How To Message the “Hot Party Girl” Type - Text Game Breakdown

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 324

  • @IronManLifestyle
    @IronManLifestyle 4 роки тому +342

    Some real nuanced knowledge inside

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому +17

      Thanks man

    • @singhamgadhvi1875
      @singhamgadhvi1875 3 роки тому +1

      Good to u here iron man lifestyle. U guys should Collab

    • @IronManLifestyle
      @IronManLifestyle 3 роки тому +5

      Singham Gadhvi we are. Catch me live on Alex's channel on Sunday.
      And Alex on mine on Monday. Haha.

    • @singhamgadhvi1875
      @singhamgadhvi1875 3 роки тому

      @@IronManLifestyle Pretty excited about this. Notifications already turned on for you both

    • @_Hindustani_
      @_Hindustani_ 3 роки тому

      😁😁😁😁🙌🏼😁🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️🙏🏼❤️❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @mattleeder1
    @mattleeder1 4 роки тому +829

    She sounds like an amazing parental influence in her son's life.

  • @mylanmay
    @mylanmay 4 роки тому +460

    That was a masterclass in patience and non neediness. I would have thrown in the towel many times. Great job man

  • @wolfcreatr
    @wolfcreatr 3 роки тому +160

    Honestly this is so mentally exhausting😂😂😂you sir are a master of “chess-dating”. Super valuable info and you provide a lot of insight. The denying value and sticking to your guns about prioritizing your time works charms. Great video.

    • @Cybah
      @Cybah 3 роки тому +3

      you mean denying validation, not denying value.

  • @widz_
    @widz_ 3 роки тому +88

    11:15 LMAO
    girl: "my friends birthday is today"
    Alex: "Oh how fucking convenient"

  • @tylerhobbs7178
    @tylerhobbs7178 2 роки тому +50

    I applaud your persistence, but there’s no way I would go this hard for a single mother

    • @callanc3925
      @callanc3925 Рік тому +9

      @cromagnonman pretty sure he aint trying to keep her long term lmao

    • @andrewcruz7595
      @andrewcruz7595 Рік тому +3

      It's no used bro .. but overall good tactics to learn from this guy ...

  • @HookahDoncic98
    @HookahDoncic98 4 роки тому +86

    If a chick flakes on me twice I’m straight up dropping her lmao. This is a good strategy though, especially if she’s super fine and you have the patience. There are other women who’ll make you jump less hurdles to each his own

    • @colinogorman8279
      @colinogorman8279 3 роки тому +1

      Agreed 😂

    • @TheChariot99
      @TheChariot99 3 роки тому +17

      Twice?!..if she flakes once and doesn't remake a plan i'm out.

    • @PixelstarWASD
      @PixelstarWASD 2 роки тому +5

      I can say tho, I think over text it's not "flaking" in a sense as texting is just that. As long as you keep frame and on your own terms, like he does with not going to the club, then he isn't wasting time, she hits him up for things

  • @bohemiancasanova5538
    @bohemiancasanova5538 4 роки тому +76

    Perfect breakdown as always. Handled her like a boss. Btw.. would enjoy more of these archetype breakdowns. Already seen the bratty sub one it was amazing as well.

  • @michaellifts711
    @michaellifts711 4 роки тому +128

    Anyone else feel bad for this girl's son?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому +12

      Why

    • @calebjohnson7617
      @calebjohnson7617 4 роки тому +25

      PlayingWithFire 💪🏾😂 yo this guy cold asl

    • @siciliancannoliandanespres6021
      @siciliancannoliandanespres6021 3 роки тому +77

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel Appreciate your content but that woman is clearly not fit to parent lol. The drugs, the partying, the spontaneous sex, the quasi escorting/stripping.

    • @Pr3tti
      @Pr3tti 3 роки тому +3

      @@siciliancannoliandanespres6021 What? Who says parents can't have fun and party.

    • @morphkogan8627
      @morphkogan8627 2 роки тому +20

      @@Pr3tti LOL. you're missing the point buddy.

  • @ammarbarri4331
    @ammarbarri4331 4 роки тому +43

    This text game was absolutely masterpiece from you bro!
    I have girls coming to my place a lot in the last two months. Appreciate the work you have done it helps me a LOT.
    Shout out from 🇧🇾

  • @maccddyasydsydysyds
    @maccddyasydsydysyds 4 роки тому +39

    Dude you are a genius! Great content seriously. I had no idea this quasi-escort thing was a thing

  • @johanw2267
    @johanw2267 4 роки тому +63

    The modern quality woman, lmao.

  • @HowT0Code
    @HowT0Code 2 роки тому +19

    So methodical and precise, when you know exactly what you're doing. This is what being pro looks like, great vid

  • @AlxRayn
    @AlxRayn 3 роки тому +13

    Bro I’m from Miami and this text convo was “literally” hilarious, I can almost hear her Miami accent 😂

  • @Leo-yn5fx
    @Leo-yn5fx 4 роки тому +58

    This video is gonna be a banger

  • @armywashere
    @armywashere 4 роки тому +10

    I've been studying game intensely in my mom's basement. And one thing I could tell you Alex is, right when I thought I had game all figured out, you arrive. Your methods are completely unorthodox bro, you challenge the very essence of "neediness" and you're quite the swindler if I do say so myself. Nicely done. ;)

    • @JayJay-jw6zf
      @JayJay-jw6zf 3 роки тому

      Studying game in moms basement? You may wanna study some more bro unless you're like 18 or something

    • @Theeosees
      @Theeosees 2 роки тому

      Lmao

  • @AK-hi4hm
    @AK-hi4hm 4 роки тому +15

    these breakdowns are awesome man i'd watch em all, super practical stuff

  • @hakkaa8688
    @hakkaa8688 4 роки тому +7

    Best text game ever. 99.99% of men would have fucked this up. Good job dude. You avenge us all

  • @ThomasFoolery8
    @ThomasFoolery8 2 роки тому +10

    After you reject her PPM, most girls would just ghost you there. Holding your frame is a take it or leave it, and frankly, most girls would leave it and smash one of the hotter guys on her list. Acting like a hot guy doesn’t make you a hot guy. She still has two eyes.
    Her coming back to say she wants to smash you a few days later only happens if you’re really good looking. So there’s nothing wrong with your advice, but understand that results of using the same game will differ based on looks.

    • @gauravthadanii
      @gauravthadanii 11 місяців тому

      you can simply get better looking by hitting the gym, improving style and patience. only if you want tho

  • @christopherbolanos2480
    @christopherbolanos2480 2 місяці тому

    Legitimately speaking here you are the prime example of what I want to be in these dating apps . Yes I chose a wrong time to start .... Looks aren't everything and I need to work on myself more.

  • @Hp-lh3px
    @Hp-lh3px 4 роки тому +35

    Holyshit lmfao so much work 🤣 this girl toxic too 🤣😂🤣

  • @samoncam3139
    @samoncam3139 4 роки тому +16

    Dude you're a monster, never knew hooking up could be so complicated

  • @davidhetfield6
    @davidhetfield6 3 роки тому +8

    Great vid mate. Think I'd given up a long time ago... but very valuable to see you have to grind through it too sometimes.

  • @eck4324
    @eck4324 3 роки тому +8

    Lol nice vid man. I definitely fall victim to getting butt hurt from time to time, I am extremely logical and can see the bullshit so clearly and if I'm not in the right state of mind it can frustrate me quite a bit. Watching this video definitely reminded me about not falling into that frame keeping your own frame I liked it.

  • @ryangriffiths8329
    @ryangriffiths8329 4 роки тому +5

    Amazing mate.. I’m almost there with the texting.. tinder is having a hammering lately! Stay safe brother 👌🏻

  • @clementekpo7606
    @clementekpo7606 Рік тому +2

    Your text game is legendary 👏🏾

  • @enzoys
    @enzoys Рік тому +2

    bro how can a mom be so irresponsible she simply forgets you guys made plans 2 times in a row wth. Great breakdown as always, but honestly I got pissed off just by reading these texts of her, for me it's a no thanks!

  • @sammiller8091
    @sammiller8091 4 роки тому +10

    My god you have the patience of a Buddhist monk. Respect!

  • @bernard7057
    @bernard7057 4 роки тому +4

    I'm technically only a kid, but im going to college this upcoming schoolyear. Im starting to binhe watch these and put them to practice. Great stuff!! Might need to buy the full course.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому

      Enjoy bro. And yes, the course will definitely accelerate your learning by a lot

  • @tonydegraff7354
    @tonydegraff7354 4 роки тому +3

    One of my favorite channels now

  • @mrswolls
    @mrswolls Рік тому +2

    That's a lot of bull shit to go through it's like dealing with an insane person

  • @buckybarnes3803
    @buckybarnes3803 4 роки тому +19

    I'm working on this one right now who is a young hot musician, but she's just the opposite. She's nice kind and responsive. Haven't met up yet as we're still figuring out logistics, but it's scary how non flaky she has been. I keep waiting for the other shoe to drop

    • @heisenbergh9986
      @heisenbergh9986 4 роки тому +8

      How’s the metal arm conversation gonna go?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому +18

      Lol some chicks hate flaking just as much as we do

    • @buckybarnes3803
      @buckybarnes3803 4 роки тому +10

      @@heisenbergh9986 she's looking forward to my vibrating fingers

    • @buckybarnes3803
      @buckybarnes3803 4 роки тому +14

      @@stephanea5364 the name of the girl I was talking about is stephane B, so nice try

  • @mosesruperto7128
    @mosesruperto7128 2 роки тому +2

    Brother man, I would have checked out on this chick much earlier lol. I admire your patience.

  • @jordonpollock1550
    @jordonpollock1550 Рік тому +3

    This video is hilarious af.. I usually never bother with these broads cause they're such a waste of time but you easily flew through the countless shit tests making me question whether its worth trying. Tbh as soon as I match with someone with IG or a link in their bio I laugh to myself and unmatch

  • @Nola_Zman
    @Nola_Zman 2 роки тому +4

    I laughed so hard when he said Come to Mr. Alex😂

  • @bfourney
    @bfourney 4 роки тому +24

    As soon as she said “with my son” after being out clubbing the night before I’d have been out. I don’t give af how hot she is wtf you doin at the club all night when u got kids bih?

    • @JGLtv
      @JGLtv 4 роки тому +2

      💯

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому

      Everyone’s got their own values

    • @bfourney
      @bfourney 4 роки тому

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel For real this is really top notch game for dealing with chicks like this that I would've chased like 5 or 10 years ago tho. So much fucking gold in here. Cum to Mr Alex? I was fuckin loling. She was prob trying to get you to the club to make sure you weren't a catfish tho.

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому

      @@bfourney Didn't seem like it. If that were the case though, she'd have suggested a recourse. Or just hinted at being hesitant that I may not be real

    • @adamzoubi96
      @adamzoubi96 4 роки тому

      I don't fuck moms regardless of the situation

  • @dkdabdab9137
    @dkdabdab9137 4 роки тому +1

    Very good. Btw when reading playing with fire when u used RSD max was so funny.

  • @tshaj59170
    @tshaj59170 3 роки тому +5

    Cheers from France. What a masterclass

  • @chrisg9159
    @chrisg9159 4 роки тому +4

    Dude that was a masterpiece. You are the man!

  • @christianvaldez755
    @christianvaldez755 4 роки тому +5

    Thats was faia, waiting for your Instagram video alex

  • @iambadatpickingusernames6669
    @iambadatpickingusernames6669 3 роки тому +7

    Isn't the real high value thing to do just give up on pursuing an annoying woman with lots of red flags and spend the time pursuing better ones?

    • @WolfofAsia012
      @WolfofAsia012 2 роки тому +1

      It take 2 mins to write a text

    • @callanc3925
      @callanc3925 Рік тому

      On and off texting someone isnt exactly pursuing. You also have to consider most girls dont see their own red flags, especially if theyre the spontaneous party girl type. So they wont see you "pursuing" them as a sign of low value because they dont value themselves lowly (in their mind)

  • @spartandzvtennis
    @spartandzvtennis 2 роки тому +3

    I love this guy 🤣. Great info and laughing my ass off at the same time

  • @tim7517
    @tim7517 3 роки тому

    This n*gga’s a god damn Tinder Jedi. You Savin lives out here. Respect.

  • @russiandrivers9986
    @russiandrivers9986 3 роки тому +3

    I've met girls just like this. With some of them, you're better off just paying than having to deal with their personality.

  • @SebastianKunysz
    @SebastianKunysz 3 роки тому +1

    Nice video. Volume is important keeps you in abundance too. The less these type of girls matter the better it turns out.

  • @mav6232
    @mav6232 4 роки тому +3

    I find some many beautiful insights in the cracks within these videos! I should start taking notes!

  • @sunnyali2550
    @sunnyali2550 3 роки тому

    6:02 your explanation cracks me tf up but it’s so true

  • @saszablaze1
    @saszablaze1 9 місяців тому

    great vids. loving the channel tbh, seen a lot of your material this past week, and hooked. i'm great at feeling stuff out, and even though a lot of this is cheesy & a bunch of your material is a bit caveman-ish, and just interested in sex clearly (i've done it, i get it), you have solid shit
    that first example is great if she is sexualizing to start off!
    party girl, and bratty gals are WILD!!
    you'd get a lot more interest if you send videos, songs, or puppies, or silly gifs. anything to pump their state without validating them.

  • @chike4697
    @chike4697 2 роки тому

    You are a very patient man. No wonder I get no females, I don’t have the tolerance my lord

  • @romankozlovskiy7899
    @romankozlovskiy7899 4 роки тому +1

    You was blowing up her ego making her act more in the way she was

  • @siyabongadlamini6722
    @siyabongadlamini6722 2 роки тому +1

    I was sure he aint gonna get her, damn man has achieved God mode...🔥

  • @EspinalCarlos1
    @EspinalCarlos1 2 роки тому

    You have the patience of a saint bro 🤣 not sure if I’d have the willpower to keep persisting like you do. Guess if she’s hot enough, swing for the fences..

  • @capitalize7775
    @capitalize7775 3 роки тому +7

    Bro she seems like too much work just for one night lol. Props to you for making the kill though 😎

  • @kiang8269
    @kiang8269 3 роки тому

    Dude you crack me up with some of your comments!

  • @rykson161
    @rykson161 3 роки тому

    Succinct and Benchmark ...this guys favorite words !

  • @lilrosebush
    @lilrosebush 3 роки тому

    Yo your patients is godly

  • @zetheman
    @zetheman 4 роки тому +1

    I think you mean for ",party girls" , is crazy independent bitches type..lol they always try flip on you, show how good they are via social media etc, emotionally unstable, and have that strange vision of the world, as you mentioned.
    I dated people like this in the past too.
    Another very good video 👍

  • @tambo776
    @tambo776 4 роки тому +1

    Omg this video explains so many of my younger experiences with women holy fuck. Mind blown

  • @Wtf123388
    @Wtf123388 4 роки тому +3

    My mans a legend

    • @Wtf123388
      @Wtf123388 4 роки тому

      Funmi Layo good looking out homie

  • @steezgod3671
    @steezgod3671 3 роки тому

    this is the most impressive thing on this channel

  • @theone1480
    @theone1480 3 роки тому +2

    I wish I had seen this sooner. had a girl flake last second and I told her she deserves to be single as I unmatched. I should have been chill

    • @christiancardenas6811
      @christiancardenas6811 3 роки тому

      I know man. Looking back on my passed exchanges, I could have gotten a lot of chicks if I had just been patient and persistent. Glad to be learning all this now.

  • @enyce8707
    @enyce8707 3 роки тому +1

    Holy fuck, this was a hard one to pull. Props!

  • @AlbertoEscobar335
    @AlbertoEscobar335 3 роки тому +2

    I wonder what was the purpose or the rationalization for texting her saturday when they made plans for sunday? I legit wanna know where would things would've gone if she hadnt invited him to club

  • @slashdash5279
    @slashdash5279 Рік тому

    One of your best videos

  • @dima6488
    @dima6488 2 роки тому +1

    Lol a chick flakes on me once, she better have a good explanation. Twice? I'm out. Respect for your persistence

  • @DivinityHades
    @DivinityHades 2 роки тому

    I have never enjoyed a video this much.

  • @christopherreece6776
    @christopherreece6776 5 місяців тому

    *slow cap*
    that was something lol

  • @CustomerHub3
    @CustomerHub3 4 роки тому +1

    Solid content 💉
    Love from SA

  • @everdash
    @everdash 2 роки тому +2

    Step 1.) Just don't.
    Don't.
    There. I've saved you a ton of emotional stress and thousands of dollars .

  • @Whyistomatoafruit
    @Whyistomatoafruit 3 роки тому

    Soon as I saw the adorable pupper, I would have been over at his door in 10 seconds flat.

  • @fordmartyn3219
    @fordmartyn3219 4 роки тому +3

    It’s not just part girl thinking she is goddam single mom she will prioritize kids first and her needs ! Also you seems like a charismatic dude confident you know some serious texting game why do you bother to waste your time in such a women like that you could easily pick up like 2-3 other chicks with this time investment and energy really. Well if it’s for entertainment purposes then it’s understandable

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому +2

      I like the challenge. Also, it really takes barely any time to send a text

  • @RichObiQuan
    @RichObiQuan 2 роки тому +1

    Damn. I would’ve been on to the next. I dislike dealing with wishy washy girls like that

  • @lanetacker1496
    @lanetacker1496 2 роки тому

    Bro your a straight badass what a masterclass

  • @julla1416
    @julla1416 3 роки тому

    Awesome videos. Thank you,.

  • @bobdole991
    @bobdole991 2 роки тому

    Points for grinding it out, at the same time the ecstasy situation might’ve messed it up.

  • @SerethTV
    @SerethTV 3 роки тому

    “Just popped some molly” 📈 lmaoo

  • @d.s.premkumar8004
    @d.s.premkumar8004 2 роки тому +1

    Man I can relate to your game being an introvert. I hope you are an introvert?

  • @KakiTee
    @KakiTee 3 роки тому +1

    this text journey was max difficulty, would have made dominating her so much easier
    maybe that was her master plan 🤔 xD
    VWP

  • @morgangalegarcia6946
    @morgangalegarcia6946 2 роки тому

    Mann you are a Master at Game Texting Dude how did you learn all this because is very difficult who was your teacher bro o did you learn by your self

  • @chak9360
    @chak9360 4 роки тому +1

    Is there anyway around explaining urself at 9:55 , thanks

  • @Christian23724
    @Christian23724 4 роки тому +1

    Lol this sounds like a fucking nightmare saying yes to all the plans "in the moment" but then always flaking. Lol wow

  • @singhamgadhvi1875
    @singhamgadhvi1875 3 роки тому +3

    Damn bro u a legend

  • @eliphillips9691
    @eliphillips9691 2 роки тому

    Great Breakdown

  • @matthewalexander1943
    @matthewalexander1943 2 роки тому

    Chateau Heartiste, thou shouldst be living at this hour.

  • @brettstefanishin574
    @brettstefanishin574 4 роки тому +1

    this guy's good.

  • @sikkableeat5614
    @sikkableeat5614 Рік тому +2

    Absolutely nowhere near worth the effort.

  • @teresemariecloonan.c7739
    @teresemariecloonan.c7739 3 роки тому

    Who wouldn’t love this guy! Trying to get lucky...

  • @lilrosebush
    @lilrosebush 3 роки тому

    Interesting how you played this one ✍️

  • @kieransciabbarrasi8628
    @kieransciabbarrasi8628 6 місяців тому

    what a smart girl

  • @enzoys
    @enzoys Рік тому +2

    this honestly doesn't even look like a conversation, it's like you are trying to interact with an austistic person or smt, wth

  • @AzraelisHorny
    @AzraelisHorny 3 роки тому

    solid advice thank you

  • @SN1P3ZxELIT3
    @SN1P3ZxELIT3 3 роки тому

    This dudes spittin the truth

  • @jonpatricklong
    @jonpatricklong 2 роки тому

    Nicely done

  • @gasanova6328
    @gasanova6328 3 роки тому +2

    Why does he always look like he's about to burp but keeping it in? 🤣😂

  • @petelodge8197
    @petelodge8197 3 роки тому

    Brilliance. You're a pro.

  • @sedentarycub5775
    @sedentarycub5775 3 роки тому

    DAMN BOI DAAAAMN BOOOY you crazy dawg, a fucking pro. Nice going 😜

  • @liamfinn9709
    @liamfinn9709 3 роки тому

    Do you do any videos on game in person? Genuine question

  • @vilsainity962
    @vilsainity962 4 роки тому +1

    Ive needed you in my life man I most definitely would’ve fucked this up

  • @edwardwebb5636
    @edwardwebb5636 4 роки тому +1

    Will you consider showing how to text the “Live!” or “Next|Date” girl type?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому

      I’m confused. What do you mean man

    • @NGeeTee
      @NGeeTee 4 роки тому

      PlayingWithFire thought it was just me 🤣🤣

    • @edwardwebb5636
      @edwardwebb5636 4 роки тому

      Apps like POF have baked in video chatting thru a 3rd party (Live! & Next|Date). Tinder is barely testing a similar feature. But with the one on POF you enter the girl’s room and all the viewers can chat with her. The ‘Next|Date’ piece comes into play when the girl chooses to video chat with you directly while all the commenters are also watching

    • @NGeeTee
      @NGeeTee 4 роки тому

      Edward Webb oh okay

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому

      Oh. That honestly just seems like a waste of time

  • @turnupsociety6711
    @turnupsociety6711 4 роки тому

    best video bro helped alot