Hoax Inspired by Madeleine McCann Case | Shannon Matthews Case Analysis
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
- This video answers the question: Can I analyze the case of Shannon Matthews?
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I read that when one of the officers had a call come through on his phone, his ringtone was a pop song and Karen Matthews started dancing to it. Hardly the behaviour of a terrified mother.She wasn’t a very sophisticated liar.
@@vermilliongecko I didn’t know what song it was… it’s chilling it really is. How detached do you have to be as a mother to put your child through that .
@@vermilliongecko Well at least she liked Van the man ...
@@alexpd308 It was Lionel Richie "Hello, is this me youre looking for"
@@Matt-ur3dm how can you dance to that lol
@@DottieMinerva very badly when you are tied up under a bed
I'm from the UK and remember watching this all unfold on the news. No-one could believe it when we all found out what really happened. Couldn't imagine someone doing this to their own daughter. Thank god she was found. Thank you for covering a UK story Dr.Grande its great to see you cover international cases 😎
We should be thankful the girl wasn't nonced to death, as with the similar case with Stuart Hazel.
@@eadweard. agreed. That was an horrific outcome.
Same. It was awful. Quite honestly I’m so glad that little girl has been adopted and hopefully has opportunities in life now. Those parents were sub human quite frankly. I know people have horrendous backgrounds but there is no excuse for this. Can’t believe she’s wandering about living her life now.
And I’m really glad Dr. Grande didn’t diagnose anyone in this video; he only speculated about what could be happening in a situation like this!
I felt so sorry for that wee girl, and for the poor neighbours who genuinely cared and were taken in. I live in a community with few employment opportunities, lots of addiction and mental and physical health problems. I don' t think many people are scamming the benefits system in the UK, the majority are genuine claimants but our gutter press likes to create division and a sense of superiority and benefits claimants are easy targets. Our media is appalling
The best thing that happened to Shannon was getting away from this mother..hope she's doing well now
Yes, the damage the mother has caused to her other 6 children is probably just as profound, just in different ways.
A low life mother, sadly.
"They don't need prosecution, they need compassion". I appreciate you stating this, Dr. Grande as I've seen more & more homeless individuals in my town & I treat them with dignity. A simple hello to a homeless person just might make their day.
There is big difference between homeless people and welfare fraud people and people who have multiple children they use like livestock. Homeless get little or no help from the government and sleep outside. People like this woman get free rent, free food, and free money and live better than many people who have full time jobs. Saying the law should ignore welfare fraud and instead go after working people who "cheat" the taxman who is already robbing them blind is to me a very naive and ignorant viewpiont and has nothing to do with the sick crime this creature commited against her own child.
@@kevinc809 I absolutely agree with your reply. Many "milk" the system. And, those that honestly need the help aren't able to get the help they so deserve.
@@KristyKins Oh good, thanks. I think its mostly people without children they can claim that can't get the help.
Yes, of course, homeless people are the 'salt' of the earth, it's not their fault, life can be sh.t at times!
My mum had to leave a narcissistic partner and became a single mother. We needed benefits to survive - she was only able to work part time to take me to and from school and to watch me. These sorts of people make us all look bad, but it is true that most on benefits truly just need them.
I'm glad you and your mum got out and made it work, by whatever it took. Good for her. That has to be a frightening prospect to face.
Yes, and it doesn't usually last that long. When a woman or parents have young children, it's tough to manage childcare, housing, and employment. Those years sort themselves out into preschool, primary, and so on...anyone can find themselves in a position of needing help at any time.
Thank you for pointing out that the majority of folks on welfare need it and are not abusing it. Class also may determines how society feels about crime. Tax cheats are often lauded like heros. I, for one, support a cooperative society that cares for those in need.
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Yeah well the ones in real need are the poor people who don't have 6 kids and work all the time and pax taxes and can't afford a decent meal while those "in need" get 100% of their food for free. Sometimes "cheating" taxes as much as possible is a matter of survival.
@@kevinc809 Yes. Especially when that tax is taken from you so instead of using it to pay for your own family it is given to the likes of her.
I was in section 8 housing. My first born via state's women Healthcare program. 5 years later I started a business while working my full time job. Ran that for a decade, employed a couple dozen people. Ten percent of my profit went to children's hospital. Covid made it too difficult to continue sadly.
Im a retired social worker. Thank you for pointing out that tax evasion is as serious are more serious than fraudulent warfare.
You mentioned the Sun "newspaper"; I would love to hear your analysis of the Hillsborough disaster, and the Sun's coverage of the disaster, which was so appalling that entire cities in the UK still boycott the Sun more than thirty years later
I’m American and after reading what they did to the Hillsborough victims I’m boycotting the Sun too. 😡
@@bonniea.1941 I appreciate you taking the time to find out about it :). Things that will never be found; Jimmy Hoffa, Atlantis, a copy of the Sun in Liverpool.
@@bonniea.1941 🇬🇧 YES!!! The Sun newspapers treatment of all of those desperate, grieving families was utterly contemptible!! 🤬 Thank you for caring! ❤️ After a lifetime of good people fighting relentlessly, some basic, form of ‘justice’ has now FINALLY been achieved…sort of.
@@charlotte-mg9wj I love that saying! Ha! Of course I’ve never heard it before but I love that I get it. Must be my English roots. 😄
@@suzimonkey345 I was wondering, did local feuds or something play into the victim blaming? The police, the media…it all seemed such a harsh way to treat disaster victims and seemed there was something more going on. I know soccer teams have super loyal fans and maybe it was a team rivalry or town rivalry causing such mean behavior?
I very much enjoy watching Dr Grande’s analyses. As a Brit living in the U.K I’m unfamiliar with many of the cases covered but they’re always interesting so that’s of no consequence. Having said that, I’m always delighted when U.K perpetrators/cases are analysed.
I remember listening to an interview with Karen Matthews on the radio during the period Shannon was ‘missing’ and she rather proudly said that two of her children were twins. It soon transpired that she didn’t understand the meaning of the word and genuinely believed that because two of her seven children had the same father, they were ‘twins’.
Apparently during Shannon’s rescue one of the attending Police Officers said something along the lines of “It’s O.K Shannon, we’ll soon have you home with mum” and Shannon replied that she didn’t want to go home. I didn’t hear this first-hand so I can’t say it’s definitely true but, all things considered, it doesn’t appear to be beyond the realms of possibility, does it?
Lol ohmygod that "twins" bit- both hilarious and depressingly sad
Lol Jesus Christ 😂
Dr Grande, thank you for your analysis of this case and for your remarks about welfare cheats and tax evaders at the end. I live in the UK and can remember some comments that Karen was a ''typical'' receiver of social security benefits by ignorant and self-satisfied individuals. One aspect that you didn't mention was the local community campaign to find Shannon which was led by a neighbour Julie Bushby. Not surprisingly the participants felt used and betrayed when the truth emerged.
exactly. This case was used blatantly by certain newspapers and politicians to demonise the poor. There has been a long term strategy to dehumanise the poor via the papers so as to reduce the benefit system. Poor people believe it because it is in the papers and end up voting against their best interests.
Analysis of it this happened ages ago lol
Doesn't matter. Different points of view are always interesting.
As a Brit, I appreciate Dr. Grande for covering this case. It was crazy to watch it unfold in real time as the story was dominating the UK media at the time.
A few years ago, there was a brilliant BBC drama called 'The Moorside' which was based on this case 🙌
Well, the drama was based on this case, but we know what you mean.
@@finosuilleabhain7781 Thanks, I should proably read my comments before posting 😄
@@rhianne_p I only replied for the avoidance of confusion, but as I said almost everyone would know what you meant. 😄
Not a shopping cart full of beer 😫 They're not even GOOD at scamming 😂🤦🏿♀️
Seriously 🤦🏼♀️
When you show up to Dr. Grande's session as a client:
"Hello, I'm Dr. Grande. Just a reminder, I'm not speculating about what could be happening in a situation like this, only diagnosing somebody in this session."
Thank you for defending the welfare system and pointing out the much greater issue of tax evasion. Welfare is an important safety net for our most vulnerable people and it always angers me when the wealthiest use it as a wedge issue to distract from their machinations to avoid paying taxes, etc.
Thank you so much for addressing the misguided anger towards the welfare system!! Those who are willing to lie to get money will do so through any system they can. Cutting welfare only stands to harm those who truly need it most. The bad guys will simply find another system to cheat
The first word that came to mind was "dim". I'm so glad the girl was given a new identity. I hope she enjoys her new life!! I hope it's better than her last one!!
I remember I was living in Norwich when this happened. I was just incredulous when it all came out. Poor Shannon (and her siblings) deserved better lives.
Social services are often overstretched and underfunded, but they are required to be very win-win about everything where they have to try beyond what I think is reasonable to keep kids with their parents.
omg thank you so much for pointing out the reality of the statistics of benefit fraud vs. tax evasion as this case is huge ammo for people to vilify the poor and disabled people in our country who need help to live!
Dr. Grande that was such a beautiful monologue at the end of the video. Lately I have noticed that you have been really artful and eloquent in your wording. I also really loved your word choice in one of your recent videos about the bank thief who hid in plain sight.
I hope all of Karen’s children are thriving with their fresh start and that Karen remains child free in the future.
@@enjoyslearningandtravel7957 I am afraid you are right. Also, eight years seems lenient to me, too.
@@beeimaginative and @Enjoys Learning And travel: this is the UK... people get out 5 years after killing someone.
@@reader1236 I had no idea. Thank you for the information. I guess 8 years is a severe sentence.
@@beeimaginative “5 years for murder” is beyond exaggeration! There are always awful anomalies in any criminal justice system. Short prison sentences for serious crimes are generally only handed to children.
If a murder is 1st degree with premeditation, assault, torture or an underage victim, etc then a “full life tariff” is often given. That’s the equivalent of “life without the possibility of parole” in America. Life with the possibility of parole after 25 - 40 years is the norm.
People forget that after a murderer is sentenced to prison for hundreds of years in the USA, it’s quite common for them to be paroled eventually. All countries in the West are rethinking their criminal justice systems. Having a HUGE number of prisoners who know that, no matter what they do, they will never be released makes prisons in the USA very violent & near impossible to manage ‘properly’!
No ‘properly’ managed prisons allow the abuse & rape of prisoners to such an extent that, “Don’t drop the soap in the shower!” jokes are normalised!! 😳🤬 In the developed world ONLY the USA has endemic rates of prison rape! WHY??? 😳 It’s an anomaly when in happens in British, Australian & European prisons.
When a man is sentenced to prison it’s the prisons responsibility to keep them safe from torture by the other inmates. How would you feel if a family member made a stupid mistake, went to prison, only to be brutally tortured?!?
Sorry, I will get off of my soap box now…before I get started on the ‘slap on the hand’ given to rapists & pedos in most western countries!!!
@@reader1236 🇬🇧😳 Utter Twaddle!!!
I have no-doubt that you can find a couple of cases. I could find some in the USA even! You made it sound like it was normal or common for murderers to get sentenced to 5 years in prison… (see my above comment)
Well said, Dr Grande!
So much easier to vilify the poor, with no understanding of what it was like in societies that didn't help the poor.
I suggest Les Miserables be required viewing for anyone disparaging helping the poor.
The Liam Neesom version, of course!
Love the lights 🌵behind you!
I am always confounded by attacks on welfare recipients as a whole, but I have a good example of just how much a part of society it is to demean and humiliate these people.
After my parents divorced because of my dad's alcoholism and extreme violence, my mom was a single mother of three kids aged 7-11. We lived in "the projects" and mom received food stamps. Even as an 11 year old I felt so much shame standing at the checkout while my mom tore out those little paper vouchers. I didn't even really understand why I was ashamed, but I knew that there was something shameful and embarrassing about it.
Within two years of the divorce, she was off food stamps and out of the government housing. Before I turned 18 she had bought her own house. She was very proud of herself and I was proud of her. She had worked so hard to get there.
Then she met a man who is now my step-father (I gag to say that) who was the antithesis of everything my family was. He is like the poster child for the fringe right-- guns EVERYWHERE, votes Republican no matter what, etc. I remember going to a cookout at the lake with them and he had packed his AR-15 and a few other assault rifles to allow the KIDS to target practice with. The final straw for me was when my boyfriend saw that he had made a post on his Facebook account that made a joke about Obama being murdered like Abraham Lincoln. I haven't spoken to him since.
Anyway, my mother started posting random similar nonsense online as well. The one that will forever stand out in my memory is a post she made saying that she thought every welfare recipient should be required to take random drug screenings and, if they failed one, they should be kicked out of the assistance program(s). I was stunned to say the least. Both my parents were major potheads when I was growing up. My mom, even after meeting Mr. Right-Wing Nut, was still snorting pills, smoking weed and drinking alcohol regularly. She smoked weed, did who knows how many drugs while she HERSELF was on welfare. Yet here she was, saying that people who did the exact stuff she had done shouldn't receive the help that she had received and that had been the only reason she was ever able to get back on her feet. She was proof that doing recreational drugs from time to time did NOT mean you were incapable of moving forward in life and up the social ladder but she was acting like even smoking a joint should be enough to take away a person's chance for a better future.
There is something deeply ingrained in our society that makes people feel the need to look down on anyone who is "beneath them" on the social ladder. Even if you were once one of those people yourself, apparently it is okay to spit on them and try to make things even worse for them. It is pretty horrifying and makes me incredibly sad and angry. I don't get it at all.
I have just recently started watching Dr Grande. I love his ability to remain unbiased and his sense of humor is wonderful. However his voice is so soothing that after watching 3 or 4 videos in a row I have found a cure for my insomnia. Thank you Dr Grande.😃💗
A much needed analysis and commentary on misperception of the welfare state vs. tax exemptions that apply to the wealthy. One consistently hears criticism of those on welfare benefits, but I can't think of a single debate regarding whether the wealthiest among us really need the billions every year that they aren't taxed due to exemptions the rest of us can only dream of.
Thank you for dispelling myths about welfare fraud while making that comparison with tax evasion by the wealthy. Relevant and excellent.
Oh, this sick woman. I saw her picture on your thumbnail and was instantly disgusted. Definitely looking forward to your look into this case. As always, thank you, Doctor!
So you looked at that picture in the thumbnail and instantly made a judgement about her before you knew what the about? I am instantly disgusted reading your comment.
@@sheenamaclean8324 yeah, NO. Because I knew who she was and she is, in fact, disgusting. Calm down. Also, congratulations on the virtuous BS for absolutely no reason.
@@sheenamaclean8324 Famous case here in England
@@deuteronomy6411 I’m in the states but I consume enough true crime content to know who that woman is. However, apparently, that makes me a disgusting human, so… 🤷🏻♀️
I would like to hear your views on compassionate euthanasia, like they have in Zurich Switzerland, which doesn't discriminate against those with mental illness.
Once you open a door, anyone will walk through.
"The poor and the disabled are those who need sympathy and compassion" Thank You Dr. Grande!
Absolutely useless platitude.
@@eadweard. you seem nice
First red flag: “Karen had a total of 7 children with 5 different men.”
There are a few interesting programs on this while they were looking for Shannan, when you watch them with hindsight it's unbelievable how deceiving she was.
I remember when this all happened and instantly knew it was off from the first time she was on the telly.
I felt the same way.
I also felt the same way about the McCanns, but we're not supposed to doubt them as they're respectable middle class doctors.
I'm from 🇬🇧 and remember both this case and the other you mentioned, little Madeleine McCann who remains missing.
It was such a relief when Shannon was found, Social Services put her her into foster care with a new family and gave her a kitten which she loved. I hope she grew up to have a happy life. Her "mother" was only in jail for a few years before she was photographed enjoying day release which ment she was completely released not long after that. People were not happy at the short time she spent in jail.
It's very difficult to feel compassion for people who actually choose to become welfare funded mothers using the system to fund having children, sometimes many children, (not those who are abandoned or widowed which is so sad). I knew a girl when I was young who set out to have 6 children on welfare and saw nothing wrong in this ambition which she achieved though her life was hard being stuck in a small house with so many kids and little money. That was before we had rules about the father's needing to contribute financially. Having children deliberately without the consistency of their fathers presence just seems all wrong to me, but that's another subject. Welfare seems more generous these days where children are involved, as single mothers seem able to afford fancy nails and hair-dos now a days, unlike before. Or maybe it's all paid for on credit which is another massive issue.
But when it comes to the sick and old people, that's where there is so much poverty. Being poor and living in social housing can often mean being stuck living close to groups of illegal drug takers and their attendant criminal behaviour, which I know from talking to many elderly people who've been moved to my area away from London and this is what they all say they had to put up with there.
Reading through my comment it sounds so judgemental, but everything I've said after the subject of Shannon are observations demonstrated Infront of of my own eyes over and over.
All you can say is what you see and hear personally.
The poor little girl. She had to be terrified. Thank God she has a new identity. Great job. So sad.
Good morning Dr Grande . I treat my dogs, better than that poor little girl. I believe that Mother, shouldn't be able to look after any child. I'm so pleased that little girl is getting mental health care, she obviously needs. I'm so pleased they got caught and had too prison. Thank you Dr Grande, you are the best.
I honestly don’t understand this type of abuse against one’s own children, it’s revolting. Most animals treat their young better than that.
In regards to welfare, thanks for shedding light on it!🙌🏼
As always, your thoughts are much appreciated, thank you Dr. Grande.❤️
Rejane , its great to be back. How are you?
@@cottontails9003 Hi Julianne! How are you doing?😃
@@rejaneoliveira5019 Thank you Rejane, I'm going really good.
"He bit a police officer as he was dragged out."
I'm not sure why I can't stop laughing at this.
@Theo Dious - Yes, but the bitten copper probably didn't laugh so much, unless it was because he snatched the man's dentures from him in response.
Just a reminder that I am not diagnosing Dr Grande, just speculating that I think he is an extremely talente, well, spoken, educated if not slightly humorous man whose eloquent dressings downs and dry wit bring me nothing but joy! So I thank you Dr Grande! 🤗
Omg I re read everything about this case yesterday and you post this today?!? Insane thank you haha
Thank-you for the last line. I'm on disability and people definitely do treat us like criminals. Including the current government of Ontario (the province in Canada where I live).
I would love to know the same statistics for the United States. The actual fraud of welfare benefits compared to the fraud of tax evasion. I get in a debate with people often, because I don’t believe that there is a vast amount of fraud overwhelming the system compared to those people who need it in the US either.
I looooove it when you cover hoaxes and conspiracy theorists. So interesting.
(my husband is starting to wonder if I'm an actual Grande Groupie 😂).
Grande Bandie.
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Isn’t everyone?
@@jkgent4087 🤔... You have a point.
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This case was really sad for that poor girl. Thank you for the video 🌳🌱🌵
Some of these cases are unprecedented. So in other words Dr Grande has to look at the whole picture of people in different ways. What we have here people, is a genius! Thanks mate, From Australia.
Thank you for covering the U.K. stories. There are plenty of stories to cover as we have our share of 'nutters'. Please do more.
He should do Mick and Mairead Philpott.
@@hil4966 yes he should. And also those recent couples that were jailed for killing there babies, and there's been a few recently .
Dr Grande, thank you for being so compassionate in your delivery for this case. I am from the UK, and this case highlighted how much vitriol and judgement there is towards the working class in Britain. It's disappointing to see how much the press and government used her social status as a scapegoat for her behaviour. Suggesting she was entirely responsible for her actions because she was 'lower' class, rather than focusing on social inequalities in the entire system or other contributory factors.
She abused and neglected her children. She was entirely responsible for doing that regardless of anything else.
Nothing to do with the working class. The working class works. She made sure she didn't. We all know people who abuse the benefits system. Generation after generation of them. They waste the taxes the working class earns. It's not as rare in the UK as Dr Grande's statistics might say: officials don't get told everything. By the way her accomplice would never think of asking for police protection. Living on the edge of society, no way would he trust the police.
What is the opinion of English citizens regarding Madeleine's case? It was widely publicized but it is evident that her parents killed her, I wanted to know if there is anyone who believes them.
@@kevinc809 I didn't say she isn't responsible. She's absolutely responsible.
I have an issue in the media coverage that depicted all people in her situation to be like this.
@@ktmpn4502 the opinion is still very split, but I think compassion for the parents has strongly dwindled over time.
The parallel between the McCanns and Matthews is a perfect example of how society will view a case based on the social status of the parents.
I'm glad Shannon got away from her horrible mother. I hope she is happy & thriving with her new family.
What a sad event! Sad that those children were neglected and that Karen didn't have the common sense to ensure her children were taken care of. She deserves to be in prison! It's instinct when you have children to care for them and put yourself on the back burner, if you can't do that, put the children in adoption! I hope Shannon can overcome all that happened to her along with her siblings. TFS Dr. Grande!
She has the emotional intelligence of an apple.
Good morning, Dr. Grande!🙋🌵🪴🌵🪴 Hope you're doing good! Hi, everyone!🌞🌞🌞
Don't hear the word compassion much these days. Thanks Doc.
As a mandated reporter, PCA/TA in a SPED school. I can tell you that my & others reports, even with photos & video, have gone NOWHERE!!! The thought amongst my coworkers & I was that our population of children & young adults are so severely handicapped & mostly nonverbal they would not be able to find safe knowledgable people to take care of them. I'm utterly disappointed in this system. Another great upload with the dry sarcasm jabs at just the right points!
Dr. Grande, have you ever done a video on Letecia Stauch? I could've sworn that you did! You always cover big cases, so I was sure that I saw it earlier.
I remember this case. There is a brilliant TV series about it. It’s called The Moorside. Well worth watching.
Exceptional analysis,
Thank you, Dr. Grande.
🇬🇧 🌹❤️🌹❤️🌹 Thank you for covering this terrible case!!! She’s such a terrible mother & human being!!! 🤢🤬💩
Great video. So true about the welfare system. Such a stigma attached to been on a benefit😕.
Please consider the Station night club tragedy in West Warwick Rhode Island?
Thank you for pointing out the myths around benefit claimants in the UK. As someone who had to stop working and claim disability benefits due to a brain injury, I really appreciate you speaking about this.
Thank you for touching on the statistics of how rare welfare fraud is.
I enjoyed the video. You are a kind person, Dr. Grande. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this case.
I love ❤ your comments at the end about those living in poverty and with disability and agree
This was just Wrong, in alot of ways! I hope Shannon is doing well!
I remember this playing out real time. As abhorrent as the situation was, it did however highlight the strength and determination of the residents in her area! The whole estate rose up as one, determined to find Shannon! Disgusting woman needs to be sterilised to ensure this NEVER happens again!
I'm also grateful to know that, going forward, girls will not be able to see having children as a career! The benefits cap that was introduced, capping children at 2 that you can claim benefits for, was long overdue!
This is similar to one of my favorite movies, the 1964 British film "Séance on a Wet Afternoon". Kim Stanley's brilliant performance is one of the finest that I've ever seen on film. She did get an Oscar nomination for it.
I used to live in Dewsbury as a child. I always felt safe.
Thank you for your statement at the end about welfare recipients. I have no children by my careful choice because of my physical and mental disabilities. I can never understand why people hate that I receive benefits and prescription medications paid for.
I remember this one - I hope Shannon is ok now, far, far away from her family…
Very much like the last point you made in the video..
I thought you were heading into some welfare shaming then you took that sharp left turn. I appreciate the way you contrasted how little welfare fraud occurs when compared to the money stolen through tax evasion.
Living in Beer City USA, I can tell a lot about a person by the beer they drink. Had I known the kinds of hops in their cart, I could have been extremely helpful to police. With all my heart, I hope they’re allowed to drink nothing but Busch Light for the rest of their lives. 😊
Great insights as always, Dr. G! 😘
thank you ,for covering this insane case, dr.grande!
there's a series about it by bbc, i think, or channel 4, called "the moorside", the full series is on here if anyone wants to check it out. the acting, like most uk and irish (and aussie!) series , is incredible.
it's fubar'd, how could anyone do that to their own daughter?!
Hi Dr Grande. Love your show. I always notice the cacti; and now there's Christmasy lights! Being born in December and named Holly, I do appreciate such things. But you're so interesting and funny!!!!❤❤❤
I am wondering if animals have psychological clinical labels. My dog shows signs of narcissicism, psychopathy, plus being a liar & a con artist. He went into a jealous psychopathic rage & bit a new dog because I petted the new dog. I put him out of the house in the cold to separate them. Cold below freezing never bothered him, but when I went outside to check on him, he started to tremble like he was freezing. (He was being a con artist to gain my sympathy to get back in the house, & he was a liar about being cold.) He acts stupid when he doesn't want to do as he is told. Although he acts stupid, he reveals he is a thinker. He runs in the house like a streak of lightening to make sure he gets the best dog bed. It seems he has several disorders.
LOL. I am making this comment in jest.
I ♥️ my dogs 😊.
Jeffrey Dalmatian.
It sounds like your dog has a lot of problems but I don't think dogs are capable of narcissism and psychopathy. I really think you and your dog could benefit from a good trainer. Good luck to you and your puppy!
@@donnashields1194 You are right. I often think I need a dog training course. Murphy Dog learned to shiver in the cold from me because I am always telling him I am cold & start shivering in front of the wood heater while I wait for it to warm up. At first he showed me he understood by coming over to the stove & warming up. I knew he wasn't cold outside because he was 4 years old & snow & freezing weather never bothered him. I think he may have been shivering as a means of trying to communicate that he wanted to come in the house. Sometimes I ask him a yes or no question & he will shut & open both eyes for "yes". He is best friends with the new dog now. All three of my dogs get kisses on top of their heads every day. Fortunately they have more good behavior than bad. 😊
@@helenshg4580 your comment made me smile. I'm so happy the 2 are best friends now. We have a german shepherd × and she is always coming up with new behaviours. My husband watches tons of videos on dog training and constantly works with our dog. I think the biggest thing with most dogs is lots of exercise. 🙂
I really appreciated your conclusion at the end of this video
I'm glad you pointed out that, while it is immoral and illegal to commit welfare fraud, it is exceedingly rare. It is quite difficult to get away with. People do it, so it technically exists, but the risk/reward ratio isn't something the vast majority of people would think is worth it. You have to work pretty hard to be that kind of "lazy".
It's wrong, it shouldn't happen, it should be punished but it's focusing on a tiny splinter in the eye of the system while ignoring the giant log of, like you said to point out one specific example, tax fraud/evasion.
Such a drama. Always an interesting analysis. Thanks Dr G😊🤎🤎
Glad Dr Grande talked about welfare myths that I believe most people buy into. In the US these myths are just as widely believed. One of the most wrongly believed myths is that welfare programs are far more generous than they actually are.
This woman doesn’t deserve to,have children. There are so many wonderful women/ families who want to adopt. I was,adopted from an orphanage via DSHS when I was 1. I am 52 now and my adopted family is incredible. I am so blessed. I hope Shannon and her siblings are in a loving stable home now.
I found my biological family through a DNA test, but that’s a long story. At least I know what nationality I am now.
THANK YOU on making it very clear about people who are on welfare, and how welfare fraud is far less rampant than people think... rather an unintentional (or intentional) misunderstanding of the people on welfare and the circumstances they face in their every day lives. I think the saddest part of this (this case and those facing misconceptions around welfare) is the children involved... whether their parent(s) are actually abusing the system or not, the children don't get a choice in the family and economic circumstances they are born into, and they suffer right alongside their parents. It's incredibly disheartening that often as a society we turn our backs on these family and point the finger square on them rather than the issues that cause and continue the cycle of poverty and lack of resources to help increase upward income mobility. They're far from easy issues to tackle, and there are many factors that contribute to the cycle of poverty, but that doesn't mean that we should come up with excuses and unfounded reasons to effectively throw in the towel on trying. *end rant*
Love watching your videos, Dr. Grande you've somehow been able to make your videos not only fact based and informative which offers a deeper understanding of these cases, but your dry sense of humor gets me every time. Often times I come back to your videos on more "well known" cases after watching other videos on it to see what your input is as a trained psychologist and overall genuine human being. It's a good reminder that we can feel empathy towards people who do bad things... I would argue that that is one of the keys to helping end cycles of violence and crime. If we don't understand the "whys" behind criminal behavior, there is no hope in trying to stop it from happening in the first place.
Wow! It would take less planning and stress to just work a regular job.
Fantastic insight into the perception vs. prevalence of welfare fraud and tax evasion! I’d be curious to hear our stats here in the US.
After listening to her list of different men and pregnancies, it's no wonder why people wouldn't be shocked she was involved and just playing the system. Smh
Only 8 years in jail?! People get longer than that for marijuana (still) and theft. I feel so sorry for the daughter -- she's going to be dealing with the effects of this for the rest of her life.
Thank you for your focus on benefits & fraud!
@ 0:36 when Dr Grande is naming the parents he actually shows contempt
I remember this case, everyone in Britain was terrified for this little girls safety, thinking she was abducted. When the truth came out we were left totally shocked. Just because women have wombs doesn't automatically make all of them suitable to be mothers.
Absolutely terrible. The way that woman hoodwinked her neighbours etc was truly vile. Those people were really worried. The clues that something wasn't quite right was when the couple bought lager with money from donations… poor little girl. I hope she is safe and well now
Dr Grande can you please analyze the personality of Judge Judy? I find her to be somehow disturbing, thanks for your opinion.
Another gripping analysis. Excellent job, well done.
Dr. Grande can you look at the case of Dan Jones and Sarah Parkinson on 60 Minutes Australia. It's an intriguing case and I'd love to hear your analysis on it.
Kind of wondering if Michael took th e old saying dont let the bed bugs bite a bit too litteral.
Another class discrepancy was that The Sun newspaper offered a larger financial reward in the Madelane McCann case.
This just reiterates that some people really don't deserve to be parents.
Thanks for addressing the welfare fraud stereotype that people often complain about. Like you said, you’re better to complain about the rich tax cheats.
I hope shannon doing well and happy xxxxxxx
I remember watching this unfold and my witchy vibes were going OFF about Karen Matthews (no relation thankfully)... she was very very odd and immediately came off as money orientated. I said the instant I saw her that she had something to do with it. The police also have questions to answer about how they missed Shannon when they searched the house and if my memory serves not just once either!
Dr. Grande can you analyze the case and murder of Emmett Till.🙏🏾
I’m quite shocked that this plan of theirs failed.
Thank you for that last note Dr grande, people love to attack those who are down when the biggest leeches on society are in the top.
yeah, after shannon was found the press reported loads of suspicious behaviour by her mother. apparently the family had their telly on, and were watching a live broadcast of their own house. shannon's mum was amusing herself by moving the curtains and watching them move on tv. another time someone's mobile had rung and their ring-tone was a song that shannon's mother liked, because she'd got up and danced to it, supposedly while her kid was missing. another story that came to light was that the madeline mccann fund had been going to send some money, but police had advised against it. evidently they'd been suspicious all along. an almost unbelievable scenario, but apparently something similar had happened in a soap-opera and that's maybe where the family got the idea.
I remember telling my mum that this was a hoax. Just a gut feeling that was on point...for once! There was something about the timing, re Madelaine Mccann, and about the money generated by folk trying to find Madelaine that sparked the thought that Shannon was hidden for the money. Unfortunately, I was right. The UK programme "Faking it:Tears of a Crime" showed some interesting footage analysis of this case.