Korean wife takes over her Brazilian husband [Hello Counselor / 2017.02.06]

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  • @camiladuarte4531
    @camiladuarte4531 7 років тому +6271

    In Brazil there is a saying: " Haste is the enemy of perfection". kkkkkk
    I really hate when someone tells me to get things done quickly.
    But that doesn't mean that Brazilian people are lazy.

    • @lauralouise9985
      @lauralouise9985 7 років тому +178

      we are not lazy

    • @camiladuarte4531
      @camiladuarte4531 7 років тому +266

      Laura Louise Nós só fazemos as coisas no nosso tempo. O importante é fazer, não quanto tempo você leva.

    • @brunalima-if1zy
      @brunalima-if1zy 7 років тому +28

      +Camila Duarte exatamente ksksk

    • @anabeatrizbarreto33
      @anabeatrizbarreto33 7 років тому +140

      Esse cara fala essas coisas porque ele é rico, "é comum pessoas terem empregados", bom eu não tenho dinheiro para ter empregados...

    • @Wohdaknaggran
      @Wohdaknaggran 7 років тому +186

      Bia Barreto É comum sim comparado com a Coreia. Lá só pessoas ricas tem empregados em casa, mas aqui no Brasil muitas pessoas de classe média paga empregado para cuidar da casa ou das crianças enquanto trabalha.

  • @paulaspn77
    @paulaspn77 7 років тому +5169

    Omg, Bernado is so cute for try fixing things he broke. But I can see how the cultural barrier can be a problem.
    Brazilians are not lazy btw. Perfection takes time.

    • @auraacqua9434
      @auraacqua9434 7 років тому +109

      Paula N. Ele é lerdo porque nunca foi pobre.

    • @anyjimin124
      @anyjimin124 7 років тому +58

      tadinho dele, eu fiquei com dó... esposa dele é muito dura!

    • @esreverTA
      @esreverTA 7 років тому +8

      mabf1953 Mabf EXATAMENTE

    • @KRYSTO2
      @KRYSTO2 7 років тому +47

      mabf1953 Mabf GRITO pensei a mesma coisa, como se todo brasileiro tivesse empregada em casa

    • @noranems668
      @noranems668 6 років тому +9

      Paula N. Perfectionism can mean procrastination

  • @LP-xt5ii
    @LP-xt5ii 7 років тому +635

    The wife needs a chill a little hahahah her husband is adorable trying his best

    • @ninepuchar1
      @ninepuchar1 4 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂I know right.

  • @revinaque1342
    @revinaque1342 7 років тому +3664

    Oh man, the wife is so scary. Even the look on her face while her husband is telling those stories... She's a perfectionist, and she wants things done her way. She can't tolerate that her husband is slower than she is. I feel bad for that guy.

    • @arin2250
      @arin2250 7 років тому +288

      Yea she also seems so uptight and let this issue define their whole relationship. Like when he says that he tries to lighten their relationship by dancing with the plates in his hand, probably to cheer her up, she doesn't really she his good intentions and gets upset instead.

    • @arin2250
      @arin2250 7 років тому +44

      +Arin but then again maybe she has a lot on her plate :/ seems like she's the breadwinner of the pair

    • @revinaque1342
      @revinaque1342 7 років тому +169

      Arin While that may be the case, no one should treat their partner that way. It's demeaning. :(

    • @entrorise
      @entrorise 7 років тому +67

      Little Jimin please do not generalize a whole race just by one person. sure she might not be as attractive or patient, but don't bash a whole nation while putting one member down

    • @Isnotokie
      @Isnotokie 6 років тому +17

      Little Jimin okay that’s taking it too far and quite racist

  • @shoomonkey2
    @shoomonkey2 7 років тому +3323

    Brazilians are very relational people. if they say that they will come to your event.. they will do the best they can to finish ALL their errands before the event so that they can literally give all their time and energy to this important meeting without feeling rushed for something next. Koreans dont care about others' worldviews and experiences. this is why I broke up with my korean boyfriend... because he just didnt understand the relational importance of my friendships and networking.

    • @milla2445
      @milla2445 7 років тому +18

      shoomonkey2 I don't want to be nosy but could you give me an example?

    • @shoomonkey2
      @shoomonkey2 7 років тому +34

      K. sure!
      uhh example of which? between me and my ex?

    • @giggletanner6599
      @giggletanner6599 7 років тому +12

      yes plz example...

    • @shoomonkey2
      @shoomonkey2 7 років тому +445

      Uhh where do I start? haha..
      we are both quite korean in our thinking, him more than me. I spent a lot of time with many diverse groups of people while he grew up primarily in a korean community. he liked that I was able to bond with his friend group from the get go, but he had a problem with my enthusiastic approach to making acquaintances or friendships. After the hangout ends, I would always get an earful about how I make people feel uncomfortable and that i need to tone down the friendliness because, "흘리고 다니는거 없지않아 있어." basically he was calling me a natural flirt for being kind warm and welcoming to his friends (most of them female juniors). *shrug* building relationships takes more than, "oh the weather is nice today." and I am intentional at going deeper and hoping that the person walks away knowing that I care. But I know that many Koreans stay within their inner circle and dont feel exactly comfortable out of their safety zones. the same with my boyfriend.. the few times he ever met my friends, he would always find it quite difficult and exhausting... usually faked his way through it. came out of the convo judging my friends... and then I was left feeling like I added no value to his life... so I did everything I could to change and fit his preferences.... he said I was too loving and too affectionate.. but then he would say that I was never considerate or mindful of his values. it was a very confusing relationship. I really loved him and poured out my efforts, but I realized I never gave him the chance to love me back by letting him make some efforts toward me, my life, and our relationship. :/
      wow. did I share too much? ahaha.

    • @shoomonkey2
      @shoomonkey2 7 років тому +213

      Giggle Tanner
      Korea is also quite performance based as a whole... very productive, but that comes up short relationally at times. my ex was very performance based in our relationship too.. he needed to please me or fulfill my needs in order to be satisfied with himself. it was as if I were a pet. he took care of me well... making sure I wasnt hungry or cold or in need of anything. but I just wanted to spend time with him. it felt frantic. he didnt know how to slow down and enjoy me (or even enjoy life)

  • @jenifferandrade7592
    @jenifferandrade7592 7 років тому +398

    I think that even if he does not do things the right way, at least he always tries to make it right and he tries to do his best, it's really frustrating when you want to do something really well but even then people keep talking about faults and discouraging you

    • @mariaclaudia5618
      @mariaclaudia5618 7 років тому +15

      I agree... He's adapting too, it's different country, you're alone(besides your wife...but you have no one you grew up with) in a different background, everything is different, you're learning the language... I don't see the issue of being kind of slow doing things, specially when you're not used to it and trying to do it well... It's just lack of empathy towards him

    • @jenifferandrade7592
      @jenifferandrade7592 7 років тому +6

      Maria Claudia agree, lack of empathy

    • @fionaomobam
      @fionaomobam 6 років тому

      .

    • @KimTaehyung-sy5hh
      @KimTaehyung-sy5hh 6 років тому +3

      Yes I agree.. Also, I feel for him cause the wife's culture can be misunderstood and seen as someone nagging like a mother...so it doesn't seem like a relationship cause he is to aware of trying to adapt into her culture while also not comprehending the need for the nag...the wife should be more considerate of him or at least try to understand where he is coming from... so that it gives him time to understand her culture the best he can and be a good husband to her...that will also make her a good wife in which they will develope a better relationship and appreciation for one another:)

    • @jenifferandrade7592
      @jenifferandrade7592 4 роки тому

      @dcss i_like_you_jw lolol, thanks

  • @danielmotta7361
    @danielmotta7361 7 років тому +589

    I'm brazilian, we are not that lazy, not everybody have maids, but we do tries our best to be a good friend or boyfriend. His wife should recognize he's trying. But korean and brazilian culture are very differents. (sorry for the bad english, i'm still learning ;p)

    • @crisrodrigues4312
      @crisrodrigues4312 6 років тому +6

      True not everyone has a maid but its very thoughtfull of him to try

    • @announcedlateryes6478
      @announcedlateryes6478 5 років тому +1

      i live in a very slow environment however i was raised in a familly who ares a lot about productivity , i became rushy in everything .so I kinda understand the wife . when you meet someone who is slow you are suffering inside and outside you just can not take it .I donno about being slow but is life really going to way for your slowness?

  • @choohah5604
    @choohah5604 7 років тому +880

    gosh. this guy speak korean very cutely. like a girl. n yes, his speak very slowly and relax. lol

    • @jawjawbinx
      @jawjawbinx 7 років тому +91

      Krystal Chi his speech is probably like that because he learned the language from his wife

    • @choohah5604
      @choohah5604 7 років тому +20

      probably, because the way he arrange his word and speech is like a girl way of speak. very feminin. kkkk

    • @bruna6888
      @bruna6888 7 років тому +7

      its cute but because of him koreans think that brazilians are lazy people
      grrr

    • @saraoliveira8184
      @saraoliveira8184 7 років тому +43

      luna zralag why do you care about what Korean people think about Brazilians? lol

    • @bruna6888
      @bruna6888 7 років тому +2

      Sara Oliveira i not care only about what koreans think about us, but i care about what everyone thinks about us

  • @VictorHan
    @VictorHan 6 років тому +330

    Hum.

  • @laurazhoucheng
    @laurazhoucheng 7 років тому +523

    It's cute that he speaks Korean with an Brazilian accent😂
    And one more thing westerners they just take long time for the things they do cause they want it to be perfect😂

    • @yenniestan
      @yenniestan 6 років тому

      Do we have an accent? HAHAHA

    • @cookiemonxchu
      @cookiemonxchu 6 років тому +5

      Korean people's 'do quickly' means "do it quickly (and perfect) haha..

    • @Venusmymy
      @Venusmymy 4 роки тому +2

      @@yenniestan yes we do

    • @Ribeiro332
      @Ribeiro332 2 роки тому

      @@yenniestan Yes

  • @miabryant1042
    @miabryant1042 4 роки тому +20

    I hate how he tries to understand her culture, but she can't do the same for him. That's not how things should work in a marriage. Plus he's utterly adorable!

  • @SakuyaLuigi
    @SakuyaLuigi 7 років тому +6288

    He's speaking Korean with a Brasil accent. It's so cute!

    • @xiasakii
      @xiasakii 7 років тому +13

      SakuyaLuigi I agree

    • @sofia.santostreich4585
      @sofia.santostreich4585 7 років тому +139

      SakuyaLuigi I always wanted to know how is our accent...how does it sound?? You can be honest hehe☺🖒

    • @rulazu98
      @rulazu98 7 років тому +4

      SakuyaLuigi ya I noticed

    • @BuzziMuzzi
      @BuzziMuzzi 7 років тому +39

      espiao dasua its beautiful! I love it!

    • @valeryysilvaa
      @valeryysilvaa 6 років тому +56

      espiao dasua
      _I have a Brazilian friend and his accent sounds really nice!_

  • @revinaque1342
    @revinaque1342 7 років тому +681

    I'm with the guy on this. It's not that easy to change after you've lived a certain way for so long. I grew up with maids too, and we still have two maids today. I can do household chores, but it takes me a long time because I never learned that kind of efficiency as a child.

    • @gadoliumnitrogen7149
      @gadoliumnitrogen7149 6 років тому +4

      damn

    • @adrians.5097
      @adrians.5097 6 років тому +20

      Its really not that hard.
      1.) Pick up garbage
      2.) Pick up laundry and throw it in the wash
      3.) Do the dishes while laundry goes on and grab Lysol wipes to wipe down furniture
      4.) Throw laundry in dryer
      5.) Organise papers etc vacuum
      6.) Fold laundry and turn the humidifier or dehumidifier on depending on weather
      7.) You're done
      It takes less than 2 hours
      8.) I forgot you have to clean the bathroom too....but I have my roommate do that because I do everything else. I refuse to clean the bathroom.

    • @saevg8151
      @saevg8151 6 років тому +3

      live with me you'll learn real quick

    • @tomokokuroki7107
      @tomokokuroki7107 5 років тому +21

      @@adrians.5097 yes that's true but still people grow up differently and in different environments. It's like teaching a bird how to fly as an adult when it never grew up learning how to. Lolol

    • @yzarcmw7794
      @yzarcmw7794 4 роки тому +7

      @@adrians.5097 kids with maids are trained to be lazy.. not unless they're doing something more productive than just clean. some rich people have full packed schedule from tutoring, horse riding, music lessons etc.

  • @biasyoongi3452
    @biasyoongi3452 7 років тому +1118

    That wife sounds annoying hes doing his best man

    • @kylebtsgotsvt2644
      @kylebtsgotsvt2644 6 років тому +91

      ifkr. She should'nt have married him if she doesn't like how he is.

    • @Mukkki
      @Mukkki 6 років тому +13

      I would be fucking annoyed to if my husband would need 90 min to cook a chicken breast? What the heck. I would go insane.

    • @beatsbylayne1768
      @beatsbylayne1768 5 років тому +28

      @@Mukkki haste is the enemy of perfection

    • @mitsiham5525
      @mitsiham5525 5 років тому +50

      @@Mukkki she should help so that the chicken would cook quickly
      She just nagged

    • @julynightowl7413
      @julynightowl7413 5 років тому +1

      Mitsi Ham she has a lot of things to do than the husband 😂

  • @saruezinhoo
    @saruezinhoo 4 роки тому +464

    bem-vindos ao casos de família coreano
    alerta de spoiler: a mulher eh uma egoísta louca e o brasileiro um amorzinho

    • @ErikaGuilhermeFA20
      @ErikaGuilhermeFA20 4 роки тому +30

      Agora entendi. Esse vídeo foi recomendado pra mim, aí vi SBS, não vou ver não... ai ví Brazilian men... pensei: Opa brazil na Coréia... Quero ver!!!

    • @saruezinhoo
      @saruezinhoo 4 роки тому +12

      Erika Guilherme KKKKK FOI CMG ASSIM TBM

    • @chentaeyeon709
      @chentaeyeon709 3 роки тому +2

      eu não sei pq ele tá com ela ainda

    • @josecarlosgomesdasilva4166
      @josecarlosgomesdasilva4166 3 роки тому

      @@chentaeyeon709 pq ele gosta dela

    • @karinamoreira7158
      @karinamoreira7158 3 роки тому +9

      @@chentaeyeon709 Eu não sei sequer como eles namoraram e casaram! Por menos tempo que tenham tido de namoro certas características muito proeminentes como a dela e a dele se sobressaem logo. Se ele busca ser engraçado fazendo dancinha ou se brinca pq sujou a camisa com comida, p ex, é pq ele sempre foi assim. E se ela se irrita com essas coisas que ele faz, também é pq ela já era assim antes, já se irritava. O outro ponto é: em tendo casado, e como ela morou no Brasil um bom tempo, se antes ela não havia percebido, nesse período ela viu que esse jeito mais relaxado é o nosso jeito de ser no geral. e que é diferente. E nem assim ela conseguiu tentar um meio-termo!? Putz! Porque normalmente quando vc mora noutro país vc assimila umas coisas, ou pelo menos melhora seu entendimento sobre isso. Assim como eu creio que ele tenta assimilar e melhorar o entendimento dele quanto à cultura dela. Não fosse assim ele sequer falaria direito a língua e nem mostraria, como está mostrando, que tenta fazer mudanças (apenas pede por mais tempo para implementá-las). Não acho que por mais que se goste de alguém, se os dois não fazem um esforço conjunto pelos ajustes, que isso sobreviva. Pelo menos não deveria.

  • @durandalisdendroarchon
    @durandalisdendroarchon 7 років тому +3510

    The Asian in me wants to be quick and efficent, can't stand people who walks so slow or takes forever to make a right turn. The western me throws laundry on the bed and forgets LOL.

    • @Aromnonom
      @Aromnonom 7 років тому +55

      Nate 李偉 finally someone like me lol. That is exactly what it feels like. xD

    • @fatinihidayah9930
      @fatinihidayah9930 7 років тому +46

      well im asian,but lives like a westerner

    • @jul2447
      @jul2447 7 років тому +2

      Nate 李偉 ikr🐒🐒

    • @sebastians2921
      @sebastians2921 7 років тому +62

      Nate 李偉 I'm asian and have been slow moving creatures since birth 😂😂😂

    • @roselightz_3027
      @roselightz_3027 7 років тому +9

      Well I believe I got most of my laziness from my asian site😂

  • @KarolinaLopez
    @KarolinaLopez 7 років тому +170

    This is so funny, I can't wait to see the full ep. Plus I like that Koreans are exposed to multicultural marriages

  • @annecarol94
    @annecarol94 7 років тому +270

    Well, since most brazilian boys don't help arround the house while growing up (most br girls do), a lot of brazilian men tend to be pretty bad at doing chores. Plus, his family was probrably middle class or higher, and such families rarely teach any of their children how to do housework in Brazil.
    I guess the point here is not that he is lazy, but since he is stil learnig how to do things he never done before it takes him a long time to do it.
    There isn't much they can do about it rather than wait for him to get used to their cultural differences.
    After some time, thigs will come around.

    • @ninepuchar1
      @ninepuchar1 4 роки тому +14

      Regardless of gender,it would be great for both male and female to do chores from early age on. I think it is beneficial for them to learn for future😊

    • @leliavoinea9402
      @leliavoinea9402 2 роки тому +1

      @@ninepuchar1 agree. My father is 63 years old but he helps my mother with household chores. And my father is like that because my paternal grandmother made sure both her children learned to help around the house from a young age. My mother is happy that my friend knows how to do chores and fas as well.

  • @eliot2656
    @eliot2656 7 років тому +452

    Say something like ''In Brazil is common'' is very wrong, it depends a lot of people, not to mention that it is a huge country(the name of certain things change according to the region for exemple). My mother always demanded and told me to do things quickly(until today), is not only because he was created in a way that is common in the country... Rich people are the ones who have domestic servants, normal people do their own household chores.

    • @Lart-et1og
      @Lart-et1og 6 років тому +19

      Yeah I was thinking the same! It's not like everyone can afford a maid or everyone's mum was the same as him and didn't nag.

    • @paoloanacletowong6177
      @paoloanacletowong6177 6 років тому

      Eliot.yeah right ugly face

    • @caelcovi6411
      @caelcovi6411 6 років тому +5

      If he was not Rich, she could marry him??... Asians are really in to "how many income or money have your partner"

    • @31rafa
      @31rafa 5 років тому +11

      I think medium class can afford maids too. And there is a lot of medium class people in Brazil.

    • @AliagaAyin
      @AliagaAyin 5 років тому +15

      not everyone can afford a maid but the maid job is very common in brazil, so hes not wrong, if there are so many maids, of course its common for people to employ them!

  • @Japabkz
    @Japabkz 7 років тому +455

    Agora os coreanos vão achar que todos os brasileiros são largados haushsushsu The "Brazilian Culture" is not exactly what he said. like, I don't agree that Brazilian moms don't nag their kids to brush our teeth. like, moms almost hit us to do hahahaha and it's very common to a Brazilian person don't like samba and stuff

    • @marinaalves8307
      @marinaalves8307 7 років тому +24

      pra mim isso era uma desculpa qu ele dava

    • @chaccostan
      @chaccostan 7 років тому +1

      yes haha

    • @esreverTA
      @esreverTA 7 років тому +15

      Caroline Tiemi os estereótipos matam a gente, sério...

  • @유튜브채널어프마인
    @유튜브채널어프마인 7 років тому +65

    "Arriba"... It's Spanish, from Mexico...

  • @RenataGabrielaFerreiras2
    @RenataGabrielaFerreiras2 7 років тому +37

    a pressa é a inimiga da perfeição 'u.u'

  • @chentaeyeon709
    @chentaeyeon709 3 роки тому +14

    essa mulher precisa relaxar mais, espero que o Bernardo esteja melhor com ou sem ela pq ele é um amorzinho

  • @taylor.london
    @taylor.london 4 роки тому +29

    2:46 Brazil is not Mexico! I'm not going around making Chinese sounds when I hear the word Korea...

    • @nathanoliveira5290
      @nathanoliveira5290 4 роки тому +1

      Como o cara confunde o Brasil com o México os dois países n tem nada a ver

    • @SaraH-jn5db
      @SaraH-jn5db 3 роки тому

      How is rolling an r considered Mexican? Portuguese rolls the r too

    • @smiley4287
      @smiley4287 3 роки тому

      @@SaraH-jn5db mas o jeito q ele fez ta claramente no esteriótipo mexicano "arrriba"

  • @irisdescent522
    @irisdescent522 7 років тому +36

    That robin guy is so handsome😍

  • @luniverse1988
    @luniverse1988 7 років тому +7

    I was waiting for this moment to come. A Brazilian on Korean national TV hahahah, it's good to know that nowadays interracial couples are normally accepted there. And one more thing y'all, just because the guy is Brazilian it doesn't mean we're like that! There're lots of cultural differences but people in Brazil are also hard workers. We still love to chill though...

  • @Mariotto09
    @Mariotto09 7 років тому +79

    Isso de o homem começar a se arrumar depois da mulher é tão comum aqui no Brasil...
    A esposa no caso também poderia dar o braço a torcer em algumas coisas como no caso de andar rápido. Porque ela não pode acompanhar ele devagar? Porque só ele tem que acompanhar ela na pressa? Andar rápido ou devagar vai muito da pessoa, eu mesmo sou o tipo de pessoa que vai andando devagar, apreciando a paisagem, já a minha irmã praticamente sai correndo na frente de tanta pressa.
    Como ele mesmo disse somos humanos e cometemos erros. Acidentes acontecem com qualquer um e cada um tem seu tempo e seu modo de fazer as coisas. O caso do casal, para mim, é que falta um pouco de respeito e compreensão sobre o tempo um do outro.

    • @looneyzi
      @looneyzi 7 років тому +6

      Ja foi a Coreia do Sul, China, Japao? Esses paises sao caoticos. Todo mundo anda rapido, os sinais de transito abrem mto rapido para os carros, vc tem que correr pra conseguir passar numa faixa de pedestre, os transportes sao em horarios especificos, entao se vc perder o tempo, tem que esperar quase 5-10 minutos para um novo. Tudo eh mto pontual, e se vc chegar atrasado, vc eh visto como irresponsavel e rude.
      Eles tem varias regras de comportamento que quem ta de fora nao conhece. Ela eh apressada porque Seul eh apressada, nao deixando espaco para atraso. No Brasil, tudo eh feito com atraso. Nada comeca na hora, pessoas tendem a chegar quase com meia hora-1 hora de atraso em festas convidadas. Vc chegar 10 minutos atrasado para um jantar na Coreia, eh visto como um insulto para quem te convidou. Sao culturas diferentes.

    • @Mariotto09
      @Mariotto09 7 років тому +18

      Eu não preciso ir para a Coréia do Sul, China e nem Japão para saber que lá é assim. Só acho que não precisa ter tanta pressa assim. E ainda assim lá só tem que esperar de 5 a 10 minutos para chegar outro transporte, onde eu moro só tem ônibus e é de 20 em 20 minutos e olhe lá. Eu sei que pra eles é falta de respeito chegar atrasado para algo, mas o importante é chegar (desde que não seja algo do trablho), os asiáticos são muito sistemáticos e, claro, pontuais, e nós somos mais compreenciveis e flexiviveis. Pra que fazer tudo tão rapido? Pra que limpar a casa rapido se você não vai fazer nada depois? Pra que escovar os dentes tão rápido? Pra que andar tão rápido para, sei lá, ir fazer compras e depois ir pra casa jantar? O problema do casal é a famosa barreira cultural.
      Essa mulher tem que agradecer muito porque não é qualquer pessoa que sai do país só pra ver a outra feliz. Conheço homens que se precisar não trocam nem a resistência do chuveiro, quem tem que trocar é a mulher. Então essa aí tem sorte.

  • @helenam.1077
    @helenam.1077 7 років тому +28

    His accent is nice lol is pleasent to hear

  • @nellemedeiros
    @nellemedeiros 7 років тому +276

    Vim só pq tá escrito brasil

    • @gihgomes7232
      @gihgomes7232 7 років тому +3

      TaeGirl Official somos duas

    • @izabelleabreu2363
      @izabelleabreu2363 7 років тому +8

      TaeGirl Official Ele falou muita bosta só pra deixar claro

    • @gihgomes7232
      @gihgomes7232 7 років тому +9

      Realmente eu já vi, esse FDP estragou nossa imagem na Coréia

    • @nellemedeiros
      @nellemedeiros 7 років тому +13

      Vey, ele nem morou direito no Brasil e veio falar mal daqui

    • @mabe9535
      @mabe9535 6 років тому +1

      rt

  • @MooooonDemon
    @MooooonDemon 2 роки тому +2

    i don't think either of them are in the wrong here they just seem incompatible
    he needs someone who is more accommodating and laid back who will appreciate his gestures and she needs someone who is more fast-paced and capable

  • @elledumble
    @elledumble 3 роки тому +2

    His Brazilian/Portuguese accent blends in with Korean to make a sexy accent! Hands down the best accent because it makes Korean sound even more delicate!

  • @rkx9868
    @rkx9868 3 роки тому +1

    Awww he’s soo sweet, omd marriage is about adapting to eachother. He’s admitted he doesn’t have much experience in housework so if she should understand he’s going to make mistakes. Why can’t she just teach him the things he should know instead getting mad at him

  • @재연-l4s
    @재연-l4s 7 років тому +6

    YES BENJI OMG B.I.G IS SO UNDERRATED LIKE YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW HAPPY I AM SO SEE HIM ON THE SHOW ㅠㅠ

  • @GiseleSilva-ge7lq
    @GiseleSilva-ge7lq 4 роки тому +5

    Esse moço então com certeza era de classe média a classe alta. kkkkk Se fosse um BR de classe baixa já saia do útero da mãe varrendo, lavando, passando e se duvidar até batendo lage!! xD

  • @Noah-fe4jl
    @Noah-fe4jl 7 років тому +1151

    Não acredito que existe Casos de Familia versão coreana

    • @deadlynightshade1269
      @deadlynightshade1269 7 років тому +129

      IJASOPFIJAPSDOKIJPLAD sempre quando vou explicar como é o programa pra alguém eu digo: "é um casos de família, só que sem barraco".

    • @Noah-fe4jl
      @Noah-fe4jl 7 років тому +79

      deadly nightshade Ou seja, sem a parte legal, tipo pessoas chegando ao som de Sweet Dreams versão funk HAHQEHJAHSHHQ

    • @flaviacristina9704
      @flaviacristina9704 4 роки тому +36

      Huahuahua o melhor são os barracos
      É por isso que o Brasil é especial kkkk

    • @lillyan4978
      @lillyan4978 4 роки тому +3

      Kkkkkkkkkkk

    • @DeisyBritoo
      @DeisyBritoo 4 роки тому +18

      Uauahuaahiaajiaa comentários brasileiros são sempre os melhores

  • @lynarbh809
    @lynarbh809 4 роки тому +4

    Nobody :
    Me : The french is so cute😭😂♥️

  • @faye2313
    @faye2313 5 років тому +2

    Seriously? He's a great guy!! He makes effort and even wants you to laugh.. He's adorable and doesn't want his wife to worry a lot.. Ah chincha he's a gem! Chill!

  • @330selena
    @330selena 6 років тому +6

    The lady got a nice husband tho. Cuz he tries and just look at his cute smile! He's so innocent like a child! I feel like if she takes it slow and tries to teach him step by step, they'd be a super lovey dovey married couple. Like hell, where can I get someone like him? Lol

  • @twominutemotivation9141
    @twominutemotivation9141 6 років тому +2

    My wife is Korean and She rocks!! Best part of my life is my wife! Koreans are super chill and easygoing in my experience. I love her culture more than mine. Poor guy, sounds like he married a monster. Not a problem of culture just a problem of 2 different people.

  • @mpv4372
    @mpv4372 4 роки тому +3

    4:15 when she said that in France we take 2 hours to eat a small portion of food I was like “that’s the most fundamental truth of our country”

  • @LarissaCJaime
    @LarissaCJaime 7 років тому +18

    É claro que nem todo mundo é preguiçoso no Brasil!!!!

  • @nancynahnigoh3550
    @nancynahnigoh3550 5 років тому +7

    When you are an interracial marriage , first hands you should well aware of the differences of two cultures, it is important to compromise each other and should acted reasonable , in this context the woman or the wife is very wrong cos you married to him you should marry his weakness too , only if he is abusive then no compromise at all stay away from abusive partners that for sure, but if he does one chores slow or wrongly you accepted it very well , cos good loving couple loves are unconditionally , you must love your partners without any terms and conditions cos I am a mixed marriage too I understand his terms and my terms , that is why my marriage is 38 years now and we are in our 60 years younger , the keys words are happy and patience all the times

  • @sabrinacpedra
    @sabrinacpedra 7 років тому +11

    lol, i'm from brazil and my mom does boss me around to do chores and stuff. He's probably from a rich family and has people to do those things for him

  • @anyleal4827
    @anyleal4827 2 роки тому +4

    “Most Brazilians like samba” This is a myth. Most people don't like samba, because Brazil is sooooo diverse, even in music!
    “A maioria dos brasileiros gosta de samba” Isso é mito. A maioria não gosta de samba, pq o Brasil é muuuito diversificado, inclusive na música!

  • @eliri412
    @eliri412 7 років тому +98

    Why did they put Gong Yoo in the thumbnail? I didn't see him, so I am disappointed now -.-

    • @girishagooljar3750
      @girishagooljar3750 7 років тому +2

      Elisa Risconti same here -.-

    • @eliri412
      @eliri412 7 років тому +28

      They know how to make people click their videos :/

    • @paulaspn77
      @paulaspn77 7 років тому +18

      It's because the wife was hoping her husband looked fit like him, she talked about it in the other video.

  • @eaudeyongs2144
    @eaudeyongs2144 7 років тому +2

    I love Benji no matter what. He is like my favorite person. Please more shows

  • @luabelle7419
    @luabelle7419 7 років тому +20

    N sei inglês nem coreano, n entendi nada que esse cara falou mas tamo ai

    • @ndecarolina
      @ndecarolina 4 роки тому

      Amiga hahahahah como cê veio parar aqui 😂😂😂 na dúvida o marido tava certo!

  • @lilithbangtan6051
    @lilithbangtan6051 7 років тому +34

    Falou Brasil nois vem correnu!

  • @jangmimena1606
    @jangmimena1606 7 років тому +8

    that moment when that guy who was playing as the wife is in the drama missing nine and you cant take him seriously... in my mind i was like "HE KILLED ABOUT 2 PEOPLE ALREADY WHY ARE YOU NEXT TO HIM?!" but then i realized... im in the real world

    • @jennypark1969
      @jennypark1969 7 років тому

      Jangmi Mena I havent even watched that drama but your comment made me laugh so hard hahahaha. I know that feeling so well😂😂😂 thank you for making my day!

  • @azeli0ne
    @azeli0ne 7 років тому

    CAN I JUST SAY HIS ACTIONS IS SO PURE LIKE A CHILD ITS SO ADORABLE AWWW

  • @Jasjasxx123
    @Jasjasxx123 7 років тому +5

    Benji is so adorable omg *-*

  • @miiyu5432
    @miiyu5432 7 років тому

    I love the Brazilian accent so much. When he uses it in korean, it's the cutest thing.

  • @elleelle8888
    @elleelle8888 7 років тому +11

    lol i thought that robin guy was adam lambert.. i was like " what is adam lambert doing here? 😂😅😅

  • @Ana-yh8ek
    @Ana-yh8ek 4 роки тому +6

    Por mim ele pode voltar pro Brasil, aqui a gente vai fazer fila por ele ^^

  • @XVa-uj8m
    @XVa-uj8m Місяць тому

    I miss this show so much, bring it back! I need my Shin Dongyeob and Kim Yeongja fix!

  • @DICAS51
    @DICAS51 7 років тому +55

    Bem que poderia ter legenda em português T-T

    • @feliped.1512
      @feliped.1512 7 років тому +3

      bixcoito .-. né, ainda to aprendendo inglês ;--;

  • @shamrafathimath5252
    @shamrafathimath5252 7 років тому +7

    cause of his role in missing 9 I can't look at taejoon the same way I did before. maybe because of how good he portrayed his role. but really 😥😓😱

    • @JamConcerned
      @JamConcerned 7 років тому

      Yep he is too good in that role. Makes me wonder about him.

  • @Nあけみ
    @Nあけみ 7 років тому +108

    well, i think his wife is right. He probaly was a rich kid that never needed to do housework and if his wife dont scold him, he'll probaly get used doing nothing at home.

    • @Nあけみ
      @Nあけみ 7 років тому +17

      but i think he is cute bc alt least he is trying

    • @kevinnguyen1838
      @kevinnguyen1838 7 років тому +39

      Min Hayashi while the wife is right on some point but some people doesn't like to be rushed when doing choirs

    • @analuiza5792
      @analuiza5792 7 років тому +57

      in Brazil, most people would rather do this throughly and at their own pace instead of quickly, to get a better result at the end, y'know? so his behaviour is not that uncommon. also, a lot of middle class families have maid services, so he might have been or not a rich kid. anyways, i do agree that he should be more dedicated towards his chores

    • @tracyqin7589
      @tracyqin7589 7 років тому +5

      Min Hayashi I think it's fine if he gets it done without disrupting their way of life

    • @daniellucas6254
      @daniellucas6254 7 років тому +9

      Min Hayashi at least he is trying...

  • @zineb2306
    @zineb2306 7 років тому

    haha Bernado is so adorable she is lucky to have such a cute and loving husband !! she is so wrong... if she loves then she should understand him and help him too !

  • @lianawarmling6750
    @lianawarmling6750 7 років тому +7

    I'm brazilian and my mom was always PALI PALI to me hahahaha!

  • @kumamonbread
    @kumamonbread 6 років тому +1

    I love how many foreigners there are in the crowd💕

  • @liss2amore
    @liss2amore 7 років тому +16

    Pensei que era o cara do De Prosa Na Coréia, mas ele e a esposa não se encaixariam no enunciado kkkk

    • @btsnossodecadadia6808
      @btsnossodecadadia6808 7 років тому

      liss2amore Nossa eu também miga,entrei no video porque pensei que era ele,ele ia representar...

    • @adrianadelarmelina7965
      @adrianadelarmelina7965 6 років тому

      liss2amore achei o mesmo "De Prosa na Coréia ". Mas, vi que é mais um brasileiro difamando o Brasil. NÃO gosto de Samba, NÃO gosto de futebol e ao contrário dele sempre respeitei meus pais . E gosto da cultura coreana, das comidas, das músicas coreanas e quero aprender a falar e escrever.💕👏👍

  • @fruitoson4227
    @fruitoson4227 6 років тому +3

    He is adorable I am yelling

  • @Ariasofnight
    @Ariasofnight 7 років тому +4

    A esposa rindo quando ele falava~ Ah gente os dois são um amorzinho! XD As diferenças fazem deles um casal fofo, só espero q se entendam melhor e com menos stress! ♥

  • @limdaddoa5669
    @limdaddoa5669 7 років тому +10

    ah, ele é tão fofo, tadinho

  • @gwynethdominiquetaeza5794
    @gwynethdominiquetaeza5794 5 років тому +1

    He acts so cute 😍😂. Esp when he broked the toilet 😂. Damn how did he lift it HAHAHAHA. He's trying his best to do things that are just new to him.

  • @gede4204
    @gede4204 4 роки тому +2

    Her husband was so cute

  • @user-nd1gn6wp9i
    @user-nd1gn6wp9i 7 років тому +24

    his wife scary reminds me of my sister lol

  • @annak.5477
    @annak.5477 6 років тому

    A handsome guy that left his country and is trying to give his best for the relationship...he is so cute. Hope the wife behaves better with him, we don't find that kind of men often out there.

  • @connorhay5823
    @connorhay5823 4 роки тому +6

    I don't think this is a cultural problem, I just think his wife isn't very nice lol

  • @Mary-ld7ct
    @Mary-ld7ct 6 років тому

    omg he's so cute and his smile is the most adorable thing ahhh

  • @user-qd4qh8kp8x
    @user-qd4qh8kp8x 7 років тому +3

    Awe my baby Benji as cute as always.

  • @manyajayasi1289
    @manyajayasi1289 5 років тому

    Big came to India in trade fair and I was so happy watching them 😍😍😍😍😍

  • @yourethecauseofmyeuphorics22
    @yourethecauseofmyeuphorics22 7 років тому +6

    Aside from the crazy wife. I don't know why, but i absolutely love when there are foreigners on the shows, it seems more interesting to me. Sorry if this sounds weird, i can't explain it very well ^^'

  • @makatr
    @makatr 5 років тому +2

    he's so cute!!! 💖

  • @melissag1617
    @melissag1617 7 років тому +1

    AWW he's such a cutie

  • @deboraoliveira4082
    @deboraoliveira4082 7 років тому +10

    BRASIL!!!!

  • @minz456
    @minz456 6 років тому +1

    He's adorable

  • @ericadias5804
    @ericadias5804 7 років тому +7

    Que francês gato!😱😍❤
    Entendi coisa nenhuma,pq não tem legenda em PT😢
    So vim pq vi a palavra "brazilian" e o Gong Yoo❤(Ator principal de Goblin) na ft😧

  • @rachelding5682
    @rachelding5682 6 років тому

    wtf Bernado is such a gem! that women needs to chill and appreciate him for who he is

  • @KD-sz7fq
    @KD-sz7fq 5 років тому +1

    Sorry but that is Brazilian culture. They take things slow, theyre super friendly and caring. My best friend for 14 yrs were Brazilian and thats that.

  • @Aman9917
    @Aman9917 7 років тому +13

    Fala de brasileiro que a gente aparece \o/ \o/!! kkkk

  • @kpop_kunkun5909
    @kpop_kunkun5909 6 років тому

    Benji is so cute see,okay he's cute when he started speaking Korean with Brazil accent!!

  • @LastvelMusic
    @LastvelMusic 7 років тому +4

    The thing is that most of what he said is right.But not about being told to do things,many moms tell kids what to do,we just don't are faster as koreans are(even because korean routines are different).Korea suffered with the industrialization and modern process MUCH more faster than brazil did, so their lifestyle changed too.However,about being lazy... The boy probably grew in a house that everything was done for him(because of his economical position,not very rich but not very poor either,let's say he had conditions).I can say because i particularly grew like that too(not exactly with the same condition,just a little more poor,but still had high conditions).But the difference between me and him is that I did little things(and still do) in my house,even if was just taking a plate to the sink.Depends on the day,but i have energy to do some things,even if i did it few times in my life(because i'm from the kind that likes to help people too).So,i'm not lazy as him.You know,it depends on each people,but of course different cultures and routines makes differences look accentuated and bigger.We just have to respect this and the other person's time,so we can stay in peace(i'm saying about everyone in the world,but this can work for the couple shown too).

  • @mrsvoice7292
    @mrsvoice7292 6 років тому

    Omg the husband is so kind and sweetheart❤💜

  • @JohnSmith-oi5hh
    @JohnSmith-oi5hh 6 років тому +1

    Notice how when the husband has unfair expectations of his wife, everyone is quick to denounce him and judge him. Here when it's the wife who's unreasonable, people focus on praising the husband for putting up with it instead of calling her out. Seriously people, defending her just because she's a woman. Her husband's so nice she's lucky to have him and yet she treats him with such disrespect even in public. Ugh!

  • @catleyakw496
    @catleyakw496 7 років тому +12

    simple, see goongyo then click

  • @juliocabral3749
    @juliocabral3749 3 роки тому +1

    Meu amigo, o problema não tá contigo não, tá com quem tu casou kkkkkk.

  • @lorenguimong9615
    @lorenguimong9615 4 роки тому +1

    As a girl you should be patient to your husband.
    Korean always thought that they are superior. Adjust to their culture also..
    This is not only about Brazilian and Korean. In all countries that have partner with Korean , Korean must be the superior.
    It's not good
    The man is really adorable , an ideal man.
    Look for what the girl are talking. He talked beyond the limit. So embarrassed for the man.
    She's lucky to have him. Who understand her always. 😣😣

  • @rhialisa5331
    @rhialisa5331 7 років тому +1

    I'll volunteer to be his wife if she doesn't want him. Lol. He's soooo adorable. You can tell that he is trying his best and I think he needs to be appreciated by that.

  • @Thersyl
    @Thersyl 6 років тому

    My mom used to be at home when I was younger and she never forced me to to any chores. I started helping her out in my teens like ironing or vaccuming, but I never cooked anything complex. Once I moved out, it also took me way longer to clean up or chop meat and veggies. I was pretty fast at peeling potatoes and ironing though since I did that the most. I'm sure someone like his wife would've been annoyed with me, but things take time to learn.

  • @ScribblerinPanic
    @ScribblerinPanic 7 років тому

    i'm an asian but my country was a used-to-be spanish colony for almost four centuries so we adopted most of their attitude or way of life. one of these is the what we call "mañana habit" or the way of postponing or prolonging things that can be done at the moment. we very much make use of the "i'll do it later" or the "why rush" attitude..
    when my family and i first went to hongkong for a vacay, i experienced the rush in everything: walking, eating, riding the escalator, everything. after lunch, for example, in a restaurant, people there don't linger. once they're done eating, they quickly stand up, pay, and then leave. then the table will be cleaned and readied for the next customers in a matter of seconds. the same i also noticed in korea. once we were in a subway station, i was walking in my quicker pace when someone accidentally shoved me. i accidentally muttered, "aish", but my sister quickly grabbed hold of me and reminded me that we were in a fast-paced country so we should be the one to adapt..
    i am not saying we're lazy but i think respecting one's culture is a must, not just in a multicultural household. adapting takes time so it must also be understood..

  • @blinddatereject
    @blinddatereject 6 років тому

    this guy looks like he has so much love for his wife and he has a great smile. So the wife dealt with the laid-back ness in bazil but in kr she's all up on him. she should be more understanding since she kinda married him.

  • @Ariasofnight
    @Ariasofnight 7 років тому +8

    A porr onde q esse mano cresceu..? Quer dizer q as chinelada q minha mãe me dava pra ir escovar os dentes ñ é comun néer....

  • @henriquejambu
    @henriquejambu 5 років тому +1

    well the problem is just because bernardo was an upper middle class man that never did any housework growing up. it's harder to learn things when you're an adult - but us brazilians that are used to housework since childhood/adolescence would probably satisfy his wife's need for things to be done correctly hahaha

  • @barbaraalves761
    @barbaraalves761 7 років тому +14

    first, probally he is lazy or whatever because of his personality. you can see that he speak very slowly even for a foreign. I'm Brazilian and i live in sao paulo. This thing like "oh, all brazillian are lazy and dont like to rush things" is not necessary true. it's a war to live here in SP especially in the "rush hour" when everyone get off of their works and go to take a bus or subway. so he is lazy because is the way he acts or like to be. there is nothing to do with brazil or our culture.

  • @EduardaSaBohn
    @EduardaSaBohn 4 роки тому +1

    I'm Brazilian, and Its REALLY COMMON for men like him to have been raised having EVERYTHING beeing done for him by MAIDS or his own MOTHER, they don't know how to do stuff on their own (usually their moms/maids do all the responsabilities until they find a girl, get married and than their wifes/new maids have to take on the responsabilities, they are forever a baby) they don't know how to cook their own food, how to clean their own laundry, how to clean their own house, and If they do it ONCE, they feel like they did a loooooot of effort, like (???) dude, people have to do this every day, every time, you're not a hero for doing one thing a day or cleaning the dog's poop! and if you dare to ask them to do their responsabilities as they should, because guess what ? they're grown men, they should know how to do these stuff! they get upset about it and feel like they're the victim! He can be sweet and a nice loving guy, and she can be pushing things to her standard way too much, but I feel her, he should learn how to do his own stuff, he´s problably so used with things beeing done for him that he forgot someone actually have to do it all the time! As a brazilian woman I'm so done with this and really done with people taking the "poor sweet man who's trying so hard" side "that woman is a witch omg, such a terrible woman"! It is amazing he's loving and patience, yes, she shouldnt comand his weight, his job, etc, but the responsabilities.... oh I feel her!

    • @EduardaSaBohn
      @EduardaSaBohn 4 роки тому

      * this suits almost all middle class or rich males, which is most likely his case since he mentioned the maids and stuff*

  • @luxlumin2
    @luxlumin2 6 років тому

    Bernardo is adorable. That wife is lucky to have him in my opinion.

  • @MissN1234
    @MissN1234 4 роки тому +3

    Didnt she know his slow character before they got married? Why did she complain? Vry dominating woman. I dont think anything he did would satisfy her.

    • @TheFinalPlace
      @TheFinalPlace 4 роки тому

      I thought the same. She probably saw his personality while they were dating

  • @eunhaverse
    @eunhaverse 7 років тому +2

    Eu e ele somos muitos parecidos ( ambos preguiçosos )