A Rant About BW Not Going On Dates, Turned Into A Hood Dude Wake Up Call For PANDERING TIKTOKER!
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- A Rant About BW Not Going On Dates, Turned Into A Hood Dude Wake Up Call For PANDERING TIKTOKER!
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My great-grandmother used to say, "A woman is smart and dumb at the same time. "
Good dudes get more smoke than Hood dudes ever will. Hood dudes get grace, empathy, and deflections like a mf.
They are the standard in the black community. Period. Notice even the most successful black men emulate the streets in the dialect, dress, style and codes. Unless that changes that's who BW will desire. Tupac PHD home owner in a suit.
Now the question is whose fault is that, did we as Black men establish truth, justice, righteousness, power, and Production, for our communities, for our cities, for our states, for our nation?
Did we as Black men allow the European to establish HIS ORDER on our nation?
As history bares, the good dude did not.
@@khandneter463 well do you know how we as the good black where supposed to do that? I see finger pointing, but not 1 solution.
@@khandneter463 so you blame the good dudes? How does a community blame their failures on a group they refuse to celebrate or acknowledge.
I’m in Houston with you and I have been a pharmaceutical representative for a while. I know PERSONALLY female doctors that have dated and chased ghetto and prison dudes and damn near destroyed for it. Those dudes are black women’s first choice in America.
Crazy smh
That's a fact. That's their preference
Women know the difference between nice guys, fake nice guy and thugs... They don't care, they just wanna date who they wanna date. Leave em alone, stop trying to save those who don't wanna be save. Let them mess up and make mistakes while you do you. Get those passports ports or stay local... Go wherever you're appreciated.
I know 2 black women who dated drug dealers. One black woman had a master's degree and was 30 years old when she decided to date A drug dealer who was also a full-time cook at a restaurant. The other black woman grew up privileged because her grandfather was a dentist.
But she still dated a drug dealer in her 20s.
This is why I don't ever feel sorry for women. They choose the life they live.
What kills me is that they don't realize that they've been exposed to the entire world and have the nerve to play stupid or stall people's time and expect somebody to respect them are you serious G t f o h💧💧💯🤘
They are going to need the government this summer because this it's going to be drizzle drizzle summer meaning... FUHO3Z💧💧💯🤘
Women on Kendra have said they want a street guy that has been in prison
I lived through the 90's and saw it with my own eyes. Regular Joes began emulating street culture, playing roles, and acting out of character, just to impress Black women...and some of them went so far as to lose their freedom and even their lives in the process. There are a whole lot of young Black men who would have never seen the inside of a prison if they had enough self esteem and confidence to be who they are vs what Black women wanted them to be. Fathers raise your Sons! Teach them its Ok to be who you are and stay far away from women who want you to be something else.
☝🏿This 💯🎯
Champ, you aint lying. We used to call them weekend warriors
Not gonna lie, when said she was single since 1998, that had me DYING LMAOOOO!!!!
Damn... I've been with chicks who were born since that year, while she's been sitting on the shelf all that time.
I find it absolutely hilarious and a cruel irony that he got roasted by the very same women he was trying to defend. Seriously they told you that they weren't lying and he still doesn't want to believe it
All the women talking about they are single look like they been through trauma. Now I know what dealing with trauma looks like.
Today is a good day to cry.
It's all the eyes.
Glad you noticed that too. They all looked certifiably insane
You can only do your best Medium Man. Kevin Samuels tried to warn them and they danced on his grave instead!
The woman that’s been single since 1998, let’s be really baby girl, ain’t nobody trying to be in a relationship with you😂 This is what’s called making a necessity a virtue
None of those women are wanted lol…the crazy thing is all of them were in there talking like they’re the cream of the crop
@jla3445 😂😂 that's what I was laughing at
Trust there is men that still willing but the women don't want them.
And she drive a 18 wheeler 😂😂😂
As a former player I can tell he gets no buns
Black woman here-YOU ARE NOT LYING! Young and old and they brag on it and wallow in it EVERY DAY, especially out here on the internet.
Yea the sisterhood seems to think they can dictate reality
These people get out here on social media and act like they're surprised about black women
By the looks of the women responding, I really see why they are single. A bunch of 1, 2 and 3's talking about enjoying the single life. Rightfully so, I guess!?!?!
I’ve shared younger, more attractive women saying the same thing. The point is to show the black community that saying that there’s so many good black women who want marriage is false. My guess is that 3 out of 4 don’t want marriage.
@mediumman BLACK WOMEN WILL GO 100 PERSON FOR PRISONERS BUT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH 50 50 WITH BLACK MEN WHO ARE FREE
@mediumman bro I think we are done, how does a community survive? I like your show especially the stats, but you might want to drizzle in some passport talk also....save ourselves black men 2024
No lie, I had a wakeup call many years ago when as HS friend of mine, college educated, Natural haired BW... said she only dated thugs. Lmao, I was shocked at first... now... not so much.
She wants to be disrespected to feel humbled
Messing with a street dude is like rewarding bad behavior. Imagine seeing a dude selling drugs and being in a gang and you pat them on the back and say..”good job”
Bad behavior has always been rewarded. I graduated public school in 2017. All I remember is teachers giving all the trouble makers attention. Yelling at them mid class, making scenes, and giving lectures about the student after they already had left. This is where the behavior is wired.
I don’t know black women to be any other way!
Most and I mean most of the women I grew up around chased prison dudes.
Her status and education never mattered
As a certified hood dude, i can confirm thats exactly what most women want, even alot of white and nonblack women 😂
At this point. I’m just going to go for the hood dude aesthetic and see where that goes 😂
Your absolutely right and Ive heard it countless times . They want a hood dude who just happens to have some book smarts . In their eyes it makes him twice as smart as everybody cause he can kind of survive and even thrive in any arena . Knows how to handle himself or protect her in a dangerous situation . While at the same time can have a serious conversation about politics , business or history .
That's the default setting for black men if they want to date black women.
@@AfriqueNYyup, I used turn my hoodness up a notch when approaching BW. I’ve stopped doing it since it was dragging.
Get out the streets brah.
Black women searching the prison systems for potential mates was enough for me to solidify who doomed black men are regarding choices in black women. Get your passports fellas.
It’s sad to say. It’s time to go
“I like drug dealers and scammers”
"Street guys are more shiveruss" they shiver more?😂
Them streets cold my dude 😅
@@NaijaBoiTellEm oh shizz, that's funny 😂
Nobody wants that old, tired box...smh
When Medium Man says “Let me show yall something real quick” lol
Medium Man must be protected at all cost!!
3/4 of all dates are just foodie calls
That PANDERING dude must of missed Jerry Springer and The Muary Show he needs to catch up he's way behind .
Dude with the dreads trying to be the next Derrick jax-n that's all it is
Men having this internal impulse to put on a cape and presume themselves to be a hero for them is a huge part of the problem, probably the biggest problem overall.
SYSBM.
When simping goes wrong.
If nobody found you worthy to take on a date in a decade, then I agree with everyone else you're not worth it
Charles Manson still get fan mail till this day.i think a like 20 year women wanted to marry him a few years ago.
Manson is dead bro
@@naysaynetwork5271He's even still getting letters at death like Jada Pickett still writing Tupac!
Princesses are virgins usually right?
It's hilarious that he uses a street accent and acts like he didn't get that from people who live in the hood. He's using that accent to intimidate the person who left a comment to make him seem more attractive and assertive two black women😂 So within the context of his video he's proving the comment right because the first video he did not talk like that he talked like an average person.
Good catch
Even bw can't convince other bw to act right.
But according to Umar "women-support-my-career" Johnson men are to blame.
In the 70 blk women got access to corporate jobs, government assistance, and abortion and they ran to arms of men that their fathers and men in their families would've forbidden her from dating in previous generations...
This has been one big act of rebellion by black women agaunst the system order and structure (STRICTNESS) of their fathers...
I don't think that's it. I think that now that they have freedom, they fling their box with reckless abandon and hop from dude to dude, hoping to extract whatever resources or children they can from each, depending on how they feel at that particular moment.
@KtotheG you disagreed with the commenter but what you said is almost on pace with what you disagreed with. Freedom from a structured environment allows a person to have more choices of what they want to do.
The more I hear nurse Umar SIMPson speak the more UNINTELLIGENT he proves himself to be.
Cap!!! These women want marriage. If they’re constantly screamin “no they don’t” it means they are coping with the fact that one’s they wanted didn’t want them. These the same chicks that be cryin themselves to sleep at night because they have nobody to lay next to. They not single by choice. They single by choices.
Do you have the time and patience to convince them otherwise?
@@mediumman Nawh that would be a waste of time. My point is these women are sayin anything to cope with the fact that they failed to get the man that they want.
@@mediummanI am a woman and I heartily agree with this poster. Please don’t believe this “don’t want no man” BS these women be posting out here. It is absolute cope and 99% of them have passed the point of no return AND THEY KNOW IT! It is BAD with the lying and deflecting out here with BW, trust and believe.
What she means is that street guys have the money to spend on me.
Also if they go to jail they can sell there stuff. Seen it happen. It’s a money thing
$1000 to s money to a hood dude stop the cap
@@ktv9247 not clear what you are saying.
@@powell2j900did you forget the video of “jail niccas winning” ? Where me and you have to make more money to become more desirable, he just has to go to jail and he has her fealty .
To verbally debunk what Umar is talking about, one could point out the relationships of wealthy blk men like Russell Wilson, Will Smith, and or Tyrese Gibson.
Plus, I never heard of a black female asking an educated, church going, physically fit black man to mail her some semen so she could have a child.
Well look at who they have kids with ..........
The scariest thing I’ve realized is that the love for terrible guys was imbedded in women since high school days. I remember the wave of hood romance books they used to read in FERVOR. Remember the books DUTCH 1, 2 and 3?? Another thing I learned at a young age is that women love love love guys who pull in a lot of women. The more scandal that man has, (boy at the time) the better. Not much has changed as adults. The phase is never just a phase.
What is fervor? A forum?
@@lavellelee5734 nah, it means to have a very strong interest or passion about something
Bears are getting them pregnant 😂😂😂
Back in the days there's a rap by MC Lyte call Ruffneck.
I think that was her response record to Apache's "Gangsta B*tch" at the time... I never took Lyte seriously with that song.
@KtotheG Perhaps even when I was growing up, even, the decent ones secretly attracted, to the thugs. I don't know her personally, she may be, the exception not, the rule anything is possible.
Just let them go, my brother. It's okay.
My personal opinion I don’t understand why black dudes are getting into it with these women knowing these types of guys they always wanted,Congratulate the street dudes and their women and move forward in life…lol
Because they are the definitions of simps.
Move forward…QUICKLY. And don’t look back.
If you don't want people to comment on your videos don't post Videos online the end.😅😅
Who?
@@mediumman What's going on brother. What are you asking exactly
@@lazjunior712 your initial comment. Who are you referring to, or did you mean to post that under this video?
@mediumman Oh yeah, brother.I was referring to the woman who Posted a video talking about a situation. Then you said she turned off the comments.🤣🤣
amazing how many people dont understand this 🤣😂
My wife full blown Mexican. You could never convince me to consider marrying a white or black woman. That’s dead.
Love after lock up is a prime example of how they choose wrong then complain that all men are trash.
Just let them talk.......SYSBM✈
Exactly
They theme song by Destiny Child was I need a Soldier! They sing if your status ain’t hood I ain’t checking for them! Street dudes are the Biggest Simps that spend money on these 304’s, that’s why they love them facts
Great video, and let's be clear, gentlemen that BW say they dont want to get married to hide their shame of " not" being able to get married. In my opinion, the majority of bw will say " yes" to a man who offers marriage . Not that they respect that guy buy marriage for any woman is a huge win and a respected " title ." Bw, major issue is no one's asking across all racial lines.
Facts, they all want marriage but they all are not wife's
I dont believe in a person being single by choice, i think it's more like i'm single by circumstance. I don't think anyone would choose to not be in a relationship with someone, if that individual ticks all of the required boxes they desire, meaning mentally,emotionaly, physically & financially. Most of the times the person you want just doesn't want you.
When modern women say that, they are essentially saying that they don't like their available options. The men they like don't want them... and the men they don't like want them.
10:08: Agreed. You see consistently in street interviews that they want thugs, scammers, and drug dealers. They say it out loud.
They use a very common tactic of bashing a group and while bashing, claiming that you responding, is evidence that their bashing claim is true because you are “triggered.” For example, “Nice guys are jerks and if you are bothered by that, it’s proof that you are triggered by the truth.” You cannot refute her claim either way.
You can refute it, but you can't reason with them.
Medium Man always does his research. Always on code. Always present the evidence....
Great content, bruh!!!!
Some of them going to sleep…. FOR GOOD! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭💀
Someone please send this video to that clueless brotha!!
Wait what!!!?? Bastard by Postal Service???😅😅😅 Please US Government dont ban TikTok...this ish is gold🤣🤣🤣
The quote "Everyones hot a plan until they get punched in the face" is actually Joe Louis' original quote.
The man lacked Active Listening skills.
She exposed all and he,replied stop playing.
Most bw don't want to be wives.
Especially to bm they are telling us all.
Be silent and take notes.
Why are we worried about who BW want to be with? If they want to roll the dice with Pookies and covicts then let them.
Agree. The worst thing a black man can do is run behind these women. If they don’t want to know let them go about their business.
Vid made a fool of himself.
Yep
When putting on the cape goes wrong! 😂😂😂
I completely understand where MM is coming from & i agree . Idc if a woman or women dont want a serious relationship , marriage or family cause its their life and choice . Where i draw the line , is if and when those particular women who proudly lived that lifestyle . Happen to run in to a guy , decide she now want to be serious but he is still living the lifestyle she had been up to that point . and he isnt at the place where he wants to be serious .So now she wants to cry foul about men as a whole or collective . STOP 🛑 RIGHT THERE !! , ma'am this is the very life you lived for decades , didnt want to be judged and enjoyed yourself . Because now its YOU who want to be serious or change because your older & hit the wall , get less attention from a certain group of guys , want to have children before to late or feel a husband would now be convenient for you etc . You dont get to trash or degrade the collective of men because they dont want that life yet , or with you or cause your not a star playa anymore but coming off the bench / reserve roster .
F a date if she ain’t paying not wasting money gettin to know ya baby
First off i have to give you your flowers and it was Rome from Average Man Unplugged, i am enjoying your content especially with the stats and all. And from one Verteran to another keep doing what you doing Brotha!
Yep, so please stop capping for them. Trust, they created and maintenan their own hell. They don't need your protection
Black women the age of the one complaining about none of her friends have been on proper dates didn't want to go on proper dates during college age years. It was all going to places where everyone else was going. Whether it was that one club that was supposed to be the place to go or one college party that they couldn't do anything else because they never wanted to wonder if they missed out on something.
Combine that with all the game playing and black men beginning to find out and get numerous confirmation about how other women just want to have fun if they're attracted to a black man, versus black women loving to make things difficult for the sake of their own egos.
Then after that age, they're surprised that it's a very different world socially without the convenience of a college campus. Now we're in the world of Cheese Cake Factory women where a real date is never good enough, being super concerned about a handful of NBA players that aren't dating black women, bitter women, over weight women, it's no wonder they don't get real dates.
That woman and her friends are not concerned about a real date in the context of doing a date that is fun with someone who they see as fun to be with.
They're complaining about the number of real dates in the context of tracking what is spent on them.
Medium Man I see your 12 bar ribbons in the background , way to virtue signal to your fellow Veterans on UA-cam, Thank you for your service.
Ladies if you are single and you have relations with multiple men. Instead of being in a relationship Practicing abstinence. Going into
A marriage. Instead of getting married. That's a problem.
Pray for this brotha, he's so lost. Great content Medium Man 😂😂😂
Well said. Great video. I'm pissed off too.
When simping goes wrong 🤣🤦🤔🇺🇸 this 304 not playing 🤣😄😂 Drizzle Drizzle Kings 🖤💯
They never gonna get it.
They get it. They are choosing the men that they want. Many dudes don’t get that these women know what they want.
This guy is going to have that one video or short that’s going to propel him to the next level. It’s just a matter of time
Another simp keeping for the sisterhood.
Get your passport gentlemen or go down with the ship
Black women love bloods and Crips rappers so thats why i wouldn't be a stepdaddy to them
31:20 I remember when I was on the Apps, I came across two men who were in prison... I don't understand how they can maintain having a phone in prison but I didn't pick those men. Obviously. I was just astonished that they made it happen.
I like how these same women
Don't have nothing to say when they 40 and on antidepressant.(facts) with plenty cats.smh
I love it
What you say no to and stand on business about is your true self.
Yoooo!!! That street guy confessional video was unbelievable.
I must say I will never change my ways as a good man because some mess it up
They are delusional. its sad! I already learned you gotta be a thug with a degree type.. crazy game we gotta play.
Correct me if I’m wrong but I believe that while the difference between black men and black women with college degrees, 28% and 22% may be 6 percentage points, it is not a 6% difference.
No because there’s more Black women in that age bracket than Black men.
At this point they are praying on these dudes which pisses me off. The reason why I believe they go for the dudes because those desperate idiots have no standards or boundaries for themselves as men.
That and they know they can easily control them or manipulate… in which they believe until they get capped
The numbers don't lie and facts don't give a f#$k about your feelings
They literally cash put on convicts
#SYSBM
He’s a Beta Male and have a feminine mindset….
22:00 good men expect women to be good. she calls this "not treating women right."
That single woman looks scary.
You KNOW you’ve failed in life when you’ve resulted to daring prisoners WHO ARE CURRENTLY, IN, PRISON!!!! 😂😂🤣🤣😆😆😆😆😆😆
Women go by feelings whether black, white or whatever color. That is why you “wine and dine” to woo women.
Based on where most black people are located, most black people are hood people. Even me. I like to separate myself from the term "hood people". While I don't do stereotypical hood activities, by proximity I am (unfortunately) a hood person until I can move out of the hood.
Unfortunate facts.
Also, we're multi-dimensional. Some street dudes are also nice guys. Some good men used to be hood dudes but they grew out of it.
I’ve said this so many times most black people don’t know what they’re talking about,unless they not really from a black inner city area and from the white suburbs.
Another excellent video brother. I have to say though where did you find that clip for “I love trash” that was just perfect.👍🏾
Wow.
I have no words
This is GOLD 😂😂😂