“YOUR FRIENDS DON’T UNDERSTAND YOUR GROWTH” (EP. 77)

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  • @MyVlogTherapy
    @MyVlogTherapy Рік тому +23

    “If you wanna really grow, get a woman.” 🔥
    Good for you.. the next level of growth is learning inside of a partnership relationship.

  • @instrinsiclove
    @instrinsiclove Рік тому +22

    I am a Jalon stan🖤 but it was Duke for me this episode. I laughed and yelled in agreement multiple times😂 the “I said what I said energy” was flexin!

    • @GimmieDiLoot
      @GimmieDiLoot Рік тому +1

      Nah Jalon was in his bag on this episode lol..He was making perfect sense to me but they are all 3 intelligent brothers. I love it 🖤

  • @Themelissaeppingermorningshow
    @Themelissaeppingermorningshow Рік тому +15

    Y’all definitely have a good thing going on. It’s actually great, needed, and necessary

  • @Lovealwayswins512
    @Lovealwayswins512 Рік тому +32

    Another GREAT episode!! Got my daughter hooked after sending one to her. Thankful to the parents who raised you three black men 🔥 Would love to see ya'll start a Mentorship Academy program for young men . You can use all of these topics from your videos. Keep up the GREAT work 🙏 ❤

    • @roots4140
      @roots4140 Рік тому

      Agreed. It's refreshing to see black men on UA-cam speaking from their perspective. There's hope after all! Lol

  • @Me-px7js
    @Me-px7js Рік тому +11

    I would love for you guys to share more of how you became friends and each share what the other 2 bring to the table. Also, I would love Duke’s culture to be addressed. How Nigerian was his household and to hear how the others think it impacted him. Sometimes I wonder if that’s where the directness and his unwavering stances comes from. He seems to be good at taking emotion out of things

  • @Divine__Hala
    @Divine__Hala 4 місяці тому

    This was good! The whole people feeling left or jealous when it’s really that they can’t find their place of value in your life as you grow was good!

  • @simonelelon
    @simonelelon Рік тому +7

    Watching you guys make me feel like I am with my older brothers. I love it!

  • @naynayhi93
    @naynayhi93 Рік тому +12

    Y’all are super in tune with yourselves and I love that the most! The high intelligence oozes out in how y’all communicate in this podcast. My ears are always open

  • @soniaevans1
    @soniaevans1 Рік тому +1

    The grammar doesn’t matter, the heart does. Well done

  • @emanibabin
    @emanibabin Рік тому +5

    As a Duke Stan, I am throwing my shoe at the tv!!! Duke preach the worddddddd!!! Lol Nothing but straight factssss!!! I love his input every time. I’m not taking no Duke slander😭 I’m not taking no Nice and neat slander but def not about Duke😂🤞🏽🫶🏽

  • @JaNyaJohnson
    @JaNyaJohnson Рік тому +11

    Another Banger! 🎉I can’t tell you how you guys have coached me through learning how to communicate things to friends/ family/ coworkers and my significant other.The impact is beyond the views, thank you Big bros! #niceandneat

  • @debrawilliams2781
    @debrawilliams2781 Рік тому +4

    With God in your life answers will be given and there WILL BE NO VOIDS!!!

  • @calvinfelton4077
    @calvinfelton4077 3 місяці тому

    Great conversation. It's funny hearing this out loud. Everyone reaches emotional maturity at different times. Charge is inevitable but it's how you handle it. Charge is going to happen regardless. 🔥 Convo 💯

  • @marybutidk
    @marybutidk Рік тому +3

    26:21 come thruuu Omar!!! I was thinking that!! Duke you’d have to communicate that friend 🥹 you’ll need to be sure y’all seein eye to eye on that. But I definitely get both perspectives ♥️

  • @vanessawatson6589
    @vanessawatson6589 29 днів тому

    I appreciated this one. Very insightful. Thank you for the advise gentlemen

  • @sharbinederavil8202
    @sharbinederavil8202 Рік тому +6

    Y’all are literally MY favorite podcast in all of podcast ! Keep it up fellas ! The positivity is what keeps me

  • @briannaberry6607
    @briannaberry6607 Рік тому +3

    Communication is definitely key, but also effort with prioritizing friendships. What can be difficult is when the value of each other differs or changes. Misunderstandings or assumptions can be detrimental to friendships just as much as envy or jealousy or hatred.

  • @ivyp4142
    @ivyp4142 Рік тому +2

    51:32 is a WORD!!! Great episode as always. Please bring the mixer to Chicago 🥃🥃🥃

  • @randyvixamar3072
    @randyvixamar3072 Рік тому +4

    Great episode I feel a lot of people could relate to this. If friends not growing like you and don’t express things it could cause issues. communication is key. 💯‼️

  • @planetChristie
    @planetChristie Рік тому +1

    Yes if you don’t know where your value is when someone grows people get resentful. You need to make yourself valuable and vise versa or it’s inevitable the friendship will end.
    I’m new in my 30s and I realize the same most friendships were surface level. Now I intentionally look for people who have similar interest and mindset so we can be valuable to each other outside of just “turning up”.

  • @jomufilms
    @jomufilms Рік тому

    Great podcast 🔥

  • @marybutidk
    @marybutidk Рік тому +16

    I’ve downloaded the opening song I love this podcast so bad 🤣

  • @TallyBandzz
    @TallyBandzz Рік тому +1

    This pod is so Underrated!!!

  • @PricelessProgress
    @PricelessProgress 11 місяців тому

    Fire conversation.

  • @roots4140
    @roots4140 Рік тому +1

    This is important.

  • @taranikahurt2479
    @taranikahurt2479 Рік тому +2

    Hello fellas I really miss half time if possible can you maybe do a Q & A during that time?? Also I hope more info will be posted for the singles mixer. Great job. 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @marybutidk
    @marybutidk Рік тому +1

    Oh! Congratulations on the new addition to the fammm!! ❤ 🍼 I saw the IG post.

  • @danaikajean3647
    @danaikajean3647 Рік тому +1

    I love this podcast 😊

  • @ShyiaRobinson
    @ShyiaRobinson Рік тому

    Truly, thank you guys for having this conversation. I feel like there’s a narrative where ppl feel like if you’re not friends with certain ppl for forever then there’s something wrong with you. As if life doesn’t happen and you grow apart due to adulting and/or different values. It’s all good but we have to understand this is a natural part of life. ❤

  • @ItsGambinOway
    @ItsGambinOway Рік тому +2

    I’m glad y’all dropped today fr! Shits been rough

  • @eunithacollins7433
    @eunithacollins7433 Рік тому +2

    I’m 100% with Duke on this one!

  • @theandrawillis7360
    @theandrawillis7360 Рік тому

    This was a good 1 !!! I’ve been battling navigating through friendships for the past 2 years smh so this but a lot into perspective!!

  • @Blackgents
    @Blackgents Рік тому

    Loved this episode! Love hearing Kings talk

  • @justdevy02
    @justdevy02 Рік тому

    Great honest discussion🙌

  • @coreymjones3
    @coreymjones3 Рік тому

    Great discussion brothas!

  • @Diamond-pv9sd
    @Diamond-pv9sd Рік тому

    this was a great conversation! And i do believe some people don't understand growth and they still try to meet you where yall used to be. it is a hard conversation without try to offend anyone

  • @MizzAsiaMonique
    @MizzAsiaMonique Рік тому

    These my guys man

  • @MTAC_Podcast
    @MTAC_Podcast Рік тому

    I love this episode my brothers keep up the great work fellas.

  • @Mistertisdale
    @Mistertisdale Рік тому

    Great and enlightening discussion. I gained valuable insights from everyone's viewpoints.

  • @raediamendz
    @raediamendz Рік тому

    This is so good 🔥

  • @AngelaElikya
    @AngelaElikya Рік тому

    Great episode 👏🏾👌

  • @MarsMadness310
    @MarsMadness310 Рік тому

    Good one! I definitely connected with this one

  • @miyawood4106
    @miyawood4106 Рік тому

    Love this podcast, keep up the amazing work !❤️

  • @ishmaellarry7777
    @ishmaellarry7777 Рік тому +1

    Great conversation and well needed. I have always been the leader in my friendships due to the fact I'm well rounded and almost every aspect of life. With that being said I'm not as dependant upon people but i rely on my God Given talents and revelations. Most of my friends tends to lean on me heavy "seem like" for everything so they have positioned themselves to depend on me and have detachment issues. As a man it should be understood that our mission on earth is timed and our paths has to traveled with love and understanding. Never hesitate to contact and communicate how i can help but understand you have work to do on self. Until then, you'll potentially make yourself a burden "on others and yourself".

  • @craziinancy1
    @craziinancy1 Рік тому

    Loved this

  • @CT-hz6mz
    @CT-hz6mz Рік тому

    First time listener.....buddy who talking about but "what if I never experienced that" ......red flag, that's yo life we still individuals. 11:28 did that, made them aware of it twice, they made it seem like I was tripping...time has passed I don't respect or care about them the same way and now that they see me developing, growing etc. they trying to stay in contact but nah I'm cool....and I honestly wish them the best but they didn't seem to care and over time I adapted to how they valued the friendship and now instead of them going with me they get to watch. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤘🏽

  • @kukhanyamahlangu7486
    @kukhanyamahlangu7486 Рік тому

    Watching from South Africa🇿🇦...my favorite podcast ❤

  • @Jdfortheculture
    @Jdfortheculture Рік тому

    I needed this

  • @zion2507
    @zion2507 Рік тому

    ANOTHER AMAZING EP

  • @Sof1st1KatedDiva08
    @Sof1st1KatedDiva08 Рік тому

    My GUYS!!!!! got hooked due to an FB clip, got my man hooked too, love the content, convo, the ENTIRE VIBE IS IT!!!!!!

  • @zanew.6224
    @zanew.6224 Рік тому +1

    Can we get an episode on the meaning of the word "family" as it pertains to blood family and chosen family?

  • @lesegokweyiya1
    @lesegokweyiya1 Рік тому

    Value - this really hits different after watching episode

  • @HealedGrlDiary
    @HealedGrlDiary Рік тому +2

    I think he’s right abt the love of money because at the end of the day you don’t care about what you lack if you don’t love it..

  • @mercedesweaver3022
    @mercedesweaver3022 Рік тому +1

    What’s the ground work? Is it situation to situation that we establish what we invest for us to air out the amount of communication we have and when?

  • @benaiahjacques6604
    @benaiahjacques6604 Рік тому +1

    The love of money is the root of all evil. Billionaires do evil things for more when they will never lack of money for generations.
    Most of the crimes of the world are committed by people who have money trying to get more of it.
    Jalon is right.
    People who lack of money do crimes to but they are not the majority.

  • @CarasPlace
    @CarasPlace Рік тому +1

    🥃 Great topic, as always.

  • @masechabamakola4181
    @masechabamakola4181 Рік тому +3

    Heeeeey everybody, what's the deal????!! This is by far one of my favorite podcasts, I find it to be very thought-provoking while being entertaining!
    Sending love from South africa! ❤

  • @christophero4194
    @christophero4194 Рік тому

    💎

  • @GG7GodsGrace
    @GG7GodsGrace Рік тому +3

    I’m here at my favorite number as a minute #7, oh damn and the episode is #77 it’s lit

  • @ashleehill9592
    @ashleehill9592 Рік тому

    I'm glad that I found this podcast 🙌🏾

  • @missashleylon
    @missashleylon Рік тому

    Jalon at 55:02 💯

  • @Cbanksfitness
    @Cbanksfitness Рік тому

    Duke, was the word "situational" when describing friendships?

  • @theevolutionofandrea5153
    @theevolutionofandrea5153 Рік тому

    Duke was looking for the term "Superficial Friends" 22:55

  • @latricenarcisse5426
    @latricenarcisse5426 Рік тому

    I’m with Duke. I don’t think I have to communicate changes in my life.

  • @ericawalker5712
    @ericawalker5712 Рік тому +2

    Team Ghost over here

  • @goodtrouble841
    @goodtrouble841 Рік тому

    gr8 ep!! 🖤🖤🖤

  • @tierrasardine562
    @tierrasardine562 Рік тому +1

    I’m a Ghost fan too J!❤

  • @Blackgents
    @Blackgents Рік тому

    8:30 this separates men from boys FRFR

  • @philakilTV
    @philakilTV Рік тому

    Ah, man... 19:00-20:25 accurately describes the feeling I've been experiencing within a friendship. Hopefully, we can have the conversation

  • @victoryflavored7711
    @victoryflavored7711 Рік тому

    Hey y’all

  • @ninetysixbaby
    @ninetysixbaby Рік тому

    Whewww

  • @adyamarshae
    @adyamarshae Рік тому

    I’m so sorry but Franklin Saint.

  • @nihstmoon3955
    @nihstmoon3955 Рік тому

    LET THIS BE CLEA MANE I NEVA MISS A MFN EP💯

  • @queenfierce
    @queenfierce Рік тому

    Is it me or are they talking about themselves subliminally. Dreads said he misses the times they had but faded keeps saying he’s good cuz he’s grown but also if a friend feels like he’s being distant that he should express it. But he’s alssssooooo saying the fried should just know and jump in flow whatever that is. What’s understood ain’t gotta be explained. It dooooooo thooooo .
    Then the Ghost” relationship polls, they literally were tryna help one another understand their relationship perspectives by using characters and scenarios.
    Maybe I’m not watching what y’all watching

  • @naynayhi93
    @naynayhi93 Рік тому

    Nah rich ppl commit more crimes we just know more about the crimes committed in impoverished areas through the news. The rich don’t snitch and they pay for the hush

  • @thedutchman1302
    @thedutchman1302 Рік тому

    Familiarity breeds contempt.

  • @audiotv4667
    @audiotv4667 Рік тому +4

    Let’s get real. Do y’all guys each secretly think your chick is the baddest one out of all of y’all? I know how people think when it comes to certain BS. So I’m asking do y’all have those underlying opinions about your girl & do your girls think they the baddest one individually? 💀

    • @Mimi8402
      @Mimi8402 Рік тому +1

      That’s a toxic way of thinking, plus all three of their partners are beautiful.

    • @audiotv4667
      @audiotv4667 Рік тому +4

      @@Mimi8402 It’s about how you look at it. Stop acting as if people don’t walk in a room thinking this already. You just aren’t being real about it. I’ve seen 1st hand where chicks would sit around & literally say I’m the baddest one in here. I know every woman feel that way about themselves & there’s nothing wrong with that. Y’all just don’t like to discuss the sh*t that makes you feel uncomfortable.

    • @Mimi8402
      @Mimi8402 Рік тому +1

      @@audiotv4667 y’all just lack maturity and depth. When you’re in that mid-late 30s range, you understand the bigger picture better, you’re grateful that your friends are alive and physically/mentally good, you’re grateful that you’re all happy and look good together. Please grow up.

    • @audiotv4667
      @audiotv4667 Рік тому +4

      @@Mimi8402 Girl bye, don’t drag age into this. 30+ are the main ones that be out here doing BS. Please stop with the lies. You have a very limited mindset. The fact you still think maturity equates to age let’s me know you aren’t very wise when it comes to opening your mind up to the extinct of knowing that age doesn’t matter when it comes to a person maturity level. Even at 30 you can be childish. Remove yourself & your ignorance. Nowadays younger folks are doing sh*t that older folks haven’t done & being the adults in situations that these old people still out here struggling with.

    • @bombbaby9870
      @bombbaby9870 Рік тому +4

      @@Mimi8402Lol girl what ? You are so wrong about that. Age does not define a person maturity level. So right there you are wrong. Two, he’s not lying about what he said, rather you wanna disagree or not. There are girls who I’ve been around & witnessed saying stuff like that. Acting as if they are the baddest in the room. Even your own friends think they look better than you. It’s not something you see people talk about but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. It definitely exist & I’m sure you have been that person before. So you can cut the BS. I don’t see one lie he told.

  • @TallyBandzz
    @TallyBandzz Рік тому +2

    These men have changed my entire perspective on life and i love them so much for thatttt🫱🏼‍🫲🏾🫶🏼