How To Keep Calm During An Argument - Joe Rogan Method
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- Опубліковано 21 лис 2024
- Ever wanted to know how to keep calm during arguments and confrontations? Joe Rogan is a master at keeping his cool, having debated and argued with 1000s of guests on his podcast. We can learn a lot from him. This video is a case study demonstrating some of the methods he uses to maintain a cool head in the midst of chaos.
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He smokes weed gets relaxed
@@porsche200471 Thank you very much.
@@psychospartan3007 It could help, no doubt.
@kroooassant Thanks for the insight. Welcome to the channel!
So he breathes through his mouth because his nose is busted.
Joe maintains his cool because he knows that he can roundhouse kick the majority of his guests into the next pandemic.
Hahahe
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💃🏿😂😂😂😂🤭☺️
and, he is stoned :)
He can actually imagine that as he is closing his eyes.
Actually Joe only picks fights with guys he thinks he can beat up
How To Keep Calm During An Argument (Be like Joe):
don't raise your voice
don't move too much
control your breathing
attack the argument, not the person
Be humble and modest
Smoke weed as well
never lose your temper never lose your head and if you want to be a highlander be balanced
and don't get involved
Thank you 💚 was looking for this💕
Wow...I think there are three men that should have grasped this prior to the debate. That being said, some people act excited and aggressive to throw their opponent off guard.
1. Don’t raise your voice
2. Watch your posture (don’t take up too much space and don’t move to much)
3. Control your breathing
4. Don’t attack the person’s character
5. Understand your ego (don’t cling to who you think you are)
Brian Prior underrated comment
Thank you for this!
@R J why you need shortcuts lol
Try having a sister like mine, you'd have to add: 'don't punch them out' to your list.
7. dont call them racist, xenophobe, homophobe, and ect if you dont agree with their opinion.
It's so hard not to get nervous and my heart racing when arguing with someone. Especially when they are being totally unreasonable
I get this, I my voice starts cracking and hands start shaking, sounding and looking like a wimp lol
It isn’t always important to win an argument.
In fact… the majority of arguments are literally pointless.
In most cases… you can simply walk away, and the argument (win or lose) will have zero impact on your life.
I understand, and it's because at the end of the day you're worried about what they'll think of you, which you cannot control, which is an extension of anxiety. The only real solution is to just accept that they might not understand you, and you have to REALLY try your best to not give aF. But I know it's hard, genuinely.
My hands shake but it’s not out of panic or fear it’s more of adrenaline and being mad atleast for me.
@@HoffyRSme to. My calves stiffens just like the times before i enter a jiujitsu contest
Joe is a good example of a guy who has his shit together. A guy who's shaped himself into his best version. It's admirable.
sinkingships offools So just because he never worked at a job that makes him something less?
@sinkingships offools idk what you are but I'm going to assume Joe is far more successful than you will ever be. In probably all areas of life. "real job" is a subjective term. All that matters is he went from an average guy to one of the most known/successful people on the planet. How about you? Have you done so much w your life that even Joe rogans journey looks pathetic? Or are you just a whiney little twat?
@sinkingships offools he's extremely successful and seems genuinely happy with his life. That's the best it fucking gets. Not successful and suicidal because you hate your job. You have the mentality of a child if you think money and social status is what makes a person. You act like calling him a stoner is an insult, nothing wrong with smoking; he doesn't seem like he's hurting anyone around him because of it so why talk shit?
@sinkingships offools becoming a neurosurgeon doesn't make you relevant either. You're just jealous.
@Mmm 333 Which scientists?
Joe: Have you ever tri-
Neil: The mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell
Joe couldn't get a word in with NDT cuz he lowkey got him hiiiiiiighhh and towards the end of interview he was gone!
😂😂
@Philo Beddoe - Unfortunately, that's true. Nice bloke at times, but sometimes NDT can be a real jackass.
@@wiseonwords r/iamverysmart incarnate
Ndt thinks he's so smart, he is really a dumbass that doesn't understand basic conversation and cues of irritation
All you need to do is question him on weed and he forgets all these calm techniques
or DMT
Trevor to be fair it was one argument over many and they both came out and said that they regret getting heated like that
Earth is flat
“You're adorable, you're adorable"
That Hanna Montana weed
I've been practicing just not raising my voice for a week now, not just when actually talking to people but more importantly with the self talk in my head and rehearsing arguments. I've found it amazingly powerful for reducing feeling anxiety and anger
Same! Coming from someone with anger issues.
rehearsing arguments is useless ! people only do that after the fact.
Nah, do the fucker
womder how that is going 3 years later
ive now learnt that because i workout 6 days a week and know how to fight that i have an ego on that and get very mad with alot of people when they disrespect me. i dont dominate them or challenge them to a fight but i get so mad in my head knowing i could do some damage to them and "teach them a lesson"
this video has taught me i really need to work on my ego and accept that not everyone is going to be respectful and i need to be ok with that
He who raises his voice first, loses the argument- Ancient Chinese proverb
You mean “ancient Chinese secret” or is that from a detergent commercial??
anyone that dares to critic the chinese government not a commie
We agree!
HE WHO HITS FIRST WINS -Albert Einstein
Sorry. Not true. I've let other hit first, they did not come back for more.
Also something that wasn't mentioned - If you're in an argument and you keep getting cut off while talking, just sit silent and let the other person go on a rant. Once they're done they'll realize that they're very loud and detached from the point of the argument.
This happened to me few days ago, I was sat down and the guy was standing and too fidgety, talking with his hands way too close to my face. I used to be very short tempered but for some reason, I was so shocked by his reasoning and his monologue that I ended up not replying anymore....At some point he stopped talking and left....
the thing i like about joe rogan is that he wasn't always like that, which means he figured it out and made a conscious decision to conduct himself this way
It is the mark of an Educated mind to be able to Entertain a thought without Accepting it. Bravo Joe.
Cameron West Who pays 100.000$ for education? lol
But education can also refer to private education, reading etc. so you’re wrong
Educated? Bwah!
Agreed except I’d change the phrase educated mind to a trained mind.
Lol... Joe is an idiot.
Here's Joe Rogan's mantra for staying calm during an interview; "Spotify is paying me 100 million bucks. Spotify is paying me 100 million bucks. Spotify...".
that was good lmao
For 100 million bucks I would also be a fucking Dalai Lama
Lol
I mean..he goes through a lot to bring the guests onto his show. He might as well let them talk, the people want to hear the guests not Joe.
@James
Two weeks after applying his method to my life, my life has completely changed.
Public speaking, social anxi ety problems, and various types of addi ctions have begun to disappear.
search youtube "paradox of I can do it"
Not raising your voice and keeping calm often drives the person you're agruing with nuts and makes them even more angry.
😅🤣😂🤣😅 True! I've been accused of being a snartarse, because, I chose to remain calm and not blow up lol
that doesn't make it a bad idea
Sometimes that’s the best reason to do it! 😂👍🏼
I'm surprised more ppl can't relate. Maybe it's because a Lot of ppl don't practice this method.
I think its not as easy as it sounds. Because u can come up as arrogant and standing above the others.
So to have the described effect you have to stay calm but let your "opponent" feel respected.
never realized that Neil does that a LOT
Causes he's overcompensating
I like the guy generally but HOLY SHIT what an asshole he was being there.
he does cause of the rate of things he's trying to put out at a single moment, and which is impossible, brain moves faster than the mouth, paired with the fact that its confirmed at the very least in his mind that he knows more about what they're talking about, cause its usually science, only time ull slow down to think is if ure not sure of what to say, now problem is he should calm down often, if uve seen alot of his videos, ull see he's hyperactive especially when its science
Yeah neils a pos
zépedro 8 for sure
Whenever I realize I'm talking with someone that likes to interrupt i start to interject less and less until it's just them talking to themselves. But I hold eye contact with them with an expectant look. Eventually most people realize what they're doing and start to let me talk. But if they don't I just say, "hey I gotta go" and double jet.
jackybs Excellent comment. Thank you, sir.👍🏻
I strongly suggest not going through that process in the first place and just listen more than talking. Understanding that such a thing is rare in this world and allowing others to speak the entire time if they won't stop will be recognized at a huge gift which will be reciprocated by the talker if you see them again. If not, you are maturing. One of the reasons why people must keep talking is because of the rarity there is for listening.
Most people on operating on a flowchart path where they must battle to be heard and interact with others who don't care about self-improvement so they battle back. Once they meet you starting off listening not going through a shut down process, they'll instantly notice and change before you leave giving both of you a higher quality discussion. Of course, others will abuse your silence which causes them to remain poorly developed as you grow.
jdrodrigues7 That is only true of considerate, introspective and reasonably intelligent people with the ability to look back at events without personal bias. Unfortunately, in my experience at least, most people aren’t like this and perform all manner of mental gymnastics (South Park 👍🏻) to see themselves as the victor. People kid themselves and avoid taking an honest look at who they really are.
me too lol
@@blackpagan100 You are right! I mentioned that in my original comment. I fully understand. My neighbor is one of the worst types of those bad types you described.
The true power is the self esteem Joe has cultivated by working out, chasing his dreams, growing spiritually. He also focuses on truth, but also recognizes he doesn't know everything and wants to give people the platform to express themselves.
"If you feel the urge to prove yourself right, first try to prove yourself wrong."
This helps to eliminate any counter arguments against you.
I dont get this ro be honest
@@Viv8ldi Analog is suggesting that "steel-manning" the other side(s) of your position -- e.g., finding the fault(s) and errors in what you think is "The Way" on a given idea -- is the best path to see how others will argue *against* your position on that thing. 'Find what's wrong with what you think is what's right.' It's also a terrific and instructive way just to be a wiser, cooler human. ❤🔥
The main thing: don't debate with your emotions, educate yourself and use logic and facts. Conversations are derailed when people get emotional and Joe would agree.
People debate with opinions and usually state them as logical facts.
Bro just watch joes debate with Steven crowder on marijuana. Any time joe gets into an actual argument he goes hulk mode
U r damn right
Mike Justice well said
@a-Tron if someone argues that, then it sounds like a person that I don't want to talk to anyways. Those types of people are only out to 'win' and discussion and usually they only exist on the internet and aren't use to having real life discussions.
They're not arguments, by any stretch of the imagination. Joe is almost never emotionally invested in any of the things his guests talk about. He has them on for a reason, to let them share their opinion, views or expertise. This is his podcast, no one is coming on to demolish him or dominate him in an argument. They're simply fired up about a subject they are passionate about in that moment. Joe is also usually stoned or has a few drinks in him. He doesn't give an F, nor should he. He has this platform for a reason.
And besides, that's the point, it's a podcast, you can have a debate every once and then. Joe I bet he learned how to control the flow of his podcasts, he is a comedian, he knows how to prepare.
oh he definitely is emotionally invested in many things, for example, the transgender issues, when eddie goes off the rails, when the sjw topics pop up. and most recently his thoughts on Covid-19.
@@SAV1080p weed is the best example ,like with crowder
@@Gzurek71 oh yeah, I forgot about that one. Joe is cool, but he doesn't like to feel stupid or less than any guest he doesn't take seriously.
He even does it to fellow comedians, like Theo Von.
Jesus Dude shut up
You can tell Joe wants to slap the universes out of Dr. Neill DeGrasse Tyson.
I like Dr.Tyson but damn he was being a jerk.... he should have at least picked up on Joe's annoyance and made an adjustment to be more respectful.
@@em2012ish
His observation skills were stuck in a black hole. It's one thing to interrupt once or twice but damn!!!
Yea, I like listening to NDT when he is doing lectures or when he is speaking on his own, but when he is forced to interviews or lectures with other people he comes off as an egotistical a-hole always needing to be the focus of attention.
@@ScubzMcTalBowling he talks for a living and he loves rants and tangenhs, I think it's really a bad quality that he doesn't understand how to hold space for Joe in the conversation.
Dr.Tyson is probably so smart in other ways he may be a bit lacking in the social department, but we don't need him to be a gifted socialite, we need him to be a wicked smart space guy
1:45 - keep control of your voice
1:53 - amygdala hijack (oldest part of our brain, seen as an emotional Center)
2:11 - in a stressful situation, our brains cut off the slow thinking - and access amygdala
3:01 - awesome way to handle someone (ok keep going)
3:14 - Joe is defending himself here (does he need to do that? Is he just responding)
4:28 - arguments is not the time to assert dominance
4:33 - control your breathing
6:05 - avoid ad hominem attacks
6:13 - character attacks by Trump
6:32 - Joe Rogan does a grate job at dissecting the argument
7:40 - your world view is not always correct (observe another’s persons perspective as a 3rd party observer)
7:47 - objective is to discover the truth - not to find ways where you are right
8:05 - understand your ego - your minds representation of yourself (which is not always right)
Thank you 👍
Thanks a lot
A lot of this is just maturity.
Major Allen Espy Bingo.
Yeah, but in our over analytical word you get Podcasts on Podcasters 😂
Someone needs to do a video on this dude breaking down another dude disguised a dude.
Maturity, yes. But also takes a measure of self-discipline at the same time.
@@SilentKnight43 yes
Over analysis, he’s just chill because he is stoned.
he's not usually high for the podcast. every once in a while he will take a couple puffs on the podcast, but thats rare anymore.
Most definitely
@D C no he isnt, hes defo stoned tho
@D C amen, dumb loud ass people can be even dumber and louder sometimes when they get high. we all wish it could, but the truth is weed can't fix everybody.
@@bonappletea7294 we can only fix ourselves.
1) Weed.
2) He prioritizes hearing the other person's perspective over winning an argument...which is in part because he runs the podcast and can broadcast his thoughts later.
3)DMT 4)Elk meat
Yeah, it's easy to come out ahead in an arguement when you get to make a final statement, get some level of control over the subject matter, and get power of editing the entire argument while your opponent doesn't
@@arthas640 I'm not a JR expert but I don't think he (or his team) does much editing of his guests ever. I think he's a good listener and is usually genuinely curious about his guests opinions. That's why they're on his show- because he wants to talk to them.
People who think over simplifying things makes them sound more “honest” and genuinely intelligent are so annoying. I think his 5 point break down is simple enough without reducing everything to a gross observation like yours.
@@ether6136 People who inject their own assumptions of others' motivations into inflammatory youtube comments are definitely not annoying.
This has been so enlightening. My mother hijacks my amygdala on a daily basis and in response I always say ridiculous things i regret. This is made worse due to my chronic cortisol issues which are due to being severely abused in my childhood. I'm so fed up of her bringing this side out of me. It's a vicious circle. I want to keep calm and not let her get a rise out of me. She has this power over me that must be stopped. I will practice these techniques. Thank you.
"He keeps his mouth open all the time... I suspect that this helps him breathe."
i don't know man i wouldn't go jumping to conclusions here
No no! Let him work through this,
I think it’s going somewhere...
You breath thru your nose, exhale out your mouth. That's the proper way to breath.
He's also had his nose broken numerous times.
@@capatheist 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Neil tyson is the most annoying guest Rogan has ever had....dude loves listening to himself more than anyone
He's a great narrator for shows, but definitely has no communication skills. But I guess every genius has his flaws, right?
I really prefer Sean Carroll
Pixeltainment yep. It doesn’t make him as good as he thinks he is but people who get so much praise get an enormous ego and they forget respect for others. I see it in many IT professionals.
@@dondasher58 Most IT people are introverts that don't like attention.
@@DanielKlierP Imagine implying Neil is a genius
As a lifelong martial artist, I can tell you that his background in martial arts plays a major role. A truly refined martial artist understands that 'calm is the ultimate superpower'.
Very interesting perspective, thanks.
@@Misheezee IT'S TOTALLY TRUE, YOU LEARN " DISCIPLINE ". You also get very humbled at first starting out in the " ARTS ".
Very interesting. Thanks for sharing, Al.
Ouu. I like it.
I don`t deliberately raise my voice, i don`t like to intimidate people, i get too emotional when its something i am passionate about.
Raising your voice doesnt intimidate people. Being calm when they are are screaming at you about how theyre going to kick your ass is what is intimidating. When you know you can ragdoll someone, their threats garner no emotional reaction from you as you know that ultimately, you would destroy them if they decide to get stupid
Same here AUSSIE
@@MichaelHoward-td9qm 'zactly. Which is more powerful, and nearly always accompanies someone who actually has the skill-set to execute on it: A person screaming across a room, " _I'm gonna get you!_ " ... or the person next to you who *whispers it* ? 😆 Cheers.
@@MichaelHoward-td9qmhow do you know they can’t ragdoll you rampage
I've lost so much respect for Neil over the years.
He's a cabal puppet. Should never have had any respect.
He’s just human. He’s brilliant and a great teacher but he has idiosyncrasies and is not infallible. He’s not a puppet of any cabal. That’s just paranoid racism.
That's where you and I differ I lost respect for Neill the first time I heard him speak. Nothing there to be respected.
Yeah the more famous he gets, the more annoying he gets.
He's a good example of a person who can not handle his ego.
Mark Golden Are you at all aware of his actual accomplishments, aside from being another egomaniacal talking head? His ability to share his vast knowledge and teach it in an interesting way on its own should garner him a little respect, but he’s also done a lot for mankind. Just look up the things in which he’s participated over the years. Much more useful, important shit than what most people do.
I love an entire video braking down Joe's "monk like" interview style, his complex breathing and talking techniques,
in reality Joe takes 2 tokes before each interview. Thats the entire technique.
"You can tell from his micro-expressions"... micro? Joe is literally rolling his eyes at one point when Neil interrupts him :D
I guess macro would be flipping the table?
Well seeing how he could have yelled at him or started a fight, I think eye rolling would count as micro-expression
...and the guy still didn't catch on 😅 Goes to show how smart Neil really is
@@dblackviper2k3 that would be spin kicking them on the ass
Exactly, you can see that from across the room.
wow I really needed this. Im in a situation where I am chronically interrupted and been losing my cool lately, which is something I've been extremely self-aware of in most situations in the past few years, but this one has been a chronic challenge and I do not want to be reactive. TY for this gem.
Me too! I'm in a situation atm. I have bpd so I'm just keeping calm and watching youtube until these houseguests that have worn out their welcome leave. Not sure I'll ever offer to help anyone again after this experience lol
He's calm until somebody gets knocked out. "OHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!" - Joe Rogan 😂
That’s a celebration 🤔 he’s referring to arguments
Haha He loves a solid leg kick too “OOOOOHHHHH”
"OHHH" Rogan
He tagged him
@@Bloodyknukelzz Yeah, but it's also part of his job. Joe Buck is hated as an NFL announcer because he's so f'ing boring. Joe is loved as an announcer partly because he gets excited at the exciting parts.
This video came out in 2019 but all the comments are from like 3 days ago
Max
Google Algorythms want people to see it, in these days.
UA-cam algorithms
UA-cam do be like that
And now I see this comment.. 3 days after you posted it :o
Travis Monahan same
I doubt Neil is ever invited back on the show.
Are you sure about that? He's already been there 3 times...
Amirul exactly
Lance thats what "POC" means 😂
@Lance that doesn't matter at all lol
Cite your evidence
He’s fully in control of himself and it’s AWESOME. That is where your real power is, is when you don’t let others actions or words control your actions or words. I’ve stayed calm with mild responses with people yelling in my face 😳 it’s hard but it’s about know you’re in control of yourself…helps to be secure and confident in yourself too.
I learned decades ago on a debating team that self control was even more important than material knowledge of the subject. The trick was to be measured and calm, even when being made uncomfortable, and it will happen. Joe does a great job with interviews, not just by his questions, but by his reserve and professionalism.
He also always looks down or at Jamie when he’s annoyed with his guests.
Always remember. It's a practice. Every day. Good luck everyone!
It's always easier said than done
Thank you for this.
@@krispysback true but practice is the only way to get better at anything..
“A person without self-control is like a city with broken-down walls.”
Proverbs 25:28 NLT
“Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger;”
James 1:19 ESV
Amen!
Advice from a book written 2,000 years ago and still amazing. Thank you.
Over the years I searched for wisdom and advice from other humans then I read the book in earnest and realized that all I need is one two-thousand year old book to answer my questions.
"A fart without a smell is an auditory illusion." DRV 101.
Tyson doesn’t like anyone else talking but himself.
Rockstar science. If he had stuck with how to make it fun to correlate science with odd neat stuff, he’d be awesome. Now it’s kind of a shark jump and hearing how correct he is.
tyson is a windbag...hes annoying
@@JKDMan2000 agree. as smart as he may or may not be, he's not as smart as he thinks he is.
Tyson is an egotistical fool. Can't listen to him.
Funny seeing probably non publishing people talk about an astrophysicist 😂. Maybe if you actually listen to him you would actually learn something.
Don't raise your voice, improve your argument.
Unless you’re a woman because Islam is right.
ThePsychopath MGTOW Wat
@@ghostup101 bruuuh
He's fighting. He's using the same techniques fighters use to keep themselves calm and thinking in a fight rather than devolving into frustration and fighting on instinct. You have to be able to adapt as you go just in case someone is using a technique that's been tailor made for you.
My girlfriend gets even more mad at me when I stay calm and she says I’m too nonchalant about it. I can’t win man
Sounds pretty toxic to me - you should drop her ass while you still can, my man. Women should not be a burden
@@justagerman140
Well, it also depends on the context, like I dont know he did and you probably don't so you shouldn't say that.
Had the same thing with ex wife. Complained I was TOO calm when we fought and argues. They associate it with being cold with no feelings.
mine too. and then when i do try to get a word in 'edgewise' she say's "don't interrupt me"
WOMEN ? AFTER A WHILE I'LL STICK WITH MY 60'S CAMARO'S, MY JEEP, MY DOBES., MY LOG HOUSE IN THE MOUNTAINS & MY LEFT HAND. WELL LUBE & PORN OF COURSE TOO ? YOU DON'T KNOW ANY BODY TILL YOU LIVE WITH THEM & THEN, " WHAT DO YOU REALLY KNOW " ? I THOUGHT IT WAS BO KNOW'S EVERYTHING ?
He is a life long Martial Artist. He is trained to stay calm during stressful situations.
No. He is not
Right on the spot!
@@costazurra Actually; He is. He even fought competitively
After searching and going through several videos on this topic this video comes out as the best , it’s not too long, not too preachy, provides practical advice with enough scientific and visual evidence that convinces me to work on my inability to win arguments productively, thank you so much.
Imagine if he just round house kicked Tyson’s head off.
I would pay to see it. Can he do Bill Nye next. Psuedo Scientists.
Tyson would regrow two heads 🤣🤣🤣
Please be specific which Tyson not mike 😂😂👀
Loren rogan can beat mike's ass tho
I kinda wish he had. I couldn’t even make it through the episode. He was cutting him off and insulting his intellect. It was really weird cuz they were always good prior to that.
Joe is almost an enlightened being without being aware of it.
Erik Westerveld he is aware of it but he doesn’t like taking responsibility of it you’ll notice a lot of the time he makes the effort to say he has a brain of chimp and downplay his own knowleadge but that’s just him being humble
Find the video where Alex Jones thinks Rogan is one of the smartest people he’s ever met but is a master at concealing it
🤣🤣🤣
He’s like 90% there. But like every 100 episodes he has one where he’s just an absolute ass. Like he just has to get all the pent up douchiness off his chest and he just vomits it onto the poor unsuspecting but usually deserving guest.
Erik Westerveld he’s very smart. he has hundreds of discussions with very educated people. he takes lsd which also helps him understand concepts. he knows a lot but his pride can overcome him at times. if you knew you were smart and could kick just about anybody’s ass you talk to, you’d become a bit prideful too lol
Joe is disciplined,he’s a martial artist so he has to be.He’s confident because he knows that if a guest was to get in his face & get aggressive,he could fuck them up without having to think about it.
These are the exact overly generalistic assumptions (and yes, I know how much sense it makes to jump to it) that one must stay away from. Critically analyse or shut up.
exactly....
@@MichaelHoward-td9qm Yes
Crudely put, but yes... knowing kickboxing and BJJ really gives confidence that reduces the fight/flight response. And also the ego response.
I love Joe, literally listen to him every single day hes one of my role models. That being said, these interviews were hand selected. Joe loses his temper alot too. I can show 4 podcasts off the top of my head where he used NONE of these tactics.
@Hashan PeirisLiterally type "Joe Rogan Losing His Temper" in the search bar and hundreds of hits will appear. Click on any.
@Hashan Peiris ua-cam.com/video/3HRUubUYYzU/v-deo.html
@Hashan Peiris those are just the podcasts, you can go listen to the full ones, the Steven Crowder one is a really good example. Joe even later apologized to him for how poorly he communicated. I believe Joe himself would admit to you hes not perfect at controlling his emotions.
I think its good to raise your voice when in a confrontational situation when someone gets in your personal space...it shows you are standing up for yourself. In normal conversation, if you have to raise your voice to talk then it could also mean that you think your not being heard. Some people repeat what they are saying while others raise their voice. Some are just manipulating the situation to later say the person who raised their voice has a "problem" and nothing they did caused that problem. It's all about perspective on what is going on in the situation. Some people just get into debates to win without hearing another persons perspective unless it benefits them.
Those were the one's he did all those horse tranquilizers. lol
Damn do I need this badly. So tired of people knowing the buttons to push with me.
It’s been a while but how’s it going?
what b0ttons do u have
Walk away I did it last night with my adopted mother. Say it one word and move. One word is no
Wolsey? NAH NAH NAH NAH NAH...sorry, I was just trying to push your buttons.
Joe is the only host that I know that lets the person in front of him actually speaks
To the people thinking that Joe is only able to do this because he gets high, that may help to some degree but if you're a confrontational person then the weed will only allow you to maintain the illusion of calmness for so long. I've seen others still get into heated arguments while they're high.
Weed is a great drug if you know how to control it.
u_luv_mulattos 18 i recently had to take a break from weed because I would still get anger issues no matter how much I smoke
The problem with playing it cool with an angry person is, they become more frustrated because they feel that your trying to be the bigger person and it makes them feel like they are the bad person and makes them more inflamed and they attack harder because they are not able to suck you into their mindset of being angry and the conversation goes on for a very long time as they try harder to make you mad also, which kind of crushes your soul to a certain extent while trying to be nice.
True. Also avoid very long sentences.
sure but that's when the other person is investing more energy to the argument than you are by trying to remain calm. In the end, the other person will just grow exhausted by stressing themselves out instead of trying to remain cool. Letting go of your own ego once you realise that the other person is just looking to win against you and it's not benefitting them in the end shows that you've won.
Thanks for the run on sentence. It was agonizing to read. By the way, if you get mad, that shit is on you and your fucking sickness. Don't put that on me. This is where law steps in. It's why we have it. If you can't fucking be grown WE will make sure you do! Don't give me that cop out shit. You are responsible for what you say dude. You are free to say it..... But that shit comes with repercussions sometimes. Free speech doesn't mean consequence free. Be a person........ You might like it.
Most calm people don't try to calm the situation. They do that for their ego. To be the one that stayed cool. Most of the time, they aren't genuine. Just condescending and passive-agressive.
I was the angry person trying to get my recent ex to argue when clearing my stuff out after being 17 years together !
Staying calm when your world has been turned upside down is not easy ! The inner chimp came out !
Joe Rogan is considered a model of modern masculinity. Some “intellectuals might find this threatening and feel the need to challenge or dominate over him due to insecurity.
i think myself and many others would call joe a intellectual also
I don't disagree with Joe being considered as an idol by many when it comes to masculinity. But insecure people raising their voice or trying to dominate a situation is bullshit imo. Thats the opposite of what insecure people do. Guys like Neil deGrasse Tyson have their thoughts / behaviour validated by huge audiences and are very comfortable (not insecure) when having arguments, which is why he has no issue challenging Joe. Still a childish move interrupting Joe like that.
that's the gayest thing i've read in my life
Valdano sorry I threatened your masculinity
That could be true, I have a friend who is massive, 350 pounds in bench press, and he gets challenged all the time by thin and very weak people... who gives?
The mans done wonders for me , got me out of a dark dark place through his advice on diet and exercise I came good. I love the man
This is such good advice. In my office each day alone i witness at least 5 arguments involving raised voices. Mostly to do with Ego and people identifying with their position too much.
Self awareness comes from being in uncomfortable situations position in martial arts and that translates into life
"I suspect, this is how he breathes"
Turned into a biology class right there.
Yea, if you ignore the basic biology of the human respiratory system and the fact that the maker of the video implied that humans pant to recover when exhausted because it is more efficient which could not be more wrong (humans sweat, it is humanity's superpower, to recover and panting is what animals who do not sweat do to recover when exhausted)...
then yea, this was still a bunch of bullshit because the guy never even mentions that Joe is smoking weed before the interviews and that the arguments are taking place in a controlled environment.
Sugefut Sugefut these are still applicable tips that can especially help people with issues controlling their anger
"Getting ready to fight"
*plays clips of people bussin a move*
Joe developed the ability to stay calm far before his podcast my dude
Isn't the simple answer to Joe's calmness all the weed he smokes?🤣👀😂
I wish that worked for me... I smoked 20 years ago and im still paranoid
Nope! I smoke a ton and am angry AF.
I smoke so much and it makes me calmer
My thought when I read the title
Hahaa lmfao! 😂
It’s not that Joe is “calm” he actually gets pretty angry. He just knows how to Hide it well.
Except when you say you shouldn't smoke weed everyday.
everyone gets angry. It's being able to stay calm in certain situations.
Of course he gets angry he just has good control over that emotion. At least in the scenario of his podcast
That’s the whole point of the video
Jack Skibinski that he hides it?
bruh the amount of times neil cut joe off, it seemed like a prank
I think it's truly because the man knows how to fight. He's not intimidated by these guests trying to dominate.
I disagree, many buff guys who do thai box and stuff are so easily tripped because they have high ego but low self esteem (they know they look good but also know they're kinda thrashy personality) and they try to compensate it with alpha male hormones etc.
@@John720620 I don't think that Ali R's comment is meant to refer to all guys who practice fighting arts, just Joe Rogan.
And I reckon you are correct that some guys who practice fighting arts are trying to compensate.
@@ginara0136 I get what you mean, but I still think this level of chill is based somewhere else than in being able to physically defends myself
@@John720620 Quite possibly. Though I think that the martial arts training is a contributing factor.
@@ginara0136 I agree. I wouldn’t say it’s the only factor but definitely has helped shape his character and temperament.
"Living and dying well" was so well executed and suited at the end of the video😯😯
In Short "Im a dude playing a dude, disguised as another dude".
I KNOW WHO I AM! 😂😂
@Suq Madiq Nope Never 😆😆😆
Tropic Thunder should be protected at all costs
I'm fascinated with the "slowed down to a crawl" effect, that occurs in an accident, when i was 12 we were clipped by a car as we drove through a intersection, as we spun around 360 degrees, i remember how the world slowed down at that moment, it doesnt occur in a fun park ride or any slide-outs in cars that are predicted...the suddenness is the key, and is just amazing.
Do you watch the Joe Rogan Podcast?
Do you?
Yes
No. I prefer jocko willink
Mostly just the clips, I don't have time for the 2-3 hours.
I used to but the interviews are just boring now, the recent one with elon musk was boring as hell..only enjoy joes podcast when hes joking around with his buddies.. Much better podcasts out there.
'Raise your words not your voice, it is rain that causes flowers to grow not thunder"- Rumi
Thank you for this. I got into a argument last night with someone I really care about and I don’t want to lose then due to my own actions taken during a conversation. We are talking today taking notes on this and re reading them over and over again helps me prepare for our conversation.
How did the conversation go?
I used to like Neil Degrass Tyson, but he has been throwing off this really creep arrogant elitist vibe in the last few years.
I feel similarly.
He always has
@Alpha Centauri conversations are a little one sided? you're being disingenuous. furthermore, they aren't "conversations" if he's the only one talking. they're lectures with occasional interruptions by the person he's lecturing.
@MR Jensen
You have no idea how stupid you sound. If you did, you wouldn't come across as such an idiot.
@MR Jensen Libturd = The smart people. Rogan's fans are what dumb people think a smart person sounds like.
The Travis Scott background music is distracting me lol, i love that song
"It's Lit!"
Future*
Atleast in the beginning
Song name?
Under The Canopy 90210 Travis Scott
In a word- KEEP CALM!
I guess it all depends on who you’re arguing with. Sometimes the calmer you keep, the more pissed off they get
That's a person that doesn't want an alternate perspective or a debate, they're only focusing on destroying your arguments and attacking you.
These will be the same kind of people who when you make a good point sigh in frustration, talk over you, or abnoxiously mock you as you're speaking.
They hate how they're not getting to you.
Because you are maintaining control and they realize, by you doing that, they are losing. Always keep the high ground
And that's fine. That person shows their weakness
@@rustycarter2091 exactly they are weak af to lash out. Lash out for what it's a conversation of different perspectives control yourself n. If you have no control your a weak individual. Dominate without movement and tone ppl can't do that
I have no doubt Joe's calmness is a result of his martial arts training, nothing to do with anything else.
Kai Be nothing else at all? Not even the weed
Anecdotal
@@plasticbag242424 maybe if he was high at the time, but didn't seem so.
@@noahatwoodvlogs1983 true, but it's a common pattern in fighters.
Kai Be its a martial arts principle to not get triggered easily.
“All truths are but half truths...” That’s half true.
and that statement is also, so we can keep going and reduce it to inifinity)
The All lies Within the All
@@abidingalloy2073 Hey, you calling "The All" a liar? Thems thinkin' werds!
Does that mean it's only a quarter true?
Tru
I found this very helpful. I don't raise my voice but I keep a commanding authoritative tone and keep control of the argument
Every single one of these points will only escalate an argument with my wife 😂
Staying calm will make her mad haha
@@randomopining even yes dear is me being patronising 🙄
My wife, obviously descended from a line of ferocious warriors, enjoys arguing against every tiny little thing she possibly can, and I usually gratify her. Her weakness is when, after my own vigorous resistance, I suddenly clam up, keep calm and smiling, but completely drop my side of the argument and just look at her. This spooks her and she's not sure whether she just won, or lost the moral highground by offending me somehow. Still in the mood to spar, she then starts questioning and debating herself, her brain short circuits, and all the fight drains out of her.
@@bravoalphahk brooo 😂😂
@@phantomhawk01 hahaha "patronizing"-- the term of doom
Joe is a true professional and a fantastic role model.
I feel like every human should be learned to discuss the right way in school. Now that's not an attack on other people, but it's a big general leak of progression of knowledge in our society. I fall victim to emotional and biased opinions in arguments myself and I admit that. I hope I will also learn how to take a small step back and keep my composure in discussions.
I knew about the amygdala and there is an old saying that in every man lies a truth, or like you say half-truth.
I also read a book that states if you are right 51% of the time, you can play the stock market and become a millionaire. Which means, we are flawed and not right as much as we think we are. Playing piano, I've learned a lot about ego and how to recognize it. With the breathing and posture, this is pretty powerful. I've notice Joe is very good at not getting sucked into an argument. Good video.
smart guy. he respect his guests. and he wants to be in peace with everyone
ya you have to keep ur cool as a pod caster or guests wont come on the show
I know this is an old video, but I was looking for this because I wanted to know more about how to handle confrontations. I think that a lot of this is common sense, but at the same time during the confrontation, I think that goes out the window. I think that you did a really good job of putting all of these ideas together
I’m from Ireland, I needed this 😂🇮🇪
Jakson McLane true💯
Did someone ask if you’re from Scotland?
@@ryestruxness2535 I need you baby
Are you from Scotland 🏴?
Holy Jesus that’s for sure, we should be taught this in primary school
Joe Rogan is a martial artist, they are trained in aspects of meditation and inner peace. I once worked a very stressful job, while other people were always freaking out, one guy always kept his cool. He had been a martial artist for many years, and he taught me meditation and how to handle confrontations with others. This probably explains why Joe always kept his calm.
I like NGT but never realized how rude he can be when having a conversation
He does that often. His ego is bigger than his knowledge at this point.
@@amacgregor92 much bigger
Just used some of this advice in a argument that was about to start with the ex wife .it totally defused the situation.cool as fuc
Thoughts on smiling when dealing with aggressive people? When I'm verbally attacked I often smile, and I talk quieter too. If it gets really heated I start laughing. It's completely involuntary.
Dude I'm the same and it pisses me off. Can't tell if it's a coping mechanism or if I've got a less serious condition like the joker.
"Remember Joe Rogan is not perfect, however he does have a high level of self awareness..we can learn a lot from him" ... Thats Gold right there buddy...thanks for the content and analysis.
I’m not saying I disagree with you, but I feel like you’re overanalyzing things just a bit. Also, Joe loses his cool quite a bit. The best example of this would be his episode with Steven Crowder. They were talking about weed if I’m not mistaken.
True. He called crowder out for interrupting. Interesting he let Neil get away with it
@@markdouglas1601 I bet is respect. Neil is a very smart guy, and you need to leave behind his behavior to really understand the guy. The other guy is just a political douche looool
Joe admitted he was drunk and apologized for that.
@@LegadosCulturales Most likely. Also Crowder obviously doesn't know what he's talking about.
@van wray he was drunk. It was a pet topic. It happens.
Becoming truly objective and self aware was the biggest positive change in my life. Honestly before I was 23 or so when it happened I feel like that me was ALL auto pilot. The truly scaring thing though once you get there is how most people are still stuck in a low self awareness state. Also I have found you cannot have a solid foundation for your reason and logic without an objective self view (because if you cannot separate your ego or at the very least self correct for perceive biases then your foundations are just not there). I really wish these were tough as courses to kids at all levels. You really cannot reason and think correctly without being truly self aware, self objective, and self corrective.
I know this is 3 years on now, but i am really intrigued by your comment "the truly scary thing once you get to becoming truly objective and self aware is how most people are still stuck in a low self awareness state."
This makes so much sense to me, so i have to ask: 1. Reading this makes me think a MAJORITY of people are likely NOT objective and self aware, does this make it a little harder over time to continue improving, a little like learning languages and having no one to understand the other language to bounce words off, and 2. Have you ever met another person like you that has done the changes and has become objective / self aware to your degree, and did it feel just amazing being able to discourse with this person due to them understanding exactly where you were coming from?
Hope life is good to you. xx
@@Halzel Hey! Thank you, I hope life it good for you as well. As for your questions, yes I suppose the intellectual side of things tends to stagnate or even partially come down to the general level simply due to not having anyone I can have a truly deep conversation with (intellectually deep, not emotionally). As for meeting other people like me, sadly no. I do not get out much and do not meet a lot of people, but those I do meet usually at best are very smart but even really smart people have this issue of getting trapped by emotional thinking. I have to be careful what I say always because some people think anything you think and say has some meaning behind it when really I just like to go through all the facts even if they are uncomfortable facts to some (they cannot separate that in their mind). So yeah, it gets pretty frustrating and lonely at times... especially frustrating when I think about how much better the world would be if all were taught to think objectively. Oh well.
EDIT: I forgot to add I have met people online who seem to be similar so they are out there, just never met anyone in person who thinks like me
How to keep cool by Joe Rogan
Joe rolling a blunt: Here we go again folks
Every person on social media needs this video, lmao. This what causes our polarity now, cause we don't know how to argue with class and calm.
If you watch Joe Rogan podcasts, you will know that you should never breathe through your mouth
Why
Ultimate Warriors because mouth breathers suck
It changes the shape of your face, supposedly. Look up "JRE nose breathers."
@@estebanb7166 i did what next
@@ultimatewarriors1291 You have the answer to your question. Take care.
This was a great learning tool. Thank you. Even though we think that we know how to handle ourselves.... it becomes apparent, at least to me, That we let our emotions take over . To have these simple tools are a great way to maintain some control, or at least make us aware, that we can let things get out of of control so easily. I know more than at least a hundred times... that I've fell into this emotional trap and just tried to over talk someone, and I hate myself when I do this . So... to have these tools and to make oneself aware of these flaws, is a great step forward, and should hopefully help to learn how to keep emotions out of a debate or an argument.
Again, thanks
Good post. Also be conscious of responding vs reacting.