30 Truths I Know at 30 But Wish I Knew at 20

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  • @nischa
    @nischa  10 місяців тому +39

    Grab your free Solopreneur Business guide from Hubspot here nischa.me/hubspot-2

    • @kowkoww7541
      @kowkoww7541 10 місяців тому +1

      Hey could you do a video on fashion and money, like spending on more versatile items with examples for a woman, I find myself spending my money more than I should, I end up seeing sales on the item previously bought but if I wait it goes out of stock. I genuinely have a shopping addiction Im 21. :( Overdraft using my SFE to pay it off

    • @titaniumffclub9122
      @titaniumffclub9122 10 місяців тому

      5 साल में एक यूनिकॉर्न स्टार्टअप बनाना पसंद करोगी ?🤔🙏

    • @Naksu..
      @Naksu.. 10 місяців тому +1

      Read the Quran. You will thank me in the hereafter..

    • @kowkoww7541
      @kowkoww7541 10 місяців тому

      @@Naksu.. umm no thank you I will if i want to

    • @pavan9620
      @pavan9620 9 місяців тому

      Hi nischa....u look beautiful 😊

  • @arnabchatterjee694
    @arnabchatterjee694 10 місяців тому +363

    1. It is far more fun to be the person being discussed than the other way around
    2. Stop complaining
    3. You get what you pay for
    4. Don't take things personally
    5. Work in days not weeks
    6. Outwork your imposter syndrome
    7. You playing small doesn't benefit anyone
    8. Success is personal
    9. Have regular check-ins
    10.Getting into work early isn't going to get you promoted
    11. Fail fast and Fail forward
    12. Don't expect other people to do your work
    13. It is never too late to start something new
    14. Define what you want
    15. Do the thing that you need to do to get what you want
    16. There is no such thing as overnight success
    17. Don 't take advice from someone who hasn' t done what you are trying to do
    18. Other people are rarely your competition
    19. Mornings are important
    20. Focus on one thing at a time
    21. Don't rush to find your niche
    22. No one is coming to save you
    23. Pick your battle with your relationships
    24. Cut out anyone who belittles you
    25. Never keep a tally
    26. Find something to occupy yourself with
    27. They is no need to stay late "just because"
    28. Don't expect other people to read your mind
    29. Make hitting rock bottom a good thing
    30. Learn to find joy in working out

    • @dev.osiatech
      @dev.osiatech 10 місяців тому +1

      thanks!

    • @BhaiRayyanKiDuniya
      @BhaiRayyanKiDuniya 10 місяців тому

      thxx

    • @naestudios0826
      @naestudios0826 10 місяців тому

      Thanks

    • @themars5452
      @themars5452 10 місяців тому

      Thanks

    • @12Daniel34
      @12Daniel34 9 місяців тому +2

      Thanks a lot, now we don't have to actually watch the video, it's not like anyone wanted to do that, right? *Very* helpful and considerate of you 😂

  • @millie9814
    @millie9814 10 місяців тому +164

    I love these!! I’m 25 and I already have regrets, the main one is how much time I spent trying to help people who didn’t want my help, instead of helping me!

    • @potentialsomebody2615
      @potentialsomebody2615 10 місяців тому +7

      You eventually learn friendships are mutually beneficial as we contribute to each other's growth,we learn from one another and progress forward so rather take the good than bad . . .

    • @k3zani265
      @k3zani265 10 місяців тому +2

      I'M 25 TOOOO

    • @rocker1631
      @rocker1631 10 місяців тому +1

      💯same situation

    • @millie9814
      @millie9814 10 місяців тому

      @@potentialsomebody2615 your point of view is lovely, but I learned that certain friendships are only harmful

    • @moonbun690
      @moonbun690 10 місяців тому +2

      Hi 25 from another 25!

  • @erikachiao3704
    @erikachiao3704 10 місяців тому +120

    "No one is coming to save you," I agree completely with this statement. Thank you for your video. As always you do an amazing job!!!

    • @can1687
      @can1687 10 місяців тому +2

      I saved my self. Could not end University. But found a job. Paid all my debts back. For 3 years i almost did buy nothing for myself, build a emergency fund. Did not use it. Found a way to keep my expensives low. And i was on holiday last year.
      My boyfriend helped me. We cooked together and helped esch other

    • @kh884488
      @kh884488 10 місяців тому

      There is a great, very short poem by Stephen Crane on this topic:
      A Man Said to the Universe
      A man said to the universe:
      "Sir, I exist!"
      "However," replied the universe,
      "The fact has not created in me a sense of Obligation."

  • @kevinbrook7033
    @kevinbrook7033 10 місяців тому +58

    Bit off topic, but I love the way that you record your videos, the lighting, mood, colour tones, minimalist but interesting aesthetics. You do a really superb job with presentation!

  • @_rohitbagde_
    @_rohitbagde_ 10 місяців тому +156

    40 is the new 30
    30 is the new 20
    Thank you nischa for the financial insights!
    I follow all your suggestions and being from an accounting background helps me understand it better!!

    • @amalia4519
      @amalia4519 10 місяців тому +16

      20 is the new 10
      10 is the new non born.
      🎉

    • @ssc3360
      @ssc3360 10 місяців тому +8

      No it's not blud, 30 is 30 and 40 is 40.

    • @jeevansingh4353
      @jeevansingh4353 10 місяців тому

      This could not be further from the truth, your 20s are the most defining decade of your life - I suggest you read Meg Jay's book on this. Your 20s matter and you must make the most of the years you cannot afford to miss, because in all aspects; work, love, the brain and the body; 80% of life's most signifcant moments happen before the age of 35. Consequential moments slow down, 30 is NOT the new 20

    • @WaveManMike
      @WaveManMike 10 місяців тому +1

      I’m 25 now, never did I imagine I would still feel so young 😂 I’m in better shape than I was as a teen.

    • @amalia4519
      @amalia4519 10 місяців тому +1

      @@WaveManMike I'm 40 and I'm feeling greater than ever, my mind and thoughts are in a much better place.♥️

  • @jonasbauer3942
    @jonasbauer3942 10 місяців тому +3

    Tack!

  • @als7132
    @als7132 10 місяців тому +24

    I am in my early 70’s. Nischa’s Truths applies for all ages. Good job Nischa‼️

  • @Coolkid_001
    @Coolkid_001 10 місяців тому +42

    These are very important reminders.
    You playing small doesn't serve anyone hits home. It is a people pleasing tendency which will eventually make people walk all over you. This point connects to the 24th point mentioned. Once you realise and grow as a person, cut off people who try to belittle you.

  • @aviansnow
    @aviansnow 10 місяців тому +3

    I respect you more for going straight to the point, no long intro
    You simply thanked your sponsor and started the video, thank you so much

  • @ttmoore8750
    @ttmoore8750 10 місяців тому +16

    I'm 27 and realising certain things about life thank you for these videos. I know that I need to be the person to ask myself the hard questions.

  • @ehimareadedoyin3683
    @ehimareadedoyin3683 10 місяців тому +11

    You are literally one of the most beautiful people that exist. Thanks for this Nischa 🤗. I'll be turning 30 next year and like I can't even believe it. I've also learnt so much that I'll be sharing with people.

  • @3xAudio
    @3xAudio 10 місяців тому +20

    I remember the first time someone told me that people care much more about themselves than they do about you was very freeing

  • @ezisbertakachiungo7043
    @ezisbertakachiungo7043 10 місяців тому +8

    I truly appreciate how fast and straight to the point these were, fantastic work, thanks! 😊

  • @afifikhwan6403
    @afifikhwan6403 10 місяців тому +5

    Another thing that I learnt is you can't save/help someone if the person doesn't want to help themselves. They are the one that need to put effort to improves their life.

  • @kristinapaxton9686
    @kristinapaxton9686 10 місяців тому +6

    Thank you Nischa. I'm trying to figure out whether to work abroad or study here in the U.K. This is really helpful. Also it's lovely to see more British content creators. UA-cam is saturated with content that tends to be geared only towards America & the financial lifestyle & system there. Keep it up X

  • @deepapatel2374
    @deepapatel2374 10 місяців тому +1

    I deeply appreciate the presence of this UA-cam channel for its unparalleled authenticity and the sincere, genuine content it delivers.

  • @jeffandsherriefranzwa8970
    @jeffandsherriefranzwa8970 10 місяців тому +10

    Good job, Nischa. On #3, I generally agree, but there are exceptions. Today I wore a business suit which new, would cost at least $200, but I bought at Goodwill for $15. I wore shoes that would be $100 new, but $12. And a dress shirt which would be $50 new, but $6. These are hard to find, but are out there with some patient searching.

    • @sachdevkaurbala9705
      @sachdevkaurbala9705 6 місяців тому

      I absolutely your frugal options, I would do the same. Keep it up, and you will do well financially.

  • @potentialsomebody2615
    @potentialsomebody2615 10 місяців тому +2

    Eye opening and fruitful . . . When you navigate life's challenges and create your own path based on experiences so hopefully other's have awareness . . . 💐

  • @salmanuel4053
    @salmanuel4053 10 місяців тому +8

    "Outwork your imposter syndrome." Similarly, extreme effort can overcome depressive self-doubts. Good concepts. Subscribed!

  • @DrSamreenAshraf
    @DrSamreenAshraf 10 місяців тому +2

    Being a small part-time youtuber, I was super happy to see that under YT analytics, my video was suggested along with Nischa's video🤩 Small joys of life 😀

  • @eduardoribas7733
    @eduardoribas7733 10 місяців тому +2

    Even though this video's coming from a business/financial advice channel, this is actually great and valuable life advice. Everyone should watch this video at least once in their lifetime

  • @SteffaGuffantti
    @SteffaGuffantti 10 місяців тому +12

    Hi, you changed my life. I have been watching your videos for 10 months and I have organize my finances in a way I never expected doing. Saved a very good amount so far. Thanks ❤

  • @manuelnovella39
    @manuelnovella39 10 місяців тому +1

    This was great! Great in content, great in format, great in execution! Congrats, Nischa 🎉

  • @senatemona5402
    @senatemona5402 10 місяців тому

    What a treasure of a post. As someone in thier mid 30s, absolutely everything here is relatable. Thank you, I am book marking and sharing with everyone

  • @thetrueproductivity
    @thetrueproductivity 10 місяців тому +6

    Nischa ! Great work ! (Happy to 1st comment) I just created notion page to collect my life lessons at 21, this is spot on ! LY

    • @revs2023
      @revs2023 10 місяців тому

      tu kyon yahan aaya hai hum sab ko pata hai bhai...hila le aur... nikaal ..chal...chal

  • @jackiphone3g
    @jackiphone3g 10 місяців тому

    Very good content, and one of the very best way to insert sponsors. Completely seamless integration of the product inside the narrative. Great job.

  • @M896
    @M896 10 місяців тому +3

    Model looks explaining finances, a winning combo!

  • @adorimonroe1
    @adorimonroe1 10 місяців тому

    22 is a conversation I had recently with my nana. She was offering to help me out of a financial situation that I got myself into but I had already found a solution. She has limited income as well and I needed the lesson.

  • @opietwoep1247
    @opietwoep1247 10 місяців тому +5

    Congrats on reaching 1M!!

  • @xkorbekx
    @xkorbekx 10 місяців тому +4

    Can you do a video on finances in marriage? Also would you marry for money - assuming all things are relatively well in relationship? Lastly money and dating? would be great to hear your take

  • @MathieuDeVinois
    @MathieuDeVinois 10 місяців тому +2

    There is basically only one thing I wanted to know. And that’s stopping worrying and overthinking and start to have fun. I was pushed into legal problems in my middle teens resulting in some expensive trials agains my father. Basically all divorce arguments fought against me. I went into huge debts and the problems coming from them. It took a long time and a lot of energy to get out. I made mistakes but I don’t see how I should have known better. Some mistakes I made on purpose. Kind of choosing between two mistakes hoping the chosen one is the smaller mistake. - I learned a lot. But I never learned how to enjoy live. How to have fun. And now? I start learning to do that. But my friends got „old“ and have different life’s. All is about children, paying rent and their jobs. I am like others in their 20ies. First time in my life having control over my money. Having money to spend. I see the big bright future and want to have fun. Just, I don’t know how to do that and I don’t have someone around me who can teach me XD.

    • @Lagatitavlogs
      @Lagatitavlogs 10 місяців тому

      Im latina and I can teach u 😂

  • @realestatetessa
    @realestatetessa 10 місяців тому +1

    Focusing on value makes you indispensable, highly agree!

  • @carolquezada30609
    @carolquezada30609 10 місяців тому +2

    Wow, Nischa! You have 1M subscribers now! Congratulations! Please keep posting videos. I love your contents! Very helpful! I always share your videos to my daughter and my family! 👏🎉😊❤️🤗👍

  • @peterlloydworld
    @peterlloydworld 10 місяців тому +2

    Firstly, congrats on hitting 1M subs 2nd great simply to process content. 🙏🏾

  • @corinned7528
    @corinned7528 10 місяців тому +2

    1 Million d'abonnés ! Bravo Nischa ! C'est le juste fruit de la qualité de vos vidéos.

  • @elab4187
    @elab4187 10 місяців тому +3

    Love the authenticity

  • @NiyahLukh
    @NiyahLukh 10 місяців тому +3

    Well done on a million subs, you deserve it!

  • @PeteMatthew
    @PeteMatthew 10 місяців тому +3

    Congrats on 1m subs, Nischa - you are an inspiration!

  • @thinkandquestion1305
    @thinkandquestion1305 5 місяців тому

    Among all the junk we find Online these days, this video is a gem. Thank you Ms. Nischa. This is a practical step-by-step guide for youngsters to get to a successful end point.

  • @alleynejoelle
    @alleynejoelle 10 місяців тому +2

    Congratulations on being wise enough in your 30s to put out a video that this 52 year old can learn from. Filing this in my "Favorites".

    • @revs2023
      @revs2023 10 місяців тому

      I(male) did the same but no one gave a sh**!!!

    • @alleynejoelle
      @alleynejoelle 10 місяців тому

      @@revs2023 I didn't see your video.

  • @khushijatarya11
    @khushijatarya11 10 місяців тому

    Dear I'm really proud that I have u as my mentor..... I hardly have people that got my mindset .... But I really include u in "5 people" who surround me .... And I'm proud that I have a person whom I genuinely admire and learn from ..... Thanks UNIVERSE FOR GIVING ME A VERY NICE MENTOR.....❤ U UNIVERSE :D

  • @izza_vip
    @izza_vip 7 місяців тому

    You caught me off guard with your accent. Asian face and a perfect British accent. Amazing 😍

  • @AbundanceGaming-g3m
    @AbundanceGaming-g3m 10 місяців тому +2

    Such an awesome video and great insights, Nischa, right up there with Mark Manson's video on 40 lessons.

  • @hunterandchavy
    @hunterandchavy 10 місяців тому +1

    Nischa keeps going right after hitting 1 million subscribers. So happy for you. Imposter syndrome is real… I always wonder what if my friends found out that I am a UA-camr. They probably poke fun and then would care less 😏

  • @meoe00n
    @meoe00n 10 місяців тому

    gosh to have an mindset and aura like yours, hope grow into my thirties with a attitude like you ma’am.

  • @veronicasmemories
    @veronicasmemories 10 місяців тому

    #2 has been a huge pet peeve of mine. I get annoyed when people act like they don't have a choice to change their situation when they absolutely do

  • @CL-ut6uu
    @CL-ut6uu 10 місяців тому +2

    very useful, and congrats on the 1M subscribers!!!!!!

  • @ComradeBozzey
    @ComradeBozzey 10 місяців тому +3

    Fantastic video so many valid and simple points I can apply to everyday life 👍

  • @DeclanHiggins-YoutubeChannel
    @DeclanHiggins-YoutubeChannel 10 місяців тому +3

    Congratulations on reaching 1M Subscribers Nisha well done 🙂

  • @djboombee1722
    @djboombee1722 10 місяців тому +1

    Wow! Great video & info, bless you 🙏🏾 💯🙌🏾

  • @JournaltoJourney
    @JournaltoJourney 3 місяці тому

    I wish I could like this video a hundred times, thanks Nischa

  • @KG_NextGen
    @KG_NextGen 10 місяців тому +2

    Love the content of this video! , thank you Nischa, will definitely listen to it again.

  • @FMJ777
    @FMJ777 10 місяців тому +4

    Congrats on 1m 😎 🔥

  • @НатальяКудрявцева-ю9д
    @НатальяКудрявцева-ю9д 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much! Everything you’ve said is invaluable advice!

  • @martywilliard
    @martywilliard 10 місяців тому +2

    Nischa - outstanding as always

  • @inkap5824
    @inkap5824 10 місяців тому

    I made notes- to each of your tip, 3 action points to take for me personally. Gold! Btw approaching my 40’s very soon 😅

  • @SveGuacamole
    @SveGuacamole 10 місяців тому +2

    I am 43 and can say it all still makes sense so hurry up to benefit frome the tips 🏝☀️🥂

  • @2pac1307
    @2pac1307 10 місяців тому

    You have a really crisp voice, I love that!!!!!

  • @Ashleycreates_content
    @Ashleycreates_content 10 місяців тому

    Been following you for a while but damn you're spitting in this video BARS after BARS!

  • @Tey_kca
    @Tey_kca 9 місяців тому

    I'm 28 and most of my 20s just got wasted because of struggle and failure. I hope I understand things now so that my 30s can be fulfilling.

  • @robwaz1547
    @robwaz1547 10 місяців тому +1

    👏🏼 he to ya 🍸 “ONE MILLION “ Nischa , 31) NO ONE GETS THERE ALONE. , to bad that DeLorean doesn’t exist to take us back in time, “Dear younger me , If I could tell you things that I have learned so far “ …… well they do say “ enjoy the journey “. I was just wondering, way do you want to get off this roller coaster 🎢 of what we call life, for in our lifetime what story’s would be there to tell!!!! Very interesting topic you mentioned Nischa , once again outstanding, and your inner circle are very fortunate, too call you their friend. Till next time 💐

  • @scinopad
    @scinopad 10 місяців тому +2

    Go ahead more and more, Good luck🤩

  • @PropertyReview
    @PropertyReview 10 місяців тому +3

    Great content watching since you started!

  • @LorenzoSenzaniOfficial
    @LorenzoSenzaniOfficial 10 місяців тому

    I’m truly inspired by this video in order to reach my finance goals as much as I can. Thanks Nischa!

  • @fortuneeeeeeeeeee5220
    @fortuneeeeeeeeeee5220 10 місяців тому +3

    Incredible content. Thank you.. Keep it up 🎉

  • @dalac_93
    @dalac_93 10 місяців тому

    I’m struggling with overthinking. I actually think it’s a sickness. Thanks for the advice!

  • @PatriciainOz
    @PatriciainOz 10 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing this and the whole get into work early is TRUTH!!!!! Literally Me the person who arrived early and stayed late !

  • @mayanksharma6622
    @mayanksharma6622 9 місяців тому

    Really glad that I subscribed to this channel

  • @coachzandi7990
    @coachzandi7990 10 місяців тому +2

    That was a geat video with good tips. Thanks for the sharing :)

  • @thecode_red1825
    @thecode_red1825 9 місяців тому

    This video is gold ⭐️⭐️

  • @aniopara
    @aniopara 10 місяців тому +1

    Nice one. You have given me more than I expected. Thank you so much.

  • @MrRatMommy
    @MrRatMommy 7 місяців тому

    0:48 dont take things personally and create more meaningful relationships
    2:15
    6:23 qualities of friends
    7:46

  • @13ankur
    @13ankur 10 місяців тому +2

    Love you Nischa!!!

  • @thomaskingaby4407
    @thomaskingaby4407 10 місяців тому

    Thanks Nischa! Just what i needed today. Greetz from the Holland

  • @Dr.MukhtarAhmad-t2l
    @Dr.MukhtarAhmad-t2l 10 місяців тому

    You are good adviser I respect people like you

  • @SilverHawk214
    @SilverHawk214 10 місяців тому

    I wasn't ready to be called out so hard with number 2 on your list. I don't usually complain but I did yesterday about something that is giving me a lot of anxiety but I need to take action anyway despite the anxiety.

  • @MoneySense.
    @MoneySense. 10 місяців тому

    In my late 20's was searching and seeking for knowledge about investment and how to go about it.
    I was seeking books and information, visited investment houses to seek knowledge and my goal was financial freedom and currently, I feel comfortable and pushing for more now in my 40's

  • @carlstanford7607
    @carlstanford7607 10 місяців тому +2

    ‘It’s not the banks responsibility to bail us out ‘but somehow it’s our responsibility to bail them out! Lol. Apart from that, great video

  • @daniellefournier978
    @daniellefournier978 9 місяців тому +2

    Aside a channel about financial tips, you can also have a channel about beauty tips. You are very good looking. Woman here.

  • @kashyapkobain
    @kashyapkobain 9 місяців тому

    I am just one year away from my 40s....for me the best companion is a dog🐕.... Planning to adopt one soon🎉

  • @Maazyazdani1
    @Maazyazdani1 10 місяців тому +2

    Life is a sine curve. It's very hard to stay at the top all the time. Be patient and content as well as challenge the present.

  • @zenakaur9947
    @zenakaur9947 10 місяців тому +1

    Been waiting for your video❤

  • @moitse_
    @moitse_ 10 місяців тому +2

    And cheers to 1 Million subbies😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍🎉

  • @coding5771
    @coding5771 7 місяців тому

    00:04 Embrace being the subject, not the critic
    01:05 Overcome impostor syndrome and play big
    02:15 Ask why you want things and focus on value to be indispensable
    03:13 Define what you truly want and take action to achieve it.
    04:13 Skills and mindset for a solopreneur
    05:13 Consider others' advice cautiously, prioritize learning from each other over competing
    06:18 Take accountability for your decisions and actions.
    07:26 Value self-care and effective communication

  • @Haywire91
    @Haywire91 7 місяців тому +2

    Best truth is watching this video after knowing it has a promotional content and purely made for making money

  • @apachetamizha
    @apachetamizha 7 місяців тому

    When we are in correct path no need to worry 😊

  • @pointdex007
    @pointdex007 10 місяців тому

    Great tips! Loved this!

  • @ahmadyusuf.2
    @ahmadyusuf.2 9 місяців тому

    Move from a place of truth. Look within. Have clarity of what you actually want

  • @jeremiahwilliams5747
    @jeremiahwilliams5747 6 місяців тому

    I love #17!! My issue is there are way too many folk that fail to meet this criteria and many of them authority figures and this has been since high school. Of course I don't listen, but I'd like for them to just GO AWAY so I can spend more time working and less time fighting.

  • @regtalkswealth
    @regtalkswealth 10 місяців тому +2

    No one will save apart from you 👏

  • @williambreeze2659
    @williambreeze2659 3 місяці тому

    I appreciate this!

  • @Stinow
    @Stinow 10 місяців тому

    Great content! Also: by the time you did this, you realize at 40, we all know so little, about everything. And: choose friends and family over other things in life.

  • @Xushal_Arts
    @Xushal_Arts Місяць тому

    Congrats🎉 uh got me🥂

  • @Fuadstar55
    @Fuadstar55 9 місяців тому

    Great advises! Thanks for sharing

  • @Kbarboza94
    @Kbarboza94 10 місяців тому

    Gurl you are snatched!!

  • @quintenqfinish
    @quintenqfinish 10 місяців тому

    So much value. Thank you!

  • @marpro212
    @marpro212 9 місяців тому

    That’s info dense. I’m going to have to write it down and revisit it a few times lol

  • @Mr.BednaR
    @Mr.BednaR 10 місяців тому

    No.3 is a bit of a funny one. My mum always used to say she "cant afford cheap stuff" when she was talking about tools or equipment etc. And there is truth to that as cheap items will break much more often. However, pretty much all brands (especially in technology department) made tonnes of research on people purchase drive and patterns, and they do have a top TOP shelf super dooper bestest range, that while much more expensive than the 2nd best, will only present a marginal improvement over the 2nd best variation. There is a specific "target audiance" for these - people who only care about that top shelf. Long story short: do a bit of research what gets you the best quality/ price ratio.

  • @dezstepz2427
    @dezstepz2427 9 місяців тому

    I'd save you at 30 Nisha lol. Always great advice. Has helped me a lot since across your channel.