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1) purpose - do you know where you are going? If so, do they complement it. - Purpose is your life bullseye, without purpose you live aimlessly. What is the purpose of your marriage? - Value of purpose helps you in hard times and helps you have a life target in order to be progressive - Don’t marry a snack because it will not fulfil you, you were just hungry/ looking aimless. Purpose helps you to not entertain junk food. 2) accountability - irritating but nutritious. 3) boundaries aka “ just in case” - be mindful about things that can lead to sin. Be diligent. Be intentional. Don’t test your strength or self control, be humble and acknowledge the flesh is weak. 4) Healthy/ Unhealthy - is scripture boss? - is there any fruitful? - share values that serve God 5) are you friends????? Romance is killing us. Establish friendship
Man... When he said trying to unlearn survival tactics...whew, that is me. That hits home. I've went through the healing, still healing but trying to unlearn the mindset of survival mode and letting go of defense mechanisms is much work to be done. I withdraw so fast, be silent, and lock myself in my room lol this was so good! When y'all starting y'all church btw Pastor and First Lady Grey? I need a church home Asap! Lol! Great episode!Keep them coming!😂🙏🙏
For Me it all came down to this: can and how will My 'One' help compliment My Kingdom Assignment and Me Theirs? Purpose is SO important and You need to know it long before You even start dating because it determines Who God will plcae before You. AND am I willing enough to allow God to choose FOR Me rather than My choice. God chose Mine and all I can say is "THANK YOU JESUS!"
When I was going through it, he was also one of the videos in my timeline. His and his wife’s ministry was amazing and I’m so happy to see this collaboration !!
Aww man this was SO edifying for me! Thank yall both so much! SO many nuggets! Your relationship needs PURPOSE!" If you don't know where you're going, you won't know who to take with you." "Purpose fixes problems. Purpose is your life's bullseye. If you don't know it you will live aimless." My Lord. What is the purpose of your relationship? smh Marrying snacks that don't fulfill you...WOO! lol AWESOME. And I love the idea of having spiritual leaders to help you be ACCOUNTABLE in your relationship, so it’s more than just going back and forth with your partner and checking each other. Removes that blaming or kind of power struggle within the relationship that may come up if you and your partner are trying to hold each other accountable. And the Ushers: things that point you to something you're trying to resist!! love it. Just in case your flesh gets on one lol! Signs of a healthy relationship: IS SCRIPTURE BOSS?? IS THERE ANY FRUIT?! not just potential. DO WE HAVE A COMMON GOAL THAT GLORIFIES GOD? the same belief about God. And he definitely stepped all on my toes when he said "How is she when she doesn't get her way?" WOO! For me, When the communication level is not up to par, I will get silent, fall way back and just stop communicating. Jesus help me. O man and the SERVING! Is the man doing anything that's not for money?? HALLELUJAH! Chasing money can become such an idol! Loved hearing that. Just so much HALLELUJAH in this episode. THANK YOU!
I love your channel. Its such a blessing to me. I turn to it on a regular basis (daily) when I need encoragement to keep focused on Gods path for me in the dating world. God bless you and your wife.
Spiritually being married to Spirits, which is why Most men and women attract the same "types" of "toxic/abusive" people they just left. Because they Are in a Spiritual Bondage is what I thought about at the @29:00 mark. Learned alot
Amen! Pastor Flowers has definitely blessed me! Gave me a whole perspective on healthy kingdom marriage and so much more! Thanking God for his obedience. Truly a world changer, so anointed 🙏🏾✝️
Truly an awesome show! I've been listening to you both for quite some time now and was very edified by the conversation. I will have to disagree about the male vs female ratio because statistically men very slightly outnumber women right now. The issue with female believers is there is a drought of kingdom men while the church is saturated with a majority of sincere godly women waiting to be found by their husband. However, I do agree that there isn't a "One" person. What happens if your spouse passes away? Are you never to marry again because "the one" is no longer here? It is possible that God will give you another spouse.
This was so needed! I have been a follower for years of both of your platforms and I'm so grateful for the collaboration and togetherness of giving advice to those of us watching and listening! God bless both of your ministries!
This cracked me up !!! And it’s such the truth . You said has a difficult earth suit and god said this is my will this what i have for you that cracked me up so bad !!!
I have only been attracted to one man in my life. But this man is not a strong believer and does not follow God's word consistently. I thought it was God's way of saying "this is the one" since I have never been able to feel attraction before. But I also don't believe God would lead me to someone who has weak faith. Why would God make me only attracted to one person? There are many others out there like me and I wonder if they see this one person as "the one".
You have the rest of your life to live including tomorrow. You don’t know if you will meet another man that you are attracted to. God would not send you, as a believer, a non-believer to marry. You can go ahead and choose one, but don’t put God’s name on it. His Word is clear and the Holy Spirit will also confirm it.
This is nice! But do you guys believe you have to know your purpose fully before you get in a relationship. Someone’s purpose may be just to live a life to glorify God. So what if someone doesn’t know their specific purpose. I just find that hard to believe you shouldn’t date if you don’t … because you may be waking the path to it unknowingly
I have a question about waiting for marriage. I understand that God wants a couple to wait until the wedding day, but what if a couple can't afford to throw a wedding. You know how expensive and incredibly stressful weddings are, so does that mean the couple don't get to 'enjoy' each other because of money????
@@GodlyDating101 what I'm asking is what if one partner wants a grand wedding and won't get intimate until there is one. Or are you saying a simple court wedding is OK in the Bible?
I absolutely LOVE this page! I have been listening nonstop since I was recommended! But why are you sponsoring a therapy counseling group who does not have the spirit of God ? They can't help NONE of God's people without his Spirit. We do not wrestle against flesh and blood. I love your page ! But sponsoring an unGodly group before talking about our REAL healer, actually our ONLY healer kind of contradicts don't ya think ? NO HATE AT ALL ! I love you and your wife
How amazing was this interview with Pastor Jerry? 🔥🔥
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That man said "some of yall marrying SNACKS when you were supposed to go to the grocery store for a full meal" 🔥🔥
😂😂😂
1) purpose - do you know where you are going? If so, do they complement it.
- Purpose is your life bullseye, without purpose you live aimlessly. What is the purpose of your marriage?
- Value of purpose helps you in hard times and helps you have a life target in order to be progressive
- Don’t marry a snack because it will not fulfil you, you were just hungry/ looking aimless. Purpose helps you to not entertain junk food.
2) accountability - irritating but nutritious.
3) boundaries aka “ just in case” - be mindful about things that can lead to sin. Be diligent. Be intentional. Don’t test your strength or self control, be humble and acknowledge the flesh is weak.
4) Healthy/ Unhealthy
- is scripture boss?
- is there any fruitful?
- share values that serve God
5) are you friends????? Romance is killing us. Establish friendship
Thanksss
Yess Amen! LOVEEE ME some redefined tv! Him and his wife’s ministry has been such a life changer for me and MORE!!
Exactly every married person went through singleness!!!!! If someone can pass on wisdom definitely listen…
Paul wasn’t married and gave most advice in the Bible. People don’t even realize that lol
@@GodlyDating101 exactly. The true wisdom comes from holy spirit no matter who He chooses to use in the process.
Man... When he said trying to unlearn survival tactics...whew, that is me. That hits home. I've went through the healing, still healing but trying to unlearn the mindset of survival mode and letting go of defense mechanisms is much work to be done. I withdraw so fast, be silent, and lock myself in my room lol this was so good! When y'all starting y'all church btw Pastor and First Lady Grey? I need a church home Asap! Lol! Great episode!Keep them coming!😂🙏🙏
Lolol! We will see how that goes some day👀
I have been subscribed to Pastor Jerry since the start of the pandemic and his ministry has been such a life changing experience in my life.
Pastor Jerry Flowers is 🔥🔥🔥🔥and TRUTH! Can't wait to hear this😁💯
Yes, Redefined TV is a life changer…Jerry makes the word of God so relatable.
Jerry Flowers is Top 3 Best Bible Teachers/Pastors. Argue with me!
This was RICH!!! "Accountability isn't a pacifier, it's a purifier"! Looking forward to the next time y'all two are together!
😂 A “troubled earth suit”.
😂😂😂😂 when I tell you I howled
Dude speaks on point and is quick witted, love that!
Excellent guest choice👍🏼(Pastor Flowers)...much wisdom, edifying and spiritually inspiring teaching! Thoroughly enjoyed this!🕊⚔🔥❤🤵🏽👰🏽♂️
Pastor Flowers and his wife are truly amazing and show such an example of a kingdom marriage. He is raw and real and so humble.
For Me it all came down to this: can and how will My 'One' help compliment My Kingdom Assignment and Me Theirs? Purpose is SO important and You need to know it long before You even start dating because it determines Who God will plcae before You. AND am I willing enough to allow God to choose FOR Me rather than My choice. God chose Mine and all I can say is "THANK YOU JESUS!"
Yessssss!!!! Love this ministry 🔥 Jerry and Tanisha are amazing!!
God uses Pastor Flowers in a mighty way! So blessed to have stumbled upon his ministry ❤️
This was amazing!!. 😊😊 Im new to the faith. I’m loving this Channel.❤️
When I was going through it, he was also one of the videos in my timeline. His and his wife’s ministry was amazing and I’m so happy to see this collaboration !!
This was so on point and on time for me! Just straight nuggets of knowledge the whole way through!
Aww man this was SO edifying for me! Thank yall both so much! SO many nuggets!
Your relationship needs PURPOSE!" If you don't know where you're going, you won't know who to take with you." "Purpose fixes problems. Purpose is your life's bullseye. If you don't know it you will live aimless." My Lord. What is the purpose of your relationship? smh
Marrying snacks that don't fulfill you...WOO! lol AWESOME.
And I love the idea of having spiritual leaders to help you be ACCOUNTABLE in your relationship, so it’s more than just going back and forth with your partner and checking each other. Removes that blaming or kind of power struggle within the relationship that may come up if you and your partner are trying to hold each other accountable.
And the Ushers: things that point you to something you're trying to resist!! love it. Just in case your flesh gets on one lol!
Signs of a healthy relationship:
IS SCRIPTURE BOSS?? IS THERE ANY FRUIT?! not just potential. DO WE HAVE A COMMON GOAL THAT GLORIFIES GOD? the same belief about God.
And he definitely stepped all on my toes when he said "How is she when she doesn't get her way?" WOO! For me, When the communication level is not up to par, I will get silent, fall way back and just stop communicating. Jesus help me.
O man and the SERVING! Is the man doing anything that's not for money?? HALLELUJAH! Chasing money can become such an idol! Loved hearing that.
Just so much HALLELUJAH in this episode. THANK YOU!
Let me tell you. I wish I had found this ministry sooner. I love how God uses Mr and Mrs Flowers. The is a Godsent ministry.
I love your channel. Its such a blessing to me. I turn to it on a regular basis (daily) when I need encoragement to keep focused on Gods path for me in the dating world. God bless you and your wife.
Pastor Flowers- the GOAT! 🙌🏾
Spiritually being married to Spirits, which is why Most men and women attract the same "types" of "toxic/abusive" people they just left. Because they Are in a Spiritual Bondage is what I thought about at the @29:00 mark.
Learned alot
Amen! Pastor Flowers has definitely blessed me! Gave me a whole perspective on healthy kingdom marriage and so much more! Thanking God for his obedience. Truly a world changer, so anointed 🙏🏾✝️
Awesome Dialogue thank you both.
This man is just flowing out gems, thank you for bringing him on. I’m subscribing to him as well. God bless you both 🙏🏽
This whole thing is clutch
I am so excited, Pastor Flowers about to come with the sauce!!!! I believe that both of them are about to pour out some gems.
Yes sir I listen to Mr J as well. This is soooo good. Excellent points
Excited to hear this discussion🙌
thank you gentlemen for this insightful conversation. I found it empowering.
Literally one of the BEST podcast that I’ve heard !!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Words of wisdom 🙌🏾
Truly an awesome show! I've been listening to you both for quite some time now and was very edified by the conversation. I will have to disagree about the male vs female ratio because statistically men very slightly outnumber women right now. The issue with female believers is there is a drought of kingdom men while the church is saturated with a majority of sincere godly women waiting to be found by their husband. However, I do agree that there isn't a "One" person. What happens if your spouse passes away? Are you never to marry again because "the one" is no longer here? It is possible that God will give you another spouse.
This was so needed! I have been a follower for years of both of your platforms and I'm so grateful for the collaboration and togetherness of giving advice to those of us watching and listening! God bless both of your ministries!
2024 this is still of value
Awesome, lots of wisdom shared!
This was very needed and informational. Great questions. Thank you for allowing yourself to be used.
Bro this was so on fire...great wisdom from Pastor Flowers as always...
Great video all the way around! Love redefined TV and your ministry ! Blessings to everyone!
Wow Some Great Metaphors Blessedth are these men
JERRY! JERRY! JERRY!!!
Love him & Tanisha!!!!!
This episode really blessed me thank you and may God bless you all!!
so many things that were confirmed for me, I needed this. thanks so much!! love Jerry! pt.2.
Too much wisdom 🙌
Twenty minutes in and this video is soooo good
What a great, truly inspiring stories you have ❤️🙌 I wish there were more UA-camrs like you. All the best 😇
This was a good dang on conversation that I needed to hear. Thank you for this men of God 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 I’ve been given clarity
Thank you awesome information definitely appreciated this video, God bless
God give me your wisdom!
Wow.. this is good teaching!🙌🏾
This cracked me up !!! And it’s such the truth . You said has a difficult earth suit and god said this is my will this what i have for you that cracked me up so bad !!!
❤🙏so much enjoyed This Video
That’s was 🔥🔥🔥
This was sooooo dope! All of this is extremely encouraging!
Thanks for joining the community. I’ll start dropping links in the membership fam that connects you with the perks that Patreon also receives.
@@GodlyDating101 of course! I have to support so that you can continue to do what you do!
Loved it! 💕
I’m done with “snacks” . 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Please do a video called "PLEASE FRIEND ZONE ME" Mr. Jerry flowers
I have a 10 am meeting that better end by 11!
This is so good!
This is dope
Pastor Jerry
I love Jerry Flowers 💛
Marrying snacks 🤣…wow so good
TOO GOOD
I have only been attracted to one man in my life. But this man is not a strong believer and does not follow God's word consistently. I thought it was God's way of saying "this is the one" since I have never been able to feel attraction before. But I also don't believe God would lead me to someone who has weak faith. Why would God make me only attracted to one person? There are many others out there like me and I wonder if they see this one person as "the one".
I’m glad you caught that sis! Could definitely be a trap.
You have the rest of your life to live including tomorrow. You don’t know if you will meet another man that you are attracted to. God would not send you, as a believer, a non-believer to marry. You can go ahead and choose one, but don’t put God’s name on it. His Word is clear and the Holy Spirit will also confirm it.
This is nice! But do you guys believe you have to know your purpose fully before you get in a relationship. Someone’s purpose may be just to live a life to glorify God. So what if someone doesn’t know their specific purpose. I just find that hard to believe you shouldn’t date if you don’t … because you may be waking the path to it unknowingly
Wow what is the purpose of your marriage?
Powerful
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This was too goooood
I have a question about waiting for marriage. I understand that God wants a couple to wait until the wedding day, but what if a couple can't afford to throw a wedding. You know how expensive and incredibly stressful weddings are, so does that mean the couple don't get to 'enjoy' each other because of money????
Not sure what you’re asking. You don’t need a wedding celebration in order to be married or have a happy union.
@@GodlyDating101 what I'm asking is what if one partner wants a grand wedding and won't get intimate until there is one. Or are you saying a simple court wedding is OK in the Bible?
🏄🏾♀️✅ be friends
Disney Mindset-Jesusss
Please let the guest talk more
I absolutely LOVE this page! I have been listening nonstop since I was recommended! But why are you sponsoring a therapy counseling group who does not have the spirit of God ? They can't help NONE of God's people without his Spirit. We do not wrestle against flesh and blood. I love your page ! But sponsoring an unGodly group before talking about our REAL healer, actually our ONLY healer kind of contradicts don't ya think ? NO HATE AT ALL ! I love you and your wife
The amounts of men and women are about even. Men actually outnumber women a little
I don’t think those are the top 3 qualities to a godly man.
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