Gray. I went the monochromatic route kind of minimalism years ago. It's not me. Too much gray makes me depress. Not mood lifting at all and certainly not sparking joy.
@Poppy YES haha I know exactly what you mean. A bit of gray here and there can be beautiful, but it needs a bit of color too. :) I love to combine light grays with the green from plants.
@@SimpleHappyZen I ended up with gray everything! Curtains, shower curtain, towels, linens, blankets, armchairs, tablecloths, clothes... NO. I have a simple life, but I'll never be hardcore minimalist. I love tchotchkes 🤷🏽♀️
Along with most of the ones you said I do not follow the kindle tip. I prefer to have physical books & I cannot get into reading on an electronic device or listening to audiobooks!
This is why I love your channel, you dont push your tips and habits onto us and tell us "do this, don't do this" I feel no pressure when watching your videos its comforting. Thanks Vera for being you ❤
I have found myself getting rid of items for this very reason in my decluttering journey this year. It has allowed me to feel free and at peace in all areas of my home.
I, too, am finding that this question works best for me. I can live comfortably with neutrality shaded with positivity, but I don't want anything that makes me feel less than comfortable.
I agree! But I also struggle not to let persuit of perfection distract me. As for this bowl that I really like, but has got some damages. Still functional, but it kind of bothers me. But on the other hand I like to live frugal and sustainable so I don't feel comfortable to just get rid of it either. My solution is to wish for a new for my birthday! Then I can replace it with a bit better consious.
Hi Vera! I think what you're saying is that those systems - Kon Marie, Project 333, etc., - may be really helpful for people who want a way to start simplifying and don't know where to start, but once we're in "maintenance mode, " we have our own standards and systems. Structure can become stricture if we don't know where the line is. I agree!
As for the core items... a tip that does work for me is choosing a more aesthetically pleasing version of my necessities so I can enjoy their design AND utility.
Yes! I love taking time to research replacements and finding something well made by a local craftsperson rather than just grabbing something off a supermarket shelf or Amazon.
I have so many things around the house and stored on the property that I feel overwhelmed. I am using different methods for different types of things and / or areas. What ever will keep me going. If get overwhelmed or stuck while working on a particular task or area, especially if it's large, I give myself permission to take a break and come back to it later. Meanwhile I'll do something that is a small quick "win" to help me some momentum going and keep my spirits up. I also go to areas that I have completed, so far just the laundry room, and just enjoy the peace of the completed space and remind myself all this effort is worth the results.
i also love photos and photo albums! i felt like i was the only minimalist who didn't keep everything digitized lol. its refreshing to see you do the same ☺
Going deep into minimalist aesthetics sometimes is the total opposite of minimalism essence and so many people spend a lot of money just to look like a minimalist.
Really enjoyed hearing your perspective. I agree that you have to find yourself within the minimalism philosophy and it’s OK to minimise the aspects of minimalism that don’t work for you.
I did initially think the same about the "spark joy" concept but I remember reading Marie Kondo suggesting you think about the items that you are used to and how comforting it is to be able to rely on them even if they are not glamourous / new. It has made me appreciate my older things and how great it is to have chosen items that stand the test of time in terms of either durability / style. I feel like the phrase doesn't translate perfectly - "spark joy" sounds like some kind of celebration or explosion but a quiet appreciation is probably more appropriate.
It’s nice to hear another minimalist say they won’t get rid of their TV! We spend a lot of time outdoors and being productive but we also enjoy watching movies, sports, and video games... and I like watching/listening to UA-cam videos on our tv while I clean. 😊
I fell for the neutral colors when I first started with my wardrobe minimalism but when I finally bought a pink sweater it sparked joy every time I put it on;)
Great video! I always try to use reason, since emotions can change and flip flop several times a day LOL. Instead of asking myself if something Sparks Joy, I have started asking myself if the thing is honoring to my priorities or to myself in general.
Love what you are saying about things not sparking joy. With all the waste and environmental crisis and I think it's such an important message, rather than getting trapped on the hedonic treadmill.
I only do label free to help with my ADHD and OCD, it helps me not get distracted so easy. But I do own 2+ of almost everything because for me one is none and two is one😂
I like your ”one is none, two is one”! I always have extras of household cleaners, toilet paper, etc. I'm minimal, but being prepared does make things easier.
Minimalism should be at a personal level. Everyone is different. What one person might find useful , another person might not. Minimalism should be applied to our lives so that we feel comfortable with it . Loved your video as always ! 👌 I started to declutter my belongings for a very personal reason ....and then I am very careful what I bring into my home .
I have duplicate sets of sheets. Our family has lots of allergies, so we wash them often. Would be a huge hassle to only have one set for each bed. Same with bath towels, etc. Love your perspective!😍🙏💕🌸
Thanks Vera, this video was real validation for me regarding the "Rules" some other Minimalist advocate. In my journey I purged and got rid of irreplaceable things that I can never replace. So I went through a kind of remorse and withdrawal from the whole minimalist process. It actually caused stress. So now I listen then assess is this idea really going to work and is appropriate for me and my journey. There are no experts in this journey.
This is such a fantastic video !!! You are so right with everything!! It’s not about lots of rules etc and only having 1 plate! It’s about simplicity and whatever that means for you as an individual.
Very thoughtful, Vera. And I love your “non-rules”! You articulated many of the issues I have with minimalists. I prefer simple. Simple living. Thank you.
Had to come back and comment, because I keep returning to what you said here about minimizing vs simplifying. It's so true. It's all about finding that fine balance: Having enough to make your everyday life simple and enjoyable, but not too much so that you're overwhelmed and restricted because you need to take care of your life/stuff/work/hobbies/etc. It's not easy to find this balance and it's different for everyone. Some people get anxious about stuff very easily. For them, extreme mimimalism can truly feel more simple. My idea of simplicity seems to be closer to yours. 😊 Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
some minimalists say don't buy a product you don't need it that moment even if it's on sale. but i buy few more of them if i'm %100 sure that i'm going to use it. it feels safe to have one at hand after one is done.
I agree with your take on labels. My version of minimalism is for the environment. The best zero waste product is what you already own. That means I reuse containers, and if they contain a label, so be it. Some labels can be removed, some cannot. I would rather choose zero waste items over a purchased product.
I love your videos and it's great to hear that you have developed your own version of minimalism which suits your lifestyle. None of us should feel bad about owning a TV 📺 or colourful mugs 🌈. Marie Kondo addresses the need for items which don't "Spark Joy", eg, a hammer 🔨. She acknowledges that some items are useful and, therefore, belong in your home. William Morris's quote is timeless: "Have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful, or believe to be beautiful".😊🌈🔨🌺📺
You had some very good comments. I have found from watching minimalism videos by a number of people that there is no one minimalism standard. "Minimalism" means something different to each person and, as you stated here, we need to do what works for us and not try to be someone else.
Lots of great info. We have been digitizing old photos. And while it is nice to have albums, I encourage people to also make/keep digital copies. We have noticed that many older negatives and prints have begun to deteriorate with age. Love your videos, please carry on in your calming and beautiful way. 🌷
Thanks so much Sally! That's a good point, in the end all the photos will also be kept digitally (since that's how we took them haha). Have a wonderful day!
I’m new to your channel but have been exploring simple living for 7 years now, and I loved this video. You have mentioned every issue I have with the common minimalism advice. I don’t want to have to focus so much on my possessions that I have to do dishes or laundry more often, or worry about whether something fits in my colour scheme. I just want my home and life to run smoothly and easily, which is what I have achieved. Following these “rules” added complexity to my life, which is the opposite of what I want!
I am still new - maybe 1 year in this minimalism journey and I have to say your tips and advice are my favorite. And I look forward to watching your videos!
I totally agree with you. I am new in minimalism, so I was very confused about so many methods and advices but after watching this video I am pretty clear about what I should follow. Thank you so much sister.😊
I like the way you talk and it sounds relaxing. I feel like we're just talking to each other and you're like such a very close friend of me. That's why I love your channel.
Great video! I don't follow some of the rules too, especially number 5 for the same reasons. I also enjoy looking at photos in albums. I tried project 333 for summer and it helped me a lot with my wardrobe, but it's not something that would work for me in a long run. Duplicates, also have a few of them, because they make my life easier. Number 10 really suprised me.
Love this video. Reminds me of “being a leader not a follower “. What works for each individual. So, many minimalist repeat the same over snd over. Great video!
Hi Vera, totally agree with all these things. Sometimes I feel people can restrict themselves too much with minimalism and simplifying. We are all different and all have our own way of what works best for us. Thank you for another great video xx 💕
Thanks for your honesty and great examples from your life and living a minimalist way for a longer time. It was good to hear you mention that at different seasons you have adopted some of this but currently they don't fit with your simplified life.
Great video!! I want to wash clothes once a week, dishes daily, declutter clothes I haven't worn in a yr, and have color in my life!! Thanks & Blessings ~Sidney
Vera, I really love how authentic you are in these videos!! The way I see this is that you're just trying to live a simpler life; some minimalism methods help with that goal, and some don't. Really glad to see that you're being yourself, instead of "some perfect minimalists" :)
Really excellent video. It goes to show how minimalist is very personal for everyone. When I started minimalism, I decluttered 5 items daily, then 3 items daily. This worked for me because it was gradual and I felt I was getting somewhere.
I love how logical your content is, Vera. ❤️ Also I feel with one's own version of minimalism one can accomplish so much more - just gotta a bit logical and open minded. For instance - 1. Buying groceries/daily use items in bulk may be cheaper. One can store them away and save money. By doing this, you still are a minimalist and not a hoarder. As a practice, the money one saves, no matter how small, can be given to the charities/ needy and just think you bought it at the maximum retail price. A little way of generating good in the society. ✨ 2. Having a little extra dishes and then dishwashing them rather than handwashing saves water. 3. Washing a decent load of clothes in washing machine rather than 2-3 clothes or half a load is more energy efficient (pro tip - use Eco Setting if you can) Random musings. Thanks, Vera. ❤️
I'm avoiding the popular tips that (in my view) actually increase consumerist thinking and attachment to possesssions, just as you describe in your first three points in this video: I couldn't agree more about the sparking joy thing in particular. And yes, the places you mention where getting over-minimal actually makes more work.
I have pondered so many of these concepts you mentioned and came to the same conclusions. Not everything I own Sparks joy but it works and it's good enough. I think sometimes we are spoiled. Being eco-minded I don't like to run the dishwasher until it's full, so I have a few more dishes than a lot of minimalists...and I don't want to wash dishes by hand all throughout the day in order to only own two dishes for my husband and myself. I guess Simplicity is more important to me than Minimalism. I love the concept of enough, and I love the concept of good enough.
Hi Vera. My hubby and I have painted or upcycled our furniture multiple times. It's easy to change your surroundings just by changing handles, painting it, or using wood effect sticky covering for a complete change. Same with clothing. Change buttons etc...x
I don't follow one "minimalism style". Like you, I pick and choose what works for us and so far that has gone well. We have what we need, I declutter regularly what has not been used in a long time and renew items when it is quite necessary to do so.
I liked what you said about duplicates. Every minimalist I've ever watched has asked why you would need more than one spatula. I bake a lot and have 5 spatulas. If I am doing a big, complicated bake, I sometimes need all 5. I sure don't want to stop and wash one every time I change tasks. Having duplicates makes my life simpler. 😊
The sparking joy thing was very frustrating to me, because like you, I don't want to get rid of all my old stuff or the things I use just because they don't spark joy. I try to think about the planet and try to shop consciously, use my stuff until they are broken or they don't work anymore, so I agree with you on this one. The duplicate thing doesn't work for me, because I have 3 kids and we do need 3 or 4 pair of scissors at home and many things we need 3 of them, so I would say, minimalism should make our lifes easier and not stressful, thanks for this video Vera, it gave me a lot of peace, take care my friend
Such a liberating video! I really agree to the pragmatic rather than dogmatic approach. For me living intentional is the key, where some of the ground principles of minimalism surley can apply but it is not the objective.
Vera, I am with you on labels. I think it is a hassle and I want less complicated. Thank you as always for such good video. Hope you have a wonderful day! ❤️🙏🏻
Thanks for another great video! 👍😊 On your point about duplicates , I remember how in your video about things you only own one of, I realized that I would never want to own only one pen! That would definitely complicate my life, having to retrieve my only pen when I needed one! So, to your point, being flexible and knowing what works for you makes the most sense. I really appreciate your wisdom.❤
Love your honesty and take on simple living.....I can totally relate and appreciate your points. I don't like how everything has to fit in a box... thank you 💞
“Spark joy” rule is awesome. If you feel “blah” about something but keep it and you have a lot of things like that in your surroundings then it truly impacts your vibes. It really does. I regularly get rid of these “blah” items and I notice immediate release and joy afterwards especially if I repurpose or donate to someone that actually does feel said joy about the exact same item I was indifferent about.
Like you, I consider which elements of minimalism work best for me and how I will apply them. One minimalist "rule" I don't follow is to have houseplants. I'd rather have no decor at all than to selfishly kill another unsuspecting plant. And I like "real" books, not digital. I have way too many books. I have slowly been purging my collection.
I agree with you Vera. I would be buying new stuff all the time to spark joy. And also, I have definitely had the same problem with the "one in one out". I try to justify buying something and wracking my brain to think of what I can get rid of LOL! LOVE THIS VIDEO ♥️
The message here is awesome 🤍 I do feel pressured watching some minimalists who do get in the buy purge cycle to keep their home looking in style . I have learned over the years to be selective with my purchases,to really have things that spark joy, but they don’t fit a trend 🤷🏻♀️ I feel like it really promotes consumerism and discontent 😞 also I love the printed book idea for special trips!!! I’m a mom of four and my kids would benefit the most from that ☺️
Awesome video, trying to limit our clothes and dishes just don't work for my family right now. So I just practice not buying until absolutely necessary and I donate what is outgrown.
congrats for won the battle with the editing software 😁👏🌈 and I love your simplicity and how you are comfortable and secure about it... very inspiring ✨
@@SimpleHappyZen I can imagine, I would freak out too haha 😅 but it makes me very glad to know that everything turned out great... the video is awesome, you rocked it! 😎🌈✨
Once again …. Listening to you is a blessing in my life…. No disrespect to others…. But, I tend to find that many of the “rules” to living mindfully and minimally, make the whole idea impossible, for me, to follow….They cause me stress….. thank you for these tips …. Like you, I pick and choose things from all of the information and create my own journey !!! Thank you for this video as it has validated my way of thinking ….. have a beautiful day
I'm terrible with remembering to comment on videos so I just wanted to send some love. Your videos are so calming and I appreciate the information you provide in all of them. ❤
Keep what I like and fits in the place I keep that thing. If it gets to crowded I go thru and get rid of stuff. I don’t take stuff out of packing if I am putting it in a cabinet or drawer
I agree ... I think it's so important that we explore ideas and then decide for ourselves which ones resonate and which don't. :) I break a lot of "minimalism" rules but yet I'm striving to keep only what I use and need vs my old ways of over keeping things. I am finding it's easier to let go of things now and make decisions. Rarely is there anything I couldn't find again if I really missed it ... I'm thinking of books and such. But I used to be fearful to let go of things even when I found I wasn't using it any longer. Your videos have helped me so much to think things thru and keep moving in the direction of more simplicity and peace! :)
Also, since you like stationery and such things, I thought you might like to know I started an art journal :) Now that the shops have opened up again here, I'll be getting a few new items to get artsy :)
I love throwing a throw over a sofa for a completely new look. I agree about the buying and decluttering cycle it's a no for me I like to use what I have and you can find joy making small changes to what you already have simplicity is a must for me I like an easy life I don't follow methods I just love your videos Vera because you are creative and you do your thibg🙌 I love it that you have a mind of your own know exactly what you like and what doesn't work for you and follow your heart you're amazing Vera, 😘
Yes. Sometimes you just have to think out of the box and be creative with what you have. If your color palette have changed, you can always dye and paint your furniture. And hop! They look different but it's the same old stuff. Or just changing a few things (like the placement of some things) can have a big impact and make you feel like you were in a whole new place.
i've unlabelled myself as a minimalist (altho i still am one) as people questioned everything i did .. so i am "intentional" but without the label LOL .. i did get rid of my t.v., but i have a phone charger in every room coz it's practical for me, i do 1-in-1-out, but i might buy a shirt and get rid of a saucepan, i do transfer open rice, pasta etc. into pretty jars, mainly coz i have had bugs get into half-opened packages that don't re-seal completely and i try to buy in bulk, as i'm also frugal + low waste, so combining everything isn't easy .... ur points are so right, it's very personal, what makes u feel calm and happy, and creates less clutter is all u should aim for ..
Thanks so much for sharing! I actually also store open rice, pasta etc in sealed jars, it keeps unwanted guests at bay :) But if a packaging is sealed properly, I don't care if it has a label
I love this video, I´m not from the USA either, and I think that is good to have a fresh look into some minimalism practices that not nessesarily apply to owr cultures.
There are some videos we give like even before watching it knowing that the content will be amazing and you are one of those rare UA-camr Vera... 👏👏👏👏👏👏 Way to go 👏👏👏 Lots of love from India💓💓💓
Great vidéo ! Those rules are a basis when you want to decclutter and start owning less. But doing what suit to us is important too, Find the balance is the aim🙂
Thank you for the one about the duplicates! I live in El Salvador, a tropical country where the sun feels like hell sometimes, so I need to have AT LEAST two pairs of sunglasses. I am very sensitive to the sun, I can become very sick or have a huge headache because of it, and if by any chance or accident I loose one pair of sunglasses, I do need the other emergency duplicate immediately!
You really inspire me to start being a minimalist and I'm doing it bit by bit. I've realised how much things I've got which I don't use anymore 😱🤣 so thank you for your guidance and tips. Keep it up. Well done you 🥳😍🤩
I basically just do what works for me as I have never fully followed any kind of trend to the letter! 😉 I must say that most of my belongings do not spark joy as they are just necessary to my everyday living. I really enjoyed your video by the way (as usual 😍).
I have two sets of sheets for our bed and our son's bed. I don't like feeling pressured to wash and dry the bedding before bedtime. We change our sheets often so only having one set would be a nuisance.
Well, as you can see I finally got my new editing software working. 😂 Which minimalism tips just don’t work for you?
Hi Ms. Vera😍
Gray. I went the monochromatic route kind of minimalism years ago. It's not me. Too much gray makes me depress. Not mood lifting at all and certainly not sparking joy.
@Poppy YES haha I know exactly what you mean. A bit of gray here and there can be beautiful, but it needs a bit of color too. :) I love to combine light grays with the green from plants.
@@SimpleHappyZen I ended up with gray everything! Curtains, shower curtain, towels, linens, blankets, armchairs, tablecloths, clothes... NO. I have a simple life, but I'll never be hardcore minimalist. I love tchotchkes 🤷🏽♀️
Along with most of the ones you said I do not follow the kindle tip. I prefer to have physical books & I cannot get into reading on an electronic device or listening to audiobooks!
This is why I love your channel, you dont push your tips and habits onto us and tell us "do this, don't do this" I feel no pressure when watching your videos its comforting. Thanks Vera for being you ❤
Aw thank you Holly, I appreciate that🤗💕🌺🍵
Holly F, I totally agree with you! When I was watching this movie, I had very similar thoughts. Vera, keep going your way and share it with us 😍
Well put, I fully agree. I love how comforting her channel is.
Good advice, minimalism is not a fad it’s a lifestyle and needs to be tailored to suit the individual.
Well said :) Thank you Lynby!
Agree. It's about freeing your mind and space from troubles. To live more intentionally. Not for fitting into a category or trashing your things.
Instead of asking "does this spark joy" i ask "does this spark negative feelings". I find this to be a more helpful question to ask
I have found myself getting rid of items for this very reason in my decluttering journey this year. It has allowed me to feel free and at peace in all areas of my home.
I, too, am finding that this question works best for me. I can live comfortably with neutrality shaded with positivity, but I don't want anything that makes me feel less than comfortable.
I agree! But I also struggle not to let persuit of perfection distract me. As for this bowl that I really like, but has got some damages. Still functional, but it kind of bothers me. But on the other hand I like to live frugal and sustainable so I don't feel comfortable to just get rid of it either. My solution is to wish for a new for my birthday! Then I can replace it with a bit better consious.
@@sandraolsson1532 I have this issue too!
I ask myself, what could I do item with this that I can’t do now and would I value that?
Hi Vera! I think what you're saying is that those systems - Kon Marie, Project 333, etc., - may be really helpful for people who want a way to start simplifying and don't know where to start, but once we're in "maintenance mode, " we have our own standards and systems. Structure can become stricture if we don't know where the line is. I agree!
Well said!! :D Thanks Pam
As for the core items... a tip that does work for me is choosing a more aesthetically pleasing version of my necessities so I can enjoy their design AND utility.
I try to do this too!
Same! (^•^)
Yes! I love taking time to research replacements and finding something well made by a local craftsperson rather than just grabbing something off a supermarket shelf or Amazon.
I have so many things around the house and stored on the property that I feel overwhelmed. I am using different methods for different types of things and / or areas. What ever will keep me going. If get overwhelmed or stuck while working on a particular task or area, especially if it's large, I give myself permission to take a break and come back to it later. Meanwhile I'll do something that is a small quick "win" to help me some momentum going and keep my spirits up. I also go to areas that I have completed, so far just the laundry room, and just enjoy the peace of the completed space and remind myself all this effort is worth the results.
Love that AnnMarie, thanks for sharing!!
i also love photos and photo albums! i felt like i was the only minimalist who didn't keep everything digitized lol. its refreshing to see you do the same ☺
If you ask me, special photos deserve to be in a special album 😄🌼
Going deep into minimalist aesthetics sometimes is the total opposite of minimalism essence and so many people spend a lot of money just to look like a minimalist.
Yesssss!!!!!! This right here. ⬆️
Really enjoyed hearing your perspective. I agree that you have to find yourself within the minimalism philosophy and it’s OK to minimise the aspects of minimalism that don’t work for you.
Exactly! :) Well said :D
I did initially think the same about the "spark joy" concept but I remember reading Marie Kondo suggesting you think about the items that you are used to and how comforting it is to be able to rely on them even if they are not glamourous / new. It has made me appreciate my older things and how great it is to have chosen items that stand the test of time in terms of either durability / style. I feel like the phrase doesn't translate perfectly - "spark joy" sounds like some kind of celebration or explosion but a quiet appreciation is probably more appropriate.
Cultural differences obviously lost in translation.
It’s nice to hear another minimalist say they won’t get rid of their TV! We spend a lot of time outdoors and being productive but we also enjoy watching movies, sports, and video games... and I like watching/listening to UA-cam videos on our tv while I clean. 😊
That's great :) Thanks Sarah
I fell for the neutral colors when I first started with my wardrobe minimalism but when I finally bought a pink sweater it sparked joy every time I put it on;)
Pink makes us happy 😄
Great video! I always try to use reason, since emotions can change and flip flop several times a day LOL. Instead of asking myself if something Sparks Joy, I have started asking myself if the thing is honoring to my priorities or to myself in general.
That's such a good question to ask yourself :) Thanks for sharing!
Love what you are saying about things not sparking joy. With all the waste and environmental crisis and I think it's such an important message, rather than getting trapped on the hedonic treadmill.
Thank you Clair :) Have a happy Wednesday!
I only do label free to help with my ADHD and OCD, it helps me not get distracted so easy. But I do own 2+ of almost everything because for me one is none and two is one😂
I like your ”one is none, two is one”! I always have extras of household cleaners, toilet paper, etc. I'm minimal, but being prepared does make things easier.
@@MakeItSo_ST same x
Minimalism should be at a personal level.
Everyone is different. What one person might find useful , another person might not.
Minimalism should be applied to our lives so that we feel comfortable with it .
Loved your video as always !
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I started to declutter my belongings for a very personal reason ....and then I am very careful what I bring into my home .
I couldn't agree more :) Thanks for sharing Teresa, good luck with your decluttering!
I have duplicate sets of sheets. Our family has lots of allergies, so we wash them often. Would be a huge hassle to only have one set for each bed. Same with bath towels, etc. Love your perspective!😍🙏💕🌸
I prefer 'It's so useful' or "It Sparks a great memory" over Sparks Joy. Thanks Vera!
Love this, Vera!! So much wonderful insight!!
Thanks Sarah 🤗🌺💕
Thanks Vera, this video was real validation for me regarding the "Rules" some other Minimalist advocate. In my journey I purged and got rid of irreplaceable things that I can never replace. So I went through a kind of remorse and withdrawal from the whole minimalist process. It actually caused stress. So now I listen then assess is this idea really going to work and is appropriate for me and my journey. There are no experts in this journey.
This is such a fantastic video !!! You are so right with everything!! It’s not about lots of rules etc and only having 1 plate! It’s about simplicity and whatever that means for you as an individual.
Exactly :) Thanks Emma, have a lovely day!
Love it!! Couldn’t stop laughing at ‘’my vacuum doesn’t spark joy” 100% agree 😂
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Very thoughtful, Vera. And I love your “non-rules”! You articulated many of the issues I have with minimalists. I prefer simple. Simple living. Thank you.
Thanks so much, happy to hear it! :)
Really appreciate this video. And I love the take home message- Do what works for you! Only we know what is best for us and our lives. Thank you ❤️
Exactly :) Thank you, have a wonderful day!
Quite some time ago I decided that I was an 'in-betweenist' 🤣
Hahaha I love it
Had to come back and comment, because I keep returning to what you said here about minimizing vs simplifying. It's so true. It's all about finding that fine balance: Having enough to make your everyday life simple and enjoyable, but not too much so that you're overwhelmed and restricted because you need to take care of your life/stuff/work/hobbies/etc. It's not easy to find this balance and it's different for everyone. Some people get anxious about stuff very easily. For them, extreme mimimalism can truly feel more simple. My idea of simplicity seems to be closer to yours. 😊 Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
So true, with so much information on minimalism today, I also do what only works for me, that I don't feel the burden of any rules or tips says. 💚
That's great! :) Have a wonderful day
You're so right about the buying ,decluttering cycle! And sometimes you're not even aware of doing it... great advice Vera!
I agree
Thanks so much Lynda 🤗🌺
some minimalists say don't buy a product you don't need it that moment even if it's on sale. but i buy few more of them if i'm %100 sure that i'm going to use it. it feels safe to have one at hand after one is done.
If it's something I'm absolutely sure I'll use, because I always use it, I'll definitely buy a few of them when they're on sale. It's just smart :)
I agree with your take on labels. My version of minimalism is for the environment. The best zero waste product is what you already own.
That means I reuse containers, and if they contain a label, so be it. Some labels can be removed, some cannot.
I would rather choose zero waste items over a purchased product.
I love your videos and it's great to hear that you have developed your own version of minimalism which suits your lifestyle. None of us should feel bad about owning a TV 📺 or colourful mugs 🌈. Marie Kondo addresses the need for items which don't "Spark Joy", eg, a hammer 🔨. She acknowledges that some items are useful and, therefore, belong in your home. William Morris's quote is timeless: "Have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful, or believe to be beautiful".😊🌈🔨🌺📺
Yes I love that quote :) It sums it up beautifully :) Thanks!
You had some very good comments. I have found from watching minimalism videos by a number of people that there is no one minimalism standard. "Minimalism" means something different to each person and, as you stated here, we need to do what works for us and not try to be someone else.
Yes! :) Thanks Brenda, enjoy your day!
Lots of great info. We have been digitizing old photos. And while it is nice to have albums, I encourage people to also make/keep digital copies. We have noticed that many older negatives and prints have begun to deteriorate with age. Love your videos, please carry on in your calming and beautiful way. 🌷
Thanks so much Sally! That's a good point, in the end all the photos will also be kept digitally (since that's how we took them haha). Have a wonderful day!
You are the voice of reason. They are all good ideas, but do what works for you.
Thanks Jeannette, have a Happy Monday!
I’m new to your channel but have been exploring simple living for 7 years now, and I loved this video. You have mentioned every issue I have with the common minimalism advice. I don’t want to have to focus so much on my possessions that I have to do dishes or laundry more often, or worry about whether something fits in my colour scheme. I just want my home and life to run smoothly and easily, which is what I have achieved. Following these “rules” added complexity to my life, which is the opposite of what I want!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts Karen, I can relate :) And welcome to the channel! :)
You are so right that not all items may spark joy but they do have value.
Thanks! :)
I’d have less towels, sheets and clothes if I had access to dryier, but I don’t so I need extra because drying takes time.
I also don't use a dryer :)
I am still new - maybe 1 year in this minimalism journey and I have to say your tips and advice are my favorite. And I look forward to watching your videos!
Aw thank you so much, that's so nice to hear 🤗🌺🌱
I totally agree with you.
I am new in minimalism, so I was very confused about so many methods and advices but after watching this video I am pretty clear about what I should follow. Thank you so much sister.😊
Happy to hear it! :) Good luck with your minimalism journey
I like the way you talk and it sounds relaxing. I feel like we're just talking to each other and you're like such a very close friend of me. That's why I love your channel.
Aw thank you, that's so kind of you to say! :)
Great video! I don't follow some of the rules too, especially number 5 for the same reasons. I also enjoy looking at photos in albums. I tried project 333 for summer and it helped me a lot with my wardrobe, but it's not something that would work for me in a long run. Duplicates, also have a few of them, because they make my life easier. Number 10 really suprised me.
Love this video.
Reminds me of “being a leader not a follower “.
What works for each individual.
So, many minimalist repeat the same over snd over.
Great video!
Thank you so much! :)
I'm with you in that my towels, etc don't need to spark joy and I have 3 spatulas since I use them so much. Great video!
Thank you Lynne, have a happy Monday!
What a relief this video is! It makes more sense to me.
Happy to hear it :)
Hi Vera, totally agree with all these things. Sometimes I feel people can restrict themselves too much with minimalism and simplifying. We are all different and all have our own way of what works best for us. Thank you for another great video xx 💕
Thanks so much Kathryn, well said :) Enjoy your day!
Thank you for the videos. Because it feels like most who talk about minimalism doesn't fit with my needs. Your advice is much easier to apply.
Happy to hear it!! :) Have a great day
Thanks for your honesty and great examples from your life and living a minimalist way for a longer time. It was good to hear you mention that at different seasons you have adopted some of this but currently they don't fit with your simplified life.
Thanks so much Felicity, have a happy Monday!
Great video!! I want to wash clothes once a week, dishes daily, declutter clothes I haven't worn in a yr, and have color in my life!! Thanks & Blessings ~Sidney
Awesome! Thanks Sidney
You’re videos are so inspiring for the mind and soul! Thank you!
Thank you so much Charlotte :) Have a happy Monday!
Vera, I really love how authentic you are in these videos!! The way I see this is that you're just trying to live a simpler life; some minimalism methods help with that goal, and some don't. Really glad to see that you're being yourself, instead of "some perfect minimalists" :)
Thanks so much Lucy, that's so kind of you to say :) Have a nice weekend!
Really excellent video. It goes to show how minimalist is very personal for everyone. When I started minimalism, I decluttered 5 items daily, then 3 items daily. This worked for me because it was gradual and I felt I was getting somewhere.
I love that! Thanks for sharing Michael
Putting food into glass jars is a bit of a pain because they already have packaging and sometimes I forget what type of flour I've put in there.
After mistaking sugar for salt, I started labelling my jars with masking tape.
I love how logical your content is, Vera. ❤️
Also I feel with one's own version of minimalism one can accomplish so much more - just gotta a bit logical and open minded. For instance -
1. Buying groceries/daily use items in bulk may be cheaper. One can store them away and save money. By doing this, you still are a minimalist and not a hoarder. As a practice, the money one saves, no matter how small, can be given to the charities/ needy and just think you bought it at the maximum retail price. A little way of generating good in the society. ✨
2. Having a little extra dishes and then dishwashing them rather than handwashing saves water.
3. Washing a decent load of clothes in washing machine rather than 2-3 clothes or half a load is more energy efficient (pro tip - use Eco Setting if you can)
Random musings. Thanks, Vera. ❤️
Agree with all of them :) Thanks for sharing!!
I'm avoiding the popular tips that (in my view) actually increase consumerist thinking and attachment to possesssions, just as you describe in your first three points in this video: I couldn't agree more about the sparking joy thing in particular. And yes, the places you mention where getting over-minimal actually makes more work.
I have pondered so many of these concepts you mentioned and came to the same conclusions. Not everything I own Sparks joy but it works and it's good enough. I think sometimes we are spoiled. Being eco-minded I don't like to run the dishwasher until it's full, so I have a few more dishes than a lot of minimalists...and I don't want to wash dishes by hand all throughout the day in order to only own two dishes for my husband and myself. I guess Simplicity is more important to me than Minimalism. I love the concept of enough, and I love the concept of good enough.
Love it :) Thanks for sharing Gail
Catching up on your videos and think you made some interesting and important points here! Thank you for all you do ♥️
Thank you so much Nena, happy to see you! Have a lovely day
I love your approach to minimalism , stress and control free! Vera , you show more happiness being yourself and definitely that’s the point!! ❤️
Thanks so much! :) Have a Happy Monday!
Hi Vera. My hubby and I have painted or upcycled our furniture multiple times. It's easy to change your surroundings just by changing handles, painting it, or using wood effect sticky covering for a complete change. Same with clothing. Change buttons etc...x
I don't follow one "minimalism style". Like you, I pick and choose what works for us and so far that has gone well. We have what we need, I declutter regularly what has not been used in a long time and renew items when it is quite necessary to do so.
Makes perfect sense :) Thanks Erin Mae, have a lovely week!
Because of foodallergy we have some double kitchen gear we often use so we are not washing up all day long😅. Hope you enjoy the sun today☀️
Ah yes I can imagine! Makes life simpler :) Thanks Chantal, I did get some sunshine, hope you did too!
@@SimpleHappyZen it does make life simpler😀, a little bit of sun until now. But I have some sun on my balcony so I am going to enjoy right now👍🌷
@@pigletsbank437 Enjoy!!
I liked what you said about duplicates. Every minimalist I've ever watched has asked why you would need more than one spatula. I bake a lot and have 5 spatulas. If I am doing a big, complicated bake, I sometimes need all 5. I sure don't want to stop and wash one every time I change tasks. Having duplicates makes my life simpler. 😊
The sparking joy thing was very frustrating to me, because like you, I don't want to get rid of all my old stuff or the things I use just because they don't spark joy. I try to think about the planet and try to shop consciously, use my stuff until they are broken or they don't work anymore, so I agree with you on this one.
The duplicate thing doesn't work for me, because I have 3 kids and we do need 3 or 4 pair of scissors at home and many things we need 3 of them, so I would say, minimalism should make our lifes easier and not stressful, thanks for this video Vera, it gave me a lot of peace, take care my friend
Happy to hear you enjoyed the video :) Thanks for sharing Cristina, have a lovely Monday
Such a liberating video! I really agree to the pragmatic rather than dogmatic approach. For me living intentional is the key, where some of the ground principles of minimalism surley can apply but it is not the objective.
Vera, I am with you on labels. I think it is a hassle and I want less complicated. Thank you as always for such good video. Hope you have a wonderful day! ❤️🙏🏻
Thanks so much Lucy! Happy you enjoyed it :) Sending a big hug your way
Just recently found your channel and love your content! Thanks for all you share, Vera. ❤️
Thanks so much and welcome to the channel! :)
Thanks for another great video! 👍😊 On your point about duplicates , I remember how in your video about things you only own one of, I realized that I would never want to own only one pen! That would definitely complicate my life, having to retrieve my only pen when I needed one! So, to your point, being flexible and knowing what works for you makes the most sense. I really appreciate your wisdom.❤
Love your honesty and take on simple living.....I can totally relate and appreciate your points. I don't like how everything has to fit in a box... thank you 💞
Happy you enjoyed it, thank you! :)
“Spark joy” rule is awesome. If you feel “blah” about something but keep it and you have a lot of things like that in your surroundings then it truly impacts your vibes. It really does. I regularly get rid of these “blah” items and I notice immediate release and joy afterwards especially if I repurpose or donate to someone that actually does feel said joy about the exact same item I was indifferent about.
Like you, I consider which elements of minimalism work best for me and how I will apply them. One minimalist "rule" I don't follow is to have houseplants. I'd rather have no decor at all than to selfishly kill another unsuspecting plant.
And I like "real" books, not digital. I have way too many books. I have slowly been purging my collection.
Haha thanks for sharing Mimsie! :) Have a lovely day
I agree with you Vera. I would be buying new stuff all the time to spark joy. And also, I have definitely had the same problem with the "one in one out". I try to justify buying something and wracking my brain to think of what I can get rid of LOL! LOVE THIS VIDEO ♥️
Thanks so much Maureen, glad you enjoyed it! :D
The message here is awesome 🤍 I do feel pressured watching some minimalists who do get in the buy purge cycle to keep their home looking in style . I have learned over the years to be selective with my purchases,to really have things that spark joy, but they don’t fit a trend 🤷🏻♀️ I feel like it really promotes consumerism and discontent 😞 also I love the printed book idea for special trips!!! I’m a mom of four and my kids would benefit the most from that ☺️
Thanks so much for sharing! :) Take care and have a nice week
Hi! I’m a new subscriber and I’m in love with your channel! I love simplicity and find your tips very useful and real. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you so much Michela, that's so nice to hear! And welcome to the channel!
Awesome video, trying to limit our clothes and dishes just don't work for my family right now. So I just practice not buying until absolutely necessary and I donate what is outgrown.
That's awesome :) Thanks for sharing Maria
I love your view it makes so much more sense and I’m right there with you!
Thanks so much Kathye :) Have a nice week!
Your approach and practice is much more friendly and compatible with human nature. Thank you 🙏
Great points. I think people run into problems when they try to fit their life into a label.
I think that's true :)
Hi, im new to the channel for the last couple of months and im binging your channel
congrats for won the battle with the editing software 😁👏🌈
and I love your simplicity and how you are comfortable and secure about it... very inspiring ✨
Haha thanks Gabi!! :) I was freaking out a little bit, but now I have to admit some things do work a lot better in the new version haha.
@@SimpleHappyZen I can imagine, I would freak out too haha 😅
but it makes me very glad to know that everything turned out great... the video is awesome, you rocked it! 😎🌈✨
Once again …. Listening to you is a blessing in my life…. No disrespect to others…. But, I tend to find that many of the “rules” to living mindfully and minimally, make the whole idea impossible, for me, to follow….They cause me stress….. thank you for these tips …. Like you, I pick and choose things from all of the information and create my own journey !!! Thank you for this video as it has validated my way of thinking ….. have a beautiful day
I'm terrible with remembering to comment on videos so I just wanted to send some love. Your videos are so calming and I appreciate the information you provide in all of them. ❤
Aw thank you so much, I appreciate that :) Have a lovely day!
You too ❤
Thank you!!! I don’t get the labels, dos / don’ts, rules.... Simple is great!
Keep what I like and fits in the place I keep that thing. If it gets to crowded I go thru and get rid of stuff. I don’t take stuff out of packing if I am putting it in a cabinet or drawer
Very interesting Vera I’m in same wave .... simplify instead to create a manic tension about what surrounds us in our daily life
Exactly :)
Thank you! You are realistic. I agree with your tips and habits. 💐
Thank you Rebekah!
I agree ... I think it's so important that we explore ideas and then decide for ourselves which ones resonate and which don't. :) I break a lot of "minimalism" rules but yet I'm striving to keep only what I use and need vs my old ways of over keeping things. I am finding it's easier to let go of things now and make decisions. Rarely is there anything I couldn't find again if I really missed it ... I'm thinking of books and such. But I used to be fearful to let go of things even when I found I wasn't using it any longer. Your videos have helped me so much to think things thru and keep moving in the direction of more simplicity and peace! :)
Thanks so much for sharing Chris and I'm so happy to hear my videos have been helpful for you! :) Sending a big hug your way
Also, since you like stationery and such things, I thought you might like to know I started an art journal :) Now that the shops have opened up again here, I'll be getting a few new items to get artsy :)
I love throwing a throw over a sofa for a completely new look. I agree about the buying and decluttering cycle it's a no for me I like to use what I have and you can find joy making small changes to what you already have simplicity is a must for me I like an easy life I don't follow methods I just love your videos Vera because you are creative and you do your thibg🙌 I love it that you have a mind of your own know exactly what you like and what doesn't work for you and follow your heart you're amazing Vera, 😘
Thanks for sharing Deborah, I can relate :) Have a nice day!
Yes. Sometimes you just have to think out of the box and be creative with what you have. If your color palette have changed, you can always dye and paint your furniture. And hop! They look different but it's the same old stuff.
Or just changing a few things (like the placement of some things) can have a big impact and make you feel like you were in a whole new place.
i've unlabelled myself as a minimalist (altho i still am one) as people questioned everything i did .. so i am "intentional" but without the label LOL .. i did get rid of my t.v., but i have a phone charger in every room coz it's practical for me, i do 1-in-1-out, but i might buy a shirt and get rid of a saucepan, i do transfer open rice, pasta etc. into pretty jars, mainly coz i have had bugs get into half-opened packages that don't re-seal completely and i try to buy in bulk, as i'm also frugal + low waste, so combining everything isn't easy .... ur points are so right, it's very personal, what makes u feel calm and happy, and creates less clutter is all u should aim for ..
Thanks so much for sharing! I actually also store open rice, pasta etc in sealed jars, it keeps unwanted guests at bay :) But if a packaging is sealed properly, I don't care if it has a label
I love this video, I´m not from the USA either, and I think that is good to have a fresh look into some minimalism practices that not nessesarily apply to owr cultures.
Thanks so much Jose :)
There are some videos we give like even before watching it knowing that the content will be amazing and you are one of those rare UA-camr Vera... 👏👏👏👏👏👏 Way to go 👏👏👏 Lots of love from India💓💓💓
Aw thank you so much Flona, I really appreciate that :) Sending a big hug
Great vidéo ! Those rules are a basis when you want to decclutter and start owning less. But doing what suit to us is important too, Find the balance is the aim🙂
Yes! :) Thanks Nathalie, have a great day today
Thank you for the one about the duplicates! I live in El Salvador, a tropical country where the sun feels like hell sometimes, so I need to have AT LEAST two pairs of sunglasses. I am very sensitive to the sun, I can become very sick or have a huge headache because of it, and if by any chance or accident I loose one pair of sunglasses, I do need the other emergency duplicate immediately!
Ah I totally get that! It's not nearly as sunny here, but I will also quickly get a heachache if I'm out on sunny day without my sunglasses.
You really inspire me to start being a minimalist and I'm doing it bit by bit. I've realised how much things I've got which I don't use anymore 😱🤣 so thank you for your guidance and tips. Keep it up. Well done you 🥳😍🤩
That's amazing Sheryl, great job!! :)
"Don't stock up": I need to stock up some categories of stuff because I don't like to go to stores many times in a week
Yes :) If an item I always use anyway is on sale, and it doesn't expire soon, I will also stock up a bit. It just makes good sense :)
Ebook only--I have an ereader, and I use it frequently, but I also like having physical books in my home/life.
Yes it's definitely possible to have a combination of both :)
I luv the feeling of having a book 📕in my hand .. as much as hving d photo album
I basically just do what works for me as I have never fully followed any kind of trend to the letter! 😉 I must say that most of my belongings do not spark joy as they are just necessary to my everyday living. I really enjoyed your video by the way (as usual 😍).
Thank you so much Muriel, take care and have a lovely day!
Great video 🌼
Thank you Georgina :) Have a lovely week!
I have two sets of sheets for our bed and our son's bed. I don't like feeling pressured to wash and dry the bedding before bedtime. We change our sheets often so only having one set would be a nuisance.
Thanks Vera you have some good points. I agree with you.❤
Thanks Cathy!! :) Enjoy your day
Very useful tips!