How To Make My Ex Think About Me Constantly

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 11 жов 2021
  • www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/q... - Take our free 2-minute quiz to figure out what kind of chance you have of winning your ex back.
    8 Ways To Make Your Ex Think About You
    Use A No Contact Rule
    Adopt A Holy Trinity Social Media Strategy
    Implement The Zeigarnik Effect
    Go On Dates With Other People
    Show Them They Aren't The Center Of Your World Anymore
    Infiltrate Their Sphere Of Influence
    Empathize With Them Through Attachment Styles
    Stick To The Progression Of The Value Ladder
  • Навчання та стиль

КОМЕНТАРІ • 48

  • @puffsleeveskindagirl
    @puffsleeveskindagirl 2 роки тому +10

    I learn so much with you - some of the things are just reassurance of what I usually do but still, such great content! You explain so well!

  • @sarafranco930
    @sarafranco930 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for all that!!

  • @milishkasanders6394
    @milishkasanders6394 2 роки тому

    Hi chris pls advice me, is it still effective my NCR eventhough sometimes i contacted her 2-3x?

  • @anthonyr7208
    @anthonyr7208 Рік тому +1

    Simply ignore them...

  • @petecoventry6858
    @petecoventry6858 2 роки тому +1

    So I was literally about to go out with my ex on a night out as friends but we had a row and we cancelled it - She has seen a change in me and says she is not used to it - but I have decided to do a 31 day NC, sort out a new career and my health and then re contact her again with the same outlook she noticed. 50/50 chance but nothing to lose. All she wants she says is for us to get on and co parent - so end of the day I have nothing to lose as we will end up there again anyway - anything else could be a bonus

    • @skyt8327
      @skyt8327 4 місяці тому

      I know it’s been a lot of time since this comment but what ended up happening? Hope all is well!

  • @elibenjamen8729
    @elibenjamen8729 2 роки тому

    So when you say learn patience, how long do you mean. My ex and i split up 10 years and shes been in this relationship with this guy for 7 years, and he lives with his parents, and she lives with him at his parents... Like wtf. I have my own place, goals, full time job but thats not enough for her. His goal is to be in a band as a bassist. Is independence even attractive anymore these days?

  • @fatimeshahin5936
    @fatimeshahin5936 2 роки тому +2

    We’ve been together for 2 years, he broke up with me a month and 10 days ago. Without a big reason like cheating or sth. The relationship was happy. I’ve been in no contact since then ( 1 month and 10 days) He views all my insta stories, my stories are positive, with friends and going out, doing hobbies. I don’t know if there’s hope because he didn’t reach out. I’m abroad now, because I started present lectures, but our relationship wasn’t ldr btw. Should I continue NC or initiate contact and how…🤷🏻‍♀️ I feel a little better now but I still love him and want us to be together.

    • @a.porzingis5119
      @a.porzingis5119 2 роки тому +4

      Continue always NC

    • @projectf025
      @projectf025 2 роки тому +1

      I feel like I'm in the same boat, I'm afraid to reach out cause I do not want to push her away..... we were supposed to get married 😪

  • @thebasketballtrio9876
    @thebasketballtrio9876 2 роки тому +4

    I've really been following Chris Seiter since he's the only breakup relationship coach that touches on attachment styles, which I find usually plays the largest role in breakups when two different styles collide. Is it possible to get videos done offering advice on how to get back each style? For example, the content of this video wouldn't really work for a dismissive avoidant who shuts down completely.

    • @maddycordaro8538
      @maddycordaro8538 2 роки тому +1

      Yeah it would don’t worry. Avoidants do actually mourn the relationship, just later but they do and it usually hits them even harder

    • @Wildanimal864.
      @Wildanimal864. 2 місяці тому

      You haven’t looked at many of the relationship coaches, because most of them do talk about attachment styles that statement simply not true that they don’t. This is just the only one you watch.. many of them do like what?

  • @lewissawthly5598
    @lewissawthly5598 2 роки тому +2

    During NC in 8days she's text me firt and i response but she's don't reply me again. is there is problem or what should ido?

  • @sychornay7247
    @sychornay7247 2 роки тому +3

    Since we broke up 1 month and haft i didn’t hear from my ex. And today is day 22 of the no contact rule. He seems to be move on. Should I continue NC rule?

    • @fatimeshahin5936
      @fatimeshahin5936 2 роки тому +2

      I’m at the same situation but one month and 10 days. I think we should continue NC because sometimes it takes more time. And if I contact him I don’t know what to say.🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @a.porzingis5119
      @a.porzingis5119 2 роки тому +2

      @@fatimeshahin5936 dont let him blow your mind,focus on yourself

    • @fatimeshahin5936
      @fatimeshahin5936 2 роки тому +1

      @@a.porzingis5119 I’m focusing on myself and I have made a lot of changes, as I said I feel better and I’m proud of myself for the mindset I developed in that one month, but it would be good if we get back together. I’m not obsessing over it , I’m just asking if I should continue no contact or how to make him contact me.

    • @selenophile-308
      @selenophile-308 2 роки тому +2

      Yes, continue. Especially if they broke up with you.

  • @BetaWink711
    @BetaWink711 2 роки тому +2

    I’m been in no contact for 20 days. On day 5 my ex posted an old video to her insta highlights she took in a shirt of mine , hmm weird. And I don’t watch her stories or anything

    • @a.porzingis5119
      @a.porzingis5119 2 роки тому

      Dont bite it!

    • @selenophile-308
      @selenophile-308 2 роки тому +2

      You better not be watching the stories if you're in no contact lol. Cos that counts as breaking it.

    • @BetaWink711
      @BetaWink711 2 роки тому +1

      @@selenophile-308 nah I don’t , I was looking at her posts and highlights early on, but for the last 10 days I haven’t watched a story , and it was from a girls account that I know that had been following her for years , so even though I watched it , she has no earthly idea it was me

  • @Wildanimal864.
    @Wildanimal864. 2 місяці тому

    I’m not reaching out they left they fix .

  • @gideon7406
    @gideon7406 2 роки тому +2

    After being in no contact for around 7 months.. is it rude to ignore an ex after establishing contact? Will they lose interest and move on?

    • @crudemood
      @crudemood 2 роки тому +1

      From what I've learned, if they do contact you, you mirror them in their actions or give them less. Don't give more than they are giving you.

  • @dalingtonashiegbu3068
    @dalingtonashiegbu3068 2 роки тому +1

    What about if your ex blocked you everywhere⬅➡⬆⬇↗↘↙↖ since nine months now

    • @dalingtonashiegbu3068
      @dalingtonashiegbu3068 2 роки тому

      @@selenophile-308 thank you so much

    • @festusmary5423
      @festusmary5423 2 роки тому

      ±2347030812148⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,

    • @festusmary5423
      @festusmary5423 2 роки тому

      Chat on the number above the comment

    • @dalingtonashiegbu3068
      @dalingtonashiegbu3068 2 роки тому

      @@festusmary5423 I fine it difficult to believe that

    • @festusmary5423
      @festusmary5423 2 роки тому

      @@dalingtonashiegbu3068 I mean it am a living testimony as am talking to you my husband is here with me happily

  • @lilliankillian7366
    @lilliankillian7366 9 місяців тому

    Gi what if he is nit on sosial media.?

  • @karinajames4367
    @karinajames4367 2 роки тому

    Since my ex dumped me he barely uses social media. He used to be on it all the time when he was with me....why is that?