Not just after birth, imagine how much she must have gone thru before she got them. As a woman, how much the society mocks and backbites about her for not being able to get a child. How many questions she'd have heard all those 4 years! I wonder how much helpful he was during those hard times?
She's not raising 3 kids but 4 . Honestly I can't even imagine how hard it is just one kid is hard to raise but this father ..... Wow idk wat to say 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Yaa, im a mom of 6 childs & i have one Triplets of 6 childs, im really happy cause my husband smile even when he get a Triplets cause my husband is a great photographer this moments is so wishlyy hope u guys get a Triplets with a Handsome/Pretty Triplets i got a Pretty Triplets 🦄💖💕😇😘!
@@eliciayazzie7706 well he’s probably one of those people who thinks women should look after their children or one of those people who thinks raising child is easy
Kar Dengl Thank you so much. Finally someone points this out. I’ve only seen a handful of these videos and the majority of them involved these so called parents who don’t even think their children are children, much less their hopes and dreams in life matter. They selfishly put their interests first without a second thought probably because they feel like they are entitled to their behavior since they brought a child into the world. Seriously, that was your choice. The child didn’t ask to be here. Take some actual responsibility for your actions.
Ik even though I don’t have kids people leave their kids with me sometimes and it actually feels like I have kids like I cook, change diapers, play with them and i understand how that mother feels. One time I had to take care of 5 kids at the park while the parents were sitting chitchating. I mean I don’t mind being with the kids but sometimes the mother needs to understand that I can’t just keep watching their children and two kids end up calling ME mom and they called their mother by her name.
He is just shameless person. How can he swear his sons. I can understand even if he tired or angry cause not easy to care triplet at the same time. But be patient and kind cause they are still kids. Really I want to hit him how he selfish person, why he live alone unmarried. He married a precious daughter of other parent. But he did not responsible on wife and sons. Shame on you. How dare he say they. need to understand on me.
"Even when I'm in my pyjamas, my kids view me as their pretty mom." I wholeheartedly agree with this. My mom always gets self-conscious about how she "looks fat" in photos and she thinks that's bad, but to me she's the most beautiful person ever.
YONG Same for me she always tells me to use a beautifying app when i take picture of her and to take a certain shoes so her tummy doesn't show but i really don't care about how she looks, i mean honestly she looks beautiful in and out to me, but i can never get it across to her...
@@dallysa5409 bitchhh I felt that. One time on a test I deadass got the question "how long did you study for this test?" And I answered "I studied 6 hours last night" the day she gave it back she said "Should've studied 10 hours" and I had a mental breakdown in the bathroom
I was totally about to leave a comment saying that the dad and kids can't get along because the dad behaves just like them. I don't mean that in a bad way. I just found it funny. Especially his reaction to the skull ring accusation. 😂 On another note, those kids are adorable. They act like my brother's 4-year-old set of twins. There's never a dull moment with those two. 😂
No, he is not a kid. Because no kid can spend this much amount. And if he is a kid, then either she is a widow or a single mother. Then we have to look it from that perspective and no matter in what way you see, her suffering is unbearable
I think what her mom meant was that she thinks her daughter looks exhausted. (She still thinks her daughter is beautiful, and loves her unconditionally.) What she said, was her way of expressing how upset she is, that her precious daughter is having a hard time and the husband isn't helping.
She is a great mom. She wants to get her daughter back who was always full of smiles and laughter. She wants her to have a happy life not like the current her that is aging from exhaustion and stressed out because of her husband.
@@anshd1306 it also just might be the way they translated it to English. When certain things are used in Korean it might be easier for them to translate it that way, so I agree with you. you can't take these translations too seriously.
actually in korean language her mom said her daughter is really beautiful (as shown in picture), not like as in translation u read but they make it like that they twist it to emphasize her upsetness at how her daughter went thru hell times and looks so worn out
That's how most Korean men are when they come on the show with their families. They want to get married and have kids but do absolute nothing to contribute. Still remember an episode where a Father kept wanting to get his wife pregnant (she already had 3 children and was pregnant) even tho she said she doesn't want to go through the hardships over and over because it's too hard to take care of all the kids while the Father is out there clubbing and drinking all the time. It's really sad hear.
@@Ghost-qd8uj was that the episode where the father is always out of town in parties and if not on parties, going fishing? And made his wife deliver the fishing pole while she holds all 3 children when crossing the street.
Honestly I've watched this over and over and everytime she says"I dont need my sleep" I burst into tears.....like literally I cant stop crying......I just hope things have gotten better for her
@@hannafrhn8278 Everyone knows marriage isn't easy, because it involves sacrifices and keeping the love going and still loving the other person even through their flaws. There are people who get married without testing everything out and then they find out they're not as compatible as they thought, and then they spend years and years together and miserable. If you really know who you love and are going to marry, then that's fine and there's nothing to be afraid of. Just sit down and ask questions to your partner to know if they're really who you want to be with and they can ask as well. Anything goes. No big secrets. If you know who you're going to spend time with, you won't be scared.
There's a quote by Theodore Hesburgh that says “The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother”. And that's clearly what the father ISN'T doing for his wife :(
Watching this made me think of Song Ilkook 'cause his also a father of triplets too. Daehan, Minguk and Manse are so hype since they were babies and their dad is really amazing at disciplining them and people even call him Saint Ilkoon of Songdo because he was too good and kind to his kids and his wife. He wanted to exercise in the gym but he felt too bad for his wife to be alone with the kids so he took the kids with him and made the Song Train for him to watch over the kids and exercise as well. Despite his busy schedule as a celebrity he always go home before 9:00 to bath the kids because he thinks it's too hard for his wife to bath the triplets. Their house doesn't have a lot of toys unlike the other families in the TROS because Song Ilkook thinks using their body while playing is better. Manually playing with them. They could have enjoy the rest of the afternoon just looking at their window and talking about what cars on the streets are. Just see the difference here? Man up don't give such excuses.
That dad himself thinks he's still a child🤦♀️ i felt bad for the mom😢 she didn't even told him to stop his hobbies and drinking, she just told him to refrain it. I hope after the show ends, he'll help her raising their children and properly help her at least in household chores.
@@xinyixinisterx sigh~ he really is selfish. When his kids grow up imagine his children being afraid of him. He'd rather satisfy himself than help his poor wife🤦♀️ his obligations as a father is not just about financial help but being there as a father. Tsk i hope he learned his lesson, isn't he jealous when his kids hugged their mom and told the hosts they doesn't love him? Sigh~
Those children will grow to resent their dad, not respect him. And sadly, I don't think it's easy to raise children alone in Korea as a single mom. There is a stigma. But I definitely think the poor woman is trapped. This isn't ok. He is selfish and childish.
sandubu she’s such an awesome mom and understanding gentle wife I really hope that he changes his ways and starts valuing and treasuring his lovely wife and beautiful boys. It must really be exhausting for her 😔
This type of male who is NOT ready to become a husband and a father..he still got a single or bachelor mode in his mind..kinda like he prefer to become a single..and he is very individualistic thats why he don't want to share his hobbies to his families (his team)..his hobbies are thing can be used together but he is not that type of guy..he prefer he play alone..he need to change his attitudes and habits so he can be a good husband and father of triplets..its not easy to raise twin children especially with have more than two twins like triplet or quadruplet
20:08 "I raised her right." it's so sadddd. God, imagine u have your own daughter/son and raised them well, but after married, they ruined your kids :((((
She looked so pretty on her wedding day, being a father means taking care of your kids and raising them with love, they’re literally 6, the audacity he has to say “I want them to understand me”
“but you can never make amends for being a dad who screams and yells at them” this is very true for parents to remember 😢 even as grown ups, some people remember how scared they were off their parents so the relationships are difficult to amend
yes when grown up later it will difficult to amend the relationship......been through it too.....very sad thing. just unlucky to be born in this type of family.
真冬 Women stop loving their husbands, too. Just look how much this woman hates her husband (totally justified). I bet she went on this show to get full custody when she divorces him. I hope he pays tons alimony of and child support.
@@Amaranthyne No, women get really busy with raising children and work and other things they don't get as much time as before but men want to keep their normal life as it is, eating, sleeping, and working without feeling pressurized cause when they do they break they can't take anything.
I'm a single mom with a 1-year-old daughter. Taking care of a hyper kid is really tiresome, what more if you have to take care of 3 hyper kids. I really admire her strength. She's such an inspiration. My ex is like that dad too, he likes to drink, smoke and goes out with his co-worker and doesn't even send money for our daughter sometimes when it is his obligation to do so. I'm just glad that he's out of our life now and were living peacefully. If that man keeps up his bad habits, I hope she divorces him. It wouldn't be a problem for the kids since they already hate him.
He should definitely watch TROS, lee donguuk and song illkook (I believe thats how you spell it), they are a wonderful example to dads. They are stern with the kids when needed and shower them with love too. Their kids are growing up to be responsible ,polite and empathetic due to that
my dad is like this too. he curses at my 3 siblings (aged 5 to 14) and i. he doesn't help in housework and always demand us to do things. he rarely give us money to spend even though he work alot. my siblings are always scared of him (including me) especially when he comes home from work. and the irony is that he watches TROS, naeun and gunhoo. and he questioned me why wasn't i like naeun. i'm so puzzled... if he doesn't do his part to become a proper dad, how are we supposed to be close to him 😞
If he can not keep up with his triplets thats not possible like if you've watched return of superman" Song IIkook's triplets". He is a celebrity but still raised his triplets so well
"I don't think that I can change from here. The kids should become older." *Well bruh, they can't grow up in 3 days. They're still little and shouldn't be rushed to grow up.*
Swearing infornt of children is fine as swearing could be use to verbally convey emotions, but verbal abuse directed at them on the other hand is not okay.
"I think every man has at least one hobby" Well yeah, everyone does. But that doesn't mean you can just neglect your responsibilities towards your wife and kids, especially. Sign him up to child-care classes please. And saying his wife hobby is house chores is so absurd. Having 'four' sons around the house, I can only imagine the scattering of everything in the house. Do you want to live in a dumpster or what? You don't have kids, you want kids. You have kids, you don't wanna spend time with them. What is wrong with him? -_-!
Indeed. The part where he spent the money that was supposed to go to his sons had me boiled up -_- And Youngmi was right to call her a hero. He should be ashamed for not appreciating her.
I feel like this woman needs out. This man is not going to get better and is not willing to work at anything to become better. He is a child and she deserves better. Why work so hard and pay so much to have kids when you won't do anything for them beyond working? She works, too, and not just as a mom! Being the "man" of the house is no excuse for being an uninvolved, misogynistic, childish asshole.
He even said "I can't get any better than now" like please, your wife is becoming a better mother, wife and woman each passing day. Most of the time the mother would still settle with the father because they're afraid the society will bully her kids for having no father around. Yet having a father like this do more damage in their young age. I mean like on top of having expensive hobbies he smokes and drink heavily too. I'm gonna barf.
I don't know who the one freaking set the rules that every female needs to know/handle every single chores in the house and the one who said that male shouldn't lift a finger in the house. It can't come from a single person. It should be both to know to do things around house. I know some men will protest and say 'do women knows about theirs cars bla bla bla so don't expect men to know about chores' Lol it's 2019, males can do/learn to do chores and females can learn/do outside things too. It's never genetic to like to do chores. NEVER!
I think that getting a divorce and being separated is much more easy than living your whole life like a nightmare, this is for both the kids and their mom.
She is hella strong to even still be in this marriage. You helped for THREE mths when she was pregnant, even tho we are pregnant for 10 mths, and you thought you did good. Ridiculous. I have kids of my own but I couldn't even imagine having twins or triplets and having to do EVERYTHING more than once daily. The aches she must have from also having to work bcuz he would rather spend 1200$ on some toy than provide the necessities for his children. I'm mad with her 😡
Instead of watching movie, i wish you can spend some of your time to watch “return of superman” for daehan-minguk-manse episode.. please learn how to do well on raising your kids slowly from now on. Your kids won’t play with you anymore or even talk to you when they grow older if you maintain to behave like this..
I really like how Dong Yeop lectures/talks to the problematic guests. He tells them of the consequences that would happen if they'd continue with their undesirable issues. All of them (the regular cast) really makes good points like Young Ja, but I just found what Dong Yeop said about being a dad to their children while they are still young very appropriate. The dad here should really take child-rearing lessons from Song Ilkook. Daehan, Minguk, and Manse were hyper kids as f*ck. But because Ilkook was hands on in taking care of them ever since they were born, the triplets respect and love him as their dad. The difference between Ilkook and this dad guest is that Ilkook really felt sorry for his wife who had to undergo hardships in carrying their children until they came to term that he thinks that helping in taking care of their children, amidst his busy schedule as a celebrity, is the only way he could repay her. But this guy doesn't see it that way. Or maybe because Ilkook just love his boys and his wife too much.
What is with all these guys who want to have kids but literally contribute nothing to their upbringing? With them, I know it's a different case since you can't really predict triplets. But the fact that he was being so immature about it makes absolutely no sense to me. I remember another episode where a guy literally was demanding to keep having kids (they had 3 at that point) but also refused to do anything at the house or as an actual father and played it off like 'oh she's not in that much pain, it's easy for her to have kids'. This is so intensely immature smh
Their moms probably did all the housework+child raising so they grew up thinking their wives should do the same. My husband who spent 5 yeara in boarding school where he had to wash his clothes by hand still doesn't put his laundry away because he has a wife and two kids who help their mom with chores. I make it a point to rub it in that his son is the one that helps me the most with housework.
@@nomad82912 that's kind of my assumption as well; I feel like it's more of a reflection of his upbringing than anything. I'm just glad that the male hosts were just as disgusted with him like everyone else. As a previous comment said, it's like these guys don't understand the concept of sacrifice when you have kids or get married. You can't just do whatever you want and make decisions on your own. I can't even imagine having a husband who would spend money on these unnecessary things and not do anything to take care of the kids, it legit boggles my mind
What a super woman, not only is she taking care of 3 kids but also work on top of that too! What a selfish bastard, those are your kids too. They are also your responsibility! You’re no longer #1 when you decided to have kids. I can’t believe how long she has put up with him along with all his ridiculous spending. I would’ve divorced his ass and slap child support on him. 😡🤬😤
He's saying that he will change if the kids grow up and be able to understand him but in reality, he's just making his kids hate him even more. What kind of mindset is this, smh.
Kids can be mischievous but certainly requires discipline for sure. Dad show no interest in raising the kids . Mum has her hands full...? All the more hats off to TROS the Song triplets and their parents.
"You can't make amends after being dad who screams and yells at his kids." How true that is. My grandfather was like that, he's abusive and used more fists and words rather than trying to help my grandmother. Now he's almost 90 and sometimes gets sick but even my cousin ignores him when he ask to go to a clinic. It also happens to my father, he wasn't that abusive but he screamed and yelled at his children a lot and set a lot of impossible rules (don't use motorcyle so often, have to go to school and come straight at home even though we have extraculliculars, I didn't even stay with my friends for celebration on our graduation ceremony coz he already waited at my school gate, hell.. I couldn't even have a proper job bc he complained abt the salary). Now my parents splitted and my mother doesn't even care abt him anymore. I don't really have any ill feeling to my father, I'm rather forgiveful person. But I can say that when you become a parent, you should raise your children by thinking how yourself would react if you get the same attitude. If you can't even stand being yelled and screamed at, how can you expect your children stand such method just bc you're their parent? It's good to set your children some kind of rules and being strict, but if yourself can't stand it don't expect your children will do. Scream when they are already old enough to understand the meaning of parent's scream and yells. When you do that to your children who are less than 6 years old they will just think that you hate them, it's already too much for them to bear.
Actually don't scream and yell at all. That's never a good solution. Family should have talk in calming manner without being passive aggressive, but if the parents already like that or even worse..most kids wouldn't bother to actually be nice to them.
I'm taking myself as an example, i don't feel a thing knowing they're sick. Like oh okay they're sick, so? And i always said "everyone in the world will die sooner or later anyway..so?". These traits has been developed since i was a kid. The environment i was in was like people don't give a two cent if you're sick or struggle, you have to do a LOT of thing, get society "standard success" and if you can't, you're an entitled bitch that deserve to be beat up. So imagine that! I was not being entitled, i was struggle emotionally and got sick but i got denied. One time i was very very very sick (6-7yrs old) and the hospital doesn't know/have the actual medical cure to treat me and instead give something lotion-eish to ease the pain from physically. And then just ate panadol. The family, the relatives, and even the people from the village even suggested traditional treatment which i had to endure it a lot. Took me 3months to actually ease the pain and slowly healing after..and in the midst of that, i took over a month of homeschool because i wasn't allowed to go school except during exam day and specific time. I passed them though because i got beaten if i don't. Lol.
Then i got that same kind of sickness again when I'm about 16, but not as severe as when i was a kid. The hospital just gave the same shit but with injection to "kill" the disease from within. I just said disease because idk what it was. At that time because i was a teenager, i still need to keep going to school and do other work whilebenduring the pain of over a month. I got beaten a lot too during that year. Then at 18yrs old, i got a some kind of poison from bugs/plants on Christmas Day, and EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM family and relatives told me to toughen up and stop being self-entitled because to them that shit doesn't hurt. LOL ironically at that time, no one knew what it was. They just thought its just a mosquito bite and i might had diabetes that's why it was swollen. I totally lose all hope during that time. I finally realized that ahh even if im gone, no one's gonna care. They probably cry a day or two just to show their plastic fakeass self, but soon they'll be happy i'm gone. I had to wait almost 24hrs before my own mom brought me to hospital with my two younger brothers, and the female doctor (a foreigner) scolded me for not going to hospital asap. I had to tell her all the truth like i haven't got any car license, people still in celebrating mood and a bit of domestic abuse. She called my mother and she scolded her good while also stating the facts that i actually had less than one hour left to live as the poison almost reached my heart and that's why i can't moved my right hand to shoulder and even neck part. It was soo swollen about thrice bigger than my normal hand. People can even feel the heat whenever they touched it. I got admitted right then for 3 days. Here's a secret story: they have to use certain things that was actually allowed in medical standard but because i was in dire situation, they had too use and so i was survived. Thank you doctors😁
After that, whenever i got a series of illness, i didn't think of calling them first. I either go straight to clinic/hospital myself or get help from my besties or lover. Other people cannot understand me as to why i sometimes act indifferent, and always quick to blame me for whatever happened in life even if that's their life and I'm not involved in any way at all. During my oh-my-single years where i live by myself, i was especially lonely but i knew it was for the best because i can see who actually are the good people and who aren't. I'm actually old enough to get 2 to 7 kids at least like my friends, but marriage was never in my mind. Lol. Oh and I even got another sickness where i bleed a lot from my mouth twice (end of 2017 and mid last year), and only the female private doctor care about. The so called male specialist from the big hospital (unlucky me because the recommended pro specialist was on holiday) doesn't even know what it was and even had the nerve to say "So you're sick and bleed. What do you want me to do?". TF!? I was only give a penadol AGAIN. I complained that to the private doctor and she did all her best to help. I paid for all the treatments and medicine. My family and relatives? Oh heyy they just loved hearing the story. Not that i need their attention much because they're always like that. And now, I'm actually waiting to get meet another specialist to check my body because the last X-ray wasn't reliable enough to see what's the problem with things in my body. But the doctor did suggested to remove it surgically. The thing is i need to know what it is first before doing any surgically oepration. And as expected it's like a boring news to the family. Well, i'm used to it. I got things plan for this myself. Sooooooo umm im sorry, it got so long. A lot of things playing in my mind after watching this vid. I've been very indifferent since i was just a kid because of what I've mostly been shown to..along with living in a fuckedup environment and being different than the "woman" of Society's Standard. Even someone in the family, relatives or just in general passed away..i can't actually feel like i lose something like anyone normal. I do admit i can feel the sadness a bit for certain good people who lose their good someone, but that happened only a few times. I can feel sorry to anyone even strangers when they lose someone, but that's it. Idk what to do to comfort them after that. In conclusion of me telling all of this is..i do wish other kids wouldn't grow up to be emotionally indifferent like me or worse emotionally dead. Parents should care more about the kids rather than about themselves or other people just to save their face/pride. The "other people" shouldn't butt in and say meanest things, being passive aggressive or throw sarcasm remarks to a kid, a family or just about anyone. Like stop getting yourself imvolved, and just focus of taking care of your own family. Done😁
yea that is true, my father was so abusive and would yell a lot. Now, my older brother has a bad relationship with him and I don't really like talking to my father either. My older sister also has a hard time with him and now I don't even try because I know that's his personality. I really hate him.
She is such a good mom. She has such a special bond with them. And when the doctors told her that she would have to abort one of them because it was risky she did not because she would risk it all for her kids❤️❤️
They start talking about the kids and the audience goes crazy over their cuteness. They start talking about the mom and everyone sympathizes with her. They talk about the the dad and everyone starts starts getting mad😂
@@red-pu1jp No this show is supossed to bring awareness is not a treatment. The famous people are there to increase the views since teenagers and fans will watch and they promote their new albums, movies, songs etc
They tried , they had a psychologist before few years ago but is not like every psychologist will be comfortable to appear on TV or will know how to act in front of an audience. Sometimes he was a bit nervous and they just advise people to seek professional help after but I also think they should have a psychologist with them .
I’m crying, she such a sweet mother. And damn! The triplets dads doesn’t deserve them. There’s a lot of dad out there is wishing to have a triplets or even just one child, but him? He really need to change his attitude to his wife and his children. Gosh he’s so ungrateful, it must be so hard for the triplets mom raising her children alone😭😭
This triplets are so cute, i can't even imagine hurting them. Just imagining them hugging me ackkk. I would love to have them as my kids if i am in their situation.🥺❤️
My god, all his reasons are excuses. If he really cared and put the time to it he can give enough attention to his triplets. He's not the only parent with triplets in this world.
"I don't need my sleep " O god I am crying. She is such a great mother. And she deserves much better. But I am sad that she is living with such a person who does not even look after his own kids.
Omg! The kids are really cute!! 😂😂❤❤I wish the dad had more self control in front of the kids tho... I am sure the dad must have felt bad when the kids told that they did not like him.I wish he would spend more time with the kids in a good way.(like playing with them and not cursing at them) yes I know it's difficult to handle all 3 but the kids are shaping themselves into what they will become in the future based on their surroundings. If they hear a lot of cursing at this age, they will use it naturally to anyone without knowing the meaning or when to use such words..from what i saw,the father can change. ( i am not puting him under the bad light cuz he has his problems too!)btw the father is REALLY talented!
I don’t think he’ll ever truly change but rather adapt and become perhaps a tad more civil and less selfish. Talent or career should not legitimatize any such behavior he shows in my opinion. For experience I can honestly say that forgiveness and acceptance is still possible for him if he does stop his abuse, but love and longing from his kids he’ll probably never get again.
People like that don't change. My dad was like that and even cheated on my mum TWICE and did some other pretty awful things. On top of that my mum has had M.S (Multiple Sclerosis) for at almost 30 or more years now and stopped being able to walk and stand 15-16 years ago. I'm now 24 years old. They divorced when I was 7. Anyway, he still rarely ever visits and cares more about his current wife's daughter's kid more than he ever did with us. Sure, he'll drive me places, but I still give him £5 for petrol. He also took money out of my older brother's savings account when he was still a baby. Money that my grandmother put in for him. Only to have it taken by our dad. Plus, all he ever cared about was airplane models, boat and car models. Whenever WE needed something, he couldn't care less and only cared about his own hobbies. My mum had to pay for most of our things and thanks to dad, we almost ended up broke. Oh and to top it off and pout the icing on the cake, my dad is thousands of pounds in debt and STILL owes money to people. I don't know if you've had a crappy dad or not and I don't know what kind of life you've had, but it sounds to me as if you haven't experienced that. You wouldn't be saying what you've said if you had.
@@ReptilianTeaDrinker I am really sorry for what happened.... you are right I might have not experienced the worst. But it's not bad to give the person (in this case the triplets dad) a chance to change right? 😊 it is just my opinion and I really do respect your view too! Hope you are well now😊😊 and I am really sorry for what happened 😢
its ok because they will grow up to protect and support thier mom all three of them , because they will understand how much thier mom had done for them also pratically raising them alone
This is such a blessing having a triplet. All are healthy and good looking. It just at a stage where their energy are on fire. When kid get older they become more calm. Trust me you will miss this moment when you look back someday. Dont waste your time complaining. Just enjoy raising your kids tho. I afraid they dont respect you especially father if you treat them that way.
Aaaaaaaaaand I‘m crying. Ok. Oh mhm yep I‘m sobbing Edit: it breaks my heart. She‘s such a good mother and hard working beautiful strong woman and he doesn’t deserve her. At all.
When she said “ I don’t need to sleep “ my tears just burst , I could understand when her mom said she had a nice voice , it was like that’s all worth it to her just her kids .
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Imagine the pain of not being able to get pregnant for four years and then blessed with triplets but ur husband is ungrateful smh
FR LIKE WTF
Right he wanted kids so much too, and now he's acting like this!!!? Sometimes I wish I was there to just scream at some of these guests smh
Not just after birth, imagine how much she must have gone thru before she got them. As a woman, how much the society mocks and backbites about her for not being able to get a child. How many questions she'd have heard all those 4 years!
I wonder how much helpful he was during those hard times?
She's not raising 3 kids but 4 . Honestly I can't even imagine how hard it is just one kid is hard to raise but this father ..... Wow idk wat to say 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
She should divorce him ,so that the kids have a good life , if dey continue with him dere r chances for them to get derailed.
how can a father not smile when he sees his three adorable triplets?
I know probably he didn't want to be a father in the first place, you can see how inmature he is still
Yaa, im a mom of 6 childs & i have one Triplets of 6 childs, im really happy cause my husband smile even when he get a Triplets cause my husband is a great photographer this moments is so wishlyy hope u guys get a Triplets with a Handsome/Pretty Triplets i got a Pretty Triplets 🦄💖💕😇😘!
@@akuaik.100 she said that they were trying to have a baby 4 years before they had her kids
@@eliciayazzie7706 well he’s probably one of those people who thinks women should look after their children or one of those people who thinks raising child is easy
Guys i just think this guy wasnt ready for triplets and wanted only one child
It seems some people are not aware that, when you marry and have kids, life isn't about you anymore.
But some of them are thingking to having someone to takecare of there needs only.having kids are not a joke. Its a roller coaster😂😂
Kar Dengl Thank you so much. Finally someone points this out. I’ve only seen a handful of these videos and the majority of them involved these so called parents who don’t even think their children are children, much less their hopes and dreams in life matter. They selfishly put their interests first without a second thought probably because they feel like they are entitled to their behavior since they brought a child into the world. Seriously, that was your choice. The child didn’t ask to be here. Take some actual responsibility for your actions.
Snow Tigress PREACH!!!! And I love your name lololololol I don’t think I could have agreed anymore!!!
True..
Ik even though I don’t have kids people leave their kids with me sometimes and it actually feels like I have kids like I cook, change diapers, play with them and i understand how that mother feels.
One time I had to take care of 5 kids at the park while the parents were sitting chitchating. I mean I don’t mind being with the kids but sometimes the mother needs to understand that I can’t just keep watching their children and two kids end up calling ME mom and they called their mother by her name.
It breaks my heart when her mom said "i raised her right" and then she end up with such irresponsible guy
This happen to every women who's raised right my dad treat my mom as she came to my dad house just to cook and raise kids
Ruby Xynex Same. I really pity my mom and I.
@@_nour.m.2517 Same here
@@uxiah true
@@_nour.m.2517 Same
This is the type of man that gets married just to have another mom that can take care of them, and not to actually have a wife
Aw
@@ZenitsuKunn you are being sarcastic right lmao ?
@@dimlumiere5659 lmfao I don't even remember why I even comment that ahsha
@@ZenitsuKunn hahaha i thought my sense of humour was completely gone TT
@@ZenitsuKunn cute xd
“They need to be able to understand me”.wtf they’re just six.
cherry bomb And that’s by Korean age. They were actually 4-5 here by international age.
Yess, It is not them who should understand him but he who should try to understand them.
He is just shameless person. How can he swear his sons. I can understand even if he tired or angry cause not easy to care triplet at the same time. But be patient and kind cause they are still kids. Really I want to hit him how he selfish person, why he live alone unmarried. He married a precious daughter of other parent. But he did not responsible on wife and sons. Shame on you. How dare he say they. need to understand on me.
Right, a lot of parents fail to recognize that kids aren’t mature enough to understand things and that patience is important smh.
Yeah they will never understand the father if he continues to act this way.
The triplets have looks of a model like they really could be child models!!!
They look exactly like the dad though
Yea but they were quite naughty but theres a chance tho😁they were cute😍
was thinking of imagining them in that one reality show, Superman. but then again their dad isn't likely to be a superdad.
They look like that little kid that fell in the runway in China.
@@ericacolin8463 omg you're right, they do haha.
When they hugged their mother they’re like little kittens ♥️♥️😭😭
thats so cute
Mom: *Please get off me children*
Ikr
Fr
표현 하시는게 너무 이뻐요.
She was so pretty on her wedding day but know she looks so stressed out if my husband was like this I would kick him out bc he’s useless
Same
Youre right
Same he only make things harder for her
Right?! Useless.
Ah, its better to not have her husband. She lives and does everything alone anyway
When they went straight to their mother I was so happy and it was so adorable.T-T
Ikr!😍🥰 so cute
"Even when I'm in my pyjamas, my kids view me as their pretty mom." I wholeheartedly agree with this. My mom always gets self-conscious about how she "looks fat" in photos and she thinks that's bad, but to me she's the most beautiful person ever.
Yasmin Mann then who is this show/episode appealing to?
Yasmin Mann lmao what does this even mean??
Thats so beautiful ~ u go !
YONG Same for me she always tells me to use a beautifying app when i take picture of her and to take a certain shoes so her tummy doesn't show but i really don't care about how she looks, i mean honestly she looks beautiful in and out to me, but i can never get it across to her...
You're so sweet
Even in her 30s shes really pretty. The babies too are very handsome and cute in my opinion...wow. I hope they grow up to be lovely, kind, nice boys.
30s isn't old, and I don't know why people make that out to be old.
Sora Gen Next frfr 😤
You must be a teenager to think that someone in their 30s is old.
Asiya Dahir she didn’t say they were old 💀
Sora Gen Next she didn’t even say that she’s old but sure
The triplets is CUTE AND GOOD LOOKING tbh.
Ikr
since their mom is pretty.
Dowoon & IN is the cutest maknae i mean their parents are also good looking
Bc that’s totally not creepy to say about children
The youngest is very cute
“How old are you?”
“Seoyun!”
“What’s your name?”
“Five!”
“How old are you?”
“AHHHHHHHHHHHH!”
me in quiz after having a mental breakdown the night before
Trinity Tran lol so cute
@@dallysa5409 bitchhh I felt that. One time on a test I deadass got the question "how long did you study for this test?" And I answered "I studied 6 hours last night" the day she gave it back she said "Should've studied 10 hours" and I had a mental breakdown in the bathroom
@@dallysa5409 i laughed so hard!
I'm bouta think that Jin was the one who raised them🤔
27:42 “you said that you like hero movies, right? you don’t need to watch those movies. you have a hero right here” damn right he does, PREACH 🙌
She
It's she
nah, he as in the husband....
Actually she's raising 4 kids
I see what you did there. lol Cause the dad is a big child too.
I was totally about to leave a comment saying that the dad and kids can't get along because the dad behaves just like them. I don't mean that in a bad way. I just found it funny. Especially his reaction to the skull ring accusation. 😂
On another note, those kids are adorable. They act like my brother's 4-year-old set of twins. There's never a dull moment with those two. 😂
FACTS
No, he is not a kid. Because no kid can spend this much amount. And if he is a kid, then either she is a widow or a single mother. Then we have to look it from that perspective and no matter in what way you see, her suffering is unbearable
Lol that's trueee
The mom was saying that she used to beautiful, but she still is. Wow what a great mom
I think what her mom meant was that she thinks her daughter looks exhausted. (She still thinks her daughter is beautiful, and loves her unconditionally.) What she said, was her way of expressing how upset she is, that her precious daughter is having a hard time and the husband isn't helping.
Anna Jang Exactly! I don't know why people takes everything literally.
She is a great mom. She wants to get her daughter back who was always full of smiles and laughter. She wants her to have a happy life not like the current her that is aging from exhaustion and stressed out because of her husband.
@@anshd1306 it also just might be the way they translated it to English. When certain things are used in Korean it might be easier for them to translate it that way, so I agree with you. you can't take these translations too seriously.
actually in korean language her mom said her daughter is really beautiful (as shown in picture), not like as in translation u read but they make it like that they twist it to emphasize her upsetness at how her daughter went thru hell times and looks so worn out
Want to ge married but refused to take Care of the kids. So selfish. 🤦♀️
kema zaidon DAMN I WANT TWINS BUT AFTER SEEING THIS....I WANT 10 LOL JK BUT I DO FEEL SORRY FOR HER I HOPE SHE HAS A FRIEND SHE CAN LEAN ON!!!
That's how most Korean men are when they come on the show with their families. They want to get married and have kids but do absolute nothing to contribute. Still remember an episode where a Father kept wanting to get his wife pregnant (she already had 3 children and was pregnant) even tho she said she doesn't want to go through the hardships over and over because it's too hard to take care of all the kids while the Father is out there clubbing and drinking all the time. It's really sad hear.
*got her pregnant but refused to take care of his kids. irresponsible.
@@Ghost-qd8uj i remember that one too he was so selfish
@@Ghost-qd8uj was that the episode where the father is always out of town in parties and if not on parties, going fishing? And made his wife deliver the fishing pole while she holds all 3 children when crossing the street.
Honestly I've watched this over and over and everytime she says"I dont need my sleep" I burst into tears.....like literally I cant stop crying......I just hope things have gotten better for her
I dont know how this concern didn't get 200 votes...
OMG SAME HERE
"Do you like daddy"
"No"
Exactly what Seungjae said at the first interview in The Return Of Superman HAHAHA
but the difference is that Seungjae said that as a joke but this kid literally don't like his dad.
@@hahahappy7820 yup,so true
@@hahahappy7820 yes! Also, his dad truly made sure to put in effort to be there for his son. This is quite the opposite.
Yes, but that's a joke....he was so worried when he thought his father was eaten by a polar bear.
It also reminded me of Seungjae 🤣
Thanks makes me realize that love is not the only thing needed in marriage...
It took you this long to get it
Hanna _shii definately.. marriage required a lot of u both..
@@nuages8915 yes because i was to much in love now i being scare to get married
@@hannafrhn8278
Everyone knows marriage isn't easy, because it involves sacrifices and keeping the love going and still loving the other person even through their flaws. There are people who get married without testing everything out and then they find out they're not as compatible as they thought, and then they spend years and years together and miserable. If you really know who you love and are going to marry, then that's fine and there's nothing to be afraid of. Just sit down and ask questions to your partner to know if they're really who you want to be with and they can ask as well. Anything goes. No big secrets. If you know who you're going to spend time with, you won't be scared.
Mutual effort is a must or it will not work
the Father Should consult with Daehan-Minguk-Manse's Dad😂
its Soha This is wht actually i want to write down here!!
Yess !!!!
Hahaha! You are right! He's an expert regarding this matter. 😂
i knew i will found their name in the comment 😂 Daehan Minguk Manse 💕
I was literally thinking about song appa 😂😂😂😂♥️
There's a quote by Theodore Hesburgh that says “The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother”.
And that's clearly what the father ISN'T doing for his wife :(
extremely true
Happy wife is a happy life.
touched.
100% true
Theodore was 100% right.
Minhyuk saying he wants many children had me dead. I pray for his future wife she's gunna have a whole soccer team.😂
Lmao
😂😂
Sehun Min lmao 😂
What is the ring number?
HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA they are going to look alike and gonna be hard to see on who is who, except when there is a name on the back of the uniform AHHAHA
Watching this made me think of Song Ilkook 'cause his also a father of triplets too. Daehan, Minguk and Manse are so hype since they were babies and their dad is really amazing at disciplining them and people even call him Saint Ilkoon of Songdo because he was too good and kind to his kids and his wife. He wanted to exercise in the gym but he felt too bad for his wife to be alone with the kids so he took the kids with him and made the Song Train for him to watch over the kids and exercise as well. Despite his busy schedule as a celebrity he always go home before 9:00 to bath the kids because he thinks it's too hard for his wife to bath the triplets. Their house doesn't have a lot of toys unlike the other families in the TROS because Song Ilkook thinks using their body while playing is better. Manually playing with them. They could have enjoy the rest of the afternoon just looking at their window and talking about what cars on the streets are. Just see the difference here? Man up don't give such excuses.
Dang that's what came into my mind TROS super dad
same!! daehan minguk mansae ... i miss them!!😭
That dad himself thinks he's still a child🤦♀️ i felt bad for the mom😢 she didn't even told him to stop his hobbies and drinking, she just told him to refrain it. I hope after the show ends, he'll help her raising their children and properly help her at least in household chores.
He is selfish
@@xinyixinisterx sigh~ he really is selfish. When his kids grow up imagine his children being afraid of him. He'd rather satisfy himself than help his poor wife🤦♀️ his obligations as a father is not just about financial help but being there as a father. Tsk i hope he learned his lesson, isn't he jealous when his kids hugged their mom and told the hosts they doesn't love him? Sigh~
Those children will grow to resent their dad, not respect him. And sadly, I don't think it's easy to raise children alone in Korea as a single mom. There is a stigma. But I definitely think the poor woman is trapped. This isn't ok. He is selfish and childish.
sandubu she’s such an awesome mom and understanding gentle wife I really hope that he changes his ways and starts valuing and treasuring his lovely wife and beautiful boys. It must really be exhausting for her 😔
my 4 kid life
Made me realize how amazing and patient the song triplets father was.
Which is why he is a saint. 😂😂
This type of male who is NOT ready to become a husband and a father..he still got a single or bachelor mode in his mind..kinda like he prefer to become a single..and he is very individualistic thats why he don't want to share his hobbies to his families (his team)..his hobbies are thing can be used together but he is not that type of guy..he prefer he play alone..he need to change his attitudes and habits so he can be a good husband and father of triplets..its not easy to raise twin children especially with have more than two twins like triplet or quadruplet
I suggest they should get advice from one of the best fathers in Korea,
Song Ilkook
Bruh
hi mom i love over 40 boys ah yes i miss the triplets 🥺
I was waiting for someone to say that.
Yas! Exactly 👌 i miss daehanie, Mingukie, and Manse 😍
@WANNABE Song IIkook a actor, and appeared on kbs superman with his cutie triplets 🙂
20:08 "I raised her right." it's so sadddd. God, imagine u have your own daughter/son and raised them well, but after married, they ruined your kids :((((
Really, i want to hug the mom. She is such a great woman. He doesnt deserve her.
*whispers* JYP
I mean how could he cusses at those adorable triplets?
Remember to $tre@m bts dna, cmon army where losing to money hungry companys!💜💜💜💜💜
alexa play BTS LEAVE, this has nothing to do with bts.
@@alexaplaybtsbts463 stfu this is a serious topic
Watch them be K-pop idols when their older and then the dad wants to be nice to them
alexa play BTS this isn’t even related to the topic 🤦🏻♀️
Young-ja’s interview with the triplets killed me😂😂😂
Madison Rachel hahaha me too its too funny to handle
@ARMY/ ReVeluv Remember to $tre@m bts dna, cmon army where losing to money hungry companys!💜💜💜💜💜
alexa play BTS
not here , stop it
"Why are you touching my breasts" IS WHEN I COMPLETELY LOST IT AND COULDNT BREATHE
When that one wanted to grab the Mic that was on her shirt and grabbed her boobs I lost it I started crying and wheezing 😂😂😂😂😂😂
She looked so pretty on her wedding day, being a father means taking care of your kids and raising them with love, they’re literally 6, the audacity he has to say “I want them to understand me”
“but you can never make amends for being a dad who screams and yells at them”
this is very true for parents to remember 😢 even as grown ups, some people remember how scared they were off their parents so the relationships are difficult to amend
yes when grown up later it will difficult to amend the relationship......been through it too.....very sad thing. just unlucky to be born in this type of family.
The father should watch the ROS of SONG TRIPLETS. HAHAHA
Yes that's what i thought
Agree. Papa Song is a God!
IKR LMAO he needs to learn a tons from ilgook, the best dad.
EXACTLY!!! I even though that it would be better if Song Ilkook with DaehanMinguk and Manse visited! So Ilkook himself will give advice to the father
Financial difference
some people should actually be reported for being abusive, instead of coming out on TV
lol I think the boy just wanted to touch Youngja's mic on her sweater but he caused a big misunderstanding 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ikr. I think the little boy just wanted the mic lol
Yeah he seemed like he wanted to check the smaller mic since the bigger mic (that his sibling touch) had the soft foam
Im watching this at 4 an and laughing out loud
It's always the same with the stories of Korean husbands, once they get married or whatever it seems they "stop loving their wives"
Korean? Just Korean?
@@Amaranthyne its just men in general
真冬 Women stop loving their husbands, too. Just look how much this woman hates her husband (totally justified). I bet she went on this show to get full custody when she divorces him. I hope he pays tons alimony of and child support.
@@Amaranthyne No, women get really busy with raising children and work and other things they don't get as much time as before but men want to keep their normal life as it is, eating, sleeping, and working without feeling pressurized cause when they do they break they can't take anything.
@@Amaranthyne maybe if men also helped they both were more energized and had more time to spent together and were less tired.
This woman is so lucky - no one can ever hurt her when she's got those three beautiful boys
I'm a single mom with a 1-year-old daughter. Taking care of a hyper kid is really tiresome, what more if you have to take care of 3 hyper kids. I really admire her strength. She's such an inspiration. My ex is like that dad too, he likes to drink, smoke and goes out with his co-worker and doesn't even send money for our daughter sometimes when it is his obligation to do so. I'm just glad that he's out of our life now and were living peacefully. If that man keeps up his bad habits, I hope she divorces him. It wouldn't be a problem for the kids since they already hate him.
Omooo......mad respect for you...😄✌
WORD
@@pinklamborghini4787 20, turning 21 this year. Got pregnant a little early hehe
You are a strong woman. Hope you live happily with your daughter 😊
@@konnichiwa8762 Yes, I am living happily with my daughter. A woman becomes really beautiful when a toxic man is lessened from her life :)
He should definitely watch TROS, lee donguuk and song illkook (I believe thats how you spell it), they are a wonderful example to dads. They are stern with the kids when needed and shower them with love too. Their kids are growing up to be responsible ,polite and empathetic due to that
my dad is like this too. he curses at my 3 siblings (aged 5 to 14) and i. he doesn't help in housework and always demand us to do things. he rarely give us money to spend even though he work alot. my siblings are always scared of him (including me) especially when he comes home from work. and the irony is that he watches TROS, naeun and gunhoo. and he questioned me why wasn't i like naeun. i'm so puzzled... if he doesn't do his part to become a proper dad, how are we supposed to be close to him 😞
i dont think the dad will change. Not even a bit 🤦🏿♂️
Yeah, i feel the same🤦♀️
U can see from his face haha
It's pity.... That's why I don't like that kind of husband. No manners and irresponsible.
Ditto
When I saw them running up to her saying mommy and hugging her made me want to become a mother even more
If he can not keep up with his triplets thats not possible like if you've watched return of superman" Song IIkook's triplets". He is a celebrity but still raised his triplets so well
The triplets will one day grow into young adults and will soon take care of their mom 💖
"I don't think that I can change from here. The kids should become older."
*Well bruh, they can't grow up in 3 days. They're still little and shouldn't be rushed to grow up.*
its him who needs to grow up not them
@@yuriflowers4774agreed
when i heard him say that i was like, 🤬🤬
This issue is serious because it involves the growth development of the kids! They might adopt this and affect them while growing up.
Yes, and it's kind of sad to say but their speech seems a little slow for being 5 years old since the dad probaly doesnt communicate with them :(
@@joc-asmrtingles9860 actually they only 4 years old, korean age 5.
@@kulotjoy They are Korean so they are 5 in their country.
Swearing infornt of children is fine as swearing could be use to verbally convey emotions, but verbal abuse directed at them on the other hand is not okay.
They are adorable and they might be young but they observe everything
THEY'RE SO CUTE, WHEN THEY RAN TO THEIR MOM MY HEART JUST MELTED 😭💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓
They look just like a baby version of NCT MARK!!!! Especially the one with the shorter hair....OMG SOOO CUTE!!! FIRST!!! Yay!!!
사랑Sharon's Channel lol. Future NCT Dream.
THEY ARE THE FUTURE NCT DREAM
Yay! First time ever get so many likes!!!! Thx!!!!!!
trueeeee
Yay! Someone also noticed
"I think every man has at least one hobby"
Well yeah, everyone does. But that doesn't mean you can just neglect your responsibilities towards your wife and kids, especially. Sign him up to child-care classes please.
And saying his wife hobby is house chores is so absurd. Having 'four' sons around the house, I can only imagine the scattering of everything in the house. Do you want to live in a dumpster or what?
You don't have kids, you want kids. You have kids, you don't wanna spend time with them. What is wrong with him? -_-!
Indeed. The part where he spent the money that was supposed to go to his sons had me boiled up -_-
And Youngmi was right to call her a hero. He should be ashamed for not appreciating her.
I feel like this woman needs out. This man is not going to get better and is not willing to work at anything to become better. He is a child and she deserves better. Why work so hard and pay so much to have kids when you won't do anything for them beyond working? She works, too, and not just as a mom! Being the "man" of the house is no excuse for being an uninvolved, misogynistic, childish asshole.
He even said "I can't get any better than now" like please, your wife is becoming a better mother, wife and woman each passing day. Most of the time the mother would still settle with the father because they're afraid the society will bully her kids for having no father around. Yet having a father like this do more damage in their young age. I mean like on top of having expensive hobbies he smokes and drink heavily too. I'm gonna barf.
I don't know who the one freaking set the rules that every female needs to know/handle every single chores in the house and the one who said that male shouldn't lift a finger in the house. It can't come from a single person. It should be both to know to do things around house. I know some men will protest and say 'do women knows about theirs cars bla bla bla so don't expect men to know about chores'
Lol it's 2019, males can do/learn to do chores and females can learn/do outside things too. It's never genetic to like to do chores. NEVER!
Can't believe the woman got stuck with someone so useless when it comes to taking care of *three* kids and helping out around the house.
He likes the production process but doesn't want to deal with the actual product (parenting and kids) 😂😂😂
carla marsha I like the fact that this has 69 likes 😁
Oh yeah, that's how a lot of men are.
Not even that, she got pregnant by in vitro.
I think that getting a divorce and being separated is much more easy than living your whole life like a nightmare, this is for both the kids and their mom.
at first
me : damn she has a really nice haircolor
later
me : oh, yeah no doubt she work at beauty salon
She is hella strong to even still be in this marriage. You helped for THREE mths when she was pregnant, even tho we are pregnant for 10 mths, and you thought you did good. Ridiculous. I have kids of my own but I couldn't even imagine having twins or triplets and having to do EVERYTHING more than once daily. The aches she must have from also having to work bcuz he would rather spend 1200$ on some toy than provide the necessities for his children. I'm mad with her 😡
I remember the triplets in the tros ,he should learned or watch the return of superman
*strong power thank u*
Remember to $tre@m bts dna, cmon army where losing to money hungry companys!💜💜💜💜💜
ikr,, i immediately remembered the song triplets' father when i was watching this
Am I the only one who thinks they look like the child version of the main guy in boys after flowers?
lol yaaas but cuter
Goo jun pyo😎
katy k 3 Goo Jun Pyos. That’s such a handful. 😩😩😩
You mean jung chanwoo??? HAHAHAHA
They look more like Mark of NCT. Hahaha!
It’s already sad that she had trouble with her pregnancy,but the fact that her husband is rude to the kids and no help to her sucks 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Everytime I see cases like this, I'm like.. JUST DIVORCE HIM ALREADY!!!
Sometimes it's hard to let people go even when they are wrong
Lol it's a line from a song but it suits for this comment
@@NehaPesaramelli-q3c attempting? it was 6 years, he wont change suddenly because he was on a TV show
Instead of watching movie, i wish you can spend some of your time to watch “return of superman” for daehan-minguk-manse episode.. please learn how to do well on raising your kids slowly from now on. Your kids won’t play with you anymore or even talk to you when they grow older if you maintain to behave like this..
Seeing the triplets suddenly Daehan Minguk Manse appear in my mind😂😂😂
Oh I miss them 😫
The mom is a supermom ! Congrats for being a good mom to the triplets 😢
The triplets are so freaking adorable. Just want to cuddle them all day.
I really like how Dong Yeop lectures/talks to the problematic guests. He tells them of the consequences that would happen if they'd continue with their undesirable issues. All of them (the regular cast) really makes good points like Young Ja, but I just found what Dong Yeop said about being a dad to their children while they are still young very appropriate.
The dad here should really take child-rearing lessons from Song Ilkook. Daehan, Minguk, and Manse were hyper kids as f*ck. But because Ilkook was hands on in taking care of them ever since they were born, the triplets respect and love him as their dad. The difference between Ilkook and this dad guest is that Ilkook really felt sorry for his wife who had to undergo hardships in carrying their children until they came to term that he thinks that helping in taking care of their children, amidst his busy schedule as a celebrity, is the only way he could repay her. But this guy doesn't see it that way. Or maybe because Ilkook just love his boys and his wife too much.
He seems like a nice man. I heard he also cooks at his home.
What is with all these guys who want to have kids but literally contribute nothing to their upbringing? With them, I know it's a different case since you can't really predict triplets. But the fact that he was being so immature about it makes absolutely no sense to me. I remember another episode where a guy literally was demanding to keep having kids (they had 3 at that point) but also refused to do anything at the house or as an actual father and played it off like 'oh she's not in that much pain, it's easy for her to have kids'. This is so intensely immature smh
Their moms probably did all the housework+child raising so they grew up thinking their wives should do the same. My husband who spent 5 yeara in boarding school where he had to wash his clothes by hand still doesn't put his laundry away because he has a wife and two kids who help their mom with chores. I make it a point to rub it in that his son is the one that helps me the most with housework.
@@nomad82912 that's kind of my assumption as well; I feel like it's more of a reflection of his upbringing than anything. I'm just glad that the male hosts were just as disgusted with him like everyone else. As a previous comment said, it's like these guys don't understand the concept of sacrifice when you have kids or get married. You can't just do whatever you want and make decisions on your own. I can't even imagine having a husband who would spend money on these unnecessary things and not do anything to take care of the kids, it legit boggles my mind
Inhumane as well in my opinion. Have kids but put the responsibilities only on wife's shoulders. What a shame.
Honestly I think all guys who think like this should go through labor simulators
@MidnightFlower13 tell that bs excuse to Ko Jiyong.
SHE DONT DESERVE A MAN LIKE THIS , SHE IS JUST A PERFECT MOM😭💖I WISH ALL MOM IS LIKE THAT
The triplets are sooooo cute 😍 i hope the kids wont hate their dad later on
Im sure they will tbh
“having one child is not this bad.”
*from the side* “they will be assets when they grow up”
😂😂 too real
sooo... no one want to talk about that sweet uncle at 26:03 🤣
😂😂😂Really cute
What a super woman, not only is she taking care of 3 kids but also work on top of that too! What a selfish bastard, those are your kids too. They are also your responsibility! You’re no longer #1 when you decided to have kids. I can’t believe how long she has put up with him along with all his ridiculous spending.
I would’ve divorced his ass and slap child support on him. 😡🤬😤
He's saying that he will change if the kids grow up and be able to understand him but in reality, he's just making his kids hate him even more.
What kind of mindset is this, smh.
Kids can be mischievous but certainly requires discipline for sure.
Dad show no interest in raising the kids . Mum has her hands full...?
All the more hats off to TROS the Song triplets and their parents.
"You can't make amends after being dad who screams and yells at his kids."
How true that is. My grandfather was like that, he's abusive and used more fists and words rather than trying to help my grandmother. Now he's almost 90 and sometimes gets sick but even my cousin ignores him when he ask to go to a clinic. It also happens to my father, he wasn't that abusive but he screamed and yelled at his children a lot and set a lot of impossible rules (don't use motorcyle so often, have to go to school and come straight at home even though we have extraculliculars, I didn't even stay with my friends for celebration on our graduation ceremony coz he already waited at my school gate, hell.. I couldn't even have a proper job bc he complained abt the salary). Now my parents splitted and my mother doesn't even care abt him anymore. I don't really have any ill feeling to my father, I'm rather forgiveful person. But I can say that when you become a parent, you should raise your children by thinking how yourself would react if you get the same attitude. If you can't even stand being yelled and screamed at, how can you expect your children stand such method just bc you're their parent? It's good to set your children some kind of rules and being strict, but if yourself can't stand it don't expect your children will do. Scream when they are already old enough to understand the meaning of parent's scream and yells. When you do that to your children who are less than 6 years old they will just think that you hate them, it's already too much for them to bear.
Actually don't scream and yell at all. That's never a good solution. Family should have talk in calming manner without being passive aggressive, but if the parents already like that or even worse..most kids wouldn't bother to actually be nice to them.
I'm taking myself as an example, i don't feel a thing knowing they're sick. Like oh okay they're sick, so? And i always said "everyone in the world will die sooner or later anyway..so?". These traits has been developed since i was a kid. The environment i was in was like people don't give a two cent if you're sick or struggle, you have to do a LOT of thing, get society "standard success" and if you can't, you're an entitled bitch that deserve to be beat up. So imagine that! I was not being entitled, i was struggle emotionally and got sick but i got denied.
One time i was very very very sick (6-7yrs old) and the hospital doesn't know/have the actual medical cure to treat me and instead give something lotion-eish to ease the pain from physically. And then just ate panadol. The family, the relatives, and even the people from the village even suggested traditional treatment which i had to endure it a lot. Took me 3months to actually ease the pain and slowly healing after..and in the midst of that, i took over a month of homeschool because i wasn't allowed to go school except during exam day and specific time. I passed them though because i got beaten if i don't. Lol.
Then i got that same kind of sickness again when I'm about 16, but not as severe as when i was a kid. The hospital just gave the same shit but with injection to "kill" the disease from within. I just said disease because idk what it was. At that time because i was a teenager, i still need to keep going to school and do other work whilebenduring the pain of over a month. I got beaten a lot too during that year.
Then at 18yrs old, i got a some kind of poison from bugs/plants on Christmas Day, and EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM family and relatives told me to toughen up and stop being self-entitled because to them that shit doesn't hurt. LOL ironically at that time, no one knew what it was. They just thought its just a mosquito bite and i might had diabetes that's why it was swollen. I totally lose all hope during that time. I finally realized that ahh even if im gone, no one's gonna care. They probably cry a day or two just to show their plastic fakeass self, but soon they'll be happy i'm gone. I had to wait almost 24hrs before my own mom brought me to hospital with my two younger brothers, and the female doctor (a foreigner) scolded me for not going to hospital asap. I had to tell her all the truth like i haven't got any car license, people still in celebrating mood and a bit of domestic abuse. She called my mother and she scolded her good while also stating the facts that i actually had less than one hour left to live as the poison almost reached my heart and that's why i can't moved my right hand to shoulder and even neck part. It was soo swollen about thrice bigger than my normal hand. People can even feel the heat whenever they touched it. I got admitted right then for 3 days. Here's a secret story: they have to use certain things that was actually allowed in medical standard but because i was in dire situation, they had too use and so i was survived. Thank you doctors😁
After that, whenever i got a series of illness, i didn't think of calling them first. I either go straight to clinic/hospital myself or get help from my besties or lover. Other people cannot understand me as to why i sometimes act indifferent, and always quick to blame me for whatever happened in life even if that's their life and I'm not involved in any way at all. During my oh-my-single years where i live by myself, i was especially lonely but i knew it was for the best because i can see who actually are the good people and who aren't. I'm actually old enough to get 2 to 7 kids at least like my friends, but marriage was never in my mind. Lol.
Oh and I even got another sickness where i bleed a lot from my mouth twice (end of 2017 and mid last year), and only the female private doctor care about. The so called male specialist from the big hospital (unlucky me because the recommended pro specialist was on holiday) doesn't even know what it was and even had the nerve to say "So you're sick and bleed. What do you want me to do?". TF!? I was only give a penadol AGAIN. I complained that to the private doctor and she did all her best to help. I paid for all the treatments and medicine. My family and relatives? Oh heyy they just loved hearing the story. Not that i need their attention much because they're always like that.
And now, I'm actually waiting to get meet another specialist to check my body because the last X-ray wasn't reliable enough to see what's the problem with things in my body. But the doctor did suggested to remove it surgically. The thing is i need to know what it is first before doing any surgically oepration. And as expected it's like a boring news to the family. Well, i'm used to it. I got things plan for this myself.
Sooooooo umm im sorry, it got so long. A lot of things playing in my mind after watching this vid. I've been very indifferent since i was just a kid because of what I've mostly been shown to..along with living in a fuckedup environment and being different than the "woman" of Society's Standard. Even someone in the family, relatives or just in general passed away..i can't actually feel like i lose something like anyone normal. I do admit i can feel the sadness a bit for certain good people who lose their good someone, but that happened only a few times. I can feel sorry to anyone even strangers when they lose someone, but that's it. Idk what to do to comfort them after that.
In conclusion of me telling all of this is..i do wish other kids wouldn't grow up to be emotionally indifferent like me or worse emotionally dead. Parents should care more about the kids rather than about themselves or other people just to save their face/pride. The "other people" shouldn't butt in and say meanest things, being passive aggressive or throw sarcasm remarks to a kid, a family or just about anyone. Like stop getting yourself imvolved, and just focus of taking care of your own family. Done😁
yea that is true, my father was so abusive and would yell a lot. Now, my older brother has a bad relationship with him and I don't really like talking to my father either. My older sister also has a hard time with him and now I don't even try because I know that's his personality. I really hate him.
I wish they had their own UA-cam I’m curious on how they are now
“i dont need my sleep”🥺🥺🥺 what a strong woman she is
Reminds me how amazing Song Ilkook is.
She is such a good mom. She has such a special bond with them. And when the doctors told her that she would have to abort one of them because it was risky she did not because she would risk it all for her kids❤️❤️
SONG ILGOOK IS THE BEST FATHER FOR TRIPLETS
He has a great wife too
@@nadnada5436 agree agree
They start talking about the kids and the audience goes crazy over their cuteness. They start talking about the mom and everyone sympathizes with her. They talk about the the dad and everyone starts starts getting mad😂
she's a really wonderful mother... her love for her sons really makes me emotional :'))
Now i realize Song il kook truly is a saint.
can this show get a real physicolog panelist -___-
flawless_ 94 100% agree
This show isn't supposed to be actual counseling. it's just advice from famous people.
@@red-pu1jp No this show is supossed to bring awareness is not a treatment. The famous people are there to increase the views since teenagers and fans will watch and they promote their new albums, movies, songs etc
They tried , they had a psychologist before few years ago but is not like every psychologist will be comfortable to appear on TV or will know how to act in front of an audience. Sometimes he was a bit nervous and they just advise people to seek professional help after but I also think they should have a psychologist with them .
Yes I am totally agree with this comment.
I’m crying, she such a sweet mother. And damn! The triplets dads doesn’t deserve them. There’s a lot of dad out there is wishing to have a triplets or even just one child, but him? He really need to change his attitude to his wife and his children. Gosh he’s so ungrateful, it must be so hard for the triplets mom raising her children alone😭😭
This triplets are so cute, i can't even imagine hurting them. Just imagining them hugging me ackkk. I would love to have them as my kids if i am in their situation.🥺❤️
I cried so much watching this.This woman deserves better.
My god, all his reasons are excuses. If he really cared and put the time to it he can give enough attention to his triplets. He's not the only parent with triplets in this world.
Minhyuk almost teared up when triplet mom cried. My soft boy
Song Ilkook, the saint of Songdo, will be very disappointed in you Sir 😩
This woman is amazing for doing this all by herself. She really is just the best mother
"I don't need my sleep " O god I am crying. She is such a great mother. And she deserves much better. But I am sad that she is living with such a person who does not even look after his own kids.
"I don't need sleep" the kids are so lucky to have her as their mom 💗
ilkook is really a great example of a father
Omg! The kids are really cute!! 😂😂❤❤I wish the dad had more self control in front of the kids tho... I am sure the dad must have felt bad when the kids told that they did not like him.I wish he would spend more time with the kids in a good way.(like playing with them and not cursing at them) yes I know it's difficult to handle all 3 but the kids are shaping themselves into what they will become in the future based on their surroundings. If they hear a lot of cursing at this age, they will use it naturally to anyone without knowing the meaning or when to use such words..from what i saw,the father can change. ( i am not puting him under the bad light cuz he has his problems too!)btw the father is REALLY talented!
Shruti Guna well Said. Kids 0-6 Yo is absorbing anything like a sponge. Anything, good and bad.
I don’t think he’ll ever truly change but rather adapt and become perhaps a tad more civil and less selfish. Talent or career should not legitimatize any such behavior he shows in my opinion. For experience I can honestly say that forgiveness and acceptance is still possible for him if he does stop his abuse, but love and longing from his kids he’ll probably never get again.
People like that don't change. My dad was like that and even cheated on my mum TWICE and did some other pretty awful things. On top of that my mum has had M.S (Multiple Sclerosis) for at almost 30 or more years now and stopped being able to walk and stand 15-16 years ago. I'm now 24 years old. They divorced when I was 7. Anyway, he still rarely ever visits and cares more about his current wife's daughter's kid more than he ever did with us. Sure, he'll drive me places, but I still give him £5 for petrol. He also took money out of my older brother's savings account when he was still a baby. Money that my grandmother put in for him. Only to have it taken by our dad. Plus, all he ever cared about was airplane models, boat and car models. Whenever WE needed something, he couldn't care less and only cared about his own hobbies. My mum had to pay for most of our things and thanks to dad, we almost ended up broke. Oh and to top it off and pout the icing on the cake, my dad is thousands of pounds in debt and STILL owes money to people. I don't know if you've had a crappy dad or not and I don't know what kind of life you've had, but it sounds to me as if you haven't experienced that. You wouldn't be saying what you've said if you had.
@@ReptilianTeaDrinker I am really sorry for what happened.... you are right I might have not experienced the worst. But it's not bad to give the person (in this case the triplets dad) a chance to change right? 😊 it is just my opinion and I really do respect your view too! Hope you are well now😊😊 and I am really sorry for what happened 😢
@@ShrutiGuna Thank you. :) I respect your opinion and views. Sorry if I sounded harsh. I didn't mean to seem like that. Hope you have a great day! :)
its ok because they will grow up to protect and support thier mom all three of them , because they will understand how much thier mom had done for them also pratically raising them alone
This is such a blessing having a triplet. All are healthy and good looking. It just at a stage where their energy are on fire. When kid get older they become more calm. Trust me you will miss this moment when you look back someday. Dont waste your time complaining. Just enjoy raising your kids tho. I afraid they dont respect you especially father if you treat them that way.
She’s a really good mom. She sacrificed everything for her kids 💗
The triplets are so cute and good looking!! Tough job for their parents, the mother obviously. Their dad is so selfish..
Aaaaaaaaaand I‘m crying. Ok. Oh mhm yep I‘m sobbing
Edit: it breaks my heart. She‘s such a good mother and hard working beautiful strong woman and he doesn’t deserve her. At all.
She is really pretty in that wedding dress, just look at her i can tell how stressful life she has gone through.
When she said “ I don’t need to sleep “ my tears just burst , I could understand when her mom said she had a nice voice , it was like that’s all worth it to her just her kids .
How could he not want to spend time with them , they're so cute I wanna spoil them with love