One thing I've learned in life, you NEVER really know anyone. My ex husband abused my children. The day I found out, it was like the man I thought I was married to had died, and in his place was this monster.
This doesn’t make sense. It’s not like he snapped and killed her in the heat of a confrontation. He left and systematically stalked and killed people. Do you honestly think he wouldn’t have done that if she changed the locks? Wow.
I know someone whose bio father had 2 complete families , who were unknown to each other and completely documented . He was a trucker . Had 5 kiddies w one wife and 4 with the other . This was in the Northeast .
Amen on that. I have an x who I still support along with my own life. It's extremely expensive. You would think divorce was expensive enough, she can't make it without my help. I don't want to see her go homeless, so I am chump.
That's the truth, I thought I was happily married, but my husband lived a double life that I never knew about, I had zero clue, and my world blew up when that was revealed, he's passed now and I am in the process of rebuilding my life. I always say there a universe in the mind of every person and you no idea what's going on in that universe... I don't trust people now, not even myself, for its way too easy to be deceived.
I have known 3 women who had been married to bigamists. Two had gotten divorces but the 3rd stayed married lived with another man and as his first, legal wife after 44 years was able to claim her share of his social security.
I flew out of town 40+ weeks a year for many years. My wife joked about having a second family. I told her I flew to dozens of different cities. At least I did not have just one extra family.
As soon as I receive a threat, even before then, I am telling everyone of his family members as well as mine. I am contacting the other woman and I am also contacting law enforcement
Yes. She should have called a lawyer after discovering the shoebox and not said a word to him until she and the lawyer had a plan in place. She had time.
You know she looks at this, right? "She should...." Do you think she hasn't already thought that? It's really easy to "she should have.. " when you haven't been in those shoes.
I’ve been through something like this only she was a mistress he went away for two week’s and told me I wouldn’t be able to call him I stupidly believed him 😢
user-iw8ey9vv4p - I concur. Adopt a dog and two kittens. The kittens need a friend for companionship. The pup will acclimate well with the kittens. Consider fostering pets as well. I fostered two sick pups and fell in love with the second six month old pup. I saw how low his prey drive was and got along well with my older cats. ❤️🐶❤️🐈🐈❤️
It ain't unusual ? I knew a guy, who had a heart attack at 65, "wife," was called to the hospital (wallet id), also his daughter. Both turned up, neither related ? Turned out 2 families, one north city, one south city, 12 children in total. He died, and both families buried him. 2 wives for 40 odd years 😎
@@Mamioftreasures81116no need for therapy, no devils ever go to therapy, they get inside you and get your soul, then you and people, families get destroyed. It’s that simple. Devil destroys!!!!!
Sarah you allowed your emotions to cloud your judgement! In no way was this guy in love with Sarah it was her $$$ she contributed to help him maintain his deception! He wants to enjoy the big flashy life with their friends then resort to the family man with his children and their mother in their little community! A man like that has no conscience. If he loved her there would have not been any cheating to begin!
Men don’t think like we do when we’re going to do something wrong. He thought he was safe, she was clueless. He kept her happy, in luxury, every distraction she could possibly give her. Remember the Godfather? The wife had no clue until she did but never the truth
People like this are poor at covering their tracks like so many deceivers, they lack emotional intelligence and empathy - and think they are smarter than they really are
The Bible says that the evil one cannot sleep unless he's caused someone to stumble that Day. At least that's how I made sense of it when my husband turned out to be a con artist.
I met David in a sauna in Vienna, Austria. He wants to make a new start in life. Really enjoyed being with him in the steamroom at the sauna. We're going on a w/e trip to Venice, Italy in two weeks' time. Can't wait.
I think we must ask hard questions before going on a date ,, but us ladies play out the dates in our minds instead of asking the guys the hard questions
I’m less than 6 min in, but the fact that it’s their 10th anniversary and the older kid appears to be about 7; just the thought that this has been going on for almost the length of their marriage; I’m dumbfounded.
10:43 I mean how dumb can you be to keep evidence in the home with the person you are trying to deceive ? 19:34 Hes only sorry he got caught!! Its his own fault 21:39 Well why weren't the police protecting both the women and the children ? Seems like common sense to me.
Legendary Aviator Charles Lindbergh had families on two continents and was a deeply disturbed man. It happens. These men are “abnormal’” to put it politely. (Sociopaths)
A female comedian made a joke relating to this issue. She made the point that you can tell that men don’t yet pull their weight with housework and child- rearing because men can have entire secret families! A man might think twice before doing this if he was folding two lots of washing, cleaning two houses etc……
One thing I've learned in life, you NEVER really know anyone. My ex husband abused my children. The day I found out, it was like the man I thought I was married to had died, and in his place was this monster.
I was a child in a family as that, my mother had a nervous breakdown from this. HE COVERED IT & he was a policeofficer
we have that in common.
@@Toomanynotenough OMG! I'm so sorry.
@@Toomanynotenoughoh no. That’s very sad for you. I’m sorry to hear that your family went through that :(
Thanks for believing them.
Once she found out she should have either left or changed the locks. Never confront a man who has deceived you.
You cannot make these absolute rules -every situation is different.
@@embemwbetter safe than sorry.
I concur!!!
I would have him arrested. What the hell.
This doesn’t make sense. It’s not like he snapped and killed her in the heat of a confrontation. He left and systematically stalked and killed people. Do you honestly think he wouldn’t have done that if she changed the locks? Wow.
Sarah should've contacted a lawyer, gather the evidence, move, while he's out of town, change phone #, serve him divorce papers@his job, be happy
@Yalonda-le5ru jeeze I really could do with you in my life!! I can never make a decision....💖😁
@@minzygreen1167 😁🙏🏾
That's what I did.
@@pamelakremer7344I’m sorry you had to go through something like that. I can’t imagine the strength it must take. 🙏
Thats really easier said then done!! & after finding that big of a secret it takes ur brain emotions some time to really comprehend…
A shoebox?? In your own home? Seriously? The guy went to Yale and his best plan was a shoebox?
I know, what a fool.
After watching Gilmore Girls, I realized YALE graduates DO NOT make the BEST life decisions lol
😅
Right????
😂😂😂....he could not have made it at Yale
How in the world can anyone afford 2 households. I can barely afford one.
😂😂
I know someone whose bio father had 2 complete families , who were unknown to each other and completely documented . He was a trucker . Had 5 kiddies w one wife and 4 with the other . This was in the Northeast .
The wives support him/it.
Amen on that. I have an x who I still support along with my own life. It's extremely expensive. You would think divorce was expensive enough, she can't make it without my help. I don't want to see her go homeless, so I am chump.
I'd be exhausted trying to keep up with 2 lives. Good grief 😔
This is a reason why so many stay single. Its a scary world out there..
It truly is ...😢
You bet it is. I can't agree more.
Amen!!
Not really. There are any number of reasons people stay single, not always their first choice.
if I get out alive I will
never have another male in my home (only my sons)
Nothing like ruining multiple lives over greed, lust, and deceit.
That's right 👍
Inside the person you know is a person you donot know.
Truth!
The whole thing spells trouble! I would run RUN RUN LIKE FÒREST GUMP I WOULD RUN!
💯🇬🇧
That's the truth, I thought I was happily married, but my husband lived a double life that I never knew about, I had zero clue, and my world blew up when that was revealed, he's passed now and I am in the process of rebuilding my life. I always say there a universe in the mind of every person and you no idea what's going on in that universe... I don't trust people now, not even myself, for its way too easy to be deceived.
When a man can have 2 families, it proves just how little he contributes to a family.
In the West, yes. But thriving in many other countries.
It's totally cultural
He was stealing money to support them.
That’s exactly what I was thinking. She stupidly became a provider.
She should have hired a top Divorce Attorney and hand over the evidence to avoid sharing her money.
GIRL! Start moving money into your private account! Do Not Do anything until you do everything to protect yourself!
Oh snap!
My niece married a cop. A psycho cop. She lit out for Africa, and has been there for 20 years. It's the only place she feels safe.😭💔
@@stacyjaye6350 sorry she had to go so far to be safe. But sometimes you just have to do what is right for her.
constant fear of discovery????
He made those choices
What a coward
Women may keep two boyfriends, but men will keep two whole families 😂
My uncle has two families, but in different continents. Always blew my mind when I found out the secret.
REALLY!! Wow!!
😮😂
Is your uncle Pascal?
@@janethbustillos4899 haha no... 😄I only know a woman named Pascal.
It is a common occurrence in Africa, Asia and the Middle East
please can we change the narrative from it was Sarah's discovery which led to a chain of events... it was the mans fault not Sarahs.
He's only sorry he was caught out
Can't imagine the stress of the life he lived. I couldn't keep that up for 24 hours.
😂😂😂 I know right 😂😂😂
Some people are addicted to stress, it gives an adrenaline rush.
I have known 3 women who had been married to bigamists. Two had gotten divorces but the 3rd stayed married lived with another man and as his first, legal wife after 44 years was able to claim her share of his social security.
That's great to know!
You mean polygamists
You never know what "prize" you're gonna get in that Kracker Jax box called Life.
Well Said 😮❤😊
Sums it up easily! thanks , phew, now life's challenges seem easier... i'm serious.
It amazes me that both women couldn't see how he was never really there...
I flew out of town 40+ weeks a year for many years. My wife joked about having a second family. I told her I flew to dozens of different cities. At least I did not have just one extra family.
Too busy
What really amazed me was that, she didn't file for divorce before confronting him with the evidence 🤦😭😭
@billcollins6894 so how many extra families do you have?
Lots of jobs involve being away a lot.
What a jerk!
Love yourselves enough to walk away.
He is SELFISH! Hurt everyone!
What a coward to abandon not one but 2 families!
I feel so sorry for his children.
As soon as I receive a threat, even before then, I am telling everyone of his family members as well as mine. I am contacting the other woman and I am also contacting law enforcement
I would go straight to a lawyer , before saying anything , and I would move out temporarily too .
@11:00 "Honey, I can explain. It's not what you think." I had a flashback to my own experience of many decades ago. 😄🤣
What? Really?😮
I hear that one, too. No hard feelings. I'm doing well his not 😊
Makes no no sense whatsoever.
Ohh gosh, I am sorry. I am also having some flashbacks myself. It never goes away, does it? 😢
When they say, “It’s not what you think”, it’s Exactly what you think💯🥺
Damn! No other video shocked me as much as this one! Great video! Thanks for sharing!!
She should have called a lawyer and contact police. She should have placed home 4 sale and left
Now ppl are in danger by a man who will kill.
Yes. She should have called a lawyer after discovering the shoebox and not said a word to him until she and the lawyer had a plan in place. She had time.
You know she looks at this, right? "She should...." Do you think she hasn't already thought that? It's really easy to "she should have.. " when you haven't been in those shoes.
@@marjenkins1521exactly
People are going to have THEIR opinions ... and if she watches, then she understands .... @@marjenkins1521
Emma Thompson, Jennifer Lawrence...someone has their favorite actors in mind😂
Like my mom. lol. 😂
They use to read the “STAR” back in the days
I’m named after Elvis daughter lol
I named my daughter after Alyssa Milano lol
😂😂
Detective Lawson
I was named after an evil Hollywood star
Emma broke my heart in Love, Actually
That guy was a criminal from head to toe!
Ok am I the only one who thought they looked like siblings, especially in the first side by side?? 😮
He defo had a type.
YES!!
No
Not really
I thought so too!!
This just goes to show you never really know a person….
I don’t agree .
I’ve been through something like this only she was a mistress he went away for two week’s and told me I wouldn’t be able to call him I stupidly believed him 😢
Trust no one and check on everything!
Where do men even get the energy to have 2 families??
Ha. By not contributing much to either...
Stay single get aDog cats 🐈
That's my outlook to.
Me too.
Me too
user-iw8ey9vv4p - I concur. Adopt a dog and two kittens. The kittens need a friend for companionship. The pup will acclimate well with the kittens.
Consider fostering pets as well. I fostered two sick pups and fell in love with the second six month old pup. I saw how low his prey drive was and got along well with my older cats. ❤️🐶❤️🐈🐈❤️
Grow stronger, respect your intuition because it is always right. Have separate bank acct if with a partner in future.
Then the children came along? Wtf? Like everything is beyond his control
Incredible stuff. The funny thing, the 2 women look identical, except blue and brown eyes. They could pass for sisters ..
Yep !
Oh please one is obviously asian
They look absolutely different. You’re probably of a different race that they look identical to you
Most men cant take care of one let alone more!
Why would anyone want two wives? That's asking for trouble. 🤣😂🤣
Can you even imagine thinking this was a good idea?
Double trouble! Nuts!!!
He loves the thrill & the adoration. Gives him opportunity to live 2 worlds.
He looks sort of like Ted Bundy. The 2 wives look like sisters!
She should have been a childfree cat lady.
That was funny 😄
haha
Yea, better be a child free cat lady than married a useless man
Oh what tangled webs we weave when we set out to deceive
I was just about to say that when I saw you beat me to it. lol
Pretty messed up that this guy destroyed two people and 2 children's lives 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
And you know it!!
He practiced his deception , . Oh what tangled webs we weave when we Practice too deceive.
A web that can never be disentangle.
Leaves a trail of destroyed life and pain.
Sad for the women and children.
About 20 years ago, a wealthy businessman was found to have two families. One in South Tampa and another North Tampa.
Convenient
So what?
I guess he considered that to be a fun, exciting life!
It would be a nightmare keeping up with two lives and constantly lying.
Yeah, you would think so, but most men are expert liars.
It ain't unusual ?
I knew a guy, who had a heart attack at 65,
"wife," was called to the hospital (wallet id), also his daughter. Both turned up, neither related ? Turned out 2 families, one north city, one south city, 12 children in total. He died, and both families buried him. 2 wives for 40 odd years 😎
That’s wrong in so many ways! How sad!
Imagine the therapy this people needed .... wow
Do they split his social security?
Only Lisa could ask such ridiculous question! Is that what is important in this matter at this point? Jesus
@@Mamioftreasures81116no need for therapy, no devils ever go to therapy, they get inside you and get your soul, then you and people, families get destroyed. It’s that simple. Devil destroys!!!!!
How did David get his sisters laptop found at the cabin where HE was hiding if he didn’t kill her-bet HE killed them both
Sarah you allowed your emotions to cloud your judgement! In no way was this guy in love with Sarah it was her $$$ she contributed to help him maintain his deception! He wants to enjoy the big flashy life with their friends then resort to the family man with his children and their mother in their little community! A man like that has no conscience. If he loved her there would have not been any cheating to begin!
I can't imagine the devestation for the wives.
What baffles me is the minimal effort taken to cover his own tracks. Why not hide these things in a safe??
Yes or at the office .
He wanted her to see them. He was tired of hiding and didn't have the guts to come clean.
David needs to live in THIS economy
Why would he have a shoe box with those things instead of somewhere in a safe he must’ve wanted it to be found
He was not as smart as he thought .
That's what I think.
Absolutely!
Yes keeping up appearances was getting too much for his psyche
Men don’t think like we do when we’re going to do something wrong. He thought he was safe, she was clueless. He kept her happy, in luxury, every distraction she could possibly give her. Remember the Godfather? The wife had no clue until she did but never the truth
some women turn a blind eye, purely to live in luxury irrespective of their partner's absence or behaviour 😒
People like this are poor at covering their tracks like so many deceivers, they lack emotional intelligence and empathy - and think they are smarter than they really are
No empathy or love for anyone but himself!
How did he ever sleep 😳
Such a person, confirmed narcissist, sleeps very well.
Has no empathy, only thinks of himself.
I’d be so exhausted 🥱
The Bible says that the evil one cannot sleep unless he's caused someone to stumble that Day. At least that's how I made sense of it when my husband turned out to be a con artist.
I don't think he slept well.
Well, he was never sleeping alone. That’s for sure.😂
“Police sirens filling the air”-lmao. Inept as usual.
How evil of him and sad!!!
Doesn't add up. Discovered on 10th anniversay. Oldest child 7....met after 4 years of marriage to 1st wife. Do the maths
He met Jennifer in his fourth year of marriage to Sarah, the double life went on for seven years, and Sarah found out in her tenth year of marriage.
@@True21315"Math is hard!"
Which kind of math were you taught?
@@True21315that’s how it maths
Math not maths
Why would any Man want so much trouble 🤔
You’re an amazing storyteller!
Thanks!
You kind of left us dangling here...is he still in a coma? Dead? Prison???
It stated he never faced trial. Dead or a coma I would assume
Living yet another life in Thailand
I met David in a sauna in Vienna, Austria. He wants to make a new start in life. Really enjoyed being with him in the steamroom at the sauna. We're going on a w/e trip to Venice, Italy in two weeks' time. Can't wait.
@AndyT-np8mm😂
@@AndyT-np8mm🎉
I think we must ask hard questions before going on a date ,, but us ladies play out the dates in our minds instead of asking the guys the hard questions
How would that have helped ? Or do you mean the other woman Jennifer ?
Jennifer Lawrence and Emma Thompson?
He was embezzling from work.
That was how he was able to keep up with two households without questions from the wives..
...so sad a tear fell when he ended his life in front of his wife, Sarah...life's journey could be so cruel🥀🥀🥀
Parting is such sweet sorrow. Lol.
It'd be difficult to feel empathy for someone who had none...
He loved nobody
Himself
but himself, maybe
Exactly people like that love no body, Alots of African men men do
Himself
As if one relationship and one family is hard enuf, this guy needs 2
Sounds like my now ex boyfriend who is married to a woman in Georgia
Yep. Women need to stop sleeping with guys years before vetting them!
@@lindad6351 What does sleeping with a man have to do with this??
Isn't it nice to say "ex boyfriend?"
Cheating is worthless.
So this is a load of nonsense, right?
His ladies are like twins
It’s bad that. Devastation of betrayal. It’s enough to take a person over the edge.
He couldn’t even off himself right.
Shoe box? haha An episode of Mad Men. When Betty found Don's shoe box. haha
Loved Mad Men … and Breaking Bad
Funny. I still miss that show though.
This way David has kids. Childless wife happy
I’m less than 6 min in, but the fact that it’s their 10th anniversary and the older kid appears to be about 7; just the thought that this has been going on for almost the length of their marriage; I’m dumbfounded.
Alleen de kat nog, hè …….
She should have contacted his other wife
Just who does he think he is!
He's wealthy & loved both families.
Entitled!
He wanted to get caught. Who leaves that type of evidence in their home?
10:43 I mean how dumb can you be to keep evidence in the home with the person you are trying to deceive ? 19:34 Hes only sorry he got caught!! Its his own fault 21:39 Well why weren't the police protecting both the women and the children ? Seems like common sense to me.
It sounds like a Netflix plot 😮
Not what I would I have done! I would have gone to the other city & shown up!
Legendary Aviator Charles Lindbergh had families on two continents and was a deeply disturbed man. It happens. These men are “abnormal’” to put it politely. (Sociopaths)
We to school with someone who did that. Unbelievable!
So is he still in a coma?
Who cares!!
You do t EVER confront a cheater without covering herself! Money as many assets you have! Ibe seen it too often.
This is just ridiculous
The Ultimate Betrayal
Both women could be called sisters how much of resemblance they have.
A sister is found now dead
Who on earth would want two wives? One is way too much!
Brain overload ! Very stressful .
@@BlackStump172😂😂😂
WHY DIDN'T SHE JUST FILE FOR DIVORCE AND LET THE ATTORNEYS TO DO THE JOB, SINCE IT WAS TO LATE TO TURN BACK ??
How do these selfish morons afford 2 families ??? Horrible and selfish 😡
A female comedian made a joke relating to this issue. She made the point that you can tell that men don’t yet pull their weight with housework and child- rearing because men can have entire secret families!
A man might think twice before doing this if he was folding two lots of washing, cleaning two houses etc……
Twice the drama!😂
I gave up at about 12 minutes. It really goes no where.
Unbelievable!!! Smh
I know right! I’d be so exhausted
Why did she arrange to meet him ,surely the police could have dealt with the situation.without risking her own life.
Jennifer Lawrence really?
The kids were traumatized by this