how I actually feel on it, but my silence and willingness to hear you out can be taken as agreement. I think it’s fair to hear someone out which taps into my sense of justice. A lot of times I’ll disagree but keep it to myself unless I’m pushed to share. As far as being a peace keeper while maintaining my own stand, yes. I would also try to make peace from a distance like via letter text or email simply because sour feelings are uncomfortable to leave just hanging there without trying to smooth it over.
I would say that’s definitely accurate. In the same vein of being agreeable when disagreeing, many-a-time, someone with a differing viewpoint from me (as in morally conflicting and opposed to my view) will try to sell me their point and seemingly be flabbergasted that after all of my head-nodding and looks of introspection at what they’re saying I still hold to my original view 😂 I think that most people think that if you’re not arguing every point they make, then they must be convincing you. also, that letter was nail-on-the-head something I would do as an INFP and I’ve found myself in very similar situations as well! Loved the video! ❤
Мге самой интересно если меня разозлить смогу ли я быть очень противной и злой... Пока у меня таких ситуаций не было.. Одно знаю точно что я буду очень сильно переживать, чувствуя себя виноватой во всем с радостью плйду на перемирие и постараюсь сгладить свои ошибки.. Я как ИНФП бываю вредной) но потом чувствую сильное раскаяние что кого-то обидела..
It takes me a long time come to a conclusion on what I feel or think. When an idea or situation is fresh, I'm very likely to go along with what the other person said because I haven't had a chance to think about it yet. However after I have made up my mind I may be disagreeable.
absolutely accurate!! I never fold on my Fi Values and they are Clear - yet I am extremely agreeable until they have to be defended. And while I firmly disagree and challenge a person or collective - I am super kind and bridge-building before - during - and after. Even if I get really worked up and have to scream and use radical words in order to get a cross - which seldom happens, but if it does it lasts seconds to affirm a boundary.
Yes, it's so accurate. I'm definitely not complaining about the situation, but I'm always thinking about everything that is happening and immediately checking how it feels even unconsciously. But suddenly, when I have to defend myself quickly or anything else, there I am knowing exactly why I'm standing for something that not everyone understands in that moment. People around may doubt my intentions and try to guess where I came from, but there is always an energy in the room revealing that they know I have a really big chance to be right about my decision and judgments behind my actions. All this chemical that happens inside of us may be unconscious, silent during the process but so loud when we express it that sometimes people hate to admit they would never be able to judge so accurately as we do. It's just unique. We should be prouder.
Yes I agree. And I saw your other video and right away thought this was referencing that. I don’t know if I commented on the last one, but my thought was to put boards with nails in the bags so if he rolls over them again he gets a flat. I hope I didn’t post that, but somehow it seems okay to say it on this post.
1. Damn you, UA-cam, for not algorithming this channel to me until now!
2. Love you, UA-cam, for suggesting this channel to me!
INTP here, and both excited and bit uneasy why so many of your points resonate so hard (not just from this vid, from binge watching the shorts)
Ti works pretty similarly to Fi imo. My younger sister is an INTP, I’m an INFP. Our thought process on stuff (especially when it comes to values) is very aligned. Like what the guy says in this vid resonates with my sister too
Glad you found the channel 😊
I feel like I’ll appear to be agreeable because I’m hearing you out and giving you the benefit of the doubt. I’ll need time to process what was said and see how I actually feel on it, but my silence and willingness to hear you out can be taken as agreement. I think it’s fair to hear someone out which taps into my sense of justice. A lot of times I’ll disagree but keep it to myself unless I’m pushed to share.
As far as being a peace keeper while maintaining my own stand, yes. I would also try to make peace from a distance like via letter text or email simply because sour feelings are uncomfortable to leave just hanging there without trying to smooth it over.
I would say that’s definitely accurate. In the same vein of being agreeable when disagreeing, many-a-time, someone with a differing viewpoint from me (as in morally conflicting and opposed to my view) will try to sell me their point and seemingly be flabbergasted that after all of my head-nodding and looks of introspection at what they’re saying I still hold to my original view 😂 I think that most people think that if you’re not arguing every point they make, then they must be convincing you. also, that letter was nail-on-the-head something I would do as an INFP and I’ve found myself in very similar situations as well! Loved the video! ❤
This!! lol! Thank you for writing it out.
It’s 200% accurate in my case😅
Completely agree, I’ve mended fences multiple times just by going back to them and saying something along the lines of I overreacted
Мге самой интересно если меня разозлить смогу ли я быть очень противной и злой... Пока у меня таких ситуаций не было.. Одно знаю точно что я буду очень сильно переживать, чувствуя себя виноватой во всем с радостью плйду на перемирие и постараюсь сгладить свои ошибки..
Я как ИНФП бываю вредной) но потом чувствую сильное раскаяние что кого-то обидела..