This only works if your ex knows people in your sphere of influence. If they don’t, and you have no social media, this doesn’t work. The only thing you got going for you, is NO CONTACT.
This is too far fetched and unrealistic. We seem to be jumping through hoops for people who don’t want us anymore. I’m moving on. Eff my ex. I’m fixing me to be better for the next person.
Use these videos to improve yourself :) that’s what I’m doing.. my ex is too much of an avoidant and too selfish for me.. I learned this through this process.. the whole thing is more about you.. not them
@@kellydelaney9147 heyy im also trying to fix myself ...my situation is like gone for good. Through his videos i understand that how much anxious behaviour i was exhibiting in the end he ghosted me and blkd me frm everywhere. And told to my frnd that she is like this like that and I'm blocking her to forget that she ever existed in my life i regret being with her ..bla bla bla A few days ago my frnd just casually brought up my topic(it was after 40 days since he left me) he just said his mood get spoiled after thinking abt me.u bear her and keep her away frm me. And then said that u will also get fed up frm her and regret like me it's better to go away frm her now😂😂 After leaving me he gone back to his old scl crush they both like each other . He spend time with her daily . My frnds tell me that he will never ever talk to u again u just move on😂 Well my situation is done for good ig and i have to just move on but it's not that easy😂😂 Still any tips or can this be saved or whatever? Ik i just need to focus on myself but i think no matter what i do he won't give a f😂
@@monkeydluffy4219 there’s always hope.. but don’t focus on that.. I’ll give you an example.. I work with my ex.. the first few months were hard.. then I just worked on myself.. I moved into a position I made for myself in the company which I gained a lot of respect from so many people.. that got him curious.. that’s what I showed on the outside.. what people didn’t see was that in the beginning, I drove past his apartment a lot.. and then after a while.. I was like.. why am I even doing this? If you work on you.. they will notice, everyone will notice. In the end, when you become a better version of yourself, will you be too good for them? Maybe. But just maybe you will catch a better person.. I know it seems hopeless now, but eventually you will come to a crossroads and need to decide if your ex is even worth it. I walked away from mine today after he actually tried to talk to me… I heard his words trail off as I went into my office.. BUT.. If yours is meant to be.. then being a better you, may Inspire them to be a better person as well! You’ll find your niche.. I made one for myself.. you can do it too 😎
Definitely going to take this stuff on board. It's difficult to motivate yourself at home. I like to use lists to tick off at the end of the day. 5 months in, I'm pretty much realising the relationship wasn't as great as I thought it was and neither was my ex 😂😂 I want to do this anyway for myself though 😊😊
I'm pretty sure only one of my ex girlfriend's friends would even notice. My ex isn't on Facebook and her sister lives in another country. We broke up before I got a chance to meet most of her friends and family since we dated mostly during covid.
@@melaniemanning2462 you got this! If he thinks the grass is greener.. let him sit on that when you have become the best you can be! Anyone who doesn’t like you for who you are needs to rethink what kind of person they are 😎
@@lewistaylor3267 yeh she can, she will be snooping around. Go no contact for a few weeks. Work on your self. I know it’s hard as fuck, but you can do it. Spend as much time as you can on you and with friends and family. Heart break is the worst, but don’t put someone on a pedestal above you. You are on that pedestal now. Much love friend
If the “sphere of influence” is the most important factor in getting an ex back, what if I am not close to or have any contacts with any of his family or friends? Does it mean I have no hope?
Draw them into YOUR sphere of influence… if they have a small, or no sphere of influence.. which I found a lot of avoidants pretty much keep to themselves.. draw them into yours! If you are living your best trinity… they will be naturally drawn to your positivity😊
@@chrisseitercoaching Chris what do you think of this below 👇 The easiest way to get your ex attention, is to remove your own! Curiosity killed the cat
Go no contact and tell them you shut the door. They can't take it even if they dumped you.
This only works if your ex knows people in your sphere of influence. If they don’t, and you have no social media, this doesn’t work. The only thing you got going for you, is NO CONTACT.
This is too far fetched and unrealistic. We seem to be jumping through hoops for people who don’t want us anymore. I’m moving on. Eff my ex. I’m fixing me to be better for the next person.
Use these videos to improve yourself :) that’s what I’m doing.. my ex is too much of an avoidant and too selfish for me.. I learned this through this process.. the whole thing is more about you.. not them
@@kellydelaney9147 heyy im also trying to fix myself ...my situation is like gone for good.
Through his videos i understand that how much anxious behaviour i was exhibiting in the end he ghosted me and blkd me frm everywhere. And told to my frnd that she is like this like that and I'm blocking her to forget that she ever existed in my life i regret being with her ..bla bla bla
A few days ago my frnd just casually brought up my topic(it was after 40 days since he left me) he just said his mood get spoiled after thinking abt me.u bear her and keep her away frm me. And then said that u will also get fed up frm her and regret like me it's better to go away frm her now😂😂
After leaving me he gone back to his old scl crush they both like each other . He spend time with her daily .
My frnds tell me that he will never ever talk to u again u just move on😂
Well my situation is done for good ig and i have to just move on but it's not that easy😂😂
Still any tips or can this be saved or whatever? Ik i just need to focus on myself but i think no matter what i do he won't give a f😂
@@monkeydluffy4219 there’s always hope.. but don’t focus on that.. I’ll give you an example.. I work with my ex.. the first few months were hard.. then I just worked on myself.. I moved into a position I made for myself in the company which I gained a lot of respect from so many people.. that got him curious.. that’s what I showed on the outside.. what people didn’t see was that in the beginning, I drove past his apartment a lot.. and then after a while.. I was like.. why am I even doing this? If you work on you.. they will notice, everyone will notice. In the end, when you become a better version of yourself, will you be too good for them? Maybe. But just maybe you will catch a better person.. I know it seems hopeless now, but eventually you will come to a crossroads and need to decide if your ex is even worth it. I walked away from mine today after he actually tried to talk to me… I heard his words trail off as I went into my office.. BUT.. If yours is meant to be.. then being a better you, may Inspire them to be a better person as well! You’ll find your niche.. I made one for myself.. you can do it too 😎
Rinse, recycle ♻️ repeat 🔁
Definitely going to take this stuff on board. It's difficult to motivate yourself at home. I like to use lists to tick off at the end of the day. 5 months in, I'm pretty much realising the relationship wasn't as great as I thought it was and neither was my ex 😂😂 I want to do this anyway for myself though 😊😊
I'm pretty sure only one of my ex girlfriend's friends would even notice. My ex isn't on Facebook and her sister lives in another country. We broke up before I got a chance to meet most of her friends and family since we dated mostly during covid.
See you in kona one day chris
He's with someone else. I don't really think he thinks about me much.
Make this about you! Feel good about you and the things you are accomplishing.. then… they either come back or you become a better you..
@@kellydelaney9147 this is very kind of you to take the time to reply. I'm doing well. I miss him, but he's the one who thought the grass was greener.
Same situation and I'm blocked everywhere lol
@@melaniemanning2462 you got this! If he thinks the grass is greener.. let him sit on that when you have become the best you can be! Anyone who doesn’t like you for who you are needs to rethink what kind of person they are 😎
He does, when things get boring he will think of you!
OMG, he's rambling on and on. He just can't keep my attention.
How can you make them think about you if they've blocked you?
😁😁😁😁same issuee
Keep working on YOU become the best version of yourself. They will come around if it’s meant to be. They can also see your Facebook stories 😉
@@mattcanflyhigh she blocked me on Facebook and Facebook messenger.. don't think she can still see then can she?
@@lewistaylor3267 yeh she can, she will be snooping around. Go no contact for a few weeks. Work on your self. I know it’s hard as fuck, but you can do it. Spend as much time as you can on you and with friends and family. Heart break is the worst, but don’t put someone on a pedestal above you. You are on that pedestal now. Much love friend
@@mattcanflyhigh thank you mate really appreciate that
If the “sphere of influence” is the most important factor in getting an ex back,
what if I am not close to or have any contacts with any of his family or friends?
Does it mean I have no hope?
Same situation 😅
It's not the most important factor. It's an often overlooked one.
Draw them into YOUR sphere of influence… if they have a small, or no sphere of influence.. which I found a lot of avoidants pretty much keep to themselves.. draw them into yours! If you are living your best trinity… they will be naturally drawn to your positivity😊
My ex's sphere of influence is toxic af and that's a major reason why we parted.
@@chrisseitercoaching
Chris what do you think of this below 👇
The easiest way to get your ex attention, is to remove your own!
Curiosity killed the cat
Ridiculous
Only have phone number.